If you feel like your sex life needs a boost, or you have specific sexuality questions you need the answer to, you’re in the right place. I’ve written a wealth of sex education articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which get right to the heart of pressing sex-related concerns, providing useful and practical information as well as answering readers’ specific sex questions.
It can be difficult if not impossible to raise issues of a sexual nature with professionals, friends or even your partner. That’s where the internet and specifically my sex blog can be invaluable. Browse through the sex education blog posts below this top section to find all my advice, in chronological order. Looking for advice on something in particular? Use the search box to find sex tips relating to your query.
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I hope you enjoy my sex education and advice articles – let’s have a look at some of the most popular:
“Faking an orgasm is not only dishonesty to your partner and disrespect to yourself, it also stifles any sex life improvements which could otherwise happen. Instead of faking, talk and make the efforts required towards mutual satisfaction during sex. And remember that good sex doesn’t necessarily include orgasms.”
“Hands are seriously fantastic. Not only are they… well, handy for carrying out our everyday tasks, they can also give exquisite sexual pleasure. We can cradle a lover’s face as we kiss them, undress each other as fast or slowly as we wish, and stimulate external and internal body parts with skilful precision. In this article I’m going to reveal how to give him an amazing handjob.”
“If you’re a regular sex toy shopper, you’ll have noticed vibrating cock rings amongst the offerings for men and couples. Vibrating cock rings are designed to offer penis-owners the pleasure of vibration, as well as the tantalising restriction which encourages a firmer, longer lasting erection. You might see these sex toys labelled as ‘love rings’ or ‘couples cock rings’ when designed for penis-in-vagina sex use. In that situation they claim to provide the woman with clitoral pleasure, as the vibrations are felt against her vulva and clitoral areas during sexual intercourse.”
“Are there some sex positions you find yourself ‘coming’ back to time after time? My partner and I definitely have our favourite sex positions, and in the past I’ve worried that we might be getting stuck in a rut. A rut that, admittedly, feels so good. But then when I went through the sex positions we enjoy on a regular basis, it turns out we enjoy more variety than I’d feared.”
“I get phases where I’m not as interested in sex as I used to be, and I worry that this is it. I’m in my late 30s; I’m finally at a point where I hate sex, I’ll never want sex again and nothing will ever turn me on. At other times of my life I feel just as horny as I was in my early 20s. When you’re enduring a dry spell is there anything you can do to reignite your libido?”