Sex Advice

Sex Advice

Sometimes we could all do with a helping hand (dash of lube optional) when it comes to our sex life and intimate pleasure. There’s a wealth of sex advice here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, covering subjects from how to keep the passion going in your shared sex life with your partner, to which sex toys to use for peak effectiveness and enjoyment -whether solo or during shared playtimes.

sex advice | sexual advice | sex tipsThe spectrum of sexuality doesn’t start and end with PiV sex and the use of sex toys here and there, though. Sexy singles can have a completely fulfilling sex life either by themselves or by hooking up (safely) with dates, while others may prefer to adventure through the darkly attractive sphere of BDSM. With the surge in popularity for kinky sex and bondage, I’m pleased to be able to provide tailored sex advice for singles and couples wishing to experiment with dominance and submission, and/or bondage and spanking in their sex lives.

Let’s have a look at some of the most popular sex advice pieces I’ve written:

Big Guide To Jiggle Balls, Love Eggs, Kegel Trainers & Ben Wa Balls

sex advice“Whether you call them jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers or Ben Wa balls, it all amounts to pretty much the same thing. Rounded products you insert into the vagina for pleasure, health benefits, or both. Are you a jiggle ball fan? Have you considered buying a love egg but don’t know which one’s right for you? Welcome to my big guide to jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers & Ben Wa balls!”

Forced Orgasms – The Flip Side Of Chastity

Forced Orgasms the flip side of chastity“…I love the freedom to touch myself whenever I want –and I make the most of that freedom, as you can see by the thousands of sex toy reviews and erotic articles here on the blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, when I’m the one locked up I mean. How about the flip side of chastity: forced orgasms? There’s still the element of external control -but rather than orgasm denial, I would be (consensually, of course) forced to orgasm over and over.”

10 Steamy Role-Play Ideas To Try With Your Partner

sex advice“The sex life within every relationship is susceptible to becoming stagnant and monotonous, with the only usual exception being those recently snagged by Cupid. Once the honeymoon period is over, maintaining the thrilling excitement that kept you both turned on at the start becomes increasingly difficult. The world of sex advice is awash with tips in this regard, with ‘trying out role-play with your partner’ being a popular one. But what sort of role-play situation is sexy? And what type of role-play suits your sort of relationship, in particular?”

The Allure Of Complete Sensory Deprivation

sensory deprivation“Ever heard of sensory deprivation? If you have, chances are you’re either up on your psychology* or you’re into bondage. Or both, of course. Sensory deprivation is an enormous turn-on for many in the BDSM scene, but what is it that makes this particular practice so sexy?”

In A Masturbation Rut? Meet The Sex Toys Set To Rock Your World

masturbation rut - meet the sex toys set to rock your world“Isn’t masturbation wonderful? You can do it when you like, how you like, and as frequently as you like – and not only does it feel fantastic, the endorphin release is brilliant for your mental and physical health too. Because masturbation feels so brilliant, it’s easy to stick to your tried & tested method once you’ve found what does it for you. Same style, same location & vibrators, same fantasy… imagine how game-changing it would be to ‘rediscover’ masturbation, by trying something entirely different.”

I hope you find the sexual help you need in these free sex info articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. My sex advice articles are written with your best bedroom-based interests at heart; I truly hope they help you experience a better sex life -both solo and together with a partner. Sex is a huge and important part of many adults lives, it makes sense to ensure you’re experiencing the best sex of your life.

If there are any sexual topics you’d like to see discussed but which I haven’t written about yet, please feel free to get in touch via my contact page and I’ll try to write about your chosen topic here on the blog as soon as possible.

Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide & Sexy Santa Role Play Costumes

Lingerie consistently features in sexy Christmas gift guides & seasonal wish lists. What sort of sensual lingerie would make their eyes light up this year? I'm here to help – welcome to my sexy Christmas lingerie gift guide 2020! I'll be sharing some of my favourite sexy Santa role play costumes too... they're so fun and flirty, and a great way to sex up an adult Christmas Eve.

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide | Best Romantic Christmas Gifts

Giving the perfect Christmas gift you know they'll adore gives you a warm fuzzy feeling like (almost) nothing else. 'Tis the season of giving, so why not combine festive spice and evergreen romance by gifting your lover a decidedly sexy present this year? Baby, it's cold outside – but selecting from the raunchy choices in my sexy Christmas gift guide will ensure you're all aglow. You can find my top picks for the best romantic Christmas gifts in this ultimate festive gifting guide.

Where To Buy Sexy Advent Calendars This Christmas

If you’re looking for sexy advent calendars to sex up your Christmas, look no further. You’ve found the mother lode. I’m here to share with you full details of sexy advent calendars which you can use to both spice up the countdown to Christmas, as well as providing you with a pleasurable, stress-relieving alternative to the usual responsibilities that come along with the festive season.  

Hybrid Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

In my recent overview article relating to the huge and diverse world of sexual lubricants, I talked about sex lubes in general, why they're fantastic, what not to use and briefly covered the various types. In this feature, I'd like to introduce one of those types in greater detail. Hybrid sex lubricants are relatively new to the sex lube scene -and are therefore at risk of being misunderstood and sadly avoided. Let's correct that today. Welcome to my hybrid lubes 101: your complete guide!

Halloween Sex Toys To Make You Scream With Pleasure

Welcome to your guide to frighteningly orgasmic Halloween sex toys! In this feature I'm going to showcase some truly scream-worthy vibrators, dildos, anal toys and more which are sure to go down a treat this Halloween –or any time of the year. If you've been looking for inspiration for a formidable sex toy for hair-raising personal pleasure, or an electrifying adult toy to share with your partner, you're in the right place.

Your Guide To Sexy Halloween Costumes & Lingerie

Welcome to your guide to sexy Halloween costumes & lingerie! If you’re struggling to decide between witchy, vampy or seductively feline dressing-up outfits for this spooky time of year, my saucy Halloween outfits 101 is here to help. In this guide you’ll discover a showcase of some breathtakingly sexy Halloween costume ideas, at great prices & with discreet delivery from your favourite online adult retailers.

I Took Myself On A Date -And It Was Everything I Needed

If you're feeling emotionally drained, like life is too busy, too noisy, too stressful, I'd thoroughly recommend enjoying a solo date. Before I took myself on a date last week it wasn't something that would have occurred to me to schedule in; plus, I didn't have my driving licence until late last year which made arranging time out by myself difficult if not impossible. Being away from home, away from the children and having got away on my own steam felt extremely healing for me. After the difficulties this year has posed, emotionally, mentally and with the physical/social restrictions of the coronavirus pandemic, taking myself on a date was exactly what I needed.

Oil-Based Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

In my recent big guide to sexual lubricants, I looked at the huge and diverse world of lube. There are various types, each with their own pros and cons and recommended usage. Today, I'd like to take a closer look at oil lubricants in particular. What sort of oil can you expect to find in these lubes? What can you use oil lubes for – and what should you avoid? Welcome to my oil-based lubes 101: your complete guide!

How To Join The Mile High Club: Top Tips For Discreet Sex In The...

The Mile High Club is a source of endless fascination and speculation. How do people join this exclusive 'club'? More to the point, how do you join the mile-high club and get away with it? Does it even really exist, or are these airborne amorous adventures the stuff of myth and legend?

Silicone Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

Recently, I wrote about the various types of sex lubes in my recent big guide to sexual lubricants. Today, I'd like to delve a little deeper into one of those types in particular, silicone lubricants. Why would you choose a lube which is silicone based? What can you use them for – and what are the pros and cons? Welcome to my silicone lubes 101: your complete guide!

Water-Based Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

Water-based lubes are sexual lubricants with a formulation that has water as its main or 'base' ingredient. There may be various other components to the formulation, but water is the main one. As well as a descriptor of the main ingredient of these lubricants, the label 'water-based' helps to quickly and easily differentiate them from the various other types of lubes: silicone, oil-based, hybrid etc.

Sexual Lubricants 101: Your Complete Guide To Sex Lubes

LUBE. What is it? Who uses it? What are the different types? What is it used for? How and why is it used? Welcome to my big guide to sex lubes!