Tuesday, November 12, 2019

Guest Posts

There’s a wealth of fantastic guest posts here at the Cara Sutra sex blog which cover just a diverse array of sexuality topics as my own features. These guest submissions are marked as such to help you differentiate between the different authors writing for the site.

Guest posts published here at Cara Sutra may be sponsored submissions, which doesn’t mean they’re any less interesting or valuable in terms of the sex advice and informative content they provide. These sponsored guest features cover subjects such as sex and masturbation tips, the use of sex dolls, dating, escorts and other sex work, adult product guides and general adult lifestyle pieces. I now very rarely accept sponsored guest pieces because I will only publish articles which pass certain quality standards; they need to be written well and be genuinely interesting and informative for my readers.

There are various submissions to the site which are non-sponsored, too. Some of my good friends in the adult industry are also talented sex writers, and they have kindly offered their insightful features to me to publish on the blog. These may be sexy stories, sex tips & advice, or BDSM articles providing the real kinkster point of view on the given topic.

If you would like to write for my sex blog, please get in touch. Please be aware that, as I mentioned earlier, I very rarely accept sponsored guest pieces for publication as I do not want this space on my site to be viewed merely as an advertising space. Interested in advertising on my site? Click to find all the details my advertising services.

My Single Sex Life: Jealousy

By Cheryl Kaye: “Jealousy can lead you to the very places where you most need healing. It can be your guide into your own dark side and show you the way to total self-realisation.” Deborah Anapol, Love without Limits.

How to Take a Sexy Selfie for Your Partner – A Model’s Guide

By Hella Rude: Taking a great sexy selfie: In case of any doubt, please let me say it for the record: models don't ever look quite like their photos, and for good reason. What works well in the context of a photo just doesn't work in real life.

How to sell your erotic books at trade fairs and events

If your cover is writhing with bared sweaty genitalia or is called something like Fuck My Anus Dirty Boy then most niche-but-not-specifically-sex-based gigs will freak out and reject you. And while you might get some major publicity out of showcasing your sexual awakening tale entitled I Love My Pussy at the local cat show, you’d have to have a thicker skin than me and no day job you’d mind losing, to think it worth a go.

Listening In: The Sounds Of Sex

Our core senses, our biological response to stimuli, inform a significant amount of our sexual energy, working in tandem with our fantasies, imagination and predilections to turn us on and get us ready for steamy action.

30 Minute Makeover Challenge – How Long Do Women Take to Get Ready?

By Hella Rude In a deviation from usual activities, I've taken time to accept the 30 Minute Makeover Challenge. Yes, I have to get ready in 30 minutes or less for a night out. To give you some background, in my camp the 'Readying' is a fun and necessary ritual. The girls and I can take anywhere up to 4 hours to get ready for a night out because it's FUN.

Sex Toys Of The Digital Age

We are all guilty of being in a relationship with technology, with our mobile phones becoming an extension of our arms. For some at least, it seems a natural step to develop a sensual relationship with high-tech gadgets, too.

Seduce them with a perfect, romantic & sensual erotic massage

A sensual, erotic massage can be a wonderfully relaxing and enriching experience for both you and your partner, especially as a prelude to sexual activity. Many people, however, might not have a clue where to start in the world of massage, with a huge variety of products and advice available.

How to Sell On Ebay – Creating the Best Ebay Listing

by Hella Rude As one of the biggest selling platforms in the world that's open to any individual, Ebay is a fantastic testing platform for product ranges and is used by several leading High Street names to clear excess stock. If you're thinking about starting a business with your own products, you'll find Ebay's platform much more friendly than the nightmarish spreadsheet you need to complete for Amazon Marketplace - it's the best place to test small runs of new designs or clear out sample stock.

It’s a 50 Shades World of Kink and BDSM – but I’m happy being...

The no frills sex using hands, lips, bodies and lovely nakedness is perfect for me. It’s exactly what my husband and I both enjoy and it works for us. It’s not that I haven’t tried to implement fetish items into the bedroom, I really have, but we just didn’t enjoy it. I’ve tried paddles, whips and even a ball gag but I don’t like being hit (ouch!) and he didn’t like hurting me either. We’ve sat and discussed at length the things that we enjoy in the bedroom and it’s the straightforward sex that we both enjoy every time.

Tips for casual local hookups

Some of us enjoy long-term committed relationships, whilst others prefer the more casual approach to dating, opting instead to have one or more partners which we enjoy having a bit of fun with. The great thing is that society is becoming more accepting of alternative sexual practices, so there is no shame in deciding to enjoy the casual and fun aspect of dating if you don’t feel ready to commit to anything serious.

How to Have a Sexy Christmas with Your Man / Woman

Having worked in adult retail for 5 years, I'm no stranger to penning a sexy Christmas gift guide or 10. However it's fair to say most of my work focuses on product marketing, even though buying the right things for sexy time does not a master make. I could tell you which toys and lingerie I rate highest as we wrap up 2015, but if you haven't done the ground work - there's little point in your spending £$£$ on gear. As is becoming a bit of a Cara Sutra tradition, I'd like to deviate from the obvious Christmas gift guides and focus on some advice we can all get on board with.

What is Erotic ElectroStimulation and How Does it Feel?

By Hella Rude Prior to my introduction to Andy at Cyrex (ElectraStim's parent company), my knowledge of erotic electrostimulation (EES) was full of holes. I had an understanding of the physics surrounding the practice and I'd certainly used EES in my work as a dominatrix but I hadn't explored electrosex beyond the realms of external sensory play. My personal experience wasn't marrying with the interesting array of electrodes I was discovering, so being the curious-minded creature I am, I got in touch with Andy in regard to reviewing some of his products.

No Strings Sex – How to Have Shame-Free Sex in the 21st Century

By No String Attached: No strings sex is easy to find for anyone no matter their gender, sexuality or relationship status. But, how do you go about finding the right casual relationship?

What Is It Like To Be Self-Employed?

by Hella Rude The term self-employed conjures a variety of images. The high-flying entrepreneur hungry for success. The artistic slacker who barely lifts a pencil more than twice a week. The man in a van doing odd jobs at a moments notice. The small business owner carving a niche on the high street. Being self-employed can mean literally anything but it this woman's experience, it is definitely challenging.

Lovehoney Desire Bullet & We Vibe Tango Vibrator Comparison Review

Poppycat22 from the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel recently wrote an in-depth review of the Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator. In addition, Poppycat22 very kindly provided a comparison review between this Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator and the We Vibe Tango.

Online Dating Commandments – Make the Best Tinder or POF Online Dating Profile

by Hella Rude If you're single and you're open to the idea of meeting someone new, chances are that you've tried online dating. When I became single 3 years ago (yikes!) I really wanted to date men. I'd been a serial monogamist for 11.5 years and all of my relationships evolved from friendships. I was curious about the chase and the evolution of cyber dating and I didn't waste a whole lot of time getting stuck in.

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Sloth

By Jon Pressick Work is hard. Kids are hard. Friends are hard. Families are hard. Money is hard. Commuting is hard. Hobbies are hard. Cooking is hard. Pets are hard. Cleaning is hard. Injuries and illness are hard. Relationships and sex are hard. Can’t it all be easier?

How To Dress Up Your Sex Doll To Make Her More Attractive

Why are we talking about clothes when it comes to sex dolls? If they're made just for sex, then why would the clothes even matter? Many new owners and those who are starting to express interest in sex dolls are probably asking those questions right now, but long-time owners will immediately know why clothes matter.

How To Review A Fetish Club

By Zak Jane Keir: How to review a fetish club: Having spent about 20 years of my life reviewing fetish and swingers’ clubs, I feel entitled to call myself an expert on the subject. It’s one of those jobs that may not have made me wealthy but has provided me with any amount of fun and good times (including the most magnificent blag of my entire career – a trip to Hedo II which made a change from the usual wet Wednesdays in Leeds or Dagenham).

Sex Toys Every High-End Exclusive Escort Should Travel With

The adult toys industry has been constantly improving, refining and upgrading itself constantly. Reason? The demand for sex toys has been increased, so much so that exclusive escorts are looking for THE REAL STUFF to give the ULTIMATE PLEASURE THROUGH PAIN to their esteemed clients.