Ryan P.'s blog, red-pussy-hair.blogspot.com is a personal sexual journal that chronicles his responses to naked people and pictures of naked people. Discussing his relationships with women, porn, early (and current) masturbation experiences, it explores, in his own words: "things I've done, things I wish I'd done, and things I probably shouldn't have done".
In 2010, I found out my husband had been cruising for men on Gaydar and having sex with them in our bed. It was the final nail in the coffin – our marriage was blighted by his alcohol problems and his vile temper. The whole thing destroyed me, and the pain was mind numbing. I didn’t even cry for two years. Just before Valentine’s Day this year, ‘something’ compelled me to write it down and I put it on my blog CavaSupernova. I’d started the blog to prove to myself I could still have a good time after nearly two decades of misery with my ex. I surprised myself that I’d written about something that had caused such intense pain.
I mean most people have sex toys now, so it’s not really anything to be embarrassed about, but as a sex blogger you all know, we have more than the average amount of sex toys. His face at first started in amusement. Where you know he’s thinking ‘oh look I found a dildo’ he then found another and another. Storage bags filled with glass dildos, at that time I had over 20 glass dildos, and he had to pull each one out of its protective bag, and then the vibrators, the chest with the bondage gear, floggers, whips, and cuffs. I really don’t know if he knew what expression he thought he should be expressing on his face at that point. The poor guy had over 5 chests to go through.
If you review sex toys, what are the top three toys you wish you could get your hands on next? My reviews are in the queue to go live so I’m almost there. My curiosity is pulling me towards Ceramix, specifically No. 2 plug. Are stripes in this year? Gläs is another company I have my eye on and, since I’ve always wanted a juicer, their Candy Land is just right. Lastly, the Icicles No. 8 dildo. I already own the Icicles No. 25 and it is beautiful.
I have managed to embarrass myself on numerous occasions, but after some initial cringing, I can laugh about it. In the past year I have managed to: Post pictures of giant Bad Dragon dildos to my personal Facebook account Invite my readers to “enter me” (Thanks Cara for spotting that one!) Referred to someone as though they were male, for about a month before realising this person was actually female. Used the word “vagina” when talking about the vulva. (“Shave your vagina”) Fail!
Changing Views was started to give me a place to post my erotic fiction and poetry and help me explore my kinky side, which for years I had repressed and struggled with. I write about my kinky adventures and muse generally upon sex, kink and relationships. Into the mix I also throw some erotic photography and the occasional sex toy review. It's very much a personal blog, I don't pretend to have answers for everybody but I am looking for them for myself.
Recently, Salon.com named LadyCheeky.com one of ’The Best of Tumblr Porn’ and DatingAdvice.com listed it as one of the ‘Top 10 Kinky Sex Blogs.’ In addition, LadyCheeky.com is proud to have a terrific following with 250,000 hits, 70% unique with over 1.5 million page views a month, more than 80k Tumblr followers and 5,200 homegrown Twitter followers.
In 2012, I had a lover who told me that he didn't like having sex with me because I couldn't let go and enjoy the experience. He wasn't wrong, but I was devastated. I realized I hadn't orgasmed in years (if ever), and I decided to blog my escapades in masturbation and orgasms. I also wanted a place to write down all the sexual fantasies that played through my head like a movie, all day, every day. Over time, I discovered D/s and my submissive nature, and my blog changed direction.
We are a couple who is into fun with feet and enjoy sharing our foot fetish adventures with people online. ToeGirl's feet have been the centre of attention as we have pursued a wide variety of foot fetish related activities. We enjoy bare feet with painted toes as well as nylons, flip-flops and even the occasional pair of high-heels come into the mix. We try to be creative and do things with themes or colours and often try to do a mixture of photography and video whenever possible.
My most popular sex blog post was about my experience dating a BDSM top who rocked my world and left a welt on my ass that didnʼt allow me to sit properly for a month. I found him on a “vanilla” online dating site, but by our second date he had me tied up, naked, hanging from the rafters in his livingroom.
I've met some truly amazing people while I've been blogging, both in the NSFW category and vanilla bloggers, too. Sometimes it actually makes me cry thinking about how many awesome people I know and how they're all improving the world. (This usually happens when I'm PMSing, and I usually tweet about it.)
I didn't set out to be the every woman's example of embracing and feeling empowered my sexuality and sensuality, but it just happened. I just want every woman to know that it's more than okay to accept, explore and embrace their sexuality and sensuality. I think women and the world as a whole would be happier and enjoy better relationships with their partners. I can say that I've never felt happier and more centered in my life since preaching what I practice.
I’d held a home party the night before and in the midst of clearing up I’d shoved various large rabbit vibrators, bullets and other sex toys into the over-sized bags which were fashionable at the time. Unbeknown to me, when entering a county court all bags must be searched and emptied by 2 security guards. They had a great time pulling each and every item painstakingly out of my bag, in front of a queue which consisted solely of middle-aged men whilst my face glowed redder and redder with each product. They then had to go through an x ray machine along with my bag.
This week in the Sex Blogger Spotlight Series we welcome a blogger who may be new to the reviewing scene, but is fast becoming a familiar face on the sex toy review circuit! Her passion for sex toys and providing honest, reliable feedback is sure to make her a trustworthy go-to for anyone seeking a real person's honest opinion about the sex toys they use.
I did some Toy with me Tuesday posts a while back under another name, I'm currently doing 30 Days of Kink, TMI Tuesday and Fetish Friday.
My blog name Modesty Ablaze came about from a one of my “Cougar Moments” with an extremely energetic young man at our local Swingers Club. After we emerged from the “viewing room” to a round of applause from quite a crowd of on-lookers, I blushingly giggled to my young lover “you’ve sent my modesty up in flames”. He replied “Modesty Ablaze”.
Property Of Potter rates highly on my list of amazing bloggers. She is one of the few bloggers that I've had the privilege to meet in real life and she is amazing. Lori from Kink, etc is awesome as well. I have loved watching her grow as a blogger and come out of the darkness of her former lifestyle.