Guest Posts

There's a wealth of fantastic guest posts here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which cover just as diverse an array of sexuality topics as my own sex tips and advice posts. These guest submissions are marked as such to help you differentiate between the different authors writing for the site.

Please note that I no longer accept or publish guest posts or similar sponsored content at Cara Sutra. 

Guest posts previously published here at Cara Sutra may be sponsored submissions, which doesn’t mean they’re any less interesting or valuable in terms of the sex advice and informative content they provide. These sponsored guest features cover subjects such as sex and masturbation tips, the use of sex dolls, dating, escorts and other sex work, adult product guides and general adult lifestyle pieces.

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Get What You Want: How to Bed the One you Have Had Your Eye...

If you're going to seduce the man of your dreams, you need to turn on the charm. Yes, we mean some serious flirting. We're all familiar with the old tricks of playing with your hair and bending over his desk, but how about something a little more... upfront. If you're both milling about at a dull work party, try letting him know how interested you are with a very saucy one-liner. Try something like “I just can't wait to take this dress off, do you fancy giving me a hand?” If that doesn't get him from uninterested to putty in your hands, we don't know what will!

10 Great Tips To Get Older Women To Respond To Your Online Dating Messages

Learning how to write messages to older women takes time. We can’t all expect to land on the perfect formula straight away -- nor should we assume there is one. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to making a great first impression. And every guy needs to tailor what he says to his own personal style.

My Single Sex Life: The First Date

By Cheryl Kaye: In my last column I told you I would tell you about my date, and here we are. To say I was nervous about going on a first date would be an understatement. It’s been so long since I’ve been on an actual date I had no idea what the current ‘dating rules’ are, not that I ever paid much attention to the rules but I like to know them.

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.

The Wide & Diverse World of Virtual Reality Sex

Since its release earlier this year, virtual reality has taken the electronic world by storm.  Even if you haven’t been paying attention, there’s a good chance you’ve have heard the rumblings of this great new technology.  Virtual reality is poised for big things, with lots of viable uses already putting the technology to work.

Tips for casual local hookups

Some of us enjoy long-term committed relationships, whilst others prefer the more casual approach to dating, opting instead to have one or more partners which we enjoy having a bit of fun with. The great thing is that society is becoming more accepting of alternative sexual practices, so there is no shame in deciding to enjoy the casual and fun aspect of dating if you don’t feel ready to commit to anything serious.

What is a Female Led Relationship really like?

By Giles English I'm typing this wearing a male chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm… And Xena’s in charge.

Struggle to talk dirty? Start asking questions

When they find out I’m a phone sex operator, a lot of people tell me they struggle with dirty talk: “I never know what to say.” Here’s the thing: dirty conversations are a lot like regular conversations, in that if you don’t know what to say, ask a question. You can get lots of useful information about your partner and what they want, if you ask questions in the right way.
Sex As A Single Parent by Sallyanne Rogers

Sexuality and Parenthood: Sex As A Single Parent

Parenthood of any variety complicates your sex life, first of all. If you’re on your own with children, it might seem all but impossible to find time to date, shag or even schedule a few minutes for a quick wank, particularly if your kids are still very small. But if you’ve got to the point where you really do feel the need for a bit of adult action, it’s not impossible to find it.

Hella Rude Modelling Photos With Emma Delves-Broughton – 2015 Photography Project

By Hella Rude It has been a privilege to have known Emma Delves-Broughton since 2004. I had admired Emma's photography for some time and her Libidex Seasonal spread (shot on location in Bath) had adorned my 16-year-old self's bedroom walls. Such hero worship.

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Pride

By Jon Pressick: This article is about pride, small ‘p’, meaning “the quality of having an excessively high opinion of oneself or one's importance.” In no way am I equating sin and Pride, capital ‘P’, the universally accepted word that exemplifies the LGBTQ+ movement...
how to write body positive erotica by victoria blisse

How To Write Body Positive Erotica

Happy New Year! Welcome to your neuroses. It’s the time of year when the advertisers look into your soul, pull out all your worst insecurities and try to sell you some crap to make it all better. So to counteract the media wanting you to lose weight, enlarge your boobs, whiten your teeth and iron out your wrinkles I’m going to focus on being body positive and how you can practically add that to your work.
Female Sexual Anatomy Clitoris and Inner Labia

Sex Anatomy Talk: The Clitoris and Inner Labia

By Hella Rude Today a lady mentioned that she hates her inner labia. This statement always sends a pang to my heart because I feel that female anatomy is so misunderstood. It is not part of our culture to understand the intimate and intricate detailing of our bodies, especially those parts which offer the most pleasure.

Hot FKK Treats For Men At Wellcum

By Wellcum FKK: Wellcum FKK – the ultimate SPA for men hides many mysteries aside beauty secrets. First and foremost, it would be a nice touch to answer a simple question – what on earth is a FKK club?

Rule 34 Edited By Zak Jane Keir: Is This The World’s Weirdest Erotica?

Most people with more than a passing interest in erotic entertainment know, these days, that there’s more to kink than what a former employer of mine used to request by way of cover art – ‘Leather, rubber, tits, arse, whip!’

Fifty Shades Darker Film Review

By Mel MacFarlane: I spent all of last week rereading excerpts from Fifty Shades Darker. For our industry this series has created lots of business and done some really great things in terms of acceptance for those who practice BDSM.

Sex Games to Spice Up Your Sex Life

One of the reasons that I am a huge advocate of sex games, is that games such as Fifty Days of Play take away the predictability of foreplay and add something a little different into the mix. For those who are still a little shy in the bedroom, sex games offer a really good solution in terms of spicing things up without having to be too forthcoming.

What is a Cashback Site? Free Money for Shopping Online

by Hella Rude If you're new to online shopping or just starting to use websites as a main way to buy products, you might not be savvy to cashback websites yet. What is a cashback site? These huge shopping portals allow you to recoup a percentage of your online spend when you shop online with their merchants.

Preaching To The Perverted: Sequel!

Great news for fans of the 1997 cult film Preaching to the Perverted: Writer/Director Stuart Urban has come with an idea of for a sequel - Tortured in the Orchard - and wants to explore it first in the form of a graphic novel which will help raise funds towards the making of the film.

Sun, Sea & Sex: How to Bag a Holiday Hottie & Have The Trip...

Going on holiday is all about leaving boring everyday life behind, so why not let your holiday escapades reflect that? If you're meeting someone and having sex with them for the first time, it's time to shed your inhibitions and do what you have always wanted to do in bed. Whether it is a new position or having sex in public, as long as your partner is into it, then don't hold back. You won't be worrying about what pre-conceptions your hook-up may have of you, and as long as you are safe, your fling need not have any lasting consequences. So pack some confidence into that suitcase of yours too, and you'll have gorgeous guy’s queueing up to get up close and personal with you.