Friday, January 24, 2020

Diary

Diaries are a traditional method of journaling your thoughts, feelings and happenings, and people have been writing in their diaries for thousands of years. I’ve never been particularly good at keeping up with a written diary, despite trying several times when I was younger, but with the birth of the digital age a new way of journaling came to light. Did you know that the word ‘blog’ is actually short for ‘web log’ – a log of your happenings placed on the web?

I’m here to welcome you to this very personal area of the Cara Sutra sex blog. My diary. Here you can find updates about my homelife and work life, as well as events I’ve been to and other happenings. I’ve split this area into sex diary and kinky diary parts, to help readers find the updates they’d specifically like to read about the most.

Particular times of the year that I like to immortalise in my diary the most include birthdays, Christmases and other fun occasions and celebrations.

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Can I really have an orgasm in my sleep?

Upon properly waking up I don’t feel the muscle tension that usually comes post-orgasm. The orgasm I had in my dreams isn’t that lightning bolt zing from clit to throat. It’s more of a rippling wave from top to toe, a gentle lapping of pleasure which unfurls from… where, I’m once again not sure. The pit of my stomach, my clit, my mind. All I know is that when I’m awake the feeling is ebbing away but it might just be the fading of a dream, not a real orgasm. One of my exes could orgasm without touching herself. Whether on the bus or just before going to sleep at night. Wherever she was she could just think about it and make herself have an orgasm. What an enviable skill. But her orgasms were always when she was fully awake, never when asleep.

May is for Masturbation, Blogasm 500 and Star Trek porn-gasms

I also want to track any effect on my libido and sex drive with the increase in masturbation and resulting orgasms, as I don’t usually have an orgasm every single day. Just most days. I’ll be tracking my efforts through some poly love child of #MasturbationMay, #MasturbationMonth and a revisit of my shamingly neglected Blogasm 500 orgasms project (#Blogasm500).

Fetish Friday: Today I meet my submissive of 6 years

Terrible lighting and focussed on his face only briefly... just in case. Sessions of him milking into a pet bowl, licking up the consequences. Having to bark in order to be able to touch himself.

Sex News: The ETO Awards Winners 2014 – Full List

If you haven't heard who won what in the ETO Awards 2014, here's a handy list for you. You can read the mini release on the ETO Magazine website here, and a full report will be going out to subscribers in the July 2014 edition of this popular adult industry magazine.

The Day She Came: Fucking My Girl, A Lesbian Sex Story

Two fingers turned to three as I gave her pussy a real challenge. My thumb, outside her body, steadily circled her exposed and erect clit using her leaked wetness as lube. I could feel her cunt getting even tighter around my fingers, and fucking her was getting harder and harder. Still, I wasn't going to give up so easily.
To Catch An Orgasm by Cara Sutra

How I Reach Orgasm With My Favourite Vibrators

I'm addicted to sex toys. In particular, my Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator and my favourites, the Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Beaded Butt Plug and Lovehoney Super7 Realistic Silicone Vibrator which are usually within grabbing reach.

Bathroom Sex

He is fucking me passionately, no words between us, not this time. Knowing certain things remain forbidden he exits swiftly and quickly wipes a sucked finger over my ass, that which he likes to do dirty things to, making me an anal whore for him, needing more, feeling like I can cum just from him thrusting into me there, that sacred place.

Can You Be A Homophobic Bisexual Submissive Male?

By Cara Sutra: Can you be a homophobic bisexual submissive male? Let's explore this fascinating subject. First, here's two interesting facts about a recent new slave.

Artificial hymens, faking your virginity and why all of this makes me sad

I have no idea why a woman would want to fake her virginity. Not for herself, not for any man, not for her family, not for society or culture. The only reason why she may be forced to is through fear, manipulation and other control mechanisms. A major control mechanism in modern society, stretching back through the ages, is religion. The thought that our eternal soul and future hinges on our behaviour in the here and now, that we should obey a set of rules as laid out in whichever man-made, bound together bunch of documents that best serves the needs of those ruling in society at any one time.

Strip Show For Him

Slipping my fingers between the slender black elastic and my body, I started to move them downwards over my hips. Such a struggle not to rush it, in my lust-induced frenzy. I turned yet again to reveal the string being pulled down between my buttocks first, and as slowly as I could lowered both the g-string and the top half of my body to peel it down between my legs.  

Kink Links: The Erotic Gems of the ETO Show 2014

I’m very excited to share with you the products I absolutely loved at the ETO Show this year - and they didn’t even have a stand! Kink Links erotic jewellery. The first few times Kink Links tried to meet with me at the recent ETO Show 2014, I was away from the stand I was exhibiting The Cara Sutra Collection Ltd on. I was in a flurry of meetings and networking, but Kink Links persisted and eventually found me at E4, my little corner of the large NEC exhibition hall.

The Hotness Of Gay Sex

There’s something about man loving and gay sex which gets my knickers twitching. It doesn’t even have to be all-out gay porn; just a simple act of romantic affection between guys on a TV show can catch my clit’s interest. When it does come down to the action, though, man-on-man sex scenes are so fucking hot. And as it’s all rather gay, I’m not really sure why I (as a woman) would find it all that hot.  

Summer Sex: Feel the heat and do it anyway

My mind wants to get down and dirty and sexy with my partner but my body and the small sensible part of me says, “it’s far too hot. I’m going to absolutely melt if I so much as cuddle, never mind anything else.” You might not mind having sex in a sauna, in fact it may be one of your ‘things’. For those of us with a partner that resembles a radiator (in temperature terms, not consisting of water filled metal pipes) it can all feel a bit much. The conflict between desire and practicality/comfort.

Am I Too Old To Be A Sex Educator? Are My Views On Sexuality...

For some time now I’ve been harbouring a worry. Am I getting too old to correctly educate others in the ways of sexuality, gender and suchlike? My worry is that I’m coming up to 40 in a few years, and perhaps I’m just not cutting-edge as a sex educator any more.

Switch to thoughts of Daddy and Domination

I've finished reading and reviewing the latest erotic book in my collection (The Diary of a Submissive, by Sophie Morgan) and it occurs to me that I am really, really, not submissive. I know, not...

What I Want From You: From Me To Him

I’m not sure how to word this – to explain to you what it is that I want from you, what I need. Things that uncover some needs deep inside me, that I’m not even sure why they exist, but I know they do. Reading other’s experiences and desires, lusts and satisfactions I feel kindred spirits at work – a meeting of ..well, not minds, but sexuality.

#FetishFriday Living the kinky life… 24/7

I love being able to live kinky, 24/7. Not only just as part of a kinky household that all enjoy some element of Fetish (ok, a lot of elements, overlapping and creating one large,...

When he touches me

We are together constantly but it seems only a few, brief snapshot moments where we share that intimacy. When we touch again, he catches my attention with his skin on mine once more; when he touches me, fingers through my hair, hand on my shoulder or round my throat, pulling me by my hips to sit on his lap or his fingers entwining with mine to give me a reassuring squeeze of his love.

Sex news: Pjur Group to distribute in the UK through CZ Trade

CZ Trade will be stocking the majority of the pjur range including bestsellers and new items. The company is looking forward to launching to the UK market: “We love the pjur brand and can’t wait to represent it in the UK,” says Beverley Peck, Sales Director at CZ. “As well as the bestselling items that our customers know and love there are some really great new additions to come.”

We’ve moved! Have you got my new address?

By Cara Sutra: A week ago we finally moved into our gorgeous new forever home. You probably already know this if you follow on Twitter or Facebook, and receive my weekly newsletter. It's taken every ounce of energy we had but finally, we’re in our new home. It really is feeling like home already, even though there's still a staggering amount of boxes to unpack (only half of them are full of sex toys, with just a few of the others containing shoes).