Seasonal Sex Articles

Seasonal sex articles follow the various holidays and special occasions of the year, using them as opportunities to discover a more playful side of your sex life. My seasonal sexual advice posts are invitations to try something new, deepen intimacy or celebrate your own desire on these special calendar dates.

How Pleasure Changes Through the Seasons

You can find the heat through hibernation in winter. Christmas has a cosy glow which can be easily switched up to a wicked glimmer. Find all my festive fuckery ideas in my Sexy Christmas Advice features. If you crave themed written smut to keep you company & provide comfort during the long dark nights, slip into my Christmas Erotica Stories. Embrace passion and desire as an integral part of your holiday season, rather than a distraction from it. By February, the New Year celebrations have died down and the outlook is firmly focused on the change of seasons ahead. Valentine's Day is obviously a huge opportunity to celebrate romance, and a chance to reconnect with your partner and your own sexual side. My Sexy Valentine’s Day articles discuss body confidence, making the most of shared fantasies and inspiration for simple gestures that feel honest and meaningful, rather than forced or fake.

Every spring, I welcome the opportunity to commemorate International Women’s Day on March 8th. You can find all my related features in my IWD hub. This time of year also sees the arrival of Easter, with all the mischief, softness and surprising kink attached to this holiday. My Sexy Easter articles offer ideas for themed role play, mutually fulfilling sex tips and kink scenes that feel light and fun.

The sun shines strongly in summer and that's when you can really feel the heat when it comes to bedroom action. My Sexy Summer articles explore sexual pleasure outdoors, sexy vacations, the best sex toys for travel and ways to retain the sizzling heat of passion whilst cooling down the physical action itself for comfort and pleasure.

In autumn, the days are growing shorter, the nights longer and creative imagination stirs. Halloween brings the opportunity to lean into erotic fear play, monster fantasies and kinky dressing up. My Sexy Halloween articles focus on edgy fantasy, sexy costumes, hot power exchange and kink scenes that transform playful foreplay into unforgettable intensity.

Themed Inspiration for Adult Holiday Fun

My seasonal sex articles don't shy away from the erotic opportunities the holidays throughout the year provide. All these special dates in the calendar have a softer, more family-friendly side, of course; but rarely do you see such an unashamedly sexual component assigned to each celebration.

Throughout my seasonal sex posts you will find roleplay, foreplay and sex ideas for each holiday celebration, kinky and sexy gift ideas for each festivity, themed erotic stories and plenty of relevant sex tips & advice.

Take Every Opportunity to Delight in Sexual Pleasure

I love how these various celebrations throughout the year provide the perfect excuse to ramp up the imaginative aspects of our solo or shared sex lives. They are calendar-marked reasons to slow down, take a good look at your kink or sex life and give it the special attention it deserves and that you have been craving.

Explore all my seasonal sex tips and let each holiday reveal deeper desires, new ways to honour you and your partner's intimate needs and discover an alluringly erotic side to these magical events.

Sexual Foreplay Guide: Hot Pre-Sex Arousal Tips & Ideas

Brilliant sexual foreplay can mean the difference between a stagnant, monotonous sex life and keeping the spice and magic of a relationship alive. Are you stuck for ideas for fantastic before sex arousal and supremely arousing foreplay? Welcome to my comprehensive guide to lovers' arousal techniques: my sexual foreplay 101.
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Lesbian Sex Toys Guide

Our heteronormative, phallocentric society loves to promote the myth that sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina. That the only true definition of sex is thrusting a penis into a vagina which then ejaculates at some point, which signals the End Of The Sex. I'm here to tell you that such a view is wrong on so many levels.

International Male Chastity Day: Date, Celebration and Devices

As a proud kinkster and huge fan of the chastity fetish in particular, it gives me great pleasure to share details of an official annual celebration of this highly erotic kink. International Male Chastity Day (also known as International Chastity Day) is celebrated on the 15th February* each year.

Summer Garden Party: Fountain of Relief

The fountain elicited a chorus of open-mouthed wails. The heat of the sun and humiliation hit my exposed clit and spread labia, slicking them with hungry need. My body kept forgetting it was in such secure bondage; each leg kept pointed upwards and outwards, unable to bend. How I wished I could arch my back completely, then curl into a ball and keep this feeling of humiliation-fuelled hot desire as my own private masturbatory tool.

Jiggle Balls Guide (Love Eggs, Kegel Trainers & Ben Wa Balls)

Whether you call them jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers or Ben Wa balls, it all amounts to pretty much the same thing. Rounded products you insert into the vagina for pleasure, health benefits, or both. Are you a jiggle ball fan? Have you considered buying a love egg but don’t know which one’s right for you? Welcome to my big guide to jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers & Ben Wa balls!

Are Breasts Sexual Organs? Should Female Breasts Be Sexualised?

There was an argument put forward some time ago, by a strong voice on Twitter –someone I’d not heard of before- that breasts are not sexual. They were speaking of typically women’s breasts, and were rather stridently arguing their case –with plenty of others retweeting and replying in agreement.

The Most Powerful Vibrators You Can Buy

Happy National Orgasm Day 2018! It's difficult to believe it's been a year already since the last National Orgasm Day – the year has just flown. In the past I've written about the sounds of an orgasm, the importance (or not) of simultaneous orgasms, about not being able to orgasm through oral sex and about having orgasms while I'm asleep. As many of my orgasms are helped along a little bit (OK, a lot) by sex toys, today I want to discuss some of my favourites. The toys which are, for me, the best powerful vibrators for extra strong orgasms.

Legend Of The Seeker Mord-Sith Cara Red Leather Cosplay Outfit

A mord-sith is a member of a warrior group in the Sword Of Truth series. They're all women, and are trained to become mord-sith from when they're young girls. They are captured from their family in order to go through brutal training to attain the title and role of mord-sith.

A New Flavour

"Shy" was not how I'd describe her. A mischievous gleam swirled like an undiscovered cosmos in her dark eyes, while her full red lips seemed determined to settle into a cheeky pout whenever they weren't getting her into trouble.  

The Day She Came: Fucking My Girl

The thick fabric was sopping at the join there, and my finger slid so easily between her labia. My fingertip brushed over her clitoris which was shamelessly erect - as I knew it would be. Her whole body shuddered against me and I cradled her...

Sex and Religion: Exploring Erotic Religious Symbolism

Of course, it’s Easter, which is the Christian festival most associated with ‘fertility rituals’ and symbols that are not really that Christian at all – though there is still no agreement, let alone any proof, as to which specific ancient pagan feast inspired the annual celebration of eggs, bunnies, flowers and binging on chocolate. I wish you all joy and delight in the springtime, whether your bunnies are battery-powered or the sort that moan with joy when you wrap them up in rope, and if you want to mark the occasion by eating a Creme Egg off your favourite playmate’s naughty bits then go right ahead.

Anorgasmia Explained: Why You Can’t Orgasm and What to Do

Anorgasmia is the medical term for struggling to reach orgasm, or not being able to orgasm at all. It affects people of all genders and at every stage of life. If you are wondering why you can’t orgasm, or why climax feels increasingly out of reach, you are far from alone. The experience can feel isolating, confusing and even shameful, yet there are many practical reasons behind orgasm difficulties. There are also realistic ways to explore your pleasure, rebuild confidence and discover what your body responds to.