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- Useful Information
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    Privacy Settings - Important!
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 15:40:00
    - When you register and fill out your profile, please make sure you check through everything in the edit profile, contact details and notifications areas. What you tick and leave unticked will make a difference to what everyone else can see on your profile. I cannot state clearly enough that it is important to make sure you have checked through everything so you don't give away info you don't want to... eg. the year of your date of birth - will let everyone know how old you are! If anyone has any problems, feel free to start a Conversation with me (it's your inbox ;) Good luck everyone and happy forumming! xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:40:00
    - Just an update: I need to make everyone aware that when you open a new thread on the forum, a link to the new thread appears on my Twitter feed. I thought this would be a great way of making the new thread visible and accessible to my over 5k followers. Also, if you have a link in your signature, people will immediately see that upon clicking through, making your blog or web space visible to all those people too. However, if you have any issue with having a thread made so publicly visible and wish to have it made privately, just drop me a message and I or another forum member can start the thread instead, if you wish for a particular topic or question of yours to be for within the forum only. All content here at the forum is publicly visible, so I would strongly advise against using your real name. Unless you really have no issues with people seeing who you are, I would also avoid using your real picture - any other avatar is welcome (apart from hardcore/nudity etc which we don't really need to be seeing, thanks!) I hope this makes sense - if you have any questions just drop me a line Cara x
      CaraSutra
      30 Jun 2013 14:18:22
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    Forum Rules
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 10:14:09
    - [LIST] [*]No bullying or harrassment about any issues, including sexual preferences, orientation, fetishes, life choices and similar [*]No companies, representatives or company staff members are allowed to advertise their site, product, business or retail store in any way on this forum [*]No oversized images in posts or signatures which slow loading times and take up too much of the page [*]No abuse of this forum [*]No posting of sexually explicit, hardcore pornography which may offend other members. Soft erotica is fine. [*]No discussion or imagery of illegal practices such as under age, and similar immoral, distasteful and illegal practices. [*]No trolling or flaming [*]Do not publicly or privately approach other members with a view to asking for pictures, meeting up for sex or dating or other troll-like behaviour. There are dating & escort sites out there, use them! [*]No website names, URLs etc as user names, this constitutes advertising from a company on my forum and your user name will be changed as appropriate. This includes companies advertising their links in their signatures. [*]Forum users must be at least 18 years of age [/LIST] Please note: [LIST] [*]Affiliate links to products by members is allowed and encouraged [*]Members may link to their blog/site in the context of relevant forum replies [/LIST]
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 10:14:09
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      CaraSutra
      17 Oct 2013 07:49:07
- Introductions
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    I'm new, be gentle hahahahaha
    PrincessRaggydoll
    10 Apr 2012 16:52:05
    - Well hello you kinky lot! For those that know me it's SLM, Minx, Minxy, take your pick! For those that don't know me see previous. I don't want to bore those that know me with rubbish about me but anyone that doessn't know me, feel free to ask! I don't bite but know a Wolf that does!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 16:52:05
    - I am just loving your profile pic!!! Welcome aboard and it's fantastic to have you here... I'm in the process of adding sexy emotes as I find/make them :boobs: including kinkster ones coming soon! YAY xxxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 16:54:05
    - hey SLM! somewhere else for us to have a chat and a cuppa and with more then 140 characters to do so! :P wooo! lol Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:00:17
    - Yay! Hey SLM!
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:00:31
    - Wow! Thanks for the welcomes guys. @Cara I love that you have all the different choices in the profile. Am I just being silly and blind but I can't see 'switch' I love my pic too which is a rare thing for me to say, I am very proud of this one so thank you/ @D (_)> and a wee slice of cake, hey hunny! @Kera Hey!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 17:10:14
    - Hey you! Looking forward to chatting with you again on a forum :-) Agree with D, yay to more than 140 characters!
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 18:09:16
    - @SLM I did add switch in, I'll admit I did forget it at first :oops: but went to add it so now it's the last option I think? and yes more than 140 characters! YAY :D
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 19:58:09
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    This always feels like a dating profile..
    Kera
    10 Apr 2012 15:19:05
    - But, hi, I'm Kera, and hardly do introduction threads so never know what to put in these! Those that know me know what I'm like, those that don't, well... all I can say is that I'm just myself and can't be anyone else. I do tend to waffle on about my Master though. But you get used to that.
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 15:19:05
    - Hello, fantastic to have you aboard and hope you'll keep coming back to chat :) I like hearing about you and Him, it's lovely! xxxx :p
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:21:46
    - hello :) Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:40:41
    - Hey lovely. If you are happy with your Master then waffle away. I love to hear of nice stories like that ;-) x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 17:12:22
    - ... and I'm the Him... ;)
      P. Squared
      10 Apr 2012 20:04:18
    - "P. Squared, post: 144, member: 17" Well aren't you deliciously sinister! :D :lips: lol
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:16:32
    - He won't post often, and when He does, I better run ;)
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 20:22:39
    - "CaraSutra, post: 150, member: 1" I'm just me!
      P. Squared
      10 Apr 2012 20:46:16
    - Aha sounds like something my man would say :)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:49:58
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    Howdy!
    Morbidia
    10 Apr 2012 17:59:34
    - Well hello there :) Pleased to be a part of this shiny new forum, looking forward to chatting to new and old friends :)
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 17:59:34
    - Hey Morbs, pleased you've joined, it's great to see you again! What a fab profile pic too, looking vayy hot. :wiggle: Hope you have fun here! xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 18:04:09
    - Aw thanks hun *hugs* It's an old pic, but nevermind ;) xxx
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 18:06:39
    - yay youve come back to the fold again! soooo lovely to see my morby again! *hugs* Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 18:43:16
    - Lovely to see you too my dear ;)
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 19:00:29
    - Is it me or is it a bit like the best school reunion ever lol :wiggle:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:01:10
    - Hey hunny! So lovely to have you here. And looking hot! (old pic or not) It is like an old school reunion, and the best. I wonder who else is going to come along. Eeep! All excited! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 21:18:39
    - Aww that is very true! And so far i am loving the reunion :-D
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 23:28:48
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    hi all
    rach74
    10 Apr 2012 21:55:44
    - hi all, on here and hope to have fun, so far enjoying reading the forums
      rach74
      10 Apr 2012 21:55:44
    - Yay! At last! So nice yo see you finally on here, sorry if there has been a wee teething problem. Anything else just give me a shout hunny. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 21:58:00
    - many thanks for your help,xxx, yes glad to be on board and cant wait to reply to some of the threads
      rach74
      10 Apr 2012 22:00:57
    - Hiya! Great to see you here and hope you have fun exploring and getting involved on the forum :) :heart:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:07:13
    - thank you Cara, looking forward to being here, thank you xx
      rach74
      10 Apr 2012 22:15:00
    - hello and welcome from me! :)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:20:59
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    Just popping in to say Hello.
    Ghostgirl
    10 Apr 2012 20:22:17
    - Hello to familiar faces and to new friends. So glad that Cara has chosen to launch her own forum. xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 20:22:17
    - Thanks GG! Glad you've joined up and looking forward to seeing more of you about :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:51:37
    - Hey GG, lovely to have you here too. I'm loving seeing all these familiar faces. GG where are your lovely shoes/legs? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 21:22:47
    - Howdy! Great to see you here :D
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 23:46:20
    - Ooh yes! Picture please! :D :p
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 09:33:56
    - hey! :D
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:19:51
    - hola!!!
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:22:28
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    ello...
    Diamonds
    10 Apr 2012 16:39:45
    - hello im diamonds, been around forums, blogs and twitter for a few years, know cara from old times in this world ;-) and think i might have even given her the idea for this forum only the other day! :P Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:39:45
    - *pounces on D* I've missed seeing you around, so lovely to see you back online. Hey hunny! Oooh is this the idea you had about getting the old crew back together??? For those that might not know Diamonds yet she is a lovely, lovely lady. Always has time for people, a natter and especially a morning cuppa ;)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 17:17:21
    - Hiya Diamonds! Sorry, but this forum was being built over a couple of months back now ;) Has taken flipping ages! Lol Would be great to have somewhere for all the old forum crew but of course not leaving out lovely shiny new people :D I'm so pleased people are joining, going to be fab! :D xxx :heart:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:25:56
    - aww its lovely to be back SLM, esp on this forum its sooooo easy to use! :) no wasnt my idea to get everyone back i was just gonna bug everyone to come back ha! and you got me blushing about them lovely things youve said about me! :) ooooh, bet you thought it was spooky when i said you should make your own forum the other week then ;-) lol. its amazing cara! the best one ive ever used! once i can bring myself to stop replying to threads im gonna tweet about it lol. Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:30:58
    - Well D hunny, I'm only speaking the truth. As others will find out you are called Diamonds for a reason, because you are one *awwwwwwwww* xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 17:33:29
    - :oops:;):)
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:37:02
    - Oh wow thanks D! A huge compliment. I wanted something easy to use and clear, with fun options and achievements and things, nothing boring! I'm all squee that you like it! xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:41:34
    - its got a nice feeling about it as well and i like your rules, and i know that you will be there to in force them when there being broken but will be relaxed when everything is running smooth. its a nice friendly place :) we need to get M over here asap! she will love it as it will remind her of the good old forum days! Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:47:13
    - Woot woot! Can't wait to chat with you again, Forum-Style! :-D
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 18:07:31
    - [quote="Diamonds, post: 106, member: 7"]its got a nice feeling about it as well and i like your rules, and i know that you will be there to in force them when there being broken but will be relaxed when everything is running smooth. its a nice friendly place :) we need to get M over here asap! she will love it as it will remind her of the good old forum days! Dxx[/quote] :p
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 18:43:55
    - Well there's no pressure I think, cos I'm just me and the main purpose is to actually chat, not make people buy stuff :D xxx I'm really glad you're all enjoying it x
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:03:42
    - I agree Cara, the lack of purchase-pressure is a definite benefit ;)
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 23:34:00
    - It's not all like ooooh can't mention companies or whatever... also I reckon my emotes are cooler lol and I haven't finished them yet :p xxx :condom: :butt: :bj:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 09:11:02
    - hello gorgeous Diamonds, great to see you around :-)
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:21:10
    - "Harlot, post: 261, member: 21" like wise! ive missed you presence around the nets! i been bugging cara lots asking how you and baby are doing, think she gets sick of me hehe
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:22:36
    - ~grins~ feels like i have been away forever!!
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:37:35
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    Hi I'm Cara - welcome to the forum!
    CaraSutra
    09 Apr 2012 20:43:59
    - please take a moment to introduce yourself in this section, we'd love to get to know you! This forum is an extension of and the community area for CaraSutra.co.uk ... if you want to know more about me, please take a peek. I write erotica, live kinky and for the Fetish, give sex advice and am a specialist in sex toys. Pleased to meet you! xxx
      CaraSutra
      09 Apr 2012 20:43:59
    - Hey, this is a nice looking forum you have here! :)
      Incendiaire
      10 Apr 2012 15:42:52
    - Thanks! I love it too, I find it easy to use and very clear with the text. and YAY emotes menu! Which I will be adding more custom emoticons too as time goes by, adult and kinky ones :D yay Great to see you here too btw! xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:45:58
    - Ellllloooooooo! I've been on your site a few times but I never noticed a forum until you tweeted about it :o Senility is a harsh mistress!
      edn
      10 Apr 2012 15:48:58
    - :D it's only just gone live! Like in the last half hour! I am *like* so excited! hence all the exclamation marks!!! lol No you're not going mad yet. I on the other hand, seem to already be there hahaha xxx welcome aboard, FAB to have you here. Or anywhere ;) xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:59:11
    - hello hello! love the forum so far cara, so clear and user friendly! :) i shall pimp it on my twitter and blog for yah :) Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:22:03
    - YAY! Thanks so much for joining and I'm really glad you think so. Of course I am open to being tweaked ;) as people want and need as long as it's fitting and will work overall! Hope it gets busy - and that you all introduce yourselves in this section too with new threads :D xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 16:25:13
    - Eeeep hello!!!! Ooooh posh new forum. Please excuse me Mistress but I will get a photo up ASAP but I'm sure you know who I am ;) xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 16:35:17
    - As if I could ever forget you! slutty mcslut doll face ;) :boobs:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:32:10
    - "CaraSutra, post: 88, member: 1" Hahaha from you Madam I take that as the highest compliment! Then I go shove up a pic of my arse. Can tell how ladylike I am eh? :D
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 17:36:36
    - yeah but it's a very spankable arse... :shinywiggle: ~mrowls~ ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:37:31
    - I think I could get used to it here ;)
      Kari Rose
      10 Apr 2012 23:39:47
    - "Kari Rose, post: 204, member: 19" Hopefully! Ooh I am adding more naughty emotes today... how many is too many? lol
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 08:11:39
    - As we are having bum avatars I thought I would grace you with mine ;)
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 10:43:54
    - om nom nom!
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 15:58:53
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    If I don't make a proper intro post...
    P. Squared
    10 Apr 2012 20:13:44
    - ... I'm sure I'll have a pouty sub on my hands... So I'm me - for now, I'm using the name P.Squared - It's a good enough name for now, and it'll serve it's purpose. I'll be very honest here, I'm not a particularly outgoing person, so you'll probably find me lurking somewhere in the background and out of the way. I'll probably come back and write something more later on - but you'll have to bear with me....
      P. Squared
      10 Apr 2012 20:13:44
    - Welcome to the forum and feel free to lurk or chat as you like :) Great to have you here xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:51:13
    - Hello and welcome. Look forward to seeing you around the board, jump in when you feel ready. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 21:43:46
    - I'm not a pouty sub! :eek:
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 21:52:35
    - OMG I just misread that as potty sub ... ~tired eyes~ :confused:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:00:06
    - I've made it back for a second day.... Only three days away from a personal best! Thank you all for the welcomes....
      P. Squared
      11 Apr 2012 16:09:55
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    Hey there...
    Ethereal
    11 Apr 2012 15:16:02
    - Hi, I'm Ethereal. A bunch of you already know me but I'm a 28 year old guy living in Cardiff. I work in an outdoor sports store and I have a background in just about every outdoor sport you can imagine. I work too hard and play too little but I'm a little bit nerdy when I do get time off. I love reading, martial arts, camping, roleplaying, shooting, writing and travel. Soooo.......what's up? :)
      Ethereal
      11 Apr 2012 15:16:02
    - Hey! Great to see you here - welcome :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 15:38:55
    - hello and welcome :)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 16:49:35
    - Ooooh ello you! Nice to have you here! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 20:03:39
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    Bojour my leedle chickadees!
    edn
    11 Apr 2012 10:47:28
    - I have no idea what a chickadee is but hello anyway! I'm sure many of you know me from other sites and fora and yes now you have to put up with me here to - muahahahaaa!!!
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 10:47:28
    - OMG gorgeous butt! ~swoons~ ... ... ... Oh yes. Welcome aboard! xxxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:21:32
    - *wiggles butt*!!!
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 12:48:52
    - ~faints~
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:56:20
    - *picks self up from floor* OMFG where have you been hiding that ass? And don't say under your trousers lol mmmm hubba hubba :shinywiggle:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 20:07:25
    - mmmmm mrowl :boobs:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 20:21:10
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    Well it seems...
    Harlot
    11 Apr 2012 10:17:03
    - i've been cocercerd and orderd to come and say Hi.. ok well not really but can you imagine having to live with Cara if i didn't :-) Anyways I'm Harlot or digitalharlot on and around twitter, im Cara's yang to her ying~lol~ or something like that :-) So yes hello everyone!!
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:17:03
    - Hello!!!!!!! ive missed you lots on twitter!!!!! hows you and bubba?:D
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:19:18
    - We are doing good now, hopefully im going to be around more now :-)
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:21:54
    - yay! :D
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:23:32
    - Hey gorgeous! Lovely to see you here. Understand how demanding Cara can be (hehe I can just tell I'm going to get :spank:for that one! ), I mean babies can be but lovely to see you and hope to see lots of you. I hope you and that gorgeous little bundle of joy are doing great. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 10:28:13
    - thanks darling, we are both doing good now after a rocky start...
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:32:50
    - I am the most lovely non-pushy person ever! I am shocked! :eek: lol Welcome welcome welcome Ms Yang :p xxxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:23:55
    - Hey! Great to see you here! Look forward to seeing you around more :)
      Morbidia
      11 Apr 2012 13:10:42
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 305, member: 1"]I am the most lovely non-pushy person ever! I am shocked! :eek: lol Welcome welcome welcome Ms Yang :p xxxx[/quote] non pushy are we speaking about the same person ~runs and hides~
      Harlot
      12 Apr 2012 09:23:33
    - Oi my lap may be full of bump but I can still safely dole out a good flogging you know! :bdsm: Hey whaddya know I might be an ickle bit pushy :p :heart:
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 09:29:35
    - Hiya huny its good to hear you and babe are doing so well, hugs to you all!
      Midnight Boudoir
      12 Apr 2012 16:46:47
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    The new pup on the block
    Kari Rose
    11 Apr 2012 00:04:12
    - [LEFT]Do I really need to explain who I am? I feel too important to retreat back to basics... Okay, fine![/LEFT] [LEFT] [/LEFT] [LEFT]I'm Kari Rose and currently I'm bopping about on an egotisical cloud which I'm sure, without a doubt, will come crashing down anytime soon. I'm a 21 year old kinkster from Scotland, semi-famously known for my role as the adorable human puppy. Don't worry, I'll only piss on your shoe if you ask kindly.[/LEFT] [LEFT] [/LEFT] [LEFT]I carry plates and take orders for a day job, waitressing being the ultimate peeve of my life. I'm an aspiring burlesque performer eager to get on the scene and have been corset waist-training for two years. I run a popular blog - www.kari-rose.com where I write about my life, general rants and I also do freelance writing and product reviews - most of which are adult toys.[/LEFT] [LEFT] [/LEFT] [LEFT]I'm a bundle of joy. Seriously.[/LEFT]
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 00:04:12
    - lol! Great to have you here, missed you yesterday! Hope your feet are better now? ~strokes the pup~ xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 08:11:11
    - I want to stroke the puppy too ;) ~flutters eyelashes~ ~strokes~ Yay! So nice to have you here! xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:18:03
    - My puppy! ~scraps~ ;) :devil:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 09:26:45
    - I don't wan't to get the claws out with Cara :eek: :( I only wanted to stroke the pretty puppy. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:35:56
    - hello :)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:18:09
    - Hello Diamonds ^.^ *wags tail* Oh girls, girl! There's enough of the puppy to go around :p
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 12:43:56
    - Girls? Only girls get to stroke the puppy? That's just sexism :p
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 12:46:38
    - Everyone can stroke the puppy ;)
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 12:55:37
    - Oh I dunno, a pillow fight in our sexy lingerie with lil pup bouncing around? I can provide the ice cream too! ;) :boobs:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:57:09
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 322, member: 1"]Oh I dunno, a pillow fight in our sexy lingerie with lil pup bouncing around? I can provide the ice cream too! ;) :boobs:[/quote] Ice cream sploshing Cara? I wondered how long it would be before Cara brought up sploshing! I like the sound of this party! Woohoo! *strokes puppy* ;) x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 20:12:04
    - Well I obviously meant to eat in front of a weepy movie... but now that you mentioned it... lol :lips: :butt:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 20:20:45
    - "CaraSutra, post: 427, member: 1" Yeah right Cara, we believe you, thousands wouldn't. I was thinking maybe a little paddling pool, rolling about in anything but Vanilla! haha:lips:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 20:31:08
    - mmmmm! ;) :yeahthat:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:05:12
    - MMMMMMMMMMMM! :p
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 21:35:11
    - I'll bring the chocolate sauce and butchers complete :p
      edn
      12 Apr 2012 12:13:56
    - Ahhh the only problem with puppy play - dog food :/ lols
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 13:43:59
    - No fear, I only eat custard creams! I can balance them on my nose and everything ;)
      Kari Rose
      12 Apr 2012 13:50:48
    - Now that, I would like to see. Perhaps a vlog? lol ;)
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 14:53:54
    - can't beat opening up a custard cream
      Phil
      12 Apr 2012 15:10:09
    - "CaraSutra, post: 533, member: 1" Perhaps ^.~ I actually done a piss-take video a long time ago pretending to be a cat but I got so much abuse from people in my local town about it (I still do). People threw cartons of milk and stones at me, telling me to go die and drown in the sea. Sigh...
      Kari Rose
      12 Apr 2012 15:43:06
    - OMG :( that's terrible. People can be so judgemental. Maybe make one but password it :) Sorry to hear you had abuse from it :(
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 16:10:12
    - Hiya Kari did hear custard creams mentioned lol!
      Midnight Boudoir
      12 Apr 2012 16:47:50
    - There's nothing better than a custard cream!
      Kari Rose
      12 Apr 2012 18:32:19
    - OM nom nom. Who is a dunker! x
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 18:39:11
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    S'meeee! :D
    Wizadora
    10 Apr 2012 19:22:43
    - Well I just had to come say hi didn't I! :D
      Wizadora
      10 Apr 2012 19:22:43
    - Yes, yes you did! :shinywiggle: Hello stranger! Great to have you aboard!! Will be good to have a catch up ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 19:55:44
    - Hey gorgeous! Great to have you here! How have you been? How you enjoying the bike? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 21:45:27
    - ello stranger! :)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:21:32
    - [quote="sexylittleminx, post: 180, member: 8"]Hey gorgeous! Great to have you here! How have you been? How you enjoying the bike? x[/quote] Loving the bike Minxy thank you!!! :D Rather chilly today brrrrr so I wimped out and took the car to work! Hello D and Cara! xx
      Wizadora
      12 Apr 2012 19:44:01
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    *waves*
    NymphomaniacNess
    11 Apr 2012 05:41:19
    - Hello, I'm Ness, and as a lot of you already know, I'm a sex toy reviewer. You can find my blog here: http://nymphomaniacness.blogspot.co.uk/ I looking forward to seeing how this forum develops, and can't wait to get started in writing and replying to topics ^_^
      NymphomaniacNess
      11 Apr 2012 05:41:19
    - Welcome! So glad you've hopped aboard! Ooh there is that uber sexy pic again, love it :wiggle: Hopefully the forum will continue to grow, I think it's good to have an unbiased place as well where everyone can just say what they want! :) Looking forward to seeing you around more :) Have fun! xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 06:43:02
    - Hey! I agree with Cara, super sexy pic! Lovely to see you here. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:22:57
    - hiya :)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:20:24
    - Yes, I think it'll make a nice change to all the forums linked to big stores too =) Hoping to post more over the weekend... but need to update my profile a bit. I'm glad you like the picture.
      NymphomaniacNess
      13 Apr 2012 15:47:51
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    *waves*
    Honey Flick
    16 Apr 2012 12:10:57
    - Hello Everyone! I'm really quite shy so hoping this will help force me out of my shell a little. Can't wait to read what people are chatting about and add my thoughts here and there. I'll try very hard not to be a lurker (which seems to be my default setting!). About me, I'm Honey Flick, mum of two beautiful girls, sometime poetess, taking of naughty pictures of myself, sort of blogger and newbie submissive. Be gentle with me please? ~Honey~ :lips:
      Honey Flick
      16 Apr 2012 12:10:57
    - Hi Honey, lovely to have you here. I hope you don't lurk too much and join in, we are a lovely bunch. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Apr 2012 12:26:07
    - Thank you! Well I'll try. I've posted a short piece of erotica so I'm trying to be good and keep my word ;)
      Honey Flick
      16 Apr 2012 12:32:41
    - I will have to make a cuppa, get comfy and have a read :) Also just followed you on twitter, you may recognise the pic! If not, it's DynamiteMinx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Apr 2012 12:41:10
    - Thank you :D *skips off to check* x
      Honey Flick
      16 Apr 2012 12:41:57
    - As Minx said, try not to lurk, we are a lovely lot here :) Welcome to the forums! Hope to chat to you and hope to see you around :-D xxx
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:34:01
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    Hello everybody
    Spartan
    15 Apr 2012 22:42:08
    - Hi forum folks, I thought it was time to rustle up the courage to join Cara's forum. Spent some time reading peoples posts on here and it looks like it could be a fun and interesting place to be a part of. S.
      Spartan
      15 Apr 2012 22:42:08
    - Hello there Spartan and welcome to the forum! We certainly hope your comments won't be 'sparse'! ;) Looking forward to seeing more of you about xxx
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 10:10:05
    - Hello and welcome. Hope to see you around the boards. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Apr 2012 12:34:55
    - Welcome to the forum! Pleased you've joined, look forward to seeing more of you around the forum :) xxx
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:34:49
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    ello
    bessy
    12 Apr 2012 08:41:03
    - hi all cara made her own community whoop hehe with a forum that works properly to and i can post using my phone yey fyi theonenonly from sextoys.co.uk for anyone thats from there
      bessy
      12 Apr 2012 08:41:03
    - It's all thanks to Sable tbh - he's done yet another amazing job putting this together, I've just tweaked and polished :) Great to see you here and hopefully using your phone we'll be seeing a lot more of you too! Welcome :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 09:57:26
    - Hey, nice to see you on here! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Apr 2012 12:24:32
    - Welcome to the boards! Hope you enjoy them :) xxx
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:35:22
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    Hello
    Breda
    16 Apr 2012 21:53:38
    - Hello Everybody! I'm new so I said I'd say hello!
      Breda
      16 Apr 2012 21:53:38
    - Hello and welcome! Great to have you aboard ... hope to see you around often xxxx
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2012 11:15:13
    - Hello and welcome. Hope to see you around the boards. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      20 Apr 2012 08:21:53
    - Hello and thanks for the welcome!
      Breda
      20 Apr 2012 09:13:34
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    Hello Everyone
    Rose Rouge
    21 Apr 2012 13:58:00
    - Hey everyone, Recognise lots of faces here, it's great to have everyone in one place - thanks to Cara of course. Used to be Masquerade Minx How is everyone?
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 13:58:00
    - Hello and welcome aboard! So glad you decided to join us - look forward to seeing you around :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 01:38:05
    - Hey hunny, nice to have you around. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:06:03
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    Hey sexy people!
    Kiss_of_Crimson
    20 Apr 2012 16:49:18
    - Hey guys, Kari kindly told me about Cara's personal forum so here I am! ;) Some of you already know me but let me introduce myself a little... I'm Claudia, 24 year old Italian girl. I'm a full-time biology student and an amateur photographer. I enjoy writing erotica and I'm a sex toys addict.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 16:49:18
    - Hello you! So great to have you here. Wow, sexy pic! ~swoons~ :shinywiggle: Really hope to see you around here a lot more and once again, thanks for hopping aboard! :D xxx
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 17:07:45
    - My pleasure Cara! I was missing you way too much!:heart:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 17:14:00
    - Pretty sure I told you... But nice to see you here finally!
      Kera
      20 Apr 2012 17:19:08
    - Hey hunny, so nice to see you here. Your pic :shinywiggle:Oooh yeah!!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:09:25
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    Hi everyone waves*
    Midnight Boudoir
    12 Apr 2012 16:45:22
    - Hi to you all, so glad to be on this new forum and see so many familiar faces, its like coming back home. I just felt I should say hi and hugs to you all! I look forward to chatting with you all on here. Midnight X
      Midnight Boudoir
      12 Apr 2012 16:45:22
    - Hello stranger! Fantastic to see that you have joined us. It really is good here, the forum is all down to my lovely Sable, I am not techy at all! I love it and so grateful to him. Yes lots of familiar faces here, it's nice to have an unbiased ground to chat openly in! Hope to see lots more of you about :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:03:10
    - hello and welcome :)
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:31:57
    - Hey sweetie, Great to see you on here, how are you? x
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 13:48:42
    - Hey gorgeous! Lovely to have you here. :shinywiggle: x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:11:53
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    Greetings
    NudeAndPubic
    13 Apr 2012 15:01:28
    - Good afternoon. I am David, or nudeandpubic on Twitter. I am married to the wonderful @JennifersCloset. Looking forward to being around the forum from time to time. Thank you to Cara for creating it.
      NudeAndPubic
      13 Apr 2012 15:01:28
    - Hello, welcome and you're welcome! Great to see you here - hope you're both getting on ok, love to the kids and bump too ofc! x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 15:13:30
    - Oooh I thought I had already said hello! So sorry. Welcome! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:13:21
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    hello
    rockprincess
    13 Apr 2012 08:47:43
    - hey my name is Sarah, i am looking forward to chatting with everyone and picking up some new tips, and give new advice to others. thanks Cara for making this amazing forum
      rockprincess
      13 Apr 2012 08:47:43
    - Hiya Sarah! I heard mention that you may be joining and I'm glad you decided to. Hope to see more of you about and have lots of fun, sexy chat :) Welcome! xxx
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 09:43:00
    - Hi and welcome! What a lovely wee bunch Cara has here, look forward to getting to know you better. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:15:06
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    Introduction
    bowed
    12 Apr 2012 16:23:29
    - Hi my name is bowed - as in bowed before a superior! An unattached sub seeking a meaningful existence. Ma'am, what a wonderful site and i am so honoured to be an early member, can i wish You every success. If there is anything i can do to help........ b PS camping at the Manor sounds awesome
      bowed
      12 Apr 2012 16:23:29
    - Hello and welcome! you sound interesting, I think the first thing for you to do is to add an avatar :bdsm: ;) Welcome and looking forward to hearing more about you!
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 16:37:49
    - Gosh Ma'am, What a quick response, my bow just got even lower! So excited about getting a reply from the famed CaraSutra - quite made a subs day! Will add an avatar as requested Ma'am b
      bowed
      12 Apr 2012 16:42:32
    - Welcome, none of us bite here, well, not unless you want the Dom/mes to bite
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 18:06:54
    - Thanks Kera, You are making me feel most welcome. Maybe a nibble from a Domme would not go amiss! Very happy to be apart of the family.
      bowed
      12 Apr 2012 18:09:36
    - Good boy ;) Will look forward to seeing your chatter in the other threads then! ;)
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 18:47:09
    - It will be a pleasure Ma'am, this boy likes to please! Just overcoming initial shyness of joining a new group but will certainly gain confidence with Your encouragement!
      bowed
      12 Apr 2012 18:53:22
    - Good good!
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:54:17
    - Confidence growing along with other things under Your guidance Ma'am
      bowed
      13 Apr 2012 08:45:47
    - Hello bowed and welcome. Nice to see a sub with some manners. Hope to see you around the boards. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:21:50
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    hello
    nica
    11 Apr 2012 10:57:25
    - hi im nica , one of cara's posts brought me here
      nica
      11 Apr 2012 10:57:25
    - Egad, good morning and welcome from blighty! BTW your showing your full D.O.B. on your profile at the moment which you may want to change - see Cara's privacy thread :)
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 11:07:19
    - thank you fixed
      nica
      11 Apr 2012 11:12:06
    - Hello and welcome! Great to have you here, glad you decided to come check us out - it's a fun place to be! xxxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:22:05
    - Was just going through all the welcomes and noticed I hadn't said hello. Sorry about that, accept my late welcomes. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:23:27
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    Hello guys
    mrmissspunkle
    24 Apr 2012 12:55:42
    - Hey excited to be here.. Loved the Forum you got going at ST..
      mrmissspunkle
      24 Apr 2012 12:55:42
    - Hi and welcome! Lovely to have you here. :)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 Apr 2012 13:09:41
    - Hello there and welcome to the forum! Thanks - great to have a clean, fresh, neutral ground for us all to have fun and chat :) Hope to see you around :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 13:24:58
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      28 Apr 2012 22:06:53
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    Hi everybody!
    Rose
    01 May 2012 14:19:51
    - Some of you might know me on twitter (@sexwithrose) or from my blog sexwithrose.wordpress.com and some of you don't so I'll introduce myself. I started blogging almost a year ago, I'm interested in naughty, kinky and also vanilla things (pretty much everything interests me) And through twitter and blogging I got to know a lot of wonderful people (including Cara of course) and it got me more and more into the world of sex, toys and everything related. I'm from the Netherlands and if there is anything else you would like to know, just ask. I have no shame (when it comes to naughty things) , you can really ask me anything so don't feel shy! xx Rose
      Rose
      01 May 2012 14:19:51
    - Hello!! Brilliant to have you here, now I get to perv at those long luscious legs all the time ... ;) Hope to see you about lots! xxx
      CaraSutra
      01 May 2012 15:35:13
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    Hi there
    Rebecca
    01 May 2012 18:13:50
    - Hello everyone, I am a sissy wannabe, slave hopeful and given the oportunity a full time girl. I would like help advise and friendship xx
      Rebecca
      01 May 2012 18:13:50
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    Hello
    Boobaloo
    30 Apr 2012 13:16:51
    - Its me... boobaloo Alot of familiar faces here, and a few new ones, looking forward to having a proper look around for those that don't know me My name is Lisa, but I go by boobaloo on most sites/forums and on my blogs, I review sex toys on one blog and write stories and stuff on another blog, I am married, we are exclusive (I do get asked alot about that so best to get it out of the way) I wouldn't say that we are vanilla but although he is very much a Dom, I wouldn't call myself a sub even if I do enjoy that kind of play in the bedroom.
      Boobaloo
      30 Apr 2012 13:16:51
    - Hello there, lovely to have you here, I am glad you joined. Hope to see you around the boards! There's lots of fun chat to get involved with :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      30 Apr 2012 13:34:08
    - Thanks, well fingers crossed I will have some time to participate in the forum, I love forums but unfortunately life seems to take over and I don't always have alot of time to post. I am a first class lurker though lols
      Boobaloo
      30 Apr 2012 13:50:32
    - Hi Boobabloo, nice to see you here. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      30 Apr 2012 14:33:45
    - Hey lady, good to see you here x
      Mrs JoJo
      30 Apr 2012 17:05:13
    - Hiya you two xx
      Boobaloo
      30 Apr 2012 18:19:47
    - hi boob nice to see you on here as well :)
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:19:45
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    Twitter led me here
    Ms_HKM
    26 Apr 2012 14:23:35
    - I came quietly. Not kicking and screaming. I'm Ms_HKM - you'll find me on twitter, in the LH forum or on FL. I'm a twenty something fetishist living in Sheffield. Erm... :condom: << LOL
      Ms_HKM
      26 Apr 2012 14:23:35
    - Be careful of that there twitter... it'll lead you astray :cool: Welcome...
      SandA
      26 Apr 2012 14:42:01
    - Welcome! Twitter might lead you astray but it's just a slippery slope. Now we have you in our grasps :bdsm: or not if that's not your thing :dominatrix:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 17:12:08
    - Welcome !! We're very glad you're here :D xxx
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 12:00:34
    - hi hkm nice to see you on here as well :)
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:23:41
    - Eeeeeeee by eck lass - another local! Nice to see you here *waves*
      edn
      01 May 2012 21:00:43
    - Welcome! Hope to see you around :) xxx
      Morbidia
      01 May 2012 22:18:22
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    Hello!
    Sable
    28 Apr 2012 22:51:33
    - Cara is making cute-kitty eyes at me to get me to post more (or indeed post at all). How could I refuse :)
      Sable
      28 Apr 2012 22:51:33
    - You do need to post more - everyone wants to know more about you! :p
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 22:56:05
    - Yay! Welcome, finally! Nice to see you finally posting. hope to see more of you on here. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      29 Apr 2012 09:43:54
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      30 Apr 2012 17:05:57
    - Hey! Hope to chat to you soon :) welcome! xx
      Morbidia
      01 May 2012 22:19:52
    - Never expected that Cara's forum would be so full of "cuddle bunnies" ;)
      Sable
      01 May 2012 22:25:50
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    Hey
    BrummieGal
    28 Apr 2012 16:36:49
    - Hey Everyone, I came here from googling Cara from Sextoys site lol Looking forward to getting to know you all Tracey x
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 16:36:49
    - I've known Cara now for a while on twitter :) she will always chat and is great for advice :)
      Inyourdreams_2
      28 Apr 2012 20:11:12
    - Totally agree, she been always helpful and such a sweet girl!
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 20:23:57
    - Oh thank you! :D Great to have you here and hope you have lots of fun ;) xxx
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 22:07:33
    - thank you sweetie :D x
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 22:08:39
    - Welcome! Hope to see you around :) xxx
      Morbidia
      01 May 2012 22:20:23
    - :oops2: so sorry, I thought I had already said welcome. Naughty Minx :spank: Hope to see you around. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 May 2012 08:36:37
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    Well hello there...
    Miss Emily Anarchy
    01 May 2012 16:12:33
    - Having been bantering with the lovely Miss Cara / Mistress Cara over on the Twitter for some time, thought I'd come and have a peek and a poke at what you lot are up to. Me: part-time transvestite dominatrix, full-time webmistress, and occasional comedienne, and underemployed at all three. Officially "bold and awesome", "floxified" and many other strange and wonderful compliments paid over the years... ...sadly not enough bills paid. But we'll work with what we got. How are y'all?
      Miss Emily Anarchy
      01 May 2012 16:12:33
    - Hello lovely Emily. Welcome to the forum
      NudeAndPubic
      01 May 2012 17:28:52
    - Bonsoir Ms Anarchy! It's good to see your bold and awesomeness on here as well as Twitter :)
      edn
      01 May 2012 20:12:49
    - Hello sexy lady! Brilliant to have you here.... well... anywhere really but especially here ;) Hope you stick around - you bring sexiness and fun wherever you are! x
      CaraSutra
      02 May 2012 05:24:45
    - Hello and welcome! ;) x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 May 2012 08:38:41
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    Hello All
    Kate
    02 May 2012 10:26:45
    - [FONT=arial]Morning all!!![/FONT] [FONT=arial]It's meeeeeee!!! LOL nice to be back in the boobies of my family again. For those of you that don't know me I am Kate, 29, blue eyes, dark hair and 13 tattoos. I'm a gamer and love all sorts of kink, it's all worth trying once right?![/FONT] [FONT=arial]You can follow me on twitter @TaffyKate[/FONT]
      Kate
      02 May 2012 10:26:45
    - :shinywiggle: Hey gorgeous! You are here! Woohoo! I sense naughtyness in the air! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 May 2012 12:26:29
    - YAY! Great to have you here, missed you. Can't wait to see you more around the forum, sexy lady xxx
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:08:10
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      03 May 2012 15:17:13
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    late arrival...............
    Mrs JoJo
    26 Apr 2012 16:31:41
    - I feel like I've arrived late! Hey all, think most of you know me, if not, then I will look forward to getting to know you all :) Cara, this is a fab lil forum, great work x
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 16:31:41
    - Hey Mrs, not too late at all but if it happens again :bdsm: Great to have you here! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 17:16:39
    - Think I may leave and come back again in 2 days :shinywiggle:
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 17:33:15
    - Now now don't do that, we can give out spanking on a daily basis! :spank:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 18:37:35
    - Ohhh I must stick around then lol
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 19:18:22
    - "Mrs JoJo, post: 1410, member: 69" Please do! :shinywiggle::bdsm:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 19:44:00
    - lol ta x
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 21:15:39
    - Hello you! and thanks. No don't go anywhere or I shall have to stalk you til you return! :p xxx
      CaraSutra
      27 Apr 2012 14:26:23
    - I like stalkers :p
      Mrs JoJo
      27 Apr 2012 14:36:35
    - "CaraSutra, post: 1424, member: 1" Cara I think I've been doing a good job of keeping her here, which reminds me *calls on Mrs Jo Jo* Time for your daily :spank:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Apr 2012 14:44:02
    - Welcome to the Dark Side :-P
      NudeAndPubic
      27 Apr 2012 17:58:22
    - woohooo, i'm awaiting :stroke:
      Mrs JoJo
      27 Apr 2012 22:33:25
    - Hahahaha naughty lady! ;)
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 10:43:29
    - hi jo jo nice to see you on here as well, a lot of us are now all on the same sites, cant go anywhere these days lol :heart:
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:21:44
    - Howdy! Always nice to see someone new, welcome! :-D xxx
      Morbidia
      01 May 2012 22:18:56
    - It's like a village hall gathering, lets break open the beer and sit around the camp fire :p
      Mrs JoJo
      03 May 2012 15:20:35
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    Hi all...
    SandA
    22 Apr 2012 15:28:59
    - [FONT=tahoma]Afternoon everyone, just a quick hi...[/FONT] [FONT=tahoma]I've been knocking about on twitter for a little while now and recognise a few of the faces around here. Also recently started a blog as a bit of an experiment, not sure how that's gonna pan out! So now I'm here too :) [/FONT] [FONT=tahoma]Hoping to get S more involved in the future, but for now she's happy as a voyeur. Looking forward to seeing what everyone has to say...[/FONT]
      SandA
      22 Apr 2012 15:28:59
    - Hello there! Thanks for joining, great to have you here. Following you on Twitter now too! Very sophisticated looking blog and love the bullet train photo on your recent blog but then I have a thing for black and white photography :) Hope to see you about more! xxx
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 15:43:01
    - *waves* Hello! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:07:35
    - @ Cara Thanks and thanks. I was going for a clean and uncluttered layout, but if it comes across as sophisticated I'm happy to take that too! :) @ slm *waves back* hey there you...
      SandA
      23 Apr 2012 12:36:09
    - hi sanda nice to see you on here as well :)
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:22:44
    - Thanks rach74, you too...
      SandA
      03 May 2012 19:00:57
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    Hi!
    A Couple of Wankers
    02 May 2012 18:25:56
    - Hi! Well we have finally got round to joining these forums, we are pretty much late adopters in most walks of life so no surprises it has taken us a while. For those who don't know: We are Alex and Lucy a.k.a. A Couple of Wankers. We both love sex toys and so started a sex toy review (and a bit of other stuff) blog a couple of months ago. Best decision ever - we are both loving working on it, and also loving getting to know everyone in the community. We love to chat sex, sex toys and other stuff, and would love it if you checked us out! Thanks, Lucy and Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      02 May 2012 18:25:56
    - hello and welcome :D
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 18:55:46
    - Hello, welcome, great to have you here - and congrats for also being in Molly's Top 3 for SinfulSunday this week!! Be great to see you around the boards x
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:06:39
    - Hi and welcome to the forum, glad you've managed to get over here. Love reading your reviews and seeing the piccies x
      Mrs JoJo
      03 May 2012 15:16:38
    - Hi guys, nice to see you here.
      SandA
      03 May 2012 19:03:01
    - Sorry for the late welcome. Nice to see you here. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 15:32:00
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    Mabuhay!
    macho99
    05 May 2012 18:01:16
    - Hiya! Greetings from this part of the world. :) Looking forward to getting to know everyone here.
      macho99
      05 May 2012 18:01:16
    - Hiya you! Glad you joined us. Love the avi :) x
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 18:18:25
    - Hi and welcome! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 18:32:42
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    Aloha!
    Pantied Muse
    04 May 2012 17:43:13
    - Hello fellow kinky people. It's been a while since I have participated in forums. I saw Cara promoting her sexy site, so I though that I would become a part of it. I look forward to meeting all of you!
      Pantied Muse
      04 May 2012 17:43:13
    - Hello you! Great to have you here and lok forward to reading more from you around the boards :) Great avi too! :wiggle: xxx
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 17:56:57
    - Hi and welcome. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 18:30:49
    - Thank you, ladies! ;)
      Pantied Muse
      06 May 2012 18:36:12
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    Hi Everyone!
    Wynter Reign
    04 May 2012 22:24:26
    - I am new to this forum and I just wanted to say Hello! I am a sex blogger/reviewer, mom and wife-- not in that order of course. I am happy to be here.
      Wynter Reign
      04 May 2012 22:24:26
    - Lovely to have you here and looking forward to finding out all about you :) Hope to see you around the forum :) x
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 07:13:03
    - Hi and welcome. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 18:31:51
    - Hello! Welcome to the forum, great to have you here :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      07 May 2012 07:38:56
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    Hi
    ElizabethNSpire
    04 May 2012 15:21:36
    - Hi Cara and everyone else... Couldn't resist joining you here! ;) Liz x
      ElizabethNSpire
      04 May 2012 15:21:36
    - Hi! Great to have you (and your fine boobies!) aboard, love that avi! Hope you will jump right on in, get involved and enjoy all the fun chat :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 15:45:10
    - Oh I'll jump right in all right, heck if I'm feeling naughty I might even jump up and down - though that could lead to black eyes! :boobs:
      ElizabethNSpire
      04 May 2012 16:17:13
    - Hi and welcome. Awesome avi! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 18:30:02
    - Glad you like the Avi, as it's all me! ;)
      ElizabethNSpire
      09 May 2012 13:31:46
    - Hi and welcome x
      Mrs JoJo
      09 May 2012 15:10:23
    - Hi Mrs JoJo, it's lovely to have such a welcoming group! Now back to my sex toy reviews... So many toys, so little time... *giggle*
      ElizabethNSpire
      09 May 2012 15:42:19
    - "ElizabethNSpire, post: 2062, member: 89" Ohh I totally agree, I love the 'alternative' world, always welcoming and willing :)
      Mrs JoJo
      10 May 2012 16:02:47
    - *waves* Hey there ;)
      Rose
      12 May 2012 10:23:28
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    Good morning
    kigelia
    08 May 2012 10:13:49
    - Just signed up thought it best to give a basic intro. Budding writer/actor in my spare time. with a fondness for writing erotica when trying to avoid more fruitful work.
      kigelia
      08 May 2012 10:13:49
    - Hello there and welcome aboard! Glad to have you here and looking forward to reading more about you round the forum :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      08 May 2012 10:26:54
    - Hi and welcome to the forum xx
      Mrs JoJo
      08 May 2012 22:43:49
    - Hello and welcome! Hope to see you around the boards. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:18:06
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    Morning!
    Just Pleasure - Chris
    09 May 2012 09:08:23
    - Hey guys, I'm Chris, like adrenaline sports, dislike beurocracy (and paperwork). I also own a sex toy company, am an experienced affiliate marketer, and have time for anyone. I am looking forward to getting involved here :)
      Just Pleasure - Chris
      09 May 2012 09:08:23
    - Hello there, thanks for joining and welcome! x
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 09:28:06
    - Hi chris and welcome, good to see you here x
      Mrs JoJo
      09 May 2012 15:11:02
    - Hi Chris, welcome! Hope to see you about the forums. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:19:13
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    Hi :)
    EssexRandomer
    09 May 2012 13:18:42
    - I'm Mike, just thought i'd say hi :)
      EssexRandomer
      09 May 2012 13:18:42
    - Hiya! Welcome aboard, great to have you here, Hope you enjoy :) Feel free to hop into any of the discussions on the boards or start your own! x
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 13:59:58
    - Hiya! Welcome aboard, great to have you here, Hope you enjoy :) Feel free to hop into any of the discussions on the boards or start your own! x
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 14:00:03
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      09 May 2012 15:09:48
    - Many thanks x
      EssexRandomer
      09 May 2012 15:15:59
    - Hi and welcome!
      Rose
      12 May 2012 10:35:33
    - Hi Mike. Welcome, hope you have fun here. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:21:02
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    Evening all.
    ChrisKinnk
    12 May 2012 21:56:42
    - I recently stumbled upon here and couldn't help but fall through the door. So without further a do, evening all, I grant everyone is in good order. About myself, I have been interested in BDSM for a good few years, usually topping, but sometimes switching (when circumstances allow). This year, my darling wife, Antonia and myself launched Kinky Testers, our blog, where you'll find a good deal of critic and reviews of sex toys, bondage equipment and innumerable other kinky items. It has been tremendous fun, highly enjoyable and a great way to reach out to like minded individuals. Now if you'll excuse me, one moment, I'm just going to find myself a G&T, I do hope they stock Hendricks here...
      ChrisKinnk
      12 May 2012 21:56:42
    - Hello there and welcome to the Cara Sutra forum! You sound very fun :) Also congratulations on being our 100th member! I hope you enjoy it here, it's very fun, open and honest - a neutral place to either chat fun, sex or both - as well as issues relevant to many of us, sex toy reviewing, fetish, blogs, affiliation and more :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      13 May 2012 07:18:57
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      14 May 2012 05:17:52
    - Hi and welcome aboard! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:22:50
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    Hello Everyone!!!
    Mia's Musings
    11 May 2012 15:47:57
    - First day here hopefully one of many!!! Looking forward to the interactions!!!
      Mia's Musings
      11 May 2012 15:47:57
    - Hello and welcome!!! :) xxxx
      CaraSutra
      12 May 2012 05:58:39
    - *waves* Hi there!
      Rose
      12 May 2012 10:22:25
    - *waves* coooeyyyyy :) Welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      14 May 2012 05:42:37
    - Welcome to the forums :D
      llellsee
      14 May 2012 13:25:28
    - Hello and welcome to the forum. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:25:06
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    Ahoy! :>
    t A
    15 May 2012 03:06:17
    - It's tA or Delilah Captor here, from Absolute Debauchery. Kinda glad to be a part of this forum - I've been on/off hunting for a nice place to chill for awhile since my old forum haunt sort of fell apart and this seems like a nice place. Hi y'all!
      t A
      15 May 2012 03:06:17
    - Hello there! Welcome aboard. Glad you found us! :) Loving the posts so far and I will take a nosy at your blog too! xxx
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 09:16:15
    - Welcome! Hope you enjoy it aboard here. :dominatrix:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      15 May 2012 09:47:03
    - Welcome! :) Hope you enjoy it here as much as I have been so far :D
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 11:10:53
    - @Cara - Thankyou! Glad to hear they've been well-received, and thankyou for taking a gander at my blog too :) @Minx/Nymph - Definitely enjoying it. It's a really friendly-feeling place. :D
      t A
      15 May 2012 22:45:46
    - Welcome to the site mate, hope you enjoy your stay here.
      Scott
      16 May 2012 13:35:02
    - Thanks! Definitely enjoying the place so far.
      t A
      17 May 2012 12:06:49
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    ello ello ello
    Scott
    14 May 2012 15:12:30
    - Hi everyone, i have just joinned the forum simply because Cara is amazing and i miss her from the sextoys forum, it's just not the same without you now, so im really happy i found you had this site, and congratulations on the youngen, mini Cara will be here in no time :) anyway i hope i get to know some of you on here soon :)
      Scott
      14 May 2012 15:12:30
    - Awww what are you doing, coming over here and bringing a tear to my eye!! :) That's so lovely :) Glad you've found me here now, and that you get stuck in on the forum! It's a great place to chat as people can be really open and honest, a neutral ground so to speak! I'll see you around the place! :) xxx :shinywiggle:
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 17:34:13
    - Hi Scott, nice to see you here. And awww what a lovely intro. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:27:00
    - I am definately getting involved, i should be doing work but i cant resist coming back on here lol i forgot to say that my name on the sextoys forum was 'SomersetCouple' don't know if you remember me on there, not been able to get on forums and chat lately as i have been so busy :( but trying to change that now. It's nice to meet you too SLM, i am glad you liked my intro :)x
      Scott
      14 May 2012 18:56:58
    - I sure do remember. I'm just the same old SLM but thought I'd show my face for a change! Hopefully see you about more. :dominatrix:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      15 May 2012 08:12:24
    - Ahhh i remember you too, im glad you have decided to put a face to the kinky comments at last lol, hope to chat with you more on here. :bdsm:
      Scott
      15 May 2012 16:44:40
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      31 May 2012 17:20:32
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    Hi everyone
    Pixie-Murree
    17 May 2012 18:09:55
    - Hello everyone, I'm Pixie-Murree and new to this forum although I do also frequent Lovehoney so some of you may know me from there!
      Pixie-Murree
      17 May 2012 18:09:55
    - Hello there and nice to meet you! Hope you enjoy it here. :3
      t A
      18 May 2012 04:34:37
    - Hello there, glad you found us! Welcome to the forum and hope you have lots of fun. Looking forward to getting to know you better :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      18 May 2012 10:33:03
    - Hello chick!
      NymphetamineKiss
      18 May 2012 18:55:33
    - Hey hunny! Nice to see you here ;-) x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      20 May 2012 13:54:50
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      31 May 2012 17:19:14
    - hi nice to see you on here as well
      rach74
      31 May 2012 20:07:53
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    *little wave*
    NymphetamineKiss
    14 May 2012 00:20:26
    - Some of the folks here will already know me... thought it was about time I popped my head around the door. Filled out my profile so that should give most of this, but... I'm a mid 20's (yay, birthday this month), owned and collared slave living with my Master who tends to go by the online name WazDakka. I write a blog as seen below, and if there's anything anyone would like to ask, fire away :) I don't bite (though I love to receive ;) )
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:20:26
    - Hi and welcome to the dark side :p
      Mrs JoJo
      14 May 2012 05:09:00
    - Hello! It's great to see you here, I hope you enjoy! xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 11:48:19
    - Hey and welcome along :D
      llellsee
      14 May 2012 13:23:37
    - Hey! Nice to see you here. I'd recognise those boobies anywhere! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:24:25
    - Haha why thank you oh minxy one :P
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 19:55:47
    - Welcome to the site, i look forward to speaking with you on here :)
      Scott
      14 May 2012 20:00:52
    - hi nice to see you on here as well
      rach74
      31 May 2012 20:08:32
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    Hello everyone!
    AliMc
    04 May 2012 07:54:45
    - I'm new here :)
      AliMc
      04 May 2012 07:54:45
    - Hello and welcome! Hope you enjoy all the mad and sexy fun :) x
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 11:40:48
    - Hello and welcome. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 15:52:36
    - hi nice to see you on here as well
      rach74
      31 May 2012 20:09:13
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    Hello
    LFC 78
    19 May 2012 08:13:17
    - Hi guys, I would like to introduce myself as a newbie to the forum/website, it looks really good and I am looking forward to getting involved in some interesting topics on the forum !!
      LFC 78
      19 May 2012 08:13:17
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      19 May 2012 13:25:35
    - Hello there, glad you found us! I'm sure you'll have lots of fun here, we're a really friendly group, open minded, sexy and chatty :) Welcome aboard !! xxx
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 06:29:59
    - Hello and welcome. Hope you have fun. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      20 May 2012 13:55:42
    - Welcome!
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:50:24
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    hello
    lady-minx
    14 May 2012 16:23:47
    - I just came in to say hello to you all. So here we go :wave:
      lady-minx
      14 May 2012 16:23:47
    - Hello there! Welcome to the forum. Loving the avi btw, very hot :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 17:31:00
    - Hi there and thank-you for the welcome xxxxx
      lady-minx
      14 May 2012 17:36:21
    - Hello from one Minx to another! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:27:58
    - Well hello there minx sexy minds think alike :rofl:
      lady-minx
      14 May 2012 18:30:37
    - Welcome to the site, hope you enjoy your stay here :)
      Scott
      14 May 2012 19:19:33
    - Thank-you for the welcome xxxxx
      lady-minx
      14 May 2012 19:27:08
    - Welcome, hope you have fun!
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:50:58
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    Thought I should join!
    Chili
    10 May 2012 19:18:57
    - Thought it was about time I joined! ^_^
      Chili
      10 May 2012 19:18:57
    - Hey there and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      10 May 2012 20:46:07
    - Hey Chilli! Great to have you here, so glad you decided to join :D xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 May 2012 08:39:14
    - Hey there Chilli, love the name! Hope to see you about the boards. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:20:16
    - I must try and get on here more!
      Chili
      01 Jun 2012 13:44:18
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    Puts toe gently into the water.....
    uksrob
    27 May 2012 12:34:06
    - Hello Everyone, what a fab idea, an intro thread. I've seen quite a few of your tweets about this site and forum, but though I've intended coming across and taking a look for a while, I only just got round to doing so. No, I didn't procrastinate on it, honest! Thus I took the plunge and joined, so firstly thank you for allowing me in. I'm Rob, yes the user name took me ages to think up, and the "s" bit stands for subbie, but over time I shortened it down. So just to say Hi everyone, and thanks for letting me in, and I look forward to being part of the forums.
      uksrob
      27 May 2012 12:34:06
    - Waves hello welcome to the forum xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      27 May 2012 18:59:54
    - Thank you so much.
      uksrob
      27 May 2012 19:40:29
    - hello, welcome and great to see you joining us! :) x
      CaraSutra
      28 May 2012 14:07:07
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2614, member: 1" Thank you very much, I love it. :)
      uksrob
      30 May 2012 10:17:13
    - Another welcome from me :)
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:45:40
    - Aha... Hello there... Hope you enjoy wiggling your toe in the water, and if you look carefully enough I think there may be some tea around here somewhere :)
      SandA
      01 Jun 2012 13:51:11
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    Hello and :-)
    London_Sub1968
    02 Jun 2012 17:21:36
    - Hi, i am Chris and i am a 43 yo Submissive Guy in Londona nd looking for new friends and pop ove and say Hello :-) i dont bite unless told to xx
      London_Sub1968
      02 Jun 2012 17:21:36
    - Hello there and welcome to the forum! :)
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 18:14:34
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    Thought it was about time
    Abots
    05 Jun 2012 14:26:22
    - Been lurking for a while, thought I'd join up over here too :)
      Abots
      05 Jun 2012 14:26:22
    - Hello and welcome! Great to have you here :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      06 Jun 2012 08:05:22
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    Hi
    Calie
    10 Jun 2012 22:06:16
    - I'm Calie, I'm 26 from Kent. Not sure what else to do say, so hi.
      Calie
      10 Jun 2012 22:06:16
    - Hello and welcome to the forum! Great to see you here, hope you get stuck into the chat :) x
      CaraSutra
      11 Jun 2012 13:33:21
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    Hi Everyone :)
    Demonic
    11 Jun 2012 19:47:57
    - I just wanted to say this is a great site. I've browsed around it for awhile now but i felt it was time to sign up and join in. I love the different elements of this site. Erotica, fetish, forums, reviews just something different each time. The journal is lovely too lately with the heels posts i must say. Take care Everyone
      Demonic
      11 Jun 2012 19:47:57
    - Hello there you :) Good on you for signing up, hope to see you around lots! x
      CaraSutra
      11 Jun 2012 19:55:07
    - Thank You!!! You have a wonderful site :)
      Demonic
      11 Jun 2012 20:31:59
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    Evening from New York
    Stal Lionne
    12 Jun 2012 00:16:49
    - Hello all. Much props to Cara for setting up this awesome site. Looking forward to some interesting convos and debates.
      Stal Lionne
      12 Jun 2012 00:16:49
    - Hiya! Welcome to the forum, going to download that Games with Friends book of yours now to read and review, got high hopes for it! Hope you have fun here. Enjoy. x
      CaraSutra
      12 Jun 2012 14:54:30
    - Hi and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      12 Jun 2012 16:08:39
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    Evening all!
    Ricochet
    11 Jun 2012 21:41:07
    - Hello! I'm Ricochet, also known as Dan. I've been lurking for far too long now, and I thought it was about time I joined. I live in south Hampshire and I'm looking for knowledge and interesting stuff. How the devil are you?
      Ricochet
      11 Jun 2012 21:41:07
    - Hello and welcome. Great thanks! Glad you've joined us and hope you enjoy the forum, looking forwards to learning more about you :) x
      CaraSutra
      12 Jun 2012 15:02:44
    - Hi Dan and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      12 Jun 2012 16:10:05
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    Hey all
    tony
    12 Jun 2012 12:11:32
    - hi all 1st time on site like this and open minded for anything. like femdom, strapon, bbw, smothering giving oral (front and back) forced feminisation and crossdressing. tgirls ts anything else really. look forward to chatting Tony
      tony
      12 Jun 2012 12:11:32
    - Hello there and welcome to the forum, great to have you here :)
      CaraSutra
      12 Jun 2012 14:53:56
    - Hi and welcome to the forum, you've come to the right place xx
      Mrs JoJo
      12 Jun 2012 16:10:52
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    Greetings Fellow Members
    Roger Perry
    19 Jun 2012 10:33:27
    - I just wanted to introduce myself by saying that i managed to find this site through an Ad by Mistress Cara and wanted to share some drawings , poetry and stories as well perhaps, as engage in some convivial company and conversation. I would love to know whether we can post our own stories and poetry and artwork on here. I already have an upcoming gallery on Dommes.co.uk but it has not been delivered publicly as i am not quite ready to present it in its present state. I will happily post drawings on here , although i don't think these old ones are as good as i could make them if i tried much harder. Kind Regards to All, Roger.
      Roger Perry
      19 Jun 2012 10:33:27
    - Hello there and welcome x
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 22:07:44
    - I would recommend putting your own writings and art on your own site and linking to it through your signature, so that the forum does not become merely a hosting space for your personal writings and therefore loses the essence of it being a community/forum. :) thanks
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 22:08:46
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    Well Hello!
    Jo387
    19 Jul 2012 14:01:19
    - hello :wave: right to start of tell you a bit about me, im joe. some of you may remember me as i helped admin naughtynightsuk on the forums, im on a diffrent name as i was jo3 on there but i have to have 5 letters here lol i also had a twitter account, but very rarely use it in all honesty i might start using it again :shrug: but i always say that. so as i say some of you may know me already and any advice i can give then i will be happy to give it, but i thought i would finaly sign up to cara's forum been meaning to do it for ages. (looking great by the way cara i like the colors and nice layout) and say hello to you all. also if theres any qustions you would like to ask then feel free, i will be around the forum for a bit reading all these posts that i have missed out on. talk to you all soon and stay sexy :p
      Jo387
      19 Jul 2012 14:01:19
    - Hi jo and welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      22 Jul 2012 21:53:24
    - Hello there and welcome! Great to have you aboard :)
      CaraSutra
      23 Jul 2012 10:14:31
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    Hey
    Sir LBC
    25 Jun 2012 12:55:24
    - Hi there. I'm a n00b ... not sure what else I should say. Just wanted to say Hi. HI.
      Sir LBC
      25 Jun 2012 12:55:24
    - HI! ~waves~ welcome aboard, great to have you here, hope you enjoy! xxx
      CaraSutra
      25 Jun 2012 12:58:20
    - hi and welcome x
      Mrs JoJo
      05 Jul 2012 21:00:34
    - Hello there...I am a newbie too...It's good to be at CaraSutra.
      samantha143
      06 Aug 2012 06:09:43
    - Hello welcome! :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      06 Aug 2012 11:01:17
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    I have arrived!
    SubReiSkyeM
    03 Aug 2012 01:31:44
    - Finally got around to making an account here on Monday! Hopefully I'll be making posts here often. Some of you may recognise me from the SexToys forums a while back. If not, my name is Rei and I tend to write some sex toy reviews when I feel up to it. I'm hugely into BDSM and am submissive to my Daddy Mutogene. Looking forward to interacting with all you fine people!
      SubReiSkyeM
      03 Aug 2012 01:31:44
    - Welcome!! Great to have you here. Wow, busy, only caught up with this now! Hope you're enjoying the forum xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2012 09:07:43
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    Hello everybody!
    Roger Volt
    25 Aug 2012 10:23:04
    - Dear Mistress Cara Sutra, dear Mistresses of the forum and dear all, I'm Roger and I discovered this wonderful site of wonderful Mistress Cara Sutra! I'm a newbie to this magic world but I have a strong interest in male chastity (I also own a device!!). Anyway, I only would like to say Hi all!! Roger
      Roger Volt
      25 Aug 2012 10:23:04
    - Hello and welcome :) I am planning a new area for subs like you soon too. x
      CaraSutra
      25 Aug 2012 16:17:22
    - Many thanks!! Yes I'll ask your permission to join it!! Thank you!
      Roger Volt
      25 Aug 2012 16:38:52
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    Hi all
    bizwor
    02 Sep 2012 15:22:39
    - I am a male sub in my mid forties. Not had as much experience as I would have liked but that's life I suppose. Really into being tied up or locked in somewhere. I would like to have a go at being a slave for a domme. Having to do everything I am told. So really just love to be dominated.
      bizwor
      02 Sep 2012 15:22:39
    - welcome aboard!
      CaraSutra
      02 Sep 2012 17:37:53
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    Hello all
    Denied Boy
    10 Sep 2012 09:40:49
    - Mistress Cara, and everyone here I hope you all are good. My name is Moe I'm 30 submissive boy who believes he doesn't deserve to take control of his own pleasure. I know Mistresss Cara from her twitter and i can not resist but admit how wonderful and amazing she is. I love reading her posts.
      Denied Boy
      10 Sep 2012 09:40:49
    - Hello, thanks and welcome! I will add you (as you are a submissive) to the group who are able to view and post in the FemDom area too.
      CaraSutra
      10 Sep 2012 10:18:12
    - Hello, I totally agree with you on Cara's posts... she has an amazing style! Sissy
      Just Sissy
      12 Sep 2012 11:28:01
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    Hello
    Just Sissy
    12 Sep 2012 11:26:47
    - First of all I want to thank Mistress Cara for the chance to be here. I'm a Sissy slave. My Mistress liked the word so much, that she suggested Sissy would be a great name for me. Well, what else could be interesting about me: I wear a chastity cage 24/7... I'm married to my Mistress, we have kids... which is quite difficult sometimes. I'm a normal [S]guy[/S] Sissy slave. Yours, Sissy
      Just Sissy
      12 Sep 2012 11:26:47
    - Hello there and welcome to the forum!
      CaraSutra
      12 Sep 2012 12:00:11
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    Hey from Tessa!
    Tessa Wanton
    13 Sep 2012 14:19:39
    - Hello!! I have been meaning to join the forum for ages, but now I have I thought I'd say hi! I am a writer of erotica, and here to chat and learn. Although I write fiction, I like to think it's fairly realistic, and if i'm going to be realistic then chatting is the way to learn! Feel free to chat to me I don't bite! Well, unless you ask nicely! Tessa xxx http://www.tessawanton.com
      Tessa Wanton
      13 Sep 2012 14:19:39
    - Hello and welcome to the forum! :D Great to have you here xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 Sep 2012 13:19:25
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    Are you a newbie here?
    CaraSutra
    03 Nov 2012 16:35:23
    - Then come say hello! We love to welcome new members so please say hello in this section & let us know a bit about you if you feel so inclined :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      03 Nov 2012 16:35:23
    - Mistress I'm a transvestite sissy whore in Gloucestershire and I am looking for a Mistress to be my pimp and punish my pathetic cock and make me wank my cock into my mouth so i eat my own cum. I am willing to be a tranny prostitute to earn my mistress money from my ass and mouth taking lots of cum. I always dress like a slut and whore and wear high heels and pink or black mini dress and leopard print thong I can also be your pet and you put a collar and lead on me and drag me around like a dog. Your tranny sissy Louisa xxx txt me on 07435003245
      TrannyLouisa
      08 Nov 2012 09:51:44
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    Greetings From Tennessee
    Houdini
    26 Nov 2012 14:09:17
    - Hello. I'm finding your website very interesting. I just found out that I am a switch (according to one test I did: 27% Sub, 9% Dom and 64% Switch). I find myself immensely interested in my partners pleasure but ask too often if everything is ok and need to stick to safe word usage instead, though I'd never harm anyone I know. I think I am capable of more on the Dom side and shy away from humilation on the Sub side, though if privacy were ensured I could let go I think, and that would be very interesting indeed. I still have a lot to find out I'm sure.
      Houdini
      26 Nov 2012 14:09:17
    - Hello there and welcome to the forum! Hope you have lots of fun here and find things of interest as well as new friends. xxx
      CaraSutra
      26 Nov 2012 15:04:24
    - Thanks for the welcome. I didn't realize until later that you and most members here were English (which is a good thing) or I would have said "Tennessee, USA". I don't assume everyone is from the US as some do. I have several friends in the UK and I've come to believe I am a misplaced brit which they find humorus. Maybe I can buy my family castle in the town of my last name there some day - well I can at least dream. Here's to great dreams: Cheers.
      Houdini
      27 Nov 2012 16:41:16
    - Here's to that dream, I wouldn't say no to a castle! x
      CaraSutra
      28 Nov 2012 13:55:27
    - Hi ans welcome to the forum x
      Mrs JoJo
      01 Dec 2012 07:34:41
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    new guy here
    nickessex
    10 Dec 2012 16:58:29
    - new horny disabled guy here from essex maybe up for anything or just some help with my toys
      nickessex
      10 Dec 2012 16:58:29
    - Hello and welcome!
      CaraSutra
      15 Dec 2012 09:47:09
    - Hi and welcome to the forum
      Mrs JoJo
      18 Dec 2012 20:17:02
    - hi jojo
      nickessex
      20 Dec 2012 21:20:12
    - Hope you enjoy and have a look around
      CaraSutra
      04 Jan 2013 12:18:56
    - Hey and welcome, The forums are split up sections which are a great idea for finding things easily. Also the search bar is good. If you need any help and advice just ask :)
      Rose Rouge
      02 Feb 2013 18:43:10
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    Hello =)
    02dohvia
    06 Nov 2012 15:35:27
    - Hi I am new here although I know of cara and her work on the vibe. Thought I would come and say hi as recently returned to the vibe and notice someone was missing... Cara Sutra. So here I am having a mooch and notice Cara has had a little boy. Congratulations. xx Any who that explains why I am here =) I am easy to talk to and I know a few familiar faces from another forum so no doubt we will have plenty to talk about =) Hi everyone else looking forward to getting to know some of you some more xx
      02dohvia
      06 Nov 2012 15:35:27
    - Hey hey! I remember you. Aw thanks for noticing me missing! Yep I resigned, have been pregnant & now have lil mini man. Welcome aboard - great to have you here xxx
      CaraSutra
      06 Nov 2012 16:27:05
    - Awww hun well I am now a MOD at the vibe now =) I recently had a baby girl which is why I wasn't there much through the past year she was born 21.07.12 so I now have one of each =) Hows motherhood treating you? I saw you won an excite award congratulations on that win =) xx
      02dohvia
      06 Nov 2012 16:51:05
    - lol congratulations, I don't hear much from there these days, seems to have gone very quiet. Aw congrats on your littlun! Mine's a boy, 29th October :) Two boys now! Yeah the very lovely Xcite Books were very kind to me. Thank you. x
      CaraSutra
      07 Nov 2012 16:14:15
    - I just read your blog about Blue, such a beautiful piece, the main surprise was that your Blue was 7lb 13.5oz and my Ellie was 7lb 13oz so similar in weight :heart:. We getting a bit busier due to that time of the year(Testing), Also we have gained some more regular members who are there throughout the year and some more have gained VIP status so getting quite exciting :). Just trying to keep the motivation going now . Hows you and Blue been since the birth?xx
      02dohvia
      08 Nov 2012 13:30:50
    - How did I forget to say Hello and welcome? Spank me now,I'm a naughty girl :spank:
      Mrs JoJo
      10 Mar 2013 11:32:30
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    hello
    portsmouthguy
    29 Mar 2013 00:27:41
    - This looks like a fun forum, hello everyone!
      portsmouthguy
      29 Mar 2013 00:27:41
    - Hi Portsmouthguy!
      AliMc
      10 Apr 2013 01:29:58
    - Hi AliMc, thank you for replying. I'm fumbling about trying to find my way around this site at the moment. You are welcome to get in contact for a chat any time.
      portsmouthguy
      11 Apr 2013 23:37:30
    - Hey great to see you online :) Need some new threads opened around here for people to discuss things on so please feel free to share any thoughts you have! xx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2013 19:16:18
    - Thanks Cara
      portsmouthguy
      14 Apr 2013 00:12:58
    - You're welcome xxx
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:19:33
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    Hello!
    SophieM
    05 Apr 2013 20:25:05
    - Hello everyone! I'm new here, have just joined. I didn't realise Cara had a forum...shame on me! Figured the first thing I would do is introduce myself, so, my name's Sophie (if you haven't already guessed from my username), I'm 21 from Greater Manchester, and very easy going - This makes me sound like I'm on some sort of dating show... I have my own blog, but it's still early days. Anyway, looking forward to spending some time here and meeting new people!. :) x
      SophieM
      05 Apr 2013 20:25:05
    - Hi Sophie, welcome to the forum!
      AliMc
      10 Apr 2013 01:31:15
    - Hello great to see you here! Hope you will come spend more time with us when you can :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:21:17
    - Hi Everyone, Just joined. I am the owner of victoriaswonderland.com. Our slogan: "If you like us, tell others, if you don't, tell us" Please follow us on twitter at Vic_Wonderland. Thanks and have a great day.
      Victoria's Wonderland
      25 Apr 2013 21:10:42
    - Hello and welcome :)
      CaraSutra
      26 Apr 2013 12:06:52
    - [quote="Victoria's Wonderland, post: 4446, member: 458"]Hi Everyone, Just joined. I am the owner of victoriaswonderland.com. Our slogan: "If you like us, tell others, if you don't, tell us" Please follow us on twitter at Vic_Wonderland. Thanks and have a great day.[/quote] That's a good slogan :)
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 01:44:14
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    Newbie alert!
    RedEyes
    27 Jun 2013 19:44:34
    - Hey all, I'm Garry, 38, from Birmingham(ish). Just found the forum, looking good!:) It looks like there's plenty of fun to be had here so I think I'll be sticking around!
      RedEyes
      27 Jun 2013 19:44:34
    - It's very fun here, in my opinion! Great to have you aboard, welcome :)
      CaraSutra
      27 Jun 2013 19:57:10
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    I see familiar faces/names...
    AmethystQueen
    28 Jun 2013 22:02:40
    - Hi! I've been reading Cara Sutra's blog, but somehow missed that you had this place here. I love forums! So glad you have one. I see some here that I ran into at EF. Others are familiar to me through their blogs. Either way, I'm happy to have found you all here and expect to be a regular contributer! Now, off to reply, like and subscribe to threads!
      AmethystQueen
      28 Jun 2013 22:02:40
    - Hurray! Glad you found us, welcome :)
      CaraSutra
      29 Jun 2013 09:49:14
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    Hello from Wales :)
    FesureMaybe
    27 Jun 2013 17:37:51
    - Hello all Im Abbey im 20 and Im from Wales as you proberly guessed ;) x
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jun 2013 17:37:51
    - Hi Abbey welcome to the forums xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      27 Jun 2013 17:41:17
    - Hiya and welcome!! Xx
      CaraSutra
      29 Jun 2013 09:50:31
    - Hey!
      AmethystQueen
      29 Jun 2013 17:18:20
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    Hopped over here from EF!
    SecretlySensuous
    21 Jun 2013 00:02:30
    - Hey everyone! My username was supposed to be "SecretlySensuous", but I typoed. :P Checking out the forum here to see if this is a community I belong in, hoping to meet people and share info. Currently trying to figure out blogging stuff...and suffering a bit from information overload...
      SecretlySensuous
      21 Jun 2013 00:02:30
    - Hello and welcome I am sure if you ask Cara very nicely she will be able to sort out the typo xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      21 Jun 2013 00:13:05
    - I can sort it! :) Sorry I have been so terribly delayed welcoming you, busy weekend! :) Great to see you here xxx
      CaraSutra
      26 Jun 2013 13:44:51
    - All sorted. Welcome, welcome, welcome xx
      CaraSutra
      26 Jun 2013 14:05:23
    - Thanks so much!! Very nice site, and congrats again on your award. :)
      SecretlySensuous
      26 Jun 2013 14:10:54
    - Thank you :) I should write here more really, open more threads and things, but I am only me. But then at least I am not called Fred :) haha xxx
      CaraSutra
      26 Jun 2013 14:27:37
    - Welcome! Hope to get to know you a little better. Hope you enjoy it here. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Jun 2013 17:33:21
    - "CaraSutra, post: 4724, member: 1" Much to straight talking to be a Fred xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      27 Jun 2013 17:36:34
    - I can totally understand the information overload when learning how to blog. I wish you the best in your blogging future! I was also at EF.
      AmethystQueen
      30 Jun 2013 20:45:20
    - "AmethystQueen, post: 4831, member: 500" Thanks! What route are you taking post-EF? Are you planning to blog as well or just hanging out for a bit?
      SecretlySensuous
      01 Jul 2013 02:29:33
    - [COLOR=#800080]That's a very good question. When I first got to EF I thought I would make a great sex toy blogger with my background and everything, but with all that went down I have no idea how I would make it just starting out. In my experience no one wants to work with you when a blog is so young and I only have less than 10 toys to review AND Google's already seen those reviews on EF soooo.... I'm sunk. Now with Blogger actin' the fool, I really don't see how I could start out especially without any help from those two places. Such a pity too since I love to write and have my own unique style.... So, I guess I'm just hangin' out till something else presents itself. [/COLOR]
      AmethystQueen
      01 Jul 2013 05:09:21
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    Salutations!
    Camryn
    10 Aug 2013 19:40:21
    - Hello everyone, I'm Camryn. I'm in the midst of a period of rapid-fire personal growth, so who I am is difficult to say for certain. What I do know is that in learning about my own sexuality I've come to love sex toys and learning from others on the same journey. I love to read, and at the moment I've swapped my stacks of books for a long list of blogs. I'm a bit of, er, a lot of, a lurker, but I'm learning to just jump in, both online and off. Oh, and dildos are my favorites. *grins*
      Camryn
      10 Aug 2013 19:40:21
    - Hi Camryn! Lovely to meet you, you'll find that we are a friendly group on here and look forward to chatting with you. You say that you've been reading Blogs? Do you have any in particular that you like to read?
      Mel Macfarlane
      12 Aug 2013 08:57:05
    - Hello and welcome! Glad you've joined us, looking forward to seeing you more round here and chatting :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Aug 2013 12:51:24
    - [quote="Mel Macfarlane, post: 5083, member: 502"]Hi Camryn! Lovely to meet you, you'll find that we are a friendly group on here and look forward to chatting with you. You say that you've been reading Blogs? Do you have any in particular that you like to read?[/quote] Thank you. Yes, it's surprisingly addictive. Off the top of my head, Dangerous Lilly, Beck and Her Kinks, A Bedroom Blog, Deviant Dildos, are a few that I'm particularly fond of at the moment. There are far more than I ever expected to find!
      Camryn
      12 Aug 2013 20:53:27
    - "CaraSutra, post: 5094, member: 1" Thank you :-)
      Camryn
      12 Aug 2013 20:54:26
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    Saying "hello"..
    ShimmeringCloud
    13 Aug 2013 13:15:43
    - When reading one of CaraSutra's reviews, I saw some recent forum posts that spoke to me, so I decided to check it out. So, here I am! I joined to engage in conversations and discussions, something I also like to do for my business. In my daily life, I guide others (and especially half-vanilla couples) in their journey into kink, providing personal advise and the products they may need. Feel free to read my profile to see what I'm all about. And if anyone has questions.. go ahead and ask.
      ShimmeringCloud
      13 Aug 2013 13:15:43
    - Oh you may be able to help with something I am writing! What are your top 3 products for a couple who are thinking of experimenting?
      Mel Macfarlane
      14 Aug 2013 10:54:21
    - I'm curious what you are writing about Mel. You can always PM me if you don't want to put it out here. Here are the three products I'd recommend, but when I do personal recommendations, I always find out about their kinks first.. 1. Wartenberg pinwheel; the sensations are incredible, you can vary between pleasure and pain. 2. Suede flogger; this is our best-seller. Not only because of the great balance between thud and sting, but because you can use it for sensation play as well. 3. A couple of lengths of 6 mm hemp rope, for example 2 x 30' and 2 x 15'. The longer ones are great for chest harnesses or body harnesses on smaller people, and the shorter ones can be used for ankle or wrist cuffs. Please, feel free to ask any other questions you may have.
      ShimmeringCloud
      14 Aug 2013 11:08:31
    - Hello welcome to the forum! Could I ask that your profile is amended. According to my forum rules: [LIST] [*]No website names, URLs etc as user names, this constitutes advertising from a company on my forum and your user name will be changed as appropriate. [/LIST] Therefore please let me know a personal name or handle I can change your user name to, as this is not an area for companies, it's for people :) Thank you!
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2013 13:58:08
    - I'm so sorry CaraSutra, I didn't mean to advertise, it's simply the name I use everywhere. I'll change it immediately. I'm both though, a person running a company.. a consultant, writer and reviewer. You might have seen me around elsewhere.
      ShimmeringCloud
      14 Aug 2013 14:01:13
    - Hello Yes I talk to you on Twitter :) Using your company logo and name here though makes it a bit unfair - it's really not a place for companies to advertise their site just as Mel isn't linking to her own sex toys site as her user name or in her avatar or signature. I hope you can understand. If you wish to discuss the possible advertising options with me then I would be happy to email you the options. Please let me know what other name I can amend your profile name to. Many thanks
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2013 14:03:20
    - I have never heard of a Wartenberg pinwheel.... I will be googling it asap ha ha! I have never owned a suede flogger either! What are the most hardcore items that you have used? I am fascinated by the BDSM lifestyle but too much of a softie to indulge!
      Mel Macfarlane
      19 Aug 2013 13:04:57
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    Who are you?
    Mel Macfarlane
    22 Aug 2013 14:27:24
    - Introduce yourself, I dare you! I'll start. My name is Melissa Macfarlane and I run and online and home party sex toy business. I have 5 children (six if you include the husband) and enjoy wine... lots of it! Your turn!
      Mel Macfarlane
      22 Aug 2013 14:27:24
    - I'm Ali. I work in customer service and review sex toys in my spare time on my website. I'm in a long distance relationship. No children, but would like to someday. I enjoy video games.
      AliMc
      22 Aug 2013 17:12:11
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    Hello from Suffolk
    AlexR
    21 Aug 2013 23:00:06
    - Hi guys and gals. I'm Alex from Suffolk. I'm a 32 year old guy who is married with two boys. Although not in a domme/submissive relationship I have started getting my wife to spank me and play/clamps my nipples. These are my main kinks.
      AlexR
      21 Aug 2013 23:00:06
    - Welcome!
      AliMc
      22 Aug 2013 02:39:08
    - Welcome! How are you enjoying your new kinky lifestyle? Do you think that you will explore further?
      Mel Macfarlane
      22 Aug 2013 14:20:05
    - To be honest I've been into some kinks for a long time but only now feel I can talk about them to my wife. Sounds odd as marriage should be about trust and openness. I've had some fun times playing with other couples as a sub (before marriage) but want to explore more things with her.
      AlexR
      24 Aug 2013 00:31:20
    - Hello and welcome! Great to have you here. It's really refreshing to hear of someone getting into the kinky lifestyle from the start. Good luck with all your fetish adventures! Hope you will stick around so we can get to know you better. Let us know how you get on with everything. Cara x
      CaraSutra
      25 Aug 2013 15:55:45
    - Oh good luck! I hope your wife is enjoying it too! Its nice that you feel that you can finally open up to her :)
      Mel Macfarlane
      27 Aug 2013 08:02:54
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    Hello Guys
    Harry Smith
    12 Nov 2013 12:02:17
    - Hi I am Harry Smith. New to this Forum. Hope to get connect with you.Share your Experience with me so let me know you Easily.
      Harry Smith
      12 Nov 2013 12:02:17
    - Hello and welcome! I hope you have fun here. xx
      CaraSutra
      13 Nov 2013 11:13:11
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    Hola!
    Mistress Selena
    13 Jan 2014 18:03:42
    - Hello, Here I am diving in. I'm a lifestyle Domme planning to branch out into becoming a part time Pro-Domme. I've just started a website/blog and I'm excited to watch it grow. It's going slowly but surely since my pesky day job tends to get in the way! I've been reading a lot of the blogs featured here for a couple of years now so I feel I will be learning from the best. I just need to remember not to adjust CSS at 2am. I really should know better by now!
      Mistress Selena
      13 Jan 2014 18:03:42
    - Welcome!
      AliMc
      13 Jan 2014 18:33:16
    - hello and welcome to the forum! Great to have you aboard :) Looking forward to finding out more about you. xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 Jan 2014 13:02:43
    - *waves* Hope you have fun in your new venture :)
      NymphetamineKiss
      27 Jan 2014 19:03:19
    - Hello to you! I'm a fellow blogger/author/creator and it's only lately that I've seriously started to promote my work. If there's any help I can give please ask! Good luck with your future adventures honey!:)
      Lexia Thornton
      28 Feb 2014 23:40:21
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    Why Hello There!
    Lexia Thornton
    28 Feb 2014 23:41:46
    - [FONT=verdana]Greetings to all you lovely people! I'm Lexia Thornton, Author and Scribbler of Lexia Thornton Erotica.[/FONT] [FONT=verdana]I've just joined Cara Sutra's Forum and looking forward to getting to know more like-minded folks as well as shamelessly promoting my work a little too so please feel free to say hi!...;) [/FONT]
      Lexia Thornton
      28 Feb 2014 23:41:46
    - Hi there! Welcome aboard. We need some more chat around these parts so feel free to make yourself comfortable and to invite many others along for the ride too! :) xxxxxx
      CaraSutra
      04 Mar 2014 17:08:06
    - Welcome, Lexia!
      AliMc
      04 Mar 2014 23:03:32
    - [FONT=arial black]Thanks for the warm welcome! I must warn you, I can chat for Britain so guess I'm in the right place! xx:boogie: [/FONT]
      Lexia Thornton
      06 Mar 2014 05:49:49
    - "AliMc, post: 5479, member: 87" [FONT=arial black]Greetings to you too AliMc![/FONT]
      Lexia Thornton
      06 Mar 2014 05:50:37
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    Hello to everyone
    Neilmac
    09 Mar 2014 00:33:08
    - Hi all, new member here from West Yorkshire. Friendly guy, open minded, intelligent and willing to discuss just about anything, as long as it involves consenting adults.
      Neilmac
      09 Mar 2014 00:33:08
    - Hi Neil
      AliMc
      09 Mar 2014 08:13:04
    - Heys and welcome :)
      CaraSutra
      26 Mar 2014 18:59:09
Chat
- General Chat
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    Easter Weekend
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 15:29:36
    - what did you all get up to over the Easter weekend? The weather wasn't that good here unfortunately :( But lots of chocolate was consumed!
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:29:36
    - chocolate, chocolate and more chocolate. Friday saw me spend £22 on stationery and god knows how much on Easter eggs, Saturday I saw my mum, mums partner, dad and brother for my brothers birthday, Sunday spent some time with Master, and yesterday was spent sorting out many of my character profiles and getting ready for NaNoWriMo 7 month early.
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 16:04:09
    - Mmm stationery :D Wow you are early! NaNoWriMo isn't til November! :p Did you enter Molly's SinfulSunday competition for Easter? x
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 16:13:11
    - I know it isn't, but if I'm correct in working it out, I'm having to make 13 separate plots that have something that connects them together by October 31st.. And then depending what happens with everything in my life, I do need to plan early. And no, not entered anything else since your Fetish Friday competition, not really been writing much at the moment, and it's starting to show.
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 16:20:18
    - Easter was filled with lots of family get together (mine and the misters)! :( glad that's all over and the next lot wont be till xmas! ha also was a bit unwell, but im ok now :) Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:49:11
    - I had to work :( outside and it got cold & NO CHOCOLATE ! stamps foot wants chocolate xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 20:28:36
    - OMG no chocolate over Easter?! You have to make up for that!! xxx :eek:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:04:22
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    social games :)
    Diamonds
    11 Apr 2012 20:47:03
    - who has the social games words with friends and draw something? morby has just told me about them and ive just downloaded them. if you got them can you post your user name so i can find more people to play against :)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 20:47:03
    - I have Words with Friends! I love it. I usually update my games while lazing in bed at night :) I think my user name is Cara Sutra (with the space in the middle) I'm on Path which is like a socialling network but seemingly just for iPhone users? xx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:13:10
    - I am currently playing Draw Something, Words With Friends, Hanging With Friends & Scramble With Friends, All using the username NudeAndPubic. Looking forward to playing sometime.
      NudeAndPubic
      13 Apr 2012 15:09:17
    - Nude I shall add you to words with friends next! :D sorry for my poor drawing skill lol
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:38:37
    - My man is into Temple Run, and competes with scores etc - I don't see the appeal!
      CaraSutra
      14 Apr 2012 17:13:37
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    Animal Lovers
    Kera
    13 Apr 2012 10:26:57
    - Sorry for bringing this to here, but there is a raffle going on on the Lush forum for Four Paws, a fostering charity in South Wales. There are a LOT of prizes ranging from Lush all the way to Avon makeup, Lush Perfume and bits of jewellery. Was just wondering if anyone would like to buy tickets (under my forum name/paypal though) Obviously if someone on here won, I'd send it out after it arrived here... But is up to you The ending date is the 15th of April, at 8pm, so have to be quick if you do want to! There is also a Just Giving page for Four Paws here; http://www.justgiving.com/LydiaNiziblian that you could donate to instead :)
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 10:26:57
    - That's a cute idea, how much are the tickets? x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 11:09:41
    - They're £1 each, all proceeds go to Four Paws too
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 11:44:55
    - If it's not too late, could you put me down for 5 I will paypal you the money if you send me your email addy to send to? :) sorry for the delay, busy weekend! x
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:18:08
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    The best thing on the internet EVER thread!
    edn
    11 Apr 2012 12:41:19
    - Or the best thing you found today! Share your gems. Yesterday I found http://www.mapofthedead.com/ the zombie survival map! Put in your postcode and it will tell you of the nearby threats and and potential sources of help for the impending zombie apocalypse!
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 12:41:19
    - You must have been reading my (already quite transparent) mind as I was going to open a thread like this! Like coolest sites you've found or whatever. Today I have been browsing Candlewick Greens at the delicious candles and tarts (!) after recommendation from Kera :D Yeah I think mine are mostly going to be shopping lol xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:55:50
    - Candlewick Greens here too, and LookBook.nu for character profiles. I am really wanting Lisa (the woman who runs Candlewick Greens) to stock Tramp or something like that scent. Yesterday found awkwardboners and spent hours giggling at them.. I'm rather immature
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 17:42:21
    - if you looooooooooove candles and wax tarts you need to visit this website! purelyaromatic i spend soooooo much on there. i do :heart: gorg smelly things :D
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 17:56:47
    - I love PurelyAromatic too! follow them on facebook and keep meaning to make an order
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 17:58:49
    - I bloody love Lush, I know they're expensive but SO addictive
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 18:05:55
    - "Kera, post: 381, member: 3" snap! shes a lovely lady, really helpful and her products are amazing and such fab value! and she always has discount codes going around. i totally recomend placing an order before the 30th of this month though as her p&p prices are going up due to the royal mail hiking there prices! :beating: "CaraSutra, post: 389, member: 1" i used to like lush but i gone right off it, my OH had his bank card details stolen when they got hacked and they knew about it for months before they told him. and the hacker used his bank! after that it just kinda put me off them. ive now moved on to molton brown goodies, see what i mean about champagne tastes and lemonade money lol
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 18:27:52
    - Diamonds, are you on the Lush Forum?
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 18:32:20
    - nopes, didnt know they had one!
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 18:33:32
    - Well it won't be as good as this one, stay here! :P lol :shinywiggle: hehe
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 20:16:42
    - I'd actually advise against joining that forum right now actually.. it has become quite clique-y, and new people can feel very intimidated by the big attitudes some have.. And in addition, it's unmoderated too
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 20:20:01
    - do they just talk about lush? how do you find the forums? i just go for a nose and read the arguments and giggle lol
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 20:24:10
    - It isn't all about lush, there is VIP lounge (every day topics), Moral Dilemma, The Salon, Bumps, babies and childs play, and a swap shop. But venture into swap shop at your own peril! I don't think guests can actually read any of the topics though, never tried As for finding them, i think theres a link at the bottom of the main site..
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 20:30:49
    - *wonders off for a snoop brb! ;)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 20:33:48
    - ahh poop! you have to be registered which i did but then some admin have to approve me before i can log in, so i cant have a nose :(
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 20:38:27
    - Admins never do approve people! I swear it's the most disorganised forum I've ever been on
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 20:40:46
    - :( i wanted to see them rowing and being stupid! :( lol
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 20:45:37
    - Oi you two you've been off at some other forum, am I going to have to restrain you to chairs eh ;) :dominatrix: lols x I did see that you can be a member on the site and review products, but I didn't see what the people got out of doing it. I wondered if Lush sent out stuff as samples for review or anything... mmmm
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:27:02
    - They don't, most of the reviews are from people buying them. BIG thinks that anything like that (and now vouchers and incentives to actually going to a shop) cheapens the brand. But that isn't for this thread really
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 22:01:58
    - Today's gem!http://textfromdog.tumblr.com/
      edn
      12 Apr 2012 12:15:56
    - Ooh ooh I am addicted to the DYAC! Damn You Auto Correct - I actually couldn't look at this site at work, would pee myself laughing!!
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 13:43:01
    - ive got a thing for facebook fan pages at the mo of little home made items! ive got lots of one off bits and bobs with out spending the earth :p
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 16:41:16
    - I'm going to have to have a nosey at your Facebook, see which pages you're a fan of lol
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:08:21
    - there not on my naughty one ;) :P lol i shall pm you the pages! :)
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:13:03
    - *also wants to know now* Todays internet browsing has mainly been here, Lush forum, G+ and arsebook..
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 17:20:47
    - i will pm you as kera :D they still aint sorted my lush forum approval :(
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:25:49
    - ~tuts~ some forums eh ;) lol xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 18:58:47
    - http://www.ladyvlondon.com Pretty dresses here! Evil enabler somewhere else gave me the link, thought I'd share it with you ;)
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 08:52:56
    - It was only a matter of time before someone did it - http://boobstagram.fr/
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 12:01:44
    - Must stop looking at boobs...
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 12:07:46
    - Why would you want to stop :o :boobs:
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 12:08:55
    - Hahaha that looks like a list of avatars! lol
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:16:15
    - This is making me giggle lots right now, TextsfromDog.Tumblr.com - texts between dog and owner lol
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 13:16:49
    - www.9gag.com OH is addicted to this at the mo, must say it does make me chuckle :D
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 17:31:40
    - Just this, found on Reddit. Suddenly, oven http://i.imgur.com/0o9AS.jpg
      NudeAndPubic
      15 Apr 2012 20:31:57
    - "CaraSutra, post: 891, member: 1" I always suspected you don't read my posts and just look at my bum - I'm just a piece of meat to ya admit it :p
      edn
      16 Apr 2012 05:46:22
    - DId you post that one already edn? I really can't see it! lol x
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 07:46:39
    - Post number 20 - sigh!
      edn
      16 Apr 2012 09:58:13
    - Oh sorry! Yes I am obviously very distracted ~blushes~ ;)
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 10:18:09
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    sqwee im so happy!
    Diamonds
    11 Apr 2012 18:58:08
    - aww im soooo happy cara has made these forums as its made my morby come back to the fold and has brought us back together again! :D :D:D:D
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 18:58:08
    - thank you - me too!!!!! :D:heart:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 20:02:22
    - Aww thanks hun :) Really happy to be around, can see me hanging out here very regularly! Loving it so far :D
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 14:19:21
    - Yes please stay! It's been far too long without you! xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 14:57:33
    - Aww thanks hun, as I said i'm really loving it so far, feel part of the old group again :D
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 15:05:57
    - We need to get more back on board though! Where are they all! ;) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 16:25:10
    - gone into hiding! :p like the superheros in the incredibles ;) lol i love that film!
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 16:38:00
    - Hahaha oh yes me too. Sucker for all things Disney. We need to flush them out with alluring smexiness lol :boobs:
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:09:20
    - morby is your women to flush them out! she manages to keep i touch with so many folks! :D
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:11:12
    - Aww thanks D, i did message a couple, but uncertain as you whether or not they'll take the bait yet, lol xxx
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 20:45:23
    - Thanks Morbs! :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:52:31
    - *sneeks in*
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 Apr 2012 05:50:53
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    Hair Removal
    Kera
    12 Apr 2012 17:58:42
    - I'm at my wits end with shaving then having stubble the next day. Is there any other way that is good for hair removal that doesn't cost the earth? What do you use to get rid of unwanted hair?
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 17:58:42
    - i shave, im lucky my body hair dont grow back fast plus im blonde so you cant really see it when it does :P there is them smelly hair removal creams which i bet you could find in 99p £1 shops. they seem to sell everything in there! or waxing if you dont mind the pain?
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 18:26:19
    - I'm blonde (not that you can see that in my avatar!) so it's not noticeable on my legs, more other places though. I'm tempted to try waxing, but need to find a salon rather than a DIY jobby!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 18:34:52
    - you could try going to a beauty training place and go as a model, which basically means they practice on you and you get the treatment for free or just a couple of quid. there fully observed and not just let lose on you!
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 18:37:16
    - Yes if you wax I would say definitely get it done professionally. I'm dark! I do shave, I think my body has gotten used to it now so the regrowth isn't too bad. I don't like hair 'down there', under arms or on my legs. All off! I used to use Veet (Immac) hair removal cream, the shower one is great, smooth on and leave for the time stated then sponge off. A flannel works better than the sponge they give you though. It does smell slightly but they're better than they used to be. You aren't meant to use it on your 'lady bits' but I did, just was very careful. It costs more than shaving which is why I don't as much any more, just shave in the shower now. If you can afford it, get the salon waxings! :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 18:46:15
    - i did not know you could use a sponge to smooth of the hairs, we have been using the device that comes with the product, next time we will be trying out the sponge idea good tip Cara martin will feel a lot better when i remove his hairs next :)
      rockprincess
      13 Apr 2012 08:58:32
    - Well the sponge idea works best if you get the Shower Veet rather than just the regular tube Veet. Good luck!! x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 09:46:09
    - I have some Veet on my shelves that I'll be using (VERY CAREFULLY) down there, but will be looking into waxing at some point
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 09:49:37
    - i shave *very carefully* dont like hair except on my head lol
      nica
      13 Apr 2012 13:04:25
    - Has anyone used those at home laser removal? I usually shave but I have to do it like every day and it's a pain!
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:32:34
    - "nica, post: 723, member: 22" snap!
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 19:35:11
    - I shave my legs, arms and armpits; I'm a natural light brunette. my hair is blonde and sparse so shaving is fine. But to get rid of the hair "down there", which is darker, I wax, and personally think is the best option :).
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      22 Apr 2012 22:17:10
    - ouch waxing sounds painful legs chest yeh ok its not to bad but i wouldnt dare try it down there
      bessy
      23 Apr 2012 08:36:13
    - Well, I wouldn't recommend it to a man! :p For women, though... I don't find it that painful, just a discomfort.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 Apr 2012 14:19:05
    - Oh I don't know KOC... I wouldn't mind watching or 'helping' a man get waxed ~innocent smile~
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 10:53:22
    - Always the naughty one, Cara!;)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 15:06:25
    - I want to try waxing, hate being hairy! Makes me feel dirty and not in a good way! Tried the veet stuff but it burnt me and the smell of burning hair was just awful! That put me off those! The re growth 'down there' is awful!!!!!! I have that shaver that shaves the bikini line as well but it's still in the cupboard cause I want to use up all the blades on the other razor first!
      Breda
      24 Apr 2012 22:10:36
    - Waxing is amazing, leaves the skin as smooth as a baby's and for a couple of weeks. And waxed hair grow back thinner and lessen during time.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 22:26:47
    - the sponge idea worked like a treat way easier and not as itchy whoop whoop thx Cara :D
      bessy
      26 Apr 2012 13:09:58
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    A book of win!
    edn
    28 Apr 2012 21:58:10
    - A friend pointed me at the blog awful library books and I found this on it: http://awfullibrarybooks.net/?paged=75 I so need a copy!
      edn
      28 Apr 2012 21:58:10
    - LOL I have seen similar blogs on the web - but an actual hard back book looking like it's from the 70s? Awesome! Sticky backed plastic at the ready! ;) lol
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 22:06:21
    - Apparently it's from 2007 so I may still be able to get a copy on Amazon! I may also be forced to seek out a copy of the authors other work - What Shat That: A Pocket Guide To Poop Identity! Edit: I've just checked - it is on Amazon! Though if you look on the list of what people buy after viewing it the list is - What Other Items Do Customers Buy After Viewing This Item? [LEFT][/LEFT] [LEFT]Sex 365: A Position for Every Day (Dk Sex) [COLOR=#000000]by Kesta Desmond Paperback 4.2 out of 5 stars (8) £5.91[/COLOR][/LEFT] [LEFT][/LEFT] [LEFT]365 Sex Positions [COLOR=#000000]by Amorata Press Paperback 3.7 out of 5 stars (14) £8.39[/COLOR][/LEFT] [LEFT][/LEFT] [LEFT]Harry Potter - The Complete 8-Film Collection [DVD] [2011] [COLOR=#000000]~ Daniel Radcliffe DVD 4.5 out of 5 stars (585) £29.79[/COLOR][/LEFT] [LEFT][/LEFT] [LEFT]Anal Sex Position Guide, The [COLOR=#000000]by Tristan Taormino Paperback 4.8 out of 5 stars (4) £9.74[/COLOR][/LEFT] Harry Potter!?!?
      edn
      28 Apr 2012 22:08:57
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    The Procrastination thread or what should you be doing...
    Ghostgirl
    10 Apr 2012 22:53:30
    - Ok I am surfing through the forum while I wait for varnish to dry, the kind on doors not nails. So what should you be doing instead of chatting? xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 22:53:30
    - I should be writing an extremely long complaint letter, so far managed 800 words, but the more important task would probably be finishing an assignment that is due on friday, still have a remaining 1200 words to do and running out of ideas fast, lol
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 23:36:11
    - I should be putting my makeup and clothes on but just catching up on a few more threads.....
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 08:11:56
    - I should be tidying/washing clothing/doing general mummy stuff, instead I'm texting Master and floating around on the internet looking on Candlewick-Greens at pretty candles, seriously worth a look at. This afternoon I HAVE to go in to the opticians and sort out youngest son's glasses as they've just totally disappeared on me! Though between 10 and 11 I'll have shopping to put away, can't procrastinate with that. Also have a few reviews to put on my blog that I'm putting off for some unknown reason.
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 08:18:40
    - I will definitely take a look at that site, I adore candles. I am in love with the Yankee Candles in the glass jars with lids. They are just divine. I should be writing posts now but I am eating potato salad and a banana (not together!) and answering threads!
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 09:29:48
    - i should be tidying/cleaning/having a bath and getting dressed, but instead im on here catching up with threads and trying to not think about how sick i feel! :(
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:06:54
    - ~hugs~ for Diamonds I should be writing reviews and more blog posts but I can't keep away from the forum now haha oh also I need to do some laundry, how very normal!! x
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 13:56:14
    - I should be getting the laundry in but it's warm in here and I'm tired! ~whines~
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 14:39:57
    - I should be doing yet another assignment, however, I have been pretty busy doing things I should be doing today so allowing myself some slack, lol xxx
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:39:26
    - I should be making lunches for tomorrow and going to bed! Instead I'm watching Khloe and Lamar and drinking tea and wandering around here!
      Breda
      16 Apr 2012 21:59:23
    - I should be off to the library, and getting a cat carrier, instead am nomming on cheese and looking around various sites
      Kera
      17 Apr 2012 08:01:09
    - I should be finishing VAT return and end of financial year paperwork for the accountant but feel like crap and dont want to do it xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      17 Apr 2012 12:59:00
    - Should be writing a harness review!
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2012 13:11:59
    - Should probably be responding to the crying child downstairs, that was quite a bang after all! Never mind, there are two mothers down there, I'll go if the crying doesn't stop after 5 mins (probably just get in the way anyway).
      SandA
      29 Apr 2012 14:51:50
    - Should be closing the range in case of chimney fire! I'll go do that now! The noise of the fire is getting a bit loud!
      Breda
      29 Apr 2012 18:01:54
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    Katie Price/Jordan will marry for the third time
    CaraSutra
    28 Apr 2012 12:18:47
    - She does seem to be going through them! At the age of 33 she is set to get married to her 3rd hubby who will this time be toyboy Leandro Penna. Anyone know who he is? She annoys me a bit, who can really believe she is madly in love - again? Opinions? x
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 12:18:47
    - Opinions? There are at least three blind/insane/gold-digging Z-list celebrity wanabes out there?
      edn
      28 Apr 2012 13:19:00
    - Someone should just sew her vagina shut.
      Incendiaire
      28 Apr 2012 13:54:09
    - Lol I don't know why anyone would find her attractive in the slightest to be honest !
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 13:54:36
    - Must be objectophilia, because she's mostly plastic, and trowels on make-up as though she were spackling a wall.
      Incendiaire
      28 Apr 2012 13:58:10
    - I suppose she does look like an over-inflated sex doll :puke:
      edn
      28 Apr 2012 14:55:22
    - I think she is crazy! I can't stand her at all
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 16:37:25
    - I really can't summon up the willpower to give a flying f#*k anymore!:zzz:
      SandA
      29 Apr 2012 14:30:33
    - "SandA, post: 1560, member: 51" This to be honest..
      Kera
      29 Apr 2012 16:42:08
    - He's an Argentina Model, cannot speak a word of English and tweets in Spanish or Portuguese whichever language they speak and she seems to control what he says in English on the twitter. I'm a bit of a celeb whore! I love all this crap about Katie Price and all the goings on in the celeb world! I really should get out more! I do agree though that she's gone a bit mad for the whole being married. The woman has 3 children, she really needs to sort her crap out and think of them before getting married again. She used to be a half decent looking girl before she found implants and botox and lip fillers and cheek implants and all that jazz!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 12:30:59
    - yeah he's that argentinan model who didn't speak a word of english. I think this will last.............well, until the dude becomes fluent in english and see's the light :p
      Mrs JoJo
      01 May 2012 12:57:46
    - Maybe that's why it works so far! Until he speaks English and can form an opinion she can understand, she wont like him anymore!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 16:03:28
    - lol i love katie price, think she has done well from very early age, the marriage thing to me is a no no but she has worked hard to get where she is now
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:10:05
    - She has a good business head on those shoulders of her's! I do admire her inner strength with her Harvey and all his problems. She has to be given credit there!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 20:41:11
    - well said Breda :)
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:52:46
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    Silly news stories
    P. Squared
    20 Apr 2012 21:25:08
    - Just thought I'd leave this here.... Workers Comp' covers sex-related injuries, Judge rules Saw this... thought you all might be amused.... Might see if I can find the others I was looking for the other day.... *wanders off again*
      P. Squared
      20 Apr 2012 21:25:08
    - I've always known I was born in the wrong place lol
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 21:29:45
    - Hahaha that's briliant lol Saw this about Nigella - not funny but well - losing weight through bunion surgery? Plus, who are we meant to look to now to feel good about eating cake!!
      CaraSutra
      21 Apr 2012 09:22:26
    - More expensive than viagra, but infinitely more practical...
      P. Squared
      28 Apr 2012 19:05:26
    - lol I love these stories!! thank you P. Squared!!
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 20:08:06
    - I've got no comment about this one.... I do actually read that website for sensible reasons - best source of IT news out there, but it must be said, they've got a great sense of humour and they keep finding gems like this...
      P. Squared
      01 May 2012 17:12:18
    - With that one, I still hope you never feel like that with me!
      Kera
      01 May 2012 17:53:36
    - Oh God that is quite possibly the funniest, quirkiest thing ever :goodjob: [quote="P. Squared, post: 1666, member: 17"]I've got no comment about this one.... I do actually read that website for sensible reasons - best source of IT news out there, but it must be said, they've got a great sense of humour and they keep finding gems like this...[/quote]
      Rebecca
      02 May 2012 05:58:46
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    Holidays! Days Out! Fun Stuffs! Woot Woot!
    Morbidia
    10 Apr 2012 18:22:51
    - [FONT=trebuchet ms]Well, recently, everything seems to be going wrong, and problems all seem to be mounting up.[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms]So, with times still being mildly depressing, here's a positive thought![/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms]What's keeping you going? A holiday? Doing anything different? Having a day out? Going to a gig?[/FONT] [FONT=trebuchet ms]Let's all think positive and share what's keeping us smiling through the tough stuff! :)[/FONT]
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 18:22:51
    - :( sorry to hear your going thought a hard time at the mo, i think a lot of people are sadly. erm i havent really planning stuff, the best times i have are them days that have been spare of the moment kinda days! Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 18:47:09
    - I've been trying to book mini holidays, got one coming up in May for the Anni and also got a Pod holiday booked in July, so those are my main look-forward to days! :)
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 19:02:44
    - oh my OH has been podding, he loved it! 4 years for us this may as well! :O nothing planned though :(
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 19:10:06
    - Yeah, the pods we're staying at has a great sea view so really clinging to that and my May mini holiday to keep me going at the mo!
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 19:26:32
    - Podding? o_O I haven't been on a holiday away for years, ok so I went home to Jersey last year for a weekend but it wasn't somewhere hot and sunny lazing on a lounger sipping cocktails! Lately I've been looking up memberships for the family to go to theme parks etc - there's so many of us in the house (5 adults, 5 kids a baby and another on the way) that we really would be better off getting the year passes. I have my heart set on the Alton Towers/Chessington one - you can go to so many parks and places in the year! But... the family ticket premium is £720 and we'd need two! So like £1500! We're thinking of getting it for the family for Xmas for next year. :) Also really, so want to get to the theatre this year, maybe the gf and I, don't think the boys are too bothered! I'd LOVE to see Phantom or Les Mis again. :heart:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 19:49:20
    - Podding is cool camping cara! Lol if there is such a thing. Basically instead of being tents there are these little pods (think of a hobbits house and that's a pod) keeps you dry, has electric and a carpet but no kitchen/bathroom. Ive never seen les mis but I would like to, there making a movie of it at the mo.
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 20:25:16
    - Don't actually have any holidays booked, doubt I'll be going on one this year to be fair though. Most that'll happen is meeting a few members of another forum for a day, probably in July
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 20:29:27
    - Yeah, when you stay in a pod, or a yert, or tipi, anything like that, it's classed as Glamping :) As D said, its a little wooden hut with electric and carpet (mine also has a TV/DVD player just in case it rains, lol) and you just take all the camping gear without the hassle of wet tents! Lol! I haven't been on a holiday in years so two mini hols is amazing for me, which is probably why i'm so excited, lol. @Kera that's still something great to look forward to :D
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 23:32:44
    - Ooh I always wanted to do a forum meet up :) I wonder if anyone would come visit me, there's lots of room and land too for camping etc :) Ahh I read about Glamping in Glamour Mag but it put it across as the glamorous camping where you have to be all fashionable and what to wear etc, even which bag was in season for it! lol It's not really my kinda mag lol @D I kinda want to go podding now! So where do people go to the loo/wash? I guess taking a gas stove would be ok :) x
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 09:10:00
    - OMG Glamping at the Manor! I would be up for that! What a cool idea! Can you imagine the fun? I think we would need a week though because I just don't think a weekend would be long enough! I don't have any holidays booked this year, need a job first and it's not for the want of trying! It might not sound much or sound weird to some but I'm loving my monthly night out at the best fetish club in Scotland (so I'm told) They have also started a rope workshop which is bi-monthly but we are welcome to use the open house day in the months inbetween for practice if we like. As you can see from my pic I had a great time at the last one. Next time I want to learn to tie but I just love being a bunny so much! With this being the Easter club night I just have to dress up as a sexy Easter bunny since I love being a bunny so much :shinywiggle:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:33:34
    - @cara for the loo and washing you have to do what you do at normal camping and go to the shared washrooms :eek: my OCD cant be doing that, i only use public loos if i really cant wait to get home lol.
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:04:56
    - Yes holidays keep me going, had really rough start to the year and go to Cuba in a months time and im sooooo looking forward to getting away from it all and spending quality time just with my husband, also holidays in the sun make me even hornier :heart:
      rach74
      11 Apr 2012 11:44:57
    - @Minx i was meant to say that your pic looked fantastic! :) @Rach wow! That sounds like a fantastic holiday :D
      Morbidia
      11 Apr 2012 12:55:32
    - Yeah I am not a fan of communal washing and public loos, first as I am really quite shy and self conscious and secondly I always worry about the hygiene in public loos! @Rach74 OMG you are SO lucky! I bet it's going to be scorching as well... ~jealous~
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 13:03:31
    - Bring on the summer, it makes everything so much better. All that open air rudeness blows away the winter blues.
      bowed
      12 Apr 2012 18:58:11
    - Glamping does sound fun :) I am looking forward to going to California for thanks giving. Never been before.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:34:55
    - "bowed, post: 624, member: 29" I agree, I hate winter. Though we were getting a short winter when there was all that sun but no, just a tease :(
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:35:47
    - me and mister D fancy going to the good old USA, however im worried that if we go there i will put on looooooooooads of weight! my BF loves that man vs food program and is taking notes of the places! :jawdrop:
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 19:33:26
    - "Diamonds, post: 1191, member: 7" I'm the same D, would absolutely love to go to the USA, so many amazing things to see and do there :) xxx
      Morbidia
      22 Apr 2012 14:05:50
    - Aw I have been to Florida twice (as a kid) and it's just my absolutely favourite place ever - I am so desperate to return but for our plane-ful of a household I think we need to win the lottery! Complete sunshine whore and Disney-aholic. I think I'm the same as you D, if I lived there I would get huge, their portion sizes and things you can buy in the shops seem so much bigger! Scary x
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 14:35:55
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1215, member: 1"]Aw I have been to Florida twice (as a kid) and it's just my absolutely favourite place ever - I am so desperate to return but for our plane-ful of a household I think we need to win the lottery! Complete sunshine whore and Disney-aholic. I think I'm the same as you D, if I lived there I would get huge, their portion sizes and things you can buy in the shops seem so much bigger! Scary x[/quote] I'm going to Disneyland Paris sometime for a hen do, only have to pay for accommodation and travel so looking forward to it, I know it's not meant to be as good as the US one, but i'm still mega excited :-D xxx
      Morbidia
      22 Apr 2012 14:43:30
    - I'll be spending my summer holidays in Tuscany, as usual. My best friend is coming with me and staying for a couple of weeks, so...lots of fun is waiting for me! And in september I'm going to Paris again, with my mom and again my best friend. I can't wait, that city holds a special place in my heart.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 Apr 2012 14:25:28
    - Tuscany sounds very romantic, makes me think of hot weather, great food and everyone with smiles and healthy tans! I've never been so haven't a clue if it's actually like that and I'm probably just thinking of a Dolmio advert haha xxx
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 10:35:02
    - Help, i am drowning in all this rain - need rescuing!
      bowed
      25 Apr 2012 13:14:06
    - "bowed, post: 1332, member: 29" You have my support! First sunny day here after a whole month of awful weather!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      26 Apr 2012 13:37:46
    - The weather definitely needs sorting out, whoever said we are in a drought needs shooting :p
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:34:07
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    Comedy Jukebox
    NudeAndPubic
    17 Apr 2012 21:48:47
    - A place to post your favorite comedy songs. Lets start with Tim Minchin - Confessions. [media=youtube]p1EhaANeYCI[/media] Enjoy!
      NudeAndPubic
      17 Apr 2012 21:48:47
    - [media=youtube]BZoAuu7Zj_U[/media] I love this :)
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 13:27:00
    - [media=youtube]HK9VBxDlQOE[/media] heh...:rofl:
      Kera
      18 Apr 2012 13:35:44
    - Two songs about tea First Doc Brown - Angry Tea Rap [media=youtube]xAl7zvdYKKk[/media] Next up is Professor Elemental - Cup Of Brown Joy [media=youtube]eELH0ivexKA[/media]
      NudeAndPubic
      21 Apr 2012 22:21:32
    - Love this classic [media=youtube]lNU5KVa_Tu8[/media]
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:35:36
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    NEW! The Cara Sutra Video Channel
    CaraSutra
    22 Apr 2012 14:44:26
    - Hi everyone, As part of my ongoing site and personal expansion (cheeky!), I have opened a YouTube Video channel where I will be uploading various videos/free clips from time to time. Plans include sex toy reviews, sex tips and advice, relationship advice including lesbian, straight and poly as well as Fetish/BDSM/Kink/FemDom guides and tips. Any requests? Email me! I have started today with a short welcome and hope to film and upload more in this coming week. Really hope you enjoy, bookmark and comment (nicely! I didn't get much sleep, lol) - you can find out more in my latest blog post right here. Cara xxx
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 14:44:26
    - You have such an amazing accent, Cara...I've been drooling for half an hour! :D And I love the idea of a video channel!:goodjob:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      22 Apr 2012 22:08:08
    - Aw thanks! :oops: I don't really like my voice but I think many people are the same hearing themselves back. I'll get better with the vids, mostly just practice at the mo, record and upload! ;) x
      CaraSutra
      23 Apr 2012 15:04:14
    - You have a very sexy voice! And I have a thing for a British accent! :heart:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 Apr 2012 22:11:53
    - Another vid uploaded yesterday ;)
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 08:45:56
    - I don't have time to drool...much! But that 1st video OMG Cara awesome boobage. Yes I know I shouldn't have been perving but I couldn't help myself! Look forward to this new area. Nice one! Will be coming back later, that's for sure! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 Apr 2012 08:47:50
    - Thanks SLM! Good luck at the Docs and think up some new vid ideas you'd like to see! (not like THAT, pervy girl ;) hehe
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 08:56:27
    - I would never ask to see you in a video like THAT (I'd rather the real thing! :butt:) What about some tips on how to be more confident in the bedroom? I know a lot of girls and guys too although they don't like to admit it have confidence issues. Or what about tips on writing reviews? They were just off the top of my head but any more ideas then I will be back! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 Apr 2012 12:52:16
    - I usually find it hard to understand British people, but I can understand all you say. Yay! :p
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 15:05:20
    - Ooh I got my first abusive comment to a video! I feel like such a celeb, lol I think this guy just hates Dommes... or maybe just all women, I can't tell. This video here xxx
      CaraSutra
      01 May 2012 14:17:01
    - Wow! Just had a look! I cant help but laugh at that sad individual! Dont be put off, please! These video's and forums really help people like me to come out of our shell!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 21:16:31
    - Maybe he's just a troll.:trolls:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      02 May 2012 22:40:13
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 1778, member: 46" I am thinking you wanted to use the emoticon! haha. Oh nooo, not put off at all, in fact I find abuse online rather amusing :) The next morning I got a long email, maybe from the same guy. The next morning I was quite disappointed in my lack of abuse :( Someone send me some abuse! Gimme the troll loving! lol x
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:27:21
    - Ok yes... I wanted to use that amazing emoticon! :D But I really think he can be a troll.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 22:20:38
    - New vids uploaded this morning! http://www.youtube.com/user/TheCaraSutra
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 17:32:00
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    Phew - it's back!
    CaraSutra
    06 May 2012 14:52:44
    - Forum was down this morning but thanks to Sable's hard work for the last 4 hours and no help from the hosts whatsoever, we're back up and running! YAY! Sorry for the inconvenience if you were trying to access the forum earlier. xxx
      CaraSutra
      06 May 2012 14:52:44
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    Bank Holiday Monday Plans?
    CaraSutra
    03 May 2012 14:40:05
    - Watcha up to? Depends on the weather really, so want it to be sunny but looking out at the moment doesn't look too hopeful :( x
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:40:05
    - Hopefully, I will be in bed with a hangover! That's the plan anyway! Plans are airy fairy at the minute but I'm holding out for a hangover!
      Breda
      03 May 2012 15:22:56
    - That's just cheered me up... completely forgot it was a Bank Holiday weekend :) ~reaches up and retrieves head from clouds~
      SandA
      03 May 2012 19:11:36
    - Well one thing I definitely won't have is a hangover lol
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 07:59:23
    - washing, ironing and packing ready for holiday :)
      rach74
      05 May 2012 14:47:33
    - Sitting and wishing the kids were at school/nursery and wishing that the bf was at work and Master was around.
      Kera
      05 May 2012 20:07:37
    - Not sure yet. Probably a quie one, catching up on the housework. So behind with being not well. Next weekend, well that is a different matter! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      06 May 2012 14:52:16
    - Oh I forgot it was a BH Monday tomorrow today! My memory is appalling at the moment lol. Keep forgetting and remembering again !
      CaraSutra
      06 May 2012 15:38:02
    - Baby brain! It's been proven that women get more forgetful when they are pregnant!
      Breda
      06 May 2012 15:41:23
    - I shall be doing photography in the morning and trying a new recipe for brownies in the afternoon with avocado instead of butter :o
      edn
      06 May 2012 17:17:26
    - Just back from a few days away at hotel so we're looking forward to spending the day at home in access of all our toys instead of just a couple :beating:
      llellsee
      06 May 2012 23:34:49
    - Hangover hasnt set in yet! Still extremely happy but very tired!:D
      Breda
      07 May 2012 09:57:19
    - Feeling soooooo lazy today. I work from home but my body just seems to know when it's meant to be a holiday!!!
      CaraSutra
      07 May 2012 11:33:45
    - I'm watching Tangled(Disney film for those not in the know) Great film!
      Breda
      07 May 2012 13:32:18
    - all packed, early night for me as up really early tomorrow to get to airport. so see you all in just over 2 weeks, looking forward to sun sea sand and sex :shinywiggle:
      rach74
      07 May 2012 14:07:42
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    Cute kitty
    BrummieGal
    28 Apr 2012 21:02:08
    - Look at this cute kitty!! http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2136540/Video-Contented-kitty-enjoys-relaxing-neck-rub-portable-massager.html
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 21:02:08
    - That is very cute! x
      CaraSutra
      29 Apr 2012 08:17:29
    - How does that manage to make the news haha !
      EssexRandomer
      09 May 2012 13:22:12
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    Sexy clothes for sale - cheap prices free postage?
    CaraSutra
    12 May 2012 06:42:36
    - Lots of sexy clothes for sale at CaraSutra.co.uk - Includes Sweet Streak dresses and corsets for only £10 each including UK mainland postage Paypal buttons on each item. Just purchase ad put your delivery details in the notes, or email me cara (at) carasutra.co.uk. I can post fast! Check everything out here > http://carasutra.co.uk/shop/sexy-clothes/ Any questions just ask! :)
      CaraSutra
      12 May 2012 06:42:36
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    Favourite Mobile Apps?
    CaraSutra
    11 Apr 2012 21:14:23
    - Wondered what everyone's fave apps were, I have an iPhone & seriously couldn't be without it! As well as all the web apps, Twitter, FB etc I love Instagram for pics and sharing and also Words with Friends. What are your faves?
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:14:23
    - The main I use on my Blackberry is actually UberTwitter, I don't really use apps though, not many good ones for BBs
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 21:25:42
    - Haven't heard of UberTwitter, I just have the main Twitter app for iOS. Love my weather apps and the shop ones too - ebay is especially good!
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:33:51
    - *pokes her iPad 2 and iPhone* Temple Run and Draw Something are must-haves. I also use Facebook, Echofon (I find it better than the official Twitter application), Wordpress, TV Guide, Camera+, BBC Player, 40D Catch Up, Angry Birds, Tumblr, Skype, Minecraft, Tap Tap Revenge and Tap Tap Radiation (iPad only).
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 21:38:39
    - OMG you play Minecraft? My OH is gonna prick up his ears at that, he is obsessed! Completely!! He's making all sorts of things for it - he's made the MobHealth plug in here which now has over 78k downloads ~proud~ x
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:50:19
    - I used to play it religiously on the PC but I disliked all the new updates that Notch kept releasing. My partner paid for my server every month but after all the updates fucked up my little world (I had built a massive theme park and everything...), I just stopped playing and we deleted my game save. I recently downloaded it on the iPad but I've not really had the time to start building stuff. Saving it for a rainy day ^.~
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 21:55:58
    - @Cara aww woman! You have words with friends?! What's your username? I'm awful at it, and do short words loads, but still love it! You tried Draw Something?? xxx
      Morbidia
      11 Apr 2012 22:00:30
    - I wish I took more photos, but this was the starting progress of my theme park.
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 22:01:20
    - UberTwitter is now called UberSocial, is what I use to update DiamondKera. I do use the twitter that came with my BB for my main twitter account, but hardly use my main one now. With two separate ones, I don't end up tweeting about Master on my main twitter profile!
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 22:06:43
    - "Kari Rose, post: 463, member: 19" Oh noes - you should have kept a copy of the world save - i could have converted it over to Anvil then! They have Puppies now...
      Sable
      11 Apr 2012 22:35:07
    - [quote="Kari Rose, post: 466, member: 19"]I wish I took more photos, but this was the starting progress of my theme park. [/quote] I should upload more pics - http://sablednah.dyndns.org/minecraft-images/ I'll show my lil' girlie's those pics tomorrow - they'll go crazy over them :)
      Sable
      11 Apr 2012 22:38:41
    - That Hello Kitty is bloody awesome! lol
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 11:30:39
    - Haha thanks! ^.^ Her nose is made out of glow-stone so it glows in the dark :p
      Kari Rose
      12 Apr 2012 13:14:16
    - Only you would think of that lol. Sable has made a world with our house in it, the inside all planned out as it is and everything! You could have a virtual tour! It's awesome x
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 15:08:56
    - facebook app, echofon for my twitter and im now obsessed with words with friends and draw something!
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 16:39:43
    - It was good playing WWF last night, will update our game soon Diamonds! xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:08:42
    - your a lot better it then me :( being dyslexic sucks lol
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:11:54
    - D, you're good at it! As i've told you before, sod long words if you don't have any, it's about fun :)
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 20:42:40
    - It is about fun! You guys know Sable, the IT guy, my bloke, etc etc? Dyslexic and aspergic. Harlot, awesome graphic designer, also dyslexic. You'll be amazing at loads of stuff, not everyone is into words - you're doing well I think! :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:52:08
    - cara is wicked awesome at words with friends;)
      nica
      13 Apr 2012 08:10:04
    - I'm much better with my hands (no pun intended lol) then with things like spelling ect. I can say really lOng words, know and understand the meaning but ask me to write it down and it won't look anything like how it should. And it really annoys me when people say sound it out, I have a form of dyslexia where you can't hear the sounds I also can't make sounds when trying to sound out. Talking about the sound for o's a's ect ect.
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:43:41
    - ~hugs for D~ We should have a 'your personal or physical problems that piss you off' thread, I have a few to add!
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:12:54
    - D, I think you're doing good at it :-D *hugs* it's a fun game! Love being able to play it with friends!
      Morbidia
      15 Apr 2012 19:50:50
    - I have heard of this Draw Something, or whatever it's called, anyone play? Is it worth getting? I reckon Harlot would like it, I am crap at drawing though!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:48:05
    - I am crap at drawing too Cara, but I enjoy playing Draw Something.
      NudeAndPubic
      16 Apr 2012 11:54:10
    - Cara you have to get it! It's so much fun :-) I'm crap at it, but you just kind of learn to work with the crapness, lol xx
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 15:13:32
    - If you fancy a game Morbidia let me know
      NudeAndPubic
      16 Apr 2012 15:42:35
    - Aww yeah defo :-D
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 16:36:32
    - I have Draw something, cant draw to save my life but it's fun! I have a messenger for facebook, iplayer for my Irish stations and big oven to help me with the cooking cause I'm not the greatest cook! Google+ is another one I have but hardly ever use and night sky lite is lovely for when I cant sleep, I can look at all the stars without going outside in the cold!:) I tired to download ubersocial for the iPhone cause I loved it on the blackberry but it was utter crap on the iPhone and I was so disappointed:( it was a really good app for the blackberry.
      Breda
      17 Apr 2012 22:25:22
    - Oh I am going to look for that night sky lite too! I love the stars. try Yoono on the iPhone for multi socialling, although it doesn't have Google+ yet :( Not many multi things have G+, a shame, they must be keeping schtum about their API or something.
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 12:58:37
    - AppZapp, which is basically a bargain guide, I have downloaded some good paid apps for free.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 19:39:22
    - Has anyone found any cool sexy or sex toy apps?
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 10:55:18
    - No, just crappy ones! :(
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 15:08:21
    - No they are all spammy stupidity! Someone should really get on to that! Pardon the pun there!!!!!!
      Breda
      24 Apr 2012 21:34:35
    - Yeah they should - they're hard to make though and I think Apple have issues with allowing them through ~shakes lubed fist at them~
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 13:16:13
    - I'm going to try UberSocial for the iPhone. It was great on the blackberry, so I just have to fiddle with it for a little bit to see if it's just as good, I hope it is! I like to droan on about crap on my twitter and 140 characters just isnt long enough for me!
      Breda
      26 Apr 2012 11:32:50
    - i tried out the draw thing lol not sure what i was supposed to do but my potato looked horrible
      nica
      27 Apr 2012 01:23:48
    - Words with friends, twitter, WHATSAPP (omg couldn't be without whatsapp)
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 16:40:36
    - I quite like the Cartoon Camera app. The app I find most useful though is WomanLog, helps keep track of and predict my monthly cycle.
      AliMc
      04 May 2012 08:22:54
    - What's the best SatNav app?
      CaraSutra
      13 May 2012 07:24:07
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    looking for female volunteers
    nica
    13 Apr 2012 12:55:29
    - i am working on my degree/masters in sexual education before i have my second baby if anyone would like to help me out (gets me credit for my degree) its 100% confidential and your individual surveys are not published, i usually email them to people, only i see your answers and emails ,you can reply or pm me and ill get back to you thank you very much
      nica
      13 Apr 2012 12:55:29
    - also if you know of anyone openminded enough please let them know
      nica
      13 Apr 2012 13:23:47
    - Will do! Have just replied to one that you emailed me, will reply to the other one when I have a mo :) x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 14:58:20
    - I'll be happy to answer it for you :)
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 15:28:14
    - pm'd you thank you :)
      nica
      13 Apr 2012 15:34:26
    - I will do it for yah :D
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:31:53
    - thank you diamonds :)
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 10:04:49
    - Happy to help too if you need anyone else. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Apr 2012 12:38:15
    - I'll help too. x
      Honey Flick
      16 Apr 2012 12:40:58
    - thank you ive pm everyone so far who have volunteered :)
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 19:19:26
    - helped ;) youre going to do well in your course
      sahoo
      16 Apr 2012 21:50:16
    - Hope you get lots of replies!! x
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2012 13:11:25
    - :shrug: i dont know what im doing wrong but i cant put an x next my answers, :confused:
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 19:39:26
    - I copied it into a word document and did it that way. Nica, will do the 2nd one on Monday morning :)
      Kera
      21 Apr 2012 20:41:33
    - some people have trouble with it for some reason,the first edition had circles you could click second edition i got rid of those because it didnt work i was trying to get fancy if you cannot get it to work diamonds let me know ill redo it as palin text and resend them @ kera no worries do them when you get time
      nica
      22 Apr 2012 04:21:15
    - If you still need more, you can also send it to me!
      Rose
      01 May 2012 14:41:36
    - If you need more, I'd be happy to help :)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      02 May 2012 22:43:03
    - i have sent out pms to anyone who has asked,if i have missed sending out the mail or getting back to you let me know thank you very much for your support it means alot to me
      nica
      05 May 2012 09:42:03
    - if you need any more help i will help ;)
      rach74
      05 May 2012 14:49:46
    - I did my dissertation last month and used kwiksurveys.com for my questionnaire. Might be worth looking at an online survey site for your research too. It's quick and efficient.
      AliMc
      07 May 2012 02:06:17
    - ill look into that thank you,id love to be able to do it that way but havent found anything that works for me yet, [I]hopefully this can work it does need to be non public ie i can send a link to people wanting to help out ill check this out[/I]
      nica
      08 May 2012 01:44:43
    - Go ahead and send me one if you still need people. :3
      t A
      15 May 2012 03:28:13
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    If you could be proficient at any one thing..
    Kera
    13 Apr 2012 21:23:27
    - ...what would it be? I'd love to be creative all around, my drawing skills are lacking compared to my singing and my writing, and wish for them all to be at the same (high) level. How about you?
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 21:23:27
    - I would love to be able to pick up languages easily. To be able to speak more languages fluently, actually think in them. I can speak un peu de francais, but it is a lot of work x
      CaraSutra
      14 Apr 2012 07:21:58
    - yeh me to cara i feel rude going to other places and not been able to speak the local language
      bessy
      14 Apr 2012 08:30:03
    - It also sounds so sexy, fluency in French or Spanish or Italian... ~swoons~
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:21:07
    - "CaraSutra, post: 824, member: 1" Awww fanks my lovely tee hee! Don't think you've ever heard me speak Italian have you.... :p Anyway, proficient at any one thing? Creative writing I think. I can draw, paint, photo and design fine, converse in three languages but I can't for the life of me write a bleeding story that's any good! Be it erotic or otherwise!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 12:14:17
    - I play around with photography and would love to be proficient with my cameras and editing packages to be able to get those all important erotic and sensual shots and making them look the way I want them too!
      Spartan
      17 Apr 2012 22:12:05
    - Oh yes. I would love to be amazing with Photoshop, InDesign and Illustrator - the things I could do!!
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 13:23:03
    - "CaraSutra, post: 824, member: 1" Do you need a teacher, Cara? :oops:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 16:57:08
    - @KOC that would be awesome!! :D xxx
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 17:46:50
    - I have to pick one :(
      edn
      20 Apr 2012 17:47:44
    - I'd love to be able to sing. But the sad truth is...I sing atrociously!:D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 19:29:41
    - I think everyone (with a semblance of intelligence) would like to learn a language, I know I would, or like Ms_HKM a musical instrument
      Rebecca
      02 May 2012 11:19:18
    - I would love to have fully mastered the guitar, I started learning at 30, probably 15 years too late.
      TeaseMatt
      03 May 2012 21:05:06
    - Mmm the violin would be lovely
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 14:21:41
    - My dad is 40odd and started learning the guitar, I find you're never too old to learn a language, or instrument though
      Kera
      04 May 2012 19:17:26
    - I think I'd like to be able to either read all music, or be able to pick up languages with ease. I can't decide on which, though!
      t A
      15 May 2012 22:52:34
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    Is it really you?
    PrincessRaggydoll
    02 May 2012 12:37:08
    - Is it really you in your profile photo? Or a random part of you? I don't often put a face pic up but as I am with friends here I thought I'd change it for a while at least. Sure you are all fed up looking at my arse anyway!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 May 2012 12:37:08
    - YAY! face! ~pretty~ Although YAY arse too lol Yep mine is me :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      02 May 2012 13:33:50
    - <<< my Absinthe face! Pissed as a fart! Why I decided to use it I have no idea, just hope it doesn't scare everyone off! Leave it up for now. Cara you always look good. Rawr! :lips:x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 May 2012 14:02:15
    - You look amazing, sexylittleminx! And yes, it's me in the pic :).
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      02 May 2012 14:12:53
    - nope not me! i like to keep annom :)
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:16:43
    - Due to a very rare genetic disease ours is actually a photo of both of us. We were lucky to find each other. Unfortunately the gene is recessive, so all our children will be purple. Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      02 May 2012 18:44:41
    - Mine is of my legs in my favourite pair of lace up thigh high boots :)
      llellsee
      02 May 2012 19:04:40
    - [quote="A Couple of Wankers, post: 1744, member: 85"]Due to a very rare genetic disease ours is actually a photo of both of us. We were lucky to find each other. Unfortunately the gene is recessive, so all our children will be purple. Alex.[/quote] LOL!!!!!!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      02 May 2012 22:35:09
    - Yup mine is me!
      edn
      03 May 2012 07:53:01
    - "edn, post: 1782, member: 4" mmm BUM ~bites~
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:24:20
    - Mines either a projection of my positive mental attitude, or a lack of imagination depending on my mood o_O I keep thinking I should do something different, maybe a picture of me, but there really is no angle (even arty) from which I'd look good!
      SandA
      03 May 2012 19:20:08
    - <-- 'tis me. Courtesy of @digitalharlot whos l33t photo skills can even make me look passable...
      Sable
      03 May 2012 19:59:14
    - "CaraSutra, post: 1785, member: 1" Owwwwww!!!!!! No more sitting down for me today!
      edn
      04 May 2012 14:20:32
    - Could have been worse, could have been the crop ;) mwahaha
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 14:32:40
    - But could you bring yourself to mar such magnificence! Ermmm actually don't answer that!
      edn
      04 May 2012 14:34:33
    - [quote="edn, post: 1871, member: 4"]But could you bring yourself to mar such magnificence! Ermmm actually don't answer that![/quote] Oooh the pretty marks we could make on that lovely bottom! @Cara may I suggest the cane?
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 May 2012 23:38:45
    - Oh yes definitely the cane ;) Bottoms look extra pretty with some deviant decoration.
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 07:51:54
    - Yup, it's me when I had a mishap of blonde dye over bright red then putting a lilac colour on top, turning it the lovely pink colour I have in the pic. Also the pic reminds me of a trip out with Master, one of my favourites out of the day
      Kera
      05 May 2012 19:31:28
    - "edn, post: 1865, member: 4" She doesn't bite that badly... ...it'd be more like a week! :p ~hides~
      Sable
      05 May 2012 21:58:49
    - I feel the need for some bum armour :confused:
      edn
      06 May 2012 17:14:31
    - yep mine is me
      Boobaloo
      06 May 2012 17:55:48
    - Yes, this is my torso :)
      Pantied Muse
      06 May 2012 18:52:01
    - errr.. no(obviously) but thats because I'm not very photo-genic and I'm normally the one behind the camera!!
      Spartan
      07 May 2012 23:08:25
    - Yes that would be me and my face after getting my hair cut about 3 months ago! I have to get it cut again cause it looks like a birds nest on my head now!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 21:42:48
    - "Spartan, post: 2001, member: 36" Your avi reminds me of the Spartacus leather fetish implements brand! :)
      CaraSutra
      13 May 2012 07:23:42
    - Yep, mah boobies.
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:46:42
    - Not me, but most definitely the little bear inside me. ;-)
      ChrisKinnk
      14 May 2012 20:25:18
    - Nope. As cool as it would be to be an astronaut, it's not, haha.
      t A
      15 May 2012 03:27:07
    - Yep!
      BrummieGal
      23 May 2012 18:38:40
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    The McCanns
    Diamonds
    02 May 2012 17:50:14
    - ive got the news on in the back ground and something about them popped up again, what do you guys think about the situation? im of the opinion that there a bit dodgy, who leaves 3 children in a hotel room alone, while they go for a meal? on there kinda money they could have afforded to take a nanny away with them to look after the kids when they wanted to spend time as just a couple.
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:50:14
    - I agree completely! Both doctors! The mind boggles with this case! The last I heard was that the police closed the case and are not looking to re open it. Something is not right. They are both a bit dodgy to be honest! The mom is definatly hiding something! The dad is with her to keep her quiet! You never get the mom interviewed without the dad. I'd like to get her on her own and ask her what actually happened. Why did she as a mother leave her children in a room alone! Not right in the head at all!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 21:07:36
    - I agree too. I am not sure if the parents are dodgy or not, I wouldn't like to comment BUT who does leave kids alone in a room at all, when they go for a meal? It's just wrong! Apart from getting kidnapped the children could have come to harm on their own. Really very wrong.
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:33:17
    - I still stand by my thoughts and opinions when this story first got thrown into the media years ago. I reckon the parents killed her. Perhaps not on purpose, but they were known for drugging their children to allow them to go out with social drinks. I think they over-dosed her, panicked and successfully managed to get rid of the body. At the end of the day, if it was a low-class family who left their kids unattended in a hotel room whilst they went out for a meal and a couple drinks, they'd be jailed without hesitation for child neglection. However, because these are two 'Doctors', it's all been brushed very cleanly under the rug. Hmm...
      Kari Rose
      08 May 2012 11:28:13
    - I didn't know that about them drugging them, why hasn't anything happened relating to that??!
      CaraSutra
      08 May 2012 13:39:30
    - Yep! The dad admitted to drugging the children when they wouldnt sleep! Who does that! I agree with Kari Rose, if me or anyone on here or in everyday living was to do something like that, we'd be in prison a long time ago and our children would be taken into care. Nothing, to my knowledge, has been done about the drugging of their children. Makes me sick and mad.
      Breda
      09 May 2012 15:25:54
    - I personally think if the parents were working class they would have been done for leaving their children alone. I find it disgusting at what they did and I don't think they deserve their other children. To me, they have always come across cold and un caring and it makes me wonder if they did drug them like many times before and it went too far and they did dispose of her :(
      BrummieGal
      23 May 2012 18:43:10
    - I always said the same as OhMyStarx - the only reason the media and several authorities didn't crucify them was class and social status. It would have been a whole different story if they'd worked in the local Asda I feel.
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:38:50
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    Girls! Shoes, Bags, Clothes or other?
    CaraSutra
    03 Jun 2012 09:58:02
    - What's your favourite to buy/be bought? I adore shoes, of course!! :)
      CaraSutra
      03 Jun 2012 09:58:02
    - I'm rather obsessive about shoes, though love good handbags too, nice clothes & lingerie are also high on my list of must haves! ;) Lastly I occasionally feel the need to add to my jewellary collection... OK I'm very naughty when it comes to nice things!
      ElizabethNSpire
      03 Jun 2012 10:23:03
    - Clothes and lingerie! I'm pretty much obsessed with shoes too, but my feet are so tiny (I think I'm an UK size 2/3 depending on the style. Ok, now you can laugh!:D) I can hardly find any that fit!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      04 Jun 2012 13:38:37
    - mawww teeny feet are SO cute! My gf is a 4 and I'm a 7. I'm considering having surgery so we can share shoes lol
      CaraSutra
      04 Jun 2012 13:44:17
    - That's what my ex foot feticist bf always said, but I hate them! Small is cute, tiny is a problem!:p
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      04 Jun 2012 14:23:01
    - I'm an insane shoe girl! Like on Sex and the City, I will be the old woman who lived in her shoes! Although, saying that since having children I dont have the money to splurge on pretty shoes! I now buy the girls shoes! All pretty shoes for my little girls!
      Breda
      04 Jun 2012 21:16:37
    - i love shoes, bags, clothes, undies ect ect but im other, i have a thing for nice smells, i love perfumes and really nice bath and shower stuff. i love to treat myself to molton brown products when ive got some spare dosh and i love love love LOVE boux avenue white chiffon fragrance products.
      Diamonds
      05 Jun 2012 18:40:43
    - Books, pens, notebooks... the odd cheap bit of eye makeup... I'm not a girly girl at all. My favourite scent to wear is too expensive for me to use often, can't get on with high heels, I'm such an odd shape that clothing doesn't fit half the time. But put me in front of Waterstones or Paperchase or Rymans and I'm a happy girl
      Kera
      05 Jun 2012 18:49:11
    - Ooh well stationery is hot too! Fountain pens and moleskin notebooks... ~orgasm~
      CaraSutra
      07 Jun 2012 15:39:38
    - Leather bags!!!!!! MMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:heart:
      Breda
      07 Jun 2012 16:27:25
    - I have new shooooes :D <3 http://carasutra.co.uk/2012/06/more-sexy-heels-in-todays-post/
      CaraSutra
      07 Jun 2012 16:34:02
    - *Cries because they are just so pretty *
      Breda
      07 Jun 2012 21:14:38
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2857, member: 1" Omg, those are AMAZING!!! And you have very pretty feet, Cara!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      08 Jun 2012 11:06:21
    - ive been looking for wedding shoes, i know in my head what i want but do you think i can find them? :(
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 19:52:43
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 2864, member: 46" Aw thank you! I don't really like my feet, I wish they were smaller. Having heels creates a better balance to them in my view though, I just don't feel as girly in flat shoes. At the moment they are bedroom shoes though until I get my centre of gravity back! xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Jun 2012 19:56:17
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    in need of a hug thread...
    Diamonds
    02 May 2012 17:40:16
    - i dont know why but right now i just feel like i need a huge crushingly tight hug, sadly on my lonesome :(
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:40:16
    - Big squeezzy squashy hugs from me!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 21:11:53
    - Me too please! I think I've just made a huge mistake with the guy I like! :(
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      02 May 2012 22:41:18
    - HUGS! for Diamonds and KOC :( We're always here for hugs :) Free hugs, roll up, get your free hugs here :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:25:52
    - Free Hug To Everyone :)
      Breda
      03 May 2012 15:08:18
    - Huge hugs for D!!! Hope you're alright hun xxxx
      Morbidia
      03 May 2012 20:19:29
    - Ok, I didn't make a big mistale but I've found out he has a gf!:( Nothing happened between us, but I really like him A LOT and I was hoping!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 21:22:00
    - O no:(
      Breda
      03 May 2012 22:14:58
    - I'm suuuuuch a lucky girl!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 22:18:05
    - Men! grr:ranting: I could rant all day about men!
      Breda
      04 May 2012 13:14:35
    - They can be such knobs sometimes :(
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 13:36:38
    - Oiiiii - we aren't all evil! AND women can be just as bad as any man! *HUGS* to the misandrists and non misandrists alike - see how forgiving I can be!
      edn
      04 May 2012 14:22:53
    - Hugs to everyone, I was just having one of them days when all you feel like is having a hug. Dxx
      Diamonds
      04 May 2012 15:59:09
    - Group hug! *hugs for everyone. Could be doing with just being held until I fall asleep. I miss that. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 May 2012 23:41:26
    - [quote="edn, post: 1867, member: 4"]Oiiiii - we aren't all evil! AND women can be just as bad as any man! *HUGS* to the misandrists and non misandrists alike - see how forgiving I can be![/quote] I did say SOMEtimes! ~tuts~ ALL men can be so judgemental... lol I need a hug today. I don't know why, I'm just feeling really, sad and insecure and worried and fat and ugly. Meh
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 07:52:55
    - Big hugs to Cara today!
      Breda
      06 May 2012 15:16:28
    - Big hugs to all those that need them. I'm feeling a bit iffy myself today, my knees gave way last night/this morning, then my fingers only just worked to undo/redo buttons.. I had a major body fall out really. Master did understand, so not all that bad but still enough to set me off on one
      Kera
      06 May 2012 20:35:02
    - I find myself in the "in need of hugs" corner too - another ATOS related fiasco :/
      edn
      06 May 2012 21:33:13
    - Hugs to you all, and anyone else in need of extra support, warmth, or affection........ plus the pervs out there :angel:
      Rebecca
      07 May 2012 08:28:09
    - i really fancy some nice snuggles, im sure the weather has something to do with it. its been dark and wet all day here which has made me just want to have the candles lit and be all warm and snugly.
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 20:02:19
    - I wish someone would give me a hug:(
      Breda
      11 Jun 2012 20:25:30
    - virtual one any good for you? *hugs*
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 20:27:24
    - Aww thank you
      Breda
      12 Jun 2012 17:20:49
    - Snuggly hugs for Breda and all who need them xxx
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 07:47:53
    - I find that when I need a hug, I read some Paulo Coelho. He seems to be able to bring the universe's arms right down to us for a big hug.
      Stal Lionne
      13 Jun 2012 11:55:11
    - Thanks for the virtual cyber hugs, they are needed in their thousands xxxxx Right back at you all with the hugs xxxxxxx
      Breda
      13 Jun 2012 20:57:28
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    Women in the Workplace
    Stal Lionne
    12 Jun 2012 00:13:53
    - Why do you think women are dominating the world of office politics? It seems as if men are becoming more fem in the office setting. Why are women so superior in the corporate world?
      Stal Lionne
      12 Jun 2012 00:13:53
    - IMO it seems to be based off of the fact that for the longest time women were following men because they didn't have the power yet within the corporate setting. However it has been in the past probably 20 years it seems that women have truly moved up in the workforce beyond what they originally were. These women have of course encouraged more women and the media projects this upon the population as well. All you have to do is take a look at how life is being projected of a woman nowadays. Women are challenging men for everything and this has had a positive and negative effect as it is always has with change within the social climate. Women are more driven than they ever have been it seems and it's not slowing down it's only going forward. Travel back 20 years ago and think of how different the corporate setting was.......what was the first blow to change this SEXUAL HARASSMENT and it has only gone from there. It's nothing new it's just the natural order of things, one change inspires another change one person breaks down a door and the other walks on through. I believe OVERALL though that was the biggest change to the corporate world that really shifted the power away from men to women. It wasn't the main catalyst but i do think it was a huge part of it most indefinitely.
      Demonic
      12 Jun 2012 10:50:36
    - I don't think they are becoming more Dominant in the workplace, I think they are merely finding their assertiveness and the proper balance is taking place. Women do have the natural ability to multi task and delegate, therefore it may happen that more women are in managerial roles. However in years past, when men were mostly promoted and in these positions, there was no large public stream of conversation about how men were obviously then better in the workplace and women were submissive. I am not a radical feminist and see such debates as insulting to women by their very nature, especially women who make a point of raising every topic about women 'beating men' in vanilla settings or being 'better' or 'topping men in the office'. There's no need, this is not a kink environment, everyone in this day and age should be able to get their job on their qualifications and skills and be paid the correct relevant age, without it becoming a gender war. JMO :)
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 10:52:54
    - Hmmm - I think women are dominating. Men in offices are becoming more and more fem - I'm shocked when they pull out pictures of their wives and families. Women seem to be able to work without Ego, while men use it as their balancing rod.
      Stal Lionne
      13 Jun 2012 11:48:56
    - "I'm shocked when they pull out pictures of their wives and families. " < I found this an odd comment to make? Why be shocked about it?
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 13:51:57
    - I meant that I was shocked they were married to a woman and lived a straight live. By their actions, I assumed that they were gay. I could care less what they were, but I found it odd that they acted so Fem. Perhaps Fem is no longer considered gay and that the roles of gender leadership are switching over. What was once a man's role is now a woman's, and what was once a woman's is now a mans. Interesting convo though.
      Stal Lionne
      16 Jun 2012 19:36:55
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    Favourite shopping sites
    Kera
    13 Apr 2012 15:07:02
    - So, instead of actually spamming the "Best thing on the internet" thread with shop links and leave it for other types of links, thought I'd start this one. Can be anything from clothing to candles to even silly bits and bats. I'll start off with the ones I know through the Lush forum ShottleBop - http://shop.shottlebop.co.uk/ Lydia Niziblian - http://www.niziblian.com/ Enchanted Bath - http://enchantedbath.co.uk Candlewick Greens - http://www.candlewick-greens.com/ PaperTiger Creations - https://www.facebook.com/papertigercreations Dragonfly Lane - https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Dragonfly-Lane/318176894885625 Button Pocket - https://www.facebook.com/ButtonPocket Arts and Candies - https://www.facebook.com/artsandcandies Whimsical Wren - https://www.facebook.com/whimsicalwren So yeah... I know quite a few really... :oops:
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 15:07:02
    - I love browsing on Iron Fist, Soho's and Amazon (yay, wishlists!)... shop a lot on eBay through the app too.... Other than that... haven't had any spare cash for shopping and things really... wish I did! I love candles and smellies and beauty things.
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 15:14:45
    - Amazon and Ebay are bad for my bank account! as for Iron fist, I'm really not keen on them for some reason, never really have been. With clothing I do often browse Kinky Angel, Attitude, Republic, Black Rose, MoonMaiden, Corsets UK and other sites.. Though, soon to only own PJs, the odd lounge clothes and dresses/skirts
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 15:22:25
    - So heading back to here when I can get on the laptop! I'm queen of shopping!
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:37:35
    - Not really a shopping site per se but I do tend to haunt http://www.hotukdeals.com/ rather a lot!
      edn
      14 Apr 2012 06:04:42
    - Does anyone go on/subscribe to those Free Stuff UK kinda sites? I have got some fun samples through them in the past :) Ok not as fun as buzzies, more useful like maybe coffee/laundry powder/makeup etc
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:08:49
    - our fav sites are and why we use them :- (www.sextoys.co.uk) for our vibes and other toys has gd qlty and great customer service FB(http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Vibe/188908746731) (www.bondara.co.uk) for our vibes and other toys FB(http://www.facebook.com/Bondara.co.uk) (www.purplepleasures.com) for our vibes and other toys FB(http://www.facebook.com/pages/PurplePleasures/113851641711?ref=ts) (www.lovehoney.co.uk) for our vibes and other toys and have great customer service FB(http://www.facebook.com/LoveHoney?ref=ts) (www.funfeelings.co.uk) for our fetish clothes the few things we have got are gd qlty for the price FB(http://www.facebook.com/pages/Fun-Feelings-Latex-and-PVC-clothing-wwwfunfeelingscouk/180168236432) (http://www.bodystockingavenue.co.uk) self explains (www.hardsextoys.com) for our gloves and lube (jlube) and some other fun devices and the newest one we like of which im wearing an item from there because sarah got fed up of me playing with hers to much she got me some of my own to play with lol they feel real too haha XD (www.discogirl.co.uk) for some dress up fun we've got a few items from there its good qlty at low prices FB(http://www.facebook.com/pages/Disco-Girl/364426916953668) they are new and def need a boost 57 facebook likes at this post they hold comps etc im the only one competing in the latest 1 with myself i might add, its for a nice wig im so posting a picture on there wall when i win against myself lol they weren't getting any posts on the comp so i figured i might as well get it started with a fun gesture haha they probs don't think i will how wrong they will be haha im always up for a laugh
      bessy
      15 Jun 2012 13:57:31
    - Wow thanks for the links!
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 13:51:03
    - your welcome enjoy they are direct links no nonsense stuff with cookies and tracking to 3rd parties eg affiliates etc i dont get some of the facebook 1s tho with the numbers but they seem to be needed so i left them in :D
      bessy
      17 Jun 2012 18:38:28
    - "bessy, post: 3076, member: 10" They form part of the URL? It's pretty standard practice for Facebook page URLs that haven't had a dedicated page name selected.
      CaraSutra
      17 Jun 2012 21:57:35
    - birchplace.com amazon
      Demonic
      18 Jun 2012 01:41:13
    - Is this just for saucy sites?????
      Breda
      18 Jun 2012 16:27:44
    - Nope, any shopping sites you particularly like :) Amazon is great, love the wishlisting feature, so useful. Also adore Irregular Choice, ASOS (recently found out it stands for As Seen On Screen! Yes I am the last to know :( ) and River Island. :)
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 04:59:19
    - ASOS was much better when they started out and really were As Seen On Screen - they originally stocked the cool stuff you saw in films and on TV and couldn't find anywhere else :)
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 09:47:23
    - AHhh ok that makes even more sense, than as seen on a 'computer' screen lol
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 09:54:34
    - I love Asos! I love any site that ships anything to Ireland for a tiny price and takes a laser/debit card!
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:54:31
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    im back had a little girl
    nica
    14 Jul 2012 03:06:07
    - :) im back i had a little girl on june 3rd 7lbs we named her savannah
      nica
      14 Jul 2012 03:06:07
    - Oh wow congratulations!! Hope you and she are healthy and happy :) How are you choosing to feed? How's the rest of the household? xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 Jul 2012 06:52:47
    - it took me a month lol before i sort of got some time to get on the internet back to this forum we are happy and healthy my 2 year old son adores his little sister im breast feeding like i did with #1 the household is great my partners are helping me out alot which is fantastic
      nica
      14 Jul 2012 07:37:47
    - Congratulations :)
      Breda
      16 Jul 2012 21:44:49
    - :D congrats! so many bambinos growing or being born... i wants one! :) lol
      Diamonds
      17 Jul 2012 19:39:55
    - Yeah I saw you tweeting about your dream the other day, Diamonds.. very broody! :)
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:28:53
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    Nosy Thread
    Breda
    04 Jul 2012 18:55:00
    - What's going on with everyone? It's very quiet on here of late! Get gossiping! :p
      Breda
      04 Jul 2012 18:55:00
    - I'm getting my hair done on Thursday! Not just a cut but a colour too ... :D
      CaraSutra
      14 Jul 2012 07:41:10
    - Ooh! Sounds good! Love getting my hair done! Must give a call to my hairdresser soon!
      Breda
      14 Jul 2012 11:49:42
    - ive had health and laptop issues :-/ no real gossip my end.
      Diamonds
      17 Jul 2012 19:41:40
    - You better now?
      Breda
      17 Jul 2012 23:34:04
    - Hmmmm gossip... well Harlot did her hair a couple of nights ago but sadly it was a bit of a fail... I went to get other colours yesterday and now it's bright red which is really awesome! x
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:31:28
    - I'm in Tuscany, arrived a few days ago. I'm not that excited, actually... it's boring! I can't go to the beach yet because my tattoo is still healing and I don't know anyone here. But I'm visiting my FWB in a few days, yay!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Jul 2012 21:55:27
    - What tattoo did you get?
      Breda
      20 Jul 2012 22:09:18
    - I had one of my tats fixed:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      21 Jul 2012 17:20:57
    - Awesome! I must get mine re done too!
      Breda
      21 Jul 2012 22:21:39
    - Oh wow that's an amazing difference! Did you know that one of the System JO Massage oils doubles as a tattoo replenisher? :)
      CaraSutra
      22 Jul 2012 18:06:47
    - No Cara, good to know!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      22 Jul 2012 19:48:43
    - It's this one here
      CaraSutra
      24 Jul 2012 18:44:46
    - I want it!!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      25 Jul 2012 00:18:27
    - Ello all - I'm another one with health issues - I've had a massive M.E. flare up which has been bad enough that I've had to move in with the parents for a bit as I can barely move :(
      edn
      29 Jul 2012 17:16:07
    - hugs for edn :( I'm feeling pretty useless atm, nothing much I can do except sit around while everyone else has fun. I know, I know, comes with the territory and I love being pregnant, so looking forward to the birth - but still have those ~meh~ kinda days. Especially now I'm coming into the third trimester and even getting out of bed/moving about feels like such an effort!
      CaraSutra
      29 Jul 2012 18:02:17
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    How to become a "professional" sex toys reviewer?
    Kiss_of_Crimson
    19 May 2012 21:25:35
    - Lately I've been thinking about starting a blog, to talk about sexuality, sex toys, and share my reviews, because there isn't a single Italian sex blogger and sex toys are still kind of a taboo here, you can just find some (bad, in my opinion) articles here and there on the internet. My questions are: I've only been testing and reviewing for sextoys.co.uk, do you think other companies would be open to send items to someone not UK or US based? And if so, how do you become a "professional" reviewer?
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      19 May 2012 21:25:35
    - Hey KOC - that's a great idea! I think that would be very popular. Lovehoney are great for sending out products that need reviewing, not sure if they send to you but they are very easygoing so I would think so. Not sure what you mean by professional reviewer. I think you can be as professional as you may it. Monetising your sex toy reviews comes from either being an affiliate and earning commission on referred sales, or you can build up your online persona and become THE place to be for great quality reviews then start asking companies to sponsor your site by way of banners and ads. Hope this helps :)
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 06:45:39
    - Thanks Cara! By "professional reviewer" I meant a person companies send products to review to, that's it! :D Do you think I should contact them to talk about my project and ask if they're interested?
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 May 2012 14:14:46
    - I would think you would be better talking to UK based companies in the first instance - presumably being in the EU the shipping costs would be lower than from the US which may be an issue for some of them?
      edn
      23 May 2012 22:21:14
    - That's true, I didn't think about it. I'll contact some italian stores too. Wish me good luck? :D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 May 2012 19:22:47
    - In bocca al lupo!
      edn
      24 May 2012 19:34:21
    - Awww, grazie! ;)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      25 May 2012 13:31:07
    - try www.kisskiss.ch they are in switzerland but they sent me 2 products to review. they maybe willing to send to italy. Also www.fleshlight-international.eu/ if you have a partner (they are in spain), you could try http://bsisnice.bigcartel.com/ they are in spain too
      Mrs JoJo
      05 Jul 2012 21:05:23
    - I think BS is nice is either Italian or Spanish Im not sure you could definitely try them, they have a gorgeous range of Dildos. I would suggest getting your blog up and running too, make it yours. Review some toys you already have so the companies can see your keen and genuine and a good writer. Add some blog posts of what you like let people get to know you and see your name out and about on the web. Get on some companies sextoy lists over here in the UK like Lovehoney and Sextoys; its mainly getting yourself known too and then companies will contact you. If your keen reviewer it wont take long to get noticed by companies, I think I got my first toy within a few weeks of starting my site and now Im having trouble keeping up and I love it. If you join some affiliates you can also make a bit of money too, the logos and banners make your site look more professional. But most importantly be you and enjoy it. If you need any advice ask anyone on here or email me, id be happy to help hun . Goodluck and cant wait to see your new blog. xxx
      Midnight Boudoir
      12 Aug 2012 12:15:41
    - Thanks a lot, MB! I've been busy with uni and some other things these past months, but now I'm working on this project again. Will update you!x
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      13 Aug 2012 23:57:06
    - Good luck KoC! x
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2012 09:05:40
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    Cats or Dogs?
    CaraSutra
    14 Jul 2012 12:11:57
    - Are you more a cat or dog person and why?! I'm definitely more a cat person as long as they're trained and everything... dogs just smell too much and slobber everywhere!!
      CaraSutra
      14 Jul 2012 12:11:57
    - I have to say both! I grew up in a house with at one stage 15 cats, a dog, and a cow. So I'm a lover of cats and dogs. They are both loyal companions. Cats are less needy than dogs. But the dog will love you when your feeling too needy for human contact! I'd love to get a cat but my dog has taken offence to them with where we live. They seem to torment him!
      Breda
      16 Jul 2012 12:00:55
    - Cats!! I have two!!!
      BrummieGal
      16 Jul 2012 19:59:32
    - cats! i miss my cat so much :(
      Diamonds
      17 Jul 2012 19:40:37
    - "Breda, post: 3354, member: 40" Hopefully the cow not IN the house :eek: lol
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:29:38
    - Lol! No, the cow lived in the shed at the back of the house!
      Breda
      18 Jul 2012 16:19:50
    - Aww :) Get any milk and that then?
      CaraSutra
      30 Jul 2012 10:32:23
    - Yep, we used have our own milk and eggs and free range chicken for sunday lunch!
      Breda
      30 Jul 2012 10:42:57
    - I'm cat crazy so cats win over dogs for me pretty much any day of the week!
      SubReiSkyeM
      08 Aug 2012 19:48:07
    - cats for me, miss my 2 boy who both lived to 18, have another now which had for 6 years, i wouldnt have a dog as they smell and you have to take them for walks, it amazes me how people who own dogs dont smell how their house smells when they walk in, i suppose they get used to it
      rach74
      15 Aug 2012 09:28:16
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    Cara's New Mistress site!
    CaraSutra
    12 Aug 2012 16:02:54
    - Just launched today - please come see - beware it is not for the faint hearted so if you are offended by FemDom and the like, don't visit :) http://mistresscarasutra.co.uk Feedback welcome (ie. tell me it looks nice lol)
      CaraSutra
      12 Aug 2012 16:02:54
    - I like the logo with the stiletto. :)
      Incendiaire
      15 Aug 2012 02:12:04
    - Thanks! @digitalharlot made it, drew the shoe freehand, she's very talented :)
      CaraSutra
      15 Aug 2012 10:15:31
    - I like your site. I feel it's "cozy". I don't know if I'm allows to use this word in bdsm :) it expresses who you are, not the "fake" picture of Mistress.
      Denied Boy
      12 Sep 2012 06:31:28
    - Thanks DB. I wanted a website which would have some depth and beauty, not the standard WYSIWYG website of most Mistresses, black background and white or red Arial text. Boring!
      CaraSutra
      12 Sep 2012 08:31:49
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    50 Shades of Grey
    Kera
    25 Apr 2012 12:05:43
    - I'm sure you have ALL heard of this book, its been doing the rounds of being spoken about on twitter, facebook and most other social networking sites (including Fetlife, obviously). But what isn't said is apparently this was originally a FAN-FICTION OF TWILIGHT. I'm sorry, I do read (and write) some fan fiction, but I would NEVER try publish it with a few name changes. The reviews speak for itself (and I bet the 4/5 star ratings are all twi-hards..) http://www.amazon.co.uk/product-reviews/B007L3BMGA/ref=cm_cr_dp_hist_1?ie=UTF8&showViewpoints=0&filterBy=addOneStar
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 12:05:43
    - Haven't read the book but aware of the discussions on twitter. Have to say my favourite review was this one http://eroticmusings.elenyalewis.co.uk/2012/04/01/fifty-shades-of-awkward/ xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      25 Apr 2012 12:13:03
    - Heard of this book of course, the mention of a pregnant belly being the subject of a flogging was enough to turn my stomach. Literally :/
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 12:14:51
    - I'm a glutton for punishment and downloaded the free sample just to see how bad it is. Wish me luck! EDIT; I'm twitching and need brain bleach STAT!
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 12:30:13
    - Good luck Kera, doesn't sound like it's going that well - lol xxx
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 14:10:44
    - I gave up half way through the sample. No way will I pay for it, ever.
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 14:46:20
    - I watched EL James being interviewed on Newsnight, apart from not really knowing what BDSM stood for dispite trying to make money from the subject she seemed uncomfortable talking about the whole subject. The interviewer, Jeremy Vine, I think, actually warned viewers not to google BDSM. It made me feel that whilst it was acceptable to write about a sub/Dom relationship actually living the lifestyle was treated as socially unacceptable. Almost like kids on the school playground crowded around a porn mag. xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      25 Apr 2012 14:53:23
    - Perhaps to people who are entirely vanilla it will seem like the best thing since slice bread? Playing devil's advocate, of course.
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 17:33:01
    - But gives those who are actually in the lifestyle a bad name. It's like twilight, only with smatterings of BDSM in it. And apparently unbelievable BDSM at that.
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 17:53:42
    - Without reading it, I cannot really form an opinion but from reviews and that interview the impression I got was that the author didnt have a clue and had done precious little research. That is something I find disrespectful to the people who do live the lifestyle that this woman is happy to make money from. Of you are going to write fiction based around a subject then do the research. xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      25 Apr 2012 18:23:38
    - I'm curious as to whether it'll manage to last longer for me reading than the Anne Rice ones... *almost considers going to take a look*
      P. Squared
      25 Apr 2012 18:52:12
    - I can email over the sample :angel:
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 19:11:53
    - I feel it's only fair to say that the following reply may contain spoilers. Like anyone really cares that I'm spoiling the first part of the book..... Well I've made it a fair way through and I've got to say it's one of the worst things I've ever read... and that's on the not-so-naughty bit! However, from the way it's written the naughty bits are really not going to do anything for me.... However, I'll carry on.... I mean, there's almost, no real attention, to the way that anything, is punctuated, so the whole piece, staggers and lurches like a drunkard trying, to reach the, bar for last orders. And reusing words and ideas and thoughts and.... URGH! Never mind - the female lead (Miss Steele) has just gone into the glass and steel building, which is made of glass and steel, so maybe she'll meet male lead... (He's going to be made of steel, or he'll have a steely gaze, or something else a bit metally....) - Oh wait a second, he's Grey, and steel is grey. There we go - sorted! And she's got a thing about blondes.... Everyone so far apart from our hapless heroine is a blonde. Ok - I'm gonna take that back a little bit.... everyone is so... clichéd - you've got security guards who are part of the furniture (black suits, even money on crew cuts and sunglasses - not named, so just grunt #1 and grunt #2), the female staff are all blondes (I think that might be plot relevent. We've already got the token political correctness covered off with the random African-American coming out of the office. And naturally, our hapless heroine is prone to make an idiot out of herself in a way that may be we are supposed to find endearing. Or something. I've made it about halfway through the interview, and I still don't know anything about him - except he's a control freak - she keeps telling us that, just in case the subtlety of the conversation (which is like a brick in a sock) doesn't let us know he's a control freak. Oh yes, and naturally he's going to post-pone his follow up meetings for our hapless heroine so that he can impress his that he's a control freak on her some more. However this time we're left to figure out for ourselves that he's a control freak.... but to make up for that fact we're reminded that she's clumsy, just in case we missed that bit earlier. WOOOOO! End of the first part! I made it further than Kera :D And so onto the next part....the inevitable conversation between hapless heroine and dumb room-mate. It's drawn out, it's painful (and not in a fun way), in fact, it almost feels like two characters from Sweet Valley High (oh wait - they're at university... better make that Sweet Valley University), but without any of the liveliness. As I'm reading their conversation I keep hoping for something dramatic - I'd settle for a rampaging bear about now, but instead we have sandwiches and stilted conversations about him (he's still a control freak, but this time she doesn't call him a control freak. She must be falling for him!) Not to worry, hapless heroine is going to have another stilted conversation, but this time with her mother.... this might get interesting. Hopefully her mum is calling to say the house has fallen over, or her favourite tree has to be chopped down or.... Nope - I was wrong. Just filler to demonstrate that hapless heroine has a backstory somewhere... Although I'm not sure where it is - I think it's probably lost under the sofa. Maybe some more characters would help... Some time passes (too slowly for me, struggling through this), but in the story it's now friday. A new character appears! José! I choose you! He's a photographer (or something), he drinks champagne (or something) and a day passes in three paragraphs and it's saturday and hapless heroine is back at work. But not to worry, Mr. Grey (the control freak) has put in appearance to buy stuff - it's a DIY store, so cable ties, masking tape and errrr... some rope - to be honest, I actually like the way that bit was done, so we'll give our authoress a pass on that bit. Of course, I happen to like cable ties and rope, but never done anything with masking tape. Oh wait! There's another character appeared... Paul, the son of the owner (not a control freak!) - but that's all I know.... Well..... somehow I made it to the end of the sample, and to be honest, I don't think I want to read any more. Nothing rude happened, for that matter, nothing really happened. But she's clumsy, and he's a control freak (just in case you forgot!)
      P. Squared
      25 Apr 2012 20:30:22
    - Just reading your summary feels like I've just had my brain smashed in with a slice of lemon wrapped around a gold brick. How does drivel like this keep getting published?
      Ethereal
      25 Apr 2012 20:36:48
    - "Ethereal, post: 1349, member: 23" I've got no idea! I'm not a fantastic writer, although I do manage to spin the occasional quite good story, but I really have not read anything that bad in a very long time - the only thing that even gets close is the Anne Rice ones (forgotten what they've called, got them around here somewhere).
      P. Squared
      25 Apr 2012 20:38:59
    - Soooo.. Pretty much Twilight, with added BDSM
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 20:41:10
    - "Kera, post: 1351, member: 3" But but but.... no-one sparkles! Oh wait! She's called Steele, and that's metal, and metals are sparkly! And there's lots of glass and steel (and control freakery)!
      P. Squared
      25 Apr 2012 20:43:09
    - Grey is also the colour of metal, which is sparkly
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 20:45:02
    - AND I just found the fanfic version! http://www.wattpad.com/1114636-master-of-the-universe-by-snowqueensicedragon
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 20:50:26
    - I need a drink.
      Ethereal
      25 Apr 2012 20:51:30
    - :rofl: It is just that bad.
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 20:53:00
    - Oops, you're probably not going to like the blog I just posted then :oops:
      SandA
      25 Apr 2012 21:03:40
    - SandA, I just read it and giggled my way through your blog post :D
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 21:07:00
    - @Kera Oh good... I feel better for getting it off my chest, time to take my own advice now and move on I think :)
      SandA
      25 Apr 2012 21:13:14
    - i must be living under a rock, i keep seeing the name of this book around but actually dont know anything about it!!! dont seem like im missing out on much though.
      Diamonds
      26 Apr 2012 12:58:51
    - It's a book that is out for pre-order in places, due to the BDSM theme people are a bit peeved that he author doesn't seem to have even half a clue about the subject and doesn't write realistically about the characters therefore making a bit of a mockery not only of BDSM but of erotica as a whole - also insulting that someone would think people would find that erotic or that its what people want.
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 11:52:12
    - Master and I saw the book in ASDA of all places. Picked it up and turned it to a random page, only to be greeted with something along the lines of '"Oh, Ana," he sighed during his release.' (In my defence, most men I've been with have grunted, not sighed when cumming...) W/we burst into laughter and left it on the shelves for some other person to pick it up :angel:
      Kera
      29 Apr 2012 20:56:19
    - LOL! Out of interest, how much is it in ASDA lol
      CaraSutra
      30 Apr 2012 09:57:50
    - Didn't see it in its rightful place (other than the bin..) but on the back of the book said 7.99, and there were no other stickers or that on the book.
      Kera
      01 May 2012 15:32:02
    - i saw it in waterstones the other day, a whole pile of them untouched, i listened to the first minute on itunes for free and my god what a snore fest. they literally just went on about metals and the colour grey.
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:24:33
    - I've made someone buy it for me from Lovehoney (free vibe with it yay!) so I can let you all know soon enough what my opinions are on the book!! x
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:29:44
    - I still wanna borrow it and then force Master to also read it :angel:
      Kera
      03 May 2012 19:35:29
    - 'force Master' made me laugh lol
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 07:58:56
    - I just know he won't read it, not after the first two chapters I sent him from that sample I downloaded :rofl: Saw it in tescos today, in the two for £7 deal thing they have on books. They also had the other two in the trio... All 3 are quite thick books actually..
      Kera
      05 May 2012 17:57:25
    - I've just finished all of 50 Shades of Grey!
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 16:41:23
    - And??
      Kera
      09 May 2012 18:50:47
    - Still plotting out my review ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 May 2012 09:32:25
    - I read all three books a couple of weeks ago. I felt the first book, was pretty poorly written, in dire of need of editing and proof reading. Yes, it is incredible cliched, tacky and reuses irritating terms - 'inner goddess', 'later's baby', 'twitching hand' ahhh! The plot is fairly predictable, fairy tale and pure fantasy. However, and a big however, I liked the books. for some reason I was unable to pull myself away from them. Sad, but true, I was riveted by the series. Not just in a 'so bad, it's funny' kind of way, but in the way they directed thoughts to kinkier things. My wife, was the same, sickened by the prose, hooked on the story and horny every minute. The second and third books, do have slightly improved writing and editing, which helps. I have also enjoyed the attention mass media and the general population have given these books, bringing a welcome boost to sales of BDSM and kinky gear - surely a good thing? Think of the number of vanilla's who have discovered a whole world sexual experimentation, since reading these books. Something they may never have dared consider previously. These reasons alone deserve a commendation.
      ChrisKinnk
      12 May 2012 22:32:07
    - What it is, is the rhythm of the writing. I really can't read it as I do trip over the sentences so often I couldn't concentrate. I am ever so slightly dyslexic, and do need a smooth flow in pieces anywhere, not just in books. and yes, it is a good thing that it has increased knowledge of the kinkier side of sex, and I do just hope that the people have read up on safety before hand.
      Kera
      13 May 2012 13:56:03
    - My 50 Shades of Grey (first book) review is here - I hope you enjoy.
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 14:38:25
    - I've read exerpts from it, and I really don't wish to subject myself to any more of it! The writing style just makes it eye-watering to read for me, tbh. Plus the BDSM fails just make me want to throw the book AT the author... lol.
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 16:09:06
    - I've heard good and bad things about it. I'm sure I will have my own views on it. Asda had it for £3 so I picked up a copy while I was shopping, not started it yet. Got another book I've just started so 50 shades will have to wait.
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 May 2012 09:57:45
    - I think it's good for people to read it first. It changes through the book. Although admittedly, a book I hated recently, I just HAD to stop reading half way through. It was bloody awful lol. I flicked through the rest and it was all the same from my scan reading, plotless and crap.
      CaraSutra
      17 May 2012 17:27:25
    - Have you seen this! The Guardian suggests erotic fiction that is 'better than 50 Shades of Grey.' Talk about being out of touch! Mills & Boon! Jilly Cooper! LMAO.... Wuthering Heights?? Well ok if you're into your English Lit but didn't get me reaching for the bullet vibe! ;) http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2012/may/29/erotica-fifty-shades-of-grey
      CaraSutra
      30 May 2012 10:15:52
    - I've read Flowers in the Attic, there was only one part of incest sex that I could see... They're all laughable books on that list, though what do you expect with it being Guardian (nothing against the paper though)
      Kera
      30 May 2012 10:57:29
    - I finally gave in and my copy arrived today, Haven't started it yet as if I'm to stand any chance of getting through it I'll have to finish anything else I'm currently reading first, hmm I'm almost viewing this book as a chore just to feed my curiosity, but I'll see how it goes :p
      llellsee
      31 May 2012 20:41:17
    - Wow big time haters of the book. OK. I thought the book was fabulous. I will say that the 2nd book was better then the first but she had to tell the story. I am obsessed with the series I am reading them for a 2nd time now. I guess I am a big fan of role play and seducing so taking it slow is the way role. :p I think J.L James is brilliant. I loved how the books were written, and I think she did her research and did it well. She took BDSM and made lots of people want to be a part of it. It did not seem like a painful thing to encounter but an erotic fun one! Overall love it ladies, too bad everyone doesn't share the same point of view.
      Steele
      02 Jun 2012 01:16:16
    - I thought the books (so far) were ok... there's definitely something addictive about 50 Shades. I don't agree that they were written all that well, the constant lip biting, his ghost of a smile and the way her 'sex' is generalised are annoying. Also him saying 'laters baby' just isn't him really... I want to give the author a thesaurus, sometimes I found exactly the same line to describe an event or happening, merely a page apart! It's very lazy. But yes overall, good story.
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 13:19:15
    - It does seem to polarising opinions on Amazon with the majority of the ratings being either one or five stars. Still as it seems to be topping the best seller lists all over the place the author (possibly using that term generously?) probably doesn't case and is laughing all the way to the bank any way :/
      edn
      02 Jun 2012 21:32:18
    - I ma in the process of reading it now, will let you know how it goes as I progress. Shan't hold my breath though
      Rebecca
      12 Jun 2012 12:38:08
    - Half way through reading it and though I've found parts of it more humorous than anything, I'll admit I'm quite enjoying the sex scenes :D
      llellsee
      12 Jun 2012 15:44:50
    - Right my 18 year old cousin has just ordered this book! What is the deal with this book???? I have heard of it but no nothing about it! I'm guessing it has some form of sex in it!
      Breda
      12 Jun 2012 17:49:27
    - Hey Breda, you can find my review for 50 Shades of Grey here. It is promoted as an erotic fiction that bridges the gap between vanilla sex story and BDSM fantasy. Most people who read it think it lacks on the BDSM side, but a lot of vanilla people love it. It has been very controversial and I encourage people to make their own minds up. You can get 50 Shades of Grey here :) There are also two sequels available, making up the trilogy. x
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 07:42:55
    - See Cara this is why I love you :heart:;)
      Breda
      13 Jun 2012 20:50:56
    - "Breda, post: 3008, member: 40" er why, lol? :) but thank you! <3
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 13:51:29
    - "CaraSutra, post: 3049, member: 1" Because you show us naive people where to get suff:)
      Breda
      16 Jun 2012 23:29:05
    - Aw well perhaps I have just shopped the internetz a little bit too much!! Lovehoney was out of stock last time I looked, but the paperback and Kindle editions are on Amazon too, cheaper apparently! They are also being sold in ASDA, according to Twitter :)
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 05:19:26
    - Sigh! I do not have this Asda you speak of! I have tesco but they dont freaking have it! Must go into an actual book shop tomorrow and see if it's there! Otherwise I will be taking my ex's phone and reading it from his phone!
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:52:59
    - Finished the first book and expected that I could just walk into a bookshop and buy the next two instalments but nope, they seem to be all sold out in Ireland! Not a copy to be found in Easons, except for the first book, so have them ordered online :)
      llellsee
      21 Jun 2012 19:00:27
    - Must have a look in Easons tomorrow!
      Breda
      21 Jun 2012 22:56:43
    - From what I've read it is a very vanilla take on BDSM and the majority I've spoken to that are into BDSM agree with me. I can see why the regular person enjoys the series it's designed to be enjoyed by mass consumption, but the BDSM side of things is very tame for my taste. I like alot more in my fetish and this book just doesn't have it. However I see why the average person loves this series, it is designed almost as a gateway for the vanilla one to learn more about BDSM. But this book just doesn't have enough to keep my interest
      Demonic
      22 Jun 2012 19:34:09
    - Yes it is a very pleasant love story with some slight plot twists and some designer shopping (which I enjoyed ) lol
      CaraSutra
      23 Jun 2012 08:18:43
    - I have it! Got the first two books yesterday when I took the small child to her appointment! I think it's great! Course then again I'm vanilla!
      Breda
      23 Jun 2012 11:29:53
    - Finally got round to reading 50 Shades of Grey. The first few chapters I read over a couple of days, took me a while to really get into the book. Everything about it told me I shouldn't be enjoying it. Sure there were little bits that bugged me but I found I couldn't put it down! I judge a good book by that very thing, if I can't put it down then it gets the thumbs up from me! Just about to start 50 Shades Darker. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 Jun 2012 19:14:04
    - I'm almost finished the first book!!!!!! Cant wait to read the second one!!!!!!!
      Breda
      24 Jun 2012 22:23:15
    - i bought all 3 and started on first one couple of days ago but am finding it bit slow to be honest but i will carry on
      rach74
      25 Jun 2012 15:05:51
    - I absolutely love the jokes and internet memes that have occured due to this. There's the 50 Sheds of Grey on Twitter... and yesterday a poster on Firebox.com made me laugh!!
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:33:43
    - Have you seen the Irish Shades of Grey hash tag on twitter! It's hilarious! I have compeleted the three books and now I am like I've lost something in my life! I loved every minute of them! I now love Christian Grey! Sigh!!!!!
      Breda
      18 Jul 2012 22:17:00
    - I don't know if it's the right place to mention it, but the difference I think in the 50 SOG thing is that people think it's an accurate portrayal of a BDSM lifestyle. Which it isn't. So it falls into two camps - those who think it's kinky as hell and a great love story, and those who feel all affronted by it as although it now seems more acceptable that you can talk about being into BDSM, it's actually nothing like reality. But then, how many virgins sign away their lives to billionaires these days anyway? Again, that's not likely, so fiction being fiction can take artistic license there. As an aside to that - I do write BDSM erotica and erotic romance. For three days only (13th -15th September) I will be giving away my erotica book 'The Training of Tess' free here https://www.allromanceebooks.com/product-thetrainingoftess-600531-147.html and if you thought 50 SOG was racy, then I should perhaps warn of the graphic nature of what I write, plus the fact that in erotica circles, my writing is considered tame!!!! The real hardcore stuff is very much more graphically written than what I do! The second book expands on the relationship more, but if you're interested in reading more in the genre, I would suggest that it might be a good starting point. If you do grab it as a freebie please do come back to me and let me know what you think!
      Tessa Wanton
      13 Sep 2012 14:12:38
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    Wear your kink on your chest!
    edn
    20 Sep 2012 19:06:12
    - As anyone who is facebook friends with me will know I've been working on some slightly fetishy themed t-shirt designs recently and the first of the series are now available on my online t-shirt shop :) Here's a quick preview and if your excited by the design you can find them here
      edn
      20 Sep 2012 19:06:12
    - I want one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D
      Breda
      20 Sep 2012 20:08:16
    - There will be more designs coming over the next couple of days ;)
      edn
      20 Sep 2012 20:09:31
    - See now, mr Ass! I live on the opposite side of the Irish sea, in a place called Ireland, weirdly shaped little Island off the coast of Britain! Anywho! Would your ass be able to ship me some t-shirts for a reasonable price? ;)
      Breda
      20 Sep 2012 20:43:39
    - They are printed and sent on demand :o You can get them from http://anomalyproject.spreadshirt.co.uk/ - on many different styles :)
      edn
      20 Sep 2012 20:46:42
    - How much or post and packaging?
      Breda
      21 Sep 2012 21:23:15
    - Delivery to (as far as I can see) anywhere in Europe apart from Germany is £2.20 which should be about 2.75 euro. I don't appear to have a euro symbol on my keyboard :o
      edn
      21 Sep 2012 21:30:13
    - I wish I didnt have the euro! ;) That's not too bad!
      Breda
      22 Sep 2012 10:11:55
    - That's the base cost for shipping a single item - it goes down as you order more stuff :o
      edn
      22 Sep 2012 11:10:06
    - And all the designs in the range are now available :)
      edn
      22 Sep 2012 20:03:23
    - Great idea. Keep it up
      Denied Boy
      30 Sep 2012 06:47:30
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    Guess the baby's name!
    CaraSutra
    19 Jun 2012 09:03:10
    - Just a bit of fun... We have decided upon the baby's name - I'm due 22 October. It will be a little boy. Feel free to put your guesses here! :)
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 09:03:10
    - Lucian - it's probably not I just like that name!
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 09:43:18
    - Nope, sorry! Had a whole stream of guesses on Facebook so thought this could be fun :D
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 09:53:57
    - Bob ;)
      Sable
      19 Jun 2012 10:49:25
    - It's not fair, I can't play! :)
      Sable
      19 Jun 2012 10:49:59
    - How about Billy so that when people ask if it's a family name you can say no he was named after my favourite vibrator :o
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 11:59:11
    - Awww, lil Lelo. lol
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 15:37:03
    - "Sable, post: 3122, member: 2" No you can't! And keep quiet! :p
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 15:37:19
    - ~sulks~
      Sable
      19 Jun 2012 22:28:21
    - #cute
      CaraSutra
      20 Jun 2012 07:39:35
    - Richard. Peter. John. Sebastian. Josh. Issac. Harley. Harvey. Malachi. Gerald. Denis. Kevin. Patrick. Edmond. Andrew. Micheal. Anthony. Toby(although that's more for a dog) Thomas. William. Robert(got that from the Bob) James. Daniel. Sean/Shaun. That's all I can think of and it's not one of them I have no idea!!!!!!
      Breda
      20 Jun 2012 12:23:36
    - Wilbur:p
      Demonic
      20 Jun 2012 17:29:26
    - Nope, sorry!!
      CaraSutra
      23 Jun 2012 08:28:08
    - Dante?? Wow it's going so quick hope you are well :-)
      Xxxgxstringxxx
      23 Jun 2012 08:42:01
    - "CaraSutra, post: 3194, member: 1" None of mine!? That's shocking! :p Albert?
      Breda
      23 Jun 2012 12:58:42
    - Nathan?
      Kari Rose
      23 Jun 2012 23:57:44
    - Lucas.
      Incendiaire
      24 Jun 2012 21:32:14
    - christian, dave, mike, simon
      rach74
      25 Jun 2012 15:08:15
    - It's going very quickly! No-one's guessed it yet, please keep trying! :)
      CaraSutra
      27 Jun 2012 11:39:56
    - Leo, James, Leonard, Victor, Jonathan, Gabriel, Christopher, Spock, Edward?
      edn
      30 Jun 2012 09:38:37
    - David? Jerry or Gerry? Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Jethro!
      Breda
      01 Jul 2012 15:40:34
    - Callum Ethan Richard Martin Damon Matthew Mark Luke Ben (or Benjamin) Noel Ian Lee Scott Fredrick Harry James Thomas John Daniel Sam (or Samuel) Jacob Cody Michael Alfred Adam Okay okay.. I'll stop now
      Kera
      08 Jul 2012 23:07:29
    - Nope none of those, sorry!! This is fun! :D
      CaraSutra
      11 Jul 2012 19:14:54
    - Raymond?
      Breda
      11 Jul 2012 19:21:15
    - Joshua Alexander Stephen/Steven Max
      Kera
      12 Jul 2012 16:58:26
    - Nope, sorry - are you all bored yet? Only 13 weeks to go!
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:28:10
    - No! We will get this! Bruce?
      Breda
      18 Jul 2012 16:18:42
    - Crispin? Lol it's the name of the male character of the book I'm currently reading :D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Jul 2012 21:53:26
    - Tristan! Brad!
      Breda
      20 Jul 2012 22:11:42
    - I like Tristan, but no :)
      CaraSutra
      24 Jul 2012 18:50:06
    - AWW! I'm going to go get a baby book of boy names and look up random ones! Richard?
      Breda
      24 Jul 2012 21:04:18
    - No! Would be shortened to Dick! :)
      CaraSutra
      30 Jul 2012 10:31:01
    - How About Ross ?
      Denied Boy
      11 Sep 2012 07:43:43
    - Reminds me of Friends lol
      CaraSutra
      11 Sep 2012 08:19:10
    - I can't believe I'm due in pretty much a week... Monday 22 October ... getting quite uncomfy now!!
      CaraSutra
      13 Oct 2012 07:46:23
    - And I can't believe no-one guessed the name - we're a bit useless aren't we!
      edn
      13 Oct 2012 08:11:56
    - Well it's a hard name to guess and it's not too long now before all is revealed... :)
      CaraSutra
      13 Oct 2012 08:15:09
    - Brian! Austin! Phillip! Dennis! Skyfall!
      Breda
      13 Oct 2012 15:43:57
    - Haha nope! But as he was due yesterday hopefully you all won't have too much longer to wait! I am resembling a weeble right now... not attractive... x
      CaraSutra
      23 Oct 2012 10:42:48
    - It's Willbur isnt it ;) Come out baby! We need to know what your name is!!!!!
      Breda
      23 Oct 2012 11:01:14
    - ~giggles~xxx
      CaraSutra
      23 Oct 2012 11:22:38
    - Pico? Lassi? Mokka? Chai? Sorbet?
      Innocent Loverboy
      24 Oct 2012 14:43:35
    - Burt! Have I already said Burt?
      Breda
      24 Oct 2012 16:05:38
    - Well, you were right! We never guessed it! Welcome to the world Blue Caspian :heart:
      Breda
      01 Nov 2012 23:54:55
    - So as many of you will have heard - Blue Caspian was born on Monday :)
      CaraSutra
      02 Nov 2012 17:13:05
    - Welcome to the world Blue Caspian xx
      02dohvia
      06 Nov 2012 15:05:53
    - Thanks! xx
      CaraSutra
      07 Nov 2012 18:51:48
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    Food or Drink you Crave right NOW!
    CaraSutra
    16 Apr 2012 12:26:51
    - Thought this could be good to get what you want (tummy wise) off your chest, so to speak! What nommyness do you fancy? I could really go for a bacon, avocado and brie baguette, with a side order of a chilled white!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 12:26:51
    - I want things with cheese right now... Pizza, cheese pastry, cheese hand cooked crisps, just everything with cheese.... I also want cookies, but don't know what type. Very hungry today.
      NymphomaniacNess
      16 Apr 2012 12:58:58
    - ~hugs the Ness~ Me too... I am craving all of the carbs right now..
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 13:46:44
    - Aww see now cookies have been mentioned, I would love some cookies :(
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:42:44
    - Marshmallows, lollies, sweet things but cold. Really not into hot big dinners atm!
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 10:15:23
    - Alcohol.
      Kera
      20 Apr 2012 17:26:44
    - Ice cream!!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 19:32:25
    - salty stuff! :jawdrop:
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 18:31:38
    - I fancied the pack of hot dogs in the fridge - just inhaled them :/ :oops:
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 13:11:58
    - cheesecake :confused: xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      22 Apr 2012 13:13:18
    - cold chicken and quiche omnomnom
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 10:50:01
    - fresh giant pretzel!!!! mmmmm soooooooooooo good :lips:
      Diamonds
      26 Apr 2012 13:00:13
    - Woah lol. I really fancy scrambled eggs, brought to me in bed. Not on toast or anything, just the eggs! Weird lol. Must need the protein...
      CaraSutra
      13 May 2012 07:24:55
    - Had a couple glasses of wine and can't wait to have my Sunday dinner, Chicken kiev, roasties and gravy.
      llellsee
      13 May 2012 18:43:47
    - Mmmmm, I live for food. Well, everyone kind of does, but I especially do! Gosh, I have not had a warm pretzel in ages! That sounds delicious--with loads of mustard! Before I saw that post, I was craving orzo salad with lots of feta and tomatoes.
      Pantied Muse
      13 May 2012 19:58:50
    - APPLE FRITTERS. AAAH. I've had a discussion with my partner about how it would be SO COOL if there was a fritter that regenerated as you ate it, with what you'd just eaten ( but in pristine condition ). Waugh. Also a soft pretzel with seasalt. And a white russian. Nom.
      t A
      15 May 2012 03:26:22
    - Pepsi Max for some reason!
      BrummieGal
      23 May 2012 18:40:19
    - Mc.Donalds. SO BADLY.
      t A
      27 May 2012 04:29:27
    - A big bowl of lightly sugared strawberries. YUM
      CaraSutra
      27 May 2012 08:34:55
    - Being on a stric diet, I crave everything!:mad::D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      29 May 2012 18:10:56
    - Meat. lots and lots of meat... I could never go vegetarian (Can't eat veg though..) note to self.. spell VEG not VAG!)
      Kera
      29 May 2012 18:51:23
    - Orange Aero bubbles! Yum!
      Breda
      29 May 2012 21:39:01
    - Something incredibly icy. Perhaps a strawberry flavoured calippo, or solero shots...
      CaraSutra
      30 May 2012 09:32:22
    - Nothing especially, nicely sated from king prawn egg fried rice that Waz made for dinner :D
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:46:44
    - Well our fridge freezer has been gently thawing since last night, so by the time I get home I'll be spoilt for choice on de-frosted goodies that 'need' eating in the next 24 hours before it all goes off! Someone's got to do it, and I'll volunteer for the job... Except what I really want is a take-away curry!
      SandA
      01 Jun 2012 14:04:56
    - Dominos pizza, but instead the kids won out and its pizza hut
      Kera
      01 Jun 2012 15:33:18
    - chicken satay, with mushroom rice and spring rolls! OM NOM NOM
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 18:50:20
    - Pepsi Max for some reason lol
      BrummieGal
      03 Jun 2012 17:07:16
    - I woke up first thing thismorning fancying original hula hoops, the hubby kindly popped out to get me some :D Right now I'd love a tomato roll and a big bowl of soup to go with it.
      llellsee
      03 Jun 2012 17:17:41
    - Root Beer - even though it smells and tastes like germolene!
      edn
      03 Jun 2012 18:17:40
    - "edn, post: 2776, member: 4" What the hell is root beer lol
      BrummieGal
      04 Jun 2012 08:04:53
    - Here you go: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Root_beer
      edn
      04 Jun 2012 08:06:49
    - "edn, post: 2793, member: 4" Oooo okay!! Looks very weird lol
      BrummieGal
      04 Jun 2012 08:09:55
    - It's very much an acquired taste - but addictive once you acquire the taste!
      edn
      04 Jun 2012 08:12:17
    - "edn, post: 2796, member: 4" is it similar to ginger beer?
      BrummieGal
      04 Jun 2012 08:13:04
    - Not really - it's a sort of vanilla-ey slightly medicinal taste :/
      edn
      04 Jun 2012 10:33:28
    - I always find root beer to be a bit mouthwashy :/ Ginger beer though mmmm yummy. Right now... well I had my brekkie craving which was scrambled eggs on toast... hungry again now. I fancy something warming to get rid of the grey day blues... perhaps a big pie n mash lol (how British!! :)
      CaraSutra
      04 Jun 2012 13:30:55
    - Ice cream!!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      04 Jun 2012 14:24:16
    - some hotel chocolate would go down a treat. :heart:
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 19:58:55
    - Yet another coffee, lol
      CaraSutra
      01 Dec 2012 08:41:18
    - You'll be running round the walls! I crave chocolate - as always :/
      edn
      01 Dec 2012 08:48:57
    - Hot tea.
      Breda
      01 Dec 2012 11:45:33
    - A bottle of dr pepper but I am not allowed it =( xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:57:22
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    virtual hampers, what would you put in...
    Diamonds
    11 Jun 2012 20:36:15
    - After looking at the comp part of the forums and seeing all the fab bundles of prizes over there, it got me wondering what kind of things people would put into a gift hamper for anyone on here. im going to come back and post mine, in more detail. but i think mine would be a huge mix of items and not just naughty products. i also put a lot of thought into gifts normally so i would like to think there would be a few well placed items that i think the person would like as it would mean something to them.
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 20:36:15
    - Mine would have to include some lovely bath things, as well as more supersex and pin up bullets (love them!) and of course some sexy shoes...
      CaraSutra
      29 Nov 2012 15:23:46
    - I love gift sets by bijoux so would have to do a selection of them, also some christmas goodies with a few dress up ideas and shoes =)
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 23:09:18
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    Dieting at Christmas
    CaraSutra
    30 Nov 2012 16:56:03
    - Good idea, bad idea? I am feeling SO huge right now, I have so much weight to lose. If I eat crap all through Christmas as well I won't be able to leave the house! Seriously. Any diet tips gladly accepted!
      CaraSutra
      30 Nov 2012 16:56:03
    - Hi Cara After my daughter, I decided on ADF (alternate day fasting) which is based on science, not what some skinny celeb seems to be doing this month! ADF works by in taking normal food one day and restricting to 600 calories the next, I am now at pre baby weight after doing it for four months :D yay! xxx
      Sirs Submissive slut
      01 Dec 2012 13:44:38
    - [FONT=Arial]I have a few handy hints and tips for you, I lost 3 stone after having ellie although I still have a bit more to lose but these are helping....[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Make all your cooked and cold meals for the day in the morning place them in the fridge, so if you do need to snack all you have to do is heat it up (if hot) or unwrap (if cold).[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Buy some containers poundland sell them for baby food etc. Add chopped fruit or nuts and take them out with you, so your less likely to buy stuff while your out.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Eat carbs closer to the beginning of the day say breakfast, lunch and vegetables and meats for tea etc your body has more chance of burning them off before you go to bed.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Snacking on biscuits and crisps is fine just in moderation (limit it down to one bag of crisps and 4 biscuits a day).[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Don't stave your body of what it needs if it needs chocolate give it chocolate but instead of a whole bar have a few strips.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]It's not a diet it's a healthy way to have food in moderation and a life choice not just for a few weeks so it has to suit you forever although take out is fine once in a while just limit it to once a week [/FONT]
      [FONT=Trebuchet MS]=)[/FONT]
      [FONT=Arial].[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]For instant results within a few days[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]If you feel hungry drink some water, often the body confuses thirst for hunger if it doesn't go away then eat.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Always drink a glass of water before a meal makes you fill up quicker.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Avoid salt- Retains water...[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Avoid fizzy pop- Bloats you[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Drink plenty of water- flushes toxins out of your body...[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Eat wholemeal and wholegrain- Firms up skin and makes breasts look fuller and feel firmer.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Hope this helps hun xx[/FONT]
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:52:26
    - Loads of fab tips there! I have noticed the jeans are way too tight lately so looking to just loose a few pounds. With my bad joints I can't even do my usual walking that I do let alone much other exercise. I think with me it's my portion control! I make yummy food, can't help it! Stopped smoking and I put on a pile, doesn't help one of my meds, the side effect is weight gain! Just my luck! Think I will take on some of the tips and see how it goes. If I can stop smoking I can loose a few pounds! Good luck to anyone who is trying to loose weight! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 Dec 2012 12:58:44
    - Dear Cara, I can recommend lots of fruits and vegetables. The veg soups are very good especially for this period. I think you can eat basically what you want if you don't exceed quantities and put fruits and vegetables at the first point. Anyway, I don't believe that you are over-weight at all. You're always beautiful!!
      Roger Volt
      04 Dec 2012 17:38:41
    - Thanks for all the tips! Apparently with breastfeeding at the moment I am meant to be having something like 3000 cals a day, but that seems loads and I think it's that I'm impatient and want to lose the weight faster. Grrr. Portion control is a great idea as is the fruit and veg. I would do alternate day fasting but I think people would get cross at me not eating with them!
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 08:57:05
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    What's your favourite Christmas advert?
    CaraSutra
    01 Dec 2012 06:53:09
    - ...and is that John Lewis one as good as last years'? I love the song in the Iceland ad, from Willy Wonka (the original film) but I think it's too good to be on an Iceland advert! What's your fave?
      CaraSutra
      01 Dec 2012 06:53:09
    - I always love the coca cola advert, you know christmas is here when you see it =) xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:58:34
    - That advert does mean Christmas has started alright! I saw it first about a week or so ago. Love that warm glow you get when you see it :)
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 09:02:32
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    Been toooooooooo long!
    PrincessRaggydoll
    04 Dec 2012 12:23:30
    - Hello you lovely lot! Some of you may know me, some not. I have been a naughty Minx and not been about for a while. Personal reasons and lots of pain have been keeping me away but time I got my ass back on here. I was going by the name of sexylittleminx but PrincessRaggydoll is my new name. Some of you might know me as that on twitter anyway. So as some of you may not know me, thought maybe a new wee into was in order! I'm a single Mum of one. I have a condition called Ehlers-Danlos syndrom, type 3, hypermobility syndrome so I suffer chronic pain. I try my best not to let it be who I am and do my best to just try get out there and enjoy life! I have a love of sex toys and love putting them to the test! I am also into my local Fetish scene! I LOVE twitter so if you want you can follow me @DynamiteMinx. Anything else just ask! Or fancy a chat then feel free! Looking forward to catching up with old friends and making new ones! xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 Dec 2012 12:23:30
    - [LEFT]Heya huny its great to see you back in the seat again, you've been missed. I hope some of the problems have resolved now and that your health has stayed on bearable level.[/LEFT] [LEFT] [/LEFT] [LEFT]Hope your boy is ok too, your great Mum.[/LEFT] [LEFT] [/LEFT] [LEFT]Anyway Im always here if you fancy a chat too.[/LEFT] [LEFT]lots hugs[/LEFT] [LEFT]Midnight xxx[/LEFT]
      Midnight Boudoir
      04 Dec 2012 12:45:28
    - Midnight hun, thank you! Lovely to see you on here too. My boy is a star! He is a fantastic young carer and does a great job of helping me. Make a fab team! My health is pretty rubbish just now if I'm honest. Waiting on another appointment with the specialist :( On my good days I make sure I get out and enjoy myself! On a bad day, like today it's the walking stick! Not sexy, think I need to bling it up a bit! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 Dec 2012 13:19:51
    - Hi sexylittleminx, I am 02dohvia or vixxy if you wish, I feel your pain like you I have a number of medical issues and find it hard to cope most days. I have fibromyalgia and suspected lupus (test results pending), also have nerve damage in my left hand and wrist. I have two children one boy and one girl, my son is said to probably be autistic and my daughter is 19 weeks old now and is a little teether at the moment. I am also here for a chat if you wish. I hope you having a good day pain wise today xx
      02dohvia
      04 Dec 2012 13:31:19
    - Thanks Vixxy. I feel your pain too! I could have a list as long as my arm with my health issues just now. It must be hard with 2 kids. My son is nearly 15 and is a fantastic little carer. I'm very lucky. Pain wise I'm using my walking stick and not been out the house (bad day), lad has his young carers club after school so need to take the dog out soon myself. It's like an ice rink out there! Snow pics on my twitter from yesterday! Cara had an awesome idea so off to make a new thread!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 Dec 2012 14:58:03
    - Hiya again - I keep in touch on Twitter and Facebook but brilliant to see you here again hun. Massive hugs for the pain, sounds awful, wish I could help more :( You always make me smile anyway and your pics from the naughty events you attend are always exciting! I need to get back into the scene next year. x
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 09:05:10
    - Thanks everyone. It is lovely to be back here Cara. Had an awesome time at the weekend. Plenty of bruises and lots of fun at the weekend. I was explaining to some people that the, what I call self inflicted pain, really helps to detract from my chronic pain. And I like it! xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Dec 2012 23:04:27
    - Hey, it's great to see you again. Didn't know you changed your name but it suits you. If you need to chat or anything then send me a message :)
      Rose Rouge
      20 Dec 2012 16:21:10
    - I will do hunny. Thanks. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      22 Dec 2012 21:10:57
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    One Positive Thing About Today
    CaraSutra
    15 May 2012 16:51:53
    - A place where we can try to feel a little brighter! Just put one positive thing about today, no matter how small. Keep it going!! For me, I finally managed to write up the 50 Shades Review - been on my mind for ages and worrying away my mind. Glad to finally complete it! phew How about you guys and gals? xxx
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 16:51:53
    - I did really well in family first aid, and remembered a lot from the last few sessions.
      Kera
      15 May 2012 17:52:32
    - My new lingerie arrived, so I don't have to worry about whether or not it will come in time for the fet night on Saturday :)
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 18:05:23
    - Wow, love that lingerie set NymphetamineKiss! One positive thing about today: I could relax! It's been a crazy month so far, I need to rest a little!:)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      15 May 2012 19:01:25
    - Not sure I'll be brave enough to wear it on Saturday but I'll at least try! :D
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 20:39:46
    - I got an email back from one of my sponsors; they're sending me an e-stim kit! So happy. XD
      t A
      15 May 2012 22:49:49
    - :O That's amazing!
      NymphetamineKiss
      16 May 2012 01:47:28
    - I know, right? Also that lingerie is absolutely gorgeous!
      t A
      16 May 2012 02:21:22
    - Going to watch the new American Pie movie at the cinema :)
      Scott
      16 May 2012 13:49:28
    - I had an amazing time with my friends tonight!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      16 May 2012 22:34:14
    - :( There was actually nothing positive about today. Today was horrible.
      Kari Rose
      17 May 2012 01:04:45
    - Rose, I am officially offering you internet-cookies. They're chocolate! I also hope you feel better. A positive thing about today was that my huge order came in and I got an extra free item on top of the 3 I'd already received. Daaang, EF!
      t A
      17 May 2012 04:07:16
    - One positive thing about today would be that I'm drinking tea
      Breda
      17 May 2012 11:37:56
    - my one positive thing would be that Thursday's are like my Friday, no more work until Tuesday
      Boobaloo
      17 May 2012 16:52:11
    - I had a lovely shopping trip with my girlfriend and we had nice chats and snuggles :)
      CaraSutra
      17 May 2012 16:53:43
    - I get to sit outside today because it's so nice!
      t A
      17 May 2012 23:36:55
    - Even though my partners were on a rare day out to the office, I got to have lovely snuggles when they got home :)
      CaraSutra
      18 May 2012 17:05:59
    - hearing "thank you Mumma" from youngest, who is still trying to learn to talk, when I gave him his Vit D medicine
      Kera
      18 May 2012 17:22:02
    - Not loosing my temper!
      Breda
      18 May 2012 20:48:24
    - I finally got sandals that don't hurt my feet. Yay!
      t A
      19 May 2012 00:12:22
    - I cuddled with my dog a lot and the diet is working... -1kg!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      19 May 2012 12:36:04
    - I have chocolate :) xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      19 May 2012 17:51:36
    - Actually had a rather productive day around the house today. My wife and myself, cleaned the long over due car, in and out, and waxed. Just need to do the same for ourselves now...
      ChrisKinnk
      19 May 2012 19:25:16
    - I'm being really productive today, too. Updating my blog pages, cleaning it up, fixing my facebook... I feel good.
      t A
      19 May 2012 23:05:39
    - Ooh well one positive thing about yesterday (as I was very naughty and didn't post on this thread) was that despite being home all day I got to see my lovely girl in the evening and we had extra hot snuggles :)
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 06:48:44
    - Nothing really positive about today so far, last night at 4 am there was a strong earthquake here in my area (yeah, again! but this was really strong! I was still up and felt it in all its glory): 6 victims and extensive damage. Damn! :( I'm terrified!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 May 2012 14:17:55
    - I have stew in the oven and my temper is barely here today!
      Breda
      20 May 2012 15:41:45
    - A very positive thing about today is my diet is really working: -2.5kg in 6 days!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 May 2012 13:20:09
    - ^^^ WOW congratulations! Not sure you need a diet though! :p Well me? I've actually managed to get on with some laundry AND some reviews! Hey hey! go me :)
      CaraSutra
      23 May 2012 14:18:59
    - I finally feel better for the first time in a week lol
      BrummieGal
      23 May 2012 18:39:26
    - I'm home!!!!!!!!!
      Breda
      23 May 2012 20:52:05
    - That it's finally lovely and warm outside! Let's hope it stays that way...
      CaraSutra
      24 May 2012 10:15:51
    - It's lovely and sunny and warm!!!!!! Beach after dinner, hurray!!!!!!
      Breda
      24 May 2012 14:51:22
    - Positive thing for the day - I have an excuse to the send the uber-hot Ms Kiss of Crimson hugs for the evil earth quakes!
      edn
      24 May 2012 15:26:44
    - Awww, thanks!:oops:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 May 2012 19:23:49
    - I got a sensor cleaning kit for my camera through today and managed to clean it without damaging anything so I have sharp dust free photos again :D
      edn
      26 May 2012 22:45:37
    - I found a portable version of a video editor that lets you change the pitch of your voice. Yaaaay!
      t A
      27 May 2012 04:30:09
    - That it's absolutely stunningly beautiful weather and it makes me feel so happy! :D Loving the sunshine!
      CaraSutra
      27 May 2012 08:34:23
    - It's sunny and warm and I feel amazing!;)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      28 May 2012 10:43:19
    - productive day, laundry done and house is cleaner xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      28 May 2012 15:12:33
    - Fish and mushy peas for tea - yum!
      edn
      28 May 2012 18:13:35
    - Did the washing up when I cam home!
      Breda
      28 May 2012 22:51:23
    - Last day at work before holidays Yayyyyyy that is the very positive thing for me today. :)
      uksrob
      31 May 2012 10:28:16
    - Got to sleep in this morning! Children off school till Tuesday!
      Breda
      31 May 2012 11:54:56
    - I got a new lingerie set today which I love :p its very Pink, which is not usually my style but I'm pretty smitten with it.
      llellsee
      31 May 2012 21:06:17
    - First proper weigh in at SW (i.e. not our very first "start weight" one) and we each lost 8lbs :D
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:20:49
    - I'm after winning something in one of Cara's competitions!!!!!!!
      Breda
      01 Jun 2012 10:06:38
    - I didn't have to go to the hospital this morning after putting my shoulder out. Winning something in Caras comp. Also that I have strawberry tarts! ;-)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      01 Jun 2012 13:28:46
    - 5pm
      SandA
      01 Jun 2012 14:08:40
    - I got lovely things in the post and had a McDonalds brekkie! Yay me!
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 13:20:02
    - My Human Genetics exam went very well! Yay for me!:D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      08 Jun 2012 11:07:04
    - Got my prize :D
      Breda
      11 Jun 2012 12:52:13
    - I got a massive set of makeup brushes in the post! :)
      CaraSutra
      11 Jun 2012 13:33:38
    - Ive worked hard on my blog the last few days (some behind the scenes stuff and a blog post and adverts today) loving getting back in to the swing of things :)
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 19:51:25
    - I got a package in the mail it was a book i had been dying to read :)
      Demonic
      11 Jun 2012 19:52:43
    - That by the end of today Harlot will have had her surgery and hopefully be on the road to recovery!
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:34:13
    - I'm watching animal planet!
      Breda
      22 Jul 2012 19:30:39
    - That I managed to wash my hair for the second time since the colour and it's not gone back to brown yet! W00t
      CaraSutra
      24 Jul 2012 18:45:08
    - I have not lost my temper at all today!
      Breda
      24 Jul 2012 21:00:47
    - It's my birthday!! YAY
      CaraSutra
      26 Jul 2012 16:51:07
    - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR CAAARRRAAA!!!!!!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU!!!!!!!:heart: Have a great day xxxxxxx
      Breda
      26 Jul 2012 16:54:10
    - Also I am looking after my niece's today, that's my positive thing!
      Breda
      26 Jul 2012 16:54:50
    - [quote="Breda, post: 3447, member: 40"]HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR CAAARRRAAA!!!!!!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO YOU!!!!!!!:heart: Have a great day xxxxxxx[/quote] Thank youoooooooo!!!
      CaraSutra
      26 Jul 2012 17:41:27
    - Well I never... My positive thing today was actually sitting down and being able to browse Sextoys forum and finding I won a competition!
      Kera
      28 Jul 2012 17:35:37
    - Congrats! Today it's that I was brought breakfast and coffee in bed! Hurrah
      CaraSutra
      30 Jul 2012 10:30:08
    - Today I had some kinky pictures taken!! They're on Facebook & Twitter!
      CaraSutra
      04 Aug 2012 19:55:09
    - I had a nice dinner with my sisters and one of my friends
      Breda
      04 Aug 2012 22:53:13
    - Positive thing about today... I had coffee and parma violets?
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2012 09:48:55
    - positive today as my 2nd wedding anniversary yesterday and was spoilt all day and had lovely meal, so in good good mood today :)
      rach74
      15 Aug 2012 09:40:40
    - Aww congratulations! Today - well I don't have to move around much... ? Hmmm - not much happening right now apart from working through a Great Big Online To Do list lol
      CaraSutra
      15 Aug 2012 11:20:31
    - that i been off work today and tomorrow so thats always a bonus lol
      rach74
      16 Aug 2012 16:09:05
    - It's Saturday!
      CaraSutra
      18 Aug 2012 08:24:15
    - My niece is having a party for her 14th birthday today!
      Breda
      18 Aug 2012 11:18:48
    - Aww hope she had a nice time. Today.... erm... roast lamb for dinner. Nice :)
      CaraSutra
      19 Aug 2012 18:28:23
    - I finished braiding my first whip today (5 foot black and orange paracord) and it makes a really good crack and only made my fingers bleed a little bit!
      edn
      03 Sep 2012 20:50:30
    - My children went back to school today!!!!!!!!
      Breda
      03 Sep 2012 21:20:55
    - My uberkinky tester package arrived with a Wartenberg Pinwheel and two lots of bondage tape inside!
      SubReiSkyeM
      04 Sep 2012 00:10:29
    - Kids are back at school! Finally! :)
      CaraSutra
      05 Sep 2012 10:20:46
    - I rearranged my front room and cleaned all the dust off the stairs.
      Breda
      05 Sep 2012 12:15:33
    - I mostly tidied the whirlwind of mess in the Harlot's room, after she'd gone to work this morning... although I can't change duvet covers... too achy! I have hoovered the front room and I've had toast with cherry and chocolate jam! Hurrah Oh and I managed to get a shower, finally. Yeah, my life is getting very ambitious lately, I know
      CaraSutra
      06 Sep 2012 12:40:00
    - I had a lovely hot shower just now!
      CaraSutra
      01 Dec 2012 08:39:52
    - My Children
      Breda
      01 Dec 2012 11:47:19
    - My daughter is finally able to go forward in her baby walker after several days of going backwards =) xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:55:12
    - I had leftover chicken casserole which meant all I had to do was warm it up for lunch! Positive thing in my book! It was yummy!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 Dec 2012 12:34:50
    - Went to Fota Wildlife Park in Co Cork, that's in Ireland! Had a great day!
      Breda
      04 Dec 2012 21:06:40
    - OMG I've been to Fota! I went years ago, probably about 1999 something like that. :) Ok positive about today? I've had a lovely coffee already and I've done a new post. About tea and coffee! lol Read here: How to make a decent cup of tea or coffee
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 08:55:37
    - I had a very positive therapy session!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Dec 2012 23:09:13
    - My laptop is working!
      Breda
      10 Jan 2013 20:12:47
    - The girl's mac which was broken over Xmas (grr kids) is being sent off to be fixed! YAY
      CaraSutra
      11 Jan 2013 13:18:51
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    Calling all crafters!
    PrincessRaggydoll
    04 Dec 2012 15:09:19
    - I have a charity night I'm helping out with in a couple of weeks and I have my Angel costume all sorted. Due to my joint condition I am having to wear flat shoes so no sparkly heels for me. I have bought a cheep pair of white canvas shoes with the thought of blinging them up myself. They are a bit like dolly shoes, you know with the strap across the front? Boring! Soooooo my costume is white and silver, sexy as hell! Shoes are looking a bit out of place so what ideas do people have? I am a crafter, do card making, cross stitch, that kinda thing so have boxes of bits and pieces, scraps of this and bits of that. But what do I do with them? Ideas on a postcard or on here will do! Thanks in advance! Gets the glue at the ready!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      04 Dec 2012 15:09:19
    - Glitter! Coat in glue and dunk in glitter, or like Diamonds said on Twitter sticking on faux gems... you could get some delicate slim ribbon and fashion bows for the fronts of them too :)
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 08:57:47
    - I would go with glitter also!
      Chili
      06 Dec 2012 09:10:18
    - So I covered the toes of the shoes in glue then covered them in very fine silver glitter! Wore them to the club on Saturday and they held up pretty well. Might raid the craft box and see if I have some nice ribbon and put some bows on too. It's Christmas, can't go overboard!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Dec 2012 23:08:13
    - Do you have pics? :D
      CaraSutra
      05 Jan 2013 10:32:56
    - There are pics of me that night but no close ups of my shoes. Will get onto it later! The amount of people who said they liked my shoes and were surprised that I decorated them myself. They thought I bought them like that. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 Jan 2013 09:32:52
    - If you like crafts you should check out my friend's etsy store for hand crafted bondage gear, M'Lady's Chamber and follow on Twitter :) ~pimp alert lol~
      CaraSutra
      17 Jan 2013 15:18:25
    - Not taken pics of said shoes yet but I have followed your friend on Twitter and will check out her store. Thanks Cara. I had an awesome idea for a friends birthday card, it's a biggie (birthday) and thought I would make him a card. All will be revealed!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 Jan 2013 19:10:12
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    Gay marriage - good or bad?
    CaraSutra
    13 May 2012 07:45:24
    - So.. in this whole debate/debacle - are you for or against gay people being allowed to marry? Why? Thought this could be an interesting one.
      CaraSutra
      13 May 2012 07:45:24
    - I can't think of a valid reason why gay people shouldn't be allowed to marry. I saw this posted on Twitter which offers a unique perspective on the issue: https://twitter.com/#!/davidshearing/status/200490367072731136/photo/1
      AliMc
      13 May 2012 09:03:53
    - I think that the question really is do they want to be able to Marry, they can already have a Civil Partnership which gives them the same rights as Marriage, I have quite a few gay friends and the opinions with them are mixed, some are for it and see it as been accepted and been equal, and others see Marriage for straight people and are quite happy with things as they are now. I'm not really sure if I am for or against it if I am honest, I can't see any reason to be against it, but I can see the points that my gay friends make against it and understand where they are coming from to. tricky
      Boobaloo
      13 May 2012 13:44:19
    - [LEFT]I think it's fine. The 'against my religions' reasons should, imo, be shelved considering 'marriage' was around way before religions. It was an arrangement between families before religion wormed its way on in there.[/LEFT] [LEFT] [/LEFT] [LEFT]I've thought about it before and I honestly can't think of any reason that it shouldn't be a thing... but I also think that civil partnerships should also be an option. [/LEFT]
      t A
      15 May 2012 03:22:43
    - I can't think of any good reasons against either. It's unnatural? What, like shaving your legs (women) or your face (men)? God's against it? Still? Is he still against eating seafood and having sex on your period? Maybe there should be a Bible sequel. ~looks up~ No? Well how about this to ponder, perhaps you know, even if this 'God' does exist - how do you know that he hasn't made it be 'fine' now for people to be gay, seeing as the world is overpopulated? After all, to get populated in the first place there must have been a lot of incest. Isn't THAT now illegal? Marriage is scared? Oh, so the fact that 1 in 2 marriages in the UK end in divorce must really please you then. .Ah I forgot, that's fine, because they're hetero. Doesn't your bible say that divorce is ONLY fine if there has been adultery? Let's not go too mad and bring back stoning to death. I think I'll stop there before I explode lol
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 09:55:33
    - Yeah, don't know know, THIS will make a mockery of the institution of marriage. Much more than Britney or one of the Kardashian fuckpuppets already did with their oh-so-meaningful marriages. Of course. :\
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 11:09:56
    - My friend Rob has been "married" twice, and doesn't intend on getting married again, but is in favour of it. Personally, I am for gay marriage. If I hadn't met Master, I know I'd have gone for a girl if I ever went looking (and believe me, I did have the chance before Master wormed His way under my skin) Those that say it's a slippery slope need to get their heads out of (other peoples) arses and smell the bile they're spreading. It's no more of a slippery slope than when slavery was abolished, or females could vote. It isn't going to lead to paedophilia or beastiality being legalised. The "sanctity" of marriage has been shot with the quickie marriages and divorces that are rumoured to be ripe in Las Vegas. But I'll get off my soap box on this topic, pokes a lot of sore areas for a lot of people.
      Kera
      15 May 2012 16:37:31
    - Of course gay people should be allowed to marry! I honestly wonder why, in 2012, we are still wondering! I'm atheist and ridiculously liberal, but most of all I do believe that love is love, and love and commitment have no gender or sexual orientation.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      15 May 2012 19:21:03
    - Why in the year 2012 is this still an issue? I'm delighted for anyone who actually wants to do the whole marriage thing, dont care where you put your genitals! Like KOC said, Love is Love. Who is anyone to judge who you love? So what if it's a girl loving another girl or a boy loving a boy? As long as it is true honest deep meaning love then everyone should have that right to show the world who they love. Really am fed up with government types dictating to everyone about who they should and should not love. Let people get on with it if they so wish.
      Breda
      17 May 2012 11:46:03
    - "Boobaloo, post: 2157, member: 80" Actually, there are some differences between them, here's an article and a video which are useful in highlighting what they are: [media=youtube]vT6I72W9SMM[/media]
      Incendiaire
      17 May 2012 22:07:27
    - I can't marry my girlfriend and neither can I marry my boyfriend. They're already married to each other. This is a whole new set of issues lol...
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 07:08:05
    - Yes, it definitely is Cara! I think marriage should be allowed no matter the gender/sexual orientation of the partners or the NUMBER of partners involved. But I'm afraid it's utopia!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 May 2012 14:20:43
    - If you love someone, what difference does it make how someone defines it. America is still going through its growing pains, but I hope that with this new way of communicating with each other, the systems they used to feed us what is right and what is wrong will evaporate. For legal reasons, of course it should be allowed. If your lover needs their partner, it should be recognized regardless of your gender.
      Stal Lionne
      12 Jun 2012 00:07:27
    - i cannot see a problem with gay marriage, if they are both happy then why not
      rach74
      12 Jun 2012 11:40:32
    - Jesus had two dads! Enough said!
      Breda
      12 Jun 2012 17:26:32
    - LOL Breda, I now have visions of Joseph in a passionate clinch with er... god... not sure how I am visualising that one but they both have beards!
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 07:49:40
    - i thought marrage was a thing ppl who are a part of a religion do to say he/she is mine to the other religious followers mainly she if we go by the past and u can't get married by that religion if you dont follow that religions set rules i know the church doesnt follow those rules anymore so ... i am unsure what the big deal is tbh end of day the law must not be discriminating against anything apart from the crime u have committed and if marriage is woven into law then it to must not be aswell. if the church doesnt want to do that then fine take there marriage out of law make it a thing between them and there god nothing more make it so they have to get a civil partnership ontop of there marriage for it to be seen in law simples! its the most logical thing to do i myself have nothing against gay ppl but i don't think they should be trying to change a religions rules to suit them it doesn't work like that
      bessy
      13 Jun 2012 09:17:28
    - Marriage isn't about religion in my eyes it's more about the love and commitment they wish to show each other. 2 ppl who are in love are in love regardless of the gender, we don't discriminate by age so why by sexual preference. It makes no dif to me i've been married in the past and if 2 ppl wish to have this with each other they should have the choice. The whole religious aspect of it just doesn't seem logical in this day and age. That's nothing against religion but to ostracize 2 ppl based on sexual gender because of age old rules and laws just doesn't make sense in these times.....
      Demonic
      13 Jun 2012 09:49:55
    - the thing is its not rules its a religion that's the point marriage is apart of a religion and that religion says they don't accept that we cant force them to accept it all we can do is change the law so its not in law anymore so that all religions from Muslim to Catholic to Jedi have to get a civil partnership to be seen as in partnership with another and leave marriages for gods lifeforce or whatever else there belief system is based around after all same sex marriage can be still done in a civil partnership im sure many other cultures will like this def the ones that men like to be married to more than 1 partner as it will no longer be seen as against the law if it has no say in law hmm :)
      bessy
      13 Jun 2012 10:17:12
    - I just don't feel in this day and age religion should have much to do with marriage. I've been married twice in my past and once to a woman that i genuinely loved and wanted to have a religious ceremony. I agree that religion is a special part of marriage but to base ones choice based on age old traditions and laws is absurd. We live in a world now that has gone beyond just that way of thinking and for those who wish to hold onto those morals and ideals more power to them, however some do not have any part of that. Should they be considered outsiders because of this? I just don't feel that if 2 ppl wish to be joined that is their choice and none should have any say otherwise. Marriage is the bond of 2 ppl who truly wish to be with one another and commit to each other. That is what it symbolizes the beauty of adding religion in is a wonderful thing but in the end it has nothing to do with how they will live other than each other's beliefs. If this was so divorce would not be as rampant as it is and many so called happy couples wouldn't be disloyal to their vows as so many are so quickly. I just don't feel sexual gender should be an issue anymore religions have been against it from the beginning. Religions though have been against alot of things throughout ancient culture doesn't mean they are correct....;)
      Demonic
      13 Jun 2012 10:45:14
    - @bessy Marriage, both the act and the word, is not owned or monopolised by religion. The concept of marriage has existed amongst human beings for millenia, and has in many cases pre-dated a religious element. There are two separate and distinct forms of marriage, there is religious marriage, and there is civil marriage. It just happens that the two often coincide in our society, and so people confuse them and think they're the same thing. A religious marriage is a service which joins two people together in the eyes of their chosen deity, and is subject to whatever provisions that religion may have. A civil marriage is a legally-binding arrangement between two people, that is recognised by the state, and grants a number of rights to the parties that is recognised in law, such as inheritance provisions, specifying next of kin, etc. Civil marriage exists as a piece of legislation that is on the statue books, and as such it should be non-discriminatory in a modern society. Changing the Marriage Act to remove any reference to gender will in no way impinge on the rights of religious groups, or force them to alter their antiquated way of thinking. It is completely unnecessary to try to remove the word "marriage" from a legal arrangement, just to appease religious groups, as they have no claim to ownership over that word.
      Incendiaire
      13 Jun 2012 13:48:36
    - Hairy Dad's loving each other! Mary in the middle of it all! Lucky woman!
      Breda
      13 Jun 2012 20:54:49
    - There is nothing to stop a Civil Partnership marriage for gays but why do they want to Gatecrash and interrupt and demolish the Centuries old Traditions of the Church? The answer is in the question. They want to demolish the established Church. This is not only wrong it is deadly wrong because it will create a backlash of Churchgoers World Wide that will begin to see gays as a Threat. Once this happens then gays will once again be demonised and they will again become outcasts, and estranged from Society.The next step is one that Hitler thought up. Do n't the gay people see that they are in a minority? Its my view that all this outing of gay people was planned, so that once they became demonised again they could be identified as evil and purged. Watch for the backlash to come from the 1 Billion Strong Catholic Church. Over half the Anglicans of this Country have defected to the Catholic Church already, and that was just about women priests i guess. If you seek to infiltrate a club and corrupt it you will become an infection that needs to be wiped out !
      Roger Perry
      19 Jun 2012 10:55:04
    - Gay people just want to have the same recognition as everyone else. What's so wrong with that? Everyone knows that the church has no morals anyway so why are they being assholes?
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:45:08
    - Dear Breda, If the Church had no 'morals' (standards)it would n't be a 'Church'. You can call The Church of the Poisoned mind a Church but it does n't necessarily make it a Church in the popular acceptance of the word, unless of course you want it to. Having said that the Pope is doing nothing about paedophilia in the ranks of the Church so what does that say about the Pope? Regardless of the 'rights' and 'wrongs' of the matter , Religions are Organisation and Institutions made by mankind and have very little to do with the actual 'The Faith' of An Individual. You can have a Congregation of people who all 'support' the same Religion but have every single one with a different aspect and belief in 'The Faith' of that religion. Just as in any club you may belong to every single person in it is entirely different. The fact that they follow a Religion simply means that they all have similar beliefs in common. Similar, but not exactly the same. Just as you would have supporters of a Football Club with different opinions you get different factions and 'beliefs' within that Religion or what they deem to be the same Faith; except is it really? I have a close friend who is a Lesbian and also some gay friends who may well have similar views to your own, but let me add that even so called 'Christian' people only go to Church at Weddings Funerals and Bapstisms. Its a Social Thing and certain people get Married in Church just to have a White Wedding and because its 'Romantic'.Many gay people fall into this category. I believe that what they want its partly about that last aspect but it is also an insidious Political Device which has more do with the Destruction of Society as a cohesive structure than it does about Religion. You may think that its all about progress now and modern thinking, but The Church is not a Progressive Institution. It is a Religion and religions only change very. very slowly , if at all. If I want to join a gay club; what do you think would be a prime pre-requistite to join? Are you thinking being a gay? Well Yes . Exactly. You cannot be a group of people who don't have the ethic or the same interest of the group at heart.Do you think that a Billion People are going to re-write a Religion just for a minority of gay people? I have n't even counted the Billion or so Muslims who are also anti- gay. Hitler saw that 6 million Jews as well as other dissidents and minorities were fit for the concentration camps and gas chambers. Do you think it can't happen again? Be warned, it can and it most likely. I don't want to see my friends in such a predicament. Suppose that every non-gay said." I want to join your club and go into your bars; what would happen? The very atmosphere and fabric of that club being soley or mainly for gays would disintegrate . Ok, people who are non- gay can join but then again how many do and in what proportion to the gay members? Gay people can go into Church too as long as they are respectful and don't use it as a platform for Political Gestures.. If a football club or an Anti-gay group like the Neo -Nazis went into a gay bar what do you think would happen? Exactly; they would take it over and disrupt it completely. ( and thats just for starters i'm sure) . How about a meditation group who are invaded by the Local Rapper Boys fans? There are hundreds of analogies. Clubs and Religions alike are very similar. Yes , the Church generally tolerate gay people but when you get a Minority section of people wanting to Change the Religion of the Church and therefor the Church itself to suit themselves then you will have a War on your hands. You don't realise how serious this is and what its leading up to. One of the reasons that clubs exist is because it gives them a space to be alike and in one accord. It only takes one so called 'bad apple' to ruin a barrel. Take a Femdom club too. If you were overrun with Transvestites it would destroy the atmosphere. Even in FD clubs they like and prefer a balance and allow the odd variant in as long as they behave themselves ,but not a whole lot. You say the want the same recognition as everyone else. What do you mean by that exactly? Do they not have recognition in Society? Are they not tolerated? Would you want a Tv going into a Ladies toilet?I think what you mean is that they should have more recognition than anyone else. That is being plain greedy and no one will tolerate that. Remember that gay people only exist under the banner of toleration. When you take that toleration away you get aitipathy and hatred. Is that what you want? At the moment i think that the standard acceptance is; 'you tolerate me and i will tolerate you; but don't interfere'. It should remain that way for everyone's good.
      Roger Perry
      19 Jun 2012 16:20:33
    - No it should not remain like that. What kind of backwards crap is that? Human beings can be nasty and cruel but if two consenting adults of the same sex want to get married in front of their friends and family, people they love and who love them in a church they should be allowed to do so. These people want to show their love for each other in their faith in front of their families and friends and who is anyone not to let them. If religion is to be believed Jesus Has two dads! His earthly Dad Joesph and his Heavenly dad God. In that respect he turned extremely well! Cut all this talk of Hitler and Jews and just let people get on with who they love and accept that fact. The church is and always has been full of shit and hypocrisy, it should be out-lawed. End of.
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 22:00:20
    - Let's not take a forum chat/conversation/debate and let it get into the extreme here. If things could be put across in an understanding, open minded and friendly manner, that would be appreciated, thanks.
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 22:00:43
    - Sorry, but that annoyed me. Will behave from now on.
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 22:03:34
    - I wasn't directing it at anyone in particular :) it's all just a debate and I know there's strong feelings. I would personally love to be able to either use the term marriage/get married to etc with my girlfriend so you will know my thoughts on the subject. Anyway - Hitler has been mentioned in a forum debate and you know what that means!
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 22:11:44
    - Down with that sort of thing!
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 22:16:46
    - Goodwins law has been invoked - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin's_law
      Sable
      19 Jun 2012 22:31:06
    - I am extremely annoyed and offended by the gay movement and by the people on here who support them. We have tolerated them for far too long. There are people on here who have expressed their view against gay marriage in Churches in a logical and reasonable way; and all you get from the gays afficionado is ; " They only want to do it cos i want the same rights as none- gays." What a load of clap trap is that?We will not stand for another division in our Church. I am telling you now that you will never get any rest or rights in that direction from the Catholic Church and i will see to that.In fact i will be using my considerable influence to make sure that not only will gays lose their existing 'rights' but every single thing they ever stood for will be denied to them. You have raised an extremely angry and violent storm here that you have no chance of winning and we will not stand for any more attacks on our Church. You have no idea what you are up against.The influence we shall be wielding in the European Union soon will surprise you all and I will say no more on that subject as yet. There is going to a mighty upheaval in Society soon and you are going to see all those neo-progresssive changes completely reversed. The anger that this woman on here raised against that person is nothing compared to the organised anger we will raise in our Churches. It is time we defended our Faith and we will defend it unto death itself!
      genuinesub
      24 Jun 2012 09:37:59
    - I find it interesting that you are here to 'learn the ways of a true Mistress' - yet doesn't the Bible talk about women being submissive to men, or at least the 'head of the household'? I mean completely off topic, but yeah, genuinesub.
      CaraSutra
      24 Jun 2012 10:00:46
    - I wonder why people keep using the world "tolerate" for something normal and natural?
      Sable
      24 Jun 2012 10:00:56
    - Sable
      24 Jun 2012 10:04:14
    - :yeahthat::goodjob: plus... :knob::jawdrop::epicfail:
      CaraSutra
      24 Jun 2012 10:05:20
    - Bwahahahaha!!! You should change your name to genuine moron! 1. We are talking about gay marriage - no-one has mentioned gay marriage in church. 2. The lovely C of E who has spoken out so much about the re-definition of marriage only exists because dear Henry the 8th needed to redefine marriage for his own ends. 3. Your attitude and posting are so far from the Christian ideal that although you may be a member of an organisation you most certainly have no understanding of it's true principles and are in in no way a Christian. 4. Why shouldn't gay people have the same rights as straight people?
      edn
      24 Jun 2012 10:05:49
    - Great post edn
      CaraSutra
      24 Jun 2012 10:14:54
    - I've noticed a recurring pattern. Most of the pro-equality responses have been I feel, I believe... i.e. personal opinion. Whereas the opposing view is typically one on instruction. "The church says" ... reminds me of Milgram's 1963 Obedience Experiment, where people would obediently follow instructions if a perceived to come from an authority figure....
      Sable
      24 Jun 2012 11:10:24
    - look twat if i have to acctualy get out of bed to rip you na new one verbally im not going to be happy, as it is, ive stolen cara's computer to write this peice of advice FUCK OFF no one wants your religious bigotry on here, go troll elesehwere you knob head.. that is all im back to bed
      Harlot
      24 Jun 2012 11:37:21
    - Couldn't have said it better myself Harlot, trust you to have such an eloquent way with words. As for his STORM OF WRATH in the EU... eugh bothered... i'll just put my wellies on and dig out an umbrella of indifference. Nothing pisses off the trolling zombie botherer's quite like being ignored and carrying on doing what we were doing in the first place.
      Badger!!!!
      24 Jun 2012 18:10:53
    - I have a hard time taking any arguments from a religious zealot seriously. Once you admit that you have an imaginary friend, and believe in a fairytale which dictates how you live your life and absolves you from having to actually think for yourself, then you've pretty much lost me. It also doesn't help when people commence their religious ravings without actually having read the preceding posts properly, and then commence to argue against something which no one has actually put forth. I've yet to encounter any gay people who would want a religious wedding, but there are actually some very tolerant Christian sects such as the Quakers that would be more than happy to do it, so it becomes even more unhelpful when individuals try to express a blanket point of view supposedly representative of everyone.
      Incendiaire
      24 Jun 2012 21:29:00
    - I wonder did he go to mass/church today! I hope he did to get forgiveness for his very un-christian like behaviour! God wont be best pleased with him. :p:rofl:
      Breda
      24 Jun 2012 22:29:08
    - I don't like the term gay marriage, it makes it sound like it is different to 'regular' marriage. Marriage is marriage whether between a man and a woman, two men or two women. As long as there is genuine love behind it I am all for it. What gets me is the USA is funny about gay marriage yet you can marry your cousin in more states than marry the love of your life. That and they let people get married and then file for divorce hours later!
      Rose Rouge
      20 Dec 2012 12:54:05
    - "Breda, post: 2961, member: 40" oi, that's my line! :p I'm all for it, if you love eachother, then why not? I mean, look at some of those idiotic 'should be sniper shot on sight' jeremy kyle cases.................NOW THEY shouldn't be allowed to marry, reproduce, make any decisions whatsoever..............
      Mrs JoJo
      16 Jan 2013 21:55:17
    - I've probably said it before but I really don't understand anyone against gay marriage. There's nothing to oppose. The whole issue is stupid.
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:31:59
    - I've probably said it before but I really don't understand anyone against gay marriage. There's nothing to oppose. The whole issue is stupid.
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:32:09
    - Sorry but Marriage isn't a religion BUT there are some rules that certain religions request; you can get married in a registry office too. A Church requires that one or both in the relationship, is to be part of the religion that that church is. But then it gets confusing as a RC can get married in a CofE church but not vice-versa (that's the religion part). The RC church doesn't view marriage in a registry office as an official route, so if you did divorce, you could get remarried in an RC church but if you marry in the RC church and divorce, you can not get remarried in an RC church, unless the marriage is annulled. Again, that is the religious side to their rules, can't argue with that tbh. Back in 99/2000, when joining the armed forces, I had to sign a 'contract' to say that I was not gay, if I didn't sign, I wasn't allowed to join. Just think of how many people lied lol That part of the contract was abolished and now, 2 different female friends have married their girlfriends, who are all serving in the forces. Atleast their is the option for a civil partnership, there are some countries that won't allow it. I hope that one day all this changes, I highly doubt the RC church will change their stance but then that is the Vatican's choice. I could see the CofE church changing it's mind in the future. As they say "slowly slowly, catchee monkey"
      Mrs JoJo
      07 Mar 2013 09:49:12
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    Need Help to know womens
    Jacob Spott
    12 Apr 2013 19:18:56
    - My dick is only 5 inches. I'm having lack of confidence due to that. Would some girls would like to have sex with 5 inched person?
      Jacob Spott
      12 Apr 2013 19:18:56
    - Hang on. You're a 5 inch person with a 5 inch penis? Is walking proving difficult?
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2013 14:47:10
    - It seems a lot of sex toys have an insertable length of about 5 inches. I don't see why sex toy manufacturers would make them that size if a lot of women weren't satisfied by it. So I wouldn't worry!
      AliMc
      14 Apr 2013 04:00:16
    - I think the average penis size is about 5.5 inches, so it doesn't seem that far off, I must say.
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:17:55
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    The Gossip Thread
    CaraSutra
    09 Apr 2012 20:46:28
    - How are you all doing? Stick your good mornings, good afternoons and good evenings plus general chat, off topic banter and other friendliness here :) A good place to check for everyone's daily updates!
      CaraSutra
      09 Apr 2012 20:46:28
    - oh i do love a good old gossip, so im guessing i well spend most of my time in here, and if its a good day with tea and biscuits! love love love the forum cara! its so easy to use and a mash up of like facebook, twitter and a forum! Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:46:32
    - You know most people keep cats and dogs as pets (or chickens or horses or quails)? Well, the weirdest one is the peacock around mine... I have just had the shock of my life from it while having a smoke! It comes round ever day, and one day I even had its arse in my face! I just.. Yeah... Peacocks.. in a busy town...
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:28:38
    - Thanks D! :D Peacocks? That is so random... I think I need to go rest for a bit, I've been working on this for ages, and knackered now and really need to eat! SO if I don't reply to things straight away that's why! Altho I will check thru my phone as well :D xxxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:44:09
    - Yup, peacocks, well just the one.. See it every day, and that pic was taken when it flew on top of my house..
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 20:11:42
    - Weird your post was actually about peacocks, I'm a bit tired and earlier when scanning this thread I thought you were just talking about going into Peacocks (the shop) in town lols Why on earth would someone want one as a pet?! o_O
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:15:51
    - Apparently, they've always had them, ever since my mum was a girl (my great grandma used to live round the corner from where I live, may she rest in peace with my nana fighting over plastic bags :rolleyes: ) Oh, Cara, is it okay to post bits of erotica on here? isn't a bother if not though *note to self.. LEARN TO SPELL*
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 20:18:15
    - [quote="Kera, post: 152, member: 3"] Oh, Cara, is it okay to post bits of erotica on here? isn't a bother if not though [/quote] Yes sure! Will liven the place up even more :D :lips:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:03:22
    - Oooh gossip thread! Well since I'm surrounded by friends I feel I can be open about it. I have had threats from my ex recently which really scared me, so much so I went to the police and lawyer. Need to get my head sorted so hopefully get to see someone and speak to them in the next few days. Had a lot of other stuff to deal with and a little operation next week. I'm really glad I've got this place to take my mind off things. If I seem down please feel free to give me a swift kick up the arse! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 23:31:00
    - I have a sudden craving for MicroChips, I think I might be going through a sympathetic pregnancy with Cara, normally I wouldn't want to eat such food...
      Incendiaire
      11 Apr 2012 00:14:52
    - [quote="sexylittleminx, post: 199, member: 8"]Oooh gossip thread! Well since I'm surrounded by friends I feel I can be open about it. I have had threats from my ex recently which really scared me, so much so I went to the police and lawyer. Need to get my head sorted so hopefully get to see someone and speak to them in the next few days. Had a lot of other stuff to deal with and a little operation next week. I'm really glad I've got this place to take my mind off things. If I seem down please feel free to give me a swift kick up the arse! x[/quote] *huge hugs for minx* I'm really sad to hear about the tough times you've been having recently hun, but I think it's good that you took the step to try and get it sorted with the police etc. And i'm always here to give you that kick when you need it ;) xxx
      Morbidia
      11 Apr 2012 00:53:18
    - "Incendiaire, post: 210, member: 5" Hahaha hey no blaming me :D I am mostly craving Vimto Squash, ice lollies, melon and fruity based snacks. Weird!
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 06:40:29
    - @SLM that's awful! I have a sacary ex too, he doesn't threaten these days but he did break my collarbone/shoulder and I have awful nightmares. That's bad enough I can't even imagine the stress you're going through :( ~huggles~ xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 06:41:39
    - *lots of hugs for SLM and anyone who needs them* I really don't do mornings. Who invented them and can they be shot? Also, this forum works fine on a blackberry, thankfully :D
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 06:47:45
    - Morning Kera! I'm glad it's pretty mobile friendly! yay Going to see if I can get linked words to show up in a different colour... it's not clear they're linked until you hover right over them atm, not ideal. Also today I have new posts to do, a review, banners to shove up, monetising to look into, more emotes to find and addand will write an offers post. ~phew~ I agree, mornings are not the best! xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 06:53:27
    - Hmm, apparently really long posts can't be submitted, That might prove difficult for me posting erotica....
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 08:37:47
    - I wasn't expecting all that this morning, thankyou. ~group hug~ and thanks Morbs ;) Cara how horrible ~hugs~ now I know what causes you to be in so much pain with your shoulder. It's easy for people who aren't in that situation to say walk away, sometimes it just isn't that easy :( On a happier note when I was pregnant with B I ate stupid amounts of apples, oranges, thick strawberry shakes, philly and banana rolls (it's actually really nice!) Rather healthy stuff! Before I get a quick swift from Morbs lol I agree with Kera, this morning thing shouldn't happen! More tea needed and I need to walk the dog. Grass cutting outside and I think I've run out of antihistimes, the dog got hayfever last year and had a few eye infections, it's her I'm worried about, I can hide my tears and puffy eyes and blame it on the hayfever! Yay! Got my pre op tomorrow, not sure what to expect, just keep fingers crossed my BP doesn't go sky high again, send calming vibes! I'm going to shut up now and go make another cuppa. Who wants one? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:12:50
    - I'm alternating between being sat in shock, bouncing around like a loon, and thinking "buh..." Saturday I ordered a iCome MP3 Joystick, that I just found out is out of stock, and now I'm being sent a OhMiBod freestyle vibrator.. The one vibe I've lusted after since it first came out, and never thought I'd own. SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE :boobs::wiggle::heart::wiggle::boobs:
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 09:38:35
    - good morning folks! @SLM im so sorry to hear whats been happening, if you lived closer id seen the men folk from my family to go sort him out! they dont stand for behavior like that to women! ***hugs*** ugh im feeling really pukey this morning and i dont know why :( was fine when i first got up, just took my morning meds and then all of a sudden thought omg i feel soooooo sick. hope it passes soon!
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 09:55:48
    - Kera oooh lucky you! Enjoy! Thanks Diamonds hunny. I have people who would like to go sort it out themselfs but I have ben to a lawyer and letter sent, basically telling him nicely to fuck off. Any contact has to be done by lawyers only or police will be involved. I just think with me sending that letter, anything happens to my ex just now then it's going to come right back to me. Believe me when I'm strong enough I will be doing it myself! Or I'd like to anyway! Karma is on my side, I have something more precious than he ever will, my son. I'm so proud of him and his father has not a thing to do with him. Honestly even if B hadn't requested to the lawyer he wanted nothing to do with his father then I would have put a stop to it, no court would give him access with his previous anyway. I get thats sometimes with my meds too, hope it passes soon. Sometimes I find a wee nibble of something helps. a wee bit of toast of a plain biscuit. Right where is Morbs, I need a swift kick up the backside. I'm enjoying it so much here I never noticed the time! My poor dog hasn't had her walk. Even twitter has taken a back seat this morning. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 10:15:30
    - [quote="sexylittleminx, post: 253, member: 8"]Kera oooh lucky you! Enjoy! Thanks Diamonds hunny. I have people who would like to go sort it out themselfs but I have ben to a lawyer and letter sent, basically telling him nicely to fuck off. Any contact has to be done by lawyers only or police will be involved. I just think with me sending that letter, anything happens to my ex just now then it's going to come right back to me. Believe me when I'm strong enough I will be doing it myself! Or I'd like to anyway! Karma is on my side, I have something more precious than he ever will, my son. I'm so proud of him and his father has not a thing to do with him. Honestly even if B hadn't requested to the lawyer he wanted nothing to do with his father then I would have put a stop to it, no court would give him access with his previous anyway. I get thats sometimes with my meds too, hope it passes soon. Sometimes I find a wee nibble of something helps. a wee bit of toast of a plain biscuit. Right where is Morbs, I need a swift kick up the backside. I'm enjoying it so much here I never noticed the time! My poor dog hasn't had her walk. Even twitter has taken a back seat this morning. xx[/quote] :O i thought he was re married and all happy now? anyway if you ever wanna talk you know how to contact me :) im gonna try a cup of coffee in a min, still feeling sick :-/ right i really need to get off these forums for a bit to do stuff! but omg they are so addictive esp when not feeling very good!
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:26:58
    - I'm here and ready to give a kick up the backside Minx! (albeit a bit late, but better late than never ;) )
      Morbidia
      11 Apr 2012 12:58:47
    - oooh im so craving some chocolate right now :eek: trying to be good, she says having just had some bacon flavored super noodles :oops:
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 13:19:45
    - Oh god I love Super Noodles, my fave flavour is chicken. Right the breaking news is that I am finally now off to the loo having needed a wee for ages!! Exciting huh lol
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 13:59:02
    - I have managed to increase my spanks count by buying two new notebooks. I think I'm close to 70 NOTEBOOKS now.. oops:spank:
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 16:14:27
    - "Kera, post: 359, member: 3" 70, you say? Well, I could set it to that since you asked nicely....
      P. Squared
      11 Apr 2012 16:15:54
    - NOTEBOOKS!
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 16:18:23
    - is it bad when you said notebooks i instantly thought you meant netbooks? going out with a geek really does rub off on you! :eek::p i love stationary, i could spend shit loads on it!
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 16:53:14
    - I've seen the moleskin type ones, they look pretty. Got any of those? :D
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 16:59:38
    - Diamonds, my notebooks spend rivals my sex toy spend now... I think notebooks are slightly higher though! Cara, I've seen them, and only hope to own one
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 17:00:00
    - I ADORE stationery I really think it's a proper fetish. Parchment paper, quills, inkwells.... sealing wax and stamps... ~shivers~
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 17:00:28
    - when/if i get married the invites are being waxed sealed! ive always wanted a letter that has been sealed by wax like in the old days! i kinda miss post and the days when people would write letters and post cards, its all emails now days or junk mail *grumpy face*
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 17:53:46
    - One of my team leaders at work handed his notice in... written on parchment, fully illuminated and wax sealed - he sent an email as a back up just in case the sealed scroll was "unacceptable"
      P. Squared
      11 Apr 2012 17:55:24
    - :confused: i wouldnt waste all that good paper, ink and wax on a notice lol. id actually swoon if i got a love letter written on a parchmeant, in ink and wax sealed... actually do you know what ive never had a love letter! :(
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 17:59:49
    - Awwww D! Most of mine have been from weird stalker types :/ I agree, parchment is just so sexy :lips:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 18:04:31
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 388, member: 1"]Awwww D! Most of mine have been from weird stalker types :/ [/quote] in that case im quiet glad ive never had one lol
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 18:16:18
    - lol! I've had such a big dinner I feel like I'm going to pop. Mini beef wellingtons with baked cheese bites, garlic mushrooms, chips and American style potato salad. ~phew~ Tomorrow I am going to attempt to get the house ship shape as my dad's over at the weekend, seeing my little boy for the first time in ages. Scary! Want the house to be nice and presentable, not in the half term tip it's in atm! What are you all up to?
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 18:20:25
    - ive never had beef wellington but i have always wanted to try it, the only thing is that i dont like meat that is pink/bloody/still mooing so i dont think i would eat it if i got in a restaurant :( my dinners cooking, got a lovely beef casserole in the oven, just what need on this dark cold wet night! you should get the mini folk into helping with the house work, make it into a game or something :) unless there teenagers then just pay them to do it :P
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 18:24:01
    - Oh we do get the kids to clear away their things but some stuff they can't do, like moving stuff into the loft and the littluns can't hang their clothes up... meh. Right I am off to have a wash and try and relax a bit, maybe have a nice deep lush bath, I need to relax, it's been a bit of a heavy day! xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 18:41:45
    - someone just tried stealing chocolate right from my mouth! They got a "what the eff do you think you're doing, freak!" look. No one touches my chocolate, many have tried, only one has survived so far
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 19:19:26
    - I'm so annoyed right now. I signed up to the Fleshlight forums a few weeks back, because I figured as I'd reviewed a few Fleshlight products, it would be a good place to promote my blog. I went back today and discovered that one of the moderators there had completely edited out the link to my blog, and had instead completely lifted my review from my blog and posted it into the thread. I couldn't even do anything about it, because they have a time limit on being able to edit posts. I've private messaged all the moderators telling them to delete it, I don't appreciate having my writing stolen and disseminated like that. :mad:
      Incendiaire
      11 Apr 2012 19:55:42
    - Yeah some forums really don't like you promoting your own blog :/ were they products you'd bought or received from them for reviews? If you bought them yourself then it's extra bad of them!
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 20:40:44
    - right i have spent far to much time on here today! honestly dont know where the day has gone! but its been fun and enjoyable! so im off to hit the hay! night night folks, cya tomorrow ;)
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 21:13:39
    - I know what you mean D, I have spent way much more time on here today, it's a bit like crack! hahaha I have got my pre op tomorrow and a little bit scared, well not scared but unsure about what will happen. I will be ok though, compared to what I've been through lately this will be a walk in the park! Going to bed and going to chill at least and hopefully nod off and get some sleep. Night night. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 21:29:56
    - I'm off to catch some zzz's too in a short while... :zzz: lay in bed and catch up on Words with Friends, maybe get a bit cuddly and naughty! (after the Words with Friends I mean, it's not a sexual fetish or anything :p :rofl: xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:32:42
    - Master is being soppy, it's quite adorable. *is pretty sure she'll end up being told off for mentioning that*
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 22:09:02
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 435, member: 1"]Yeah some forums really don't like you promoting your own blog :/ were they products you'd bought or received from them for reviews? If you bought them yourself then it's extra bad of them![/quote] I have a few Fleshlight products, some I've bought myself, and some I've received from retailers to review, but nothing ever directly from the manufacturer. I don't understand their position really, they have a forum to promote their goods, and I've written reviews on my blog which promote their goods. I figured by sharing the reviews it would provide useful information to their customers, and generate a little traffic to my blog, win-win! Apparently they disagree though. They deleted the thread like I asked, which pleases me, and now I have no real reason to go back to their forum, so I shall wipe my hands of it all. :)
      Incendiaire
      11 Apr 2012 23:46:11
    - Sorry Incendiaire I meant to say something last night. That is shocking, glad to hear they deleted the thread but sounds really petty on hteir part. Anyways wish me luck, pre op today, better get for my shower and go take the dog out, it's pouring down too :( Hope you all have a great and sexy day today! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Apr 2012 07:12:17
    - Glad to hear they sorted it out Incendiaire! Good luck SLM - thoughts with you and huge snuggles and embiggened booby hugs! I'm barely awake, still in bed, won't someone get me a hot strong tea please? ~smiles sweetly~
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 07:19:59
    - Someone pump me full of life? Finally got to sleep at 5am, and now have two kids thinking I'm a trampoline.
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 07:38:32
    - afternoon! have yah all missed me? ;) :cool:
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 16:36:12
    - Yes I have! Get your sexy butt sat down and chat to meeee lol Ok well actually it's my dinner time soon but I am trying to keep up with everyone on here too... Mustn't forget to eat! lol You ok hun? xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:07:18
    - awww :) i woke up feeling a bit rubbish, had nightmares and stuff but i feel better this afternoon. just sooooooooooooooo cold! my dinners in the oven :P got a posh meal tonight, chicken with gruyere cheese wrapped in bacon and pastry and dauphinoise potatoe plus some sort of veg :P how are you and bump? :D
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:17:14
    - I have chicken with gruyere cheese with bacon and pastry tonight, only no potatoes for me.. I'm so far surviving on 2 hours sleep, I have no idea how I'm managing it right now though..
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 17:19:17
    - spooky! to be honest im not keen on meat, i eat it but im a carb kinda girly sadly carbs are not good for yah! :( god id be a right moody cow on 2 hrs sleep, im moody on just 6 to 8 :P lol
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 17:27:28
    - I'm moodier on 8-12 hours sleep than I am on 2-6 hours sleep... I should really get 7 hours, but never really works. I also have a rather limited diet, quite a lot makes me throw up, so I'm limited to pasta, meat, potatoes and cheese. too much milk also.. yeah... Right, I'm off for a Lush bath (with a Pop In The Bath and washing with a very special Comforter Shower gel they did for a forum special in 2010!) Makes a change from my usual Smargadine and Tramp
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 17:35:22
    - Howdy! Anyone about this evening? :)
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 20:44:17
    - I'm around at the moment, just managing to choke myself to death!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 20:55:56
    - That doesn't sound good at all! How'd you manage to do that? (or should that be how did you manage not to, lol)
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 21:02:50
    - *pounces on Cara* I can't thank you enough. This morning was epic! I think without it my BP would have been sky high! I have had the Raggydolls tune stuck in my head ALL day. Brilliant! Was humming it away to help chill me out. I had a chicken and herb thingy, wrapped in pastry! Was it chicken all round tonight? I'm so shattered so off to bed soon. Missed being on here today but will be around more tomorrow :shinywiggle: (<<<< I like this one! Anyone noticed?)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Apr 2012 21:09:17
    - I got chatting on msn mid most. Hope you are ok Kera. x Hey Morbs and anyone else whos around. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Apr 2012 21:10:29
    - reading something and choked on my drink. I'm a disaster area anyway, just today have managed to twist my ankle, knee and wrist in one accident.. I need to be wrapped in bubblewrap really!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 21:11:23
    - We had the most amazing double rainbow tonight :) Many photos were taken!
      edn
      12 Apr 2012 21:11:34
    - Edn, I'm only an hourish away from you and all we had was hail and heavy rain! *very jealous*
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 21:16:27
    - Awwww - it was glorious - I'll reduce a picture and post it here when I get onto my laptop :)
      edn
      12 Apr 2012 21:22:52
    - @Minx hey hun! *hugs* how you doing tonight? xxx
      Morbidia
      12 Apr 2012 21:40:02
    - I am SO tired :zzz: hey everyones :) :wave:
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 22:00:18
    - Here's your rainbow to cheer up tired and weary souls! [ATTACH]2[/ATTACH] Click on it for a slightly larger version (ermmmm I assume!)
      edn
      12 Apr 2012 22:11:27
    - Kera you sound like you need to be in my club, I'm always hurting mysef but it's my joint condition and not me just being accident prone as I was accused of all my life! Edn That arse! ~melts~ I love a nice arse :butt: Oooh and the pic is lovely, we get quite a few double rainbows here for some reason, very pretty. Morbs! Hunny I'm a little better thanks, pre op out the way, just a wee tiny op on tues and that should be the end of that, just regular check ups hopefully. Cara I'm tired too, had 10mg of valiumbut I'm still awake. I think I may have found something I had lost! Just before I'm not allowed to for at least 4 weeks. Probably not making sence ^^^^ so will explain. I have been really stressed lately and lost my mojo :( but it sneaked in a little tonight. Just as I'm finding it I've to go for a wee op on tuesday, got pre cancerous cells so going in to get that seen to. Because of how I've been the last 2 times, getting biopsies they think it's better to knock me out, I'm not complaining! Only thing is my cervix will take at least 4 weeks to heal so my mojo better bugger off again or I'm gonna go crazy! Ooops didn't mean to write a long post, I'm blaming these tablets not knocking me out! Making me blether instead! Sorry if I missed anyone but think I got you all! I should really try and sleep. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      13 Apr 2012 00:51:53
    - ~hugs for SLM~ I think it's cos you know you're not allowed it, makes you want it more - like chocolate on a diet lol. If it's your cervix you can play with clit vibes... or anal? I haven't wanted anything near my cervix 'just in case' the first few weeks of pregnancy so that's what I did. Lovely rainbow(s) edn! Morning all, just about awake here, just had brekkie (lovely pecan & oat cluster cereal) now on to a nice hot strong cuppa tea!
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:35:24
    - Morning. Cara your breakie sounds nicer than mine! And heathier. I had that new hovis lighly seeded bread I think it is, it's like white bread with little seeds, really nice with lots of butter. I need to diet! Cara I probably won't want anything near me to start but I know I am going to want to much quicker than I'm allowered. Well at least if the want is there then thats the main thing! Yes clit vibes and anal if I feel up to it will be the only way to go. Oooh finding my mojo last night, was good, reminds me I was lazy and didn't clean my toys last night, not like me, I usually get up and clean them straight away. I made a bit of a mess too even though I put a towel down, doubled up too. For thosee that don't know I'm a squirter :oops2:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      13 Apr 2012 10:15:30
    - I'm afraid that the bum pic is a couple of years old and I've since been banned from the gym for a couple of years so it's now probably hanging round my ankles!
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 12:46:28
    - Banned, edn? ~curious~
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 15:11:31
    - Not for indecent acts with the treadmill or anything! I had a really bad bout of pneumonia a couple of years ago followed by post viral / chronic fatigue / M.E. (whatever it's called this week) and the hospital banned me from the gym for a recovery period :confused:
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 15:14:38
    - I got about 5 lines for a fic of mine then just lost the rest. ARGH
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 15:24:55
    - I've just managed to totally jolt my spine out of place...
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 17:32:21
    - :o how did you manage that!?
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 17:36:55
    - by sitting on my ass...
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 17:45:43
    - That's quite an impressive self damaging maneuver :p
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 17:52:27
    - Very impressive, what it was is that I sat down rather heavily, and must have been slightly curved when I did. I was in agony for a good 20 minutes before it calmed down enough for me to start moving again
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 18:01:35
    - DOH! but thankfully it's calmed down :) I managed some good self damaging today too - I went to the gym for my graded exercise thing and slightly overdid it, which I worked out when I started getting icepick headaches and lost vision in one eye! At least I'm old enough for this decrepitude :p
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 18:07:50
    - Least you realised that you were overdoing it though! I never know when a bone is gonna crack, back is gonna decide it wants to be an arse or what. and thankya muchly for reminding me of how young I am :p *gets it enough from Master*
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 18:26:19
    - Awwwwww you poor wee thing :p
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 19:44:33
    - I'll get me walking stick out and show you "wee thing"! *mutters* 5ft 8 thank you very much *mutters*
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 19:52:20
    - Evening! This is the first chance I've had to get on here today and I'm multi tasking by soaking in the bath and using my iPhone to catch up with you lot! So what have I missed? :D
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:30:55
    - Evening fellow sexy folk! Had a nap earlier, 4 hours! I hate when I'm due my jag. I just hope I don't fall asleep at Rebound tomorrow night! I'm excited as I love the club so hopefully the excitment will take over, just plenty make up to cover up the dark circles under my eyes. I need to sort out something 'Vanilla' to wear into town tomorrow, kinky outfit way too kinky, I would get lifted! How are we all? I've got about 6 tabs open, need to try get round them all! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      13 Apr 2012 22:47:09
    - "edn, post: 761, member: 4" If it makes you feel any better, a few years ago I managed to sprain both my ankles using a cross trainer at the gym. I'm not exactly sure what happened, but by the time I got back home that afternoon it was absolute agony to put any weight on either foot, and I hobbled around for two weeks before the pain subsided.
      Incendiaire
      14 Apr 2012 03:12:47
    - "Incendiaire, post: 784, member: 5" Who say's that exercise is healthy and good for you!?
      edn
      14 Apr 2012 05:57:56
    - ARGHHHH, having the worst day ever! My workplace is actually driving me insane. It's an old hotel that's falling to pieces and people often write bad reviews online regarding the hotel rooms. Someone wrote a review the other day name-dropping me and my co-worker as the only two waitresses working and how our gratuity tips are a joke (We get our tips twice a year - shared amougst all staff - and taxed). The review has been misread by the owner of our workplace who thinks that me and my friend have been slagging the tip scenario off to customers and he wrote a god-awful letter which has been put up on the staff clock-in machine for everyone to read. It suggests that we're bitches with issues, we've been warned and if it happens again - we'll get fired. The whole situation has been twisted and although I've defended myself to my Manager, it's still painting a bad picture that I'm a terrible worker. Also, 'apparently' three seperate customers wrote to our HQ complaining over the fact that I was wearing an underbust corset below my work clothes last weekend. WHAT THE FUCK? It's now a crime to wear a corset which I personally consider an under-garmet - the same as bra and underwear. I don't understand how anyone noticed (well, unless I served them the night before and they saw a drastic change in my waist measurements) and why THREE people would write a letter to complain. I hate the world. Seriously. My life is snowballing out of control right now. I can't stand it. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
      Kari Rose
      14 Apr 2012 22:52:30
    - Fuck's sake Kari, that's awful :( If you want to wear a corset that's your right, especially UNDER your clothes!
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 07:51:54
    - Woke up from night mares this morning, burst into tears, hate that :( meh Hope everyone's having a good weekend? x
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:02:29
    - *HUGS* to both Cara and Kari - not to mention chocolate. @Kari personally I don't believe the 3 people sending in letters - unless you have a national prudes convention in or something!? It sounds like your boss is being an arse. The whole letter things sounds dodgy too - if they want to talk to you or give you a warning that's there prerogative but "naming and shaming" sounds like workplace bullying to me.
      edn
      15 Apr 2012 08:45:14
    - I'm so stressed and I can't help but feel like I'm walking on thin ice. My Mum suggests that work have maybe become familar with my blog and are probably against what I write about and have then developed a negativity towards me. I argue that my private life (although on the Internet) is private and I shouldn't be judged based on what I post online but she says that not everyone is as open-minded as I am. I now feel that I'm being spied on right, left and center. In regards to the corsetting, I agree that it's dodgy and there's massive holes in the story. If I wear a underbust, so what? It would be like someone writing a letter of complaint to HQ about a staff member wearing a thong. They haven't seen the thong but they know it's there - somehow. I just can't understand how naive and horrible people can be. It's not the stone ages that we live in for pete's sake! :(
      Kari Rose
      15 Apr 2012 11:13:07
    - Good afternoon my lovelies. Well I've had a productive morning so far. Up and out by 9 to go meet up with the other bikers, had a nice chat and perv over the bikes (and some of the men haha!) :D then came home, and sat and posted on nearly every thread on this lovely forum....now off to make some lunch. Hope you're all ok and Cara, massive hugs again. Kari, was it a black corset under a white shirt? Xxx
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 12:27:43
    - No no, it was a black underbust corset under a thick white vest under a black shirt.
      Kari Rose
      15 Apr 2012 12:29:56
    - Then there's no way anyone saw it, let alone complained about it! Did you tell anyone you were wearing it?!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 13:12:08
    - After a huge blowout with boyfriend, I ended up at Masters last night, and slept better than I have in ages. Though, that also might have been due to the couple of hours I had during this afternoon too. I'm now pigging out on Minstrels and floating around on here for a bit.
      Kera
      15 Apr 2012 17:57:38
    - Ahhh Minstrels, how I adore thee and how I despise thee! So addictive yet so crunchy!!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 18:28:00
    - I don't have time to read back, off for my jag but pop back on later. Feel like I've neglected you all over the weekend but tell you all the gossip later. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Apr 2012 09:09:57
    - *sidles in and sits down looking innocent* *takes deep breath and screams* CAN'T TEST ANY TOYS TIL FRIDAY! :mad:
      Kera
      17 Apr 2012 18:50:50
    - Dare we ask why!?
      edn
      17 Apr 2012 19:41:13
    - tomorrow I have a meeting at eldests school, the thursday I'm not alone at all. Friday is the only day I will be from around ten to 9 til 11ish
      Kera
      17 Apr 2012 20:18:48
    - And here was me thinking you had been of for a triangle piercing or something ;)
      edn
      17 Apr 2012 20:21:47
    - Nooo, well, not yet.. Master is planning on getting me pierced down there and adding a bell to it though
      Kera
      17 Apr 2012 20:22:51
    - I am alive! *Guys look away, maybe TMI* Aweful sore belly, even my strong painlillers with paracetamol on top (it's ok to take them together before anyone worries) I've not really bled yet, jusy a tiny little spotting. You know the painfull feeling you get when you have a biggish clot and you are waiting for it to pass? It's like that but 100 times worse. They said I may pass clots so I'm not worried, just wish if it was a clot it would hurry up and pass, I might not feel so sore. Think I may just have a few hours before I'v recovered from my anaesthetic so going to go for a nap, I'm in bed anyway. I promise to catch up properly soon! Take care everyone. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      18 Apr 2012 11:39:14
    - ~hugs~ for SLM OUCH to the clots :( I'm ok - just so shattered - must be a growth spurt of bump. Have scan tomorrow morning, nervous but excited :) SO busy today lots of writing to get on with, two reviews that I have been meaning to write in what seems like forever!! Hope everyone else is ok xxx
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 12:25:20
    - I got a new dress in the post today, Master said it made my boobs look bigger!
      Kera
      18 Apr 2012 13:16:15
    - yay for bigger boobs! I have my scan tomorrow, at 9.50am - thought it was half ten but there we are ... So I'm nervous now, kinda really sick with being anxious. Makes no sense other than the fact that the last scan I ever had years back didn't end so well... I do have a little boy already, this is my 3rd preg... ~worries~
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 19:18:51
    - Lots of healthy and happy baby vibes from me! Know how nerve racking scans can be, be they the first or the last or any in between! and boo for bigger boobs! Sorry to those who have big boobs, but I can't handle them on my body, already get bad back ache and they just don't suit my frame. *has been from 32A to 40DD and back to 34C/36B in 4 years*
      Kera
      18 Apr 2012 19:46:44
    - Happy being 13 weeks Cara! Good luck with the scan tomorrow! So exciting! I loved that seeing everything on the screen for the first time and the little tiny heart beat thumping! Makes me well up! Big happy hairy baby vibes going towards you! Wow, that's some big boobage! Not good on the back though, great to look at but not for the holder of the boobs! I have just got confirmation for my driving test! It's the 23 of May! Ah!!!! I love driving! I hope I can get pass it! My ex said he'd help me with the reversing, which is nice!
      Breda
      18 Apr 2012 21:10:48
    - good morning gang! sorry ive not been around much the last few days but not been feeling to good again :( wishing cara lots of luck though i am sure she wont need it! hope your feeling ok today SLM Dxx
      Diamonds
      19 Apr 2012 08:18:23
    - Just had to cancel my driving test:(
      Breda
      19 Apr 2012 10:03:01
    - Why Breda? I need to think about having lessons soon.. once I get over my driving fear.. Have gotten over the fear of being IN a car, just need to get over actually driving
      Kera
      19 Apr 2012 10:30:58
    - It's because my little girl has a check up for her eye the same date and I'd never be back in time to make the test. It's ok though because I gave them enough notice they automatically will set another one for me! You can actually have a fear of driving. My sister has it, she was told by a driving instructor that she has a fear of driving!
      Breda
      19 Apr 2012 11:25:10
    - YAY scan was fine, I cried seeing it when it moved, was so petrified beforehand. I have pics, they're on my Twitter :D @TheCaraSutra YAY! Thanks to everyone for the well wishes, I am sure they helped!!! xxxxxxxxx
      CaraSutra
      19 Apr 2012 11:33:03
    - Just saw them on facebook!!!!!!! So Cute!!!!!!!!:D
      Breda
      19 Apr 2012 11:48:38
    - YAY for mini Cara :D
      edn
      19 Apr 2012 12:16:11
    - hey Cara, just been watching a program and sombody has just had fetish themed wedding, with latex, leather, and very gothic
      rockprincess
      19 Apr 2012 15:04:03
    - *peeks in* Just want to give Cara and the family the biggest congratulations ever! So happy it all went well at the scan! Hello everyone. I feel bad for not being about as much. I had an appointment yesterday that I HAD to go to. Thought since I was out I could nip into Asda, pick up some shopping. (yes I know! bends over for a skelp) My neighbour who I get on ok ish with saw me, gave me into trouble for being out, waited on me, shared a taxi home and carried my bags up the stairs for me. How nice of her! So nice to have people looking out for you. Doing what I should be and resting up. Feels strange to be doing as I'm told! Think instead of waisting my day doing nothing I will catch up on some writing. With everything that had been going on I have slipped a little and got a bit behind. Feel like I've not written a review for ages! Be ok once I get into the swing of it again. Hoping to write 2 or 3 today ;-) How is everyone else? And hello to any newbies I've not said hi to yet. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      20 Apr 2012 08:13:20
    - Thanks everyone!! @rockprincess sounds like a great wedding, I too don't really go for the traditional white wedding (or traditional anything!) @SLM thanks! Sounds like you have a really good neighbour there, it's not everywhere you get a sense of community, some places noone knows what's going on with people even living right next door. I need to get on with writing these 2 reviews that I've been meaning to write for ages too. I find once I put it off once or twice it's really hard to get back into it! Anyone else the same?
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 10:14:37
    - I was gonna review some toys today, but I ended up starting my period this morning. Well, least I know why I've felt so volatile/panicky/warm the past couple of days.. Or it might also have something to do with Sunday...
      Kera
      20 Apr 2012 11:55:31
    - Last Sunday or this Sunday coming? (excuse the pun ;) Periods suck, that's a good thing at the moment I'm not getting any! (although a lot of other niggles and pains tho to make up lol) ~hugs~ hope you manage to get some rest and grab some time for self pampering, you deserve it xxx
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 12:49:03
    - I'm nervous over this Sunday coming... Master is meeting my mother, and I'm having to take my bell off for it. (my choice) As for rest, I'll be lucky, from first aid tuesday mornings, and parenting pals on thursday afternoons, and then school meetings, various visitors, appointments and all sorts, it's amazing I can remember everything and get time to see Master!
      Kera
      20 Apr 2012 12:57:40
    - I just want to apologise for not being as active as usual here, I've just got a lot of personal stuff going on right now :(
      Kari Rose
      20 Apr 2012 13:03:07
    - Christina Hendricks as Cat woman! O dear God someone please get onto the casting agent of that film and fire that other one that's cast in Cat woman now and fire her!!!!!! I cant remember her name! Christina is MUCH BETTER choice for catwoman! She has PROPER CURVES!!!!!!!
      Breda
      20 Apr 2012 13:36:27
    - someone want to hide me for a week? I've just had enough now.
      Kera
      20 Apr 2012 15:02:27
    - Hey guys, I'm so happy to be here!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 16:54:09
    - Hi Kiss_of_Crimson! :D Welcome! xxxx
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 17:08:12
    - *HUGS* to Kari and Kera and *WAVES* to Kiss of Crimson and a real picture - yay! I've had my ATOS assessment today - oh joy - so I guess in two weeks or so I'll get a letter telling me that despite what the doctors, hospital and clinics say I'm fine to be at work. le sigh!
      edn
      20 Apr 2012 17:46:38
    - I have just seen a boxer on my television, he's 6ft 9, his name is Tyson Fury and I love him!!!!!! Just thought I'd share that! He gave me a girl boner!!!! :heart:
      Breda
      20 Apr 2012 21:54:09
    - Welcome Kiss_of_Crimson ;) (PS. I invited her here from the Sextoys.co.uk Forum! #bonuspuppypoints)
      Kari Rose
      21 Apr 2012 01:00:36
    - I feel bad for not being about as much but still recovering. Womans intuition is telling me something is just not quite right, I have a nurse whos a friend, might see if she can offer some advice. Kiss_of_Crimson Hey gorgeous, lovely to have you here! Kari I hope you are ok and work isn't giving you such a hard time. Hugs for Cara and a cheeky grope just because I'm a filthy mare! Hello to everyone else. I'm a little dopey from meds and just want to sleep, didn't get up till nearly 3 this afternoon! I didn't get my reviews done, Feeling bad but at least I have a good reason and hope it is understood. Going to see how I am tomorrow and try again. I just wanna sleep! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      21 Apr 2012 17:02:48
    - evenings folks! :wave: its my birthday tomorrow! :D :plug: :P
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 18:30:41
    - [quote="Diamonds, post: 1189, member: 7"]evenings folks! :wave: its my birthday tomorrow! :D :plug: :p[/quote] HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! :D
      Breda
      21 Apr 2012 22:27:52
    - Happy Birthday Diamonds!! Hope it's a fantastic day for you! xxx :D
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 10:32:01
    - Happy Birthday Diamonds Hugs for everyone else who needs them xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      22 Apr 2012 11:22:09
    - [quote="Diamonds, post: 1189, member: 7"]evenings folks! :wave: its my birthday tomorrow! :D :plug: :p[/quote] Happy birthday! Save me a slice of cake :)
      edn
      22 Apr 2012 12:13:09
    - [quote="Kera, post: 1112, member: 3"]I was gonna review some toys today, but I ended up starting my period this morning. Well, least I know why I've felt so volatile/panicky/warm the past couple of days.[/quote] SHARK WEEK! :eek:
      edn
      22 Apr 2012 12:14:18
    - lol @Edn - not heard shark week before, rag week, yes! Hope you're feeling better now Kera x I am knackered after being up til past 4am with exciting plans rushing round my head! Trust me to get inspiration at midnight :/ Hope everyone is having a great Sunday? xxx
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 14:39:18
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1218, member: 1"]lol @Edn - not heard shark week before, rag week, yes! Hope everyone is having a great Sunday? xxx[/quote] From urban dictionary: Shark Week: The week during which a woman has her period. There will be blood, an uncomfortable sense of tension and a bad tempered, unpredictable beast! I've been to the gym so I'm a bad tempered, unpredictable beast :o
      edn
      22 Apr 2012 16:06:49
    - I have spent the day with Master and my mother today.. Mother actually likes Master, so I'm quite happy. Then went back to His for a bit and just got home now. Had a big carvery dinner, and now want something simple... *wanders off to put chips and cheese on*
      Kera
      22 Apr 2012 19:10:41
    - Doing my best to avoid work, which is admittedly difficult when sat at my desk in my office, but doing what I can for the cause all the same...
      SandA
      23 Apr 2012 13:00:09
    - Glad to hear your success with him, Kera. I am very tired, lots of work being poured into a new project, launching soon. Have updated the blog today, just with a post-scan update, also a new video on my YouTube channel... scary! Hope everyone is ok? xxx
      CaraSutra
      23 Apr 2012 15:01:52
    - *gets all Domme at Cara* Right Madam, link to your your You tube channel, errrr now! Errr Please? *now wants to run away scared* Had a bit of an up and down day. Fed up being not well and not having any energy. My belly has rumbled which is a good sign right? Just need the energy to get up and make some food. Wish me luck!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 15:09:46
    - Why is it, when life starts to go smooth, something comes and messes it up?
      Kera
      23 Apr 2012 17:16:02
    - @SLM lol - well if you'd looked you would have seen it sooner wouldn't you! ~glares~ ;) @Kera - that doesn't sound good :( hope things work out soon. If you fancy a shoulder to natter on (mixed metaphor? sorry lol) just DM or email? Today I am mostly catching up on writing posts I meant to write days ago :oops: plus a new sex toy review hopefully! Hope everyone else is ok? xxx :heart:
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 09:00:09
    - :goodjob: @Cara. The you tube channel is a fab idea! I only had a quick perv errr I mean look earlier but seriously what a fab idea! @Kera. Same here, I'm usually about somewhere if you want a chat/rant. *WARNING TMI coming up* I've been back at the Doctors. With my IBS flairing up with all the stress the Doc thinks my bowel is blocking my bladder and that is why I can't pee :eek: My belly is so swollen I look pregnant, I just want to pee and can't. Hopefully this medication will work, if not it means a trip back to hospital to have my bladder drained. Fingers crossed I don't. I want to do some proper writing, reviews and stuff but I just can't concentrate with the pain. How is everyone else? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 Apr 2012 13:04:54
    - @SLM OUCH! you need lots of peppermint oil and anti-spasmodics and hugs!
      edn
      24 Apr 2012 15:13:02
    - EEK @SLM that sounds really painful :(( really not good, I hope they manage to sort you out soon. I've woken up, it's a monsoon outside, pelting rain and high winds, I am off to have a lovely hot scrub in the shower then I'll be back! (accent optional lol) Hope everyone else is doing ok, whatcha all up to? xxx
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 08:24:45
    - I have more amazon pages open than what I have other tabs.. Well, most of them are just to add things to my books wishlist, and the other half are free kindle books, as I'm determined to at least start reading again.
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 11:24:28
    - I have a Kindle too but never have time to use it! :/
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 12:52:15
    - I'm slowly starting to make time to use mine. Might as well as I have 100s of books on my hard drive for it (including the Harry Potter series (which I have in book form too) and the Hunger Games series that I still haven't read...) I feel sorry for it though, all the erotica I've found hasn't been up to scratch for my tastes and yeah.. it got put down a lot and ignored.. And now the poor thing has the fifty shades of grey sample on it.
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 13:00:39
    - Eek. The 50 Shades of Grey book is really getting a beating lol Maybe the author just set out to make it the most infamous book in the history of erotica!! In which case everyone is doing them a favour lol
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 14:04:35
    - It makes Anne Rice seem like Shakespeare (well.. not exactly, but I found Anne Rice dire too from little extracts I've seen) My poor head doesn't know what's been done to it
      Kera
      25 Apr 2012 14:49:44
    - @SLM I too suffer with IBS so symapthise with you 100%.
      Spartan
      26 Apr 2012 00:56:11
    - I'm alive! Just! The pain was so bad I'd put it on par with childbirth! Yes that bad. However today I feel a bit better. Will spare you the details. I fear I have cabin fever, I hate not getting out. It's dry just now so just going to nip across the road, let the dog run about the park an I will sit on the bench. Both happy! Might even take a cuppa with me! Will pop back in later. Hope everyone is ok. x "Spartan, post: 1366, member: 36" Thanks! It's bloody horrible. Mine is mostly stress related hence being so bad just now. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 08:23:45
    - Good luck SLM - really feeling for you at the moment. Not actually feeling you, worse luck ;) Today I have mostly been a great big interwebs whore with the booby pics and video - now on to some writings! xxx
      CaraSutra
      26 Apr 2012 11:15:43
    - I never knew that Shakespeare died on the same day as his birthday. That's a bit shit really!
      Breda
      26 Apr 2012 11:30:49
    - Thanks Cara and thanks for your help today. Your boobies are amazing just now! I took the dog over to the park, sat on the bench with a cuppa, let the dog run around and back home, knackered! Did my 1st HNT post. Hope anyone who sees it likes it! It has kinda got me into the mood for some writings, I have some reviews that are way over due. Also Mr postman, where I you? I'm expecting a parcel! Breda I actually think that is rather cool! But each to their own! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 12:19:21
    - I agree it is kinda cool but it's a bit shit cause it's his birthday, but the again from studying his work at school he may have enjoyed that! That reminds me to take my dog out for a stroll around! He's not himself lately. He's very lazy and isnt barking much. A bit of a wander round outside might cheer him up! By the way SLM hope you feel better soon :)
      Breda
      26 Apr 2012 12:27:52
    - hello! thank you all for the birthday wishes for the other day! :) i also got engaged as well! :D how we all this afternoon? the weather here is shocking, cold wet and dark :(
      Diamonds
      26 Apr 2012 12:53:15
    - Awww Breda I am an animal lover so hope the dog is back to her/his normal self soon. While I've been unwell mine hasn't left my side, very quite and subdued. It's funny they can sence when your not well. Think mine thought we were off on 1 of our epic walks this morning when she saw I was taking her. My lad has been walking her before and after school and before bed, the wee angel (hes still cheeky!) I feel pretty bad I've not had the snake out, made sure he has been fed, watered ect but not had him out. Glad he has a nice size vivarium at times like this. Hey D, check you out with all the sparkles! Ring is stunning! So happy for you, for you both. I thought it was just me wih being unwell but I think it's freezing today. Makes me want to jump back under the duvet! I could be doing with a wee nap, I'm just not quite there yet although I really want to be 100%. I'm trying, I really am! I want to write but think I've fried my brain enough today! Might just go oggle Caras boobs some more! What? Have you seen just how epic they are? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 13:30:45
    - Congratulations on the engagement! The dogs are great for cuddles when your unwell! My brother just text, very exciting, not! Is it not extremely perverted to ogle a pregnant woman's growing epic cleavage, or does Cara like that sort of thing;) The joy of motherhood school run calls! Later boys and girls :p
      Breda
      26 Apr 2012 13:53:34
    - Just checking in to see how everyone is? Feel loads better but still need to take it easy. No one saw me strip the bed, hang the wash out and walk the dog round the football pitch. It might not sound much but it's more than I've been able to manage. Need to try have some breakie and go for a shower soon. Must go shopping too but I will get my lad to meet me after school and he can carry all the bags. Smart cookie eh? What? I'm not allowed any heavy lifting yet! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Apr 2012 09:54:01
    - Very extremely annoyed with the ex. One thing he's asked to do and he doesnt do it. I the rage! I'm going to avoid as many people as possible today including internet peoples! I may loose the plot! Glad your feeling better today SLM
      Breda
      27 Apr 2012 13:33:31
    - ~hugs to all that need them!~ Sorry I've not been around this morning, had a fab time with the gf in town, shopped til we literally dropped, had a gorgeous lunch in a hotel then back home for bed snuggles! xxx
      CaraSutra
      27 Apr 2012 14:25:48
    - afternoon folks! thank you for the congrats :D already starting to stress a little at wanting to do something to celebrate our engagement with loved ones, if its like this now whats it gonna be like for the big day? oh well :-/ how are you all this afternoon? ive done two blog posts today! and gonna write my third one in a little bit but gonna try the publish it at a later date option, wish me luck! lol
      Diamonds
      27 Apr 2012 14:52:03
    - Ooh must have a nosey at those - good luck D :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      27 Apr 2012 16:58:43
    - Anyone want to send me some alcohol!?
      Breda
      27 Apr 2012 21:33:47
    - Ahhh alcohol, what's that again? lol Didn't have such a great day at the end of yesterday, ex is being a knob with regards to our son. Meh Hopefully today will be lots better! What are you lot up to? Did you have a good Friday night?
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 10:44:28
    - I feel your pain regards the ex thing! Mine is sick and cant travel, in fairness though he did ring. Very annoying when they are being knobs! I watched Tulisa on Alan Carr, she's lovely! I want to go live with her and look after her! I had the last bottle of Stella that was in the fridge since christmas! What's everyone up to today?
      Breda
      28 Apr 2012 11:13:26
    - Oh I don't know this Tulisa... will have to have a nosey. Alan Carr makes me giggle though :) Today it's rainy out :( Harlot is out with the horsies, Sable is finishing off some plug in work and other stuff on the puter, I'm meant to be catching up with writing sexy articles but presently distracted with here and listening to music, enjoying a lovely fire :)
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 12:06:23
    - Tulisa used to be in ndubz and is now an x factor judge. She has a catchy tune out at the moment, the name of which escapes me! She's very pretty too! Her ex realised a sex tape of her giving him a blow job lately. Poor girl was in an awful state over it! I love my fire! It's nice here for once!
      Breda
      28 Apr 2012 13:57:59
    - Hey troops! Please feel free to ignore the following, rant coming on! Oooh I was in such a rager last night. Football club that is right behind us and they had a function on. Stupid little knobs, about 10 of them singing I'm forever blowing bubbles just as I was nodding off to sleep. They wouldn't shut up so I opened my window and I went mental! Screamed at them to shut the fuck up was just the start. I let rip!. One daft laddie told me to calm down, worst thing he could have done. I told him I was coming out to kick ass. I went down but they had all gone back into the club, I waited by the car park to make sure they got in the taxis. Phoned the club and left a very angry message with the manager. Told him my name and that I would be in to see him today. Got to sleep eventually about 4ish this morning, only to be woken up by screaming kids playing football at said club and the bloody horns! More Rage! Poor guy at the turnstyle, he got it off me and he just let me through! I went storming around the grounds until I found the manager. I pointed at him and said are your fucking R*****? Think we need to go somewhere quite and have a chat. He knew exactly who I was! He knows who the trouble makers were, will sort it out, they were the under 21's of the club! Appologies were made and I will give the benefit this time he will sort it out. Any more am I won't hessitate to call the police. Poor guy at the turnstyle on the way out, I appologised if I was a little heated with him. He said I scared him! He said he felt sorry for the manager after I was finnished with him! Sorry for the rant, just had to get it out! I'm with you all on the ex thing, had to send mine a lawyers letter a few weeks back, twat! I'm knackered, just going for shopping and the argument really took it out of me, suppose the lack of sleep didn't help. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      28 Apr 2012 14:24:23
    - Wow! Dont blame you for getting massively pissed off! I'll take note not to piss you off! My 9 year old's tooth fell out! Eeek! Teeth!
      Breda
      28 Apr 2012 14:53:06
    - Breda that was me keeping it clean! I went mental! I'm trying to recover from surgery, been unwell on top of it. I'm normally a really chilled out person. Aww loosing teeth, mine used to pull his out when they were wobbly! Think I need a nap ~yawns~ x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      28 Apr 2012 15:04:34
    - I'm on Masters bed and on the laptop He's let me borrow. Currently installing all the sims 3 games.. is fuuun
      Kera
      28 Apr 2012 18:40:46
    - The one morning I could have a nice long lie in, nothing to stop me from doing so and I was up early, just couldn't get back to sleep. Been up for hours! Suppose I should go walk the dog, won't be one of our epic walks just yet but a stroll around the park I think I can manage. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      29 Apr 2012 09:30:37
    - ~hugs~ SLM :/ sounds like not a very fun time at all... I'm not feeling in a great mood myself, tired, shoulder aches still, people being dicks online... meh
      CaraSutra
      29 Apr 2012 09:55:40
    - Hi all, I'm hiding in the bedroom 'working' while the nipper has a play date with a nursery friend downstairs! SLM, we were expecting a similar thing last night, the neighbours over the road always have a party over this weekend each year (must be a birthday or something). The last few years the weather has been pretty good, and even though the music tends to quieten around midnight, they stay in the garden and the 'conversation' of drunken women can get a bit loud (no offence to the ladies here, but you know I'm right ;)). Also, their teenage kids and their friends use it as an excuse to get overexcited and run around the street til the early hours. Last night though it all went quiet before 11, first time this week I've been glad of the shitty weather! I know how you feel though, we used to live about 50 yards from a pub, and our bedroom window pretty much looked out over the beer garden (via an alleyway and some garages). It was generally fine when we first moved in but when the 24hrs law came it it was just hell! It would start on a Thursday night and not stop til Sunday morning. The fuckers used to turn the karaoke machine up to max at 1am! 3 Landlords, several police raids and numerous complaints to the council didn't get their licence revoked! Don't miss that at all...
      SandA
      29 Apr 2012 14:05:53
    - The children are being brats. Once again the dad is absent this weekend due to, ahem, being sick. My neighbours have been quiet the last few weeks which is surprising! They like to party and generally leave their children out till all hours of the night! Although someone of them was getting frisky last night! I was awoken to rhythmic banging, quiet disturbing really! I miss country living! Hate living in the middle of the village.
      Breda
      29 Apr 2012 18:00:38
    - I am back home after the weekend at Masters. Bah. Spent most of the weekend once again naked, or nearly naked. And also playing on Sims 3 while he played the last part of Mass Effect 3. Next order of business will be sorting out Sims 2 on that laptop, so I'll never be bored. (and hopefully spark up my inspiration for writing something other than random crap..)
      Kera
      29 Apr 2012 18:30:48
    - Myself and one of my sister's are Pressuring my brother on twitter to reveal if he is bringing a date to the niece's communion next week! It's so much fun cause he's the most private person on the planet! We love to dement him!
      Breda
      29 Apr 2012 19:14:28
    - Hello from drama central! As some off you on twitter will know, I was at A&E tonight. My lad had a bit of an accident earlier. Bouncy castle and another lad got him with a knee to the nose. (he is 14 but never too old for a bouncy castle) His nose burst open, I don't want to sound like a bad parent but I can't handle blood so glad I didn't see it and he cleaned most of it off before he came and got me. Wee soul! He left quite a trail of blood too! His poor nose was near doubled in size, under his eyes all puffy. Doctor said it was too swollen to tell but good possibility it's broken. Back to the ENT clinic on thursday when the swelling has gone down. Probably black eyes too but they don't look too bad just now. A bit of concussion too so no school for him tomorrow. I still need to get up early though, should get myself to bed. Catch up more tomorrow. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      30 Apr 2012 01:09:48
    - Ouch!! Poor boy :( One of the kids here broke their nose the other week crashing into a neighbour's kid on the trampoline. He's fine now though, got it reset. Well this morning I have woken up with my arm out of its socket again, sore and checked emails to find some lovely abuse. Nice! Hope everyone's ok x
      CaraSutra
      30 Apr 2012 09:28:46
    - Afternoon ~yawns~ so tired, I'm still supposed to be taking it easy so could do with a wee afternoon nap. Poor boy indeed Cara. He is still rather swollen, his nose and his lips too, must have taken a right good hit. Need to wait and see what they say when we go back. He is worried about if it is broken if it's going to ruin his good looks! His words not mine! Aww poor kid (at your end) glad they are ok now, trampolines and bouncy castles, will they ever learn? No. Ouch for you too Cara, I know how painful it is for joints to come out the socket, something I have to deal with rather a lot with my joint condition. I really feel your pain. Can you put it back in yourself or do you need to go have it put back in? I know your not supposed to put it back in yourself as you can fracture the socket and damage nerves but when you do it as much as I do... ~gentle hugs~ And abusive emails, that isn't very nice. Why do some people have to be so horrible? I'm on the sofa with the dog curled up beside me. Could do with a cuppa but a nap is so tempting! How is everyone else? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      30 Apr 2012 13:33:53
    - Aww, the poor sausage. Maybe I should hire a bouncy castle or a trampoline, it sounds like a good excuse to get a little rhinoplasty if it's already been broken. "Well doctor, you could just set it, but while you're there...." I just noticed my user title is now "cuddle bunny", so cute. :3
      Incendiaire
      30 Apr 2012 15:54:52
    - Wow! Ouches all round! Hope all small one's and not so small one's get better soon! Abuse in emails? There are some awful weirdo's in the world. My house is has a half infested house of head of lice. Gawk and disgusting. My oldest one came in from playing with the other children last night and had head lice. The small one doesnt thankfully. I have her treated now. The joys of having girls! The local drug dealer has gone walking his dog up the road! Gonna take my fella(the dog) out for a stroll round!
      Breda
      30 Apr 2012 19:07:32
    - Note to self, don't play Sims 3 for 8 hours straight, you start dreaming of them! In other news, I am trying to *shock horror* write some fan fiction to kick start me writing again. Bit of femslash and het couples might help with something. I hope...
      Kera
      01 May 2012 15:47:20
    - Just read that Jessica Simpson gave birth to a 9lb 12oz baby girl! Great weight for a baby! My two were 9 and 10 lbs!!!!!!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 16:08:21
    - Both mine were 7lb 13, wouldn't think it now at three and four years old though. Biggest I know is my friends two kids which were 10lb odd at birth.
      Kera
      01 May 2012 17:58:33
    - My two were 9lb 4 and 10lb 2! Ouch!!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 19:10:38
    - What interests most people about my birth tales, is the fact I made more noise during the midwife putting a needle in my hand than I did all through pushing/contractions. (and that I did both with no pain relief at all, sorry, but contractions felt like weak period pains to me!)
      Kera
      01 May 2012 19:46:30
    - Wow! That's amazing! I love hearing about giving birth and watching the brave ladies that do it on the television!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 20:38:25
    - 7-10 lbs :confused: Sometimes I'm really glad to be male!
      edn
      01 May 2012 20:58:42
    - edn you really do have a lovely arse. Just found myself staring at it for the last 5 minutes mmmmmm Anyways, good evening, hope everyone is alright tonight. Oooft big babies, my lad was 7lb and that was bad enough! A friend recently had a girl who was a smidge off 9lb and apart from the help of forcepts and some pain relief she did it herself (no c-section)! Impressed! Where has the day gone? Just realised the time. Been like that all day. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      01 May 2012 22:37:07
    - Shhhhhhhh - you'll make my butt cheeks blush!
      edn
      02 May 2012 09:54:41
    - Good morning all So after it taking me a while to get on here, I have arrived WOOP WOOP, looking sexy Miss Cara. Had a wonderful week off last week, got to chill out and watch kids TV all week. I also started a college course too. I am now doing a childcare course and am working hard towards getting my quallifacations towards working with kids in clubs and poss starting up my own child minding business or even a holiday club. Feels strange to be going back to "school" and even getting back into do homework.... Feeling OLD Been a funny few days with my doggy too :( she's been very poorly and off her food, limping while she's walking too.... She will be 11 this year, just don't want to think about her getting old. So we are now giving her tablets, not fun having to force her mouth open and shove tablets down her throat.
      Kate
      02 May 2012 10:41:21
    - hello folks :wave:
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:20:50
    - Ahoy everybody!:D
      Breda
      02 May 2012 17:44:44
    - ello breda :) :wave:
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:46:31
    - What's been happening? There's been a massive mess of water made by council workers outside my house, I have massive rage now. Not a happy camper.:mad:
      Breda
      02 May 2012 18:36:10
    - "Breda, post: 1740, member: 40" erm engagement do dramas, hospital, wedding planning - we now have a date :D and my homes been invaded by ants! :mad: we had no water the other week due to a busrt water main! yet we cant use a hosepipe but they lost loads of water before they fixed it! 8-)
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 18:40:09
    - Crazy! What's happened with the engagement?
      Breda
      02 May 2012 18:48:40
    - oh people throwing a paddy about what me and the OH want to do to celebrate, i just hope its not a sign of whats to come with the wedding! other wise no bugger is gonna be invited, were just run away lol.
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 18:54:31
    - Run away! Elope! So Romantic!!!!!! Have a party afterwards let them thrash it out while you two run off!!!!!!!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 19:03:03
    - it be much more interesting to tell the kids/gran kids one day ;-) haha i tell you there is something wrong with me tonight, i keep craving foods, most of which im not keen on and i already had my dinner though i didnt really each much! :-/ are you up to anything nice tonight? :)
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 19:10:14
    - Are you going to have a baby? Nothing much, just the usual of putting the children in bed, eating crap and watching telly!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 19:19:33
    - "Breda, post: 1756, member: 40" not as far as i know lol. im waiting for the apprentice to come on, whats on your tv viewing list?
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 19:21:40
    - You should test! A wedding baby! So cute! I will be watching last night's Desperate housewives and whatever else I've missed on my sky+ box!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 19:24:08
    - oh how i miss sky, weve got shitty virgin :( its rubbish compared to sky. i have tested recently, was neg lol
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 19:32:40
    - boo :( That's no good! I dont know what I did or how I survived without it!!!!!!!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 19:34:53
    - hardly watch tv now, if do i watch dvds of shows from the days of good old British comedy, i love only fools and horses. there kinda a comfort blanket for me lol.
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 19:39:16
    - Gotta switch back! Your missing all the good stuff! Gotta round up my two and put them to bed. Later:wave:
      Breda
      02 May 2012 19:45:55
    - :zzz: Is exactly what I could do right now, stuffed! And I mean the stuffed you get after your dinner you bunch of pervs! Only me thinking that? Got apple pie for pudding but no room ~cries~ How is everyone? I need a cuppa. Got the dog to nip out in a while but apart from that I could just go to bed! How rock and roll am I eh? Last night I couldn't get to sleep and tonight I want to go early! I can't win! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 May 2012 19:47:24
    - I'm having a cup of tea now! My charger for my phone isnt working! The Sopranos is on! Tony Soprano is my ideal man! Yes I know he wouldnt be everyone's cup of tea and it's fiction but my God he's handsome! Never took my dog out today. Poor pup! He seems happy out though having his love affair through the fence with next door's dog!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 20:41:41
    - :D i manged to actually write and finish a proper blog post tonight! its my first proper one in a very long time! its goes live tomorrow at 9 am, its probably pretty crap but its a start at getting back into writing :) im just starting to watch the sopranos! where on season one with ep 3 to watch next, im really enjoying them :)
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 21:04:05
    - I'm obsessed with the Sopranos! Have been for years! I have watched everyone of them over and over again! I never tire of them!
      Breda
      02 May 2012 21:09:15
    - Just want to thank Cara and Miss Minx for last night on Twitter. I was a bit of a mess and passed out soon after my last tweet. head still mashed though, but will be having a lazy day over the weekend to see if it'll calm down. SLM - I've not ignored the message on FL, just need to figure out a way to answer that doesn't sound rambly or confusing, as my life feels like a soap opera right now!
      Kera
      02 May 2012 21:40:53
    - Massive hugs for you, was hugely worried and still worried about you, hope things get lots better soon. This morning Harlot and I went out shopping in Letchworth, not only shopping but I had a hearing test as well. Turns out I am deafer than I thought. I always knew I had high frequency loss in both ears, but my right ear is worse than my left. I am mostly lip reading people, I have 40% loss of lower tones and up to 90% loss of high tones. I need to go to the docs for a hospital referral see if they can get me some special aids that will work with the specific loss I have. If I get them privately they'll cost about £2k... :/
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:32:03
    - What! Sorry that was a very extremely bad joke!
      Breda
      03 May 2012 15:10:36
    - @Kera hunny you take your time and when your ready and that is only if you want, no pressure at all. Just wanted to let you know I'm there if you want to talk or rant! ~hugs~ I will be back later, didn't want you all to think I had run away. Had an early night last night, was knackered! Back at the hospital with my lad, still too swollen to tell if it's broken, really bad cartilage damage at least, I saw right up his nose, where most of the swelling is. Still looks very swollen on the outside but when you see inside you see how swollen it still is! So back on tuesday when the swelling has hopefully gone right down and they will be able to tell. Still might need reset :eek: and because of his age he needs knocked out to do it. Great! I hope it doesn't come to that. Anyways the dog needs walked and it's a nice day here so I will be back later! Hope everyone is ok. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      03 May 2012 17:34:13
    - Hope your ok Kera, you can send me a dm anytime you want. My 9 year old had a melt down earlier cause I wouldnt let her wander off with her cousins to their nan's house! Not an absolute hope is she going with them on their own! Too many weirdo's in the world, try telling her that though! She's settled now, I let her have biscuits! The joys of parenting! Got new chargers for my phone today and new shoes for the girls! Had a nice time running round with my sister. Hope everyone is well!
      Breda
      03 May 2012 17:49:22
    - So after a lot of dithering, I've submitted something to the lovehoney erotic story comp.. I'm not expecting it to get very far, but still feeling sick as a dog over it..
      Kera
      08 May 2012 21:59:55
    - Just a quick hello while I have my tea. I was ok when I got up but I can feel myself slipping into a right bitchy mood. I also hate being a woman sometimes! I just want to be better! How is everyone else? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      09 May 2012 09:02:26
    - OH MY GOD I'M OLD!!!
      edn
      09 May 2012 09:23:49
    - "edn, post: 2022, member: 4" Birthday is it? Also, yay! You've been promoted to a bum pincher!! ;) x
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 13:56:11
    - Indeed - ancientness strikes *falls apart*!!!
      edn
      09 May 2012 14:23:47
    - Aww Happy Birthday!!
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 14:42:10
    - Happy Birthday Edn:D Have endless amounts of rage today. Not good. There's only so much writing a girl can do to express the obscene amounts of rage that ooze from every fiber of my being at times! Has anyone tried the Stella Artois Cidre? I had a box of it and quiet liked it and I'm not usually a cider fan! My daughter is still not finished her homework an hour after starting! She gets too much at times!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 15:32:21
    - Pissed off with Very - ordered a cot bed and mattress for lil Louie on Monday and I am poisitive I got to the end page but stupidly didn't take the number down. Free towels with the order too as a freebie. Cot bed on offer, £80 off. Anyway I go to check my Very acc yesterday and no order there! I contact them and they're like oh sorry nothing we can do. I've had to reorder, another £80, plus no free towels as now they've run out :( I'm so upset :(
      CaraSutra
      10 May 2012 10:01:16
    - *scampers in through the puppy-flap* Ta-daaaa! I'm currently hosting a giveaway on my website for a set of family tickets (up to 4 people) to go to Blackpool Tower and visit 5 of it's amazing and unique attractions. If you want to be in with a chance of winning, go and enter by clicking - http://www.kari-rose.com/2012/05/giveaway-win-family-tickets-to-blackpool-tower/ #shamelesspuppypromotion '
      Kari Rose
      10 May 2012 12:23:01
    - Happy belated birthday wishes edn. Hope you had a good day and if you fell apart it's ok, Cara and I ooh and the rest of the Raggy Dolls can stitch you back together! I have had so much shit going on lately but I'm dealing with things one at a time and slowly getting there. Feeling a bit mentally drained this afternoon. I would go for a nice long walk with the dog but it is horrible today, freezing cold and asn't stopped raining all day :( and the wind, I would get blown away! Need to go and take her out soon but it will be a quick walk around the park I think. Cara that is crap, shame you can't sort it out. Or give them a good whipping! How is everyone? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 May 2012 14:28:47
    - Phil Collins makes me want to smash the radio(not a fan). Morning wasnt so great. Afternoon was a bit of fun, and evening is waiting for dinner to cook in the oven. Ah Cara that's awful and stupid very. Is it not in your sentbox of the emails? I really dont like ringing up people on a switch board cause you never know what kind of an attitude problem you'll get on the other end.
      Breda
      10 May 2012 16:25:08
    - Hmmm seems half sorted since I ranted on Twitter lol. Twitter is great for that! I'm sooooo tired, been so busy but I have a new page with some of the places I've been 'guest blogging' recently!! Cara Sutra - As Seen On... Really need to have dinner soon - starving! xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 May 2012 17:50:54
    - Cara, my god! Rat kebabs?????
      Breda
      10 May 2012 17:58:54
    - Hahaha. We have three lovely new rat pets! They're gorgeous, I was just kidding ;) Rats are very sweet and also highly intelligent. New member Chilli knows more about them than me though! Had a rough night last night. Feeling ugly, unloved, fat, no confidence, generally paranoid and overtired and hormonal. Meh Had a good cry and fell into a restless sleep. Feeling better today, just so tired. Hope everyone's ok x
      CaraSutra
      11 May 2012 09:18:40
    - My niece had mice! Gave me the heebie geebies! Each to their own! Poor Cara, hope your feeling better today x My nephew is in hospital with pneumonia, he's only 12. He's going to be ok though, the doctor said all going well he'll be home Monday!
      Breda
      12 May 2012 19:40:37
    - "Breda, post: 2095, member: 40" That's just wrong - everyone knows that rats should be butterflied and grilled!
      edn
      12 May 2012 21:11:36
    - Leave poor rats alone! Domesticated ones are fine, wild ones on the other hand.. no thanks..
      Kera
      12 May 2012 21:52:36
    - @Breda - glad your nephew is better. Remember my lil brother being in hospital with that, worrying. ~hugs~ @edn - you're making me giggle in bed on a Sunday morning. The man is now wondering what's going on... lol @Kera yeah I wouldn't just scoop rats out of the sewer and pet them haha Well - yesterday I had a lovely date, my second one with Sable ever - in the 2 years we've been together! Went for a gorgeous meal at a local hotel. I couldn't finish it all but it was lovely. Felt insanely guilty about having half a shandy - I don't know why- the waitress looked baffled as to why I was explaining I'm 17 weeks pregnant, this is my first alcoholic drink... lol. I think she was thinking 'alright love, get over it.' lol Was on a bit of a high as I did loads yesterday ( for me) Went out with Harlot in the morning to the saddlery for some shopping, then the three of us went out for a pub lunch - then the date! Phew! Won't need to go out again in ages lol Rest time today!! x
      CaraSutra
      13 May 2012 07:30:44
    - Giggling in bed is good so long as it's not pointing and giggling! I'm just back from a tango class (learning to dance a tango is on my bucket list - it just looks so melodramatic and fabulous!) so the toes of innocent fellow dancers are safe once again... ...for now!
      edn
      13 May 2012 15:02:03
    - And it appears that I have developed an exclamation mark addiction :o
      edn
      13 May 2012 15:02:41
    - Master looks so sweet sleeping... I can't stray too far though, He has my thigh in a death grip...
      Kera
      13 May 2012 15:18:02
    - Just a quick hello. In agony today, my joints are killing me. My own fault, 2 nights out in a row. Got physio tomorrow, maybe it's a good thing they are seeing me with my joints are really bad. Need to drag myself into the shower before bed. Had an excellent weekend though, so much fun! Hope everyone had a good weekend! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      13 May 2012 20:13:11
    - @Minx - I sure understand the joints problem. I slept wrong so my body is screaming bloody murder at me. Fibro is awful! Hope physio helps you out. I've got midterms tomorrow, bluh! My only consolation is that it's 100-question multiple choice and also open book so it should be easy, if-not time consuming. And then, the weekend is mine... hohoho. I wonder what I should do...
      t A
      18 May 2012 00:27:06
    - My older daughter is off school today and I'm off to wash my hair! Need to get in touch with my hair dresser as well to get rid of the birds nest look I have going on!
      Breda
      18 May 2012 09:51:34
    - Hi everyone! Today is a busy one for me too, affiliate newsletter written and posted, the newsletter will be sent before 3pm today so make sure you're signed up (it's an affil only nl) - Babysitting this morning while Sable and Harlot are off doing some work in-office Have fed the horses Reviewed some erotica and about to get started reviewing some PVC gloves! ~phew~ Hope you're all ok! x
      CaraSutra
      18 May 2012 10:39:02
    - My left arm (most dominant arm for me, being left handed) is absolutely killing me for no reason. No like :(
      Kera
      18 May 2012 11:41:23
    - O no Kera:( Hope it's better soon! Decided to stick a relatively newer picture of myself up! That was taken in the local pub!
      Breda
      18 May 2012 12:37:46
    - So in an attempt to actually keep from hurting my arm more, I go and sprain my wrist. thank god I bought some retraints for when my body goes tits up like it has recently...
      Kera
      18 May 2012 17:18:54
    - Bodies are evil - I've managed to ping my sciatic nerve somehow so I can now lie down or stand up bit not really sit down which is a bit of an arse!
      edn
      18 May 2012 19:48:08
    - Ouch! To both of you!
      NymphetamineKiss
      18 May 2012 20:12:04
    - Edn, my hip has been playing up, and know your pain with sciatic nerves, I need a walking stick when mine goes it's just that painful... I don't even dare put down what can and does go wrong though, I swear the only thing that properly works is just my.. no wait.. not even THAT works sometimes!
      Kera
      18 May 2012 20:16:56
    - At least I'm old enough for it to be age and decrepitude!
      edn
      18 May 2012 20:24:25
    - Have you two got a someone to look after your ailments? Rubbing and lots of tea is in order! Feel better soon :)
      Breda
      18 May 2012 20:53:54
    - Nah I just stretched inappropriately and something went ping!
      edn
      18 May 2012 21:01:23
    - I can't drink tea Breda, makes me throw up.. I look after myself, it's the only thing I can do. AS for what happened to me, I went over on my wrist while trying to get up, spraining it. quite a normal thing to happen though
      Kera
      18 May 2012 21:12:50
    - Now see in come my mother, or smothering if you like, instincts and I want to just look after you now and make sure your ok!
      Breda
      18 May 2012 21:31:43
    - Aaah, I hope everyone feels better. ): I've got quite the headache to be nursing at the moment myself ( boo, chronic migraines ) but I can always hope itt'l go away.
      t A
      19 May 2012 00:14:18
    - With my body falling apart my head decided to get in on the act! Much oddness!
      edn
      19 May 2012 08:42:54
    - Can I have a working body? I have a headache, and cramps, probably connected to each other as I'm craving meat and know my iron levels will be way too low right now.
      Kera
      19 May 2012 09:46:18
    - So tired! Cant go to bed, watching telly! Are you guys any better?
      Breda
      19 May 2012 23:55:44
    - I'm thankfully better, myself. It's been a pretty good day, though tiring. That sucks that you can't sleep yet!
      t A
      20 May 2012 06:35:46
    - Meh grey outside, I wake at 6am on the weekends yet can't get out of bed in the week! What's going on there!!
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 07:37:27
    - Hello troops. Another one here who is falling apart. Not a happy bunny today. Been getting muscle spasms for the past few days. Doesn't help with my already sore joints. I should be at the rope workshop just now but I doubt I could even make it into town. Sat here in a right grumpy mood because of it. I shouldn't have to worry about not being able to do things at my age. Got physio tomorrow, I hope it helps. I swear all this pain is from getting caught in the rain on thursday. Anyways, how is everyone else? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      20 May 2012 13:34:46
    - Hi everybody! My fecking internet is being a pain all day! Got my stew for dinner in the oven and it's nearly done so the smell is making my belly grumble! Hope your Sunday is going good:D
      Breda
      20 May 2012 15:40:46
    - I've had a day of painting (walls not the fun kind!) so now the back/hip is killing me which is a good reason to slob! I'm just trying to sort out some photographs for my photography class at the moment. This weeks one word challenge was "transparent" which is harder than you might think!
      edn
      20 May 2012 18:04:38
    - I got a stress headache. I'm going to go to bed early tonight. Very tired.
      Breda
      20 May 2012 21:39:55
    - Got a migraine from waking up at least 15 times last night, if not more. However, today was grocery day so I'm expecting there to be some delicious food stashed in the fridgerator that might lift my spirits. ( And the rest of my icecream will be missing by the end of the day, too... ohohoh. )
      t A
      20 May 2012 23:12:49
    - Not feeling that great today myself, grey horrible day outside, spent the morning resting (well, and doing laundry, how glam) - hoping that would give me some more energy and motivation but I just feel a bit crappy. Meh Someone cheer me up!
      CaraSutra
      21 May 2012 12:50:45
    - Hope today is better Cara! I'm off to stay at my ex's house later. O Jesus the utter horror. Gotta take my little girl to the city to get her eye checked before they do the surgery on it so his house is closer so got to take all my stuff(yes that includes the children!) to his house which I dont want to do but apparently it's going to save money, how I dont know I already have less than nothing left! This is the house that he moved into after he left me where he spends time with his now girlfriend, although she does not live there. Am I utterly insane? Yes I think I am!
      Breda
      22 May 2012 14:57:37
    - I got my nipple pierced today.. means I have to wear a bra for the foreseeable future... I HATE BRAS!
      Kera
      22 May 2012 17:42:04
    - Good luck Breda! Oh wow Kera! I tried to view your pic on twitter (perv that I am! ;) ) but it had already been deleted - boo hoo Well the weather was absolutely gorgeous yesterday - spent it out in the sunshine with Harlot watching her ride the horsies and helping her put away etc. Today has started grey and with not nearly enough teaaaaa! Hope everyone is well? x
      CaraSutra
      23 May 2012 09:04:48
    - Boo Cara! It is on my fetlife though. Won't be deleted on there :rofl: as for today, I have two ill kids, and cried watching Glee... god I'm a sad act...
      Kera
      23 May 2012 09:11:23
    - Hi all! Wow Kera nipple pierced! Did that hurt? My little girl got on well today, the sleep over at the ex's wasnt as bad as I thought it would be! I'm a bit of a worry wort like that! How is everyone this evening?
      Breda
      23 May 2012 20:51:28
    - I've had a thrilling day getting CT scanned - nasty claustrophobic things! I've had so many chest x-rays and the like that either my torso will glow in the dark or develop super powers. You may have pierced nipples - mine will have laser vision and be able to fly! Had a bit of a trauma yesterday when I went out to do some photography and discovered a big blob in the middle of all the images so I have to clean the sensor which is apparently a very delicate job where you can easily wreck your camera - eeeeek! I'm just back from my photoshop class - I shall be arty yet!
      edn
      23 May 2012 21:18:22
    - Breda, it pinched but didn't hurt much. But saying that, my pain tolerance is through the roof due to all natural births with both kids... I want my right one redoing now, and tongue and clit hood but those are a while off at the moment
      Kera
      23 May 2012 21:28:50
    - It's Raggy Doll Thursday! Everyone sing along now ;) [media=youtube]TsBRMhaKPps[/media]
      CaraSutra
      24 May 2012 09:47:43
    - "Kera, post: 2533, member: 3" Does the sensation go when you get that done?
      Breda
      24 May 2012 14:49:52
    - I'm a bit blonde today.. you'll have to explain what you meant there...
      Kera
      24 May 2012 16:35:08
    - Yay Cara! Love Raggy Doll Thursday! Just a quick hello. Melting here, it's so warm. Just deciding if I want to go to the munch tonight or sit in the garden and enjoy the sun. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 May 2012 16:35:41
    - "Kera, post: 2553, member: 3" Sorry, it's me not explaining well! Does the nice feeling go when they are being played after the piercing is done?
      Breda
      24 May 2012 21:29:32
    - I find that it only enhanced mine when I had my original done (right hand side, last year - took out because it wouldn't heal with a bar in) and is still more sensitive now as it was then..
      Kera
      25 May 2012 14:56:53
    - Interesting! Thanks for the info!
      Breda
      25 May 2012 23:18:55
    - I've just got a longer PTFE (?) bar for my belly button piercing as the other one was getting too short for my expanding bump! This one is made from a material that is fine if I have to have surgery in labour or anything. It's quite pretty but sticks out loads at the moment, til I get my full sized bump lol, looks funny! What about this weather! Amazing, I'm loving it. Wear sunscreen! ;) x
      CaraSutra
      27 May 2012 08:42:45
    - Am all sunburn. The tomato look isnt great, but the weather is!
      Breda
      27 May 2012 09:59:31
    - I faceplanted my phone earlier on.. Master needs to learn to clear off the bed if He is gonna do me doggy! But before that, had a lovely walk along the canal, despite my hips going, and then took him up my favourite place in Huddersfield - Castle Hill - it has a bigger special meaning than just being my favourite place, my grandma was scattered there after she died, so sharing it with someone special meant a lot. In bigger news, in June I'll be about as active as a fart... I'm doing Camp NaNoWriMo - link is there for those that don't know about it - HOWEVER, since my character is a prostitute, I'll be back to pick peoples brains for ideas :stroke: :rofl:
      Kera
      27 May 2012 19:48:40
    - I have a very odd new story idea bouncing around in my head - I may have to give it another go! Though it'll take some serious development so I may wait till the August version :/
      edn
      27 May 2012 20:30:04
    - I'm depbating over doing the August one as well...depends on how well I do with the June one..
      Kera
      27 May 2012 20:49:01
    - Ouch! Sunburn hurts :( Ok, I need to get the sex from someone! I miss sex.
      Breda
      27 May 2012 21:50:11
    - Hello all, havent bean able to read let alone do any posting recently because I have been suffering with Bppv...and Bl**dy horrible it is too.. at last its starting to abate. Good to see people are enjoying the weather...OOoo Sunburn definitely not good, I sympathise...I had to bust up an old concrete patio a few years ago, with a sledge hammer and got severely sunburned, despite sunblock etc... (wont do that again in a hurry I can tell you!) Not too uncomfortable in this heat for you yet is it Cara?
      Spartan
      27 May 2012 22:32:51
    - Aw Breda, hope the sunburn clears up soon :) SO lovely outside again - I sound like a broken record !
      CaraSutra
      28 May 2012 09:23:40
    - I swear, I've worn shorts more this year than what I have in previous years EVER. But I'm gonna be mean and say that I want just one day of rain, the high temperatures are doing a number on my body now
      Kera
      28 May 2012 09:58:01
    - I'm actually slightly par boiling - it really feels like there is a storm brewing which needs to break!
      edn
      28 May 2012 21:43:35
    - The aloe vera gel working wonders! Still look like a tomato though! Am off to try and get some sleep now!
      Breda
      28 May 2012 22:50:10
    - More strong quakes here today. I'm freaking out!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      29 May 2012 13:15:13
    - "Breda, post: 2548, member: 40" For me, it didn't hurt much when I got it done but the first few hours afterwards were hell! Healing takes ages but a pierced nipple usually gets more sensitive, in a very positive way!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      29 May 2012 13:20:43
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 2623, member: 46" Boooo and *more hugs* There was an article on the radio yesterday about how there may be a Parmigiano-Reggiano shortage as the quake has destroyed lots of storage houses where the wheels were being aged - that's the UK priority for earthquakes :o
      edn
      29 May 2012 14:20:45
    - O my word KoS that's awful. Stay safe xxxx
      Breda
      29 May 2012 21:37:14
    - Thank you all guys, your support is precious!;)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      30 May 2012 19:21:46
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 2646, member: 46"Just read your previous comments re the quakes, yes I hope you are ok. Stay safe. :)
      uksrob
      31 May 2012 10:26:56
    - Gotta go vote. Freaking Irish government being twats. Stupid Fiscal treaty. No one has a clue what's going on!
      Breda
      31 May 2012 11:54:22
    - Just a quick hello. My mum is visiting shortly, housework to try and do while wearing a sling. Put my shoulder out this morning, just what I needed. Anyways hope everyone is well. Promise to get back on soon and have a proper catch up ;-) xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      01 Jun 2012 13:49:40
    - Hey all, been a bit quiet online recently, May was a bit of an odd month, but hopefully I can get back in to the swing of things now! It's June, the summer has been and gone, and we have a very long weekend of fatty foods, over-drinking and children's boredom tantrums to look forward to! Yep, ya gotta love normality! ;) Have a good one...
      SandA
      01 Jun 2012 14:00:25
    - Ello all - how is everyone? I'm just back from a few days of surprising my niece for her birthday and going for a falconry experience day. If anyone has the chance to do that (the falconry that is!) give it a go - it's FAB!
      edn
      02 Jun 2012 17:49:18
    - hope everyone if having a lovely day xx
      BrummieGal
      03 Jun 2012 12:56:24
    - Why would you ring someone after they asked you not to?????? Just raged to high heaven now after a phone call that I did not ask for.
      Breda
      04 Jun 2012 21:30:03
    - Had my 20 week scan today, all is healthy and it's a boy!!! Definitely! Woah the size of them things!! haha x
      CaraSutra
      07 Jun 2012 16:36:02
    - CONGRATULATIONS :)
      edn
      07 Jun 2012 16:51:06
    - So happy for you Cara :D Imagine all the tiny suits and boy stuff you can get now! I love boy stuff! Army tanks and soldiers and all that stuff!
      Breda
      07 Jun 2012 21:06:26
    - :wave: sooooo im back after a shitty month, whoes missed me? :nerner:lol
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 19:49:36
    - Welcome back:D
      Breda
      11 Jun 2012 20:26:29
    - thank you :D i can not believe its only half past 9, today has been looooooooooooong. how you doing breda?
      Diamonds
      11 Jun 2012 20:28:42
    - Thanks for the congrats everyone, doing fine, bump is 21 weeks today, it is really flying past! Hope everyone is well and good to see you about again Diamonds, and blogging. Good luck with PoR too :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Jun 2012 20:52:29
    - ooh ive just changed to a bum pincher on this site :shinywiggle:
      rach74
      12 Jun 2012 11:41:48
    - I'm good today! Found out about some more stuff that makes me tick and a bit on the odd side! Not a paranoid wreck as I thought I once was! Hurray!
      Breda
      12 Jun 2012 17:23:34
    - Well it is apparently going to be sunny today but my weather app says it will rain at about 11am for a couple of hours. We will see who is right I guess. I wish the hot weather would come back, it is so miserable when it is cold and grey :( Hope you are all well :) Went shopping with the gf yesterday, we grabbed a bite to eat in a cafe too, the looks we get when we have a kiss, she with her new baby and me with big pregnant bump! hahaha
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 07:47:38
    - Sorry about ongoing quietness from me - things are not fab in EDN-land at the moment :( Hopefully abnormal service will be resumed soon...
      edn
      13 Jun 2012 12:09:38
    - hahaha 2 ladies kissing in a cafe with a bump and a baby how cute :)
      Demonic
      13 Jun 2012 12:32:25
    - See now I would love to see that! Not in a pervy way(well maybe) but it's just nice to have that open-ness in the world. It would be a much calmer place if we let people love who they love.
      Breda
      13 Jun 2012 20:56:37
    - I completely agree Breda! Sadly many do not. So many judgemental looks and sometimes openly disgusted faces and usually on women. Ironically these same women may harbour bi-fantasies themselves. Shame really.
      CaraSutra
      15 Jun 2012 08:11:40
    - I agree, its a shame when people choose to be so judgemental on what others do. I always try not to be judgemental of others and hate it when others are judgemental of me. and I've totally resited the temptation to be very judgemental on the fact that you openly admitted to going in a cafe. ;) lol (sorry couldn't resist)
      uksrob
      15 Jun 2012 11:50:58
    - I admit I'm one of those bi curious people. I admire anyone who is so honest with themselves and everyone about their sexuality. Sad really when women throw 'the look' at other women when they should be celebrating them!
      Breda
      15 Jun 2012 21:31:20
    - lol oooh cafes! ick! Awful places with their erm... coffee and big breakfasts! Right well today, Harlot is off with her blokey and baby to see family in Lincolnshire, for the weekend - so apart from missing her I am snuggling the Sable and completing my SEO and updating my site. By a roaring fire as it's still freezing even though it's the middle of June! What are you lot up to? xxx
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 11:46:07
    - I have been quiet recently, been staying on the downlow as have been trying to write, but isn't working...
      Kera
      16 Jun 2012 14:58:38
    - I should be writing myself but for totally different reasons! Instead I'm going to go to bed!
      Breda
      16 Jun 2012 23:30:10
    - Very mundane nilla type day for me today, hence logging on to try and brighten things up this afternoon. I have a shed load of worky type stuff to get done today so might be spending lots of time staring at the screen. :(
      uksrob
      17 Jun 2012 13:18:57
    - Such a sleepy day for me today. Been working on my site, trying to get my seo completed which is just taking forever and it's not very exciting tbh. Awaiting Harlot back this afternoon/evening, asap really as I miss my girlie snuggles! The gel nails I got on Thursday are holding up well, really pleased with them :)
      CaraSutra
      17 Jun 2012 14:13:18
    - Hello everyone. Bloody freezing here. Went to a munch yesterday afternoon, had a good day. There were 2 lads at the bar who were rather curious as to 'what' we were. They asked if we were swingers! The answer was just a laugh. Let them keep guessing. There was a game of Tittywinks going on too, one guy was in the middle of his shot and the barmaid came round to clear the table, we were rubbish at acting all innocent. Was a right giggle. I love my kinky friends ;-) How is everyone else? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 Jun 2012 14:26:34
    - So very tired today
      Breda
      18 Jun 2012 09:04:22
    - Really grumpy today and been awake since 3am and it's really not helping :(
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 09:38:08
    - After a crappy few months I'm having my meds changed by the GP - another month or so of crappiness and wobbliness but hopefully there is now some stability to look forward to *crosses everything*
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 09:45:02
    - I'm off to a play munch tonight :O Now.. do I have anything pink to wear..
      Kera
      19 Jun 2012 12:43:39
    - Travelling week for me this week with work, sitting in a hotel currently in Bristol. At least I brought my own laptop not just the work one so I can log on and releive the boredom with some online kink. :)
      uksrob
      19 Jun 2012 14:16:00
    - Going for a pre driving test today before my actual driving test tomorrow! Ah!!!!!!!
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:49:47
    - "Breda, post: 3135, member: 40"Good luck both for today and tomorrow, hope you get through it and pass. :)
      uksrob
      19 Jun 2012 14:55:32
    - Thank you very muchly :)
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:59:41
    - Hey guys! I just wanted to apologise for my inactivity recently. My life has been spiraling out of control and everything that can go wrong - has gone wrong. I've been in and out of hospital and spent the last week resisting suicide. Tough times for a pup :( I'm currently trying to recover again, focussing on getting better and getting my life back on track. I just hope you guys (especially Cara) don't think I'm ignoring you. I've just not had the time to be social online and have kind of cut myself off from everyone. I haven't meant to :( I'm sorry.
      Kari Rose
      24 Jun 2012 00:04:34
    - Hope everything gets better for you soon Kari
      Breda
      24 Jun 2012 22:29:43
    - Big hugs Kari. Hope you feel better soon. Hope everyone else is ok. I'm tired (need my b12 jag) and my joints are sore but I will plod on. Waiting on a delivery but need to go take the dog out so park it is then I'm not going far. Don't think I could manage much more today anyway but it will give me the chance to stretch my legs. I better not go out and it comes. Just be my luck. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      25 Jun 2012 09:59:28
    - Kari, I'm so sorry! Tons of virtual hugs for you!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      25 Jun 2012 18:08:00
    - [quote="Kari Rose, post: 3203, member: 19"]Hey guys! I just wanted to apologise for my inactivity recently. My life has been spiraling out of control and everything that can go wrong - has gone wrong. I've been in and out of hospital and spent the last week resisting suicide. Tough times for a pup :( I'm currently trying to recover again, focussing on getting better and getting my life back on track. I just hope you guys (especially Cara) don't think I'm ignoring you. I've just not had the time to be social online and have kind of cut myself off from everyone. I haven't meant to :( I'm sorry.[/quote] :( sorry to hear this. I was wondering where you had got to. I hope things get better for you. I've been there myself in the past and it's just awful. xxx
      CaraSutra
      27 Jun 2012 11:41:01
    - It's really very warm today, completely melting here. 24 weeks next Monday, viability day! Woot
      CaraSutra
      27 Jun 2012 11:41:26
    - Hi people! Being engrossed in 50 shades the last few days! On the second book now! Must get the 3rd one next week! Hope Kari is ok and everyone else is good. Just found out that one of the locals killed himself. Our village is usually a very quite one so it's a shock to see police cars in the village. Poor guy. My girls get their holidays from school tomorrow so I probably wont be on here much! Their dad is good though, he's going to take them for a few days here and there over the summer so I dont go backwards in my going forwards! :)
      Breda
      27 Jun 2012 12:51:22
    - It's really clammy here today, was pouring down this morning but it looks like it is drying up now. I hope so as I need to go out later this afternoon. Sending my lad up to my mums tomorrow to look after her as she isn't very well. I would go myself but means struggling with dog and bags on 2 busses. He is such a good lad. Hope everryone is ok. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Jun 2012 13:03:36
    - Hey guys, popping in to show my face. As most of you will already know via twitter, I'm moving out of here and moving in with Master. It's going to be a stressful time, but I hope to come on once in a while. I just never know if my internet is going to be pulled on me by the ex at any second. Hopefully, once everything settles down, I'll be back and posting regularly
      Kera
      01 Jul 2012 19:09:14
    - Aww Kera, breakups are hard. Hope your ok. You happy?
      Breda
      01 Jul 2012 23:31:22
    - Hugs for Kera, must be a hard and stressful time for you but I think overall it's for the best, from what you've said - I know it's easy for me to say that from the outside but I wish you good luck in getting to the place you want to be xxx
      CaraSutra
      05 Jul 2012 07:11:44
    - evening all :)
      Diamonds
      17 Jul 2012 19:42:21
    - Evening D!
      Breda
      17 Jul 2012 23:33:14
    - Hello everyone, I really need to get on here more don't I! Obviously been busy lately what with house move and pregnancy which is just rushing by so fast. Third trimester from Monday already! That reminds me I need to get my birth plan written up, my hospital bag packed and my birthing pool sorted... I am planning on a home birth but will have a hospital bag packed just in case... :) Hope you're all ok?
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:30:44
    - I have an insane stress headache. Doesnt help when someone is being an asshole.
      Breda
      31 Jul 2012 20:07:00
    - I've had a battering from the Feminists and the Religion people are trying to get the kids to believe in God! Argh!!!!
      CaraSutra
      01 Aug 2012 14:53:32
    - Ah!!!!!!!!!! Feminists! Grrrrr!!!!! Religious trying to convert children GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR:mad:
      Breda
      01 Aug 2012 18:14:20
    - I've finally fully moved into Masters as of yesterday. Going to take a while to stop calling it "his/yours" and call it home though...
      Kera
      05 Aug 2012 17:20:49
    - Glad you are safe and happy! :D Have the best fun at your masters!!!!!!
      Breda
      06 Aug 2012 01:10:28
    - Congrats Kera! I know it's a big change but so excited for you and hope you will be happy at least and very fulfilled. Often ;) x
      CaraSutra
      06 Aug 2012 11:04:33
    - Ok, massive land cruiser just drove in and blinded me with those RIDICULOUS blue lights it has. #asshole
      Breda
      06 Aug 2012 19:52:14
    - Got outed as a lesbian yesterday at a wedding. Not happy about it.
      Breda
      10 Aug 2012 15:56:43
    - Oh Breda, who would do that? :( How rude!! What happened? ~hugs~ xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Aug 2012 11:32:28
    - See I made a joke at myself being so far in the closet I'm in Narnia on twitter and one of the locals that I follow and know decided to out me to the table of people. I'm a bit sad over it because I'm not fully aware of it, even though I know it's there myself. Nothing I can do about it now though, just have to carry on. I just carried on making a joke out of it. Thanks Cara xxxx
      Breda
      12 Aug 2012 12:37:13
    - That's crap what a horrid person. So I was 30 weeks pregnant yesterday, measuring 34 weeks though, midwife on Monday for blood tests etc finally - yay! Boobs are now humongous and the fact I have to wear clothes is a pain. SO hot!
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2012 14:41:53
    - Wuhoo! Big baby! Love big babies!!!!!
      Breda
      14 Aug 2012 16:58:41
    - Helloooooooooooooooooooo everyone! Sorry I haven't been about much lately. My laptop is sick and lots going on. Hopefully get on more soon, the kids are back at school this week! Woohoo! So I should have some more time. Loads to tell! Hope everyone is well.
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 Aug 2012 22:38:28
    - hi slm, wow kids dont got back for another 3 weeks here, look forward to hearing your gossip
      rach74
      15 Aug 2012 09:42:12
    - Wow! My two aren't back till the 3rd! Love a bit of gossip!
      Breda
      15 Aug 2012 20:55:20
    - "Breda, post: 3592, member: 40" Big babies are great if you're not pushing them out! haha
      CaraSutra
      16 Aug 2012 10:22:48
    - I did push two big thumpers out! A 9lb and a 10lb!
      Breda
      16 Aug 2012 10:44:44
    - I kinda set myself up for some awesome news there so hope I don't disappoint! There has been lots of boring stuff like a sick laptop and my mum braking her ankle but I'm sure you want to hear about the really cool stuff. Yeah? I went on a road trip with 9 other kinksters to Birmingham, went went to a club called Exodus. We have different rules this side of the border so it was a bit of a novelty to us not to have to worry about intimate touching or being butt naked. I must have been in the club for about half an hour when I started chatting to the guy with the biggest Violet Wand kit I have ever seen! Having never played with one before (wanted to for a while) I wanted to try everything so I pretty much did! A little edge play and a knife across my throat while I was holding on to the wand was enough to tip me over the edge. I should add all I was wearing was my boots at this point, the dress was off! I also got a little heart shape, almost like a branding kinda thing, not sure how to describe it. I was holding onto the wand and it was like a metal pen that was used to scribe into my skin. I have a very faint mark now, it's almost gone :( Next at the club we got to watch a fire display, this girl was being fire whipped, the guy doing it was amazing! After chatting to the owner about how fab it was, I said I just wanted to jump up and say 'me next'. Next thing I knew he had me by the hand and led me into the warehouse area the fire show was. Enough fule left for 1 more shot! Eeep!!! There was me butt nekked again in the middle of this huge space and I was fire whipped! How awesome was that?!!! I still buzz when I think about it! After chatting to Alex who fire whipped me, we decided to have a play, I had never actually made it onto a cross so another first and I was whipped with alsorts. Had some lovely marks and bruises. The trust was there after letting him whip me with fire, the play was amazing! Exodus was awesome! I will go back! I had a tattoo planned for a while, a little pair of hand cuffs, 1 closed, 1 open on the back of my neck was where I wanted it so I went and got it :D and while I was there I thought I would get a little flame to represent my new found love of fire play. I love them both! That was my favourite highlights of the summer! I'm helping out at a Caberesque night for charity on saturday, I'm a cigarette girl, should be a brilliant night, looking forward to it! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Aug 2012 14:01:58
    - Wow, Minxy has been on some adventures!
      Incendiaire
      18 Aug 2012 00:44:26
    - Wow SLM! That sounds amazing!
      Kera
      18 Aug 2012 17:33:29
    - On a totatlly different subject! My sister just answered the door to find the delivery take away guy is her ex!!!!!!!!!
      Breda
      18 Aug 2012 20:33:09
    - wow SLM busy times! And Breda, bet that gave her a shock - did she still have her appetite? lol
      CaraSutra
      19 Aug 2012 18:26:50
    - I laughed at her! She saw the funny side though! He's a bit of a looser!
      Breda
      19 Aug 2012 18:31:28
    - Haha well I suppose he was delivering her pizza, I would find that hilarious!!! Hope he wasn't expecting to be invited in lol
      CaraSutra
      19 Aug 2012 18:33:03
    - Ha ha ha ha!:rofl:
      Breda
      19 Aug 2012 18:37:31
    - Yes I've kinda been a busy bee over the summer, loved every minute of of it! The charity night was brilliant last night. The burlesque dancers were amazing! The singers were fab! Myself and the other cigarette girl did a fab job if I say so myself! Sold all the cup cakes and loads of raffle tickets. Think it is safe to say the night was a sucess! Not sure how much was raised but everyone was digging deep. The photos are brilliant! How is everyone? x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      19 Aug 2012 19:08:55
    - Silly question probably but do people actually have a fetish for feet. By the way I hate them!
      Breda
      19 Aug 2012 19:35:06
    - "Breda, post: 3646, member: 40" Sounds like the opening to a porno to me, haha.
      Incendiaire
      20 Aug 2012 12:32:07
    - Ha h ah ah ah!!!!!!!!!
      Breda
      20 Aug 2012 13:47:09
    - Went to the midwife in our new area this morning for the first time, bloods taken and sent off to check, also my pee to check for any infections esp as I@ve been so tired that I basically could sleep all day - I'm sleeping all afternoon as it is :/ Got next apptmt at 34 weeks, start of Sept, I'm 31 weeks today :) Baby is all healthy though & growing well, moving lots too!
      CaraSutra
      20 Aug 2012 20:58:08
    - Hurray! Hope you feel better soon:) Also that comment about Disney on your facebook page made me mad but loved your reaction to it! Some people, just grrrrrrr.:mad:
      Breda
      20 Aug 2012 21:22:25
    - Some people have a real thing against Disney but they're seeing it as adults... they need to revert back to the pure innocence & just enjoy the magic!! :)
      CaraSutra
      21 Aug 2012 11:04:34
    - I'm an adult(well I pretend) I love Disney! I dont understand the people who dont like it! As we'd say in Ireland eejits! Meaning fools of the highest order!
      Breda
      21 Aug 2012 22:00:14
    - I know, I lived in Cork for three and a half years, I believe the phrase at the time was 'langers' ... lol
      CaraSutra
      23 Aug 2012 10:23:20
    - There was a song about the word langer! You'll surely remember the Rose of Tralee festival so Cara!
      Breda
      23 Aug 2012 10:29:48
    - Erm, nope but I have heard of the rose of Tralee ... I was amongst quite a few 'rebels' and the music was quite... interesting! :)
      CaraSutra
      23 Aug 2012 12:42:43
    - I'm sure that song is on youtube!
      Breda
      23 Aug 2012 12:45:19
    - I was listening to 'the town I loved so well' live by Dubliners the other day :) brought back some memories!
      CaraSutra
      29 Aug 2012 12:49:48
    - Great song!
      Breda
      29 Aug 2012 18:29:57
    - Happy New Year when it comes everyone! All the best for 2013. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      31 Dec 2012 22:25:13
    - Happy New Year to everyone. Christmas was lovely, when I got there finally after the writing project I was working on! Hope you all had a great time?
      CaraSutra
      04 Jan 2013 12:18:29
    - Hello! Tá mé anseo! That means, I am here!
      Breda
      10 Jan 2013 20:18:23
    - Hello! Great to see you here. Hope everyone's start to 2013 has been fab? I'm so busy at the moment what with reviews and writing and of course home life, Blue is eating so much and growing fast! What are you all up to tonight & this weekend? xx
      CaraSutra
      11 Jan 2013 13:18:15
    - Failed my driving test today, on a technicality. One of the back break lights was not working, before I even drove the car for the test. Gotta pay another €85 for a retest. Sigh. Ah well, another day will come! Hope everyone else is having a good day!
      Breda
      11 Jan 2013 17:13:29
    - Morning! I'm still in bed, having a cuppa. My legs are really sore :( just waiting on the painkillers kicking in before I get up. How is everyone? I've not been up to much. Hoping I'm not in too much pain tomorrow night. Planning a singles night with a couple of friends, when I say planning, it's us 3 that is organising it! God help all those single people with us running it :dominatrix:Numbers look good and if everyone turns up then there are twice as many guys as woman. I may be in with a chance! I will be so lucky. @Cara How are things with you? I bet the little 'un is getting big. They aren't little for long. @Breda Aww that sucks. Good luck for the next time. @anyone else who is about...hello!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 Jan 2013 09:47:01
    - Blue is getting so big yes! They found he has a slight heart murmur so waiting on a Hospital appointment to get it checked out. They said not to worry but of course I am anyway! I'm not well at all today - can't shake this cold/throat infection. Hope you're all ok? x
      CaraSutra
      24 Jan 2013 19:57:57
    - Aww Cara, I'm sure if it was anything serious with Blue he would have been in and had his appointment. It is easy to say try not to worry. Just a normal motherly reaction. Little snuggles for blue. I hope you are feeling better, loads of people seem to have one thing or another just now. My boy had that winter vomiting bug at the weekend, *touch wood* I'm ok so far. I'm very stressed, which I find happens quite a lot between therapy sessions. Noticing little patterns so will mention it at my next session. On days when I'm not so stressed I have a new hobby that I'm really enjoying, if you follow me on Twitter you may have seen my recent pics of my rope work. I am lucky that I have some friends who are amazing riggers who have tied me before, now I'm learning to tie and have some amazing teachers. The last rope workshop I was tied but I did learn too. Never thought I could tie more than my shoe laces. If I get half as good as my friends I will be a happy bunny (pun intended) but so far I am very proud of myself. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      29 Jan 2013 15:04:33
    - Your rope work is amazing. Hope your son is better now? Not had Blue's apptmt through yet - will ring this week I think. Been another busy week with reviews and articles and of course everything this manic household gets up to! Have a friend staying over this weekend, of Ellie and I, that we know through Twitter. Very fun and interesting to get to know her in person! Hope everyone is well xxx
      CaraSutra
      02 Feb 2013 09:37:03
    - Thanks Cara, I'm very chuffed with myself so far. Not really had much time this week. My boy was ill, now I have it. Once I feel better I will get back into it. Oooh jealous! Why there has to be so many miles between us. Hope you all have a great weekend. While I remember, I picked http://www.voluptasse.co.uk/shop-online/product_info.php?cPath=65&products_id=951 With my new hobby, I just had to! Looking forward to putting it to use ;) Think I am away back to bed, have a good weekend everyone! xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 Feb 2013 18:58:46
    - Oh very nice! Trust you with the rope you little bunny ;) Have fun. Have you entered the Review Idol competition that Voluptasse are running? It will be featured in a national womens mag soon too :) I have a new freelance writing project which is taking up ALL of my time at the moment, hopefully I will get a bit of free time to catch up with product reviews and things. Fitting in lots of Blue snuggles, obviously! ;) He is on solid food now already - gannet can't get enough. Healthy little boy! Hope everyone here is well x
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:30:28
    - Oh very nice! Trust you with the rope you little bunny ;) Have fun. Have you entered the Review Idol competition that Voluptasse are running? It will be featured in a national womens mag soon too :) I have a new freelance writing project which is taking up ALL of my time at the moment, hopefully I will get a bit of free time to catch up with product reviews and things. Fitting in lots of Blue snuggles, obviously! ;) He is on solid food now already - gannet can't get enough. Healthy little boy! Hope everyone here is well x
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:30:41
    - Eeeps, been a long time since I logged in here! Sorry I've been practically none existent, The Mr and myself are trying to set up a (rather geeky but viable) business type thing in the coming months that we know is just going to take up all our spare time and everything else, and after everything that went on with getting to where we are now, yeah, it's been mad and isn't going to stop any time soon.
      Kera
      12 Mar 2013 13:00:53
    - missed you! Sorry I haven't been around much either, family illness combined with a shed load of freelance copy has taken up all of my time this month. Hope your business is going well and according to plan! xx
      CaraSutra
      19 Mar 2013 15:27:44
    - Wow it has been so so long since i popped in here. Been suffering from a major bout of depression which came to a head before Christmas when I got caught lining up a suicide attempt. Getting better has been a long slow process but finally off the anti D's and feeling a lot more positive. Still working too hard and too many hours but such is the life of the self employed. Am starting to get back into reviewing, lurking a lot and reading to catch up mainly but will start writing again soon. xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      22 Mar 2013 21:18:07
    - Nice to see some familiar faces posting. What have I been up to? Went to see Rocky Horror with a group of my kinky friends, what a night! Was awesome. My usual fetish nights, the odd munch or 2. Trying to be good and stay in! Like that is going to happen much! Off on holiday on Monday, my mate and I are taking the kids away for a few days. Bloody west coast of Scotland. It will be freezing! Last year the weather was lovely at this time. Where has spring gone? @Cara I did enter the review idol comp, not heard anything though :(
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Mar 2013 12:22:33
    - Ooh Rocky Horror - fun! Yeah the Review Idol is still going on, I think Mel from Voluptasse is still sifting through the entries :)
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:26:54
    - How is everyone? @Cara Rocky Horror was awesome! It is coming back in August and think I might corrupt my 'nilla mate and take her. She has no idea what Rocky Horror is, this could be fun! I'm having a bad pain day today so mostly resting up. Think I may have to dig the heavy duty painkillers out, my usual ones aren't cutting it at all :( I need to be fit for tomorrow, got a munch to go to. I could be at one tonight but giving it a miss. The holiday was good. Was good to just get away for a few days. It allowed me to think about a lot of things, did me good! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      19 Apr 2013 16:32:31
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    Who is at ETO 2013?!
    CaraSutra
    03 May 2013 13:58:12
    - Chat here! I'm going to the day shows with my girly - we're sorting hotels etc
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2013 13:58:12
    - I've registered just in case, but it really depends on my financial situation. Hope to attend tho, I haven't been to anything like that yet and I get so jealous seeing all the live-tweets about Eroticon and various events.
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 01:54:54
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    If you could do a trolley dash at a sextoy warehouse...
    Boobaloo
    08 May 2012 19:14:52
    - ... which one would you choose and why? We have just been having this discussion over on twitter, it stated as where would you rob but a trolley dash would be legal lols I said Uberkinky or Nice 'n' Naughty, mainly because I like Nice 'n' Naughty's range and I live near to Uberkinky so wouldn't have to travel to far
      Boobaloo
      08 May 2012 19:14:52
    - I'm siding with Uberkinky at the moment - so many great items!
      Kari Rose
      08 May 2012 22:38:20
    - I think I would go with nice n naughty for the 'nilla to not nilla range!
      edn
      09 May 2012 08:20:39
    - I love Honour - sex toys, kink, shoes and shinies. Perfect!
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 16:01:44
    - we need more ideas here for a wider range lol but Uberkinky for me x
      Rebecca
      09 May 2012 19:40:17
    - lelo products ,bring on the costco shopping carts! lol
      nica
      10 May 2012 05:58:51
    - Probably anywhere that stocked the most Metal Worx and Icicles products... mmmmm ice cold glass and metal....
      Kera
      11 May 2012 19:00:48
    - EdenFantasy!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      12 May 2012 14:18:58
    - I'd have to say uberkinky too, such an extensive range of torture implements! and lots of shiny pvc gear too :shinywiggle:
      llellsee
      14 May 2012 13:34:06
    - Seeing as money is out of the equation, would anyone still trolley dash Ann Summers, or no? lol
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 14:36:26
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2214, member: 1" Might pick up a few nice bits of lingerie but for toys and Fetish gear I'd give it a miss!:bdsm:
      llellsee
      14 May 2012 14:42:44
    - I'd say Eden Fantasies. They seem to stock an extensive range. I would go straight for the luxuries!"Kera, post: 2113, member: 3" I hate metal worx products! They are cheap metal and complete knock offs.
      Rose Rouge
      14 May 2012 16:03:19
    - @llellsee I know what you mean. Also the only lingerie in there I like (ie, is comfy and fits) is the Knickerbox collection.
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 16:58:35
    - The one I have isn't that bad, certainly had me writing around quite a lot! and Cara, would trolly dash around ann summers only for the bras and corsets - considering that I'm constantly commando apart from period week:rofl:
      Kera
      14 May 2012 16:58:36
    - would have to be the sextoys warehouse, and i know one trolley would not be enough i would have to use my tetris skills to pile it in and high in that trolley lol i would grab everything! and i mean everything so there is no use in me listing it down lol
      Scott
      14 May 2012 17:19:21
    - I do prefer nJoy to MetalWorx... mmmm my Pure Wand. Also really so want the Eleven. The 'sextoys' warehouse is actually Net 1on1, sextoys is the retail website of a bigger company. 1on1 are a major adult distributor, therefore the warehouse has a bloody lot (scientific term lol) of toys, brands, ranges. They supply everyone from affiliate websites, dropshippers to stores like Ann Summers, Naughty Nights, Sexshop 365 and thousands more. :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 17:45:58
    - :jawdrop: Then i definately choose to raid the Net 1on1 warehouse, would definately need an exra large trolley now i know this lol
      Scott
      14 May 2012 18:51:14
    - Lol - I guess I shouldn't say this but... ah well here goes. Before I worked at sextoys, I went to visit and Harlot let me do my very own trolley dash through the warehouse - and I got to keep the lot ;) It's not as easy as you think, all the products are kept in ways so brands are not together, it's insanely random. But still - nice haul!
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 09:07:44
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 2295, member: 1"]Lol - I guess I shouldn't say this but... ah well here goes. Before I worked at sextoys, I went to visit and Harlot let me do my very own trolley dash through the warehouse - and I got to keep the lot ;) It's not as easy as you think, all the products are kept in ways so brands are not together, it's insanely random. But still - nice haul![/quote] :jawdrop:noooooooo seriously!? you have made me ridiculously jealous now. You Madam need punishing for such behaviour! :bdsm: lol so come on then, share with me what you got ?
      Scott
      15 May 2012 16:51:57
    - They had different stock back then but managed to grab LELO, Jimmyjane, Fleshlights, TENGA, lubes, plenty of leather implements (floggers, paddles etc), canes, double enders, dildos, vac u lock, harnesses... Oh I can't remember them all now lol
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 18:19:00
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2334, member: 1" I should not have asked, i feel even more jealous now haha :P fair shout to you though, i just wish we could all do it lol They should use this to replace the old Dale Wintston supermarket dash show! i would try to get on that program every day :)
      Scott
      15 May 2012 18:43:27
    - "Scott, post: 2261, member: 103" Oh yes, I have to agree!!:eek:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      15 May 2012 18:58:33
    - I think I might honestly have to pick Bad Dragon or Sinvention... probably the latter at this point! Mmmm, so much gear...
      t A
      15 May 2012 22:51:25
    - Maybe get all the favourite brands to exhibit in 1 place then raid them all - not that I'm greedy or ought xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      15 May 2012 23:11:04
    - ^^ best answer yet :rofl:
      Kera
      16 May 2012 15:00:09
    - Should just rob the ETO show then!
      CaraSutra
      17 May 2012 17:24:19
    - EdenFantasys have so many products to choose from, though they always seem to be out of stock of the things I want! So I would probably choose Lovehoney, but Bad Dragon or Tantus would be awesome too.
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 22:36:43
    - Heard so many bad things about EF, it's really put me off!
      CaraSutra
      08 May 2013 08:55:16
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    Congratulations Cara!
    PrincessRaggydoll
    27 Jun 2013 17:55:23
    - Can't believe you don't have a thread for this yet! Just wanted to say congratulations to you for your latest award at the ETO Awards! Congratulations! It is well deserved. xx
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Jun 2013 17:55:23
    - Ohh I saw on fb! Well done :D xx
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jun 2013 18:05:38
    - Oh, thank you! Utterly stunned. So pleased though :) xx
      CaraSutra
      29 Jun 2013 09:49:59
    - I saw that too. Congratulations! Do you know who won it last year?
      AmethystQueen
      29 Jun 2013 17:13:47
    - Not too sure, I think it was a differently titled award? There were a couple of new ones this year.
      CaraSutra
      30 Jun 2013 12:15:55
    - Wow, so you might have set a precedent. :)
      AmethystQueen
      30 Jun 2013 14:49:46
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    Emoticons - you decide!
    CaraSutra
    11 Apr 2012 20:52:29
    - Hey all :) So I have added lots of new emotes... Are there too many now? Which ones do you vote to keep and which ones to go? I can add whichever emotes you can find, or delete any, resize etc... Just let me know, I want them to be things you want to use! xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 20:52:29
    - are we able to add them? i used to have some fab ones in the days when i had msn lol. will have to try and remember my password to get to them though.
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 20:58:29
    - :yeahthat: I needed that in one of the other threads! I like all the ones there, there are enough I think, though this one Might be a good one if it can be resized properly
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 21:01:56
    - "Diamonds, post: 441, member: 7" I don't think members can add them but if you send me the .gif files I can review and add. Kera... not sure what that one represents! :)
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 21:09:39
    - poop, logged into msn and they aint there no more, wonder if its cos im on a different laptop from when i last used msn?
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 21:11:26
    - Usually PMS/PMT, or even just a rage. Lush have quite a few I could easily lift up and link to, all in that style too
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 21:11:34
    - id love one that is really laughing and one that waves and one that claps ;)
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 16:42:03
    - Can we have one that says do not feed the troll or something similar? Just in case we need it xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      12 Apr 2012 17:03:37
    - Are people happy with the list getting bigger then, not too many on there? I can add more, just wondered if it looked like too many?
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:58:32
    - i personally like having a wide choice to pick from :) only one thing id like is for the drop down menu to be wider then longer as i cant see the bottom of the list on my laptop even when i move the page down.
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 18:27:50
    - Ok great - and will try to tweak for menu to come up widthways... not sure how yet but will get Sable on it if I can't find it :D
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 18:38:51
    - also ive had another idea!!!!! *cue cara groaning and thinking not another one! i think it be nice if the boss aka you cara or the mods could give names to members, so under the profile pics where it says name and forums status i thought it be nice if we could also add something that we think sums them up or what we think of them or something. but completely individual to the person and can only be nice, not to be horrible to folks. does that make sense? :D
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 18:44:02
    - you can never have enough, i love them :dominatrix:makes the post look good and in some context i really do have a chuckle :p
      rach74
      12 Apr 2012 19:23:43
    - @Diamonds For members there is a hierarchy of names already, as you will see when you start it says n00b, then you move to chaste kisser... the more points you get from being awarded 'trophys' the faster you move up... from Chaste Kisser to... other things ;) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 19:32:03
    - how do you get trophies etc?
      rach74
      12 Apr 2012 19:39:04
    - I know I'm at cuddle bunny, makes me sound fluffier than what I actually am!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 19:39:51
    - "rach74, post: 635, member: 14" They are awarded based on a wide number of things, such as how many messages posted, how many 'likes' your messages receive, how long you've been a member - as well as randoms based on the information you give in your personal details... so make sure you fill it all out! ;) xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 19:58:34
    - "Kera, post: 636, member: 3" kissing then cuddles? Whatever next! ;)
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 19:59:02
    - usually being harnessed and made squirm :p Or on my knees... Or tied... *shuts up and disappears to write something... anything!*
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 20:06:21
    - :yeahthat: (but probably without the writing bit....)
      P. Squared
      12 Apr 2012 20:21:23
    - I think we need an angel smiley. For when we're innocent..... ;)
      P. Squared
      13 Apr 2012 16:20:29
    - [quote="P. Squared, post: 752, member: 17"]I think we need an angel smiley. For when we're innocent..... ;)[/quote] I'm the only innocent on here :p lol
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:35:45
    - P.Squared likes to think He's innocent
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 20:38:51
    - I wouldn't put him as in innocent I've read whats in his kinky armoury! Lol :D
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:45:11
    - "Diamonds, post: 777, member: 7" :oops::p
      P. Squared
      13 Apr 2012 20:54:02
    - Keep telling Him He's as innocent as what I am
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 20:58:44
    - I will be adding more emotes this week based on feedback, not sure I can get the menu to go widthways instead of length but Sable is going to try to hack it in somehow.. lol
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:09:28
    - Right! Emote builder r i!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:32:07
    - :angel::trolls::jawdrop::knob: << amongst the new ones lol - STILL trying to get a widthways not lengthways menu, sorry guys!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:44:38
    - New emoticons! For celebratory, party times... :party: :boogie::band::party2:
      CaraSutra
      30 Jun 2013 09:27:37
    - LOL! :party: Alright! Love the new smilies!
      AmethystQueen
      30 Jun 2013 20:42:32
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    Is it normal for couples in love to argue?
    CaraSutra
    11 Jun 2013 08:46:56
    - Was having this discussion last night, someone I know thinks that people in love should never argue if they properly love each other. What's your thoughts?
      CaraSutra
      11 Jun 2013 08:46:56
    - Yes, absolutely! me and mine fight like cat and dog most weeks,but we've been together for ages... its perfectly normal I think, for two passionate people to argue. After all, we're not all the same are we?
      Darby Jones
      11 Jun 2013 12:01:12
    - I feel there are different kinds of arguments. Some can be healthy and can help you grow and become stronger as a couple, by talking through the issues that are bothering you. But there are those types that are very unhealthy and destructive, where there is no communication or respect, just hurt. I'm not sure if love has anything to do with whether you argue or not, but I do think if you love someone you will make more of an effort to end the argument sooner.
      AliMc
      11 Jun 2013 15:46:09
    - "Darby Jones, post: 4644, member: 484" Definitely not! I also think it can be a sign you love someone enough to bother to argue, I would worry when it gets just silent all the time :)
      CaraSutra
      12 Jun 2013 08:30:21
    - "AliMc, post: 4646, member: 87" That's a very good point. I guess what I meant is, can people in love be expected never to argue, or to get on perfectly all the time?
      CaraSutra
      12 Jun 2013 08:30:55
    - "CaraSutra, post: 4649, member: 1" It's an interesting topic. I don't think there's any couple who would get on perfectly all the time, even if it doesn't amount to full blown arguments there are bound to be disagreements or heated debates. To have such high expectations of being in love would put a lot of unnecessary pressure on a couple and may cause them to doubt the validity of their love [S]if[/S] when an argument does occur. But there are also people who seem to view arguing as a sign of passion and think that if you don't argue it means you aren't really invested in the relationship since you aren't willing to fight for it. Personally I hate conflict and I feel lucky to be in a relationship with someone right now who prefers to discuss rather than argue too. I'm very aware that we'll have an argument someday though. I'm surprised we haven't already!
      AliMc
      12 Jun 2013 14:38:01
    - In my opinion, arguing within a loving relationship is healthy. healthier than not arguing at all (Again, my opinion) The way I see it is that if you do not argue ever, then something isn't quite right. See, two individuals coming together and sharing such a close relationship, even an enclosed space, is going to cause tension at times. It could be big disagreements about fundamental issues or just getting pushed and pushed with little niggly traits that wind you up over time. You still love each other. See passion is a two way street for me. If I have this passion inside of me for another person I feel all of the intense positive emotions that go with that, like love and lust and happiness, but on the other side of the table you have anger. Anger is passion, just at the other end of the spectrum and I do not think you can have one end of the spectrum without occasionally being thrown into the other end by something that the two of you just butt heads over. Passion/anger/arguing show that you care about something right? That you have an opinion and whatever the problem is, your lovers opinion is grating up against the thing you are passionate about. Keeping it in is not healthy at all, it causes you to build up resentment and if you carry resentment for something or someone for long enough, you eventually start to dislike them, stop caring about them. This also applies to the people who agree to everything their spouse wants for an "easy life" please think twice about this. This behaviour ends relationships because deep down you are agreeing to things you actually do not want to happen but would rather avoid arguing about, then the resentment starts, not to mention your spouse will begin to think you do not actually care. I have been here with a partner who agreed to everything to avoid conflict. Conflict is so healthy, I would go as far as to say necessary for a healthy relationship. However, there is a line between healthy conflict and hashing out compromises and just downright stomping your feet, emotionally abusing your partner, ripping them to shreds and attacking their very nature. Arguing is a skill, it should be learned by us all. We all can flip in the heat of the moment and lose control of the point of the argument. It really is a skill to try and not let that angry heat flare up into something that is counter-productive . I certainly haven't mastered it yet and neither has my partner but for the most part our arguments simmer out pretty fast because we both get our points across quite well. I am quite an impatient person with a perfectionist streak and a fiery nature. I feel sorry for my poor guy sometimes but the strange thing is, he is the kind of person to avoid conflict but after a few earfuls from me over the years he has learned to give me a right earful back and to be honest I am bloody glad of that because my ex partner would just agree with everything I said, promise things and make commitments that he would, without fail, break because he didn't mean it. It was just an excuse to end the conflict. I got wise to that after a while and I got so tired of hearing myself repeat things that I just gave up, fell out of love and here I am now with someone who will tell me to shut the f**k up and I love him for it. Even if it annoys me at the time! lol I must admit we didn't argue for the 3 years during our long distance relationship. Moving in together is was when we started making up for lost time!
      GrittyWoman
      13 Jun 2013 23:21:26
    - Amazing post and I agree. Thank you xx
      CaraSutra
      15 Jun 2013 10:37:37
    - Perfect love between two people doesn't exist in this world so even people in love will argue.
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 05:31:45
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    ***The official Twitter Thread***
    Diamonds
    10 Apr 2012 18:55:56
    - so basically if you have twitter add you name in here so we can all follow each other! :) mine is @MsDiamondsBlog :D
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 18:55:56
    - Mine is @MorbidiaMagpyr :)
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 19:04:38
    - Mine is @DiamondKera
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 19:42:42
    - @TheCaraSutra :) :twitter: Oh and I think they're great the threads! Seriously everyone please feel free to get stuck in and open whatever threads :D this is brill! :D xxx
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 19:51:28
    - Mine is @ghostgirl2001 xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 20:23:30
    - @MinxOArmy Been thinking of a change in name but I've been that since I started twitter. If I chance I will update here :)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      10 Apr 2012 21:52:02
    - The 'OArmy' thing seems so long ago now!! lol x
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 09:27:28
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 236, member: 1"]The 'OArmy' thing seems so long ago now!! lol x[/quote] It does, was very apt at the time. I was thinking of going with my rather naughty persona DynamiteMinx. I swear if anyone else has it there will be a bitch fight :dominatrix:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:39:00
    - I'm glad you tweeted it too SLM, or I'd have gotten confused
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 09:43:11
    - Done! Now @DymamiteMinx :dominatrix:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:43:15
    - "Kera, post: 243, member: 3" Thats why I did, will probably do it a few times just so people will know, hate when people change their name and dont say! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      11 Apr 2012 09:44:52
    - At least it wasn't as bad as me switching to a whole new account (from Kerantli to the DiamondKera) though.
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 10:09:33
    - @digitalharlot for mine :-)
      Harlot
      11 Apr 2012 10:23:59
    - @vivs74
      rach74
      11 Apr 2012 11:54:29
    - "sexylittleminx, post: 244, member: 8" I tweeted your name change too in case anyone missed it :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:49:18
    - I am @nudeandpubic on Twitter
      NudeAndPubic
      13 Apr 2012 15:05:50
    - I'm @thruupenny :)
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 15:33:54
    - Mines [S]@[/S]NymphomaniacNes ^_^
      NymphomaniacNess
      13 Apr 2012 15:42:36
    - Mine is @michelleevans8 :)
      llellsee
      14 Apr 2012 10:02:22
    - Oh I'm not following you ! I will look you up x
      CaraSutra
      14 Apr 2012 20:43:53
    - @wizoarmy but like Minxy, I think I'm gonna change it to DizzyWizzy if I can. O'Army is so like 3 years ago :p
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 12:17:17
    - Mine is @BredaAhern Read the bio first though ;)
      Breda
      16 Apr 2012 22:02:36
    - @Rose__Rouge
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:25:25
    - @lh_sanda atm, but this may be subject to a small change shortly (drop the lh) if I can find something available that works...
      SandA
      23 Apr 2012 12:46:51
    - As expected I did change username, now @SandAbytes Lots of reasons, but none of them really important :)
      SandA
      26 Apr 2012 14:40:10
    - @Ms_HKM Random ramblings, the odd picture and some sheep.
      Ms_HKM
      26 Apr 2012 14:48:38
    - @josephine_kk
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 17:11:32
    - @inyourdreams_2 thanks guys :) following everyone from above now ;-)
      Inyourdreams_2
      26 Apr 2012 18:20:41
    - Mine is @MidnightBlondi I think I'm following most of you, will go through the pages and check, poke/spank:dominatrix: me if Im not as having a blonde week lol!
      Midnight Boudoir
      28 Apr 2012 18:52:32
    - Hi, mine's @Elizabeth_s_b :-)
      Elizabeth_s_b
      01 May 2012 12:29:59
    - mine is @rebecca_sissy, I will find you all and add you x
      Rebecca
      01 May 2012 18:38:13
    - me me me @taffykate :twitter:
      Kate
      02 May 2012 10:32:24
    - Well it does say in our signature, but for the sake of completeness we are @CoupleOfWankers Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      02 May 2012 18:39:59
    - I'm @AliMc_LH
      AliMc
      04 May 2012 08:11:36
    - mine is boobaloo_lisa If you follow me and I don't follow you back shout at me and I will do it
      Boobaloo
      05 May 2012 13:14:31
    - @EssexRandomer here :) x
      EssexRandomer
      09 May 2012 13:21:18
    - I have been though and followed everyone that I had missing, apart from essex randomer which didn't come up when I searched, if I did miss anyone shout at me
      Boobaloo
      09 May 2012 15:23:04
    - I think I follow everyone! If I dont, apologies and let me know so I can stalk you through twitter! I mean follow!!!!!!! heh heh!:p
      Breda
      09 May 2012 15:57:24
    - I see it as stalking to, I also like to joke about having a long line of people following me everywhere that I go and how cramped it is in the room when I have twitter open (Yes I am Mental)
      Boobaloo
      09 May 2012 16:02:49
    - "Boobaloo, post: 2067, member: 80" Your gonna love my twitter feed so!!!!!!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 16:04:11
    - I am @InMyUsedPanties I show myself off a lot. :shinywiggle:
      Pantied Muse
      13 May 2012 20:03:29
    - @NymphetamineKis (yes, only the 1 "s", damned character limits!)
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:44:48
    - I'm @DelilahCaptor :3
      t A
      15 May 2012 05:23:57
    - Fabulous, lots of new people to follow, I love twitter. I'm @uksrob and have become somewhat addicted to it at times over the last 12 months or so.
      uksrob
      27 May 2012 12:46:47
    - I got new follwers today! Thanks guys:D
      Breda
      27 May 2012 21:43:49
    - "Breda, post: 2605, member: 40" Me too thank you very much. :)
      uksrob
      30 May 2012 10:21:25
    - @stallionne - thanks for having me.
      Stal Lionne
      12 Jun 2012 00:04:41
    - me too thanks @vivs74 :)
      rach74
      12 Jun 2012 11:43:16
    - Loving the Twitter, and the love! Who aren't I following? x
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 05:17:43
    - "CaraSutra, post: 3101, member: 1"Meeeeeeeeeeee. :( lol but I've got over it... lol
      uksrob
      19 Jun 2012 14:06:39
    - Apparently twitter is down :confused: What do I do now????
      Breda
      21 Jun 2012 18:06:52
    - My new twitter- @llellsee
      llellsee
      21 Jun 2012 18:56:01
    - I hate when Twitter goes down. I hated the fail whale but at least you knew when it was down... these days it just... doesn't go.
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 09:32:00
    - This is why you should use it to get to know us all.
      Breda
      06 Aug 2012 19:51:20
    - Im @dazzlydeviant
      DazzlingDeviant
      07 Aug 2012 10:03:41
    - My twitter: @subreiskyem Looking forward to following you all!
      SubReiSkyeM
      08 Aug 2012 18:56:10
    - Just followed you! ;) You may want to read the bio first lool
      Breda
      08 Aug 2012 19:08:04
    - @innocentlb ...wildly original, that.
      Innocent Loverboy
      24 Oct 2012 14:39:47
    - @02dohvia
      02dohvia
      08 Nov 2012 13:39:24
    - @FangsKitten :)
      Vanille
      19 Nov 2012 17:24:29
    - Great to have new people to follow :)
      CaraSutra
      22 Nov 2012 11:28:07
    - Are you on Twitter? Want more followers? Feel free to update here regularly with your handle. Let us all know where you're hiding! x
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:27:12
    - Are you on Twitter? Want more followers? Feel free to update here regularly with your handle. Let us all know where you're hiding! x
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:27:18
    - @josephine_kk I need a twitter clear out, can't follower anyone else just yet grrrrr
      Mrs JoJo
      07 Mar 2013 09:50:34
    - @AliMc89
      AliMc
      22 Mar 2013 21:02:38
    - Mine is @grittywoman and I am quite new to Twitter. Oh I hated it at first but accepted the inevitable and finally getting to grips with it and meeting some amazing bloggers. The community is so welcoming.
      GrittyWoman
      23 Mar 2013 16:14:43
    - @SophieM_xxx :)
      SophieM
      05 Apr 2013 20:48:15
    - I love Twitter, it's amazing. I'm there all the time! :) xxx
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:25:33
    - It really is. There are always awesome competitions running on Twitter to win sex toys and goodies, and you have access to the latest news and developments from companies/manufacturers, but most of all it's a great place to share your experiences with other reviewers and to learn from each other.
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 02:00:41
    - I love Twitter for the hookups it allows with people you would never have the opportunity to talk with. That being said, I hate that Twitter doesn't clean up profiles that obviously aren't being used, like the one with my name on it. Sigh.... Anyway, mine is the next best thing @AmythystQueen....le sigh....:violins:
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 05:41:54
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    Are you superstitious?
    CaraSutra
    30 Jun 2013 11:53:35
    - Which superstitions do you have? Will you confess to any? I don't like shoes on tables, and I just sorted pics for a review and the amount of them is 13 and I did have a brief, "oh! 13 pics!" moment. How about you?
      CaraSutra
      30 Jun 2013 11:53:35
    - Nah, not into it.
      AmethystQueen
      30 Jun 2013 20:39:41
    - Nothing really here, I'm the kind to tempt fate if anything! For example, at work, all our computers are numbered, my PC is number 13. That wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't the one that assigned the numbers! :) We also have two black cats in the house, I can't remember if that's supposed to be good or bad luck though? :shrug: I do have the magpie thing though (one for sorrow, etc) - I always worry a little bit when I see lone magpies, it annoys me because I know it's BS but I just can't help it. :(
      RedEyes
      30 Jun 2013 21:27:20
    - I think the black cat thing changes every year lol, I can never remember. I don't know if my shoes on the table thing is really superstitious, or just that I don't like to be unhygienic. Which would be bad luck, I guess! Yeah the lone magpie thing gets me too :/ silly isn't it! I have had my Tarot read in the past and that was pretty good.
      CaraSutra
      01 Jul 2013 14:40:56
    - According to google, it depends. In most parts of the world, black cats are bad, but in England they're considered good luck. Except for in Yorkshire, for some reason. In ancient Egypt, black cats were considered personifications of the goddess Bast and were considered very lucky. In Scotland, a black cat in your house was a portent (I really like that word :-) ) of prosperity and good fortune ahead. Maybe I should move to Scotland! :D So in other words, it makes no sense whatsoever. :shrug:
      RedEyes
      01 Jul 2013 21:52:16
    - By the way, love the song (you know by Stevie Wonder)...
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 05:44:05
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    Are you a Feminist?
    CaraSutra
    17 Apr 2013 11:46:48
    - I wrote a post about feminism and why I am not a feminist today. What are your thoughts?
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2013 11:46:48
    - My thoughts are that I completely and utterly agree with your post. I feel that in fighting for equal rights, feminism has lost site of its goals and is going "too far" Cara you may or may not enjoy this womans youtube channel but especially this: [media=youtube]vp8tToFv-bA[/media] Feminism and the disposable male. I do agree with a lot of her points, and yours.
      GrittyWoman
      17 Apr 2013 15:56:19
    - Watching now, very interesting indeed!! Thanks!
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2013 09:22:42
    - I do agree with a lot of her points, makes a lot of sense. I mean we don't have men generally dying for us now or protecting us with their lives but I do see her point.
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2013 12:44:47
    - There's a lot of relevant points highlighted in your article as well as in that video. Feminism has lost its way, it's message and purpose has become very blurred. I think feminism should be more concerned with respecting and supporting each others choices. It's empowering to have the freedom to be who you want to be. But it seems to me like somewhere during this 'battle' between male and female, women have turned against one another. Women who fall into traditional gender roles such as housewives seem to judged and looked down on, like they are somehow letting down those women's rights activist who fought so hard for equality. There is all this misguided sense of guilt.
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 02:52:57
    - I'm not a feminist. I would like to see women being thought better of and given more equality.
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 06:22:06
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    If you could only eat one food...
    CaraSutra
    07 Mar 2013 09:42:49
    - for say.. a week. What would it be? I can't think at the moment but it would probably be seafood of some kind. How about you?
      CaraSutra
      07 Mar 2013 09:42:49
    - Strawberries!
      SophieM
      05 Apr 2013 20:55:09
    - Ahh very refreshing! I'm all about the crisps at the moment, I blame the weather!
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2013 14:31:33
    - Coconuts!
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 06:27:26
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    repeated cumming
    nickessex
    27 Jan 2013 15:28:05
    - theoretical question how many times would i cum until i begged you to stop ?
      nickessex
      27 Jan 2013 15:28:05
    - Not sure really, I think it would depend on the person! Would be interesting to know what men think the max number of times they can orgasm in a session is - before they just can't anymore?
      CaraSutra
      29 Jan 2013 14:17:58
    - I'd like to know too, never thought at this, good question!
      Mrs JoJo
      29 Jan 2013 14:26:27
    - I don't mind being a guinea pig ;)
      nickessex
      29 Jan 2013 20:13:18
    - lol you may withdraw that offer, once we get our hands on you :p
      Mrs JoJo
      02 Feb 2013 18:34:23
    - could it really be that bad;)
      nickessex
      02 Feb 2013 20:34:02
    - It really does depend on my mood, the day and who is around. Lots of varying factors for me.
      Rose Rouge
      02 Feb 2013 20:39:02
    - I do prefer extending my authority over male submissives through chastity or tease and denial rather than enforced orgasms.
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:28:07
    - i cannot really comment as i have never tried it, but my sex life is kinda like that anyway lol
      nickessex
      06 Mar 2013 19:56:51
    - Haha may as well try to enjoy it then! x
      CaraSutra
      07 Mar 2013 09:43:03
    - Where females are concerned, a woman can have multiple orgasms. Many don't know this because their partner stops after she has one but if your partner keeps playing, many more can be enjoyed. The same is true for a woman to 'squirt' with her orgasms. Again, many have not been able to enjoy this because they stop after one. Couples need to experiment to see how many they can enjoy. One has to pay attention to their breathing as taking a deep breath before each explosive orgasm just makes the sensation that much better. So before you peak next time, take that deep breath and enjoy, hon! For male orgasm, yes, multiples are also possible. Remember...some men, as well as women, may need to experience a bit of pain before the next orgasm can happen and that's where nipple clamps can come into play...or perhaps labia clamps - tighten a little more after each one. Experiment and play....but pain does create more pleasure, my lil smut lovers! Muah!
      TonyaKinzer
      16 Jun 2013 18:01:33
    - Each male is diffrent from the other. While it is for some quite normal to go on as if nothing had ever happened, others need to wait maybe up to an hour before natural play can be resumed. To answer the question though: I think about 3-5 times should make you feel like you are coming blood and I would say that that is quite enough.
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 18:57:14
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    Hydromax review
    coltrane58
    01 Jul 2013 12:29:10
    - Don't think this belongs under sex toys, so I'm posting this here. Has anyone had experience with the Hydromax penis enlarger? Thanks
      coltrane58
      01 Jul 2013 12:29:10
    - I have reviewed the Hydromax x30 here if you're interested...
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 19:35:41
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    The awful news about John Barrowman
    CaraSutra
    06 Jul 2013 19:47:55
    - Can you believe John Barrowman got married :( He's so cute and hot, it's just a crime tbh :(
      CaraSutra
      06 Jul 2013 19:47:55
    - Ok, I have no idea who that guy is, googled him on images and still had no idea.
      Rose Rouge
      06 Jul 2013 20:13:50
    - On a plus side marriage is legal for everyone in California :)
      Rose Rouge
      06 Jul 2013 20:14:23
    - it is! I was just being tongue-in-cheek tbh, he's a cutie but yes very gay! Such sweet news about him getting wed ;)
      CaraSutra
      07 Jul 2013 18:22:41
    - John Barrowman is my guilty pleasure! I agree Cara, it's a crime! No honestly I wish them both the best of luck. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      12 Jul 2013 18:33:21
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    A sad day for Gleeks...
    Mel Macfarlane
    14 Jul 2013 15:33:28
    - Its a sad day for all Glee fans with the untimely passing of Cory Monteith. What was your favourite Glee moment?
      Mel Macfarlane
      14 Jul 2013 15:33:28
    - Aw guess we won't be able to have the Finchel happy ending. Sucks that yet another person has died before their time.
      AliMc
      14 Jul 2013 18:19:31
    - It's really sad... they said that he'd battled addictions previously. Addiction has such a powerful hold over someone. His poor family x
      Mel Macfarlane
      15 Jul 2013 12:38:01
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    One word association game
    Sable
    25 Jun 2012 20:34:33
    - Time for everyone's favourite forum game :) You know what to do - just follow up the post above with one connect word ;) Starting in honour of Cara's favourite things... Shoe.
      Sable
      25 Jun 2012 20:34:33
    - Heels!
      CaraSutra
      25 Jun 2012 20:45:01
    - High
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Jun 2012 10:29:32
    - sky
      CaraSutra
      27 Jun 2012 11:39:25
    - Sexy
      Breda
      27 Jun 2012 21:20:07
    - lady
      CaraSutra
      28 Jun 2012 07:23:00
    - love
      Sable
      28 Jun 2012 08:38:18
    - heart
      CaraSutra
      28 Jun 2012 10:33:35
    - beat
      rach74
      28 Jun 2012 19:21:28
    - Fast
      Breda
      28 Jun 2012 20:46:41
    - hard
      CaraSutra
      29 Jun 2012 15:37:06
    - Rock
      02dohvia
      06 Nov 2012 15:08:21
    - Cake!
      CaraSutra
      06 Nov 2012 16:27:53
    - Cream!
      Chili
      09 Nov 2012 21:14:32
    - buns
      CaraSutra
      14 Nov 2012 10:45:13
    - mouth
      Breda
      18 Nov 2012 21:44:08
    - lips
      CaraSutra
      22 Nov 2012 16:25:31
    - Tongue
      Breda
      22 Nov 2012 16:54:58
    - Sandwich
      CaraSutra
      28 Nov 2012 07:51:29
    - meat
      Breda
      30 Nov 2012 13:22:09
    - Roast
      CaraSutra
      01 Dec 2012 06:57:17
    - Sprouts!
      Breda
      01 Dec 2012 11:46:11
    - Yuck!
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:56:29
    - gross
      CaraSutra
      08 Dec 2012 10:47:44
    - yum
      Breda
      08 Dec 2012 13:32:22
    - Tasty
      02dohvia
      08 Dec 2012 14:20:18
    - Fluff
      Breda
      08 Dec 2012 14:49:18
    - Tart
      CaraSutra
      05 Jan 2013 10:33:13
    - Back
      Breda
      10 Jan 2013 20:17:44
    - Bed
      CaraSutra
      11 Jan 2013 13:18:29
    - floor
      Breda
      11 Jan 2013 17:14:22
    - rug
      CaraSutra
      16 Jan 2013 17:32:04
    - Rat
      AliMc
      23 Mar 2013 05:39:25
    - Pet
      SophieM
      05 Apr 2013 20:34:46
    - Friend
      Sangsara
      15 Apr 2013 11:48:09
    - Hugs
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:18:42
    - lover
      nickessex
      02 May 2013 20:11:23
    - Partner
      AliMc
      02 May 2013 21:03:09
    - dancing
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2013 13:57:36
    - Lap
      AliMc
      03 May 2013 14:55:38
    - Sitting
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 06:26:05
    - Naked
      nickessex
      02 Jul 2013 11:28:56
    - Bare
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 Jul 2013 14:01:17
    - Back
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 15:47:13
    - Laid
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 18:15:11
    - Thrust
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 18:48:06
    - Power
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 20:37:02
    - Foward
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 23:44:34
    - Charge
      CaraSutra
      03 Jul 2013 19:05:33
    - credit
      RedEyes
      03 Jul 2013 22:54:52
    - Card
      AmethystQueen
      04 Jul 2013 03:20:56
    - Greetings
      CaraSutra
      20 Jul 2013 18:56:35
    - Salutations
      AmethystQueen
      22 Jul 2013 00:08:17
    - Farewell
      Mel Macfarlane
      22 Jul 2013 09:08:08
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    Do you trust your partner enough to...
    CaraSutra
    18 Apr 2013 09:21:55
    - that you'd take a tablet they gave you, without needing to know what it was or what's in it? This interesting question popped into my head, when I received some tablets to "test and review" that were for my male partner. I did let him know what they were - but I wondered from a relationship and psychology pov if you'd trust any partner enough to just take a tablet you were given?
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2013 09:21:55
    - No. I have been dating my partner for just over 2 years, but I don't feel like I really know him enough for that. There's still a lot for us to learn about each other. That's not to say I think he would wish me harm, just that the expected outcome of this tablet might not be something I'd want but my partner thinks otherwise.
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 02:21:32
    - I trust that he loves me and wouldn't want to hurt me in any way, so yeah. I'd take a pill from him without needing to know what's in it first.
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 06:06:54
    - Kind of. This actually happened yesterday - my OH offered me an anonymous white pill. I asked what it was (naturally), she told me it's a new antihistamine tablet so I took her at her word and just swallowed it. I'm still here so I guess she was telling the truth! Didn't do a damn thing for the hay fever though :(
      RedEyes
      02 Jul 2013 08:32:12
    - I like the way this question does make you think though! Nice to hear people do trust their partners enough but then on the other hand it's only natural to want to (and ofc you have the right to) know. x
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 18:19:15
    - I'd trust him not to give me anything dangerous but I wouldn't rule out a prank! I know my husband to well lol
      Mel Macfarlane
      22 Jul 2013 09:10:20
    - Depends on the situation. I have tricky medical issues that weigh heavily into my answer. If I was unconscious in a hospital I would trust that person to make medical decisions on my behalf. That includes refusing a bunch of stuff doctors would want to give to me that the docs would think is good but my medical history actually shows is dangerous for me and can actually make whatever problem much, much worse. When I'm capable it's another matter entirely. No one knows my intricate health problems the way I do, and anyone who comes anywhere close to being my partner soon recognizes that and defers to my knowledge on the matter. With my physiology, accepting a mystery pill would be downright stupid of me and any partner who suggested I do so would be flatly refused and have their sanity questioned. On the other hand I would be comfortable with being dosed in a scene, for example, even if I didn't know what it was, because I would know and trust that it was only substances that the both of us know are safe for my body.
      SecretlySensuous
      22 Jul 2013 12:26:12
    - Me personally no too much mis trust from previous relationship. I know partner would feel the same too xx
      FesureMaybe
      22 Jul 2013 20:55:30
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    Kinky 3D Art
    FesureMaybe
    22 Jul 2013 19:57:15
    - Worth a look very good 3D. Some of them very kinky and amusing!!! http://uk.news.yahoo.com/lightbox/art-with-an-extra-dimension-3d-paintings-wow-chinese-crowds-slideshow/getting-involved-the-3d-paintings-allow-for-great-ineractive-snaps-rex-photo-1374497921113.html
      FesureMaybe
      22 Jul 2013 19:57:15
    - I love these! very funny!
      Mel Macfarlane
      23 Jul 2013 08:50:51
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    ***The Official Blogs Thread***
    Diamonds
    10 Apr 2012 18:58:26
    - so just like the twitter thread, this is for all of us to tell everyone the names of our blogs so we can all go for a nose and follow each other :D mine is Ms Diamonds Naughty Treasure Chest which you can see here.
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 18:58:26
    - Mine is Kiss of The Vampire which is here
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 19:04:00
    - Mine is here - Filthy Little Dreamer
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 19:44:04
    - Great idea Diamonds, thanks! :D SO um mine, well hmmm now where could that be ... ;) :confused: lols xxx I really need to update more... need more time please!
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 19:50:38
    - mine is still kind of new live love learn and laugh xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 20:24:45
    - Mine is.... somewhere around here... http://lifewithoutamask.blogspot.co.uk/ Not much there though!
      P. Squared
      10 Apr 2012 20:30:33
    - Mine is www.thrupenny.co.uk and is in serious need of new updates - ooops!
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 10:50:32
    - Do I really need to type out my full link? Just click the big banner below *pokes*
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 22:13:39
    - It doesn't count unless you type it out :p
      edn
      11 Apr 2012 22:15:36
    - Mine has actually been updated just today.. links up there *gestures upwards*
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 22:19:31
    - Lazy puppy is lazy, but fineeeeee o_O [U][U]Kari Rose: "That girl with the blog"[/U][/U] :cool: Yeahhhh!
      Kari Rose
      11 Apr 2012 22:21:46
    - Lol Kari. I actually wrote a lil something for Wanton Weds yesterday, go me!!
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 07:21:59
    - Mines here: http://nymphomaniacness.blogspot.co.uk/
      NymphomaniacNess
      13 Apr 2012 15:45:47
    - Here's mine: http://sandablogs.wordpress.com It's very new and I'm not entirely sure what direction its going to take yet. I'm happy to receive any honest feedback or advice, I'm not looking for anyone to blow smoke up my backside (well... not until I know you better ;)). I'm a grown man, I can take criticism (honest :cool:).
      SandA
      23 Apr 2012 12:56:02
    - Here's mine www.naughtycornerreviews.blogspot.com
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 17:10:50
    - I'm not very good with stuff like blogs and stuff and it's probably a little messy and needing lots of work on it but I will work it all out....eventually! http://mayhemsandmishapsofaminx.blogspot.co.uk/?zx=67df3b484c63cd23
      PrincessRaggydoll
      27 Apr 2012 09:25:43
    - Mine is http://www.llellsee.com/
      llellsee
      28 Apr 2012 15:16:58
    - Mine is a photographic based review site!; Midnight Boudoir reviewing some of the latest techie and unusual toys, lingerie and books with a little bit of me added for good measure. Everybody welcome; please feel free to stop over and say hi or leave a comment, would love to hear from you all!
      Midnight Boudoir
      28 Apr 2012 18:42:15
    - Mine are in my signature, feeling kinda lazy today, please check them out and feel free to leave comments
      Boobaloo
      05 May 2012 13:19:23
    - Mine is in my sig too, but it's NymphetamineKiss. :)
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:44:12
    - Here's mine; Absolute Debauchery. I review toys/etc on there as well as post stuff about my bdsm moments/sessions/whatever. :3
      t A
      15 May 2012 03:23:52
    - In case you hadn't stumbled by my little blog, you sneak in via this wee little link here: Kinky Testers
      ChrisKinnk
      15 May 2012 20:58:24
    - I don't blog very often but my blog is [U]http://sub-rob.livejournal.com[/U]
      uksrob
      27 May 2012 12:45:05
    - Thanks for all your links everyone, I will have to update my RSS feed with them! :)
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 05:17:04
    - My blogs: Thoughts of a Growing Sub http://subrei.wordpress.com http://subreiskyem.blogspot.co.uk Sex toy reviews, Quotes, Freebies, Comparisons (WordPress vs Blogspot, for example) and more! Soon I might add my Essays on BDSM/submission that I've written for Daddy :)
      SubReiSkyeM
      08 Aug 2012 19:46:43
    - Innocent Loverboy ...again, originality abound with that title.
      Innocent Loverboy
      24 Oct 2012 14:40:43
    - Mine is http://02dohvia.blogspot.co.uk/ I set it up two days ago so bare with the lack of blogs etc xx
      02dohvia
      08 Nov 2012 14:12:03
    - I have two! Blogger and Tumblr. I'm more active on Tumblr than I am on Blogger though. :) BDSM/D/s related from a lesbian couple that engages in Ageplay and Kittenplay. Educational links, and just photographic inspiration. Enjoy~
      Vanille
      19 Nov 2012 17:23:02
    - I feed my blog to my tumblr automagically so I don't have to worry about posting to two places :) YAY for kitten play! x
      CaraSutra
      22 Nov 2012 16:09:45
    - Mine is a sex toy review site - http://www.purplepassions.net/
      Rose Rouge
      20 Dec 2012 12:45:55
    - Silverdrop's Toybox - http://silverdropstoybox.blogspot.com We have daily content - pictures, articles, fiction, and toy reviews. A bit of everything!
      Silverdrop
      14 Feb 2013 18:49:25
    - Go on, have a look, you just know you want to..... www.mistressredvelvet.com ;) xXx
      Mistress_Velvet
      18 Feb 2013 21:46:39
    - Oh hi and welcome Mistress Velvet! x
      CaraSutra
      19 Feb 2013 10:38:34
    - "CaraSutra, post: 3100, member: 1" Hi right back at you! xXx
      Mistress_Velvet
      19 Feb 2013 17:25:16
    - Always on the look out for new, interesting and exciting blogs, as well as Tumblrs - so feel free to add your link here everyone! x
      CaraSutra
      06 Mar 2013 17:26:49
    - My Sex Toy Addiction
      AliMc
      23 Mar 2013 05:59:33
    - Mine is grittywoman.co.uk and my site is mainly focused around reviewing sex toys, which I have been doing for about a year or so but I am new to blogging (Just been at this one month now) So feedback is appreciated and welcome from you veterans!
      GrittyWoman
      23 Mar 2013 16:19:17
    - My blog is Mon Chéri Amour, it's still fairly new but is mainly sex toy reviews. I have a Tumblr as well, but that's only reblog's of images and the likes. x[SIZE=3][/SIZE]
      SophieM
      05 Apr 2013 20:53:48
    - Just finally getting it together after scrapping the perfect website idea. I've gone back to blogspot for now. It's www.sexualitysanctuary.blogspot.com and it will improve every week really!
      Sangsara
      15 Apr 2013 11:52:27
    - Loving all these new blogs. I must add them all to my google reader. Where do you all get your ideas for new blog posts? Your own thoughts, things you read or other? Just curious really! xx
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:19:23
    - I'm over at http://secretlysensuous.com/. Still tweaking the site, and relatively new to sex blogging in general so I'm just feeling my way around at this point. I have a Tumblr too, and I'd like to do more with it than merely feed blog posts but with the changes to Tumbr of removing adult blogs from searches I'm not sure how easy that will be. In answer to your question, Cara, my ideas for posts are just stuff I want to talk about!
      SecretlySensuous
      22 Jul 2013 15:08:46
    - Voluptasse.Blogspot.co.uk or for something more family orientated Buckmacfarlane.wordpress.com
      Mel Macfarlane
      23 Jul 2013 08:57:34
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    If you could have any bed...
    CaraSutra
    05 Feb 2013 15:08:05
    - which one would it be? After chatting with Mrs JoJo about beds on Facebook, I thought it would be a great thread. Would you choose one with posts, a metal head or fabric, leather or other material? Four poster or standard? Double, Queen or King?
      CaraSutra
      05 Feb 2013 15:08:05
    - I'm really after a king size (faux) leather headed bed... I'd love a TV luxury one such as this!
      CaraSutra
      05 Feb 2013 15:11:49
    - I'd love this Ottori brown leather king; http://www.habitat.co.uk/pws/client/images/catalogue/products/23437/zoom/23437.jpg
      Mrs JoJo
      05 Feb 2013 15:38:54
    - I have a double bed with a metal frame. I like that it's a frame as I can use the posts for bondage but it squeaks like crazy. Big problem when you live with people. However, my dream bed would be a super king in dark wood. Certainly enough room for three... ;)
      Rose Rouge
      05 Feb 2013 15:47:26
    - I can't find the bed online but my parents have a big plain oak bed, strong and cost them around £700, if I could have a bed like that, i'd be happy. If not, then my original post on the leather one lol
      Mrs JoJo
      05 Feb 2013 16:03:36
    - The bed on my site header image is ours. Nice big king size, made from reclaimed oak wood. We picked it up from one of the furniture shops in Camden market about 10 years ago. Dont remember exact price, somewhere around £500. It's super solid and weighs a tonne. It is however lacking places to attach bondage gear, and I've always been loathed to screw in eye hooks. So I have some eye hooks in the wall either side and in the ceiling. Don't like them tv's in the end of beds, or in bedroom at all actually. Goes at odds with what I want to use the bedroom for... :)
      ChrisKinnk
      24 Feb 2013 21:20:41
    - Some of us need something to drown out the grownup noises from little ears ;)
      CaraSutra
      04 Mar 2013 16:40:23
    - I want a bed big enough for my partner and I to really stretch out in, with a solid wooden headboard, maybe with an intricate pattern carved into it. But most importantly, I want a comfortable mattress. A beautiful bed is useless if you can't sleep easy on it.
      AliMc
      23 Mar 2013 05:43:33
    - I have a large black king size ottoman bed. It's faux suede and feels really solid and luxurious, I can't help it but I just love running my hands over the headboard. Just did a quick search for it and found it in brown - if the image can be seen properly. I wouldn't change it for anything, and my memory foam mattress just makes it so heavenly!
      SophieM
      05 Apr 2013 20:46:31
    - Wow that does look gorgeous x
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:26:22
    - Royal purple of course...:p
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 06:19:07
    - Oh wow, magical! So I am meant to get the black leather bed of my dreams next week! Was on offer. Ok, not real leather but leather look. Good enough for me! I'd take any bed right now though, shattered lol
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 18:26:22
    - I'd like a four poster, like a Princess (idea's of grandeur...)
      Mel Macfarlane
      18 Jul 2013 09:44:59
    - I've been in awe of the Orbit bed ever since I laid eyes on it. Most beds that have canopies aren't strong enough for climbing all over, which I'd be doing even outside of sexual activity. :P So I like how this one is built for that. I'm also really curious about how the whole rocking motion actually pans out, if it adds to the experience or is just a gimmicky thing.
      SecretlySensuous
      24 Jul 2013 20:20:02
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    Royal Blue
    Mel Macfarlane
    23 Jul 2013 08:55:43
    - So... We have a Royal Baby. Whether you like it or not an important piece of History took place yesterday and the next question on everyone's lips is the name of our Future King? I'm guessing James. What do you think?
      Mel Macfarlane
      23 Jul 2013 08:55:43
    - When I heard it was a boy I thought maybe Richard or James but will the young Royals go with tradition or surprise everyone with something really different.
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Jul 2013 10:12:13
    - I am thinking James too, its still quite modern as well and it's been a while since there has been a James born into the Royal Family.
      Mel Macfarlane
      24 Jul 2013 10:17:47
    - Well ....its George Alexander Louis for anyone who doesnt know...If you live under a rock anyway!
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jul 2013 13:29:14
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    Nigella Lawson - Should the paps have intervened?
    CaraSutra
    16 Jun 2013 08:52:45
    - http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/nigella-lawson-attacked-husband-see-1955564 Nigella was sighted in a restaurant, heard during arguments with her husband and there's pics of him with his hands round her neck. Should the photographers have intervened? What's your take on the whole situation? I feel really sorry for her. We don't know everything that's gone on of course, but even if the strangulation was some kind of consensual fetish it doesn't really match up to the arguments heard.
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2013 08:52:45
    - I know from personal experience had there been outside interference then Nigella would have suffered more, sad but true. No one should have to suffer from domestic abuse but the sad fact is it goes on much more than we like to think. Often when you are in a situation like that then things seem very clouded, I hope that with this in the news then Nigella will see it for what it is and get herself out of it. It never just happens once :(
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Jun 2013 21:13:10
    - It's really scary to see her husband do that in public. Ususally that means it's done in private a lot and he just forgot where he was because he was so mad at her and she made him do it (which is what all abusers say). I wish there would be outrage against the husband. That's always missing in my opinion. Everyone talks about the woman getting out, but hardly no bad talk against the one doing the crime. It's his fault, not hers. He has a control problem and needs to get help.
      AmethystQueen
      29 Jun 2013 17:28:15
    - Thats disgusting. Nothing worse then domestic abuse and mental abuse trust me ive been there. :( I feel sorry for her and why the hell did the photographers do anything it isnt a bloody show!!
      FesureMaybe
      21 Jul 2013 19:38:16
    - I think that someone should have intervened, it's very sad that their need for a great shot took precedence over something which was clearly very distressing for Nigella as she dashed off in tears. I very much doubt it was consensual. I also find it laughable that her husband is divorcing HER over this incident. Control freak springs to mind...
      Mel Macfarlane
      22 Jul 2013 08:51:40
    - Depends on what kind of intervention, I think. My personal take is that the absolute minimum intervention should be "Excuse me, is everything okay here?" It's not much, but it at least communicates that 1) What's going in is concerning to the outside observer and 2) Someone cares enough to speak up and see if they can provide a way out. I realize it doesn't do much to help abusive situations, but at least it's something. Better than silence, better than nothing.
      SecretlySensuous
      27 Jul 2013 20:30:32
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    TV Series you love/hate!
    CaraSutra
    16 Apr 2012 12:29:11
    - I absolutely love The Voice! Which is weird, as I'm not really a fan of Britain's got Talent or the X Factor etc. Love Jessie J and Tom Jones (awwww) What are you into right now? Any you really hate?
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 12:29:11
    - Not overly keen on many UK shows at the mo, but been enjoying watching the Undateables on channel 4, makes me smile immensely :) And been loving US shows like True Blood, Walking Dead and American Horror Story :-D
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:44:56
    - im really disliking reality tv and really loving true blood and the walking dead ,i also like the unusuals which stared Amber Tamblyn ,Jeremy Renner (the guy from hurt locker) and [URL='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adam_Goldberg']Adam Goldberg, he was in a bunch of movies [/URL]
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 19:29:49
    - @Nica if you like true blood and walking dead, give American Horror Story, its really great :)
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 20:32:49
    - @ morbidia will do thanks for the recommendation
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 20:48:52
    - I have to admit one thing, I have an extremely short attention span, so can't watch much without getting bored/doing other things. But the one thing I do watch is Glee, and even then it's only half watching, half texting/online. I really mainly watch mindless drivel, which includes britains got talent/xfactor, and the odd childrens shows (spongebob squarepants, victorious, iCarly) if they're on when I'm flicking through..
      Kera
      16 Apr 2012 20:55:05
    - i like sons of anarchy too
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 23:58:44
    - I quite enjoyed The Almighty Johnsons and Mythbusters is a serious guilty pleasure!
      edn
      17 Apr 2012 20:16:23
    - Blue Bloods and Game of Thrones I have on series link along with Desperate Housewives! I've seen a couple of episodes of Mad Men but keep bloody missing it, I liked the few episodes I saw.
      Breda
      17 Apr 2012 22:12:05
    - Reminds me I am addicted to Legend of the Seeker - well I was til they cancelled the series! Grrrr! It's got the person I was named for in it!! I heard Game of Thrones is meant to be good but not managed to catch it yet...
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 13:23:48
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1073, member: 1"]Reminds me I am addicted to Legend of the Seeker - well I was til they cancelled the series! Grrrr! It's got the person I was named for in it!! I heard Game of Thrones is meant to be good but not managed to catch it yet...[/quote] It's on Sky Atlantic at nine on Monday's! At the moment it's episode 3 of season 2, there is surely a place on this internet thing that you can catch up with season one! There's nice nakedness on it too! ;)
      Breda
      18 Apr 2012 20:58:09
    - ok this is gonna be a looooooooooooooong list lol. games of thrones homeland spooks downton abbey upstairs downstairs larkrise to candleford i also tend to have only fools and horses on in the back ground when im on my todd, i find it a comforting program to have on as it reminds me of my childhood watching it with mum and dad and laughing so hard i couldnt breath! :)
      Diamonds
      19 Apr 2012 08:22:44
    - Aw Larkrise to Candleford! Love that! Those period dramas are so lovely, I have the Cranford series on DVD :)
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 12:51:58
    - I love Bones and Castle.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:27:07
    - "CaraSutra, post: 1115, member: 1" oh cranford is on my amazon wishlist! ive never seen it, but i love period dramas esp the light hearted ones, there perfect for wintery afternoon/evenings and escapism.
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 18:26:05
    - Current 'go to' favourites are Big Bang Theory (cos I'm really a geek at heart) and Dexter (cos I'm really a serial kille... oh wait, hang on, I'm not supposed to admit that am I?)
      SandA
      23 Apr 2012 13:15:53
    - Game of Thrones is my big addiction right now, along with Supernatural, Grimm, Big Bang Theory and Dexter when I get the chance. I watch downloaded TV shows instead of sleeping. :)
      Ethereal
      25 Apr 2012 21:37:26
    - Oh, and Fringe too, that got really interesting this week (just hope they don't muck it up like they did with Lost!)
      SandA
      29 Apr 2012 14:36:20
    - Like a few people have mentioned, I'm a big fan of the US shows too... Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, American Horror Story, Once Upon A Time, Dexter, Awake.
      AliMc
      07 May 2012 02:01:12
    - "Morbidia, post: 1012, member: 11" American Horror Story is amazing, also loving Alcatraz at the moment
      Rebecca
      07 May 2012 08:23:29
    - "SandA, post: 1561, member: 51" Too bloddy right
      Rebecca
      07 May 2012 08:25:14
    - On a retro note I've just discovered that 4od has all the episodes of faking it stashed away and yes I did squee with excitement! I loved that show but always wondered how the hell they picked the people for it!
      edn
      07 May 2012 09:19:12
    - I hate all soaps, i dont like x factor or britains got talent, plus they shouldn't even call it britains got talent because there's so many people from other countrys that go on there.. not saying there bad or anything like that but really annoys me that they call it that but take on anyone :/ I love big bang theory and i am starting to watch only fools and horses again recently.
      Scott
      14 May 2012 17:25:36
    - I didn't watch BGT but didn't some dog win it or something? Where do they see that particular act going? :/
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 17:44:02
    - For those into True Blood etc, give Lost Girl a try. About a bisexual succubus :D
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 17:44:18
    - "NymphetamineKiss, post: 2247, member: 104" And cheesy as hell! But I do like Kenzi :D
      edn
      14 May 2012 20:16:08
    - We don't really notice the cheese factor... lol. I have a Bo/Dyson crush. A little bit on Lauren too, but she reminds me too much of a girl I almost got involved with earlier this year... lol.
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 22:42:16
    - when and wheere is Lost Girl on?
      Rebecca
      17 May 2012 05:33:29
    - Im loving Once Upon A time (I watched at USA pace and omg)
      BrummieGal
      18 May 2012 18:18:59
    - Watched Secret Eaters the other day that was quite good. I like those weird eating programmes, like Super Size vs Superskinny - makes me feel better about tucking into the mountain in front of me at the time hahaha
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 07:20:15
    - "Rebecca, post: 2392, member: 49" Thursday at 9.00 on syfy (or however they are spelling it this week) I believe.
      edn
      20 May 2012 18:02:42
    - I LOVE Game of Thrones, best show I've ever seen! And now I'm watching Spartacus and it's pretty cool too!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      13 Jun 2012 19:28:30
    - I know some guys who are extra's on The Game of Thrones! That's my claim to fame! Desperate Housewives is finished. I'm a bit sad about it. What will I watch now!? I think I'll re watch the Sopranos! Love anything mafia related! Was watching it last night on Sky Atlantic and Tony Soprano is my ideal man!
      Breda
      14 Jun 2012 07:50:58
    - The Vampire Diaries is great, too (ahhh, vampires!). I can't stand the books, but the tv show is pretty awesome!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      14 Jun 2012 14:33:08
    - Anyone bothering with this series of Big Brother? I notice it's started up again from the Twitter chat. I am not a fan personally!
      CaraSutra
      15 Jun 2012 08:06:23
    - I watched one episode last night and my God it was awful. Wont be watching ever again.
      Breda
      15 Jun 2012 21:26:38
    - Yeah as much as I thought really. I don't know why they keep bothering, give it up already!!
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 13:50:30
    - I'm happy to be able to state I've never watched a big brother - even the concept gives me the creeps!
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 09:45:54
    - You should apply or it Edn and then show your bum to the world!:dominatrix::devil:
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:46:05
    - Unfortunately that picture was take pre M.E. and gym banning. It's not in quite such fine fettle these days :(
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 16:28:44
    - Well then go on and raise awareness for M.E and also I bet your bum is still lovely! :p [LEFT][SIZE=16px][COLOR=inherit]! [/COLOR][/SIZE][/LEFT]
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 21:45:59
    - I'm quite into anime right now but I'm still very much into my US shows. Cannot wait for Arrested Development to return at the end of the month.
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 22:34:07
    - I have started watching My Big Fat Mad Diary (or whatever it's called) on 4OD and it's really funny and good :)
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2013 13:58:46
    - Wow. Am I the only Whovian in here? I'm a Big Brother watcher as well as some other American shows like: Suits So You Think You Can Dance The Following Necessary Roughness Franklin & Bash (my man likes it) WWE (again, the man) UFC (man, I LOVE Anderson "The Spider" Silva!) Master Chef Keeping Up with the Kardashians 19 Kids and Counting Falling Skies Revolution Hawaii Five-O Fashion Star Person of Interest...and many more. I used to like but now HATE the Unit (another show my man likes) and I hated Lost or any other series that draws out suspense to ridiculous proportions like Burn Notice.
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 06:03:24
    - I love Mad Men, Love it!!
      Mel Macfarlane
      29 Jul 2013 07:27:18
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    It's a special day
    AliMc
    26 Jul 2013 01:21:41
    - [FONT=arial black]Happy Birthday Cara! [/FONT]
      
      :party:
      
      AliMc
      26 Jul 2013 01:21:41
    - WOOOHOOOO! Happy birthday, hope it's a good one! :)
      SecretlySensuous
      26 Jul 2013 05:00:28
    - Happpppy birthday :D x
      FesureMaybe
      26 Jul 2013 12:11:16
    - Hope you had a good un xx
      Mel Macfarlane
      31 Jul 2013 12:43:34
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    It's National Orgasm Day!
    Mel Macfarlane
    31 Jul 2013 12:45:53
    - :party2: It's National Orgasm Day and a day to celebrate one of my favourite pastimes. How will you be celebrating?
      Mel Macfarlane
      31 Jul 2013 12:45:53
    - Ehhh, too tired. I might celebrate this one a bit late. :P
      SecretlySensuous
      31 Jul 2013 23:19:04
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    Feeling the dreaded feeling of being a doormat le sigh :/
    FesureMaybe
    07 Aug 2013 19:17:57
    - More of a ranty post!. Atm I feel like a complete door mat. My other half doesnt help me around house really anymore, he doesnt spend alot of time and treats me like sh*t!!!. My sister uses me for certain things and has hurt me on others My brother uses me like a hotel without asking... Getting very very fed up and im a mum to a nearly 2 year old. Currently suffering with bad fatigue, headaches, joint pains which I need to go to the doctors for! Im finding im so stressed I cant do as much with my little boy x So stressed I woke up with two grey hairs and im only 20!! :( Le sigh!
      FesureMaybe
      07 Aug 2013 19:17:57
    - *hugs* So, what are the options to improve things?
      SecretlySensuous
      09 Aug 2013 08:20:49
    - Well my other half seems to have improved in the mean time. the others things not so much. im just a tad ranty atm alot going on! Please bare with me :)
      FesureMaybe
      10 Aug 2013 18:51:04
    - I hope you feel better soon, you aren't alone if that helps any xx
      Mel Macfarlane
      12 Aug 2013 08:58:32
    - Thank you xx Feeling alot happier today as its my birthday tomorrow :D
      FesureMaybe
      12 Aug 2013 18:24:33
    - "FesureMaybe, post: 5096, member: 496" A big happy birthday to you! Hope things keep getting better. :)
      SecretlySensuous
      13 Aug 2013 07:38:58
    - Thankkk you im drunk right now taking alot for proper spelling":SD
      FesureMaybe
      13 Aug 2013 20:49:23
    - Huge hugs for you - and I hope your birthday was amazing! xxx
      CaraSutra
      15 Aug 2013 17:24:57
    - Thank you it was :D xx
      FesureMaybe
      15 Aug 2013 17:35:46
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    Edit problems
    SecretlySensuous
    10 Sep 2013 18:40:49
    - Sorry I couldn't find a more appropriate place to post this...directly after writing a post, I can click to edit it but the box pops up blank for me. I tried refreshing a few times and it still isn't working. Is anyone else experiencing the same problem?
      SecretlySensuous
      10 Sep 2013 18:40:49
    - Hmm, it is working for me! I will take a look into this for you x
      CaraSutra
      10 Sep 2013 19:41:30
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    Can you be friends with an ex?
    Mel Macfarlane
    19 Aug 2013 13:21:29
    - Interesting debate - Can you still remain friends after the relationship has ended? Has this worked for you?
      Mel Macfarlane
      19 Aug 2013 13:21:29
    - "Mel Macfarlane, post: 5128, member: 502" In a case unlike any ordinary case it has worked for me. When both people are authentic and acting selflessly with a sense of compersion towards the other I feel it tends to work great, but when people are acting from a place of insecurity, jealousy, control and/or selfishness it can be a constant internal battle which can cause projection of feelings onto the "friendship" which defeats the purpose of friends.
      Clarissa
      20 Aug 2013 04:42:04
    - I haven't remained friends with any of my exes.
      AliMc
      22 Aug 2013 02:40:43
    - I have stayed friends with a few of my exes but often find that it causes jealousy with new partners on both sides or can lead to one ex believing that your friendliness is an attempt at rekindling the relationship. I think that it depends on the reason for the split and the type of people that you are?
      Mel Macfarlane
      22 Aug 2013 14:18:48
    - Hahahahaha Ive tried!!! But unfortunately as I have a son with my ex and he refuses to see him it makes me reluctant to be his buddy!!! ;)
      FesureMaybe
      30 Aug 2013 18:39:53
    - No
      suzie
      02 Sep 2013 23:35:13
    - Depends on how it ends I think. If it ends badly, for example when my ex cheated on me, it feels impossible to remain friends. When trust is violated I don't think it's possible. If it ends on good terms, if you just aren't in love anymore or circumstances change, I think you can. I have remained friends with some of my exes but not with others.
      kanadiankat
      12 Sep 2013 19:46:04
    - My last ex, we were friends for a while after we split but I just couldn't move on so I cut all ties, deleted him and anyone associated with him from FB, I found it easier to move on then. Not sure how I'd feel if I bumped into him now....
      PrincessRaggydoll
      13 Sep 2013 20:19:39
    - Maybe you can
      suzie
      14 Sep 2013 21:19:36
    - I'm not friends with any of mine, some people are but it hasn't worked out for me lol
      CaraSutra
      25 Sep 2013 10:08:58
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    Your favourite song right now!
    CaraSutra
    13 Apr 2012 08:14:23
    - Yesterday for sexylittleminx and I it was the Raggy Dolls! What's your favourite song of right now? Feel free to link to vids/YouTube etc :)
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 08:14:23
    - I'm sad and has to be Glee's version of Somebody I Used to Know. Though before that it was Shpongle - Once Upon The Sea Of Blissful Awareness *still not forgiven Master for Shpongle*
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 08:29:13
    - My usual Friday anthem is Raise your Glass - Pink Not that I'll be drinking for a while! x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 12:52:15
    - :eek: How can you not forgive me for Shpongle? This evenings drive home from work was brought to you by A Skillz & Krafty Kuts - Happiness playedfar too loud!
      P. Squared
      13 Apr 2012 16:11:53
    - You know exactly why I've not forgiven you
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 16:18:20
    - Hmmmm at the moment Pepper by the Butthole Surfers or Simon Says by Pharoahe Monch. I'm not usually keen on hippity rap but I do like that one!
      edn
      13 Apr 2012 16:22:29
    - Could you do me a quick favour and imagine there's a little "angel looking all sweet and innocent" smiley here? :p
      P. Squared
      13 Apr 2012 16:22:37
    - Innocent my :shinywiggle:
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 16:23:25
    - Somebody that I used to know - featuring someone called kimbra Everyone knows when I love a song as I play it on a loop for bout 30 mins haha :p
      Diamonds
      13 Apr 2012 20:34:26
    - Fuck You - Cee Lo Green reminds me of a good night of partying! x
      CaraSutra
      14 Apr 2012 20:44:59
    - Train - Drive By. Defo my song of the week! :D
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 17:26:55
    - Kiss You Off - Scissor Sisters!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:27:48
    - tiny spark -brendan benson [media=youtube]hniX0LLSVak[/media]
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 11:34:55
    - Super Vixen - Garbage - reminds me of someone :-)
      Harlot
      16 Apr 2012 11:44:10
    - [quote="P. Squared, post: 754, member: 17"]Could you do me a quick favour and imagine there's a little "angel looking all sweet and innocent" smiley here? :p[/quote] like this one? >> :angel: :D
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 14:42:03
    - When World's Collide - Powerman 5000 It just gets stuck in my head and reminds me of nights out :-D
      Morbidia
      16 Apr 2012 17:38:17
    - "CaraSutra, post: 989, member: 1" Perfect!:angel:
      P. Squared
      16 Apr 2012 17:42:08
    - Domino- Jessie J - specially for SLM as she goes in for her op today ~hugs~ this is her feel good song as we spoke about on Twitter this morning! I love it too - wish I could hit the high notes!
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2012 08:25:33
    - The Raggy Dolls as it's Raggy Doll Thursday! xxx [media=youtube]TsBRMhaKPps[/media]
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:37:22
    - My favorite track at the moment is by a band called Infected Mushroom, the track is called I Shine! [media=youtube]pItd34SK6h8[/media]
      quantumpants
      07 Jul 2012 20:06:19
    - Pink's new song, Blow Me One Last Kiss! [media=youtube]OQNpFzwhGfc[/media]
      CaraSutra
      11 Jul 2012 18:54:17
    - [media=youtube]oKsxPW6i3pM[/media] I like it :)
      Jay Dungeoneer
      05 Aug 2012 18:22:26
    - Pink - the King is Dead but the Queen is Alive! LOVE it I could have it on a loop all day... [media=youtube]iZiJsB2cvsk[/media]
      CaraSutra
      16 Aug 2012 10:24:27
    - Bruno Mars - Locked out of Heaven seems to always be playing on the radio on my way home after a long shift at work, so it makes me feel good listening to it and I can't help but sing along lol
      AliMc
      04 May 2013 22:31:52
    - Oh I quite like Bruno Mars! Can't stop listening to Sloop John B - memories of father in law who recently passed away. :( makes me cry though. He came back from hospital in February and played it to Blue on guitar and sang it :(
      CaraSutra
      17 May 2013 11:36:35
    - I heard about his passing on twitter, my sympathies and best wishes are with you and your family.
      AliMc
      17 May 2013 21:56:54
    - Thank you. At the service yesterday there was Mike Oldfield, Sloop John B Johnny Cash version) and Fields of Gold (Eva Cassidy).
      CaraSutra
      23 May 2013 18:14:11
    - I really love Passenger - Let Her Go. Tis my favourite song at the moment.
      PrincessRaggydoll
      25 May 2013 18:22:27
    - Need some summery song suggestions - as the sun is finally out! hurray!!! Apart from 'in the summertime', which I already love :)
      CaraSutra
      03 Jun 2013 12:17:14
    - My fave at the moment is a cover of 99 Problems by Hugo [media=youtube]LloIp0HMJjc[/media]
      Morbidia
      18 Jun 2013 20:03:16
    - Airbourne - Live It Up. Good music, good cars and (probably not so) good women - what more could you want! :boobs: <-- couldn't find a decent rockin' smiley so that'll have to do :-)
      RedEyes
      27 Jun 2013 20:37:19
    - Fave at the moment is The Lost Boy ( also known as Opie's wake song from SOA ) [media=youtube]IGXeTEGWCP0[/media] xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      27 Jun 2013 21:05:01
    - I absolutely can't stop listening to Troublemaker, Olly Murs. I know it's so cheesy but I love it so much! [media=youtube]KmDtyMuIAGE[/media]
      CaraSutra
      30 Jun 2013 12:18:13
    - My fave song at the moment is Signature Move by Pink. It's just so me... loving the lyrics and tune!
      CaraSutra
      02 Oct 2013 13:59:18
    - Roar by katy perry...i hated it at first but grown on me now!!. :)
      FesureMaybe
      28 Nov 2013 10:40:31
    - I've been listening a lot to Dead Silence Hides My Cries' cover of Adele's Set Fire To The Rain. [media=youtube]A7d4cfg4wGM[/media]
      AliMc
      29 Nov 2013 17:32:32
    - My fav song right now is If I die young by the band perry
      BrummieGal
      02 Dec 2013 19:03:21
    - My turn to have Olly stuck in my head... [media=youtube]m20BTdy9FGI[/media]
      AliMc
      11 Dec 2013 15:46:07
    - Merry Christmas Everybody: my local non-league football team always plays it ad naseum at Christmas! ;-)
      Aaron Smutpuppet
      11 Dec 2013 21:53:56
    - Since the X Factor last night I've been listening to Mr. Brightside pretty much non-stop. I love The Killers. [media=youtube]gGdGFtwCNBE[/media]
      AliMc
      15 Dec 2013 08:54:33
    - Cannot get Remedy by Little Boots out of my head, also Lonesome Tonight by Elvis! Weird lol
      CaraSutra
      30 Dec 2013 11:35:40
    - I love this version of Turning Tables that was on The Voice Australia (yes, another Adele cover lol) [media=youtube]FddhFyHIwNM[/media]
      AliMc
      11 Jan 2014 16:57:10
    - Ooh did you watch the Voice which started again on Saturday? Odd to have Kylie on instead of Jessie J but she did ok I thought. Mind you as long as Sir Tom is on I don't mind! ;)
      CaraSutra
      13 Jan 2014 14:48:23
    - Yeah, I forgot it was on and had to catch up on iPlayer lol I liked that harp version of Get Lucky, it was hauntingly beautiful.
      AliMc
      13 Jan 2014 15:01:56
    - Yes I agree - seemed to capture all the judges too. Brilliance :) I think they took too long over that kid though. I mean I love kids but I was starting to wonder if they had time to make up!
      CaraSutra
      13 Jan 2014 16:20:00
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    Sea Pearls, Ruby Cup or Moon Cups?
    CaraSutra
    19 Jun 2013 08:31:43
    - Would you or do you use any of these? Just found out about Sea Pearls today, I've use the Moon Cups in the past and there are Ruby Cups now too. What do you think to them?
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2013 08:31:43
    - Ms Kinnk swears by her Moon Cup. Of course, I'm no expert on these matters...
      ChrisKinnk
      19 Jun 2013 21:17:29
    - I've tried the sea pearls, but once I finally found a mentrual cup that works for me I prefer that. Lasts forever and feels a lot easier to clean. Ruby Cup is a new one to me, but there are well over a dozen brands out there. This site is the most comprehensive resource on them I've found. Quick list of brands: Cup Lee · Divacup · Femmecup · Fleurcup · Green Donna · Instead · IrisCup · JuJu · The Keeper · Lady Cup · Lunette · MeLuna · Miacup · Mooncup (UK) · Mpowercup · Naturcup · SheCup · SI-BELL · Yuuki Each brand uses a slightly different design, so if you know what you want there are a lot of options out there.
      SecretlySensuous
      26 Jun 2013 14:39:32
    - What is so amazing though compared to using a ordinary sanitary towel or tampon??X
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jun 2013 19:27:01
    - "FesureMaybe, post: 4779, member: 496" Well everyone will be different in their preferences, of course. For me personally, it feels a bit nicer to use something non-porous than something absorbent. Tampons and pads create a rather perfect medium for bacteria to grow in, and that kinda grosses me out a bit. :p There are also considerations of environmental concerns, chemicals next to your skin, and other such matters. Unlike a tampon, with a cup I never need to be concerned about removing it too soon or leaving it in too long. I also like how it simplifies my life. The cups last practically forever, so there's no more need to restock such items. I especially love how when packing for a trip I don't need to consider how much sanitary supplies I might need - just my cup and that's it! It's a breeze to wash out, there's no stinky trash or bloody laundry, as I found was the main downside to reusable fabric pads. But, again, it really just depends on what a person likes...
      SecretlySensuous
      27 Jun 2013 21:23:26
    - Oh wow. :) i will consider one when i have periods eventually. Haha
      FesureMaybe
      28 Jun 2013 20:48:19
    - Being in natural parenting/motherhood circles I've heard of these, but didn't have much interest in them. I experience ovulation pause due to nursing so I don't see my period very often as I nurse until our children wean themselves.
      AmethystQueen
      29 Jun 2013 17:33:37
    - I have a mooncup and you couldn't pay me to go back to tampons now. Less irritation, cheaper in the long run, better for the environment and your body... plus if you're having especially light or heavy periods, you can more accurately monitor them with a cup :)
      NymphetamineKiss
      27 Jan 2014 16:44:27
    - I am definitely happy with my Mooncup! For about a year I was having three periods a month due to wacky hormones and this helped keep me out of the poor house with buying pads and tampons. Once everything got back to normal I stuck with it. I love that I can be naked while having my period without a disgusting string hanging about. Swimming? I don't feel like I'm soaking up the pool water. It's brilliant! My Mooncup has lasted five years now and it's still going strong. If that thing somehow ever managed to fall to pieces (unlikely) I would buy another or try the Lelo version. I've used the Instead cup before, it was really messy and something about the material kept giving me bacterial vaginosis. Maybe it contained latex and it aggravated my allergies, who knows. I didn't make it through a 10 pack of them before I had to give them away. I've seen those sea pearls first hand, they creep me out because they start out very hard!
      Mistress Selena
      28 Jan 2014 19:52:14
    - I've been using the mooncup for about a year now and wouldn't go back to tampons. It's so easy to use and you don't have to worry about when you need to change. Don't really like the look of those sea pearls to be honest.
      Lolly
      29 Jan 2014 08:34:42
    - I must say I used to use Mooncups but I am back to tampons now
      CaraSutra
      29 Jan 2014 10:08:28
    - Are there any designed with a long cord? Like with some kegel exercisers.
      AliMc
      29 Jan 2014 11:34:36
    - "AliMc, post: 5434, member: 87" There really should be!! Great idea.
      CaraSutra
      29 Jan 2014 11:57:12
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    Latex hints and tips!
    PrincessRaggydoll
    03 Feb 2014 12:55:26
    - So I am the owner of a lovely new latex mini skirt! It's my first item of latex clothing so looking for hints and tips that anyone has to share. What is the best way to look after the latex. Does dressing aid work? Is it worth getting? What shiners are the best? Is there anything that I should avoid? Any advice would be great! Thank you! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      03 Feb 2014 12:55:26
    - OOOOH the best shiner I have found is the Pjur one... my review has a lil video. I was very impressed!! Congrats on the skirt, what make is it? I am after some decent quality latex myself. x
      CaraSutra
      03 Feb 2014 13:13:04
    - I was lucky to receive it from my wishlist from Lovehoney, it was this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=82 A friend of mine buys quite a bit of latex, there is a site that she recommends but can't for the life of me remember what it's called. Will ask her when I see her and find out. I didn't think there was much point looking at more expensive items till I had tried something simple to see if I like it or not! x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      03 Feb 2014 13:34:33
    - Ah yes I have some stuff from Sharon Sloane. I love the look of the latex items from Atsuko Kudo latex but they're SO expensive! I'd be interested to see how different brands compare though. Enjoy your new latex! :)
      CaraSutra
      03 Feb 2014 16:54:34
- Sex, sex, sex
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    Fantasy sex location
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 20:10:19
    - I'd love to get it on on a roasting hot, golden sanded Carribean beach, all those palm trees and crystal waters. mmmm If you could make love anywhere, or in any setting, what would be top of your list?
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:10:19
    - Hmmm I think mine would be in a hotel/privet villa room somewhere very hot with a clear sea that's completely remote. (not into sex outdoors). Kinda like where they go on honeymoon in the last twilight film lol.
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 20:33:52
    - Haven't seen the Twilight things! I have a huge luxury fantasy too, I adore the whole 5 star hotel and all the trimmings things :)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:59:29
    - Can I be very soppy? Don't need the luxury, can be run down cabin with hard floors, but as long as I'm around Master, I'll be damn happy :oops:
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 21:32:57
    - We only started watching them recently, thought they was gonna be utter rubbish but they was actually quiet good! Not into the whole team Jacob or Edward like the Teeny bobbers mind! Lol. Luxury is my kinda thing sadly Ive got champagne tastes and economy/value/smartprice lemonade money! Haha.
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 21:34:10
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 145, member: 1"]I'd love to get it on on a roasting hot, golden sanded Carribean beach, all those palm trees and crystal waters. mmmm If you could make love anywhere, or in any setting, what would be top of your list?[/quote] Only one minor comment to make about that.... sand is not something I want anywhere near my sensitive parts, thank you very much! As for fantasy locations for me? I don't really know - never really thought about it...
      P. Squared
      10 Apr 2012 21:38:38
    - I've had sex in the sea before, it was awesome but messy... I was more worried about seaweed than sand! lol
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 21:52:37
    - no boasting but have done it many a time round the caribbean but the best was honeymoon in 2010 in the maldives we were naughty and had sex in the indian ocean whilst the odd few people were sunbathing made it even naughtier, but the sun lack of clothes and just being on holiday makes me soooo horny anyway :wiggle:
      rach74
      12 Apr 2012 19:30:32
    - I am very jealous! It is very easy to slip round a bikini though ;)
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:30:39
    - I think my location would be as the sun is setting in a tent just me nd Martin I think that would be very romantic
      rockprincess
      13 Apr 2012 18:13:43
    - Ah romantic campers! I am not into the whole camping thing but I can see the appeal xxx
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:14:06
    - Seychelles/Maldives, beach, sea and beach hut! Maybe hammock too....! Log cabin in Canada, log fire, fluffy rug and snowing outside. Old medieval castle, roaring fire, feast on a long table and olde worlde luxuriant brothel.....hmmm me thinks I've been watching too much Game of Thrones! :D
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 11:39:54
    - On a swing in a room made of leather wearing nothing but thigh high leather boots! Someone needs to invent a scented candle that smells of leather, I'd buy it!
      Breda
      17 Apr 2012 22:05:50
    - A large penthouse, high up, on a fur rug, in front of a large picture window, looking down the rest of the city at dusk or sunset ...
      Spartan
      17 Apr 2012 22:35:21
    - The medieval castle and on a swing gets my vote - not sure about the logistics of a hammock but OMG how funny would it be to watch lol
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 13:01:31
    - Imagine if you are in full throws of it and you fall off the hammock!!!!! :rofl:
      Breda
      18 Apr 2012 21:01:51
    - That would be one for most impressive sex injury!
      Kera
      18 Apr 2012 21:04:50
    - One to tick the box with for sure!
      Breda
      18 Apr 2012 21:13:06
    - For some reason I am now thinking on 'on horseback', not sure if that would be possible either lol
      CaraSutra
      21 Apr 2012 10:11:06
    - I dont think it's impossible either(the horseback) You got horses, one would surely be in a barn so it wouldnt run off down the paddock and throw both of you off.
      Breda
      21 Apr 2012 12:05:59
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    When you're not feeling sexy...
    CaraSutra
    15 Apr 2012 08:23:55
    - What do you do to get back into the mood? I don't feel very sexy looking today, my skin is playing up, I feel fat and frumpy and cellulitey and unattractive, woke up in tears and just... don't feel sexy lol. It's hard to blog or take pics or feel like you're a sex goddess (or god if you're a bloke!) when you're like this... Is it everyone that gets these days or just me? I'll cheer up soon I promise lol - sorry for the whinge! x
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:23:55
    - hugs cara , i know what you mean im quite pregnant at the moment and have a 22 month old my hair is blah and i feel huge even though my husband tell me i look beautiful/sexy (it helps a bit) i have days where i just feel the same so youre not alone
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 08:32:22
    - Thanks nica :) How many weeks are you? I may read some Literotica later to cheer me up and try and get he spark back
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:56:56
    - 27 wks lol you? yea a bit of literotica might cheer you up
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 09:02:04
    - Some days you just have to write off as a bad day, enjoy snuggles, warmth and good times and start again the next day! Massive hugs hunny xxx
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 11:33:05
    - I'm 13 weeks this Weds, 1st scan Thursday. Definitely Wiz, snuggles and nommy foods! x
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 13:14:40
    - Nommy foods FTW! I've just tucked away a nice cooked brekkie for lunch and just about to serve up some scones with Jersey whipped cream and strawberry jam :D drooooolllll
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 13:17:03
    - icecream or chocolate great comfort foods
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 14:44:43
    - Pizza! Although last night I had chips from the chip shop that I'd been craving ALL week and they were SOOOO good.
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:53:35
    - Sorry, i dont understand the question. Just kidding!
      bowed
      16 Apr 2012 12:02:44
    - If I have bad days, there really isn't much I can do to get me back to feeling sexy, though it is linked to my Depression. Though on days like that, I'm usually found in my blankie and posting self pitying things on twitter, or just not being active in many places at all
      Kera
      16 Apr 2012 20:48:43
    - I have bad days too, lots lately but I just see it as a bad spell and I will get back to my usual naughty self soon. Just so much going on but I have a list and working down my list. I WILL get there I've stopped smoking so added a few curves and grown some boobs! (I refuse to say *mumbles thru gritted teeth* put weight on) With so much horrible stuff going on I had to have a blow out so went to my fav club, a fetish one, was the Easter night so thought it was only right I dress as a bunny since I'm usually a rope bunny. Was an amazingly brave costume but OMG the boost to my self confidence, it has done wonders. I just wish I'd got a pic!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      17 Apr 2012 06:03:15
    - I wish you'd got a pic too! Glad to hear you are able to let go a bit and have the fun you deserve :)
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2012 09:50:00
    - I find lingerie, candles, massages and slow music gets me in the mood and feeling more sexy.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 16:02:43
    - i had an op just over two years ago and since then my sex drive and feeling sexy has just nose dived. its one of the main reasons why i stopped blogging and reviewing, i just didnt feel sexy or interested to tell you the truth. im starting to get a little bit of a spark back in the old mojo and ive missed the friends i made from forums and blogs and i used to enjoy so i decided to give it another go which intern has been helping my mojo a bit as well. your not alone cara i think everyone feels the same at some point in there life.
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 19:47:17
    - Yes medical things can always change the self perception and consciousness of our own bodies. Noticed your lingerie buy yesterday Diamonds, on Twitter, shame about it having the hole but it looked gorgeous! :( such a shame xxx
      CaraSutra
      22 Apr 2012 13:13:07
    - I feel so unsexy it is unreal. I'm trying to keep my mind going but it is hard when my body isn't allowed. I'm just scared I will be all healed and my mojo will be gone. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 09:35:34
    - you will be all healed and raring to go and if not I am gonna come down there (up there? lol) and whup that damn fine sexy arse! x
      CaraSutra
      23 Apr 2012 15:45:50
    - Aww thanks Cara. Well if you don't come up then I'm coming down. OMG imagine Cara whipping my arse? :dominatrix:I'm in heaven with just the thought! ~melts~ x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      23 Apr 2012 15:55:26
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    Funny moments during sex
    Kera
    15 Apr 2012 19:09:56
    - Was talking to Master about this earlier on, and He mentioned that He had a cat watching him during sex.. Personally not had many funny moments other than the occasional queef or falling off the bed. So.. what is your funniest moments?
      Kera
      15 Apr 2012 19:09:56
    - Speaking of cats someone I know had a cat put on her back during sex, she didn't find it amusing lol. I would've! Amusing moments... not really amusing but people coming into the room I guess, mostly kids! Awkward ... or housemates etc. There were all those times when the resident Nabaztag started talking during sex all the time, once about being 'careful which hole you put it in' lmao
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 10:16:57
    - ~grrrs at the cat on the back ~ i think the most amusing time was other the Nabaztag or when the invader Zim theme tune came on mid doggy style and he just carried on following the rhythm to it :-o
      Harlot
      16 Apr 2012 11:46:15
    - Invader Zim!! At least it was something cool, could've been worse, could've been Eastenders lol
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 14:37:57
    - we both fell over trying a new position we thought it was quite funny
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 15:49:16
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 945, member: 1"] ....Amusing moments... not really amusing but people coming into the room I guess, mostly kids! Awkward ... [/quote] Errr yeah.... experienced this recently, when one of my daughters caught mummy and daddy in an extremely intimate /compromising position....awkward? yes!... after we got over the intial shock though, it was funny (we had a bit of a giggle) thinking of ways we were going to try and explain this one to her...."Mummy and Daddys special loving time"?
      Spartan
      16 Apr 2012 17:30:17
    - Growed Up Exercises! lol
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 20:34:17
    - Falling over is funny. :D
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 14:01:22
    - Mine isn't during sex but during masturbation I was using a rabbit and I looked at my arm and there was a massive spider crawling on me and it shit scared me and I ended up thrusting too hard and the spider went flying :oops:
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 19:34:18
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    Erotica shows
    Spartan
    28 Apr 2012 22:27:25
    - Just wondered if Cara or any one else on the forums have ever attended the Erotica show at olympia in london. If so was it good? would like to get tickets for either this years or next years show and see and maybe get our hands on some sextoys, clothing, etc.. maybe check out some new ideas. So far we have only ever bought online but going to a show like this and to check out some items in person would be a great day out.
      Spartan
      28 Apr 2012 22:27:25
    - I heard that Erotica is cancelled this year? I've spoken with people who have been in the past who said it was just like a bring and buy sale - not impressed. Maybe it's got better - but cancelling it doesn't seem to give that impression either :/
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 22:53:57
    - ahhh yes I have just seen the statement on their site...oh well glad I asked now...hadnt looked to their site for months thanks for that Cara.
      Spartan
      28 Apr 2012 23:43:51
    - No problem, hopefully they get it sorted out for 2013 :)
      CaraSutra
      29 Apr 2012 08:15:34
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    Lost & not found!
    Mrs JoJo
    01 May 2012 12:40:35
    - Since my galbladder removal operation, nearly 4 weeks ago, my sex drive has disappeared. I'm trying my god damn best to kick start it but she has shown no interest. I did have a tingle the other day, figured my drive was about to reappear! I need suggestions, what to do to get me back into my usual 'wanting to jump that stranger wearing joop' mood, again :p
      Mrs JoJo
      01 May 2012 12:40:35
    - Oh no sorry to hear this :( Have you read all the erotica you can get your hands on, dressed sexy, take some sexy pics of yourself or get your partner to, fantasise in a warm bath?
      CaraSutra
      01 May 2012 13:58:31
    - The dressing up and picture thing is slowly getting me there. My fella is currently in a hot sandy place, so that puts a dude on the plan lol i may have to spend wages on buying a lot of erotica lol
      Mrs JoJo
      01 May 2012 14:47:31
    - Who needs to buy erotica when there are sites on the internet; www.adultfanfiction.net - Originals and fanfiction works (I'm on there somewhere - both fanfiction and Original) www.ASSTR.org - One I started reading on at a very young age www.Literotica.com - there are some gems on there, but have to weed through the whole category/author page if you want a multi-chaptered fic There are others that I know of, but those three are the bigger ones
      Kera
      01 May 2012 15:53:25
    - Ohh thank you!
      Mrs JoJo
      01 May 2012 15:54:31
    - Not a problem, those are the ones I usually read, so know they can be good once you weed the bad ones out. P.Squared and Myself are on AdultFanfiction under the names Kerantli and The_Hooded_Claw if you're interested :angel:
      Kera
      01 May 2012 16:11:51
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    Job offers?
    edn
    22 Apr 2012 16:38:06
    - How come you only get job adverts like this in the US! http://www.kink.com/k/model_call.jsp?c=1
      edn
      22 Apr 2012 16:38:06
    - :eek::eek::eek: I wish I was in the US!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 Apr 2012 22:18:11
    - Haha I look at some of those sites ;) No wonder they always have fresh content! Wow
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 08:57:19
    - [quote="edn, post: 1227, member: 4"]How come you only get job adverts like this in the US! http://www.kink.com/k/model_call.jsp?c=1[/quote] My god! Just watched some of the trailer vids ! What can I say " amazing " ;)
      Inyourdreams_2
      28 Apr 2012 20:00:14
    - Wow, I would love to do that kind of modelling, exhibitionist at heart! Price list is pretty interesting as presumably it gives a good reflection of supply and demand. And no, there is nothing on that list I wouldn't do that I am physically equipped for. Anyone else? Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      03 May 2012 23:04:33
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    Fave position?
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 15:30:43
    - I like it doggy to get in really deep... if it's in front of a mirror with him gripping my hair back, all the better! How about you :p
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:30:43
    - :P i was gonna write a blog post about my favorite position, ive never read it in a sex book, but then again who has actually read one of them all the way through? they end up boring me to death unless they have pics :P ;-) haha basically im lying on my front, he goes in from behind, like doggy. My legs are on the outside and his are on the inside, he sort of lays on top of me and OMG its amazing! really really tight for him, hits all the right spots for me and cos i can get quiet tired and achy in some positions it feels sooooooooooo comfy and stress free for my body as i dont have to do anything other then do the pelvic floor tightening for extra oomph for him haha.
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:58:44
    - I think that's called Lazy Doggy, Diamonds. Used to do that a lot with my first partner Mine is either spooning, cowgirl or missionary. Though quite partial to being bent over His bed and fucked roughly that way. With spooning, it's easier for Him to cover my mouth and nose, or do His favourite trick of pressing down really hard on my bladder/womb Cowgirl is rather obvious :boobs: bouncing Missionary because that was actually what W/we first did, and I love feeling Him on top of me
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:08:42
    - Ooh I love that too Diamonds, I know exactly what you mean. Although sadly I can't have very deep hard sex at the moment so it's all gentle! I'm not used to it! lol mmmmm @Kera bouncing... ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:35:36
    - gentle sex can be nice, but i think we all deep down love the more deep hard stuff its more primal ect ect :P oh so it has got a name! better not tell the OH is called lazy as he will say thats me in general the cheeky git! lol
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:42:52
    - [quote="Diamonds, post: 103, member: 7"] oh so it has got a name! better not tell the OH is called lazy as he will say thats me in general the cheeky git! lol[/quote] well you could tell him he could always put more effort in! your comment did make me giggle tho lol
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:01:38
    - i like doggy style for the reason cara stated deeper penetration or me on top so i can control speed and depth
      nica
      11 Apr 2012 10:59:38
    - Ooh on top is nice and it gives him a good view of your boobs :boobs:
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 15:58:37
    - i think my fav position is doggy style but me and martin found a new exciting way of making doggy style fun, instead of martin been in charge of the movements i am, this may have another name i put martin sitting up against the headboard i put my feet under his thighs facing away from him on my hands and knees and push back onto him it works pretty well if i tie his hands up so i have all control
      rockprincess
      13 Apr 2012 09:16:03
    - That sounds like an amazing position. I want to try it. Not sure of the name, wonder if anyone else knows?
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 09:46:44
    - sounds like a variation of backwards cowgirl.. *goes to nosey at a site to see if she can find it out* Edit; It's a mash up of Rodeo and Lapdance - Kneeling from the sound of it
      Kera
      13 Apr 2012 09:51:20
    - Oh cool thanks for the update!
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 11:10:00
    - Doggy, spooning, missionary but with legs over head (this must have a name), standing up from behind with me holding my ankles (again must be a name), reverse cowgirl, 69....
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 11:58:23
    - i believe that one is called legs over head. another one i like is called suspended congress where im suspended my arms round his neck, and putting legs wrapped around his waist [B][/B]
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 12:41:39
    - God, I wish I was light enough to be able to do that! :D now if I was wearing one those flying wire things....! Hehe!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 13:15:24
    - they have swings for that,some temporarily in a doorway, inside or outside doorway is up to you lol
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 14:33:33
    - Haha somehow I don't think the crumbling farmhouse we live in would withstand that ;)
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 14:36:40
    - beef up the doorway and your good ;)
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 14:40:45
    - "Wizadora, post: 879, member: 13" The first one is called Folding Deck Chair The second one is a variant of the Booster Seat by the sound of it
      Kera
      15 Apr 2012 17:50:50
    - Bingo on the folding deck chair. The other one hmm, tricky, gonna keep looking cos booster seat doesn't seem right
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 17:58:11
    - Hmm might just be Standing Doggy but completely bent over?
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 18:05:32
    - Or a Bend Dover?
      Kera
      15 Apr 2012 18:07:04
    - Ding ding ding, we have a winner :D
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 18:16:41
    - Doggy or from behind with me laying on my stomach:goodjob:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 19:44:31
    - I would say either doggy style or missionary
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 13:58:32
    - Missionary with a pillow under my hips... :oops:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      21 Apr 2012 15:37:26
    - I am liking it in spoons at the moment, as it doesn't get too deep that way, I'm a bit sensitive at the moment so no violent and rough banging for me! (shame... :P
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 10:54:06
    - mmmm Spoons.. Damn, I want spoon sex now!
      Kera
      24 Apr 2012 14:23:03
    - I always find spoon sex doesn't seem to fit right.
      Rose Rouge
      24 Apr 2012 18:08:25
    - defo doggy or staddling his lap on a nice comfy sofa!
      Mrs JoJo
      26 Apr 2012 16:35:10
    - cowgirl or doggy but spoons for anal xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      26 Apr 2012 23:27:56
    - doggu, or from behind, laying flat on my front with a pillow underneath my hips. Straddling him on a chair. legs wrapped around the guy. Or standing up, bent over and trying to hang off a wall lol
      Mrs JoJo
      27 Apr 2012 22:40:47
    - In spoons you can get him deeper if you raise your outer leg so your knee is touching your breast, or at least lay it on the open bit of bed next to you. Gives him better access :)
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 10:40:51
    - Spooning! Love it! Love it very much! I feel very much in control of how it works with spooning! Fast then slow then fast again! It's just the best! Also when carrying my last child(I was massive) it worked wonders and was so comfortable!
      Breda
      28 Apr 2012 11:26:00
    - Doggy too!
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 16:47:27
    - Call me boring but it's classic missionary for me.
      AliMc
      07 May 2012 02:09:20
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    'How did sexual relations become so brutalised?' Article
    CaraSutra
    07 May 2012 09:52:25
    - I think this article in The Independent is entirely pathetic and piggy backing on the publicity surrounding 50 Shades of Grey and the Lovehoney TV Programme on Channel 4 tomorrow night...
      CaraSutra
      07 May 2012 09:52:25
    - She needs to get out more. Dried up prune(yes I know the word is prude, I like prune better cause it's dried and shriveled!)
      Breda
      07 May 2012 09:56:33
    - I agree! Also both the men and women were as bad as each other for acting a insensitively in a public area. Then to blame sex toys, erotica and BDSM for the decline in society- ha!
      CaraSutra
      07 May 2012 11:33:03
    - Totally agree, she's not living in today's world at all!
      Breda
      07 May 2012 13:30:47
    - Oh.My.God. I feel like throwing up! But this was particularly funny, in a horrid way of course: Seriously??? Come on... I use sex toys all the time when I masturbate and I'm still perfectly able to achieve an orgasm (orgasms, actually) with a partner without the aid of a vibrator. No, that's not 100% correct... It's way easier now, because sex toys have improved my sexuality, not the other way around.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      07 May 2012 17:29:57
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    The Pussy Pride Project
    CaraSutra
    11 May 2012 12:19:27
    - You can find out all about the Pussy Pride Project, the brain child of the quite honestly fantastic Molly from MollysDailyKiss.com, right here Today marks the first anniversary of the Pussy Pride Project. With this in mind I was honoured to be asked to write a guest post in celebration of the project and the occasion, which you can find here. I hope you all enjoy and will comment there with your thoughts! official hashtag #pussyprideproject
      CaraSutra
      11 May 2012 12:19:27
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    Sexy words you love or hate
    CaraSutra
    03 May 2012 15:37:28
    - After a discussion on Twitter, it was revealed certain people loved the words 'shaft' and 'bollocks'. I like 'slut' and 'bitch', hate 'minge' and 'flange'! How about you? x
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 15:37:28
    - Hate 'snatch'. Don't know why, just makes me cringe.
      SandA
      03 May 2012 20:03:36
    - Since English isn't my first langauage it's hard to answer, but of the sexy words I know I love "slut" and "titties" (I know it's kinda vulgar but I just happen to really like the sound of it :p) and hate "cunt" and "willy".
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 22:14:58
    - "Boi Pussy." No, just no. Say that near me and not only will it kill my erection, but I will develop an intense urge to slap you.
      Incendiaire
      04 May 2012 02:29:04
    - Yeah snatch is horrid. Hadn't heard boi pussy before. 'love tunnel' is just silly and I still want to get out of 'tight puckered rosebud' for referring to the anus in erotica but I am not sure how else to eroticise asshole. lol
      CaraSutra
      05 May 2012 08:00:39
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1807, member: 1"]After a discussion on Twitter, it was revealed certain people loved the words 'shaft' and 'bollocks'. I like 'slut' and 'bitch', hate 'minge' and 'flange'! How about you? x[/quote] Ohh 'shaft' yup, just makes me tingle! Love the words slut, dirty, whore, cock......................I detest the word 'babe', just no! Seriously, to me it makes a man sounds dumb
      Mrs JoJo
      05 May 2012 11:19:45
    - hate "slit" really puts me off when reading something erotic and then that word is put in arghhhh
      rach74
      05 May 2012 14:52:57
    - hate the word pussy - but there really aren't many other words for vagina's, just vagina or cunt. One sounding too clinical, and the other too vulgar. as a compromise, I've ended up using "heat" *shudder*, "entrance" *shudder more*, pussy *cringe* and "the apex of her legs". I wouldn't use snatch, slit, minge... all sound too middle school-ish. I'm also not keen on ANY other name for cock/penis/shift/head/tip. And believe me, there are a lot! (I have a list somewhere if anyone wants to have a good giggle at them all) I quite like babe, BUT only from Master. Also "pretty little thing", slut, whore, shaft, and most degrading words, but again, only from Master. Anyone else use those on me, they get a swift slap/kick where the sun don't shine.
      Kera
      06 May 2012 20:27:47
    - In Italian I like the word "bambolina", I love when my bf (well, when I have one lol) calls me like that. It can be translated as "dolly", but I don't like the English version that much!:p "Kera, post: 1954, member: 3" Oh, I so agree! I kind of hate "pussy", even if I find the Italian equivalent extremely cute (it's "micia" just in case you're curious ;)) and I use it all the time. Ufortunately, though, there isn't an alternative word I actually like enough. Maybe "cherry", but I'm not sure it can be used for the vagina?
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      06 May 2012 22:01:21
    - I hate the c word! Hate it! It's just wrong! I like the word vulva just because it makes me laugh! I know, very childish but what can you do! I'm really not into speaking or being spoken to during the sex! If you want to talk to me do it before or afterwards!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 21:56:59
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 1970, member: 46" When I see "cherry" in a fic, I always laugh and then see someone having sex with the fruit in my minds eye and not the girl!
      Kera
      10 May 2012 15:10:20
    - I didn't always appreciate the word slit used in erotica but lately I'm secretly liking it :p
      llellsee
      14 May 2012 13:18:12
    - I hate being called babe too. How about the word 'sex' for a lady's bits... like in 50 Shades it refers to her 'sex' a lot, lol
      CaraSutra
      14 May 2012 14:35:20
    - What about: "....he touched (or whatever, can't remember) her where she needed it the most"? I read it in a romance novel once, I swear! I mean... the word "clit" doesn't please the writer?? o_O
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      14 May 2012 20:27:02
    - I'm guessing "He plunged his throbbing meaty sword into her delicate, quivering flower" is out of the question then :rofl:
      Kera
      15 May 2012 15:23:57
    - "Kera, post: 2313, member: 3" Oh! :rofl: Another funny euphemism for clit: pleasure nub.[I][/I]
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      15 May 2012 19:27:58
    - I have (unfortunately) seen ALL these in action in erotica on various sites.. Always makes me turn back and find something else. The plot may be a good one, writing style good, but as soon as I see something along the lines of what I said, then I collapse giggling. How do the authors not realise that they'll turn a good book into something laughable with language like that?
      Kera
      15 May 2012 19:59:49
    - I wonder if Kera know's what she's asked for..... :p
      P. Squared
      15 May 2012 20:21:05
    - I'm now very very scared...
      Kera
      15 May 2012 20:35:28
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    Drink and sex :o
    edn
    11 May 2012 14:11:53
    - Ermmmmm... http://whiskeydicklube.com/
      edn
      11 May 2012 14:11:53
    - ooh I want some :p
      llellsee
      13 May 2012 18:38:52
    - what i... ... I want some too. But not the bacon lube.
      t A
      16 May 2012 04:04:55
    - I sooooo want it!
      NymphetamineKiss
      16 May 2012 22:50:44
    - Ooh not whiskey but Baileys... or Cointreau... mmmm <3
      CaraSutra
      17 May 2012 16:27:47
    - Sign me up for some! :D
      Incendiaire
      17 May 2012 23:18:24
    - Jaysus!!!!!!!!!!
      Breda
      18 May 2012 12:40:48
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    Kera asked me to write this... so I did....
    P. Squared
    15 May 2012 21:40:23
    - Ok - an apology - this was written in response to the thread about words you like or dislike in bed, Kera said she couldn't write a story like that, but she challenged me to do it. 90 mins and 1500ish words later..... This is not plotted, unedited, and probably full of speeling mistakes and grammar issues - but it'll do..... --------- Desdemona & Pablo Desdemona let out a sigh, her breath misting small ciricules on the window as she tried to get a better view of Pablo tending to father's rose garden below. Sweat glistened like tiny diamonds on his body, seemingly out of place against the chisled tautness of his muscles. She could almost feel his arms wrapped around her, like a warm and comfortable scarf on a chilly winters eve. She could resist it no longer, and she threw the window open. "I say, Pablo," she called out, her voice like the babbling of a spring stream trickling over rocks and falling into a pool. He looked up, a smouldering look in his eyes as he sought out the window she had called down from. "Would you be a sweety and come up here for a moment?" She asked, her voice tremulous and quivering in anticipation. He reached into the back pocket of his tight jeans, pulling a handkerchief out and whiping it slowly over his brow. The bright red of the small square of cloth against the deep brown tan of his skin made her flush as thoughts swept through her body unbidden. He nodded once, carefully placed his tools down on the foam pad he had used to protect his knees and the grass from his kneeling and made his way into the house. Desdemona let out a soft gasp as she heard a knock at her door, differential and respectful, but still demanding her attention. "Come..." she swallowed, trying to regain control of her voice as the word escaped from her strawberry lips as a whisper. She pulled the neckline of her dress down a little lower, revealing a pale white slope of cleavage like a sunlit wintery hillside. "Come in," she called out, mastery of her voice returning to her. Pablo entered the room and quietly closed the door behind him. "You asked for me, my lady?" He asked. His voice was deep and rumbled, sending a shiver racing through her body at the pure animalism of it. She nodded, not trusting her voice to acknowledge him as her eyes hungrily drank in every inch of his statuesque form. He stood in silence, his eyes to the floor in respect. She was the daughter of the lord of the manor, and liked to be treated as such. Finally she trusted herself enough to give voice to her most personal desires. "Pablo, I want you to make love to me." His eyes widened and he looked up, like a stag that had caught sight of the bright red jacket of a hunter amonst the trees. "I..." she started, and swallowed quickly again. "Please, Pablo, I need to feel your hot manhood deep inside me. I want you to give the rose of my femininity the attention that you give my father's flowers." He frowned slightly, his brows creasing in thought. "My lady, that would not be the proper thing for me to do. I must get back to my chores." At that, Pablo turned, his hand reaching out for the door handle. She leapt up from her seat upon the windowsill, flying across the room like a whirlwind to reach out and grab his shoulder, and she flinched at the feel of his hot skin under her touch. Pablo stopped and turned back towards her, his eyes filled with fires of hunger and desire. "I gave you an instruction, Pablo, and you have to do what I ask!" She demanded of him, issuing orders with a practised ease. His eyes finally met hers, a powerful stare of piercing blue eyes that seemed to tear through her body the a way a stiff wind blows away the cobwebs in the trees. Slowly he nodded, a careful measured motion of agreement as he reached up and wrapped his arms around her shoulders, pulling her pliant body in against the carved tautness of his abdomen. His hands slid up the length of her spine, gently caressing her as he worked his way upwards, along her spine and finally up the nape of her neck and through her hair. A soft moan escaped from her fullsome lips, a gentle sigh of inexpressible pleasure as he began to stroke her hair with a touch gentle enough not to waken a sleeping cat. Desdemona's head tipped backwards, almost towards the heaven as if in prayer as the godly figure of Pablo leant into her. His lips sought out the fruit of her mouth, kissing her softly. She revelled in the heat of his kiss, her body melting like honey against him, her own hands slipping behind his back to rest upon his carven posterior. He pulled away from the kiss, reaching down to grasp her dress and lift it up over her head, dropping it to the floor behind her as her glorious nudity was revealed. She shivered a little as a warm breeze blew through the window like the breath of an angel, caressing her body playfully. Pablo reached out to take her wrists in his hands as they instinctively shot out to cover over the white globes of her breasts and the small line of black pubic hair that lead down towards the treasure that resided between her thighs. Holding them by her sides, he bent his head down and flicked out with his tongue to delight the sensitive nipples that had been hidden behind the thin cotton of her dress. She moaned again, the soft touch of his tongue contrastic with the gentle scratching of his unshorn stubble against her delicate nipples sending bolts of lightning through her body and flooding her sex with a warm pressure. He released her wrists, dropping to his knees in front of her and lightly kissing across her stomach like a butterfly landing on the grass as it sought out the perfect flower. And like the butterfly he found her flower as he gently eased her legs apart, kissing across the treasure within. Desdemona gasped at the pleasure that flooded through her body, the touch of his tongue in her most secret of places was enough to bring her body to the edge of an earth shattering moment of climax, and as soon as the moment passed, she reached down and pulled him up from his knees. Her trembling hands reached down to the front of his jeans, unbuttoning them, sliding inside to reach out for his massive weapon. So hard, so hot, she gasped at the first touch of it in her hand, the other hand pulling the jeans down to the floor for him to step out of. She smiled at the sight of his muscular frame, almost completely smooth like a wooden statue, her gaze dropping to finally catch a glimpse of the massive sausage she had often dreamed of. It was like the rest of his body; hard, tight and warm and she knew she wanted to devour him there and then. His arms slipped under her and lifted her easily from the floor, holding her gently almost the way he would hold a frightened animal, and with a quiet grunt of effort he turned her until the entrance of her pleasure centre was just above the tip of his mighty sabre. She gasped as he began to lower her down onto his upthrust manhood. Desdemona gasped as he first entered her, the moist velvet softness of her vagina stretching wide to encompass the length and width of his hardness. It was slightly painful, but the warmth flooding up from her delicate flower was enough to send more waves of pleasure through her. "Oh Pablo, you are so big. I wish I had asked you to do this before!" she gasped as he began to raise and lower her on the mightiness that pierced through her. "I want you to fill me with your fluid. I want to feel your stickiness all the way through me." Pablo grunted loudly between the thrusts, like the rutting sounds of fearsome beasts, and with a sudden louder moan he reached his own climax, flooding her chamber with his life bearing fluids. The feeling of his hot seed fillinf her up was enough to push her into an earth-shattering orgasm. He held her there in his arms, cradling her safely while he was still buried deeply inside of her, gently kissing her as her body shook and trembled through the trailing ends of the pleasure that has nearly brought her to her knees. Finally he lifted her off, sat her down on the chaise-long and dressed in silence, before leaving the room. Desdemona sighed, her body still trembling with the ghost of feelings of his hard manliness deep inside of her as his seed trickled out of her delicate flower and down the creaminess of her thigh, forming a small patch of forbidden dampness of the material of the sofa. She lay back, enjoying the last feelings that ran through her body and wondering when she could feel it again...
      P. Squared
      15 May 2012 21:40:23
    - You cooked that up on your own, I only dared you to...
      Kera
      15 May 2012 21:45:40
    - Ha, speeling. I like it, lots of well used terms in erotica in there, lol x
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 09:19:58
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    Lonely Hearts
    CaraSutra
    24 May 2012 13:36:34
    - Anyone ever used these? Or just read them? Some are brilliant and some are just too hilarious! What would your lonely hearts ad read like? :) This should be fun! :)
      CaraSutra
      24 May 2012 13:36:34
    - No havent used them. Have read them, just for the fun of it! My sister's and I were going to put one in for our Batcholer farmer neighbour, anonymously of course! Never happened though! The gay one's(here in Ireland anyway) seem to be really old guys searching for 18 year olds, it's kinda creepy!
      Breda
      24 May 2012 14:54:38
    - This actually is one I've used on a dating site (so it may not last long on here!) [FONT=helvetica]Me:[/FONT] [FONT=helvetica]Kinda smart, kinda quirky with my own hair (some), teeth (most) and sense of humour (depending on who you ask!) Also comes with a shiny new neurosis for each day of the week, occasionally questionable dress sense and a strong tendency towards the childish and surreal. Lots of fairly geeky interests but I don't wear coke bottle glasses or a leather trench coat (any more) and have been known to occasionally shower but most of the other geek traits are intact.[/FONT] [FONT=helvetica]You:[/FONT] [FONT=helvetica]Looks of Monica Bellucci; mind of Kari Byron; sexiness of Emma Peel (black and white original not the god-awful film); voice of Mariella Frostrup; wit of Linda Smith; sexual appetite of Stoya and that certain je ne sais quois all of your own.[/FONT] [FONT=helvetica]Am I your perfect match? Well let's be honest probably not but hey, you may have deep masochistic tendencies or just really like a challenge. If so, well you know what to do...[/FONT] Does this explain why I'm perennially single!?
      edn
      24 May 2012 15:38:55
    - Well wow that's... detailed! Hahaha x
      CaraSutra
      25 May 2012 17:45:55
    - For something more concise and with more of an element of mystery how about: Malevolent genius seeks leather clad sultry seductress for plotting, world domination, evil laughter and long walks on the beach? or maybe Last tin of Whiskas on the shelf seeks refined pussy with a taste for meat and cream to gobble me up :oops:
      edn
      25 May 2012 19:23:22
    - Just wondering if I should place one, to get the curiosity of wanting the female loveage out of the way! It's about time I fecked off and did it now!
      Breda
      25 May 2012 23:24:43
    - "Last tin of Whiskas on the shelf seeks refined pussy with a taste for meat and cream to gobble me up :oops:" < hahaha Also, YES Breda go do it now! Don't be satisfied to stay curious is what I say. Gotta know for sure one way or t'other! Good luck! xxx
      CaraSutra
      07 Jun 2012 16:32:37
    - Yes mom! Will go do that now! :p
      Breda
      07 Jun 2012 21:12:35
    - So should I go use mine too ;)
      edn
      07 Jun 2012 21:22:33
    - never used one but i find some funny lol Mine would be: Blue eyed red head, tall, all tits n arse, looking for a handsome & strapping Joe Manganiello (alcide from true blood) lookalike. Failing that, you must have your own teeth, hair (no wigs), imagination and the ability to let me watch my tv soaps in peace.
      Mrs JoJo
      12 Jun 2012 16:17:59
    - "the ability to let me watch my tv soaps in peace" < Classic!!! lmao
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 07:50:40
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2977, member: 1" Can't let anything interrupt my eastenders! :p
      Mrs JoJo
      13 Jun 2012 14:01:56
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    Dressing for sex....
    Spartan
    20 Apr 2012 23:39:43
    - (This may have been asked before and my apologies if it has....) Now I just thought I would ask this from a male perspective...What do you ladies prefer to wear for sexual fun and games and is there anything you don't like particularly to wear...is it uncomfortable / difficult? I know what I like to see my OH wearing and it is an enormous visual/physical turn on when she does but I also like burlesque style clothing and make up on a woman...sooo sexy. (we do have some clothing shoes etc which fit in this category and fantastic she looks in it too) Do you girls like your men/partners to dress for sex in any way and if so what?
      Spartan
      20 Apr 2012 23:39:43
    - I love high heels. Thigh boots. PVC and Leather. I also like school girl outfits - anything that I think he will find sexy. I generally don't dress for other people but I love him, I want him to be aroused just looking at me! I am not too fussed about him dressing for sex - the firemen costumes you can get are a bit rubbish tbh. There are some nice undies about - but then they wouldn't be staying on him long! lol
      CaraSutra
      21 Apr 2012 07:55:52
    - i like to wear sexy stuff for my mister, it helps me to get in the mood and also covers the bits of me i dont like and dont want him to see! my OH dont dress up for me, i think the outfits u can get are cheesey but i love it when her wears his suit and tie (only comes out for job interviews, weddings ect ect) so dont get to see him in it often :( apart from that i like it when he wears white ck boxers :P
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 19:55:49
    - omg mmmmm yes pinstripe suits! SO hot when a man is smart. ~mrowl~ x
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 10:49:47
    - My personal wearing preferences are PVC/leather. I really like heels, too. Lace is.. well, not so much, but I can understand the appeal of it so I do own a fair bit of it. Corsets are another 'hell yes', as well as the whole burlesque fashion. My partner and I, well... We generally share sexy clothing since we're both the same size, too, and our tastes mesh up so that's just awesome.
      t A
      20 May 2012 23:15:27
    - Master could be wearing his most comfy clothing and sandals and I'd still jump Him.. As for myself, I do try wear dresses as much as I can for Him (also for myself), or if not dresses (that dreaded bra comes out if I have to wear a dress) then I'm underwearless and braless. I try to wear something that I feel comfortable in, but is still within the (loose) guidelines for dressing (I'd not even call them guidelines though...) To say that I am usually underwearless, I do have a few sets that come out when I'm feeling flirty, and 7 (old) pairs for the dreaded week of the month, but my underwear drawer is mostly dominated by socks/tights. I have a couple of corsets, but they're out of action right now due to a new piercing (and the fact my boobs are too small for the rest of my body!)
      Kera
      22 May 2012 20:31:33
    - I still can't believe that you don't get too... messy... Kera when you're not wearing knickers under jeans or the like!
      CaraSutra
      23 May 2012 13:11:55
    - I have amazing control over my body and its reactions. It was one thing I learnt pretty early on (like the age of 13 early)...
      Kera
      23 May 2012 13:50:27
    - strange that womens outfits are nice but the ones or alot of the ones for men are poorly made and cheap looking i have lingerie which my Oh liked to see me in
      nica
      24 May 2012 11:10:30
    - i like wearing a comfy fitting chemise with fishnets and hooker heels, that is the no.1 thing I will wear. PVC outfits are kinky, esp when they shove my boobies into your face lol I love the office secretary look, anne summers does a fab outfit for that x
      Mrs JoJo
      31 May 2012 17:29:56
    - Lately I feel like I don't wear my lingerie and fetish gear often enough (I used to wear them to fetish events but haven't been to any in a while) With the weather getting warmer thought I must start wearing some nice lil sets to bed :boobs:
      llellsee
      31 May 2012 21:09:59
    - Whenever we've (Waz and I) been to a fet club I'm normally still in kink gear but outside of that not so much.. With the guy I'm dating the other week he just pushed my knickers aside to enter me... really hot, I love that. Waz isn't as interested in lingerie etc as dating guy is.
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:20:15
    - My boyfriend now loves sexy lingerie but in the past people haven't really been that into it... I do love having sex whilst in a corset (usually, not at the moment with bump obv!) The girly is into her ruffle pants, stockings, suspenders and burlesque wear... on either her or myself!
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 10:23:27
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    what are Room Aromas (Poppers)?
    Diamonds
    02 May 2012 18:17:55
    - what the titles says really, ive seen the above come up a few times over the years but i dont actually know what they are? how there used? ect ect
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 18:17:55
    - They're Alkyl Nitrites. People inhale the vapours from them to get a buzz; they're also supposed to help relax the muscles if you take them before anal sex. I don't really like them, I've tried them a couple of times when out and they mostly made me feel dizzy. Combined with everything I'd been drinking on those occasions, the result was that I didn't remember much about the evening by the next day.
      Incendiaire
      02 May 2012 18:26:36
    - oh thanks incediaire i tried reading the wiki page but my eyes crossed haha!
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 18:31:42
    - What Incendiaire said. :p However my partners and I use them, we like them. I find them very useful for anal sex and a general feeling of a high. Not using them now in case of harm during pregnancy, of course :) Basically just unscrew the lil bottle, sniff, close bottle, carry on ;) Did you see them in my competition? :)
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:43:08
    - Poppers are rarely now (in the UK at least) made from amyl nitrite, as it really isn't very good for you, but rather closely related alkyl nitrites which are merely quite not very good for you. Having said that, we use lots of things that aren't very good for us (e.g. alcohol) and I quite enjoy the "dizzy" sensation and as well as relating the anal sphincter during penetration I also find they can heighten orgasm if you time it right. Use as Cara Sutra suggests, though some people prefer to leave an open bottle on a side table or in front of a fan more a more subtle continuous effect. Never, ever drink. Someone did this when I was at a music festival a number of years ago and almost died. Fascinatingly amyl nitrite can also be used as part of an antidote for cyanide poisoning! Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      03 May 2012 19:33:48
    - It's used to treat angina too. As far as recreational substances go alkyl nitrites are very short term and mostly harmless - just be wary if you have blood pressure issues or conditions like Glaucoma.
      Sable
      03 May 2012 19:54:38
    - "A Couple of Wankers, post: 1823, member: 85" Putting a couple of drops in an oil burner can do the same as this but a bit quicker. Had plenty of experience in my earlier years, in clubs, at festivals and in the bedroom. Wouldn't bother any more, I'm already running on a brain cell deficit and sniffing poppers wipes them out in droves! Don't consider this if you have anything even approaching high blood pressure or a heart condition! Am I right in thinking amyl nitrate was also what used to called 'smelling salts'?
      SandA
      03 May 2012 19:55:43
    - I've always been of the personal opinion that if you need poppers to be able to have bum sex, you're doing it wrong. Used as an enhancement, however, fair enough. Never tried them personally.
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 01:04:54
    - I agree NK. Rely on the lube much more... water with toys, water or silicone for flesh action! Mmmm
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 10:24:41
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    Sex on your period...
    CaraSutra
    17 Apr 2012 13:14:13
    - Does anyone do it? What're your thoughts/opinions?
      CaraSutra
      17 Apr 2012 13:14:13
    - I have a few times, it's fine as long as there is a towel down to catch any mess. Personally, don't mind it, but know it can squick a few people out. (have also been caught out a few times with Master now..)
      Kera
      17 Apr 2012 18:55:31
    - From a male perspective... it doesn't bother me at all as long as the O/H is game and I'm always ready to stop if asked to, at any point. But I agree a towel certainly is a good idea.
      Spartan
      17 Apr 2012 21:23:06
    - its a no from me, i have such cramps and pains the thought of sex does nothing for me, i dont feel attractive as bloated sore boobs so nooooo, but OH loves it as he gets all the satisfaction of me playing and sucking him, so no complaints from him :)
      rach74
      19 Apr 2012 15:37:16
    - Has anyone tried Mooncups? You can have sex on your period with them in without the mess :)
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 12:51:01
    - I'm lucky, I usually don't have cramps or feel sick during my period so if my partner is okay with it, it doesn't bother me at all.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 17:01:16
    - Jealous KOC! I've got bad bad bad cramps today.
      Kera
      20 Apr 2012 17:17:25
    - ~hugs~ for Kera :( xxx
      CaraSutra
      20 Apr 2012 17:34:46
    - I have done before, I do if I am super horny but generally in the shower. I do also have some cramps sometimes but they have got a lot better lately.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 13:59:38
    - its no for me, just have zero interest, im normally sore, crampy, tired and a moody cow lol. and im not a loving GF who still provides oral or hand delights when on, he has to sort him self out. lol im best left alone with sugar based items ;) lol
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 19:52:26
    - I actually get told no over hand jobs and oral on Him when I'm on!
      Kera
      21 Apr 2012 20:45:49
    - we did but found it messed with sarahs making her period last longer so we dont anymore also cara we were looking thru a web site u posted with them mooncups on as a save because of how expensive girl stuff is which is a joke for what they are. anyway its says for ppl who have been pregnant etc is that the case or can any girl use them and how do they work use them as its kinder a sale fail tbh to much of the wrong info and not enough of the right info if they can be used by anygirl £20 for something u can use forever me and sarah joimt comment
      bessy
      22 Apr 2012 10:06:03
    - "Ms_HKM, post: 1399, member: 68" You can buy them at Boots, here
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 10:52:30
    - I used to find that I had better orgasm when on my period! Hell of a lot more intense I found! I have very heavy periods so around day 5 I'd start getting back to myself and want to jump his bones, towels are a good options for girls with heavy periods. Just had a look at that moon cup. I dont think it would be for me.
      Breda
      28 Apr 2012 11:22:44
    - I just can't use sanitary towels, the thought of just walking round with the blood outside... it's just icky :/
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 12:00:16
    - I couldn't. I have endo and Dysmenorrhoea so can't even get out of bed sometimes :(
      BrummieGal
      28 Apr 2012 16:59:25
    - "CaraSutra, post: 1114, member: 1" "CaraSutra, post: 1445, member: 1" Or amazon Mooncup Type A Mooncup Type B Or Femmecup - anyone tried one of these? I've been considering one for awhile... partly as I've had problems with mooncup in the past, not useage, just customer services.
      NymphomaniacNess
      28 Apr 2012 17:14:35
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1039, member: 1"]Does anyone do it? What're your thoughts/opinions?[/quote] I do/ have done. I didn't have a period for most of last year due to having a low fat % My body felt ok, and I did enjoy not having them, but emotionally I couldn't cope with it. When I do have period they are very painful and I tend to have to be dossed up on loads of tablets from the doctors... but it's never stopped me from having sex while on them. Tp me, the pain I'm experiencing during them is already hard to cope with, that having sex doesn't realkly make any difference... if that makes sense. Now my periods have started again... I'm still willing to have sex during them... also sex is going to be messy no matter what.
      NymphomaniacNess
      28 Apr 2012 17:19:06
    - I've never been put off playing by my period. I can usually tell my period is coming because the night before it starts my sex drive always goes insane :D
      llellsee
      28 Apr 2012 20:06:39
    - I don't, for me its just a massive No, I don't feel sexy at all, the idea of it is a massive turn off, I sometimes 'help' the Oh out though if he wants it, but he is normally happy to just wait a few days, luckily after 3 or 4 days I am back to normal anyway.
      Boobaloo
      30 Apr 2012 18:37:36
    - I've tried it once and I was in agony, not during but the cramps after had me curled up in pain. I'm pretty heavy for 2 days straight, so for me, sex whilst aunt flo is visiting, is a no go
      Mrs JoJo
      01 May 2012 06:53:26
    - It's a big no from me. I get moody and touchy, I suffer from heavy flow and horrid back pain and just want to be left alone. But after day 4 I am getting back to being myself. I have had a look at the Mooncups before but I don't think I could use them, Tampons is as about as brave as I feel LOL
      Kate
      02 May 2012 10:50:36
    - I've had intercourse during my 'monthly visit' and didn't have a problem with the mess of it personally. I actually heard the contractions during orgasm can help the uterus to shed its lining. I usually find though that I'm just not in the mood during those few days.
      AliMc
      07 May 2012 01:58:06
    - Never tried it with the OH, just can't bring myself to it !
      EssexRandomer
      09 May 2012 13:23:37
    - Tbh I am glad to be getting a few months off from the red nightmare :p
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 14:44:41
    - It'll get its own back after birth Cara :rofl:
      Kera
      10 May 2012 15:11:56
    - Yeah too true! I can then douse the pain with alcohol though haha (not literally, no vodka douches for me)
      CaraSutra
      11 May 2012 12:02:15
    - I don't, because I get achey and uncomfortable and it's the last thing I want. Of course I'm still more than happy to give him head and anal is always on the table ;)
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:52:04
    - We still play on my period which is great because since having the coil fitted 6 weeks ago I haven't stopped bleeding yet =(. That being said since having it put in we can't keep our hands off each other =) xx
      02dohvia
      08 Nov 2012 15:34:20
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    Prince Harry - hot or not?!
    CaraSutra
    23 Aug 2012 12:41:50
    - So you've probably seen the pics of Prince Harry naked on the internet by now... But my question is... hot or not? Would you? Also, I guess, would you because you find him cute or because of who he is!
      CaraSutra
      23 Aug 2012 12:41:50
    - I would just to piss off the royals. It would definatly cause a stir, firstly me being Irish and then them finding out I am a never been married mother of two children! I'd have so much fun! In reality he's too young for me though!
      Breda
      23 Aug 2012 12:47:31
    - He's a bit of a butterface, but he has a cute bum. I'd probably sleep with him just because of who he is, but it would have to be doggy-style so I didn't have to look at him full on, haha.
      Incendiaire
      24 Aug 2012 14:04:52
    - Nope. I'm afraid he does absolutely nothing for me :P
      SubReiSkyeM
      25 Aug 2012 00:08:35
    - He's 27 which is well old enough! I don't think I would, I mean even with who he is, I just don't find him very cute or anything! I feel like I should, though. Sorry!
      CaraSutra
      25 Aug 2012 07:57:53
    - Do it for your country Cara! :rofl:
      Breda
      25 Aug 2012 10:23:35
    - lol I just couldn't! Haha I wonder how many people fancy William too?
      CaraSutra
      18 Sep 2012 11:11:50
    - Maybe in my pre teens there was a 'coolness' to fancying a prince but now, no. Wouldnt do it for me!
      Breda
      20 Sep 2012 12:39:09
    - I never had posters up of boys, not even when my mates at school were all drooling over Take Take and East 17. Maybe I'm just weird. Or a raging lesbian.
      CaraSutra
      13 Oct 2012 07:47:39
    - Raging Lesbian! I love that description!!!!!! I had posters of Oasis and dogs! I did have one of Prince William but I took it down cause I didnt really like him that much!
      Breda
      13 Oct 2012 15:45:32
    - I can't say I would to be honest, not my cup of tea. His life is too sheltered for my liking and to see naked pictures of men and women doing silly things, all I would have to do would be to walk into my town centre on a friday night.xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:15:37
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    Your choice of knickers?
    CaraSutra
    24 Apr 2012 13:55:10
    - I am having a bit of a wrestle with myself at the moment as my thongs are all tight and I have to wear full knickers. I am off to replenish my thong stock very soon as big pants just don't make me feel sexy! Boy shorts to bed are fine though. Comfy and cute. What sort of knickers (or undies, if you're a non-knicker wearing guy) do you prefer and why? x
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 13:55:10
    - I love thongs but I don't wear them often... I don't like my butt! I usually wear shorts, brazilian briefs or hipster briefs. Cute ones, of course! :p
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 15:35:38
    - I'm sure you have a lovely butt! x I don't like my butt either but I wear leggings or tight trousers a lot and have fear of VPL! :p x
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 16:24:58
    - I'm often commando unless its period week, and then its the first pair I pull out of my drawers. (same goes for bras too)
      Kera
      24 Apr 2012 16:30:01
    - Black cotton boxers because they're comfortable and they go with anything. Also, I'm paranoid enough to fear being dropped on an island in just my boxers and left to fend for myself, and I'll be damned if I'm not looking good whilst conquering an island.
      Ethereal
      25 Apr 2012 21:18:15
    - gotta be CK trunks/boxers. comfortable and they look pretty damn good too.(so I'm told);)
      Spartan
      26 Apr 2012 00:35:46
    - "Ethereal, post: 1362, member: 23" LOL!!!!!!:goodjob:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      26 Apr 2012 13:38:52
    - Mmm I do like CK underwear - the adverts are pretty damn hot too lol
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 12:01:01
    - I want to find someone who wears those "Kinky Knickers" that Mary Portas made in that documentary series.
      Incendiaire
      28 Apr 2012 14:00:04
    - I only ever seem to wear thongs when I'm wearing something that shows panty lines. I feel pretty sexy when wearing anything that sits low on the hip and has a silky front and lacy back, well I love lacy fronts too if they are slightly see through :) I have a collection of brightly coloured tight fitting boxers that I wear to bed when the mood strikes me too.
      llellsee
      28 Apr 2012 20:13:07
    - Finding it hard finding comfy yet sexy underwear at the moment, needs to be cotton (at least the gusset. What a lovely word) but I don't like wearing big pants! Bit stuck, as it were...
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 22:05:38
    - I love the word gusset! It makes me laugh so much! Mothercare dont do the whole sexy underwear thing but they have some nice bits for the expanding bump and boobs. For me it they made me feel normal and feminine which I liked during my pregnancy with the small child. I remember getting silky underwear from there and was so happy, the ex had a great time when we got home! It's something to look into though. Pregnant women like to feel sexy and human as well as non pregnant women, if more companies did the sexy comfortable underwear they'd make a packet!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 12:25:25
    - You'v "Ethereal, post: 1362, member: 23" You've been watching lost, again? :p I like boy shorts and french knickers, when I had my pregnancy bumps, I found they sat just perfect for me.
      Mrs JoJo
      01 May 2012 12:36:22
    - I agree - I need to feel sexy dammit! Some nice lace edged lingerie with feminine patterns... not huge spud sack pants and canvas parachute bras :(
      CaraSutra
      01 May 2012 13:59:36
    - I've got a whole mix of everything in my collection, depends on my mood I guess what I wear, thongs, hipsters, boxers etc.
      Rose
      01 May 2012 14:45:38
    - When pregnant, I just bought the next size up in clothing, though that was mainly PJs and underwear, because of that, I did have a rather varied range in my drawers..
      Kera
      01 May 2012 15:35:02
    - Yeah, I know what you mean. Went into Peacocks the other day and they had a huge rail of sale lingerie, so bought lots of size 14-16 thongs :) they're nice!
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 15:38:37
    - I like boxers, at the minute living in Junk Underjean Designer boxers, very nice with a zip on the front. In terms of females, the gals here are raving about Calvin Klein designer outlet, well fitting thongs etc that actually feel nice too for like £3... (makes me wish I was female with me boxers costing £10/pair wholesale!)
      Just Pleasure - Chris
      09 May 2012 10:32:19
    - Ooh CK for £3 is a bargain indeed!!
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 14:57:50
    - "Ethereal, post: 1362, member: 23" I couldn't agree more
      Scott
      14 May 2012 16:49:34
    - I like my boyshorts, either cotton or lace. I do sometimes wear a thong, all depends on what I am wearing. Was wearing my frilly knickers on saturday ;)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      14 May 2012 18:42:51
    - Oooooo i do like frilly knickers, very sexy. And i mean i like women that wear them, not that i wear them o_O
      Scott
      14 May 2012 19:01:40
    - Tend to mostly either wear lace french or thongs. But there are often variations from that, just whatever I find that I think looks nice really! TBF, my definition of "nice" is generally... fairly slutty. lol
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:49:45
    - I'm wearing more 'big pants' lately due to pregnancy... but trying to make them the sexiest I can! Pinstripes and ruffles :)
      CaraSutra
      03 Jun 2012 10:57:29
    - Boy shorts def!!
      BrummieGal
      03 Jun 2012 17:08:13
    - I bought a few pairs of sexy and quite see-through lace hotpants today :D Day to day I don't ever really wear thongs but I like them when dressing up, I go for the comfortable option of boyshorts most days but try to make sure they have a nice touch like frills, ruffles or a mesh back.
      llellsee
      05 Jun 2012 00:37:44
    - Ok so further on down the line and I have pretty much given up on 'sexy pants' for the foreseeable future sadly! Bump massive now... But I am stocking up on lingerie (ok knickers anyway) for afterwards! I wonder what size bra I will be...
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 10:16:10
    - I bought bra and knicker sets today! One had a thong! Ooh! Havent worn a thong in a long time! They feel nice! One's purple(my favorite) and one is stripy pink and white!
      Breda
      18 Jul 2012 16:23:08
    - I do love thongs normally, they get to feeling really comfy and then you can't wear big pants anymore!
      CaraSutra
      30 Jul 2012 10:32:11
    - I'm a bit, meh about wearing them. Havent worn one in well over 6 years!
      Breda
      30 Jul 2012 10:41:30
    - Wore white cotton knickers today like a good girl
      CaraSutra
      04 Aug 2012 19:55:57
    - I wore frilly one's today to go under an outfit I wore to dinner! I am now in my red pajamas and have my new purple underwear on!
      Breda
      04 Aug 2012 22:52:38
    - My favourite type to wear are mini briefs in bright colours when I'm on my own or more boyshort-type patterned ones when I'm with my Daddy. Anything cutesy is a must, though I'm very partial to lace briefs as well. I can't stand thongs or g-strings; they drive me nuts and I feel very paranoid in them because my bum is hanging out.
      SubReiSkyeM
      05 Aug 2012 22:48:33
    - The style of my underwear at this point is not for public outing... :(
      CaraSutra
      12 Aug 2012 16:09:50
    - i like any style depends on what mood im in, dont really like cotton knickers, like satin, lace, frilly, sheer
      rach74
      15 Aug 2012 09:47:38
    - I like whatever feels comfortable. I dont have anyone to impress, so I wear what I like.
      Breda
      19 Aug 2012 18:59:29
    - I am a french knicker kind of girl but I do own a few pairs of boxer styled shorts, which like Cara said are great for in bed and also those pesky times of the month when you want comfort.
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:19:51
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    Orgasms - how do you get yours?
    CaraSutra
    24 Apr 2012 18:40:33
    - When wanting to ride that train to the Big O, do you use the same tried and tested methods each time? Same toys or finger movements? Do you want to get there as fast as possible or happy taking the scenic route?
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 18:40:33
    - Sometimes, but only when I masturbate, I wanna get there as fast as possible and use my tested method, aka dildo + clit vibe or rabbit vibe. But usually I like taking my time, enjoy the moment and I get more experimental.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 19:15:24
    - No matter what I use, I'm quick to orgasm. Many people have commented on it... Usually it is trying new ways to see if I do manage to take my time, or otherwise its a glass toy and a hard, fast ride on it (mainly my rose dildo)
      Kera
      24 Apr 2012 19:34:40
    - You like girl! Without a vibe it takes ages for me! :(
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 20:25:33
    - If I'm just plain horny I sometimes just want to get there as soon as possible and if I'm really horny I can sometimes just cum using my fingers, doesn't happen often tho. Other times it sometimes depends what I have to hand. Other times I like to take my time, teasing myself, on and off all day. Taking myself right to the edge and then stopping and going back. It can be great fun! Other times I really want to cum and for some reason it takes me forever! I think I'm to complex. Can you imagine adding a guy into the mix? Poor thing would just be confused!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      24 Apr 2012 20:59:59
    - Takes ages if not properly turned on, I'm also very easily distracted by noise, that doesnt help! If I'm in the shower happy then no problems! I have happy times with myself:D
      Breda
      24 Apr 2012 21:46:19
    - [quote="sexylittleminx, post: 1314, member: 8"]If I'm just plain horny I sometimes just want to get there as soon as possible and if I'm really horny I can sometimes just cum using my fingers, doesn't happen often tho. Other times it sometimes depends what I have to hand. Other times I like to take my time, teasing myself, on and off all day. Taking myself right to the edge and then stopping and going back. It can be great fun! Other times I really want to cum and for some reason it takes me forever! I think I'm to complex. Can you imagine adding a guy into the mix? Poor thing would just be confused![/quote] When I have sex I can cum only if I'm on top, that way I can rub my clit against his pube. You're not alone, I'm veeery complex too! :D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 22:20:41
    - I like cumming on top during sex, nipples can be played with and can use a bullet to clit while he is inside me. Yummy!
      CaraSutra
      25 Apr 2012 13:16:50
    - With my partner it'll usually be during oral. When by myself nine times out of ten it'll be with a vibe on my clit. The very odd time I'll be frustrated with how fleeting vibe orgasms can be and I'll have the patience to go for a manual session :)
      llellsee
      28 Apr 2012 15:22:53
    - for me it depends on my mood of course sometimes it happens fast other times it takes awhile which is fine with me usually if im by myself its clitoral or two toys one in and one on my clit (lelo gigi)
      nica
      02 May 2012 03:08:23
    - Does anyone use any substances to help orgasm? Either poppers, or even something different like foodstuffs, or wacky items? I'm nosy!
      CaraSutra
      29 Aug 2012 12:49:22
    - Food stuffs would drive the old OCD mental altogether! Sticky and gooey is not a way to turn me on! In fact as I write I have a look of disgust on my face( thinking of sticky food) Just no from me!
      Breda
      31 Aug 2012 17:27:52
    - If I am by myself I vary every time depending on whether I am testing toys or not. When I am not testing I just go in for the kill with what I know works, when testing I do take a more scenic route. During sex I do not mind whether I O or not but usually I do thanks to my OH's amazing skill to find my spot in no matter what position we try, I am lucky in that sense =) xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:24:06
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    What's your favourite name to be called in bed?
    CaraSutra
    15 May 2012 16:48:26
    - I like slut, kitten and more recently, bitch ;) I can think of more for girls, also any men out there have names they like to be called? Girls, whats your fave sexy bed name? :)
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 16:48:26
    - Surprisingly we don't have any... i don't know why we haven't, hmmm i would probally like to be called Sir or master or daddy, but thats of course when i am the dominant one at that time, if im the slave then she can call me whatever she likes as i have no control or choice anyway.We are a very kinky and experimental people but i know that she would prefer something nice like kitten or similar, she would take slut or bitch offensively, but those are the kind of names i would want to use lol
      Scott
      15 May 2012 17:00:06
    - I get "pretty little thing" and slut when I'm tied up and writhing on the end of His hand. Other times I am just called Kera (pronounced as Kira) or babe (I'm beginning to think He can't remember my actual name!)
      Kera
      15 May 2012 17:42:08
    - Ooh I don't like babe, reminds me of the pig films!
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 18:19:26
    - If I'm in a sub mood it can be as dirty as you like, filthy little slut being a favourite :D
      PrincessRaggydoll
      15 May 2012 18:32:51
    - "sexylittleminx, post: 2337, member: 8" I wish the girl im sleeping with had the same attitude as you! lol
      Scott
      15 May 2012 18:39:08
    - To be honest she can call me anything she damn well chooses....well at certain points anyway :p ....and we can both get quite vocal. We too, like to experiment and consider ourselves confident enough with each other, to say, without fear of offending the other person, what we like, or do not like. (also a drink or two helps the inhibitions .;) ) but no one single name is preferred I guess.
      Spartan
      15 May 2012 19:03:03
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2335, member: 1" That's where we differ though Cara, the derogatory meaning behind the name keeps me in my place, just like "the pretty little thing", but babe is nicer to say in the middle of a busy area, thus I do like it. IF it came from anyone other than Master however, they will get a very swift telling off/slap
      Kera
      15 May 2012 19:16:39
    - The italian equivalent of "little slut": puttanella.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      15 May 2012 19:37:37
    - I definitely like being called a slut by the right person. Someone I slept with a little while ago but didn't have the right connection with (or indeed, any, really) tried it and I was unimpressed. But recently someone else did, and, well... mmm.
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 20:39:15
    - Sub-wise, I like 'whore', 'slut', 'bitch', 'cocksucker', 'dog', and a whole slew of other things. Master-wise I like 'master', 'sir', 'daddy'... Can't think of anything else!
      t A
      16 May 2012 03:59:59
    - My ex used to call me sexy-keks - YUK!
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 10:32:53
    - I found one out that I didn't expect at ALL - but 'princess'. I think 'empress' might be alright, too, but I honestly didn't expect that. Got blindsided by the ladyboner I got when my partner called me it.
      t A
      20 May 2012 23:11:12
    - Aw Princess is sweet. Kitten is still my fave :)
      CaraSutra
      24 May 2012 13:34:21
    - Ehehe. I know, right? Kitten is really nice-sounding, too!
      t A
      27 May 2012 04:31:32
    - I wonder what sort of 'insult' names people like, anyone like 'bitch' or 'toy' ... things in that vein?
      CaraSutra
      27 May 2012 08:39:25
    - I like, insult-wise...- breeding bitch, peasantblood/lowblood, slut, cumslut, bitch, whore, cocksucker,... hmm, there are more I can list here than for the nice ones, haha.
      t A
      27 May 2012 13:36:09
    - Goddess is my favourite :)
      llellsee
      31 May 2012 21:18:52
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2485, member: 1" EWWWW. That is all.
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:24:18
    - I like being called his little rattie when we are being nice to each other . . . But when he is Dominating me he usually calls me his slave or subbie. Nothing spectacular. He *tries* to get me to call him Master but what can I say? I'm naughty.
      Chili
      01 Jun 2012 13:46:42
    - Master just sounds so weird, it doesn't roll off the tongue! Not mine, anyway haha
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 11:46:00
    - Interesting article here today http://uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/couples-pet-names-relationships-best-worst.html do you agree with the top most hated and the top most loved pet names for a lady by her partner?
      CaraSutra
      07 Sep 2012 11:11:43
    - I disagree with all of them. I have a name. Call me by my name. Sheesh! Honeybun, I'd slap whoever tried to call me that! Eejits!
      Breda
      08 Sep 2012 16:41:52
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 2347, member: 46" I really love this word "puttanella". Didn't know it before, it sounds SEXY.
      Denied Boy
      11 Sep 2012 07:48:02
    - For me: slut, little bitch, boy, dog, and pig. Yeah :D
      Denied Boy
      11 Sep 2012 07:49:30
    - Nothing.. Only I am aloud to be vocal in bed, I would find it rather off putting if he decided to =s xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:31:51
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    The ex files
    Breda
    17 Apr 2012 23:12:48
    - You have an ex, feelings are still floating around the mind body and soul. Should you tell that person or would it just lead to the sex and getting one party hurt?
      Breda
      17 Apr 2012 23:12:48
    - In my experience, exes are exes for a reason... there must have been a reason it didn't work and I think bringing up old feelings and even leading to sex could make things very messy indeed! Will be interesting to see everyone's thoughts on this though x
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 12:26:16
    - as cara said an ex is an ex for a reason, I did this many years ago thinking no strings sex but ended up getting hurt all over again as i suppose i thought it mite lead us back together, in the end it ruined the 10 years we had together and didnt even stay friends, so no dont go there
      rach74
      19 Apr 2012 15:41:51
    - I also agree with Cara, generally there is a reason why people break up. Yes it may seem like a good idea to tell them etc but it may end up with breaking up again.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 14:03:15
    - I agree with Cara. From personal experience it's a bad idea. Me and my ex broke up after a disaster relationship of him mainly cheating and me deeply in love. We ended up still meeting up occasionally for sex but then I found out he was in a new relationship and she was pregnant with his kid.... Me hastily ending it all and telling him I didn't ever want to see him again, turned out to be the best thing I every did.
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:45:57
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    how often do you have sex?
    Diamonds
    12 Apr 2012 16:45:32
    - you would think im a horny little toad :P wouldnt you? but since having an op two years ago and my body going through a lot of changes it has took a megga nose dive. so its probably anything from 2 to 8 times a month :-/ kinda feel bad for my OH and i have had my worries that he would go looking else where or end things with me. but im very lucky, we talked about it and he put my mind at ease.
      Diamonds
      12 Apr 2012 16:45:32
    - ~hugs~ emotions and physical changes do have a big impact on sex, sex drive and circumstances unfortunately affect how often it happens - or how often you want it to happen. I used to want it at least once a day but at the moment although I like the thought of it, can get turned on by erotic thoughts, writing etc, the actual act happens maybe twice a week? I'm still feeling delicate what with the pregnancy. For the first few weeks I would only have anal sex (with a lot of lube) as I was worried about him banging through my cervix area and ruining things!
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:04:53
    - Every Sunday, or at least nearly every Sunday. Sometimes a Saturday too
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 17:07:12
    - As often as i am allowed! Actually, I have a very high sex drive but sometimes lack the opportunity!
      bowed
      12 Apr 2012 18:55:09
    - we both have high sex drives so lucky, we think it strange if go 2 days without doing anything sexual :stroke:
      rach74
      12 Apr 2012 19:26:53
    - Changes month to month tbh, anything from every 1-2 days to once a month! Depends when our sexual orbits are in sync haha!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 12:07:53
    - I think I am getting more into the swing of it again now the hormones have levelled out a bit, hopefully!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:54:15
    - 4 0r 5 times every other weekend. That makes a poor average!
      bowed
      16 Apr 2012 12:01:04
    - depends for me can be from 2 days to a week
      sahoo
      16 Apr 2012 21:48:56
    - Depends really, on average I guess about 3-5 times a week.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 14:02:18
    - Last time I had sex was January 2011. The night before he left.
      Breda
      23 Apr 2012 22:12:57
    - I'm currently single, so... never! :oops2:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 Apr 2012 22:15:58
    - Aww ^^ hope you get some soon KOC! xxx
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 08:57:49
    - Me too! :D:sexyes: There's this new guy... I like him, he likes me. We've just met twice but hopefully he'll become my new bf!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      24 Apr 2012 15:29:43
    - Tough one, varies a lot, we probably have penetrative sex a couple of times a week on average, but also plenty of other play together (and apart). There is a reason we decided to call ourselves a couple of wankers you know! Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      03 May 2012 22:17:26
    - Now that I've finally found Mr. Right my sex life is amazing and a good 8 - 10 times a week seems to be kinda normal for us... Though saying that we both have up and down weeks, so this *can* fluctuate a little, but even on a bad week we tend to have sex 4-5 times, where as on a good week we can both manage that daily quite happily! ;) This has not always been the case, as I was in a serious car accident in 2000 and damaged my back, shoulder and knee - all of which resulted in a LOT of pain. So I totally understand what it's like to have a mind that's willing, but a body that screamed *no way José* much of the time. Sometimes it takes altering what you do, or how you do it to make things comfortable and work for you, so don't forget to communicate with your partner in order to help make things work if you need to... In fact the more you talk openly and honestly about what drives you wild, the better sex gets! :D
      ElizabethNSpire
      04 May 2012 15:32:37
    - Every 2 to 3 days is about average for us. Combinations of kids, guests and trips abroad can make it longer.
      TeaseMatt
      12 May 2012 06:47:52
    - Yeah I hate the way people tend to assume there's a 'normal' amount of sex, like a standard or average. Everyone's different! :)
      CaraSutra
      12 May 2012 09:30:02
    - most days, but not everyday, probably 5 or 6 times a week depending on how tired we are, sometimes more sometimes less, its not unusual for us to do it twice in a day and then nothing for a couple of days.
      Boobaloo
      13 May 2012 13:47:54
    - Honestly, as often as Master is willing or I am able and allowed to visit my other "something" I'm currently involved with. Anything less than once a week and I get seriously grumpy. In a perfect world, I'd like every day pretty much.
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:51:07
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2126, member: 1" I know what you mean, I don't believe there is an average for everyone. What works for some doesn't work for others. One of my friends hate penetrative sex but gives and gets oral sex and other foreplay a couple of times a day. Would that mean they aren't having 'sex'? I define sex as foreplay too.
      Rose Rouge
      14 May 2012 15:57:16
    - Depends how much i see my partner as we are not living together yet and both have very busy lives right now but try to make time for each other as much as possible, so it can be anything from 1 - 15+ times a week, it used to be more but just dont have the time now, so it varies how often we have it.
      Scott
      14 May 2012 16:09:19
    - Well if sex has to involve a penis and vagina penetration then I guess lesbians can't have sex! ;) x
      CaraSutra
      15 May 2012 09:05:50
    - "Rose Rouge, post: 2230, member: 50" Similarly, I refute the whole concept of sex vs foreplay - sexual acts are sex, "foreplay" is, imho, a male-centric, penetration-centric construct. Just my 2p.
      NymphetamineKiss
      15 May 2012 11:13:03
    - My ideal sex-having would be 1-2 times every 2 days. Unfortunately, it happens quite a lot less than that... like 1-4 times a month, right now? I'm hoping itt'l change up soon. Masturbation, however, is as often as I feel like it, haha!
      t A
      19 May 2012 00:15:47
    - And right now I haven't had it for weeks. :(
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:34:22
    - I hope that's changed now NK! I am off penetrative sex for a little while due to cervical erosion and bleeding from last time :( damn liking violent sex... just can't do it gently!!
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 10:17:29
    - 4/5 times a week works pretty well for me depending on my mood I guess...
      samantha143
      06 Aug 2012 06:13:05
    - Ideally, at least once a day. Once every couple of days is livable. Any less is unforgivable.
      Sir LBC
      06 Aug 2012 09:45:54
    - When my partner and I were together, in the beginning it was every time we say each other, so about four times a week. When we moved in together, it gradually dropped to about once a week... then dropped even more to once a fortnight, if I was lucky... The we separated, but still lived together... and the sex became daily! Random...!! But now, I have moved out, I don't see him... so... I don't get any...! (well that's a lie, a paid him a visit three weeks after I moved out... we ended up having sex... head fuck!) :-D
      Chaotic Angel
      12 Aug 2012 12:16:49
    - I can see why you are called Chaotic! :)
      CaraSutra
      12 Aug 2012 16:10:35
    - We both have high sex drives and because of this we do struggle to put each other down at times, although we do have dry spells(by choice) occasionally but that is more of a teasing spell then anything.xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:30:30
    - I'd love to be having sex at least daily now, but what with new littlun it's quite rare still. Dying to get 'back on it' after so long with huge bump!
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 09:07:03
    - You will get there soon enough hun. I think I am quite lucky this time around, with only a graze and no post natal depression we couldn't wait to get steamy between the sheet or where ever we can. Where as with tristan I was cut and took me a very long time to feel 'right' nearly a year, my OH was the same to but I think that was my post natal depression playing a big role in our sexual relationship. xx
      02dohvia
      07 Dec 2012 21:23:19
    - Yeah I think it would do ~hugs~ I actually had sex last night - woohoo! Blue left us alone for a bit and was asleep in his crib! bless him lol
      CaraSutra
      08 Dec 2012 14:11:44
    - Wow congratulations definitely something to celebrate =) I am all good now thank god hence the great sex =) xx
      02dohvia
      08 Dec 2012 14:19:36
    - not as much as i would like
      nickessex
      10 Dec 2012 20:14:10
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    Poly lifestyle and relationships...
    CaraSutra
    29 Apr 2012 18:11:24
    - So how does it all work? Are you poly or mono? It annoys me when people mistake poly for being the same as open relationships or swinging, to me its so different!! I have a boyfriend and girlfriend and we live in a large poly household. What are your thoughts on it?
      CaraSutra
      29 Apr 2012 18:11:24
    - I'm poly - though sadly don't live in a big household with my partners. I too get annoyed when people think it's the same as an open relationship or that it's all about sex. Like any relationship it can be tricky, challenging, and good. You may disagree with this slightly, but to me being poly is something I can't help, and that I just knew I was from a young age. I'm not sure if it's something you wake-up to one day and think you'll try... I'm not sure if that makes any sense?
      NymphomaniacNess
      29 Apr 2012 18:18:15
    - I'm Mono, but know that Poly relationships work in the same way. There is love, trust, and the odd fight, but at the end of the day, there isn't really much of a difference, just the number of people. I couldn't "do" a Poly relationship, I can't ever see myself in that situation, but I could see myself in an open relationship for some strange and unknown reason. I just seem to thrive in a Mono relationship over a Poly (or Open) relationship.
      Kera
      29 Apr 2012 19:56:43
    - I've always been Mono so far but now I'm not sure what I am anymore. I am into the swinging lifestyle and do agree with open relationships, but maybe being Poly would suit me best because I have a feeling I could be in love with more than one person at the same time, it isn't just something sexual. I really don't know, I guess I need time to figure it all out! ;) That said, I think love is always a beautiful thing, it doesn't matter if it is between a man and a woman, two people of the same sex or if it involves more than two partners.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      29 Apr 2012 23:17:00
    - I agree with what's been said so far. I love my man and my woman, and I have jealousies and insecurities like in any relationship. The idea of other people sleeping with them or other people seriously wanting to sleep with me is just... no. I'm not sure that I chose to just try it one day, I knew from teens that I was bi, but also that I needed both halves in my life. I have a weird poly-ness in that I love one man and one woman and that's right for me.. for others it's more than one of each gender. I have described it as mono in each gender lol - but apparently that's still poly. I am a little strange lol.
      CaraSutra
      30 Apr 2012 09:32:10
    - After reading this post I was just wondering when you realised the you were bi Cara.
      Breda
      01 May 2012 20:50:43
    - our relationship is similar to caras i have a husband and a wife not sure what id call it
      nica
      02 May 2012 03:12:06
    - so glad this thread has been made, im going to being writing a blog post to this very topic with the help of a couple of peeps who have posted in here, i really dont know much about it and i dont think other people do, like cara says and get it muddle with swinging and sleeping around ect. im hoping that my blog post can give out more detailed information about this subject. personally i dont think i could be poly, i just wouldnt be able to cope with the fact that my partner loves someone else as well as me, i have to be number one. i dont share very well ;)
      Diamonds
      02 May 2012 17:35:55
    - "Breda, post: 1685, member: 40" Oh early teens, I realised that I was way more attracted to girls than boys! Unfortunately I had been brought up to believe it was wrong so it all was very hush hush and I felt guilty for too long. I dont now though!
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:57:37
    - "Diamonds, post: 1730, member: 7" I think I said the exact same words in the past :) I found it very hard to adapt tbh. Although I love him and her, I am only now after 2 years getting to an acceptance stand point ansd feeling 'as important' to each as they are to each other. I mean, they're a married couple of many years, so understandably I felt like the 'newbie' and possibly even 'disposable'. Not from anything they did, just my own insecurities and fears. Nowadays I can see that love is love, I love him and her, he loves me and her, she loves me and him. It's the way it is :)
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 14:59:32
    - I've actually known I was attracted to girls when I was very young. Like you I was brought up to believe it was all wrong. Never to this day done anything about it. Just admitted it to my ex, he was very good and encouraging about it. I've kissed my girlfriends on nights out but nothing other than that! Trying to get my children to not conform to thinking that it's wrong as well is a challenge! Not allowed be homophobic in my house! I'd be horrified if my girls were homophobic. One of my cousins came out over christmas and he's 18! I only wish I had that bravery!
      Breda
      03 May 2012 15:19:58
    - I came out to my mother at the age of 14, homophobic behaviour washes over me, but god forbid my sons end up homophobic! Though they won't get it from me, and they certainly won't get it from any of my friends (their "uncle" R is gay, "auntie" B is bi and goes on like that) but they do hear homophobic/racial slurs from their paternal grandparents when we see them (not often, twice, maybe 3 times a year). Though, on this topic, have been trying to write a Poly relationship for ages, but getting nowhere as I don't really know the ins and outs, other than what I've already said..
      Kera
      03 May 2012 20:16:42
    - "CaraSutra, post: 1797, member: 1" I truly think it's a beautiful thing, Cara, and that your children (if I remember correctly you already have a son?) are very lucky to grow up in such an open-minded, loving family!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 21:56:54
    - Thanks KOC - yes I have a son already, he's almost 7 :) The kids find it all brilliant, all the see is one big household with 4 parents (my partners have a boyfriend too :) It's good :D
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 14:32:08
    - We're in a transient sort of place right now. We've been kink and sexually non-monogamous for ages now, and comfortably. Recently, we shifted into poly and there has been much drama and it's been... emotional. A lot of that had to do with Waz (by his own admission) rushing into a new relationship, which has since been stopped as it was tearing apart *all* of us. Now we're taking any new involvement slow, and I currently have a "something" with a friend. We're not really defining it, but it feels like a bit more than FWB, a bit less than actually going out with each other. I'm still finding it tricky, but working on things.
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 01:02:00
    - ~hugs~ It is very tricky, so many emotions involved...
      CaraSutra
      30 May 2012 11:01:56
    - Thanks Cara :) Things are all pretty good right now, there's a possibility of us both (!) being casually involved with a girl Waz slept with a while ago and really likes... things were a bit rocky between them but seems she wants seconds with a side dish of me hehe, so I'm not about to turn that down. Where this all connects to poly is that I know Waz would leap at the chance of ever getting to go out with her and the difference between her and the other girl he was involved with not so long ago is huge - him being with her doesn't and has never bothered me... and then the other night when we'd all been hanging out, once we'd went to bed he said he'd had a realisation that the other girl (the rushed one) appealled to him because she was a (pale) imitation of the girl we might be getting involved with casually again... bless him. Don't get me wrong, he's not torn up and needing a relationship with her, but he knows he'd like that some day, hopefully. And as for me and the other guy, things are still going fairly well there. Everything's still slow and whatnot which is right for all involved... hopefully we'll be able to go over and see him gig tomorrow night. :)
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:29:16
    - All sounds great! Good luck NK :)
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 18:35:37
    - I'm thus far mono though I think poly relationships are actually more natural I'm just not sure after so many years of conditioning I could ever get over my Catholic guilt enough to enjoy one :oops:
      edn
      02 Jun 2012 18:55:58
    - "edn, post: 2751, member: 4" Ah the good old Catholic guilt! This is a pain in the arse and not a good kind!
      Breda
      04 Jun 2012 12:21:28
    - But having your butt out on a forum is fine? ;) #tease hehehe
      CaraSutra
      04 Jun 2012 13:29:48
    - I consider it therapy for my earlier guilty life!
      edn
      06 Jun 2012 07:05:56
    - "edn, post: 2841, member: 4" And I'm totally find with it!:D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      08 Jun 2012 15:49:02
    - I wonder how many people here would like another partner in addition to the one they already have? I mean an actual partner, not just a fuck buddy, or someone else to 'join in' with sex sometimes.
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 06:24:17
    - I would be happy with the one *sits on shelf getting dusty*
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 09:47:57
    - mawww I am sure you will be snapped up soon x
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 09:54:47
    - More sympathy, more! Or cake. Cake is good too.
      edn
      19 Jun 2012 11:55:54
    - I'm happy being single! I dont know about having a new partner along with the one I already had! One is enough to try and keep! Although thinking about it, the thought has entered my head a few times, it would be nice and difficult at the same time but if everything was open and honest then I dont think there would be a problem.
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:38:40
    - Mmmmm caaaake :) Yes I think the difference comes when people try to think about it as an extension to the relationship they have. With me at least, I have a full relationship with him, and a separate full relationship with her. The two co-exist, they don't necessarily overlap or take away from each other. The fact those two are also together with each other just completes a lovely circle :)
      CaraSutra
      01 Jul 2012 08:11:41
    - That's a nice way of putting it :)
      Breda
      01 Jul 2012 15:35:04
    - Thanks :) As I tweeted last night, I don't like when people use the term 'poly' or 'polyamory' to describe what is actually swinging. Is it multiple actual loves you have, or just multiple fucks? Do you truly love everyone you're fucking? If not then it isn't polyamory IMO. Someone tweeted that the problem with polyamory is the 'daily heartbreak, the new exciting sex, the old boring sex' etc. It isn't like that for me, I don't have daily heartbreak, I trust my partners to respect me and I respect them. That might be her experience with poly (and indeed it came to light she was more into swinging - it was the multi sex partners etc that is causing the issues) but you can't say it is polyamory hat causes daily heartbreak - it is the decisions YOU make, like in any relationship(s). I don't sleep with other people other than them and they the same with me. It's more a poly-fidelity... but sadly I still get people mistaking me for swinger or 'easier' than usual, due to having more than one partner, as if I am then obviously going to open my legs to any/everyone. People have also made the mistake of thinking I won't mind if they 'come on' to one of my partners - er, of course I mind! I love them and they're mine. Yes, I share him with her and her with him, but we're a circle of love and trust, not an invitation to a gang bang or orgy. It's just insulting sometimes. gets off soapbox PS If you're into swinging - great. It isn't for me, but please don't think our relationships are in any way similar.
      CaraSutra
      14 Jul 2012 07:48:30
    - I love your honesty. I love and slightly envy how much love you have in your, what society believes to be, an 'unconventional' lifestyle. Yes it's not for everyone but you make a hell of an excellent argument for your love and your life. If I could find even a little tiny fraction of the love you all have for each other I would be an extremely happy girl. I hope to hear more(it's very exciting to a little girl like me) of your life and your loves! Thank you very much for sharing so much, I appreciate it very much! :)
      Breda
      14 Jul 2012 12:05:58
    - Oh thanks Breda!! :) Glad you find it all so interesting... I know I am very lucky, and it doesn't help but it all just kinda happened! I hope you find the loves and happiness and life you deserve xxx
      CaraSutra
      16 Jul 2012 10:05:14
    - I admire people who can make a poly relationship work. It's something that I'd be open to trying at some point, but I think the fear in the back of my mind would always be that one person would end up being the third wheel, and eventually exit the relationship
      Incendiaire
      18 Jul 2012 22:02:01
    - You're totally right, Cara! I am into swinging but I would never consider it the same as your relationships, when I have a partner and we have sex with other couples, it's just that: sex. I mean, to me the difference is so obvious I don't get how the two things can be compared!:confused:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Jul 2012 21:24:56
    - mono, I am bi but I could only be in a relationship with 1 person, mainly because I want all the attention :shinywiggle: People should be left to freely love who they want to, nothing wrong with a poly relationship, I can see the perks of it but it's not for mee, i'm more of a threesum type of gal. The odd 3rd encounter keeps my sexual curiosity at bay.
      Mrs JoJo
      21 Jul 2012 07:08:58
    - I was just thinking that I'm probably at heart more mono but I need to live my bisexuality to the fullest extent of its... whatever it is. Length? lol For me I need to be in a relationship with a man and a woman, there is something integral to each gender for me that I need and want.. not just body parts! I mean personality traits and things that are great to love and also for support. It was really hard for me to learn how to share and I'm still learning tbh, but in the end I've found it's not really sharing it's more a ... something else. I don't know. I'm not making much sense, but I rather it this way where I'm with her and him, and whatever happens, the sex is within our circle, I really couldnt handle just random sex outside of it, either from me or them. Sorry for the confusing ramble! Lol
      CaraSutra
      24 Jul 2012 18:49:13
    - It's not an affair type situation! Everyone knows and agrees and is happy! That's the main thing! Also Everyone Loves! I love Love!
      Breda
      24 Jul 2012 21:02:52
    - I get you cara x
      Mrs JoJo
      24 Jul 2012 23:06:14
    - I am a mono although I do find a poly relationship interesting. I personally do not think I could make it work, its not easy keeping one partner happy let alone two.xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:36:39
    - I think it is better if you do live together like in our situation, I couldn't find time or means to be travelling all over the place AND have this type of complex emotional set up as well.
      CaraSutra
      06 Dec 2012 09:08:05
    - If there was a situation where a guy was in a poly situation with a girl and another guy but he didnt live with any of them, would that be difficult to keep going or would it create problems in the long run?
      Breda
      07 Dec 2012 18:34:21
    - I say I have an open relationship as unfortunately at the moment I don't have another partner. I would like a girlfriend as well as my boyfriend. I am completely for it, 'nuclear' families are so overrated and are getting rarer.
      Rose Rouge
      20 Dec 2012 12:56:37
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    Cara's Mailbox Highlights
    CaraSutra
    03 May 2012 16:48:24
    - I thought this could be amusing. A place where I share highlights from my inboxes with you to have a giggle at. I logged on to a site today that I hadn't been on in a while, to a mountain of males. Amusing ones follow... *** james,5ft 8 athletic, fair hair blue eyes 6" inches. ? b discreet she kill me.u around sunday, todayx 07407656886 - dont think u can handle me i fuck till u cum txt me lol *** Will you be my Mistress? I will pay to worship your pussy and be your slave? I'm a transvestite slut and I am looking for a woman to wank my cock into my mouth so i eat my own spunk then you piss in my mouth to wash it down, all the time calling me a wanker and filthy cock sucking slag and any other names u can think of I always dress like the slut I am and wear high heels and pink or black mini dress and lepard print thong and you can fuck my ass with your strap-on to show me who is boss I would like to be your online tranny prostitute and you be my pimp to earn you money from my filthy mouth and ass I can also be your pet and you put a collar and lead on me and drag me around like a dog. Your tranny slave TrannyLouisa xxx *** Hi I am interested in certain types of humiliation. I have always wanted a woman to fart in my face and am also messy humiliation including custard pies, food, gunge as well as foot worship.... Would you be interested in any of these at all? Thanks Steve *** [FONT=Verdana][COLOR=#4c006f][/COLOR][/FONT]
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 16:48:24
    - Wow that's funny :-) I'm amazed at the first one! When exactly did the English language, and writing/spelling correctly die? Xx
      Elizabeth_s_b
      03 May 2012 17:38:30
    - "Elizabeth_s_b, post: 1816, member: 71" I thought exactly the same thing, and I'm not even a native speaker! :D And, with all due respect to everyone's fantasies and fetishes, the fart one is hilarious!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 21:48:56
    - lol glad you like! This morning I wake to... hi maam, did u ever see my ass shake video i made lol
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 08:46:08
    - Okay, I'm so keeping an eye on this thread. The world amazes me some times!
      Kera
      06 May 2012 20:30:06
    - On ma kneels boss! Is it posible 2 serve u from were I am.... Is possible 2 eat all ur shit everyday! Wanna serve u forever!!! ~despairs~
      CaraSutra
      07 May 2012 07:37:25
    - :eek::eek::eek:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      09 May 2012 12:00:57
    - Was that English? :confused:
      Kera
      09 May 2012 13:20:31
    - lol! They are so terrible. I don't check all my mailboxes every day, only on days I can handle the assault on our lovely language!
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 14:57:10
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1978, member: 1"]On ma kneels boss! Is it posible 2 serve u from were I am.... Is possible 2 eat all ur shit everyday! Wanna serve u forever!!! ~despairs~[/quote] WHAT!!!!!!!????????? I'm in hysterics laughing!!!!!!!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 16:02:30
    - [LEFT][FONT=lucida grande]'Hi Cara , My name is Chris. If you have a chance and could , call me at : 00 - 1 - ( 717 ) - 686 - 3920 . I have some great questions for you. Also I would like to know if it is normal to last for 2 hours in bed when you love a women . This happen to me 3 times with the same women a in a one week hook up. Last year in January. She told me that no matter what women I would go out with ,that that women would be the luckiest women on earth to have me. Tamela then said that she was impressed by how I was able to take care of her needs. So I just thought to get your point of view on this. Thanks :~) '[/FONT][/LEFT]
      CaraSutra
      11 May 2012 19:24:06
    - Women? ~Sigh~
      Breda
      12 May 2012 19:42:36
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1978, member: 1"]On ma kneels boss! Is it posible 2 serve u from were I am.... Is possible 2 eat all ur shit everyday! Wanna serve u forever!!! ~despairs~[/quote] LAUGHING. 'ma kneels boss'! Hahaha, I don't know why but this line struck me as utterly hilarious. XD
      t A
      16 May 2012 03:57:15
    - This just amused me a lot: 'I see that your Ladyship enjoys CBT and electrotorture. You certainly look like a passionate lady who loves to cause severe pain in the testicles. It would be a privilege to have my peasant balls fried by your Ladyship. '
      CaraSutra
      16 May 2012 09:37:47
    - Oh Cara please stop, I have a chest infection and laughing hurts xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      16 May 2012 17:46:45
    - 'Peasant balls' ?! Never heard that before lol!
      Pixie-Murree
      17 May 2012 18:16:23
    - Ah peasant balls! I know a few of them!!!!! :rofl:
      Breda
      18 May 2012 09:46:25
    - hehehehehe :D
      CaraSutra
      18 May 2012 10:02:17
    - I think out of all of it "peasant balls" may be my favourite bit...
      NymphetamineKiss
      18 May 2012 18:59:50
    - They sound like some kind of exotic delicacy lol Poached or fried? Garlic butter anyone?
      CaraSutra
      20 May 2012 09:14:58
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 2482, member: 1"]They sound like some kind of exotic delicacy lol Poached or fried? Garlic butter anyone?[/quote] :rofl::rofl:OMG, I'm laughing so hard my jaw is sore!!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 May 2012 14:22:52
    - Ohgosh, peasant balls. I'm laughing too much, haha.
      t A
      27 May 2012 04:33:32
    - Hmmmm :( 'oohh...are you pregnant now? Can I see your pregnant naked photo?'
      CaraSutra
      27 May 2012 08:38:48
    - ... There are odd people about some times..
      Kera
      27 May 2012 20:47:12
    - Ok my ex used to just lavish me with massive attention when I was pregnant, that's what women want, not some weirdo! That stuff makes me so mad.
      Breda
      27 May 2012 21:47:17
    - Another on Facebook to my inbox... 'How much for a night with you ?' I don't think he means playing chess :/
      CaraSutra
      29 May 2012 08:23:27
    - It's getting better (read: worse) Cara, isn't it? [quote="CaraSutra, post: 2621, member: 1"]Another on Facebook to my inbox... 'How much for a night with you ?' I don't think he means playing chess :/[/quote] If it's any comfort to you, I was asked the same question. Only, by my ex.
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      29 May 2012 18:15:36
    - OMG! Your ex? Well that just shows how pathetic they are! Today's... 'Hi Cara. Quick question for you? Are you a porn star?' I mean seriously, do I seem like a porn star? :/
      CaraSutra
      30 May 2012 09:34:14
    - Ha ha, some of them are so funny, its just amazing the kind of stuff people send. Are they serious or do they just do it for attention or something? lol
      uksrob
      30 May 2012 10:53:07
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 2577, member: 1"]Hmmmm :( 'oohh...are you pregnant now? Can I see your pregnant naked photo?'[/quote] Yes, of course, because your existence is only for his entertainment, right... Sigh.
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:30:50
    - Exactly NK - some people think I'm just for their entertainment! Ha! Reminds me of this song, Pink, naturally!! [media=youtube]YUtHjOvPKT0[/media]
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 11:45:36
    - These are so amusing Cara, I am sure we all get a few odd messages sometimes on Twitter or in our emails if we have blogs but these are some of the funniets I have read, I had one once which was literally 'will you come and sit on my face' erm.... no, but thanks for considering me
      Boobaloo
      04 Jun 2012 07:31:13
    - Omg!! some of these are funny as hell but the others are just hmm lol
      BrummieGal
      04 Jun 2012 08:09:02
    - I agree Boobaloo, I think though in Fetish you are more likely to get some of the more... extreme messages lol Reminds me, I really should log into Fetlife again this week...
      CaraSutra
      04 Jun 2012 13:34:18
    - Oh please do, I want new funny messages!:D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      04 Jun 2012 14:25:16
    - 'WWOULD LIKE TO COME TO YOU FOR FOOT WORSHIP FIRST ITME. IF I LIKE YOU,WILL BE VERY REGULAR. PLS SEND ME YOUR MOBILE AND POST CODE.' Er... yeah.
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 14:39:46
    - 'hello mistress, i am sex mad 33yrs old & have a bet with my girl friend, she wants me to see someone for chastity key hold who lives very far from me & will only take it off early for a crazy high price. please let me know price for 8 weeks. best jay'
      CaraSutra
      16 Jun 2012 14:40:38
    - HAHAHAHAHA fantastic :)
      Demonic
      16 Jun 2012 16:03:25
    - 'hiya, my girl kat has a idea, please let us know what you think. how would you like me as your prioner for a month? i would be 100% under your control 24/7 & must not say no to anything. thats all kat will say, its up to you what you do with me. im up for it, what ever make kat happy is good for me. please let us know what you think & cost to us, we hope you might like this idea. im jay 33yrs english & kat with the wicked mind is 28yrs english. all the best j&k'
      CaraSutra
      17 Jun 2012 10:53:22
    - ' hey is a Norwegian slavinde who could imagine in the world 24 / 7 latex object, latex maid girl. do you want to and be better known. we can chat a bit. have msn or yahoo'
      CaraSutra
      17 Jun 2012 12:46:00
    - LOL dictionary.com and better yet right click - spell check read a book FUCK :p
      Demonic
      17 Jun 2012 13:27:52
    - 'u r cara the slut.' Lovely!
      CaraSutra
      19 Jun 2012 06:23:06
    - That's nice! Not!
      Breda
      19 Jun 2012 14:51:28
    - So lazy can't even say an insult with some feeling just a worthless excuse of a human that was the result of a 6 pack, backseat, and an egg with a sperm nugget wedged in. Stop breeding already bleh :eek:
      Demonic
      20 Jun 2012 17:33:46
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 3105, member: 1"]'u r cara the slut.' Lovely![/quote] Awwwwwwww!!!!!:oops: :oops::oops:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      27 Jun 2012 13:22:37
    - 'Mistress! You are so hot and powerful please am i worthy enough to surve you while on all fours and cleaning your heels with my tongue. X' 'surve'? ~delete~
      CaraSutra
      29 Jun 2012 16:43:37
    - 'Mistrses can I be your commercial slave? I can take my naked pictures with a note saying im your sissy slave? and you can use it on your profile as well? and mistress you can pimp me out if you want specially to boys at cam :) I can do strip to them and you earn some money ?'
      CaraSutra
      31 Jul 2012 16:08:52
    - 'Wow! hot...(but you know that don't you?) shame your so far away, MAJOR FUCKING fail )0: Daniel x' I fail at being local apparently. lol
      CaraSutra
      31 Jul 2012 16:09:59
    - These are hilarious!
      Mrs JoJo
      31 Jul 2012 16:15:22
    - 'my lips and your ass should meet......id love to suck you mistress x'
      CaraSutra
      31 Jul 2012 16:24:07
    - 'you are so so sexy, and i wanna fuck with you! you are a pig!' 'hi i think you are lovely can you send me a nude pic please.....ta'
      CaraSutra
      31 Jul 2012 20:27:05
    - do these people not understand the concept of a domme/mistress lol
      Mrs JoJo
      31 Jul 2012 21:51:18
    - :rofl:
      Breda
      01 Aug 2012 18:15:02
    - lol nope. Today? "Hi there i am a male to female Sissy with a fetish to wear M&S ,Indigo and Per Una clothes outdoors and be laughed at by Women. Please message back if i could be used or collared and exposed. Thanks" Is it bad I was more offended at the choice of brands? Does he have any taste?? lol
      CaraSutra
      06 Aug 2012 11:03:54
    - Could be worse. He could have said he had a fetish for the clothes from Primark and Matalan.
      Sir LBC
      06 Aug 2012 11:16:08
    - ~shudders~
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2012 10:12:14
    - "care to explain why in some of your pics you are clearly the slave?" - right, because a love of bondage and even merely being provocative in photographs is proof I'm not a 'twoo domme' lol ~shakes head~
      CaraSutra
      14 Aug 2012 10:14:08
    - 'hi i am egyptian i saw your pic i swear i was amazed about your beauty plz add me and accept me as slave lover friend and husband if u like i swear i m not joking if u accepet I am ready t be you slave and husband rest of my life plz give me just a chance to proof i am realistic i am 27 years old accountant egyptian searching for my other half having same interests like me a woman that love to be a mistress to one man and one man only from my reading of your profile i felt that u like femdom and to be a dominatrix am i right ? i hope so please just give me a chance in few words i want to start new life with you i swear on that do n't you believe in love from first sight just give and youself a chance i am waiting for your answer hear this with your heart not with you extraordinary eyes i want to marry you if we understand each other i swear'
      CaraSutra
      28 Aug 2012 12:09:38
    - As an addendum, I replied to the guy above: 'Yes! I like femdom! How amazingly perceptive you are! Also, of course I would love to marry you, it won't be a bother that I am going to give birth to my partner's baby in 8 weeks, will it? Also this is obviously not a copy paste message that you send to everyone even remotely attractive in the hope of one day getting some sex. If you had bothered to find out anything about Me, beyond seeing the shiny clothing and My face, you wouldn't have even bothered messaging. You would already know you don't stand a fucking chance. '
      CaraSutra
      28 Aug 2012 12:29:59
    - This is why you dont mess with the Madam!
      Breda
      28 Aug 2012 21:39:47
    - :) thanks lol
      CaraSutra
      29 Aug 2012 12:25:04
    - Lately I've been getting marriage proposals and invites to swinger clubs and all sorts! They haven't found out that much about me, obviously :/
      CaraSutra
      06 Sep 2012 12:44:45
    - "Hi would you wanna chat :) am looking to be some1z slave x" some1z? how lazy! lol
      CaraSutra
      07 Sep 2012 05:09:10
    - I watched a programme about swingers in Ireland, apparently it's very popular! Also dogging is becoming as popular. Dont think either would be my cup of tea!
      Breda
      08 Sep 2012 16:31:47
    - 'Hi,Misstress Cara Sutra.My name is Gerard Dalenoort,and i loved domination verymuch,and touching when you have leather cloads on and highheeled leather boots on your feeds.I need to kiss this boots,and licked the high pin heel,and toke this into my mouth.I loved long leather coats verymuch,and leather womengloves.I'l hoped that you have some kind of information enough.'
      CaraSutra
      10 Sep 2012 11:44:26
    - I just sneezed after reading that! ~rolls eyes~
      Breda
      10 Sep 2012 12:06:00
    - Reading these, makes me lose faith in humanity..
      Kera
      10 Sep 2012 17:45:15
    - Wow... Just Wow. Not often I am lost for words but today I am speechless. This just shows me how uninformed and plain stupid some people can be. I honestly didn't realize being a fem dom meant slut or hooker =s *Shakes head* Unbelievable!! Thank you for sharing though and know what you mean about braving yourself for these, some of these messages are awful and down right weird.xx
      02dohvia
      01 Dec 2012 22:08:33
    - I know! Some people are just rude or weird, or both! lol
      CaraSutra
      04 Dec 2012 09:48:04
    - 'hi . i was wondering could you help me out with overcoming porn addiction by having me in chastity device and you holding the keys and we meet 2 times a month for 6months for my release ? also i have to report any kind of breach of not surfing for porn or even visiting other domme or even prostate massage and for each i receive punishment which we agreed on? how would that work? what is your price? thanks '
      CaraSutra
      17 Dec 2012 21:04:52
    - 'Hi, how u doing? I have a massive foot fetish, just wanted to ask before I book a session, your size feet size and how much u can make feet stinky and sweaty as possible? Cheers '
      CaraSutra
      03 Jan 2013 15:24:26
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    Ask me anything...
    CaraSutra
    24 May 2012 10:42:53
    - Looking for more questions to answer in my Ask Cara area of my site. So if you have anything you would like advice on, or would simply like to see me answer.... Please reply here and I'll get to work! If you would like to stay anonymous, that is NO problem at all. Drop me a message here or email [email]cara@carasutra.co.uk[/email] and let me know it's anonymous. Thanks everyone! Cara x
      CaraSutra
      24 May 2012 10:42:53
    - Finally! An official pale to ask you Mistress :) Questions 1) what do you think about mental chastity (without any device) ? 2) what do you think about castration fantasy, ( I mean only talking about it, and threatening) ? 3) All subs are being called "losers". Do you thinkit's bad thing or a sub doesn't have to be a loser?
      Denied Boy
      12 Sep 2012 06:37:24
    - I will answer these with a post on My website later, thanks for the questions... :)
      CaraSutra
      12 Sep 2012 08:32:25
    - Didn't get a chance to answer those on my Mistress site yet what with the baby nearly being due and other life things, sorry! I have however written a post at CaraSutra.co.uk today about communication with your partner if you have problems... http://carasutra.co.uk/2012/10/a-problem-with-your-partner-tell-them/
      CaraSutra
      23 Oct 2012 10:41:43
    - Okay a tad personal but here goes. Since having my LO(little one) I can't do anal anymore due to piles a plague of pregnancy I hear. Would like to carry on my anal adventure but don't see how it would be possible. Do you have any advice on this matter a bit stumped and disappointed xx
      02dohvia
      08 Nov 2012 15:12:51
    - First of all sorry to hear this! I assume you have tried the creams etc you can buy to get rid of them? If you had you LO recently then don't put pressure on yourself, your body needs time to heal. For me personally I am still in the process of getting everything working normally again! Not rushing it, you can't do anything sexually until your body is ready. x
      CaraSutra
      09 Nov 2012 15:02:58
    - Bi-curious girl in need of arse kicking to get over the curious bit, help, please? Also it's depressing me now cause I dont know where to go and what to do or how to do it and I'm fecking 29 years old now and it's about fecking time I got in touch with this side of me that I hide. Sincerely, Confused and Depressed.
      Breda
      18 Nov 2012 21:43:13
    - Aw - I will write a post about this for you as soon as I have a moment :)
      CaraSutra
      22 Nov 2012 11:04:57
    - Dont put yourself under any pressure :) Thanks for reading it.
      Breda
      22 Nov 2012 12:31:55
    - Hope this is ok! http://carasutra.co.uk/2012/11/ask-cara-how-do-i-find-a-girl-to-satisfy-my-bi-curious-desires/
      CaraSutra
      27 Nov 2012 18:08:26
    - Awesome :) Thank you
      Breda
      27 Nov 2012 18:57:37
    - Cara as you know I've been very single for almost 2 years. I was hurt pretty bad and decided the best thing was to look after me. This last year I have worked really hard on myself, lots of therapy and I decided that while I was working on me I was going to stay single. I have got to thinking that after all that hard work it was time that I got back out there but after being single for so long it is rather scary! Do you have any advice for getting back into the dating game? Or any advice in general would be good. Thanks for taking the time. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      25 Feb 2013 19:56:14
    - No problem! I will do a response post asap for you xxx Good luck
      CaraSutra
      27 Feb 2013 18:36:20
    - I thought this question might be good, seeing as some of us are mummies and some may have had this issue; Q: After having a baby, my sex drive took a massive nose dive and not in a good sense. It took me a good 18 months to get back into the grove of things and even then, it felt like a major chore. What would you advise those mummies out there, who are in the non-sexual slam and how to give that drive a major kick up the bum?
      Mrs JoJo
      19 Mar 2013 09:41:27
    - My dick is only 5 inches. I'm having lack of confidence due to that. Would some girls would like to have sex with 5 inched person?
      Jacob Spott
      12 Apr 2013 19:40:49
    - I have my own man with a penis to have sex with and it's bigger than that - so I'm all ok thanks! lol
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2013 14:10:13
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    Male sex life tablets & herbal viagra
    CaraSutra
    29 Apr 2013 11:41:49
    - Do they work? What are your experiences? I am reviewing some today but wanted to hear if anyone has seen any noticeable effects or if any effects are merely psychosomatic... Help!
      CaraSutra
      29 Apr 2013 11:41:49
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    Is wanting to have sex inappropriate?
    CaraSutra
    12 May 2013 20:12:04
    - I mean in certain situations. Like this week we've been through a family bereavement as some of you may know. But my partner and I still have sexual desire and in fact had great sex last night, even though it felt wildly inappropriate. I felt quite guilty about enjoying sex with him at such a difficult time, even though it's both natural and an expression of our closeness. Was it weird, freaky and wrong?
      CaraSutra
      12 May 2013 20:12:04
    - I was sorry to hear about the bereavement Cara. My thoughts are with you all. I think it is a very personal thing and at a time like this then emotions are pretty raw and even though it shouldn't, sex could be great. If it feels right for both of you then who is anyone to say different. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      20 May 2013 18:45:17
    - Thanks minxy :) I guess there's just always guilt feeling anything sexual or pleasurable at such a sad time for everyone... :/
      CaraSutra
      23 May 2013 12:18:14
    - I think that when emotions are high then sex can be fantastic, I don't think either of you should feel guilty. What better way to show your partner how much you love them. x
      PrincessRaggydoll
      25 May 2013 18:14:35
    - I think it's beautiful. it spices things up to have such a pleasure in difficult times
      Denied Boy
      03 Jun 2013 08:02:16
    - I don't think it's inappropriate at all. You can't deny yourself something positive in such a negative situation.
      Chili
      13 Jun 2013 14:08:25
    - My partner went through these same thoughts when he lost his stepdad recently. He felt rather upset one night after we had been intimate and told me he felt like he should not be doing this as it almost felt disrespectful to his step dad. I also felt like he wanted to get close and be intimate with me during those times because he wanted to feel something other than sadness, he wanted to feel love and a connection with the person he shares his emotions with so much at a time when he was feeling so fragile. This conflict inside his mind, played there for about a week or two after his loss. I do not think it was inappropriate, I felt like I WANTED to give him love, be as close him him as possible and make him feel good for a short period of time when everything else was painful. I can understand why anyone would feel strange about it though, during those intensely emotional times when they are looking back and thinking this and that and what if. My partner said it felt very selfish to feel like having sex at this time. Of course he also felt like he wanted to and almost needed to. Does that make any sense? I guess this is something we would all feel during grief. I think this is normal. It did pass when his grief moved forward a little from the intensity during the time.
      GrittyWoman
      13 Jun 2013 23:34:02
    - Thanks for the reply. Yes comfort is gained in different ways and I think in a rel it's natural to turn to the closest intimate bonding which can be sex, to put it bluntly. It's passed now but at the time it was difficult, just like you explained. x
      CaraSutra
      15 Jun 2013 10:47:36
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    A funny experience.
    Chili
    13 Jun 2013 14:13:15
    - Thought I would share a bit of a funny story with you all. On meeting up with my partner for the first time, we decided to go for a drink which then eventually led to me going back to his. We had spoken about wanting a D/S relationship but it was still alarming we embarked on that as soon as we got back to his. Anyway, the funny part is that I was grinding up against when we were asleep in the night (apparently I do that!). He thought I was doing it deliberately and decided he needed to fuck me. Except he got the wrong hole and I was so relaxed because I was half asleep, he didn't notice at first! He was mortified when I revealed I was asleep afterwards and we laugh about it now. I wouldn't normally have anal on the first date!
      Chili
      13 Jun 2013 14:13:15
    - Hahaha brilliant! So cute that you're a sleep humper :p Good job you explained you don't normally allow all that... I do love to be woken WITH sex though, but like you say, not on a first date and not anal! hahaha
      CaraSutra
      15 Jun 2013 10:52:32
    - I am a regular sleep humper I think! I have to say, I hate being woken up with sex. I am so grumpy when I first wake up that I cannot be spoken to.
      Chili
      17 Jun 2013 10:42:07
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    Do you use condoms?
    CaraSutra
    09 Apr 2012 20:47:11
    - ... or are they too intrusive?
      CaraSutra
      09 Apr 2012 20:47:11
    - I have not found any type of condom that won't react to me, and Master isn't keen on the feel of them, but both He and I are clean (we wouldn't have started anything if we weren't!)
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 15:29:32
    - Oh have you got a latex allergy? :/ Yeah I am not keen on them either, obviously would use if necessary but I'm in a relationship too where we've all been checked out and if contraceptive is required I can take the pill which I much prefer.
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:37:39
    - I have a variation of a latex allergy, so try stay away from most things with latex in. As for contraception I have the implant, which I'll have til 2014, after that I have no idea what I'll go onto, as I can have rather bad moodswings with it, I'm not too keen on the coil, and forget about the pill after the first week! Though it is highly unlikely that Master will bear children at any point, so contraception might not be needed and will be a serious conversation W/we will have at some point in the future.
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 15:46:11
    - Aww good luck with that. Not sure if you want any/more and not prying either :) I was considering the implant and/or the coil before I became pregnant but knew I really, really wanted another... we both did... didn't think I could tho! Anyway I am bad now and going wayyy off topic lol someone spank me :p
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:55:28
    - I guess I'm the opposite, I wouldn't want to engage in penetrative sex without one, partly to lower the risk of diseases, but also from a hygiene standpoint. There's certain things inside the body that I don't want making contact with my skin, or else I'd be like Lady MacBeth, constantly scrubbing away and never feeling clean. For oral, no, who wants to suck on a bit of rubber?
      Incendiaire
      10 Apr 2012 16:20:46
    - well unless it's a dildo gag and you're a sub I guess ... ~whistles nonchalantly~ ;) omg I am terrible for going OT!
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 16:29:58
    - I'd not want to suck on a condom, I'd probably break out on sores or something! (and as for gags, find one that fits around an 18inch head and I might be able to fit into one)
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 16:36:28
    - me and the mister dont use them, im on the pill to stop any mini me's. we did at the start of the relationship though but once we had been together a while and had both had clear test for stds dont really see the point in using them as sex really is soooooooooooo much better with out them. i also think it kinda makes you feel more close to each other then sex with them. however new relationships and anything else then its bagged! if been ill and the pill might not work then its bagged and if i cant be on the pill for medical reasons like ops then its bagged. Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 16:53:47
    - [quote="Kera, post: 48, member: 3"]I'd not want to suck on a condom, I'd probably break out on sores or something! (and as for gags, find one that fits around an 18inch head and I might be able to fit into one)[/quote] is that a challenge :D
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:32:39
    - @Diamonds AHA 'bagged' love it! Not heard it called that before, at school it was 'using an umbrella' lols ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:33:24
    - "CaraSutra, post: 89, member: 1" Could be! Master has been looking for one but hasn't found one yet that I won't wriggle out of when squirming lots ;)
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:36:32
    - naughty girl! :dominatrix: lols I'll look around and see if I can find anything, I know the Crave range (the purple ones) by Spartacus was good for smaller heads and the gag for smaller mouths... x
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:38:25
    - "CaraSutra, post: 90, member: 1" i normally say wrapped :P but couldnt think of that word when replying lol. i look forward to the day when it dont have to be wrapped and i dont have to be on anything to stop mini me's :P ;-) :)
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:39:30
    - I can't help being very responsive! but enough hi-jacking the thread
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:43:11
    - I'm the same as D, when you're in a long term relationship and both clean and as long as there's another form of birth control, i'm extremely happy not using them, never been keen on the feel to be honest!
      Morbidia
      10 Apr 2012 18:12:07
    - We don't but then ED means we dont really need to, as for mini me's I have 2 already but another wouldnt be an issue. I cannot use hormone based contraceptives- have a clotting problem xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 20:34:36
    - :condom: haha im such a child at times i know!
      Diamonds
      11 Apr 2012 10:09:34
    - no, as said as long as in long term relationship and both faithfull and clean then can see no reason too as plenty of birth control out there, to me i cant stand them
      rach74
      11 Apr 2012 11:46:45
    - [quote="Diamonds, post: 252, member: 7"]:condom: haha im such a child at times i know![/quote] AHahahaha I love this emote too!! :D
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 12:48:17
    - "CaraSutra, post: 45, member: 1" .....It's on my list :D nom nom!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 11:25:37
    - Yup haven't used them for....oooh...9-10 years but then I've been on the pill and haven't slept with another bloke so....if we did happen to split up, I would of course use them again, not that I ever liked them.
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 11:28:46
    - Dont really have a great deal of choice on this one at the moment, since missus Spartan had some problems with the pill and we have been discussing other options... BUT, have had some fun trying out different types of condom and seeing what sort of "feeling" is had. we've had some giggles with some of them: ticklers, glow in the dark, novelty, etc... sometimes it can most definitely take the edge off the moment... But foreplay without the condom gets us where we need to go...so no rubber munching etc... :bj:;)...
      Spartan
      17 Apr 2012 21:48:37
    - Personally, I hate them, some of them make me sting, it's not good! Awful things, but they are of good use. If I was meeting someone new and was about to have sex with that person then I'd have to either bring my own condoms or suggest he do it.
      Breda
      17 Apr 2012 22:34:33
    - @Spartan - Haha rubber munching... good that you've used it as an opportunity to experience different types and keep the fun rather than seeing it as a chore :) @Breda - a lot of women now carry condoms around with them which I think is a great sign of how far we've progressed in society. If I were single I'd definitely have them in my purse! I don't like using them but sometimes it's just got to be done, unfortunately.
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 13:00:24
    - The whole idea of having to put a condom on just as your ready to get going is so off putting. But yes they are something that needs to be done and we have to look after our bodies!
      Breda
      18 Apr 2012 21:57:52
    - I use condoms when I have to and yes, sex isn't exactly the same but I've never noticed a big loss of sensitivity. But when in a serious relationship, I prefer the vaginal ring, of course after we've both been tested for STDs ;).
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Apr 2012 17:11:29
    - I used to, but now I have the IUD. At the moment I am only with one person so don't use condoms as well.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 14:00:19
    - "Breda, post: 1084, member: 40" I know many people who find it off putting, and I've always wondered why. I mean...it just takes a couple of seconds!:) But when you've been using condoms for two years you probably just get used to the whole idea. Or maybe I'm just weird! :D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      21 Apr 2012 15:35:33
    - "Kiss_of_Crimson, post: 1176, member: 46" nope...as I stated in my previous post...dont have a lot of choice at the moment...but myself and Mrs S. have discussed this at great length and she gets a great kick out of teasing/tempting me when she is able to put one on myself...and I have to say it can be done quite erotically by my O/H. bless her. and like you say when I have to put one on it takes seconds...if the moment demands!!;)
      Spartan
      22 Apr 2012 19:07:22
    - Oh yeah, it can be an interesting moment! ;)
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      22 Apr 2012 22:27:51
    - if we require no mess then yeh we do, only prob is that its really hard work getting me to cum with 1 on sarah has normally cums 2-3x by the time i get there and it just doesnt feel the same as not having 1 on and female condoms just hurt after 2 min they just use the complete wrong lube in them things or just not enough we got a big pack a wile ago for £40 and just ended up using them for bum fun in the end haha we found a better use for them as they are gd for toys just not man lol
      bessy
      23 Apr 2012 08:28:15
    - Uhm, yes... female condoms seem so uncomfortable!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      23 Apr 2012 22:13:23
    - Has anyone seen those condoms with the added 'flange'... so funny
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 08:58:13
    - post link cara :)
      bessy
      24 Apr 2012 13:33:15
    - Oh it was these - Harlot and Chayat were using them ages ago and we all rolled round the bed when we read the writing on the back, with added flange - took one out, it was like a carrier bag! hahaha
      CaraSutra
      24 Apr 2012 14:10:10
    - I can't use them, they make me itch and some sting :confused:
      Kate
      02 May 2012 10:55:26
    - Awww, maybe a latex allergy?
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      02 May 2012 14:16:26
    - "Kate, post: 1715, member: 83" I have the same problem! It's not nice at all.
      Breda
      02 May 2012 18:39:10
    - We use condoms as every hormonal contraceptive we have tried seriously disagrees with Lucy. Lucy is sensitive to latex as well, so we tried a variety of non-latex condoms before finding the Mates Skyn condoms, which are made of a unique material they call sensoprene (but which is known chemically as polyisoprene) and are by a large margin the best feeling condoms I have ever tried. Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      02 May 2012 18:59:06
    - I do use condoms sometimes, but usually with my bf I don't we are both clean and he doesn't like the feel of them. It does take him longer to come when wearing a condom so I guess that's a good feature for some longer sex. When with other people I always do it safe, just as precaution and I think it's a good habit to do so. With oral I just can't imagine sucking a condom, even with added 'flavor' Yeah would be just too weird for me.
      Rose
      03 May 2012 06:33:47
    - I am not keen on sucking condoms either, I prefer the real thing! ;) Flavoured lube on a girl is nice, that however is an entirely different subject... lol
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2012 15:00:44
    - Ewww! condom when doing a blowjob, GAWK!
      Breda
      03 May 2012 15:09:05
    - Oh no, not when doing a blowjob!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      03 May 2012 21:46:27
    - yeh it doesnt settle to well with sarah ether but she also doesnt like the idea of me cumming in her mouth so never had that feeling well let her go at her own pace although it is abit backwards shes fine riming
      bessy
      10 May 2012 08:58:28
    - I don't with Master as I'm on the pill and we're fluid-bonded. With my other "something" as we keep referring to him, I do. If either of us sleep with anyone additionally, we do. Not for oral though, as others have said.
      NymphetamineKiss
      14 May 2012 00:55:32
    - For the first 6 months-ish we used a condom, we are both clean and trust each other but children wasnt on the menu at that time, but for the past 18 months-ish we have not used a condom, neither of us like the feel of them, especially me since i'm the one who has to wear one, it feels restrictive and tight and i'm not as turned on with one as i am without one. So i have not used one in a long, long time but i never cum inside her and i know the chances of pregnancy are still there but so far we have been lucky lol besides i love to cum all over her face and boobs and she loves it too ;)
      Scott
      14 May 2012 15:27:25
    - I don't like condoms, to be honest. I've got a huge cum-kink and not being able to have that is just... bluhhhh. I don't even use female condoms. So no, I don't use any. :)
      t A
      16 May 2012 04:01:42
    - I only wear if I'm asked I like cleaning my cum out after with my tongue ;-)
      tony
      12 Jun 2012 12:18:55
    - "tony, post: 2938, member: 137" creampies or felching? lol
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 10:05:01
    - But please, please... always use a condom for occasional sex or with a new partner! I once caught an STD (a treatable one, fortunately) because I was on the pill and thought "come on, it can't happen to me!".
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Jul 2012 21:31:21
    - I've apparently been sent some new condom samples to test out for a company and to help with their marketing (I know, me with condoms right now, hilarious) but they've been sent to the other house so will get them brought up at the weekend. If nothing else it will be cushioning for my already poorly cervix!!
      CaraSutra
      24 Jul 2012 18:52:39
    - "CaraSutra, post: 3428, member: 1" Please be careful!
      Breda
      24 Jul 2012 21:06:22
    - I've always found condoms intrusive, and to this day prefer other versions of contraception, preferably the pill or something that doesn't also require me wearing one of the things! There's a reason for this. My penis isn't very sensitive. The rest of my body is hypersensitive, but my penis isn't! I can get hard and wank myself off by pulling back my foreskin no problem. And sex isn't a problem either. But even the thinnest of condoms (and I've tried some - Durex real feel, crystal ones, natura - although I have yet to try SKYN) have the same effect on me; I am very aware I'm wearing one. It's a different sensation from sex au naturel, and sometimes I barely feel anything. Of course, this inhibits my ability to orgasm. However, it could be worse. First time I had sex I used a branded condom promoted by a band (although I won't say which). It was so thick, the only sensation I had was "like dipping my penis in warm water". So I'm glad it hasn't been like that again.
      Innocent Loverboy
      24 Oct 2012 14:48:51
    - Thanks Breda. They were actually really good, as you can see from my review here. I do prefer sex without a condom, I don't know many who don't. But I am glad that there are so many different types available now depending on your needs and preferences. Strange to hear of a guy with a not so sensitive penis, InnocentLoverboy! Usually with men it's the most sensitive part isn't it :)
      CaraSutra
      03 Nov 2012 14:56:48
    - I do not use them out of preference with my OH but if I wasn't in a long term relationship I would until sexual health has been established xx
      02dohvia
      08 Nov 2012 15:29:25
    - Back on using condoms at the moment until I sort contraception again, now it's after baby! Using the Billy Boy (Twitter: @BangOnBilly) ones that I received and didn't obviously use all 22 or whatever of them when I was reviewing lol. I think I will eventually get the coil though for long term contraception, I prefer the flesh to flesh feel!
      CaraSutra
      22 Nov 2012 16:09:00
    - I decided on coil after my little was born and haven't stopped spotting yet, it's been 10 weeks... Not an issue as we still have sex, but I want to take little one swimming and can't, so frustrating xx
      02dohvia
      30 Nov 2012 10:56:45
    - I've been using condoms recently and have reviewed quite a few on my blog. There is also a new competition to win free Durex goody bags here :)
      CaraSutra
      21 Feb 2013 10:42:21
    - If I'm in a LTR and we are both clean then I'd rather go without using a condom. In a new relationship it will be covered or he ain't going anywhere near me! I will not be taking the chance of falling pregnant. My implant is due to get changed next month, can't believe that is 3 years I've had it. So much easier than the pill. And if a guy asks if you are on the pill and you say no, it isn't exactly lying ;)
      PrincessRaggydoll
      25 Feb 2013 14:02:36
    - Well, in my relationship with my hand, I dont use it :stroke: but when i hook up with a lady, I dont use it for handjob or blowjob, but if i got lucky to fuck i use it. in fact i hate condoms, i never managed to stay hard and put it on i dont know why
      Denied Boy
      03 Jun 2013 08:45:24
    - Hehe relationship with my hand - that made me giggle!!
      CaraSutra
      03 Jun 2013 09:25:16
    - LOL
      Denied Boy
      03 Jun 2013 21:04:52
    - Well I am back on using condoms for a while ... pill ran out and I need to organise to get more! So I guess I will be back testing the rubbers out... Not my favourite choice for contraceptive I must say.
      CaraSutra
      12 Jun 2013 08:31:52
    - I don't use them with my partner but occasionally we choose to. Whether it's to do with my period or another reason. I have to say, I actually quite like them. I like the feel of them and find them quite kinky, probably due to what they're made out of.
      Chili
      13 Jun 2013 14:07:18
    - Someone has a latex fetish! ;)
      CaraSutra
      15 Jun 2013 11:10:45
    - I do!!
      Chili
      17 Jun 2013 10:41:05
    - Do you like rubber gloves too :)
      CaraSutra
      17 Jun 2013 12:36:29
    - Black ones!
      Chili
      19 Jun 2013 19:46:47
    - I personally dont use them. I find them a bit of a passion killer and get dry very fast :/ Luckly both me and my partner are STD free and im on the implant :) xxx Personally preference though. Currently trying to get my younger sister to use them when she starts as she reckons that because she has the implant she be ok but her boyfriend has had sex before soo a on going battle lol
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jun 2013 17:30:29
    - I think condoms are horrible. Yes the feeling of assured health and very high chance of not reproducing seems calming but who wants to be calm? Every touch, feel or lick feels better without it (from a male perspective) and the only reason I would tell someone to use it is if the man has some durational problems.
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 19:16:33
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    For men who really want a bigger penis
    CaraSutra
    01 Apr 2013 14:14:07
    - I wrote this Ask Cara advice blog post today! How to get a bigger penis. :condom: Enjoy
      CaraSutra
      01 Apr 2013 14:14:07
    - Since no other boys rise his hand, i will dare to. i would love a bigger penis! (i will not say my measurement:oops2:) but, this idea have chance in recently. IN my vanilla life i have no desire to enlarge my penis at all, but because i am so Indulged into BDSM, I wanted that to secertly fight back all SPH :( then something happen that changed my mind toatall in this area, I watched a clip of a very respected Domme (Mistress T) where she humiliates the hell of a slave with a monster cock! she degrades him because he has such a huge cock! i was shocked. and later I understand
      Denied Boy
      03 Jun 2013 08:39:57
    - looking at a sexy lady's body is all i need lol
      nickessex
      03 Jun 2013 19:35:00
    - I would have to say no. Yes the thought of it seems always nice, and I personaly wouldn't mind, but I believe my size to be more then aduquate enough. A penis which is too big can harm the women more then it can please her (even though I know some ladies on this site love the thought of harm). In a perfect world I would love a bigger penis but since we can't always choose our sexual partners according to our fetishes I would have to say that I like my size. People with too big of a deal can also never have that incredibly fulfilling feeling of a deepthroat ;)
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 19:25:02
    - Yes that's very true. Thanks for the input and also, welcome to the site :)
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 19:29:04
    - Thank you :)
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 19:30:43
    - I'm one of the small percentage of men that's actually quite happy with my size. It's not porn star big, but it's not tiny either, so I wouldn't want to change it. Although, I can see how some guys would want a bigger one - it's a vanity/self confidence thing more than anything, I suppose the same sort of reasoning that leads to women getting breast implants?
      RedEyes
      02 Jul 2013 23:29:28
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    Anal Sex - men and women
    CaraSutra
    28 May 2012 09:20:28
    - Love it or hate it? Is it different whether you have a man up there or your toys? What's your fave anal toy? :)
      CaraSutra
      28 May 2012 09:20:28
    - Love it, always had. But it took me a while (a long while, actually) to fully enjoy it, with no pain whatsoever. Now I masturbate anally almost everytime I play with myself and will definitely try it with a partner as soon as I see my friend with benefits this summer! My favourite anal toy... so far, the Lelo Billy: the silicone coating makes it silky smooth, it's the perfect size and OMG the vibrating patterns!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      28 May 2012 10:42:38
    - I dont love it and I dont hate it either. If your doing it, it will have to be with someone that you 100% comfortable with, otherwise it just will not work! Lots of lube is needed! You do have to pick the right one for you, had a bad experience with anal with some cheap lube! I defiantly have to be in the mood for it. I'm paritial to a finger or two there as well! Over all, it does the trick!
      Breda
      28 May 2012 22:57:42
    - i have the most amazing orgasms if i have him in my ass and toy in my pussy, not everytime we do this but when we do, wow:stroke:
      rach74
      31 May 2012 20:13:31
    - Anal toy wise, I'm a huge fan of a vibrating butt plug in there while I'm being vaginally penetrated, make for easy anal entry afterwards! Oh, that's given me an idea to use with date-guy. (He seems to suck at anal prep - no your cock will not fit without a bit of bum warmup!)
      NymphetamineKiss
      31 May 2012 21:43:46
    - I've actually surprised myself by how much I've got into anal play over the past year. I always used to hate the thought of it and wouldn't let a guy anywhere near my bum, then I bought my first dildo, and suddenly 12 months later I have an almost ridiculous collection of plugs, dildos, and various vibrating objects. These days I'm forever looking at things and thinking "I bet that shape would feel great inside me!" There's almost a sense of pride about being able to slip relatively large things up there now, with virtually no preparation.
      Incendiaire
      02 Jun 2012 14:14:57
    - There is a certain point up ... there... where when you hit it, it's WOW... I especially like vibrating toys there :)
      CaraSutra
      02 Jun 2012 18:36:45
    - Vibrating plugs just make me purr when I'm in the mood for anal, they make sure I'm ready for the real thing, so it's always pleasurable and never painful at all.
      ElizabethNSpire
      03 Jun 2012 10:30:00
    - Definitely and with lots of lube! Mmmm
      CaraSutra
      03 Jun 2012 10:49:54
    - We've only done it once, still getting into it, really can't wait.
      Abots
      05 Jun 2012 14:21:52
    - Lube it up!!!!!! Love a bit of Lube!
      Breda
      07 Jun 2012 16:25:25
    - I was reading a review about an urban fantasy novel where, apparently, the author describes an anal sex scene between the main characters. The girl says: Is it just me or you, too, can't stand this kind of statements???:bullshit:
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      09 Jun 2012 21:31:25
    - @Kiss_0f_Crimson - Got to be tolerable of these kinds of people. Remember, most of the country still thinks what they see on TV is real.
      Stal Lionne
      12 Jun 2012 00:55:46
    - mmm lubey anal fun fun:butt:
      Demonic
      12 Jun 2012 10:53:27
    - "Stal Lionne, post: 2923, member: 135" True, but it's sooo hard to be tolerant!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      12 Jun 2012 17:31:16
    - It's very hard to be tolerant of such sweeping dismissive statements! (now feels immediately guilty about the many sweeping dismissive statements I regularly make lol) Women who judge other women to 'obviously' dislike or not enjoy anal sex are just so up their own butts. (hahaha) ;)
      CaraSutra
      13 Jun 2012 07:44:13
    - Ahahaha, well said Cara!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      13 Jun 2012 19:30:02
    - I'm not a huge fan but when it's with the right person and the right lube;) It's rather nice!
      Breda
      13 Jun 2012 20:52:33
    - Mostly for me at the start I do have to kinda make myself, it's not a natural... ooh yes slip it up there. Takes a while for the mind to adjust to it going from just being an exit to an entrance... but yes eventually it's lovely and feels great and you really get into it - and think I should really do this more!!
      CaraSutra
      18 Jul 2012 10:03:53
    - "CaraSutra, post: 3378, member: 1" It must be like the reverse of going through labour, where suddenly you have to get used to your entrance becoming an exit... ;)
      Incendiaire
      18 Jul 2012 21:51:09
    - "Incendiaire, post: 3394, member: 5" Ahahahahah!!!:D:D
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      20 Jul 2012 21:18:03
    - You know I'm gonna remember this in labour now, right?!
      CaraSutra
      30 Jul 2012 10:31:45
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2747, member: 1" I wish I can do this one day. But I didn't yet. I consider myself: not liking it
      Denied Boy
      11 Sep 2012 07:52:39
    - Since I was underage, anal has been a fetish for me. The idea of it is really arousing. However, I have no sensitivity so it doesn't particularly feel good to me. The eroticism is all in my head. It's a shame. Daddy, on the other hand, is very sensitive inside and he lets me play from time to time, which is amazing. I'm not sure if he prefers my fingers or any of the toys I've used though...
      SubReiSkyeM
      11 Sep 2012 13:27:54
    - I love it when boys are into it! I am especially sensitive up there. I think though you're right SubRei... it's about the taboo element as well... hot.
      CaraSutra
      13 Sep 2012 13:02:01
    - Being a gay man, the majority of people assume (wrongly) that I should automatically like things being in my ass... This however is not the case! Now don't get me wrong, I used to when I was younger... and quite frankly, I was of the mindset of "how can I do it to someone else and reassure them yada yada if I haven't experienced it myself...?" Now. As I said, when I was younger, I tried it out of "duty" and found that, in fact, I liked it...! But as the years progressed, it became less and less appealing and eventually I stopped allowing anything up there altogether... boo hiss, my options for sexual partners were suddenly reduced dramatically!! :-D The hole on the other hand, that is a totally different story... I cannot get enough of having that played with, teased, licked and sucked... just stay on the outside! :-D
      Chaotic Angel
      20 Sep 2012 18:27:03
    - .....this is such a personal thing but once someone has had a caring partner take their time getting you ready....and that can be the fun part...its soooooo good! I love writing stories that include the training of a new sub for anal activity, letting them feel how good it is when done correctly with the right toys or fingers. Now being restrained over a padded horse or pile of pillows, listening to the sounds of preparation and not knowing exactly what will be used...creates a level of excitement. Understand...you MUST have a trusting relationship with the partner you're using in order for this to work properly. Not sure I could do this with someone I didn't know but...perhaps that is one of my limits I need to test! LOL Who knows...but if you've not tried it yet, my website has articles for safe play; I hope you check them out! Remember....safe, sane, and consensual! Muah!
      TonyaKinzer
      16 Jun 2013 17:48:13
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2609, member: 1" I definitely LOVE it. Have an anal fixation even... "CaraSutra, post: 2609, member: 1" It is different. I prefer my man up there, but the toys are great for exploration after which I can go back and tell my man what I like. "CaraSutra, post: 2609, member: 1" Hard to decide. I LOVE my Icicles 37 for solo play and the Mood Naughty Large for DP (toy in back, my man up front). Need to try my man in back and toy up front.
      AmethystQueen
      28 Jun 2013 21:29:40
    - Oh I adore Icicles toys. Well all glass sex toys, tbh. Sex toys are easier to control going in, so sometimes it can feel a bit more relaxed when you do anal play on your own rather than anal sex which can get a bit rough (in my experience!) x
      CaraSutra
      30 Jun 2013 11:52:02
    - Yes, very true.
      AmethystQueen
      30 Jun 2013 16:44:17
    - As a straight(ish) guy, I'm in kind of two minds about this one. I've used toys on myself and do enjoy it, but I've never actually been penetrated by another guy/girl. I'm willing to try (I'll try anything once :)) but I have no idea if I'd like it or not. Apart from the physical bits, there's the role reversal to get over - during sex I'm normally the one doing the penetrating! ;) I expect it'll happen one day some way or another, but until then I'll keep it up with the toys! As for my fave toy, it's got to be the Aneros (well, cheapish Aneros knock-off).
      RedEyes
      30 Jun 2013 21:40:15
    - I'm only just beginning to experiment with anal. For me, so far at least it's not so much about achieving pleasure but rather - if I may split hairs - about putting something there when it feels like it needs it. It isn't really a part of sexual activity for me, but often feels good afterwards just to rest with something inside me, or to briefly have anal penetration in the shower. I use the Pure Wand; I have the Mood Naughty small plug, but I don't like it nearly as much.
      SecretlySensuous
      01 Jul 2013 02:34:06
    - I know what you're talking about. I have the Mood Naughty large plug and I LOVE sitting with it in. Although that is pleasure, but I understand how your butt just aches (or throbbing) for something to be in it.
      AmethystQueen
      01 Jul 2013 05:16:31
    - it doesn't sound appealing to me does it really feel that good
      nickessex
      02 Jul 2013 11:42:25
    - I haven't really done much anal play lately but I have a new vibrating plug to try! Might just get me back into it, no idea why I went off anal play. I do enjoy it if I'm in the mood.
      PrincessRaggydoll
      02 Jul 2013 14:16:46
    - @nickessex, yes. Yes it does. :)
      AmethystQueen
      02 Jul 2013 15:49:13
    - When I was smaller, and still trying everything out, I used to have fun with another guy I knew. I have to say that the feeling is not as appalling as most straight man think. It definetly had an erotik kinda feel to it and for once the feeling of being used was quite arousing to me. Definetly something another man should try however I would definetly try it on some kind of sex-toy first before moving to an actual man.
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 19:09:49
    - Thanks for the insight, Mister. I'm sorta-kinda looking for this experience with a guy, it's just a case of coming across the right guy/circumstances. Probably not going to happen for a while though! I did go as far as looking on Craigslist at one point - never again! That's a scary place...:eek:
      RedEyes
      02 Jul 2013 23:35:36
    - Craigslist most definetly isn't the place where you should looks for something like that. If you want to further expand your desires in that direction then I would definetly suggest going to a gay club. These men will definetly understand you, if you let them. It would also be a great place to meet somebody with whom you could enjoy this new [LEFT]experience ;)[/LEFT]
      Mister
      03 Jul 2013 06:50:04
    - I have to be in the right mood. Saying that I did have anal sex again the other day, first time in a while. I do need clit stimulation at the same time though to get me going ;)
      CaraSutra
      03 Jul 2013 10:38:28
    - interesting
      Mister
      03 Jul 2013 10:50:51
    - "Mister, post: 4900, member: 501" Yes, I discovered that pretty quickly... The highlight was a guy that was looking for 'one man and his dog' to experiment with. :eek: Now I'm pretty open minded but there's limits! [quote="Mister, post: 4900, member: 501"]If you want to further expand your desires in that direction then I would definetly suggest going to a gay club. These men will definetly understand you, if you let them. It would also be a great place to meet somebody with whom you could enjoy this new [LEFT]experience ;)[/LEFT] [/quote] I've been to a few gay bars in my younger days (used to hang out with a gay friend), they're a lot of fun. The problem is, I'm attached now and would want to include her in some way (eg with a threesome), or at least keep her 'in the loop' (I'm certainly not looking at sneaking around behind her back), so trying to hook up with a guy at a club probably isn't the way to go. I expect it'll happen sometime, it's just a case of the right circumstances :-)
      RedEyes
      03 Jul 2013 22:46:35
    - finding a willing bisexual man could get difficult. My girlfriend and I are looking at the same problem currently. The diffrence however is that we are looking for another female, not male. I wish you good luck.
      Mister
      04 Jul 2013 06:47:47
    - There seem to be a lot of couples seeking a bisexual female.
      CaraSutra
      04 Jul 2013 18:27:14
    - not any that I've found
      Mister
      05 Jul 2013 14:30:04
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    Food in bed?
    Mel Macfarlane
    15 Jul 2013 12:44:36
    - What is the best food to try in the bedroom? I know all the cliche foods but what have you discovered works best for you in the bedroom?
      Mel Macfarlane
      15 Jul 2013 12:44:36
    - Well dairy feels great but have as cold a shower as you can afterwards! Otherwise it cooks on and you smell like a dairy for a week. (true story, sadly) Sploshing is great but even smearing chocolate gateau or using a nicely shaped lolly is good. Put down a pvc sheet and enjoy is what I say!
      CaraSutra
      15 Jul 2013 15:38:21
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    Is chivalry just accepted sexism?
    CaraSutra
    03 May 2013 11:46:38
    - My latest article made me think about this. Do you think chivalry (where a gentleman is seen to be kind by doing things for a woman/women) is just an accepted form of sexism? Not that it's wrong, but it isn't exactly equal is it? Quite interesting when you think about it.
      CaraSutra
      03 May 2013 11:46:38
    - Very interesting actually. Even though it might not be comfortable for some people to hear it I would say yes.
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 19:28:11
    - Does that then mean that sexism is always wrong? or has it just been given a 'wrong' stigma by society?
      CaraSutra
      02 Jul 2013 19:30:13
    - "CaraSutra, post: 4886, member: 1" Sexism is always a term that changes in the eye of the beholder. For some it is a sexual craving, for others a personal offense. However I think that it has definetly been given a wrong stigma. What do you think?
      Mister
      02 Jul 2013 19:34:07
    - I got into a big debate about this on another forum, because I said I do not like chivalry. The word irks me. I will summarise with some of my thoughts from that debate: Why does the word chivalry only apply to men? I found this to be like giving one gender extra particular praise for just "Being kind" I was later informed of the origins of the word and it makes sense but to me, in this day and age, using this old word implies that men should require a label to be kind to women. I think everyone should just be kind to everyone. I also have an issue with men who admit to being chivalrous. To me, being kind to others is something we should all just do, but having someone approach me and say "I am a chivalrous guy" is like saying "I gave myself this label because I am kind" No need. Actions speak louder...right? To me, chivalry is also often used to bed, or hope to bed, women. I mean, come on. Would you run round and open the car door for your guy mates, or pull out a chair for them? I dunno, maybe I am blanket thinking but to me, chivalry implies a man, being extra kind to a woman. Why be extra kind to only one sex? Do you help a woman with her bags but walk past a struggling man? Why is it one sided, if not a sexual or romantic interest, or the hopes of one? Am I being naive or missing something? This is what irks me about the term. However, as much as I have these thoughts about chivalry, I don't consider myself to be feminist about the issue. I don't feel patronised by men who offer to help (If anything I take it as a come-on and depending on my mood this either lifts my spirits or annoys me.) I would never be rude to a guy who came to my aid. I would be grateful and thank him. I just don't understand the label, rather than the actions, if that makes sense? Anyway, it seemed I was the only one with those thoughts, on the other forum. I was quite surprised to find most women who commented seemed to like the idea of chivalry.
      GrittyWoman
      08 Jul 2013 13:10:38
    - I can see your point, although being a woman (and probably the Domme in me!) I like men being extra helpful to me as I am a woman! Maybe I am just hopelessly sexist! Good points you raised there, though :)
      CaraSutra
      11 Jul 2013 11:34:53
    - I'm one of those women who likes chivalry as well as the label, except when it's used as an excuse to disrespect a person's wishes or to refuse my help. Some men are super uptight about it and have their sense of honor all wrapped up in the idea, and I find I'm just not compatible with that approach. Other men are just plain sensible about it and that makes me happy. "GrittyWoman, post: 4938, member: 448" Some men may use it for that reason, but I've known a lot of men that don't. It doesn't explain the same treatment towards elderly or happily attached women. My understanding of the one-sidedness lies in a few factors, the main ones coming to mind right now are: 1) Women generally have less upper body strength than men, and 2) women have long been considered the "fairer sex" and thus inherently more worthy of respect/protections/assistance than men. Is that sexist? Maybe. I personally find that it just works for me so I'm not inclined to resist it so long as the guy doesn't get stupid about it or refuse my help or protest my occasional "thanks but I've got it". Usually the assistance means that I have less on my plate which frees me up to be more emotive instead of exhausted, stressed, or guarded. It's win-win.
      SecretlySensuous
      22 Jul 2013 14:11:12
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    Parent friendly positions?
    Mel Macfarlane
    06 Aug 2013 10:50:08
    - I am a busy Mum of 5 who is trying to bring some spark back into my relationship. I have neither the time nor the energy for bedroom acrobatics but that doesn't mean that I am not interested in having sex, I still have a high sex drive but my energy levels fail me. It's all too easy to revert to the same fail safe positions and moves but I want to spice things up a bit in a way that is manageable for a busy working Mum. Any idea's folks?
      Mel Macfarlane
      06 Aug 2013 10:50:08
    - Im the same and I only have 1 child! So fair play to you !! x Silly thing is I went off sex for a while because i was so tired i just couldnt be bothered tbh!. We started playing some of the sex games when my son had gone to bed. Like the board sex games. There really good for getting back into the swing of things. Or you could try just a little bit of fore play one night bit of oral next building it up slowly. xx
      FesureMaybe
      06 Aug 2013 19:14:47
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    Should you schedule Sex?
    Mel Macfarlane
    12 Aug 2013 09:06:19
    - Just reading an article in which the advisor recommends scheduling time for Sex? Part of great sex for me includes an element of spontaneity... could you work to a schedue or would you find it a turn off?
      Mel Macfarlane
      12 Aug 2013 09:06:19
    - "Mel Macfarlane, post: 5087, member: 502" I think you absolutely could, and in some cases should (though it does take away the excitement of spontaneity). If you find sex is something you never quite get around to, it isn't 'just happening' as often as you and your partner would like, scheduling time for sex makes it a priority, and ensures you continue to connect in that way. To get around the loss of excitement, I would take the foreknowledge as an opportunity to plan something spicy. Wear that naughty nurse outfit that's been sitting in your lingerie draw, get your props out, and make it a real event. Do the things that can go by the way-side when you are too busy ripping each other's clothes off (or reaching inside each other's flannel pyjamas).
      Rhonda Perky
      12 Aug 2013 09:26:29
    - Sometimes I think it's necessary, unfortunately - life and circumstances (especially with family!) mean it can't always be as spontaneous as one might hope. I agree with Rhonda above too :)
      CaraSutra
      12 Aug 2013 10:45:50
    - Im for and against tbh. In one sense I love being spontaneous with my partner. But as a parent you just cant be as so much time is consumed with work, housework and children. So We sometimes just say tonight we make time for it. 50% of the time it doesnt happen as we get into bed and go to sleep!!!! x
      FesureMaybe
      15 Aug 2013 17:37:13
    - I like to try and spice things up with anticipation ect or a naughty text message. Scheduling just sounds very clinical doesn't it?
      Mel Macfarlane
      19 Aug 2013 13:02:15
    - I agree with most of the above. My wife feels it is better to be spontaneous, I on the other hand like to have some idea if we are going to be having sex. I think it was because I wanted to plan some kink for it but in reality that's not what she wants.
      AlexR
      24 Aug 2013 00:33:46
    - i prefer it to be spontaneous as well its more fun that way but as stated in comments above sometimes you have to plan
      nica
      26 Aug 2013 03:13:16
    - yes please lol
      nickessex
      16 Sep 2013 15:27:09
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    Vaginal Steam?
    FesureMaybe
    27 Jul 2013 19:12:16
    - Wow i learnt something new today! Vaginal steams are the latest beauty treatments! My question is why? [media=youtube]orniiVnjW_Y[/media] -Thank you SecretlySensuous for letting me know before I look stupid!!! :)
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jul 2013 19:12:16
    - No idea what a vaginal steam is, guess I'll be researching it. :P Your link was to a jewelry holder stand, I'm guessing that was unintended?
      SecretlySensuous
      27 Jul 2013 20:22:38
    - Ohh balls that was for my mother hang on let me finish being stupid.
      FesureMaybe
      27 Jul 2013 22:49:26
    - Ah, there we go. Interesting. I can see how if a fertile woman hasn't had her period for 6 months or longer, or has unidentified issues with odor originating there, that they might seek this out as a nothing-to-lose, see-if-this-works type of deal. Found this article of an OB/GYN's take on them.
      SecretlySensuous
      29 Jul 2013 04:30:33
    - I cant personally see how a steam helps fertility!!
      FesureMaybe
      29 Jul 2013 19:10:59
    - "FesureMaybe, post: 5043, member: 496" It really doesn't matter whether it actually helps or not - when someone is desperate to relieve a medical condition then a relaxing, non-invasive, and relatively cheap possibility is often tried just on the off-chance that there's something to it. And every once in a while, it seems there is. The link I gave mentions various possibilities for how it might work, including the herbs used and how they affect blood circulation (most pharmaceutical drugs have been originally discovered in herbs). It's kind of up to you how interested you are to learn about it. If it doesn't appeal to you then no one's forcing you...
      SecretlySensuous
      29 Jul 2013 19:46:23
    - Sounds interesting... the title of this thread did make me think more of steam from friction! I was thinking, "Hmmm... need more lube!" :D
      CaraSutra
      30 Dec 2013 11:40:57
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    Tips, Tricks and new Kinks
    Mister
    03 Jul 2013 11:08:35
    - I've been on this Forum since yesterday and I have to say I find community quite interesting. But the reason I am actually here is to get new tips, tricks and general information. My story is that I became interested in everything that had to do with sexual information about 5 months ago. My girlfriend had at that time problems with reaching an orgasmus and I thought that I would look for some new ways to help her get there. Eventually everything worked out better then expected. However this became somewhat of an obsession so about a month ago I stopped looking for new kinks because I thought I had slowly hit a dead-end. Now however she wants me to continue but I don't know how. My question is: Do you guys have any ideas, new kinks or other to help me "wow" her again?
      Mister
      03 Jul 2013 11:08:35
    - Welcome to the forum, glad you like it here. :) Your question really depends on what you've already done. I believe that there are always new things to try. Have you tried power exchange, both in the bedroom and outside of it? Dressing up? Going to clubs together?
      CaraSutra
      03 Jul 2013 19:02:11
    - Yes, what have you done previously? It'd be a good idea to let us know so we're not covering old ground. Mrs Redeyes and I are looking at playing with rope bondage, that covers a lot of ground and there's plenty to learn there so that should keep you entertained for a while! :-)
      RedEyes
      03 Jul 2013 22:38:17
    - Well we've been through the usual (and with that I mean the REALLY usual) stuff and have started with a little rope bondage and using blindfoldes. I think I'll follow RedEyes a little on this and look into a little more rope bondage
      Mister
      04 Jul 2013 06:44:02
    - There are always new things to try! Being open to try new things is always a good start! Rope bondage is loads of fun, it's something I really enjoy. This year I will learn how to do more rope! In fact, got a rope workshop this Sunday :-) Do you include sex toys in your play? If you use blindfolds then maybe take the sensory thing a bit further, use different things while your partner is blindfolded, things like satin, feathers, ice, anything that will get the senses going!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Jan 2014 20:41:11
    - Ooops! Just realised that this thread was from away back last summer!
      PrincessRaggydoll
      16 Jan 2014 20:42:22
    - lol that's ok :) I'm still after a rope specialist for my launch party next month, 21 February in Canterbury uk - If anyone can help please let me know!
      CaraSutra
      20 Jan 2014 09:11:03
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    Easter Adult Toy Giveaway worth OVER £70!!!
    daisylou82
    09 Apr 2014 19:57:17
    - Hi! Just thought I'd let you know of this great comp I found - an Easter giveaway by adult toy site temptmeteaseme.co.uk! All you have to do is visit their facebook page and like and share to be in with a chance of winning a brilliant sex toy bundle worth over £70: https://www.facebook.com/temptmeteaseme www.temptmeteaseme.co.uk
      daisylou82
      09 Apr 2014 19:57:17
    - Hi there. You don't work for that company by any chance, do you? ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2014 09:21:13
- Everything sex toys
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    "Named" sex toy ranges.
    Incendiaire
    13 Apr 2012 14:30:19
    - I was thinking about this other day, for some reason really I object to the idea of ranges of sex toys sold under the name and endorsement of some self-styled celebrity sex guru. Tracey Cox is the one who immediately comes to mind. I would never have even the slightest inclination to buy a toy with her name on it. I look at the situation and think that it has to be a case of marketing over substance. You have no idea who the manufacturer is, the selling point is completely down to her name, because a housewife who doesn't know much on the subject might have seen her on "This Morning" one day. I could be wrong, and the products might be half decent, but I find myself completely turned off to the whole idea. Maybe it's just because I'm not a fan of "sexperts" in general. I'm wondering if anyone has a similar aversion, or if it's just me.
      Incendiaire
      13 Apr 2012 14:30:19
    - I know what you mean, however the word 'sexpert' has spring up quite a lot in recent times. It basically means someone who has done a course, I think! Marketing definitely helps lend reassurance to people. I would buy products if I feel they are substantially good in themselves, not just because someone endorsed them. For instance, I have Tracey Cox glass dildos, but I didn't get them because of her, but because I liked the shape of the glass and I love glass toys. I wouldn't personally buy her sex tips advice books, not only because I am not convinced she is an expert but also I feel that I have had sex enough that I know both what I want, how to get it and I also have my own imagination. I never find that sex goes 'stale' for me personally. Other people however may love and literally buy into these people and the items they endorse. Up to them really! x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 14:51:58
    - Something else to add. Look at these two products. Tracey Cox Remote Control Egg Loving Joy Remote Control Egg Both branded, one by a 'sexpert' of Lovehoney, one the own brand of Sextoys.co.uk. However they are both the same item, made in Chinese factories, from the usual range of 'sex toys that sell'. Some have added bits, a dangly keyfob bit, or sparkly diamante - it's basically the same toy. Customers just have to decide if they want a remote control vibrating egg - I may want one of these - but it certainly wouldn't be because of any particular name 'linked' to it. After years handling these products they are pretty much all the same, remote control toys, the generic multi function silicone vibe, glass dildo in various shapes, flare base butt plug... yada yada. Shop for the toy you want, not the name you want :) Ok off soapbox now lol x
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 14:57:24
    - Hehe I have never bought an item because it has an endorsement of some sort. I got a Durex wand because it was rechargeable and it was shite! I don't buy AS products because they have the logo stamped on them but saying that, I don't buy the own brand online cheaper stuff cos it just looks nasty IMHO :/ hmm, sex toy snobbery!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 10:43:25
    - Some own brand stuff is ok.. For instance a Laura Berman love egg or a Loving Joy love egg... Same product tbh lol
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 11:45:45
    - I'm too scared to try, waste my money and found out it's shite. Don't like the look of like the cheapy value ranges, but then I'm the same with Baked Beans, has to be Heinz, not Co-Op own brand!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 12:02:59
    - Ahh yes I was forgetting how spoilt you were ~hides~ lol ;)
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 17:07:26
    - Cheeky madam :p you deserve a spanking for such a comment! :D spoilt....bah!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 17:20:43
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    massage using xbox 360 joypad
    bessy
    14 Apr 2012 08:53:00
    - i was look thru the indie games section on the xbox live market place and i found a massage program its called a perfect massage turns the xbox joypad into a awsome vibrator for external use only.or buy a joypad for that internal use lol most xbox joypads have 2 motors in them a small 1 that 99% of vibrators have smaller and a really large 1 thats bigger than the magic massager 1 i found it quite amusing that someone made it but microsoft allowed it even tho it clearly states what its used for well me who tries everything once obviously i had a go and its brilliant now when i get bored of my games lol XD
      bessy
      14 Apr 2012 08:53:00
    - Can they actually be as strong as a vibrating wand though? x
      CaraSutra
      14 Apr 2012 17:12:54
    - yeh its abit harsh on max tho the joypad has a noisy wonder on flat surfaces like its more for ya back etc but kills ya fingers after a min or 2 lol
      bessy
      14 Apr 2012 17:23:18
    - Could be good on the clit then? :D
      CaraSutra
      15 Apr 2012 08:07:35
    - maybe sarah wouldnt let me try XD lmao all i know is ouch on ya balls feels like some 1 kicked me in them
      bessy
      15 Apr 2012 09:35:07
    - Haha hmmm, I know what the OH is getting today then...how many points?! ;)
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 10:56:34
    - free when i got it if not now it will be something small like 80m$
      bessy
      15 Apr 2012 18:33:32
    - Hmm have to see if he has any points left then ;) hehe!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 18:39:55
    - I want to try now!! :D mmmmmmmm power queen
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:48:32
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    crazy deep anal toys
    bessy
    18 Apr 2012 09:46:06
    - me and sarah were looking thru some porno sites to find fun things she can try out with my bum and we come across some where ppl were sticking 18" double enders upto 27" all the way tip to tip up there bum i was wondering has anyone else tried this and if so are there any tips or advice im looking for good toy to try with. we have a 17" slender bender from sextoys.co.uk but its nowhere near as bendy as the thick black 1s they use what i should do before to prepare best lubes if lubes at all ppl talk about baby oil and stuff is that safe i thought that might stop you from been able to take in water etc i may be wrong things to avoid doing navigation aswell haha many turns up there try something cheap a chearful £30 or something at first maybe if i like it and feel really adventures go on to something like this http://www.pleasurearomas.co.uk/index.php?_a=product&product_id=1210
      bessy
      18 Apr 2012 09:46:06
    - feel free to add your thoughts its def open for discussion so dont feel like u cant comment because u have no advice im only asking for advice because its something i havent tried and im always up for somthing dif
      bessy
      18 Apr 2012 11:37:27
    - I think the length of toy you use comes down to what you are comfortable with. Don't ever force it more than you can take, you may rip yourself inside and do untold damage! I wouldn't use baby oil, it's not compatible with every toy out there and can be an irritant to sensitive skin. Use water based lubricant. Not sure about advising on navigation, it's a case of finding out slowly what feels best for you and/or your partner. Hope this helps!
      CaraSutra
      18 Apr 2012 12:04:37
    - as cara said i wouldnt use baby oil water based lubes are best as for the rest it depends on your experience honestly use lots of lube and take it slow/easy you could easy hurt yourself which would be a mood killer baby steps go slow dont force it you will/can hurt yourself
      nica
      18 Apr 2012 23:59:45
    - I've always wanted to take something quite deep, but unless it's really thin and bendy like anal beads, I can't get much more than 5"-6" inside. Even with a modest-sized silicone dildo, once I feel it hit the top of the rectum it just refuses to bend around the corner, and pushing only hurts. The more bendy looking toys all tend to be made of less safe materials, and I don't want to go putting jelly up there. I'll be interested to hear what success you have.
      Incendiaire
      19 Apr 2012 13:27:27
    - yeh sure i will put everything iv found and felt when i do it what what we used how we used it
      bessy
      20 Apr 2012 09:19:20
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    OhMiBod!
    Kera
    12 Apr 2012 09:44:24
    - So... This morning I got my OhMiBod freestyle, and just... WOW [ATTACH=full]1[/ATTACH] There will certainly be a review coming in the next week, just need the time alone to have a play around with it before Master gets hold of it and either kills me or it with his music :rofl: Ooops, didn't think it would be so big!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 09:44:24
    - "Killing me softly...." haha Looks good hun, have lots of saucy fun with that! Look forward to the review xxx
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 11:05:13
    - Wonder if I can hook that up to a mixing desk..... *wanders off to look through records*
      P. Squared
      12 Apr 2012 15:34:41
    - It does look very nice, rather like a cigar tube.
      Incendiaire
      12 Apr 2012 15:38:00
    - What music are you going to play with it? :D
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 16:09:11
    - "CaraSutra, post: 544, member: 1" I've been banned from playing dubstep (although that's pretty much the perfect music to use - not something I really like to listen to, but I suspect it would successfully turn Kera into a gibbering wreck.... well, moreso than usual after I get my hands on her... ;)) I'll have to see what I can find - I'm sure after a few minutes of experimenting I can find something in my collection that will do the trick, and if it's got a proper audio passthrough on it I can hook it up to my record decks....
      P. Squared
      12 Apr 2012 16:17:22
    - I really am not sure right now.. and I dare not wonder what He is gonna look for!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 16:19:41
    - Slayer, Slipknot, anything with blast beats I would think.... ;)
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 16:38:18
    - I think I might have to put some serious thought into this one.... I hadn't considered things like blast beats.... *wanders off, pondering*
      P. Squared
      12 Apr 2012 16:43:59
    - if Slipknot goes near me, I'm holding you responsible Cara!
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 16:50:56
    - lmao ooh, sorry sweetie! *not sorry face* If it were me I think the wriggling would disturb the mattress, you'd have to be securely tied down ;)
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 17:01:45
    - Don't give Him more ideas! No.. wait.. do :devil:
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 17:03:47
    - Aha! Filthy mare :p :shinywiggle:
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 18:48:47
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 570, member: 1"]lmao ooh, sorry sweetie! *not sorry face* If it were me I think the wriggling would disturb the mattress, you'd have to be securely tied down ;)[/quote] Oh don't worry... Plans are forming... *plots more*
      P. Squared
      12 Apr 2012 19:10:39
    - *is screwed* (figuratively and literally!)
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 19:18:39
    - Heh.
      P. Squared
      12 Apr 2012 21:38:02
    - Love it! :D
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:52:53
    - I have one which connects to your mp3 player and it's awesome, the bassier the better :D the OhMiBod does look better though.....*adds to shopping list*
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 10:39:28
    - I have an OhMiBod toy, I love it. I'd like to hear anyones suggestions on what I should play while using it... I'm a little bored of my current music collection =) Kera, how are you getting on with yours? Got any favourite beats yet =)
      NymphomaniacNess
      21 Apr 2012 14:00:44
    - I haven't had a play yet, tuesday/wednesday/thursday was busy, then yesterday I had my period start.. Though, I have a feeling anything Master (P.Squared) can find will be good xD
      Kera
      21 Apr 2012 14:47:59
    - I have the Oh mi bod version of Better than chocolate. It is good but nothing really fantastic.
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:59:13
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    Pet tails help
    PrincessRaggydoll
    26 Apr 2012 19:28:12
    - With the talk on twitter today with pony tails and a friend of mine asking if I had seen any puppy tails. I have seen horse and bunny tails but not puppy tails. He feels the horse tails are just too long and looking for a puppy tail. Preferably not too expensive. Any ideas anyone?
      PrincessRaggydoll
      26 Apr 2012 19:28:12
    - Not seen puppy tails, but I think Kari Rose would be the one to ask! I'll have a look about and get back if I find anything ;) I've seen piggy tails lol
      CaraSutra
      27 Apr 2012 20:08:32
    - Any one want to give a girl that's never(yes, never) had sex toys on what to go for when buying one.
      Breda
      28 Apr 2012 11:32:10
    - The closest I've seen are fox tail plugs. As far as I know alot of puppies use them, but they are pricey and are real tails. I was lucky enough to use someone's fox tail plug for the night at a fetish club once. They are very luxurious feeling!
      llellsee
      28 Apr 2012 21:04:39
    - Thanks guys. I will pass on the replies. I asked Kari on twitter and she said hers was from Crystal Delights ~melts~ If anyone comes across any I would be grateful if you could let me know.
      PrincessRaggydoll
      29 Apr 2012 09:17:35
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 1435, member: 1"]Not seen puppy tails, but I think Kari Rose would be the one to ask! I'll have a look about and get back if I find anything ;) I've seen piggy tails lol[/quote] I've seen a puppy tail on Ubder Kinky: Puppy tail Also they stock there: Minx and Bunny - own a few of these plugs and they are amazin, though I don't own a tail. I believe Kari has a Minx tail..[URL='http://www.uberkinky.co.uk/pd/Crystal-Delights-Bunny-Tail-Butt-Plug_82847.html'][/URL]
      NymphomaniacNess
      29 Apr 2012 09:44:27
    - Thanks Ness. I have passed it on, super! Think it was a little more than he was looking to pay for it but at least he knows he can get one, just have to save up for it! I'm in love with the minx tail, suit me I think :shinywiggle:
      PrincessRaggydoll
      29 Apr 2012 14:25:12
    - Yes the Bon tail is a little pricey, but I've had a few products by them before and they have always been good. I know there's a discount code for ubder kinky in bizarre mag. Maybe someone has a copy and can message you the code =)
      NymphomaniacNess
      29 Apr 2012 16:06:36
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    Wands... For actual massage?
    SandA
    29 Apr 2012 15:43:55
    - Are any of the Magic Wands any good for actual massage? S often has tension issues in her shoulders that then lead to headaches. I do what I can by giving her a massage when I can, but it would be nice if she had something to use on her own. Would be doubly nice if she could then, after relaxing, continue to ~ahem~ relax in another way. Kill two birds with one stone so to speak. So, anyone tried one of these for their original intention, and any recommendations?
      SandA
      29 Apr 2012 15:43:55
    - Yes on a rare occasion I have tried them for massage, they're actually very good! Especially on the shoulders :)
      CaraSutra
      30 Apr 2012 09:58:36
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    Lingerie Model Pics that make you laugh!
    CaraSutra
    30 Apr 2012 10:59:21
    - Just been chatting with Matty Curry from Lovehoney on Twitter and we were discussing some of the hilarious model pics used on sites. I think that faux blonde from Sweet Streak is just too funny, heavily shopped - so much so that I've seen some pics her legs aren't even the same size as one another! The DreamGirl ones... some of the faces... and this latex pic cracks me up every time. "Ew! Geddit off! Latex!" hahaha Any you've seen that are particularly bad/funny? :D lol
      CaraSutra
      30 Apr 2012 10:59:21
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    Remote control toys
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 20:58:03
    - Anyone got any of these that actually work, aren't bloody noisy and don't give up when you're almost there? mm public play :butt: Also I don't like toys with wired remotes... imo they're cheaply made, the wires almost always come apart after a few uses and they eat batteries! It can be a bit misleading the way the wired ones are labelled as 'remote control' - nothing really 'remote' about it, the buttons are just elongated to a piece of plastic on the end of a wire! jmo lol What's your opinions?
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 20:58:03
    - We've got a remote control egg in the toy box. It managed to survive taking it out of the packages, putting the batteries in... then as soon as I transferred it to the toybox it switched on and refused to ever turn off again. I should really send it back, but not got around to it yet... Not so bothered about playing in public with one - but would like a toy that would work whilst I have a pretty little thing in a rope harness ;)
      P. Squared
      10 Apr 2012 21:11:56
    - I've heard toy stories like that all too often :/ Ooh that reminds me of the time I slept in a Shibari rope harness all night... 5 x RO-80 bullets located in and about me switched on and I was left to suffer and writhe... Mmmmmm ~memories~ :wiggle:
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:10:45
    - What they need to invent is a toy which can communicate wirelessly with a mobile phone, so that becomes the remote. Then create some software so people can access the phone app via their computer. Person A inserts the toy, activates the app, pops their phone into their pocket and goes out, then person B sits at home, logs into the programme on their computer, then taps a button which sends a signal to the phone over the internet, which in turn signals the toy wirelessly and causes it to start vibrating. Think of the fun! :) I'd feel so mischievous having something up my bum while out, and getting a tingle every now and again when someone was thinking about me, hehe.
      Incendiaire
      11 Apr 2012 00:06:29
    - It's funny that I've seen this now, not long proclaimed on the other thread that the wired ones are complete pants for lack of a better time at this time of the evening! Would like to know the answer to this myself :)
      Morbidia
      11 Apr 2012 00:55:16
    - [quote="Incendiaire, post: 209, member: 5"]What they need to invent is a toy which can communicate wirelessly with a mobile phone, so that becomes the remote. Then create some software so people can access the phone app via their computer. Person A inserts the toy, activates the app, pops their phone into their pocket and goes out, then person B sits at home, logs into the programme on their computer, then taps a button which sends a signal to the phone over the internet, which in turn signals the toy wirelessly and causes it to start vibrating. Think of the fun! :) I'd feel so mischievous having something up my bum while out, and getting a tingle every now and again when someone was thinking about me, hehe.[/quote] I'm pretty certain they have already done this - I think I even have a few toys which work like this. Also there's the new Wii remote toys =) I like my New sex machine.... it has a wireless control . But I often find wireless toys controlled via radio tend to have problems.
      NymphomaniacNess
      11 Apr 2012 05:46:09
    - I've seen phone vibra exciter toys, I think at Lh, they seem to want rid of them though they're always on DOTD lol. Do they actually work? Would be interested to see if anyone has any of the new Wii toys... A big selling one I am aware of is the Ultra 7 Egg which I have heard is quiet and great to use out but I'm not sure. Anyone have one? I used to have a Miyakodori which was a powerful enough bullet but wired to a holder you'd clip on your waistband, and a hand held controller you could put on your keys... but being held in place by the waist band thing wasn't a great idea, kept slipping out of place!
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 06:49:28
    - There was an article a while back on El Reg a year or so ago - but I can't find it now... I'll have a proper hunt later...
      P. Squared
      11 Apr 2012 16:02:19
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 219, member: 1"] A big selling one I am aware of is the Ultra 7 Egg which I have heard is quiet and great to use out but I'm not sure. Anyone have one?[/quote] I've had one, and like most eggs, break after one use!
      Kera
      11 Apr 2012 17:21:39
    - Bah :mad: that's not good at all :(
      CaraSutra
      11 Apr 2012 18:02:11
    - Had one years ago, was ok but left batteries in and they leaked everywhere. Got another in a grab bag, never worked, didn't get round to sending back. Found one online I wanna get so it's just affording it now! We have a plan for its usage and yes public play mmmmm muhaha!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 10:16:36
    - id like to find a good one for public play something i can give my partner(s) so they have control something ive wanted to do for a long time just havent found the right remote toy that doesmt look like it will fall apart or break
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 14:51:30
    - I know what you mean nica, want toys to go out in but hard to find any you can really trust to work, not fall apart or OUT, and not to be noisy!
      CaraSutra
      16 Apr 2012 11:52:44
    - the ones ive seen look really poorly made and cheap
      nica
      16 Apr 2012 19:59:42
    - me and martin have a few toys with remote controls i agree with you Cara the batteries do not last long at all i thing another thing is they get tangled up a lot in a box with other toys, there is one thing i like though and thats been in control of the speed :)
      rockprincess
      17 Apr 2012 20:33:23
    - [quote="CaraSutra, post: 219, member: 1"]I've seen phone vibra exciter toys, I think at Lh, they seem to want rid of them though they're always on DOTD lol. Do they actually work? Would be interested to see if anyone has any of the new Wii toys... A big selling one I am aware of is the Ultra 7 Egg which I have heard is quiet and great to use out but I'm not sure. Anyone have one? I used to have a Miyakodori which was a powerful enough bullet but wired to a holder you'd clip on your waistband, and a hand held controller you could put on your keys... but being held in place by the waist band thing wasn't a great idea, kept slipping out of place![/quote] I have two, and they seem to work. The problem I have is that they go off around any phone that recieves a txt or call. Also, the cock ring is a bit noticable for public wear. But they are nice extras if you do a lot of phone sex I guess.
      NymphomaniacNess
      21 Apr 2012 13:47:41
    - I have used the Lelo Tiani but the signal isn't that good. Would the we-vibe III work well for that?
      Rose Rouge
      21 Apr 2012 15:58:06
    - The We-Vibe 3 works pretty well, better than my LELO lyla. There was a batch problem with the sensormotion products - might be worth checking with LELO to see if yours is one of them.
      NymphomaniacNess
      21 Apr 2012 16:36:50
    - Love my We-Vibe 3, though the remote does need to be pretty close to the toy to change the setting... It's comfy, quiet and very pleasurable on its own so fab for hidden play. It can also be used during sex (which gets kinda OMG fast), though you have to be in the mood for something gentle at that point, as it works best with just a little gentle rocking motion and not wild thrusting! ;)
      ElizabethNSpire
      04 May 2012 15:46:31
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    Favourite Sex Toy Colour
    CaraSutra
    10 Apr 2012 15:51:24
    - So many people are either only into black toys, really into pink toys, or against pink toys, others like their unusual orange or greens... how about you?
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:51:24
    - Hey, where's the red option in the poll? o_O I like my red! :p
      Incendiaire
      10 Apr 2012 16:37:55
    - Oh sorry! knew I'd forget something... and red of ALL colours!!! ~hides in shame~
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:10:37
    - im Other - im not really bothered about colours of toys apart from i dont like yellow ones! ha i just want them to do there job and do it well :P hehe Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:12:52
    - Other - With my main toys being glass or metal, then it's either clear or metal colour :p Though, I do have two purple RO 80mm bullets, and a blue vibe, and my glass vibe is black. I really don't have a favourite colour to be fair
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:35:24
    - I met a bunch of reviewers recently and they were staunchly against pink toys! o_O
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:36:16
    - i dont really understand why folks are bothered about the colours, i dont spend my time looking at them or thinking about what colour they are, for me there just there to do a job and do it well and then after the to be washed and live in the sex box ha.
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:49:36
    - with colours, I think people like them to be nice to look at, despite them living in a toy box/drawer/bag.
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:54:57
    - For some people I read about, their sex toy collections are a point of pride, almost like other people collect precious gems or antiques! I must say that some of the LELO and Glass toys are like ornaments.
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 22:02:28
    - clear but out of the 80 odd we have there are loads of random colours although iv not tryed glass yet but its def something i would like to in future
      bessy
      12 Apr 2012 22:02:00
    - yeh expensive 1s lol iv got toys that cost me £10 that are better and more reliable than some of the more expensive toys that cost me £40+ yeh the expensive toys look nice but i think pleasure and fun are better than looks tbh
      bessy
      12 Apr 2012 22:10:47
    - Anything but flesh coloured - I want my toys to be fun and original not look like a disembodied piece of anatomy!
      edn
      12 Apr 2012 22:18:25
    - Oh the cheap ones can be very fun - if you don't mind your toys being disposable! I have found generally plasticy, jelly toys only last one or two goes then fall apart! :/
      CaraSutra
      13 Apr 2012 07:50:18
    - For a long time I would always opt for purple if a toy had colour options and would avoid pink toys unless it was the only colour option on a great design of toy, but I am noticing a fair few pink toys creeping into my collection lately, I guess I got got over my dislike of pink toys at some point :p
      llellsee
      14 Apr 2012 10:13:12
    - I know what you mean, I choose any other colour but pink for my sex toys but somehow I have a lot of pink toys regardless! I personally prefer red or black. I love the LELO kinky bits n bobs :)
      CaraSutra
      14 Apr 2012 20:43:37
    - Haha oh dear, I like pink....! Not so much baby pink, but hot cerise pink :D after that purple, black and blue maybe?
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 10:49:31
    - i like pink toys too but it could be neon green care as long as it does its job and does it well
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 14:39:20
    - Neon green would be handy if it was glow in the dark too :)
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 14:58:37
    - hmm i dont see why they couldnt make one out of glow in the dark material ive seen a rabbit clone that lit up id rather have the batteries last longer ,most of my toys are rechargeable or glass
      nica
      15 Apr 2012 15:03:10
    - Well I just thought of the glow in the dark worms that I had as a kid....add a motor... ;) hehe! They could be fun if you get an urge in the middle of the night and can't find a light!
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 15:05:59
    - We basically like to go for unusual colours we don't have if that is an option. Don't let the colour put us off an otherwise good toy though. I really can't abide flesh colour though (also, whose flesh?). Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      06 May 2012 19:42:59
    - I've taken a serious liking to jet/matt black dildos lately based on the fact that they remind me of black latex gloves like the kind tattoo artists wear, they do look boring when sat next to a tentacle shaped dildo that is mix of shades of blue and greens though! Its nice to mix things up and have an interesting collection with lots of varying colours :wiggle:
      llellsee
      06 May 2012 23:27:55
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    help, which dildo?!
    Diamonds
    21 Apr 2012 18:16:19
    - hey guys, i hope some of you can offer me some advice and recommendations! im after a realistic dildo, no bigger then 7inc maxs and nothing then normal/avrg in girth. ive had a look about but im really not sure where to go/ what im looking for. i want something that is body safe, so thinking silicone? and doesn't have any hideous odor. i quiet like the look of the mr tom from ann summers, i think it sounds like what im after and £18 seems a good price, but what do you lot think? ive not really owned many dildos to be honest, i have glass which i love, but apart from them ive only ever had two other ones, the first was some cheap thing from a sale that didnt look like anything and the second one was the mini prince charming, but i think i got rid of it when i had a clear out many moons ago as i hardly used it. (ive started to enjoy differnt things in the bedroom now where as before it was just manly vibes for my clit). hope someone can help! since i got it in my head i want one i have started to have naughty dreams about them! lol :P
      Diamonds
      21 Apr 2012 18:16:19
    - Ok, If you're looking for something realistic and in that size range, then I recommend the Tantus Mark O2. You can't beat the dual-core of the O2 products for a realistic feeling, with a stiff centre and soft squishy outside, and it measures in at 6.25" x 1", so well within the realms of an average penis. A little more expensive than what you were thinking of, perhaps, but it's a product which will be satisfying and last. My belief is always to spend a little more in the first place, rather than buy something cheaper and have to keep replacing it.
      Incendiaire
      22 Apr 2012 01:12:10
    - I'm with Incendiaire with this one, on the buying quality and also on the O2 range. My personal recommendation would be the Tantus Adam O2, but they all look pretty good. FYI, I would be virtually certain the Ann Summers dildo you linked to isn't silicone, it doesn't use the word silicone only skin-safe, probably meaning skin-safe rubber (as they would likely say silicone if it was) which might still smell and will be porous.
      A Couple of Wankers
      02 May 2012 19:52:00
    - Tantus has to be it! They are simply the best silicone and body safe toys made. I love them. They cost a bit more but they are worth it as they'll last you years. Here's all the 5-6 inch silicone dildos at Lh for you to browse :)
      CaraSutra
      08 May 2012 13:34:15
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    Lovehoney on TV! C4 May 8th 10pm
    CaraSutra
    26 Apr 2012 11:22:14
    - Just seen on Twitter that Lovehoney will be the main subject of a 'behind the scenes' style documentary on Channel 4, 8th May at 10pm. I might give it a watch, see what things are like there, although I guess it will be highly edited for TV :) How about you guys? The details are on this Channel 4 press page here.
      CaraSutra
      26 Apr 2012 11:22:14
    - Awwww, I wish I could watch British TV!!
      Kiss_of_Crimson
      26 Apr 2012 13:39:39
    - Awww noone voted above :(( x
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 12:01:08
    - I'm nosey so I'll probably watch.
      Incendiaire
      28 Apr 2012 13:55:30
    - Apparently Lh don't even know what bits from months of filming will be used, so could go either way! Should be good though :D
      CaraSutra
      28 Apr 2012 13:57:02
    - Definitely :) We don't even own a tv but we'll make sure we get to see it.
      llellsee
      28 Apr 2012 21:00:11
    - Should be on 4 on demand afterwards I guess :)
      CaraSutra
      29 Apr 2012 08:17:10
    - I will make sure I sit and watch it, some how...
      Kera
      01 May 2012 16:59:28
    - I like these programmes! So I'll have a look!
      Breda
      01 May 2012 19:12:33
    - i will have to record it as im on holiday, so when im back guess that will be the first programme i will be watching
      rach74
      01 May 2012 20:16:51
    - Definitely watching, rather excited about it actually. Although I am sure as with most jobs the reality is less exciting than the imagination, still sounds like an awesome place to work! Also interested to see how much insight it gives into the industry itself, having absolutely no experience of this ourselves sure there will be some things that surprise us. Alex.
      A Couple of Wankers
      03 May 2012 21:32:22
    - I'm going to watch it for sure! If I lived in Bath I'd be sending my CV to Lovehoney.
      AliMc
      04 May 2012 08:33:03
    - I think there will be some surprises for everyone, having worked at a sex toy company for 2 years it certainly is different on the inside than how it appears.. I look forward to watching it though, they seem a happy and well organised bunch.
      CaraSutra
      04 May 2012 14:08:48
    - Have bookmarked it on the TV so I don't miss it... It's always good to see things from a different perspective, you never know what you might learn!
      ElizabethNSpire
      04 May 2012 16:05:53
    - It's tonight! Are you all excited lol Apparently they're a bit nervous over at Lh mwahahaha ~evil grin~
      CaraSutra
      08 May 2012 13:27:16
    - It was a good show; really enjoyed watching it and gaining some insight into what goes on behind the scenes when I put an order through :P
      AliMc
      09 May 2012 13:01:02
    - I found it both interesting and amusing! Love Andrea, the returns lady. Seems like the mum of Lh lol
      CaraSutra
      09 May 2012 13:58:29
    - I have it recorded, so I'm looking forward to watching it tonight when the smalls are gone to bed!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 15:26:40
    - Ok! I've watched the programme and I loved it!!!!!!! I want to work there!!!!!!!!!! They have the best fun ever! I like the Coco De mair stuff as well. What is that chair thing and where can I get one!
      Breda
      09 May 2012 22:22:14
    - Interesting article at InternetRetailing.net by Richard Longhurst revealing about traffic etc at Lovehoney during and after the programme >> http://internetretailing.net/2012/05/what-happens-when-your-ecommerce-business-stars-on-tv-lovehoney-shares-all/
      CaraSutra
      11 May 2012 09:48:56
    - "CaraSutra, post: 2105, member: 1" I thought it should have been a series, not a one-off show. I was quite surprised that the sex-toy market in the UK is only 250 million.
      TeaseMatt
      12 May 2012 06:53:28
    - I'd love it to be a series. I wonder if that figure is purely retail, not taking into account the profit on distribution?
      CaraSutra
      12 May 2012 06:55:30
    - Yeah, so gonna watch that tomorrow, going to make sure of it:rofl:
      Kera
      12 May 2012 18:46:32
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    Favourite sex toy material?
    CaraSutra
    09 Apr 2012 20:48:12
    - mine has to be glass and I know lots of other people out there love it. I still come across people (no, not literally! :p ) who are afraid of using it though!
      CaraSutra
      09 Apr 2012 20:48:12
    - Glass and Metal. Nothing beats the cold for me. Though I know that Master is still a bit wary with using both on me.
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 15:23:42
    - Yes they can be a bit harsh but I find the unyielding qualities of them even more alluring... For warmth a good quality silicone is great, with water lube of course. I don't own a wooden dildo yet, really want one tho! ;)
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 15:25:59
    - I like silicone mostly; the good ones are flexible, have some give in them, and absorb body heat really well, all of which I find makes it incredibly comfortable to use. I have had some disappointments though, the silicone used by Rocks Off and Topco tends to be really firm, and doesn't change temperature that readily. I plan to try a glass and metal toy in the near future, but I'm slightly worried that they'll be uncomfortable due to the hardness. It should be an interesting experience though.
      Incendiaire
      10 Apr 2012 16:45:08
    - Yeah Rocks Off can be a bit unforgiving, but mmm Tantus! For anal, glass is outrageously good. I also have an nJoy pure wand and that is just... indescribable.
      CaraSutra
      10 Apr 2012 17:09:12
    - i like glass and silicone, dont like the cheap rubber/jelly stuff that most cheap/avrg price toys are. in the long term there not a good investment compared to a good silicone toy. Dxx
      Diamonds
      10 Apr 2012 17:10:49
    - Yes, I'm still lusting after MANY glass and metal butt plugs. Alas, they won't be mind for a while though :(
      Kera
      10 Apr 2012 17:11:30
    - another vote for glass not tried metal yet but would like to xGGx
      Ghostgirl
      10 Apr 2012 20:39:42
    - glass for sure! would be my all time favorite
      nica
      11 Apr 2012 23:59:28
    - The sex toys that everyone has at the moment, are they mostly silicone or another material? I don't like jelly toys either, the smell, the melting, the cracks in them, if you're into the more rough side of pleasure... ~innocent~ :wiggle:
      CaraSutra
      12 Apr 2012 11:40:14
    - Most of mine are glass or silicone, I actually need to look through mine and sort out the drawer they're in now and count how many I do actually own
      Kera
      12 Apr 2012 11:58:50
    - Silicone and glass. Hate my rubber ones now and hard plastic :(
      Wizadora
      15 Apr 2012 10:26:25
    - I still want a wooden dildo, and/or porcelain...
      CaraSutra

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