Tuesday, December 10, 2019

Commissioned Sexuality Articles

As a freelance writer for the adult industry, I’m regularly called upon by brands, businesses and websites to assist with various areas of digital marketing and advertising new products and happenings. One of the ways I can help spread the news of new ranges and services is through writing these commissioned sexuality articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.

Many of these commissioned posts focus on letting my readers know about new adult product releases; new sex toy ranges and sexy lingerie collections. Some introduce an adult industry business or sex-related website to my audience, using my clear and comprehensive write-up to motivate readers to click through and discover more. Or perhaps there’s a specific event happening in the industry which the organisers would love more exposure for -and hiring me to write about the event is an effective way to go about this.

I enjoy writing commissioned articles which represent real value to my loyal readers. These blog posts touch on various themes from the diverse spectrum of sexuality. They could have a very specific theme at their heart, such as dating, sex work or masturbation tips, or provide a general guide to sexual health, adult products or kink.

If you would like me to write some commissioned sexuality articles for your adult business, please get in touch. My rates are incredibly reasonable and your article will not only be enjoyed by my many readers here on the blog, but the link is shared through my social media platforms too.

Women-Specific Lubricants: Necessary Or Just Another Marketing Ploy?

By Cara Sutra: Do women-specific lubricants really matter? When you first realise that what your sex life needs is a little more glide, you will doubtless turn to sex lubricants to transform that dry chafe into sexy friction. It’s only when you start shopping for lubricants (at a well stocked online sex shop as Lubezilla) that you begin to realise that this task isn’t as simple as you’d first imagined.

A Beginner’s Guide to Electrosex & Electro Sex Toys

You will need a main unit (known as the stimulator) to deliver the electric current. These are usually the basis of a starter kit, such as the ElectraStim Flick EM60-E Electro Stimulation Pack. This stimulator offers 24 intensity settings so you can increase the power in line with your desires. There is also the option to receive or deliver to a partner rhythmic stimulation in line with the movement of your hand. The ElectraStim Flick costs just £99 and comes with full instructions and electro pads so that you can get started right away. The ElectraStim SensaVox EM140 High Spec Stimulator (£299) is for those looking for a more advanced kit and experience. Not only are there an amazing 99 intensity levels, there’s also 9 pre-programmed patterns to enjoy. You can use SensaVox to create sophisticated stimulation patterns using either the included microphone or by feeding audio directly into the stimulator. The soundwaves are translated into a stimulation beat that rises and falls in sympathy with the audio, teasing and tantalising you with sensations that can be modified to match your desires.

Sexy And Romantic Christmas Gifts from Belle de Soir

Couples who prioritise romance are eager to select that perfect Christmas gift, which is why I’m so pleased to be able to provide this extensive sexy gift guide to help you through the festive shopping season.

How to make sure you buy a sex toy you’ll actually use

I'm proud to introduce my first outing on the fabulous LELO blog: Don't Judge a Sex Toy by its Price Tag. As well as giving you a Jessie J earworm for the rest of the day, you'll learn what it is about some sex toys that make them a lasting part of your go-to collection, other than simply a high price on the label. Don't pay for brand names, fancy packaging or marketing spiel - pay for a sex toy which you'll actually use.

Sex Toys Don’t Replace Sex: From Masturbation To No String Sex

By Cara Sutra: When you feel the urge for physical satisfaction, it's easy to reach for your vibrator or Fleshlight and stimulate yourself to the quick climax your body needs. Sex toys don't replace sex, though. People usually yearn for something more than self love, which is why skin to skin bonding starts on day one and carries on into the warmth and tenderness of hugs and cuddles.

I use sex toys during masturbation but I’m in a relationship. Is it cheating?

She’s laid on the bed, the vivid assortment of penis shaped dildos and vibrators strewn over the covers as she finds her favourite and plunges it deep inside. She gasps as the realistic veins...

The Bite Size Guide to Sex Toys and Bedroom Essentials

Sex toys are not a replacement for a partner or pleasure, they are the seasoning on your sex life. A sprinkling of the right devices for you and your partner can spice up your sex life and masturbation immeasurably, leaving you fulfilled and confident in all walks of life.

Lessons in Lube: Your complete guide to sexual lubricants

Choosing the right lubricant for you and your partner can be an absolutely mind-boggling task. There is such a vast array of lubes to choose from, you could be stumped before you get started. Why are there so many different types? It’s just lube, right? Well, not quite.

Freedoms Shop Celebrates The Liberating Feeling Of Safe Sex

By Cara Sutra: Steamy. Sensual. Passionate. Hot. Hard. Fast. Many words may come to mind when you think of sex, but is ‘safe’ one of them? It should be. Safe sex has always been of great importance, but never more so in this time of sexual freedom, where we are able to connect with another person sexually without as much fear of society backlash or oppression.

Post-confession: Turning that outed fantasy into reality

Do you require any special furniture? There are many adult themed hotels as well as play spaces like dungeons available for short term hire. Find them through searching the internet or signing up to adult chat and kinky dating communities.

Does using sex toys mean your partner isn’t good enough?

Picture the scene: You get home at the end of the day, and not seeing your boyfriend downstairs, you head to the bedroom. You walk in, and... he's there. Making love to her.

Mistakes which make a mockery of your writing

I have a major problem with people who rely on spell-check to proof and edit their work for them. Spell-check will merely check if your words are all spelled correctly. That's ALL. It will not correct the wrong words in the wrong place, nor will it tell you if you have missed a word or two out of a sentence, rendering it incomprehensible.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Dressed to Domme – The Shiny Layers of FemDom Fashion

Your heart is beating faster and faster. You feel hot but cold and clammy all at once and you're not really sure why. You can barely think to open your mouth to reply to whatever question he just asked; in any case you know whatever reply you give will be words falling over each other and stuttering their way out into the air, catching in your throat with inexplicable nerves.

Sex News: New Lovense Bluetooth & Internet Sex Toys

The future is now with these technological wonders, the new Lovense sex toys. Max is the penis stimulating sex toy, while Nora is the vagina & clit pleasuring rabbit vibrator.

Unlock the next stage of your relationship – through swinging

The social, cultural and media references to swinging often conjure up thoughts of a drab buffet to one side of a partying 70s lounge scene, a goldfish bowl filled with car keys acting as the centrepiece on top of the Pledge-polished sideboard. Forget slut shaming and housewife spankings over the hostess trolley, it's almost 2014...

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Toybox Tales – Fetish Gear Essentials

Each individual is different, both in vanilla life and in BDSM. Therefore, the scope of equipment which can be found is growing all the time in relation to the fetishes of Dominants and submissives. Toilet style thrones, Queening chairs, humbler devices, pony boy and pony girl saddles, trappings and carts, furry fetish play and costumes, sensory deprivation hoods and masks... the list continues as far as, and beyond where your imagination can reach. From the small and portable hog tie to the largest piece of bondage equipment and dungeon furniture, there are fetish tools to fit your deviant fancy.

Cara Sutra writes for Adult Toys UK: My Top Ten Bondage Essentials

"A mouth gag makes the one playing the role of the submissive owned party feel even more controlled and vulnerable, they also stop much of the noise that the person may emit during a spanking or ‘sexy punishment’ session as well as making the gagged person look even more appealing and corruptible for the one in position of Dominance and control."

BDSM & FemDom Advice: A guide to submission: switch, submissive or slave?

There are a lot of different terms bandied around both the fetish and mainstream circles, relating to the orientation of players in kink and BDSM. Slave, submissive, switch - as well as various pet names such as puppy or bitch - can leave you feeling confused as to exactly where you stand in the grand scale of things. The BDSM spectrum is very large (in fact I feel that vanilla or kinky, we are all on the same spectrum, not living synonymously) and the chances are you will find yourself drawn to one large label over another. My new article over at Erotica UK discusses why labels can be useful even if you're averse to labelling yourself normally, and what the difference is between the big three terms for submissive players in BDSM.

8 Top Tips for Spectacular Male Masturbation

There is nothing, repeat, nothing wrong with masturbation. It doesn't make your palms hairy, you won't go blind and your penis won't fall off. Regular masturbation is a healthy part of an adult male's sex life and there is nothing shameful about it whatsoever.

Life after a relationship – can you ever move on?

Post-relationship life: can you ever move on? When you're in a relationship, it's easy to get into a comfortable routine of living. Your partner is there when you get back from work, or you make...