Sexy New Year's Resolutions

Each year I try to put together a public statement of what I plan to achieve over the course of the following 12 months. Sometimes I make it, sometimes I don't. Here's where you'll find my annual sexy New Year's Resolutions at the Cara Sutra sex blog, as well as my top New Year sex tips.

  

You'll find my New Year's resolutions dating all the way back to 2012 in this area. In recent years I've tried to steer away from resolving to do anything, and focused more on making goals to work towards and hopefully achieve. Resolutions often equate to giving something up, or something similarly and suddenly extreme, whereas having a goal feels positive and optimistic.

 

I know I've titled this area as sexy New Year's resolutions (well, this is a sex blog after all), but to be honest I have set plenty of goals which, in themselves, aren't sexual in nature or theme. However, as they're all projects I want to complete or targets I want to hit, the end result is a happier, more confident me, which has the side-effect of making me feel sexier and raising my libido, too. Win-win!

  

Like a lot of people, many of my New Year goals are centred on weight-loss after the celebratory excesses of the Christmas holidays. Nowadays it's less about losing weight and more about becoming the strongest, fittest me that I can be. Other goals have included getting my teeth straight via Invisalign (you can read a sexy post about blowjobs while wearing Invisalign elsewhere on the blog), learning to drive and buying our first home.

 

I hope you enjoy reading all my sexy New Year's resolutions and discovering some fresh New Year sex tips.

  

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