Guest Posts

There's a wealth of fantastic guest posts here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which cover just as diverse an array of sexuality topics as my own sex tips and advice posts. These guest submissions are marked as such to help you differentiate between the different authors writing for the site.

Please note that I no longer accept or publish guest posts or similar sponsored content at Cara Sutra. 

Guest posts previously published here at Cara Sutra may be sponsored submissions, which doesn’t mean they’re any less interesting or valuable in terms of the sex advice and informative content they provide. These sponsored guest features cover subjects such as sex and masturbation tips, the use of sex dolls, dating, escorts and other sex work, adult product guides and general adult lifestyle pieces.

There are various submissions to the site which are non-sponsored, too. Some of my good friends in the adult industry are also talented sex writers, and they have kindly offered their insightful features to me to publish on the blog. These may be sexy stories, sex tips & advice, or BDSM articles providing the real kinkster point of view on the given topic.

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Tips for casual local hookups

Some of us enjoy long-term committed relationships, whilst others prefer the more casual approach to dating, opting instead to have one or more partners which we enjoy having a bit of fun with. The great thing is that society is becoming more accepting of alternative sexual practices, so there is no shame in deciding to enjoy the casual and fun aspect of dating if you don’t feel ready to commit to anything serious.

Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers “Reinvents The Form Of The Book”

Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers: Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers - Wild About Harry! Over the past week or two, you might have found yourself becoming aware of a phenomena called Alchemy XII. There have been tweets about it. There have been Facebook posts about it.

Sex And Disability: Disability Sympathetic Escorts Improve Love Lives And Confidence

By Suzanne Kent: Can disability sympathetic escorts improve love lives and confidence? Here's the low-down when it comes to escorts for disabled clients.

Prostate Massage 101: A Guide For Beginners

Would you or the man in your life like to experience orgasms that are twice as intense? Or maybe even four times stronger? If your answer is YES, then you should know that prostate massage is the gateway to an entirely new level of erotic pleasure.

Pain And Pleasure: Feet, Footwear and Feminism

By Zak Jane Keir: Oh holy shit, my feet! Just have to start by saying that, because it’s the thought running most regularly through my head today. A kind friend passed on a pair of beautiful 40-hole black Doc Martens to me as they were, apparently surplus to her requirements. She said they had hardly been worn, and she was absolutely right. They had hardly been worn at all.

Rule 34 Edited By Zak Jane Keir: Is This The World’s Weirdest Erotica?

Most people with more than a passing interest in erotic entertainment know, these days, that there’s more to kink than what a former employer of mine used to request by way of cover art – ‘Leather, rubber, tits, arse, whip!’

Viagra to Treat Erectile Dysfunction

Guest Author: Viagra, or Sildenafil as it is also known, is a medication that treats erectile dysfunction (ED). First marketed by Pfizer in the 1990’s, it is now widely used to treat ED in men that are unable to sustain an erection to satisfactorily complete sexual intercourse.

The Sounds of Pleasure: Ruffled Sheets Guide to Urethral Sounding

By Ruffled Sheets: You want me to stick that, a long metal spike, in... where? That's what most people think when they're told about sounding. Or, to be more descriptive, urethral sounding, the act of stimulating the inside of the urethra with long, thin implements. It may 'sound' scary (sorry), but it really isn't. In fact, it's a lot of fun and immensely pleasurable.

Online Casual Dating

When it comes down to finding potential partners, there is now an increasing availability of people out there. Whether people are looking for life partners or just a bit of fun, the modern web now has many specialist websites where like-minded people can meet up to get what they want. What were once called unusual dating practices have emerged away from the underground scene and are now part of the mainstream scene.

Should You Ever Have Sex With An Ex?

By Mel MacFarlane: A break up can trigger many different emotions. Some people may feel relief whereas others are heartbroken. After all, it isn’t just the breakdown of the relationship, but your future plans together too. Despite this, many of us still find it hard to resist the temptation of slipping back between the bedsheets with an ex - but why?

Why Can’t I Keep My Butt Plug In? How Long Can I Wear An...

By Hella Rude Try to get used to wearing the plug and allow yourself to forget about it. Pop it in, stick on a movie and veg out. Just relax and do nothing at all. You want to clear your mind of any sexy thoughts and just stop thinking about it. Your body will relax around it and start to get used to it being there, just give it time to acclimatise to the sensations. Lots of people find that when they forget the plug's there, keeping it in is easy work.

Feel More Attractive, Sexy & Confident – 10 Ways to Give Your Self Esteem...

Knowing what you like in and out of bed is always good for your self-esteem, but we're going to focus on between the sheets for this one. It can be difficult to feel confident in bed if you are unsure about what turns you on, so do some research! Treat yourself to some alone time and satisfy your curiosity – that means experimenting with toys, movies and whatever else takes your fancy. When you are more confident about what brings you pleasure, you'll find that it's a lot easier to be more assertive. That's out of the bedroom too!

Why is it So Hard to Talk About Sex with Our Partner?

Communication is key to any good relationship, so why do some people find it so difficult to talk about sex? The internet is littered with questions from curious and sometimes desperate people seeking counsel on how they can talk to their partner about their sexuality. What their likes and dislikes are, how to broach their fantasies or kinks, and how to encourage their lover to desire sex more.

30 Minute Makeover Challenge – How Long Do Women Take to Get Ready?

By Hella Rude In a deviation from usual activities, I've taken time to accept the 30 Minute Makeover Challenge. Yes, I have to get ready in 30 minutes or less for a night out. To give you some background, in my camp the 'Readying' is a fun and necessary ritual. The girls and I can take anywhere up to 4 hours to get ready for a night out because it's FUN.

What is a Female Led Relationship really like?

By Giles English I'm typing this wearing a male chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm… And Xena’s in charge.

Growing Acceptance of Sex Toys in India

By Aleena M Reyes: When people think of India they may think that a place where the Kamasutra originated must be a huge believer in free and open sex with any consenting adults, right? Not quite. Contrary to western belief, the ancient Hindu text was a life manual that detailed the way a person should live their life both inside and outside of the bedroom.

The Lovetron 9000: Biohacking, Your Sexual Future & Other Futuristic Shiz

What are biohackers? you're wondering. Biohacking is a fairly new practice that could lead to some real major evolutionary changes in our lifetime. You could it call citizen or do-it-yourself biology. This is self-styled body improvements. There is no real set standard; one biohacker’s hack may not be the panacea of another’s. Biohacking is what you get when you combine the field of biology with hacking.

Movember: Sexual Health Education With Prostate Pleasure Workshops

By Jon Pressick Movember is again on us and you're going to start seeing the scraggly, the bushy, the unkempt and the styled. I'm not talking about the resurgence in bush, I'm referring to the mo's that will soon crawl across faces to mark this now annual tradition of awareness on prostate (and other) health concerns.

10 Reasons To Become A Sex Toy Tester

By Mel MacFarlane: I began a brand new business venture and declared that I couldn’t write about sex toys forever. However, when push came to shove, I found that I couldn’t walk away from sex toy reviewing because it’s a part of my life that I absolutely love.

General Erection 2017: How To Enjoy Great Sex Despite A Politics Clash

How To Have Great Sex With Your Partner Despite A Politics Clash With the United Kingdom General Election 2017 fast approaching, tensions are high - particularly if you and your partner support different political parties. Very...