Commissioned Sexuality Articles

As a freelance writer for the adult industry, I’m regularly called upon by brands, businesses and websites to assist with various areas of digital marketing and advertising new products and happenings. One of the ways I can help spread the news of new ranges and services is through writing these commissioned sexuality articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.

Many of these commissioned posts focus on letting my readers know about new adult product releases; new sex toy ranges and sexy lingerie collections. Some introduce an adult industry business or sex-related website to my audience, using my clear and comprehensive write-up to motivate readers to click through and discover more. Or perhaps there’s a specific event happening in the industry which the organisers would love more exposure for -and hiring me to write about the event is an effective way to go about this.

I enjoy writing commissioned articles which represent real value to my loyal readers. These blog posts touch on various themes from the diverse spectrum of sexuality. They could have a very specific theme at their heart, such as dating, sex work or masturbation tips, or provide a general guide to sexual health, adult products or kink.

If you would like me to write some commissioned sexuality articles for your adult business, please get in touch. My rates are incredibly reasonable and your article will not only be enjoyed by my many readers here on the blog, but the link is shared through my social media platforms too.

Lessons in Lube: Your complete guide to sexual lubricants

Choosing the right lubricant for you and your partner can be an absolutely mind-boggling task. There is such a vast array of lubes to choose from, you could be stumped before you get started. Why are there so many different types? It’s just lube, right? Well, not quite.

Freedoms Shop Celebrates The Liberating Feeling Of Safe Sex

By Cara Sutra: Steamy. Sensual. Passionate. Hot. Hard. Fast. Many words may come to mind when you think of sex, but is ‘safe’ one of them? It should be. Safe sex has always been of great importance, but never more so in this time of sexual freedom, where we are able to connect with another person sexually without as much fear of society backlash or oppression.

Post-confession: Turning that outed fantasy into reality

Do you require any special furniture? There are many adult themed hotels as well as play spaces like dungeons available for short term hire. Find them through searching the internet or signing up to adult chat and kinky dating communities.

Does using sex toys mean your partner isn’t good enough?

Picture the scene: You get home at the end of the day, and not seeing your boyfriend downstairs, you head to the bedroom. You walk in, and... he's there. Making love to her.

Mistakes which make a mockery of your writing

I have a major problem with people who rely on spell-check to proof and edit their work for them. Spell-check will merely check if your words are all spelled correctly. That's ALL. It will not correct the wrong words in the wrong place, nor will it tell you if you have missed a word or two out of a sentence, rendering it incomprehensible.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Dressed to Domme – The Shiny Layers of FemDom Fashion

Your heart is beating faster and faster. You feel hot but cold and clammy all at once and you're not really sure why. You can barely think to open your mouth to reply to whatever question he just asked; in any case you know whatever reply you give will be words falling over each other and stuttering their way out into the air, catching in your throat with inexplicable nerves.

Sex News: New Lovense Bluetooth & Internet Sex Toys

The future is now with these technological wonders, the new Lovense sex toys. Max is the penis stimulating sex toy, while Nora is the vagina & clit pleasuring rabbit vibrator.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: A guide to submission: switch, submissive or slave?

There are a lot of different terms bandied around both the fetish and mainstream circles, relating to the orientation of players in kink and BDSM. Slave, submissive, switch - as well as various pet names such as puppy or bitch - can leave you feeling confused as to exactly where you stand in the grand scale of things. The BDSM spectrum is very large (in fact I feel that vanilla or kinky, we are all on the same spectrum, not living synonymously) and the chances are you will find yourself drawn to one large label over another. My new article over at Erotica UK discusses why labels can be useful even if you're averse to labelling yourself normally, and what the difference is between the big three terms for submissive players in BDSM.

8 Top Tips for Spectacular Male Masturbation

There is nothing, repeat, nothing wrong with masturbation. It doesn't make your palms hairy, you won't go blind and your penis won't fall off. Regular masturbation is a healthy part of an adult male's sex life and there is nothing shameful about it whatsoever.

Life after a relationship – can you ever move on?

Post-relationship life: can you ever move on? When you're in a relationship, it's easy to get into a comfortable routine of living. Your partner is there when you get back from work, or you make...

How Do I Tell My Partner About My Fantasy? Sex Confessions

Are you ashamed about any of your sexual fantasies? Would you be daring enough to take the necessary steps to make any of your sexual fantasies a reality? It can be a challenge even considering how to spill your sex confessions. Many people come to me to ask: how do I tell my partner about my fantasy?

Incompatible Sexual Desires and How to Combat Them

What do you do when your sex drive is stronger than your partner's? How about having sexual fantasies that they have no interest in making reality? What if you're the one who doesn't fancy sex quite as often as before?

Phone Sex Lines – Relationship Help or Hindrance?

It's not all hearts and roses. For adults in a committed relationship, there can be times when keeping a relationship alive and happy is a real struggle. Couples can find themselves battling against one or more of the most popular issues to beset relationships with challenging times.

How To Make Time For Sexy Time With A Busy Life

By Cara Sutra: Sexy time is important time. It doesn't matter whether you're involved in a relationship or single, whether you're male or female. Regardless of your personal circumstances, making time to satisfy your sexual needs should be a priority for every adult. A big question, though, is how to make time for sexy time with a busy life?

Talking Dirty – How, Why and What’s the big deal?

Just what is talking dirty? Why do people like it? How do you talk dirty? Where do you go for tips and advice?

How To Become A Dominant In The Bedroom

I don't know if you've heard, but the latest way to inject some sizzle into your sex life is with a generous dollop of kink. Ok, not the latest way. But although fetish, kink and BDSM have been practised for centuries, it is certainly enjoying plenty of the limelight right now, thanks to the 50 Shades of Grey saga.

Do Straight Women Have Lesbian Fantasies?

By Cara Sutra: Do straight women have lesbian fantasies? Perhaps this is something you've been wondering, as your mind strays towards bi-curious thoughts during daydreams.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Lifestyle versus Professional Domination

There is a world of difference between a talented Dominant who is financially recompensed for her time and talents, and a sex worker who chooses to incorporate bondage and corporal punishment into the services she offers. Too many people make the mistake of assuming that the two are one and the same. Professional Dommes are not prostitutes. Any remuneration is for her Domination skills and expertise, not for sexual contact or sex acts. Sexual contact will not be a part of any session with any Professional Dominatrix worth her salt.

Learning the ropes – introducing bondage to the bedroom

Bondage in a sexual setting is the act of restraining a person or being restrained for psychological or sexual pleasure. The most recognisable and mainstream item used in a bedroom scenario is the infamous furry handcuffs, now a somewhat derided object in the mainstream, used as a joke on hen and stag weekends to represent kinky and immoral attitudes to sex.

Will Anal Sex Toys Make Me Gay? | Men’s Sex Health

A man who enjoys using a butt plug. Does that notion conjures up any homosexual connotations for you? Then you have fallen prey to one of the most common and persistent sexuality myths. When it comes to men's sex health, a surprising number of guys are questioning, "will anal sex toys make me gay?"