Kinky Sex Diary

Here’s what you really want to know: how kinky things really get between my sheets (and elsewhere)! Welcome to my kinky sex diary here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, ready to thrill, shock and arouse in equal measures.

I’m very lucky to have the opportunity to indulge all my personal fantasies and sexual desires, no matter how kinky they may be. I identify as a Dominant woman, and I’m happily in a long-term relationship with my also Dominant male partner. During our intimate playtimes we enjoy role-play as well as passionate lovemaking, where I enjoy being spanked and the satisfying fulfilment bondage brings. We explore various other kinks too, such as name-calling, fisting, anal play and ageplay, with the DDlg kink (Daddy Dom/little girl) being our usual favourite.

I love FemDom and I enjoy dominating male slaves and submissives with kinks such as chastity, foot and boot worship, cuckoldry and more. I’ve even teamed up with a lady lover in the past to double domme and double cuckold our male slaves. You can read real life accounts of my relationships with male slaves and how it feels, what I get out of it all, from a Mistress’ point of view.

My kinky sex diary shares the highlights from my hectic but fun life and I do my best to keep this area updated – I’m usually busy doing all the things, though, and naughtily don’t get the chance/have the energy to write absolutely everything up! If you’d love to read more saucy tales, head over to my kinky sex stories area for some seriously hot BDSM erotica.

Choking Fetish Sexy Story

I'm lying, fairly spent, dizzy, empty headed and happy after another energetic, frenzied choking fetish session. The sheets are twisted and rumpled, around and between us. Our bodies hot and coated in a light sheen while we lay partially across each other, not sure where one ends and the other begins.

What I Get Out Of Locking A Man In A Chastity Cage

By Cara Sutra: What thrill could anyone get out of locking a man into a chastity cage? At a time when the spotlight is full blast on BDSM and kink it’s refreshing to see Uber Kinky coming to the fore and raising awareness about different types of alternative relationships. What I mean is, plenty of people are now aware of light bedroom bondage which has been mainly interpreted as female sub, male Dominant. Because all relationships consist of two people, hetero, cis, the whole gender binary he-she-bang. Well actually, no.

My Deserved Punishment From Mistress

I'd taken far too long to complete the last task I'd been given, and my Mistress was very displeased with me. Despite my begging and pleading, and my grovelling apology, I got the impression Mistress was deliberately making me wait before announcing her chosen punishment.

Tease and Denial

A leather mask over his face. Full black out. The only sensation comes from small slits for breathing holes around the nostrils and the limited circle for mouth. Just enough to, incidentally, let his tongue through. You'd love to be in that position wouldn't you?
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Keyholding for a New Chastity sub/slave

I was pleased to recently find a male submissive on My Mistress Cara Twitter who was not only the minimum age I require My subs to be (30), but also a slave to chastity...

When he touches me

We are together constantly but it seems only a few, brief snapshot moments where we share that intimacy. When we touch again, he catches my attention with his skin on mine once more; when he touches me, fingers through my hair, hand on my shoulder or round my throat, pulling me by my hips to sit on his lap or his fingers entwining with mine to give me a reassuring squeeze of his love.

Am I Submissive? Let’s Talk About Female Submission

For me, female submission is an entirely sexual act, not a lifestyle choice or a facet of my personality. I submit to my partner for my pleasure, as well as for his. The act of him taking pleasure in my sexual submission or bedroom role-play keys into an underlying vanity. That's why I say I'm a secret female submissive... for his enjoyment only.

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

Fuck Me Hard And Give Me Your Rough Sex

I slide to my knees, between your legs. You tear your eyes away from what you are doing to look down at me. My eyes are pleading with you, burning with need. Please. Please let me. Please may I feel you. Please may I taste you. Please fuck me hard right now.

A Domme’s Fantasy: Your Submission

By Cara Sutra: Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if you were completely submissive to me. My mind tends to stray towards a sexual kinky fantasy - a Domme's fantasy. They're not talked about much, right? Usually all eyes are on the submissive - the submissive male, in the majority of FemDom - but what does a Domme dream about?

Watching My Boyfriend Suck Another Man’s Cock

His mouth, with all its masculine bearded surround, enveloping the cock tip. My boyfriend's lips forming the O around the collar of his friend's dick, as if it were second nature. I moistened my own lips, as if in readiness. I could almost taste and feel every millimetre for myself, so familiar were the actions. I've sucked cock a thousand times and know the tricks. What I didn't know was that I'd been giving my boyfriend lessons.

Can You Be A Homophobic Bisexual Submissive Male?

By Cara Sutra: Can you be a homophobic bisexual submissive male? Let's explore this fascinating subject. First, here's two interesting facts about a recent new slave.

Whenever He Wants – Real Life Sex Story

That's the lesson learned. Whenever he wants. I never know when it will be. The first sign is just a look, that look. Piercing with those beautiful dark eyes, invading me even before the first touch. Thrills travelling directly and occupying territory that I know belongs to him.

Happy Birthday Daddy

My Daddy is very big and so very strong. He has big hands to hold me tight and strong warm arms to wrap around me tightly and make any bad things go away. Daddy always has zillions Happy Birthday Daddy From Your Dirty Little Girlof cuddles and huggles for his little girl.

Foot Worship From My Slave Girl

Those excited dark pink nipples were proudly presented for my delectation. I took a moment to idly fantasise about reaching down and taking one in each finger and thumb and twisting them til she screamed. My cunt was already wet but now the wetness pooled at the inside of my thighs, then slowly spread to the latex material beneath my arse.

After Eights Sex With Chocolate Sexy Story

I love food and I love sex. Combine the two for the kinkiest, sexiest, most perverted sex. I adore it. Having admitted this fact to him, he obviously wanted to take full advantage. I love when he takes full advantage of me. Anyway. I’m not sure if I wrote about the After Eights sex with chocolate occasion that happened a few months ago?

Submissive woman real life stories

If you're looking for submissive woman real life stories, you're in the right place. My life, with my deliciously cruel, evil Dom, is a sexy sub girl's wet aching and mewling dream. The fantasy is real.

Fifty Shades Of Grey Bridges The Gap Between Vanilla And Kink

How do you feel about 50 Shades? My take on how Fifty Shades of Grey bridges the gap between vanilla and kink

Fifty Shades of Grey Movie Review by Cara Sutra

By Cara Sutra: I don’t care what you think about Fifty Shades of Grey. By the time the Fifty Shades of Grey Movie was released in UK cinemas I was bouncing with excitement about going to see it. Not because I’m the world’s biggest 50 Shades fan. Not because I find Christian Grey knicker-gushingly hot. Because I wanted to be able to make up my own damn mind without being torn one way or the other by other people’s opinions.

The Capture

I want to share with you all today, a very hot story that was written for me by one of my submissives. I simply love the style of writing, the imagination and creativity as...