Sunday, December 8, 2019

Sex Toy Advice

Sex toy shopping can be exciting, exhilarating, fantasy-inducing… and confusing. There are just so many sex toys available these days, with improvements added and different styles being created all the time. That’s why I’ve written these sex toy advice articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.

First of all, do you really need sex toys? Adult products are more of a desirable accessory than a need, and they’re most definitely not a replacement for sex. Nobody should feel ashamed about their sex toy use, or threatened because their partner enjoys using them. Hell, there are even plenty of couples sex toys available which heighten the pleasure levels for both partners during intimacy. So even though toys might not be a need or pre-requisite for having sexy fun, they’re an incredibly enjoyable bonus feature. Think of them like ticking the ‘added fun’ box on your sexual take-out order.

Next, consider what type of sex toy would be best for you. There are many different types: vibrating, static, large, small, flexible, rigid, for vaginal, clitoral, anal and erogenous zone stimulation. Then there is the material it’s made of to consider. Some materials are full body-safe for internal and external use, others are toxic and could cause allergic reactions, irritation or worse. What does porous and non-porous mean? What are phthalates? Does any of this really matter when considering which sex toy to buy and try?

Find out all of the above and more in my sex toy advice articles here on the blog.

Can You Get Jiggle Balls for Men?

By Hella Rude You can opt for the real jiggle ball experience as a man, you just have to be willing to experiment with a little anal play. Jiggle balls and Ben Wa balls are actually modelled on pelvic floor exercisers or PC muscle toners, articles designed to tone the pelvic floor region in women. A sexy side effect of these pleasure balls is G-spot massage and the potential for orgasm.

Why Can’t I Keep My Butt Plug In? How Long Can I Wear An...

By Hella Rude Try to get used to wearing the plug and allow yourself to forget about it. Pop it in, stick on a movie and veg out. Just relax and do nothing at all. You want to clear your mind of any sexy thoughts and just stop thinking about it. Your body will relax around it and start to get used to it being there, just give it time to acclimatise to the sensations. Lots of people find that when they forget the plug's there, keeping it in is easy work.

Do vibrating clit clamps exist & where can I buy one?

I was wondering if there is such a thing as vibrating clit clamps? I want to turn her into a quivering, gasping mess. I've used rabbits but they seem to lack something, but I know her clit doesn't get enough from them.

How to do kegel exercises with Ben Wa Balls, Jiggle Balls and Silver Balls

By Hella Rude So you've heard all of the hype and now you've got your silver balls. What happens next? Don't feel alone if you've got your pleasure balls home and you're stumped, it's not always immediately obvious. Lots of brands don't send out any instructional leaflets with their products, making it difficult to know if you need to do anything at all. The good news is that getting the most out of your kegel exercisers, Ben Wa balls, jiggle balls and silver balls is actually really easy. You just need to know how to do kegel exercises with them.

Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toy Advice – A Sexual Revolution

By Hella Rude Who would have thought that fan fiction could be responsible for such a change in attitude toward sex toys? The sex toy business is booming thanks to new-found popularity fueled by three books and a whole lot of media coverage. Women who haven't read since school are devouring some pretty meaty books and are simultaneously acting to improve their sex lives.

Fifty Shades of Grey – What Are Vagina Balls / Ben Wa Balls /...

By Hella Rude I've been prompted to write this blog after a week revolving around bizarre thoughts associated with the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, which I decided to read. As wonderful at 50 Shades of Grey has been for salaciously opening the pleasure-deprived loins of many women across the world, I must say that its lack of correct phrasing in places has lead to a real SEO nightmare for sex toy retailers. After all there's no point in explaining what these things are and how they work if we can't figure out what you're asking about.

How to buy your first sex toy

How to buy your first sex toy So, you’ve heard a lot about these ‘sex toys’, right? Don’t worry; I am not going to sell you a dodgy length of battery powered rubber cloaked by...

Can You Lose Sex Toys Up Your Bum?

By Cara Sutra: Can you lose sex toys up your bum? If you use butt plugs and other anal sex toys, it's a sensible question to ask.

Are There Any Cheap Sex Toys For Couples To Use Together?

We've been looking for some sex toys my man and I can use together for some time now. The We-Vibe family and the LELO Tiani styles are all very well but a little expensive for us right now. Aren't there any cheap sex toys for couples to use together or are we destined for side by side masturbation if we want to use toys?

Which sex toy is best for deep and wide anal reaming?

I am interested in challenging myself with the largest anal toys I can find, please help! What is the widest toy I could buy and the longest (including double dildos)? Is there a toy you'd recommend as having the best of both? I need to get in on some anal reaming action!

What’s the best beginner anal sex toy for a man?

I'm male and I want to buy some toys for anal training. However, other than fingers, nothing else has successfully penetrated me there. I'm wondering what's the best beginner anal sex toy for a man? What kind of thickness would be advisable to look at? Also do you recommend inflatable or solid form?
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Sexual Advice Column at Cara Sutra

I'll be providing the best sex tips, giving sex toy advice, calming concerns and presenting guides on how to help you make the most of your love life in this new column here at CaraSutra. Whether you're single, with a partner/partners or venturing into the world of orgasms with sex toys, you'll find the answers you're looking for here.

Beginner’s Guide To Silicone Sex Toys and Silicone Lubes

If you have any experience of sex toys, you will either have heard of silicone, or you may even have used it already. But really, what is silicone all about? Is there are difference between ordinary vibrators and silicone sex toys? What's the deal with silicone lube?

Are sex toys better than real cock?

Men, I find it very odd that some of you have a problem with sex toys. Not a hatred for rubber or silicone; but more specifically a feeling of angst when they are brought into the bedroom by your lover. There's this ongoing debate: Are sex toys better than real cock?