Kinky Sex Diary

Here’s what you really want to know: how kinky things really get between my sheets (and elsewhere)! Welcome to my kinky sex diary here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, ready to thrill, shock and arouse in equal measures.

I’m very lucky to have the opportunity to indulge all my personal fantasies and sexual desires, no matter how kinky they may be. I identify as a Dominant woman, and I’m happily in a long-term relationship with my also Dominant male partner. During our intimate playtimes we enjoy role-play as well as passionate lovemaking, where I enjoy being spanked and the satisfying fulfilment bondage brings. We explore various other kinks too, such as name-calling, fisting, anal play and ageplay, with the DDlg kink (Daddy Dom/little girl) being our usual favourite.

I love FemDom and I enjoy dominating male slaves and submissives with kinks such as chastity, foot and boot worship, cuckoldry and more. I’ve even teamed up with a lady lover in the past to double domme and double cuckold our male slaves. You can read real life accounts of my relationships with male slaves and how it feels, what I get out of it all, from a Mistress’ point of view.

My kinky sex diary shares the highlights from my hectic but fun life and I do my best to keep this area updated – I’m usually busy doing all the things, though, and naughtily don’t get the chance/have the energy to write absolutely everything up! If you’d love to read more saucy tales, head over to my kinky sex stories area for some seriously hot BDSM erotica.

Fuck Me Hard And Give Me Your Rough Sex

I slide to my knees, between your legs. You tear your eyes away from what you are doing to look down at me. My eyes are pleading with you, burning with need. Please. Please let me. Please may I feel you. Please may I taste you. Please fuck me hard right now.

A Satisfying Valentine’s Night

Years of memories of shared sex intimacy raced through my mind, countless kinky scenes tumbling through together, overwhelming me with instant lust. Panic blended seamlessly with trust and formed the liquid desire which escaped between my legs.  

Fetish Friday: Owning a slave from a Mistress’ point of view

Of course I do love the kink aspects of D/s, in particular, long term male chastity, male humiliation, foot worship and suchlike. I definitely do NOT have sexual contact with any submissives or slaves.

Submissive woman real life stories

If you're looking for submissive woman real life stories, you're in the right place. My life, with my deliciously cruel, evil Dom, is a sexy sub girl's wet aching and mewling dream. The fantasy is real.

Fetish Friday: My new slave, the rubber gimp

I have recently acquired a rubber gimp. We haven't actually met in person yet, we are chatting on messenger and exchanging ideas. He is mostly confirming how much of a useless waste of space...
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Keyholding for a New Chastity sub/slave

I was pleased to recently find a male submissive on My Mistress Cara Twitter who was not only the minimum age I require My subs to be (30), but also a slave to chastity...

Sleeping in bondage

I've had a penchant for sleeping in bondage ever since I was old enough to know what those needs are, that ache to be spanked and fucked and to masturbate in the dark of night. Those late teenage hormonal induced desires which made me aware of not only my sexual self, and the fact that I'm bisexual, but I'm also one kinky fuck who loves bondage.

Chastity Keys Tease

I do like to tease the ones I hold chastity keys for whilst I am their Keyholder Mistress. Yesterday you will have seen my Red, White and Cruel post. Today I have pics featuring another...

Whenever He Wants – Real Life Sex Story

That's the lesson learned. Whenever he wants. I never know when it will be. The first sign is just a look, that look. Piercing with those beautiful dark eyes, invading me even before the first touch. Thrills travelling directly and occupying territory that I know belongs to him.

Tease and Denial

A leather mask over his face. Full black out. The only sensation comes from small slits for breathing holes around the nostrils and the limited circle for mouth. Just enough to, incidentally, let his tongue through. You'd love to be in that position wouldn't you?

Ageplay fetish whore for Daddy

I simply must write to share what happened last night... the best orgasm of my life, I never thought it could feel like this but giving into my/our ageplay fetish and my journey to being a good Daddy's little girl is giving me a whole new (and much more exciting) sex life.

Invisalign Blowjob: My Kinky Teeth

By Cara Sutra: Dear Daddy: When I suck your cock with my Invisalign aligners in, I get all self-conscious. I never used to be self-conscious when I was sucking your cock. But somehow, an Invisalign blowjob makes everything different.

When he touches me

We are together constantly but it seems only a few, brief snapshot moments where we share that intimacy. When we touch again, he catches my attention with his skin on mine once more; when he touches me, fingers through my hair, hand on my shoulder or round my throat, pulling me by my hips to sit on his lap or his fingers entwining with mine to give me a reassuring squeeze of his love.

Cuckolding My Chaste Property

Indulged myself last night with a furtherance to the physical loving from My real man... wearing some gorgeous pin striped lingerie afterwards for the purpose of allowing my slave to sleep with them and My scent... our juices... the rest of this week.

Choking Fetish Sexy Story

I'm lying, fairly spent, dizzy, empty headed and happy after another energetic, frenzied choking fetish session. The sheets are twisted and rumpled, around and between us. Our bodies hot and coated in a light sheen while we lay partially across each other, not sure where one ends and the other begins.

A Domme’s Fantasy: Your Submission

By Cara Sutra: Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if you were completely submissive to me. My mind tends to stray towards a sexual kinky fantasy - a Domme's fantasy. They're not talked about much, right? Usually all eyes are on the submissive - the submissive male, in the majority of FemDom - but what does a Domme dream about?

FemDom Mistress Email To Puppy Slut

Today has been all about my FemDom Mistress email to my puppy slut who is so very far away. I wanted to share with you just a snippet of this email, which I sent to My long distance submissive today. We have been in contact now for many years. Recently reconnected, as we always do. There is something magical there. It works perfectly. Not as the relationships you may know and understand, but something else. Total power exchange (TPE) indeed.

The Time I Made Him Make Me Safe Out

It hurts SO much. Is this all I can take? Would someone else be able to take more? Am I being a wuss? I want him to be proud of me. It hurts. Fuck, that hurts so much. Ok I am going to say red. Any minute now…

Am I Submissive? Let’s Talk About Female Submission

For me, female submission is an entirely sexual act, not a lifestyle choice or a facet of my personality. I submit to my partner for my pleasure, as well as for his. The act of him taking pleasure in my sexual submission or bedroom role-play keys into an underlying vanity. That's why I say I'm a secret female submissive... for his enjoyment only.

London Fuck Doll: Fucked, Denied, Satisfied

I moaned aloud as he took me by the shoulders and drove the full length of his cock deep into my achingly hungry pussy. My slippery, soft labia were spread apart as they massaged his welcome penetration. My head turned to the side, flat on the bed as he pinned it there with his heavy hand in my hair, he rammed his cock into me repeatedly, frenziedly. This wasn't love-making. This was primitive, carnal rutting.