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Halloween Giveaway 2019: Win A Spookily Sexy £150+ Prize Bundle

Halloween Giveaway 2019: Win A Spookily Sexy £150+ Prize Bundle

Happy Halloween! October is only just getting started, but you can be in it to win it in my new & exciting Halloween Giveaway 2019. Win yourself a scarily sexy bundle of sex toys, bondage and other sexy items. Keep reading to find out exactly what you could win in this awesome competition, as well as how to enter.

Relationship Counseling, Relationship Coach & Marriage Therapy

Firstly, most marriage therapy or relationship counseling completely lacks the integration of sex. Sex is a big part of intimacy, connection, and pair bonding in a relationship, and yet it’s ignored by more relationship counselors. Secondly, most marriage therapy is based on the medical model, so they try to fix what is wrong and not find and enhance what is right or could be amazing.

Buy Used Panties and Sell Worn Underwear at Sofia Gray

Purchasing or selling used underwear often evokes strong opinions, but when you think about it, the enjoyment of worn knickers can be extremely pleasurable for all concerned. I'm not ashamed to say I've sold my own worn underwear in the past –well, why not? I buy some pretty panties, wear them, take a few photos if I feel like it and then... instant profit.

Expired: Win A Holiday To Hedonism Jamaica With Hot Octopuss  

Yes, you could win a sexy holiday to Jamaica thanks to a sensational new competition from Hot Octopuss. Known for their universally-friendly, uniquely accessible and breathtakingly effective sex toys, multi award-winning Hot Octopuss have now partnered with luxury 'clothing optional' resort Hedonism II to offer a sensational holiday to Hedonism which includes 4 days accommodation, all your food and drink and, of course, the intoxicating plethora of sensual pleasures Jamaica and Hedonism II have to offer.

YES Organic Intimacy Week 2019 (& Sexy Hamper Giveaway)

This week it's YES Organic Intimacy Week, a global awareness campaign which YES hope will increase people's general knowledge of intimate products, as well as the importance of selecting the highest purity quality sex lubes and moisturisers for ongoing intimate wellbeing.  

Big Guide To Strap-On Dildos, & Our Pegging Dildo Reviews

You may remember my last 'big guide' - the Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses I published last month. Obviously you'll need a fantastic dildo to attach to your new strap-on harness, so here's the follow-up feature: my big guide to strap-on dildos!

Expired: Lingerie Giveaway: Win The Leg Avenue Rainbow Body

One of the items I modelled and reviewed over summer is the Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body, which is both joyfully colourful and extremely comfortable and flattering. Even better: I have another Leg Avenue Rainbow Body (usually priced at £/$19.99) to give away to one of my lovely readers in a new and exciting giveaway.

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

Pleasure Panel Closure: Why The Pleasure Panel Sex Toy Reviews Project Closed

For the past 4 years I've hosted a popular community reviews project here at the Cara Sutra sex blog called the Pleasure Panel. Sadly, this project closed at the start of July this year. I wanted to write an official update to clarify that the Pleasure Panel project is officially closed, and no more sign-ups to it are being accepted.

I Had My Cervical Screening And It Wasn’t Scary At All | Smear Test Report 

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

New Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Collaborative Sex Toy Release

Two hugely successful sex toy brands have collaborated to present a thrilling new product which promises effortless orgasms. Introducing the Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator. Utilising the now patented Pleasure Air Technology, first created in 2013 by Michael Lenke, the Womanizer Pro40 is the latest addition to the globally popular and successful Womanizer sex toy family.