Sex Blog

Sex Blog

Welcome to my sex blog, where you can enjoy free sexy stories, giveaways, sex tips, relationship advice, sex toy guides plus much more. Here at the Cara Sutra sex blog you will find plenty of helpful advice to browse, as well as filthy stories to tantalise and fuel your imagination.

Sex bloggers write about various topics relating to sex and sexuality. There’s much more involved than you may at first realise. Some blog sex toy reviews, working as sex toy testers for the adult product industry. Others write hot written porn – original sexy stories which are freely available for you to enjoy. I’ve tried to encompass all areas of sex blogging here at Cara Sutra, with sex toy reviews, sex toy guides, sex education, sex tips & advice, original erotica & supremely hot sexy stories, personal sex pieces, sex toy competitions and a whole lot more. You can even find sex blogging advice as well as tips on how to get started with your sex toy shopping website.

Just take a look at a few hot examples from my popular & multi award-winning sex blog:

Sexy Stories

Hood ornament: gangbang erotica sexy stories“Rough fingers suddenly probing into my pussy and rubbing over my clit made me cry out; the shock of human contact after just the kiss of the air. Seemingly satisfied with what he found he shoved his cock straight into my cunt without further warning. Everything about me loathed this, hated that it was happening. Everything about me, that is, apart from my traitorous pussy which obediently and happily produced lubrication for his urgently penetrating member. The fact I was restrained, unable to do anything but comply, plus the loud urging from the audience meant he blew his hot load deep inside my cunt before too long.”

-from Hood Ornament: Gangbang Erotica

Sex Tips

Sex Blog“Is the fact that a person can’t achieve vaginal orgasms really a problem? Perhaps it seems like a problem, if you used to be able to, but can’t any more. Or if you feel pressure to achieve vaginal orgasm; whether that’s pressure from your own mind, or because of society’s expectations and media influence about how people should perform sexually, or (but hopefully not) pressure from a partner that you should be able to orgasm in this way.”

-from Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

Relationship Advice

Sex Blog“Even people in stable, happy relationships will admit that they argue from time to time. In fact research has shown that it’s healthier to argue regularly, in terms of relationship longevity, than to avoid issues or sweep them under the carpet. And what do most couples argue about? Sex and money. There’s plenty of sex advice elsewhere on this website – but how do you resolve arguments about money in relationships?”

-from Romance vs Finance: Resolving Arguments About Money In Relationships

Sex Toy Guides 

Guide to bullet vibrators, and our bullet vibrator reviews

“Bullet vibrators are so-called because they’re bullet shaped and small besides. Sometimes these toys are also described as mini vibes, pocket vibrators or have other, similar labels.
As well as the shape of the sex toy making its name appropriate, a “bullet” vibrator is a small but powerful object which can vibrate at high speed, used to precisely target erogenous zones and help tip you over into ‘la petite mort’.”

-from My Big Guide To Bullet Vibrators, & Our Bullet Vibrator Reviews

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Relationship Counseling, Relationship Coach & Marriage Therapy

Firstly, most marriage therapy or relationship counseling completely lacks the integration of sex. Sex is a big part of intimacy, connection, and pair bonding in a relationship, and yet it’s ignored by more relationship counselors. Secondly, most marriage therapy is based on the medical model, so they try to fix what is wrong and not find and enhance what is right or could be amazing.

Buy Used Panties and Sell Worn Underwear at Sofia Gray

Purchasing or selling used underwear often evokes strong opinions, but when you think about it, the enjoyment of worn knickers can be extremely pleasurable for all concerned. I'm not ashamed to say I've sold my own worn underwear in the past –well, why not? I buy some pretty panties, wear them, take a few photos if I feel like it and then... instant profit.

Expired: Win A Holiday To Hedonism Jamaica With Hot Octopuss  

Yes, you could win a sexy holiday to Jamaica thanks to a sensational new competition from Hot Octopuss. Known for their universally-friendly, uniquely accessible and breathtakingly effective sex toys, multi award-winning Hot Octopuss have now partnered with luxury 'clothing optional' resort Hedonism II to offer a sensational holiday to Hedonism which includes 4 days accommodation, all your food and drink and, of course, the intoxicating plethora of sensual pleasures Jamaica and Hedonism II have to offer.

YES Organic Intimacy Week 2019 (& Sexy Hamper Giveaway)

This week it's YES Organic Intimacy Week, a global awareness campaign which YES hope will increase people's general knowledge of intimate products, as well as the importance of selecting the highest purity quality sex lubes and moisturisers for ongoing intimate wellbeing.  

Big Guide To Strap-On Dildos, & Our Pegging Dildo Reviews

You may remember my last 'big guide' - the Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses I published last month. Obviously you'll need a fantastic dildo to attach to your new strap-on harness, so here's the follow-up feature: my big guide to strap-on dildos!

Expired: Lingerie Giveaway: Win The Leg Avenue Rainbow Body

One of the items I modelled and reviewed over summer is the Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body, which is both joyfully colourful and extremely comfortable and flattering. Even better: I have another Leg Avenue Rainbow Body (usually priced at £/$19.99) to give away to one of my lovely readers in a new and exciting giveaway.

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

Pleasure Panel Closure: Why The Pleasure Panel Sex Toy Reviews Project Closed

For the past 4 years I've hosted a popular community reviews project here at the Cara Sutra sex blog called the Pleasure Panel. Sadly, this project closed at the start of July this year. I wanted to write an official update to clarify that the Pleasure Panel project is officially closed, and no more sign-ups to it are being accepted.

I Had My Cervical Screening And It Wasn’t Scary At All | Smear Test Report 

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

New Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Collaborative Sex Toy Release

Two hugely successful sex toy brands have collaborated to present a thrilling new product which promises effortless orgasms. Introducing the Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator. Utilising the now patented Pleasure Air Technology, first created in 2013 by Michael Lenke, the Womanizer Pro40 is the latest addition to the globally popular and successful Womanizer sex toy family.

My Domination: Perception Vs Reality

How people perceive my domination, and the reality of it, is something which has fascinated me for some time. You would be amazed at some of the comments directed my way over the years simply for the ways in which I choose to enjoy my natural dominance, as well as how my actively consenting submissives enjoy it, too. Some of these comments are borne from ignorance, some from jealousy, some from malice, and others simply because the person spoke without properly thinking it all through.