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There's a wealth of fantastic guest posts here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which cover just as diverse an array of sexuality topics as my own sex tips and advice posts. These guest submissions are marked as such to help you differentiate between the different authors writing for the site.

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Guest posts previously published here at Cara Sutra may be sponsored submissions, which doesn’t mean they’re any less interesting or valuable in terms of the sex advice and informative content they provide. These sponsored guest features cover subjects such as sex and masturbation tips, the use of sex dolls, dating, escorts and other sex work, adult product guides and general adult lifestyle pieces.

There are various submissions to the site which are non-sponsored, too. Some of my good friends in the adult industry are also talented sex writers, and they have kindly offered their insightful features to me to publish on the blog. These may be sexy stories, sex tips & advice, or BDSM articles providing the real kinkster point of view on the given topic.

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Scared to Buy Your First Sex Toy? Here’s What to Do

Sex toys used to be a bit frowned on, kept hidden under stuff in the bottom drawer or in a box under the bed.  But now, people are much more open about their use and their benefits. They can help you enjoy a range of sensations and have fun.  But if you are looking to buy your first sex toy, it can still be intimidating, even when you use a top quality website like Pleasure Delights.

How to Sell On Ebay – Creating the Best Ebay Listing

by Hella Rude As one of the biggest selling platforms in the world that's open to any individual, Ebay is a fantastic testing platform for product ranges and is used by several leading High Street names to clear excess stock. If you're thinking about starting a business with your own products, you'll find Ebay's platform much more friendly than the nightmarish spreadsheet you need to complete for Amazon Marketplace - it's the best place to test small runs of new designs or clear out sample stock.

Should You Ever Have Sex With An Ex?

By Mel MacFarlane: A break up can trigger many different emotions. Some people may feel relief whereas others are heartbroken. After all, it isn’t just the breakdown of the relationship, but your future plans together too. Despite this, many of us still find it hard to resist the temptation of slipping back between the bedsheets with an ex - but why?

Happy Easter: Let’s Talk About Sex And Religion

By Zak Jane Keir Of course, it’s Easter, which is the Christian festival most associated with ‘fertility rituals’ and symbols that are not really that Christian at all – though there is still no agreement, let alone any proof, as to which specific ancient pagan feast inspired the annual celebration of eggs, bunnies, flowers and binging on chocolate. I wish you all joy and delight in the springtime, whether your bunnies are battery-powered or the sort that moan with joy when you wrap them up in rope, and if you want to mark the occasion by eating a Creme Egg off your favourite playmate’s naughty bits then go right ahead.

Why You Shouldn’t be Ashamed of Your ‘Controversial’ Sexual Fantasy

Nearly everyone has a sexual fantasy or fetish that they are nervous revealing to a partner. It may be a pretty tame, run of the mill kink or a fetish that's a bit eye opening, it simply doesn't matter. Often, we're so worried about pleasing our partner in the bedroom that we often push our own desires aside. Well, that's just not fair! A big part of a good sex life is being able to communicate effectively, so there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to tell your partner about your fantasy – no matter how dirty it is.

Beginner’s Guide To Urethral Sounding & Penis Sounds Play

Once you're ready, lube up the sound (and the end of your penis) and slowly slide the tip in. Once in, keep hold of both the sound and your penis, then slowly allow gravity to pull the sound deeper. Once you're at the base of the penis, stop for a moment and slowly pull the sound out, ever so gently. This is approximately where the best sensations are to be found.

​Retroactive Jealousy – Why You’re Hung Up On Your Partner’s Sexual Past

Several years ago I used to suffer from what is known as retroactive jealousy — an irrational obsession with a partner’s sexual or romantic past. It all started with me when my new girlfriend and I were woken up at 2 am by one of her former hook-up buddies calling to see if she was “around” that night.

How To Seduce Them With A Sensual Erotic Massage

A sensual, erotic massage can be a wonderfully relaxing and enriching experience for both you and your partner, especially as a prelude to sexual activity. Many people, however, might not have a clue where to start in the world of massage, with a huge variety of products and advice available.

Holiday Sex Antics

Sometimes you just cannot account for things that make you laugh out loud but embarrass you to the core. Such a thing happened to me the year before last while my man and I were employed in a little holiday sex.

Single Life, Sexuality & Dating: An Introduction

By Cheryl Kaye Just a few years ago I was certain about so many things. I was positive I was ‘straight’, I could acknowledge that I found some girls more attractive than others but I figured that was just what everyone thought. Occasionally, I would think about what it would be like to kiss a girl, to taste her, to run my hands over her body, and to have her do the same to me. But I knew I loved cock, I wasn’t gay.

Slipping into the world of Nuru Massage

By Karma Tantric: I have been a huge fan of erotic massage ever since I encountered my first body to body massage a few years ago. My willingness to try new things unknowingly opened a whole new playground of sexual pleasure into my life. It’s a combination of total sensory relaxation, coupled with the up-close skin to skin sensation that induces some of the most wildly intense orgasms I have ever managed to achieve.

Feel More Attractive, Sexy & Confident – 10 Ways to Give Your Self Esteem...

Knowing what you like in and out of bed is always good for your self-esteem, but we're going to focus on between the sheets for this one. It can be difficult to feel confident in bed if you are unsure about what turns you on, so do some research! Treat yourself to some alone time and satisfy your curiosity – that means experimenting with toys, movies and whatever else takes your fancy. When you are more confident about what brings you pleasure, you'll find that it's a lot easier to be more assertive. That's out of the bedroom too!

How To Gift Lingerie She Loves For Christmas

By Mel MacFarlane: As a woman, I love opening expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.

Why Can’t I Keep My Butt Plug In? How Long Can I Wear An...

By Hella Rude Try to get used to wearing the plug and allow yourself to forget about it. Pop it in, stick on a movie and veg out. Just relax and do nothing at all. You want to clear your mind of any sexy thoughts and just stop thinking about it. Your body will relax around it and start to get used to it being there, just give it time to acclimatise to the sensations. Lots of people find that when they forget the plug's there, keeping it in is easy work.

The Lovetron 9000: Biohacking, Your Sexual Future & Other Futuristic Shiz

What are biohackers? you're wondering. Biohacking is a fairly new practice that could lead to some real major evolutionary changes in our lifetime. You could it call citizen or do-it-yourself biology. This is self-styled body improvements. There is no real set standard; one biohacker’s hack may not be the panacea of another’s. Biohacking is what you get when you combine the field of biology with hacking.

Fifty Shades of Grey: Not as badly written as you think

Although it topped bestseller lists around the world, E. L. James’ erotic romance novel, Fifty Shades of Grey, was widely panned by critics for its poor use of language. The Grammarly team reviewed the book for spelling, grammar, and punctuation errors, and learned that -- although there were some mistakes -- the errors were in alignment with similar gaffes in celebrated romances. It seems that the language of love really is a language of its own! Grammarly has reviewed a list of frequent grammar mistakes from Fifty Shades of Grey, as well as some quotes from classic romances that also make these mistakes -- from Tender is the Night to Wuthering Heights and Pride and Prejudice. Thanks to Grammarly for this insightful and interesting infographic exploring the 'errors' in Fifty Shades of Grey.

Sun, Sea & Sex: How to Bag a Holiday Hottie & Have The Trip...

Going on holiday is all about leaving boring everyday life behind, so why not let your holiday escapades reflect that? If you're meeting someone and having sex with them for the first time, it's time to shed your inhibitions and do what you have always wanted to do in bed. Whether it is a new position or having sex in public, as long as your partner is into it, then don't hold back. You won't be worrying about what pre-conceptions your hook-up may have of you, and as long as you are safe, your fling need not have any lasting consequences. So pack some confidence into that suitcase of yours too, and you'll have gorgeous guy’s queueing up to get up close and personal with you.

Long Distance Lovers: When Dirty Talk Is The Sex

By Cameryn Moore A lot of the advice out there about dirty talk treats it as a sort of accessory to “real sex”. It’s like putting a feather boa on: it’s all fun and tickly and exotic for maybe ten minutes, but at some point you’re gonna wanna tear it off because it’s getting in the way of the good stuff...

Can Bloggers Go to Trade Shows?

by Hella Rude You are part of the modern press and you are therefore someone manufacturers want in attendance. You provide publicity for the brands while at the event by tweeting, blogging and even periscoping what's going on and you'll write honest things about their creations in exchange for products.

Sexhibition UK promises steamy & sexy adult expo in Manchester this August

Bringing together erotica, fetish, catwalk shows, and five star gourmet dining with a seductive burlesque twist, Sexhibition will be a daring and sexy day out for those wanting to take a walk on the wild side.. We've also got a sneak peak at the Sexhibition cinema trailer, which is being screened before the showing of Fifty Shades Of Grey this coming weekend. Event organiser, Cheryl Smith explains, "The event of the Fifty Shades phenomenon is doing great things for British attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Whatever your opinion of the FSOG books and film, it's got us all - especially women - talking about our fantasies and that's got to be a good thing!"