Fetish Wear Reviews

Channelling your inner Dom and taking charge in the bedroom is always lots of fun and can help to make you feel super confident. As a huge fan of fetish wear, I can safely say that I never feel sexier than when I am dressed up and wearing super high stilettos. But with so many different styles and types of fetish wear, what are the best pieces to spend all your hard earned money on? At the Cara Sutra sex blog, I have hundreds of fetish wear reviews to help you make that decision.

For beginners who aren’t sure what styles of fetish wear will suit them best, I have reviewed everything from bondage bodies, basques, corsets, fetish catsuits, fetish gloves, hoods and headgear, bodycon dresses, latex outfits, gas masks and many more. All my fetish wear reviews are completely honest and provide photographs of how the fetish wear looks when worn, so you have an overall view of the style and quality of the item before you put your hand in your pocket.

Most of the reviews are conducted by myself, but I do have a team of honest fetish wear reviewers. That way, you can see how different items look on a range of different body shapes and individual styles. Take some time to browse through the hundreds of fetish wear items and fetish wear essentials and see for yourself which items made the grade, and which fell flat.

If there is a specific item that you’re looking for but you can’t see it, contact me by email and I will do my best to locate the item and review it for you.

Sportsheets Plus Size Chantilly Strap On Harness with Corset Back Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£39.99
Materials:
Lace
By Voluptuous Vixen Overall, I found this Sportsheets Plus Size Chantilly Strap On Harness to be the best on the market for fuller figured ladies. It's comfortable, feminine, sexy and empowering.

Swarovski Crystal Liona Black Filigree Masquerade Mask Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£18.00
Materials:
Metal
I like getting dressed-up. I like costumes, accessories, wigs, make-up. They make me feel confident. They allow me to become someone else for a short while. You can imagine how excited I was when I received this gorgeous Swarovski Crystal Liona Black Filigree Masquerade Mask to review. And I was not disappointed.
Liberator Valkyrie Thong Strap On Harness Review

Liberator Valkyrie Thong Strap On Harness Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£60.00
Brand:
Liberator
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Spandex
This new Liberator Valkyrie Thong Strap On Harness is the first strap on harness I've had which really is made to fit like a thong. It's also soft fabric rather than leather, so it's far less intimidating for, say, vanilla couples (hetero or lesbian) to use than leather styles which can seem to look traditionally BDSM.
Allure Lingerie Second Skin Catsuit Review (Red)

Allure Lingerie Second Skin Catsuit Review (Red)

1 out of 10
Price:
£74.95
Brand:
Allure
Materials:
Vinyl
Yes, the material isn’t stretchy really – well, there’s a tiny bit of give – and it’s nowhere near as stretchy as latex or datex which I ultimately prefer. They’re more expensive but in this case you really do get what you pay for. This Second Skin stuff feels quite plasticky.

Rimba Leather Spiked Bondage Collar Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£44.99
Brand:
Rimba
Materials:
Leather
Collars have long been seen as the symbol of submission. Although worn by others as well – Dominants, goths, alternative types – that is usually for fashion rather than BDSM reasons. A collar around the neck of a male or female submissive is an instantly recognisable and prominent symbol of their submissive orientation in the world of BDSM.
Insistline Datex Red Vest Review | Datex Fetish Wear Reviews

Insistline Datex Red Vest Review (Medium)

9 out of 10
Price:
£46.99
Shop:
Honour
Materials:
Datex
Before being sent this Insistline Datex Red Vest (in Medium) for review, I'd never even heard of datex material. I thought everyone must be confusing it with latex, which I've most definitely heard of! But yes, datex is most definitely a real material. It's very similar to latex, with a few important and awesome differences. We'll get to those in a little while.

SpareParts HardWear Bella Strap-On Harness Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£152.99
Materials:
Nylon, Spandex
I wasn’t quite sure what to expect with this strap on. It’s not made of straps for a start, so can hardly be called a traditional harness. It is closer in style to the jockey brief style of the RodeoH and Liberator Valkyrie Thong Strap-On Harness; a panty or knickers underwear with a front area through which a penetrative sex toy can be secured.
UberKinky Spiked Leather Bondage Collar with Large O Ring Review

UberKinky Spiked Leather Bondage Collar with Large O Ring Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£27.99
Brand:
UberKinky
Materials:
Leather
There are chrome softly spiked rivets in a V shape to the centre of the UberKinky Spiked Leather Bondage Collar, giving it a subtly pretty edge which still doesn't clash with its overall traditional stern look. Below the rivets is an O ring, affixed to the rounded leather backing with a separate piece of leather.

Review: Kinky Monkey Black Leather Strap On Sex Harness

10 out of 10
Price:
£60.00
Materials:
Leather
To use a dildo with this harness you need one which is harness compatible, like the Fun Factory Tiger Stub Dildo that Kinky Monkey supplied at the same time. Harness compatible dildos have a flared base, usually in a suction cup or at least flat bottomed style which has a neck for the O ring to be positioned within. The flared end or suction cup of the dildo means that it will stay securely in place through the O ring while you penetrate your lover or submissive. The O ring on this strap on harness has a diameter of 50mm which equates to 2 inches. You can also opt for smaller O rings, namely a 1.5 inch size. As the front panel of the strap on harness is joined to the leg straps by means of smaller O rings, the panel sits comfortably over your pubis no matter your shape or the position you're in. If these straps were attached directly to the front panel then it would not only be uncomfortable to move in it but the harness wouldn't move with your body during sex and it would become an interruption not a fluid, silent accessory.

Review: Kinky Monkey Intimate Torment Locked in Forced Orgasm Strap On Harness (Doxy Massager...

10 out of 10
Price:
£80.00
Materials:
Leather
After trying out this product from Kinky Monkey, I know why so many of my friends, most famously Dom Strap On, love the strap...

Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Handcuffs Review (Black)

9 out of 10
Just like the collar from the same collection, the Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Handcuffs (Black) are supremely seductive and gorgeous to behold. As well as adding a subtle but definite layer of restraint to your outfit (or nudity), the mesh cuffs can also be worn without the chain fastening between.
Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar

Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar Review (Black)

9 out of 10
I received this Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar (available here) along with the mesh cuffs and a bunch of other items from Bijoux Indiscrets. The set is gorgeous whether worn separately or apart. You can tell I think they're beautiful from the sheer amount of photos I took.

Fever Sexy Secretary Costume Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£26.99
Brand:
Fever
Why this one in particular? A few reasons. I love pinstripes, I think they’re adorable, whether on a woman’s suit or dress, a hat, or a man’s suit. There’s something very gangster and gangster’s moll about them. Also, this dress seemed to be a decent length, unlike many outfits I have tried from roleplay categories on sex toy sites before, which seem to stop about an inch south of my navel. I don’t feel this is a flattering or seductive length for a dress. The front of the Fever Secretary outfit zips up with no hidden side zips or rear hooks and eyes or ties to worry about. You don’t have to remove the whole thing to go to the toilet, and with black leggings or even thick enough tights and boots I can imagine wearing this on a fun night out or to a fancy dress party, making it much more versatile than a definitely-bedroom-only choice.

Review: Metal Man Jewellery Industrial Style Goth Fetish Necklace

10 out of 10
Price:
£99.00
This fascinating, beautiful and unusual necklace was sent to me as an early birthday present by my friends over at La Boudoir Boutique. Made by Metal Man Jewellery, this necklace was custom made according to my personal tastes and there isn’t another like it in the world. As if La Boudoir Boutique hadn’t already made me feel special enough! Thank you. What’s even more alluring about the designs from Metal Man Jewellery is that the pieces are made from reclaimed parts of metal and industrial offcuts. This eco-friendly way of reusing and recycling scrap metal is sure to appeal to anyone who has an interest in environmental issues - which should be everyone, really.

Review: Age of Reason The Orgy Bondage Scarf

10 out of 10
Price:
£98.00
Materials:
Silk
The Age of Reason scarves are part of a collection of luxurious fashion accessories created with the help of designer Ali Mapletoft. Her work has featured in such widely read publications as Stylist Magazine, Grazia, Red Magazine, In Style, The Times, The Telegraph, You Magazine, Metro, Drapers, Womenswear Buyer and Vogue online. Naturally I was curious when Age of Reason contacted me via Twitter to invite me to take a look at the more naughty corner of their prestigious online shop.
DOMINIX Deluxe Heavy Leather Rotational Collar Review

DOMINIX Deluxe Heavy Leather Rotational Collar Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£62.99
Brand:
Lovehoney
Materials:
Leather
I have worn this collar and also fastened it on another... it's great both ways! Sure, it's more expensive than most, but you do have to pay for quality and it's made from leather. I have no hesitation about recommending this collar, as I can tell that it will last for many years and serves as a good investment for those with an interest in all things kinky and BDSM inclined.

Shiri Zinn Strap On Harness And Ceramic Dildo Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£94.99
Materials:
Ceramic, Leather
I have been having lots of fun with the Shiri Zinn Strap On Harness these past few weeks, combining it with the Shiri Zinn Ceramic Dildo.
Fetish Fantasy Spandex Open Mouth Hood Review

Fetish Fantasy Spandex Open Mouth Hood Review

7 out of 10
Price:
£15.99
The lack of buckles and zips will ensure that even the most timid kink adventurer will feel comfy with this hood on. It can be worn by him or her, and folds up very small to take up minimal space if you're packing it for clubs, dirty weekends away or travelling for kink sessions.

Review: Honour Sensory Deprivation Leather Total Lockdown Fetish Hood

10 out of 10
Price:
£125.00
Shop:
Honour
Materials:
Leather
This hood is a sensual paradise. It opens your sensory play sessions to whole new levels of anticipation and excitement, whilst removing your ability to see or speak. The leather is genuine, sumptuous and soft, moulding itself to the shape of your head for a seductive feel and a traditional BDSM look.

Review: Love Bites Chenille Vegan Fetish Vampire Gloves

5 out of 10
Price:
£14.50
Love Bites Vampire Gloves There's no doubting the fact that the Love Bites Gloves are a great idea. I was approached to review them by...