Sex Advice

Sex Advice

Sometimes we could all do with a helping hand (dash of lube optional) when it comes to our sex life and intimate pleasure. There’s a wealth of sex advice here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, covering subjects from how to keep the passion going in your shared sex life with your partner, to which sex toys to use for peak effectiveness and enjoyment -whether solo or during shared playtimes.

sex advice | sexual advice | sex tipsThe spectrum of sexuality doesn’t start and end with PiV sex and the use of sex toys here and there, though. Sexy singles can have a completely fulfilling sex life either by themselves or by hooking up (safely) with dates, while others may prefer to adventure through the darkly attractive sphere of BDSM. With the surge in popularity for kinky sex and bondage, I’m pleased to be able to provide tailored sex advice for singles and couples wishing to experiment with dominance and submission, and/or bondage and spanking in their sex lives.

Let’s have a look at some of the most popular sex advice pieces I’ve written:

Big Guide To Jiggle Balls, Love Eggs, Kegel Trainers & Ben Wa Balls

sex advice“Whether you call them jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers or Ben Wa balls, it all amounts to pretty much the same thing. Rounded products you insert into the vagina for pleasure, health benefits, or both. Are you a jiggle ball fan? Have you considered buying a love egg but don’t know which one’s right for you? Welcome to my big guide to jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers & Ben Wa balls!”

Forced Orgasms – The Flip Side Of Chastity

Forced Orgasms the flip side of chastity“…I love the freedom to touch myself whenever I want –and I make the most of that freedom, as you can see by the thousands of sex toy reviews and erotic articles here on the blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, when I’m the one locked up I mean. How about the flip side of chastity: forced orgasms? There’s still the element of external control -but rather than orgasm denial, I would be (consensually, of course) forced to orgasm over and over.”

10 Steamy Role-Play Ideas To Try With Your Partner

sex advice“The sex life within every relationship is susceptible to becoming stagnant and monotonous, with the only usual exception being those recently snagged by Cupid. Once the honeymoon period is over, maintaining the thrilling excitement that kept you both turned on at the start becomes increasingly difficult. The world of sex advice is awash with tips in this regard, with ‘trying out role-play with your partner’ being a popular one. But what sort of role-play situation is sexy? And what type of role-play suits your sort of relationship, in particular?”

The Allure Of Complete Sensory Deprivation

sensory deprivation“Ever heard of sensory deprivation? If you have, chances are you’re either up on your psychology* or you’re into bondage. Or both, of course. Sensory deprivation is an enormous turn-on for many in the BDSM scene, but what is it that makes this particular practice so sexy?”

In A Masturbation Rut? Meet The Sex Toys Set To Rock Your World

masturbation rut - meet the sex toys set to rock your world“Isn’t masturbation wonderful? You can do it when you like, how you like, and as frequently as you like – and not only does it feel fantastic, the endorphin release is brilliant for your mental and physical health too. Because masturbation feels so brilliant, it’s easy to stick to your tried & tested method once you’ve found what does it for you. Same style, same location & vibrators, same fantasy… imagine how game-changing it would be to ‘rediscover’ masturbation, by trying something entirely different.”

I hope you find the sexual help you need in these free sex info articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. My sex advice articles are written with your best bedroom-based interests at heart; I truly hope they help you experience a better sex life -both solo and together with a partner. Sex is a huge and important part of many adults lives, it makes sense to ensure you’re experiencing the best sex of your life.

If there are any sexual topics you’d like to see discussed but which I haven’t written about yet, please feel free to get in touch via my contact page and I’ll try to write about your chosen topic here on the blog as soon as possible.

10 Seduction Tips That Really Work

Dating can feel like wandering blindly through a minefield, trying to avoid hidden pitfalls as well as common errors. When you experience that elusive, intense connection with someone, nerves can threaten to overwhelm and could even seriously dent your chances of forging a fully-fledged relationship. Today I'd like to share with you my top 10 seduction tips that really work.

Everything Erotic Trade Only: ETO Magazine, Show & Awards Info

ETO stands for Erotic Trade Only, a journalistic business with a passion for reporting neutrally on the various happenings in the adult industry. This independent company, founded and based in the UK, is extremely popular in the adult trade and it's easy to see why. Their harmonious team works extremely hard to deliver helpful advice and marketing opportunities to adult businesses. The erotictradeonly.com website and accompanying printed magazine provides support and advertising for various online services and websites, sex-related e-commerce, bricks and mortar retailers, product distributors/wholesalers and event organisers.

Does Female Chastity Exist? How Can Women Enjoy Orgasm Denial?

The chastity fetish is a BDSM topic very close to my Mistress heart. I've written plenty about male chastity over the years, as well as a guide to chastity devices and several chastity cage reviews. What about women? Does female chastity exist? And how can women enjoy orgasm denial?

International Male Chastity Day | International Chastity Day Info

As a proud kinkster and huge fan of the chastity fetish in particular, it gives me great pleasure to share details of an official annual celebration of this highly erotic kink. International Male Chastity Day (also known as International Chastity Day) is celebrated on the 15th February* each year.

Ultimate Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide | Most Romantic Valentine’s Gifts

Welcome to my Valentine's Day sexy gift guide! Valentine's is traditionally the time of year when lovers show each other the depth of their loving feelings by way of a card, a gift, spending time together doing something special and being generally loved-up. What do you buy the one you love for Valentine's Day this year? Have a look through this feature which showcases the best and most romantic gift ideas for some sensationally seductive inspiration.
The Hotness Of Body Piercings | List Of Genital Piercings

The Hotness Of Body Piercings

Body piercings, tattoos, or both? Whether you love being pierced or prefer getting inked, body modifications can still be controversial in some circles. Pretty stuffy circles, in my opinion. I'm focusing on the hotness of body piercings today, but I'm all for people celebrating their uniqueness and displaying their creativity through the many various forms of body art.

How To Find A Dominant Partner

So many of the emails I’ve received over the years have been from men looking for BDSM advice. Many men really want to find a Dominant woman to help them realise their kinky fantasies, or encourage their partner to become a Mistress –or alternatively, a female submissive. Did you know that there is an easy way to find a Dominant partner? Read on and I’ll let you in on the secret.  

How To Find Your Perfect BDSM Partner

Compatibility in BDSM relationships is important and should be taken into consideration from the outset. But just how do you go about finding that all too often elusive, but fantastic, kinky match? It can be tricky to find your perfect BDSM partner -and that's an understatement. 

Big Guide To Bondage Sex Toys, & Our Bondage Sex Toy Reviews

What can you use to restrain someone (or enjoy being restrained) in bondage? That's where bondage sex toys and bondage accessories come into their own. It helps having some background knowledge of just what's available in terms of bondage equipment, and why it's important to use items specifically designed for bondage rather than any old belt, strap or rope you happen to have around the house.

Big Guide To Spanking Toys, & Our Spanking Toy Reviews

Spanking is an erotic act between consenting kinksters and lovers. Do you prefer yours OTK (over the knee), strapped face-down to a bench, during sex or in some other fashion? Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big guide to spanking toys, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Beginner’s Guide To Bondage | Complete Bondage 101 & Top Tips

Despite Fifty Shades of Grey helping to spotlight the joys of BDSM in the mainstream in recent years, plenty of people have been enjoying the physical, psychological and emotional liberation that the power exchange in D/s role-play offers. Due to the recent sharp rise in mainstream interest, I wanted to share my bondage top tips and advice in this beginner's guide to bondage today. Welcome to my complete bondage 101!

Beginner’s Guide To BDSM | BDSM Tips For Beginners | BDSM 101

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.