Domme Diary

Welcome to the Domme diary of Mistress Cara Sutra, lifestyle Mistress, Dominant Woman, Owner of slaves, subs, puppies and beta male, tiny cock, cuckold losers.

Here's where I share my personal insights as a Woman with natural Dominance, having been a kinkster and part of the BDSM scene for over twenty years. Learn about the unique dynamics I have built with my submissives and slaves, the rituals and tasks, the training process, the standards I deserve and the service I demand.

I have a particular fondness for male chastity and love a malesub to be locked in a cock chastity cage whenever possible. Tease and denial is cruelly prolonged for a custom time period, unique to every dynamic. I don't have a one-size-fits-all approach to my Dominance over subs; each relationship is explored then tailored to the submissive's experience, kinks, boundaries and limits, and fulfilment desires.

When a sub is leaking, desperate, craving release but ongoing suffering for my pleasure at exactly the same level, I'm in my element as a Domme. They are appropriately grateful for my attention and expertise, and for finding my pleasure within their submission and service. In return, I appreciate those who submit to me, and let them know that regularly, communicated within the special relationship we build together. The strong bonds built often last for many years, and one of my ex-slaves has become a close family friend, having retired from active service due to old age.

I believe good FemDom has strong empathy at its core. If I didn't care, I wouldn't display the harsh cruelty that so many submissive men dream of receiving. I am cruel to be kind, to sate our mutual desires and find mutual fulfilment in the often misunderstood aspect of BDSM known as FemDom.

Enjoy reading about Female Dominance and male submission from a Domme's point of view.