Saturday, October 19, 2019

Guest Posts

There’s a wealth of fantastic guest posts here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which cover just a diverse array of sexuality topics as my own features. These guest submissions are marked as such to help you differentiate between the different authors writing for the site.

Guest posts published here at Cara Sutra may be sponsored submissions, which doesn’t mean they’re any less interesting or valuable in terms of the sex advice and informative content they provide. These sponsored guest features cover subjects such as sex and masturbation tips, the use of sex dolls, dating, escorts and other sex work, adult product guides and general adult lifestyle pieces. I now very rarely accept sponsored guest pieces because I will only publish articles which pass certain quality standards; they need to be written well and be genuinely interesting and informative for my readers.

There are various submissions to the site which are non-sponsored, too. Some of my good friends in the adult industry are also talented sex writers, and they have kindly offered their insightful features to me to publish on the blog. These may be sexy stories, sex tips & advice, or BDSM articles providing the real kinkster point of view on the given topic.

If you would like to write for my sex blog, please get in touch. Please be aware that, as I mentioned earlier, I very rarely accept sponsored guest pieces for publication as I do not want this space on my site to be viewed merely as an advertising space. Interested in advertising on my site? Click to find all the details my advertising services.

Some Useful facts About Adult Sex Dating

Well, now is the time to have a stiff something else - wink wink. Adult sex dating sites give horny Britons a safe place where they can explore their sexual fantasies, and if they want to, act them out in person with like minded men and women who are into the same things as they are.

Male Sex Toys: How To Pick Out The Perfect One!

If you’re a male shopping for yourself, or perhaps looking for your male partner, you most likely want to find the perfect male sex toy! Now this might sound simple, but believe me, this is no easy task. You have hundreds of different male sex toys and manufacturers. What type will work best on him? What kind of male toys are there? What will deliver the most powerful orgasm? These are all frequent questions when looking for the top male sex toys, so let me break it down for you.

How to Write Menage Erotica | Erotic Writing Tips & Advice

More is more, right? I’m definitely not a minimalist as the state of my living room would attest to but I’m also not minimal in my writing world either. Anyone who knows me will clarify how very good I am at waffling. So in stories it just makes sense that I’m going to write about more than just a one on one love story every now and then. Welcome to the wonderful world of menage erotica; threesomes, foursomes and as- many-as-you-can-manage-somes.

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM We can’t even blame 50 Shades for the idea of ‘absolute’ submission, because it’s been around for at least 30 years. And, while Anastasia Steele might be a vacant fumbletrumpet who appears to have reached adulthood without even knowing what an email is, she does dump Creepy Christian more than once and even answers back from time to time.

A Sexy Night Owl on the Prowl

By Angels of London: Maria hails from the beautiful country of Spain. She grew up in Barcelona, and spent many late nights sipping rich, Spanish wine with friends and plotting her next sexy conquest.

Why Most Women Secretly Want To Be An Escort

By Lauren Miller: What makes this such a popular fantasy? It may shock the faint at heart, but most women have a secret desire to take up the world's oldest profession. Yes, most women secretly want to be an escort. So what makes this fantasy so appealing?

Is it Normal for a Man to Taste His Own Cum?

By Hella Rude I hadn't thought if it before till after a girl gave me head then asked me if I'd ever tasted my own cum. At first I thought it was weird or a bit gay, but now I'm curious as to how it will taste and the idea turns me on. Is this normal? Gay? Should more guys do this?
Female anorgasmia - never had an orgasm sex tips advice and help

Anorgasmia – I’ve Never Had An Orgasm

There are a lot of different reasons a man or woman might suffer from anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Physiology, biochemistry, psychological issues and age are all attributed to anorgasmia and it's a condition more commonly found in women than in men. Treatment for men with anorgasmia is much further advanced than it is for women and is often associated with erectile dysfunction.

Tips for casual local hookups

Some of us enjoy long-term committed relationships, whilst others prefer the more casual approach to dating, opting instead to have one or more partners which we enjoy having a bit of fun with. The great thing is that society is becoming more accepting of alternative sexual practices, so there is no shame in deciding to enjoy the casual and fun aspect of dating if you don’t feel ready to commit to anything serious.

How to sell your erotic books at trade fairs and events

If your cover is writhing with bared sweaty genitalia or is called something like Fuck My Anus Dirty Boy then most niche-but-not-specifically-sex-based gigs will freak out and reject you. And while you might get some major publicity out of showcasing your sexual awakening tale entitled I Love My Pussy at the local cat show, you’d have to have a thicker skin than me and no day job you’d mind losing, to think it worth a go.

Get What You Want: How to Bed the One you Have Had Your Eye...

If you're going to seduce the man of your dreams, you need to turn on the charm. Yes, we mean some serious flirting. We're all familiar with the old tricks of playing with your hair and bending over his desk, but how about something a little more... upfront. If you're both milling about at a dull work party, try letting him know how interested you are with a very saucy one-liner. Try something like “I just can't wait to take this dress off, do you fancy giving me a hand?” If that doesn't get him from uninterested to putty in your hands, we don't know what will!

Sexhibition UK promises steamy & sexy adult expo in Manchester this August

Bringing together erotica, fetish, catwalk shows, and five star gourmet dining with a seductive burlesque twist, Sexhibition will be a daring and sexy day out for those wanting to take a walk on the wild side.. We've also got a sneak peak at the Sexhibition cinema trailer, which is being screened before the showing of Fifty Shades Of Grey this coming weekend. Event organiser, Cheryl Smith explains, "The event of the Fifty Shades phenomenon is doing great things for British attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Whatever your opinion of the FSOG books and film, it's got us all - especially women - talking about our fantasies and that's got to be a good thing!"

Lick Your Lips: The Taste of Sex

By Jon Pressick There is something delightful about feeling someone’s tongue on your body. Whether it be a seductive lick of the neck, running along your lips in a deep kiss, trailing down your body or being buried in the delicious destination, our tongues play a major role in sexual excitement. While it may be easy to fall in love with what your lover does to you, think about what it is like to put your tongue to use lapping at your lover.

Fifty Shades of Grey – What Are Vagina Balls / Ben Wa Balls /...

By Hella Rude I've been prompted to write this blog after a week revolving around bizarre thoughts associated with the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, which I decided to read. As wonderful at 50 Shades of Grey has been for salaciously opening the pleasure-deprived loins of many women across the world, I must say that its lack of correct phrasing in places has lead to a real SEO nightmare for sex toy retailers. After all there's no point in explaining what these things are and how they work if we can't figure out what you're asking about.

Why Women Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Try Male Escorts

By Lauren Miller: There's nothing odd about hiring male escorts – professional women all over the world are doing it. So what could a hunky male escort do for you?

Hooking Up Twice With The Same Person

Casual sex has always existed, and it is very much a regular thing these days, with many dating sites specialising exclusively in getting people hooking up together for wild nights of no-string sex. But within that scene comes a pre-made conception that once you hook up with a person that is it, you won’t see them again. But what about those of us who are looking to find a sex buddy? Are we doomed to only have sex once with that person?

How Do I Give Him A Prostate Massage?

By Hella Rude: Let's talk about the pleasurable walnut, the male G-spot - the prostate. Until recent years, prostate massage / prostate play was considered to be a purely homosexual or fetishistic act - a bit of bum fun came with a plethora of connotations that have been falling away as discussing sexuality becomes more en vogue.

Dominant Women Who Love Sucking Cock

By Zak Jane Keir: Do Dominant women love sucking cock? Would a dominant woman ever suck her partner’s cock? It doesn’t seem to fit the best-known dynamics of femdom, after all: the male slave/sub of many fantasy and widely-acknowledged scenarios exists to serve his Mistress in mostly not-particularly erotic ways, such as housework, errand-running and being beaten for sins both real and invented on the spot.

Long Distance Lovers: When Dirty Talk Is The Sex

By Cameryn Moore A lot of the advice out there about dirty talk treats it as a sort of accessory to “real sex”. It’s like putting a feather boa on: it’s all fun and tickly and exotic for maybe ten minutes, but at some point you’re gonna wanna tear it off because it’s getting in the way of the good stuff...

How To Turn A Reluctant Partner Into Christian Grey

By Mel MacFarlane: For those who are enchanted by the romance between Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey, a reluctant partner proves somewhat of a challenge. My inbox is full of disappointed lovers hoping for the Christian Grey bedroom experience, but struggling with their hapless partner who is quite clearly feeling the pressure.