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Here’s just a few examples of the top-quality fetish information articles you can read and enjoy here on the blog. After this introduction you’ll find the entire catalogue of fetish info posts written by both myself and various talented, kinky guest authors.
“Strap-on sex is seen as an incredibly kinky act in the world of BDSM. Many submissive men view being ‘taken’ by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo as terrifyingly arousing. But strap-on sex isn’t only enjoyed by men who identify as submissive in the world of D/s and power exchange. My partner, for example, is Dominant – yet absolutely loves when I don my strap-on harness and dildo and give him anal pleasure with it. Other men out there enjoy strap-on sex from their partner without the pre-requisite for submission or a power exchange dynamic. So: why do we fetishize strap-on sex?”
“I’ve written plenty about chastity in the past. It’s no secret that I love the idea, and reality, of a guy with his cock locked up while I’m in control of the key, his orgasms, even his ability to touch himself there. By contrast, I love the freedom to touch myself whenever I want –and I make the most of that freedom, as you can see by the thousands of sex toy reviews and erotic articles here on the blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, when I’m the one locked up I mean. How about the flip side of chastity: forced orgasms? There’s still the element of external control -but rather than orgasm denial, I would be (consensually, of course) forced to orgasm over and over.”
“Does mention of watersports conjure up innocent images of surfing and jet skis -or raise a knowing smirk? For the non-vanilla activity, “golden showers” is probably a more familiar term to most thanks to tabloid coverage of various celebrity/political scandals, as well as good old internet porn.
Although I’m fairly sure that watersports won’t ever reach my top 5 hottest kinks and fetishes list, it is something I’ve experimented with in the past. With the right person, in the right situation (the shower, usually…), such an intimate play session can feel intensely raunchy and arousing.”
“As someone with an interest in another area of ageplay, I imagine that the adult baby fetish is viewed as extremely niche and is often misunderstood. Perhaps feared a little –even within the BDSM sphere.
The theory is that YKINMK (Your Kink Is Not My Kink, a statement of compassionate acceptance within BDSM), and that all consensual adult happenings within BDSM are equally welcome. The reality can feel rather different if your kink doesn’t happen to be one of the ‘headline acts’ -female submission, male chastity or bondage. I’ve talked about this before, from the point of view of Femdom within the BDSM scene.”
It involves using specialised equipment to stimulate our genitals using electricity. It is a gender-free masturbatory activity that is fun on your own or with a partner.
“But electricity is dangerous!”, I hear you cry – and yes, you are right. So, I wouldn’t recommend attaching your genitals to the national grid, perish the thought.”
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