Sex Education

Sex Education

If you feel like your sex life needs a boost, or you have specific sexuality questions you need the answer to, you’re in the right place. I’ve written a wealth of sex education articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which get right to the heart of pressing sex-related concerns, providing useful and practical information as well as answering readers’ specific sex questions.

sex education | sex advice sex toy guides relationship adviceIt can be difficult if not impossible to raise issues of a sexual nature with professionals, friends or even your partner. That’s where the internet and specifically my sex blog can be invaluable. Browse through the sex education blog posts below this top section to find all my advice, in chronological order. Looking for advice on something in particular? Use the search box to find sex tips relating to your query.

If I haven’t written about your question or concern yet, please feel free to drop me an email with whatever the problem may be. I’ll write the sex education feature here on the blog without mentioning you; everything sent to me is kept in complete confidence and advice is given on the blog discreetly and retaining your anonymity.

I hope you enjoy my sex education and advice articles – let’s have a look at some of the most popular:

The Top 10 Sex Mistakes People Are Still Making

the top 10 sex mistakes people are still making“Faking an orgasm is not only dishonesty to your partner and disrespect to yourself, it also stifles any sex life improvements which could otherwise happen. Instead of faking, talk and make the efforts required towards mutual satisfaction during sex. And remember that good sex doesn’t necessarily include orgasms.”

How To Give Him An Amazing Handjob

sex tips | sex advice sex toy guides relationship advice“Hands are seriously fantastic. Not only are they… well, handy for carrying out our everyday tasks, they can also give exquisite sexual pleasure. We can cradle a lover’s face as we kiss them, undress each other as fast or slowly as we wish, and stimulate external and internal body parts with skilful precision. In this article I’m going to reveal how to give him an amazing handjob.”

Why I Hate Vibrating Cock Rings (& What We Use Instead)

why we hate vibrating cock rings and what we use instead“If you’re a regular sex toy shopper, you’ll have noticed vibrating cock rings amongst the offerings for men and couples. Vibrating cock rings are designed to offer penis-owners the pleasure of vibration, as well as the tantalising restriction which encourages a firmer, longer lasting erection. You might see these sex toys labelled as ‘love rings’ or ‘couples cock rings’ when designed for penis-in-vagina sex use. In that situation they claim to provide the woman with clitoral pleasure, as the vibrations are felt against her vulva and clitoral areas during sexual intercourse.”

Our Favourite Sex Positions – And Why We Love Them

our favourite sex positions“Are there some sex positions you find yourself ‘coming’ back to time after time? My partner and I definitely have our favourite sex positions, and in the past I’ve worried that we might be getting stuck in a rut. A rut that, admittedly, feels so good. But then when I went through the sex positions we enjoy on a regular basis, it turns out we enjoy more variety than I’d feared.”

Goodbye Dry Spell! 7 Ways To Reignite Your Libido

sex tips | sex advice sex toy guides relationship advice“I get phases where I’m not as interested in sex as I used to be, and I worry that this is it. I’m in my late 30s; I’m finally at a point where I hate sex, I’ll never want sex again and nothing will ever turn me on. At other times of my life I feel just as horny as I was in my early 20s. When you’re enduring a dry spell is there anything you can do to reignite your libido?”

 

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide | Best Romantic Christmas Gifts

Giving the perfect Christmas gift you just know they'll adore gives you a warm fuzzy feeling like (almost) nothing else. 'Tis the season of giving, so why not combine festive spice and evergreen romance by gifting your lover a decidedly sexy present this year? Baby, it's cold outside – but selecting from the raunchy choices in my sexy Christmas gift guide will ensure you're all aglow. You can find my top picks for the best romantic Christmas gifts in this ultimate festive gifting guide.

How To Have A Kinky Valentine’s Day

Even if your plans consist of a couple of hours together tonight, without work or the kids, possibly with a cheeky tipple, a pizza and a DVD, you may be wishing for a more exciting way to spice things up between you and your partner. There is. Read on for some practical & romantic BDSM tips which will teach you how to have a kinky Valentine's Day.

Kink Compatibility In BDSM Relationships

You crave nothing more than her largest strap-on wedged firmly up your ass. She, on the other hand,  insists you spend the day doing the dishes dressed in sissy frills and heels. However, you're not a sissy and she doesn't own any strap on harnesses. How could things have gone so wrong? It's time to talk about kink compatibility in BDSM relationships.

Relationship Counseling, Relationship Coach & Marriage Therapy

Firstly, most marriage therapy or relationship counseling completely lacks the integration of sex. Sex is a big part of intimacy, connection, and pair bonding in a relationship, and yet it’s ignored by more relationship counselors. Secondly, most marriage therapy is based on the medical model, so they try to fix what is wrong and not find and enhance what is right or could be amazing.

Buy Used Panties and Sell Worn Underwear at Sofia Gray

Purchasing or selling used underwear often evokes strong opinions, but when you think about it, the enjoyment of worn knickers can be extremely pleasurable for all concerned. I'm not ashamed to say I've sold my own worn underwear in the past –well, why not? I buy some pretty panties, wear them, take a few photos if I feel like it and then... instant profit.

YES Organic Intimacy Week 2019 (& Sexy Hamper Giveaway)

This week it's YES Organic Intimacy Week, a global awareness campaign which YES hope will increase people's general knowledge of intimate products, as well as the importance of selecting the highest purity quality sex lubes and moisturisers for ongoing intimate wellbeing.  

Big Guide To Strap-On Dildos, & Our Pegging Dildo Reviews

You may remember my last 'big guide' - the Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses I published last month. Obviously you'll need a fantastic dildo to attach to your new strap-on harness, so here's the follow-up feature: my big guide to strap-on dildos!

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

I Had My Cervical Screening And It Wasn’t Scary At All | Smear Test Report 

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

My Domination: Perception Vs Reality

How people perceive my domination, and the reality of it, is something which has fascinated me for some time. You would be amazed at some of the comments directed my way over the years simply for the ways in which I choose to enjoy my natural dominance, as well as how my actively consenting submissives enjoy it, too. Some of these comments are borne from ignorance, some from jealousy, some from malice, and others simply because the person spoke without properly thinking it all through.

Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses, & Our Strap On Set Reviews

Strap-on sex (sometimes known as pegging) is enjoyed by many adults and within various types of relationship; for example, lesbian/bisexual sex, in BDSM as part of FemDom, or to help a penis-owner pleasure their partner in different ways. There are many types of harness available to help you achieve your sexual pleasure aims – welcome to my big guide to strap-on sex harnesses.