Sex Education

Sex Education

If you feel like your sex life needs a boost, or you have specific sexuality questions you need the answer to, you’re in the right place. I’ve written a wealth of sex education articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which get right to the heart of pressing sex-related concerns, providing useful and practical information as well as answering readers’ specific sex questions.

sex education | sex advice sex toy guides relationship adviceIt can be difficult if not impossible to raise issues of a sexual nature with professionals, friends or even your partner. That’s where the internet and specifically my sex blog can be invaluable. Browse through the sex education blog posts below this top section to find all my advice, in chronological order. Looking for advice on something in particular? Use the search box to find sex tips relating to your query.

If I haven’t written about your question or concern yet, please feel free to drop me an email with whatever the problem may be. I’ll write the sex education feature here on the blog without mentioning you; everything sent to me is kept in complete confidence and advice is given on the blog discreetly and retaining your anonymity.

I hope you enjoy my sex education and advice articles – let’s have a look at some of the most popular:

The Top 10 Sex Mistakes People Are Still Making

the top 10 sex mistakes people are still making“Faking an orgasm is not only dishonesty to your partner and disrespect to yourself, it also stifles any sex life improvements which could otherwise happen. Instead of faking, talk and make the efforts required towards mutual satisfaction during sex. And remember that good sex doesn’t necessarily include orgasms.”

How To Give Him An Amazing Handjob

sex tips | sex advice sex toy guides relationship advice“Hands are seriously fantastic. Not only are they… well, handy for carrying out our everyday tasks, they can also give exquisite sexual pleasure. We can cradle a lover’s face as we kiss them, undress each other as fast or slowly as we wish, and stimulate external and internal body parts with skilful precision. In this article I’m going to reveal how to give him an amazing handjob.”

Why I Hate Vibrating Cock Rings (& What We Use Instead)

why we hate vibrating cock rings and what we use instead“If you’re a regular sex toy shopper, you’ll have noticed vibrating cock rings amongst the offerings for men and couples. Vibrating cock rings are designed to offer penis-owners the pleasure of vibration, as well as the tantalising restriction which encourages a firmer, longer lasting erection. You might see these sex toys labelled as ‘love rings’ or ‘couples cock rings’ when designed for penis-in-vagina sex use. In that situation they claim to provide the woman with clitoral pleasure, as the vibrations are felt against her vulva and clitoral areas during sexual intercourse.”

Our Favourite Sex Positions – And Why We Love Them

our favourite sex positions“Are there some sex positions you find yourself ‘coming’ back to time after time? My partner and I definitely have our favourite sex positions, and in the past I’ve worried that we might be getting stuck in a rut. A rut that, admittedly, feels so good. But then when I went through the sex positions we enjoy on a regular basis, it turns out we enjoy more variety than I’d feared.”

Goodbye Dry Spell! 7 Ways To Reignite Your Libido

sex tips | sex advice sex toy guides relationship advice“I get phases where I’m not as interested in sex as I used to be, and I worry that this is it. I’m in my late 30s; I’m finally at a point where I hate sex, I’ll never want sex again and nothing will ever turn me on. At other times of my life I feel just as horny as I was in my early 20s. When you’re enduring a dry spell is there anything you can do to reignite your libido?”

 

International Male Chastity Day | International Chastity Day Info

As a proud kinkster and huge fan of the chastity fetish in particular, it gives me great pleasure to share details of an official annual celebration of this highly erotic kink. International Male Chastity Day (also known as International Chastity Day) is celebrated on the 15th February* each year.

Ultimate Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide | Most Romantic Valentine’s Gifts

Welcome to my Valentine's Day sexy gift guide! Valentine's is traditionally the time of year when lovers show each other the depth of their loving feelings by way of a card, a gift, spending time together doing something special and being generally loved-up. What do you buy the one you love for Valentine's Day this year? Have a look through this feature which showcases the best and most romantic gift ideas for some sensationally seductive inspiration.
The Hotness Of Body Piercings | List Of Genital Piercings

The Hotness Of Body Piercings

Body piercings, tattoos, or both? Whether you love being pierced or prefer getting inked, body modifications can still be controversial in some circles. Pretty stuffy circles, in my opinion. I'm focusing on the hotness of body piercings today, but I'm all for people celebrating their uniqueness and displaying their creativity through the many various forms of body art.

How To Find A Dominant Partner

So many of the emails I’ve received over the years have been from men looking for BDSM advice. Many men really want to find a Dominant woman to help them realise their kinky fantasies, or encourage their partner to become a Mistress –or alternatively, a female submissive. Did you know that there is an easy way to find a Dominant partner? Read on and I’ll let you in on the secret.  

How To Find Your Perfect BDSM Partner

Compatibility in BDSM relationships is important and should be taken into consideration from the outset. But just how do you go about finding that all too often elusive, but fantastic, kinky match? It can be tricky to find your perfect BDSM partner -and that's an understatement. 

Big Guide To Bondage Sex Toys, & Our Bondage Sex Toy Reviews

What can you use to restrain someone (or enjoy being restrained) in bondage? That's where bondage sex toys and bondage accessories come into their own. It helps having some background knowledge of just what's available in terms of bondage equipment, and why it's important to use items specifically designed for bondage rather than any old belt, strap or rope you happen to have around the house.

Big Guide To Spanking Toys, & Our Spanking Toy Reviews

Spanking is an erotic act between consenting kinksters and lovers. Do you prefer yours OTK (over the knee), strapped face-down to a bench, during sex or in some other fashion? Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big guide to spanking toys, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Beginner’s Guide To Bondage | Complete Bondage 101 & Top Tips

Despite Fifty Shades of Grey helping to spotlight the joys of BDSM in the mainstream in recent years, plenty of people have been enjoying the physical, psychological and emotional liberation that the power exchange in D/s role-play offers. Due to the recent sharp rise in mainstream interest, I wanted to share my bondage top tips and advice in this beginner's guide to bondage today. Welcome to my complete bondage 101!

Beginner’s Guide To BDSM | BDSM Tips For Beginners | BDSM 101

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

Can Long-Distance Relationships Ever Really Work?

Social media, dating apps and chat sites are undoubtedly effective ways to meet new people. Connecting with the person of your dreams, then discovering they lives miles away –or on the other side of the world- can bring about another set of challenges for your budding relationship, however. Can long-distance relationships ever really work?

Why We Love Sexy Corporal Punishment

I'd like to talk a little more about why we love sexy corporal punishment here today, and how it really hits our spot. Perhaps this intimate revelation will prompt more people out there to accept spanking and similar as being just as 'acceptable' as 'regular' sex antics, instead of mentally filing such habits as perverted, deviant and downright weird.

Introduction to E-Stim & the Electrastim Electro Sex Toys Range

You may or may or may not have heard the term e-stim or electrosex before. It's something that can inspire all sorts of emotions, from curiosity to nervous apprehension. It involves using specialised equipment to stimulate our genitals using electricity. It is a gender-free masturbatory activity that is fun on your own or with a partner.