Thursday, October 17, 2019

Guest Posts

There’s a wealth of fantastic guest posts here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which cover just a diverse array of sexuality topics as my own features. These guest submissions are marked as such to help you differentiate between the different authors writing for the site.

Guest posts published here at Cara Sutra may be sponsored submissions, which doesn’t mean they’re any less interesting or valuable in terms of the sex advice and informative content they provide. These sponsored guest features cover subjects such as sex and masturbation tips, the use of sex dolls, dating, escorts and other sex work, adult product guides and general adult lifestyle pieces. I now very rarely accept sponsored guest pieces because I will only publish articles which pass certain quality standards; they need to be written well and be genuinely interesting and informative for my readers.

There are various submissions to the site which are non-sponsored, too. Some of my good friends in the adult industry are also talented sex writers, and they have kindly offered their insightful features to me to publish on the blog. These may be sexy stories, sex tips & advice, or BDSM articles providing the real kinkster point of view on the given topic.

If you would like to write for my sex blog, please get in touch. Please be aware that, as I mentioned earlier, I very rarely accept sponsored guest pieces for publication as I do not want this space on my site to be viewed merely as an advertising space. Interested in advertising on my site? Click to find all the details my advertising services.

Fifty Shades Darker Film Review

By Mel MacFarlane: I spent all of last week rereading excerpts from Fifty Shades Darker. For our industry this series has created lots of business and done some really great things in terms of acceptance for those who practice BDSM.

What is a Dominatrix? What Does a Domme Do?

by Hella Rude People often wince when I mention I once worked as a Dominatrix. It's hard to guess if it's because they can picture me George Fording someone in the balls or if they think I was a rubber-clad prostitute. See, there's a really strange fog around what a dominatrix is and I'm hoping this article will go a way to explaining exactly what the job spec means.

Happy Easter: Let’s Talk About Sex And Religion

By Zak Jane Keir Of course, it’s Easter, which is the Christian festival most associated with ‘fertility rituals’ and symbols that are not really that Christian at all – though there is still no agreement, let alone any proof, as to which specific ancient pagan feast inspired the annual celebration of eggs, bunnies, flowers and binging on chocolate. I wish you all joy and delight in the springtime, whether your bunnies are battery-powered or the sort that moan with joy when you wrap them up in rope, and if you want to mark the occasion by eating a Creme Egg off your favourite playmate’s naughty bits then go right ahead.

Budget Guide to Cooking & Eating With Cheap, Healthy Food

by Hella Rude Teaching kids how to cook isn't a top priority for a lot of schools these days. If you haven't been taught these basic nutritional life skills and you hit hard times, you're going to struggle to take care of yourself until you learn. It's not always easy to learn to cook, especially if you don't know which ingredients you're likely to need to start with. That gets even more difficult if you have a tight budget for food and want to maximise your spend with the most meals possible.

How to Sell On Ebay – Creating the Best Ebay Listing

by Hella Rude As one of the biggest selling platforms in the world that's open to any individual, Ebay is a fantastic testing platform for product ranges and is used by several leading High Street names to clear excess stock. If you're thinking about starting a business with your own products, you'll find Ebay's platform much more friendly than the nightmarish spreadsheet you need to complete for Amazon Marketplace - it's the best place to test small runs of new designs or clear out sample stock.

What is Erotic ElectroStimulation and How Does it Feel?

By Hella Rude Prior to my introduction to Andy at Cyrex (ElectraStim's parent company), my knowledge of erotic electrostimulation (EES) was full of holes. I had an understanding of the physics surrounding the practice and I'd certainly used EES in my work as a dominatrix but I hadn't explored electrosex beyond the realms of external sensory play. My personal experience wasn't marrying with the interesting array of electrodes I was discovering, so being the curious-minded creature I am, I got in touch with Andy in regard to reviewing some of his products.

How To Buy Sexy Lingerie Which Suits Your Body Shape

Women come in all different shapes and sizes, that’s what makes us so wonderful. If you’re reading this article on your commute to work, or your lunch-break, look around! Every single person in the vicinity looks completely different. The same rules apply when shopping for lingerie.

Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Having A Baby

By Mel MacFarlane: Between juggling feeds, changes, routines, weaning and play dates it’s hard to forget that you are in fact, a couple. As much as we love our children and they should absolutely be our priority, we also need to remember to work on our relationships too. After all, they also need to be nurtured.

Movember: Sexual Health Education With Prostate Pleasure Workshops

By Jon Pressick Movember is again on us and you're going to start seeing the scraggly, the bushy, the unkempt and the styled. I'm not talking about the resurgence in bush, I'm referring to the mo's that will soon crawl across faces to mark this now annual tradition of awareness on prostate (and other) health concerns.

Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers “Reinvents The Form Of The Book”

Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers: Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers - Wild About Harry! Over the past week or two, you might have found yourself becoming aware of a phenomena called Alchemy XII. There have been tweets about it. There have been Facebook posts about it.

My Single Sex Life: Jealousy

By Cheryl Kaye: “Jealousy can lead you to the very places where you most need healing. It can be your guide into your own dark side and show you the way to total self-realisation.” Deborah Anapol, Love without Limits.

How to Have a Sexy Christmas with Your Man / Woman

Having worked in adult retail for 5 years, I'm no stranger to penning a sexy Christmas gift guide or 10. However it's fair to say most of my work focuses on product marketing, even though buying the right things for sexy time does not a master make. I could tell you which toys and lingerie I rate highest as we wrap up 2015, but if you haven't done the ground work - there's little point in your spending £$£$ on gear. As is becoming a bit of a Cara Sutra tradition, I'd like to deviate from the obvious Christmas gift guides and focus on some advice we can all get on board with.

Rule 34 Edited By Zak Jane Keir: Is This The World’s Weirdest Erotica?

Most people with more than a passing interest in erotic entertainment know, these days, that there’s more to kink than what a former employer of mine used to request by way of cover art – ‘Leather, rubber, tits, arse, whip!’

Can You Trust Reviews with Affiliate Links?

by Hella Rude If you know me as a woman who writes about sex & relationships and engages in a spot of modelling, you may not know that the majority of my income comes from the eCommerce industry. A big slice of that is running the digital marketing strategy and completing the requisite work to execute it.

ElectraStim Kegel Balls – Design Diaries

By Hella Rude As my regular readers will know, I've been working with electro sex toy company ElectraStim for a couple of years. Part of my work with them is helping to design and test sex toys to expand the present range found on their websites.

How to give the sexiest webcam show of your life

There are loads of different apps available for face to face conversations on line. Some people use them for meetings and work purposes, others for keeping in touch with family members. Personally I prefer to use these applications for something naughtier, like a thrilling internet strip tease or a personal sex show with my lover.

Hella Rude Modelling Photos With Emma Delves-Broughton – 2015 Photography Project

By Hella Rude It has been a privilege to have known Emma Delves-Broughton since 2004. I had admired Emma's photography for some time and her Libidex Seasonal spread (shot on location in Bath) had adorned my 16-year-old self's bedroom walls. Such hero worship.

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Wrath, And Going To Bed Angry

By Jon Pressick: Anger, in sex and relationships, is not an easy matter to discuss. The societally enforced fantasy is that we find someone, we fall in love, we stay in love and we live happily ever after. Never is there a problem. Never is there an argument. Never is there disagreement...

Pain And Pleasure: Feet, Footwear and Feminism

By Zak Jane Keir: Oh holy shit, my feet! Just have to start by saying that, because it’s the thought running most regularly through my head today. A kind friend passed on a pair of beautiful 40-hole black Doc Martens to me as they were, apparently surplus to her requirements. She said they had hardly been worn, and she was absolutely right. They had hardly been worn at all.