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Articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog cover the entire spectrum of sexuality, discussing everything pertinent to the world of intimate pleasure and romantic relationships. You’ll find a wealth of sex tips and advice to help you enjoy higher levels of stimulation and enjoyment whether you prefer to play solo or with a partner. Relationships and dating can be tricky areas to navigate successfully, so read up on real experiences here on the blog from both myself and expert guest authors who share their relationship advice.

If you’re ready for the decadently darker side of sex, peer into the world of bondage and spanking… you’ll find plenty of advice articles here for beginners all the way up to veteran kinksters. The kinky sex tips and BDSM articles are sure to help you enjoy not only breathtakingly exciting power exchange playtimes, but ensure you’re both completely safe and emotionally comfortable at all times.

From time to time I write about the sexuality themed highlights of the year, such as National Orgasm Day, International Women’s Day, Organic Intimacy Week, LGBTQ+ Pride Month, Movember and more. You’ll also find fun and helpful seasonal articles covering such themes as romantic gift guides for Valentine’s Day and Christmas, spicing up the Halloween season in a sexy way and enjoying some red hot summer loving.

My sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality. I hope you enjoy reading all my articles.

Ann Summers Moregasm Plus Sex Toys Provide More Power & More Pleasure

Ann Summers is, of course, the home of the Rampant Rabbit, but I'd had such bad experiences with rabbit vibrators that I avoided them. Then, I gave the original Ann Summers Moregasm vibrators a try - and fell in love. Now, a few years later, I've been lucky enough to sample the brand new and upgraded range – the Ann Summers Moregasm Plus sex toys collection.

The Wide & Diverse World of Virtual Reality Sex

Since its release earlier this year, virtual reality has taken the electronic world by storm.  Even if you haven’t been paying attention, there’s a good chance you’ve have heard the rumblings of this great new technology.  Virtual reality is poised for big things, with lots of viable uses already putting the technology to work.

A New Flavour

"Shy" was not how I'd describe her. A mischievous gleam swirled like an undiscovered cosmos in her dark eyes, while her full red lips seemed determined to settle into a cheeky pout whenever they weren't getting her into trouble.  

Women-Specific Lubricants: Necessary Or Just Another Marketing Ploy?

By Cara Sutra: Do women-specific lubricants really matter? When you first realise that what your sex life needs is a little more glide, you will doubtless turn to sex lubricants to transform that dry chafe into sexy friction. It’s only when you start shopping for lubricants (at a well stocked online sex shop as Lubezilla) that you begin to realise that this task isn’t as simple as you’d first imagined.

Romance vs Finance: Resolving Arguments About Money In Relationships

Even people in stable, happy relationships will admit that they argue from time to time. In fact research has shown that it’s healthier to argue regularly, in terms of relationship longevity, than to avoid issues or sweep them under the carpet. And what do most couples argue about? Sex and money. There’s plenty of sex advice elsewhere on this website – but how do you resolve arguments about money in relationships?

Do Sex Bloggers Really Need To Be Self-Hosted?

In the last part of Sex Blogger School, where I explained how to set up your new sex blog, I mentioned that it's best to self-host your sex blog. What does being self-hosted mean? And why is it so important?

A Cock Sucking Story: How I Give Him A Blow Job

By Cara Sutra: Both his hands are in my hair now and I’m being bounced off his cock. He’s using the very deepest part of my throat as his personal wank sleeve – a fuck toy in which to dump his cum.

How To Rekindle The Passion In A Long Term Relationship

By Cara Sutra: Keeping the fires of passion stoked and alive in a long term relationship can be incredibly challenging. You love your partner dearly, but trying to capture that first impetuous rush of emotion and the sensations of being newly in love is difficult even for couples with incredibly strong emotional bonds.

10 Myths About Bisexual People

Although bisexuality is slowly becoming more visible in the media landscape, and more respected as the distinct sexuality it is, so many myths about bisexual people remain prevalent.
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Expired: Happy New Year 2019 Giveaway: Win A £200+ Sex Toy Bundle!

Happy New Year! And what finer way to kick off 2019, than by winning over £200 of sex toys & sexy items. Yes, you could be the lucky winner of a £200+ sex toy bundle in my Happy New Year 2019 Giveaway!  

What is a Dominatrix? What Does a Domme Do?

by Hella Rude People often wince when I mention I once worked as a Dominatrix. It's hard to guess if it's because they can picture me George Fording someone in the balls or if they think I was a rubber-clad prostitute. See, there's a really strange fog around what a dominatrix is and I'm hoping this article will go a way to explaining exactly what the job spec means.

Happy New Year 2012! My New Year’s Resolutions and 2012 Plans

This week so far has seen the start of my January diet to lose the near 2 stone (yes TWO stone!! jeez) that I put on over Christmas, as well as taking down the decorations, trees, cards, garlands, wreaths... everything that had transformed the Manor from normal (well ok not exactly normal) to a Festive Wonderland.

Do You Feel Guilty About Secret Sadistic Desires?

By Cara Sutra: “I’m a vicious sadist - and I secretly harbour cruel, sadistic desires.” It sounds like the opening line in some sort of therapy group for criminals, doesn’t it? However, there are plenty of people out there who have sadistic desires in a consensual, power exchange way. Do you identify as a sadist in the BDSM community? Do you ever feel guilty about your sadistic desires?

Vibrators for Newbies: Vibrating Sex Toys for Complete Beginners

Vibrating sex toys are extremely popular, and the good news is that if you're actively looking to start or build on your own sex toy collection, you'll likely recognise a few types already. Traditional rabbit vibrators, for a start. Classic cylindrical vibrators with a twist base. Maybe you've heard about sports massagers becoming better-known for their orgasmic benefits – the famous magic wand vibrator. Today I want to introduce you to some fantastic options when it comes to vibrators for newbies.
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Anorgasmia – I’ve Never Had An Orgasm

There are a lot of different reasons a man or woman might suffer from anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Physiology, biochemistry, psychological issues and age are all attributed to anorgasmia and it's a condition more commonly found in women than in men. Treatment for men with anorgasmia is much further advanced than it is for women and is often associated with erectile dysfunction.

How To Get A Bigger Penis: Penis Enlargement Tips

Wondering how to get a bigger penis? Enjoy this thorough advice article where I answer a reader's question with a selection of penis enlargement tips.

Sex Preparation Tips: Get Ready For The Best Sex Of Your Life

By Cara Sutra: In this sex preparation tips feature I examine 6 steps which may help to soothe those sexual activity fears and make sure you're as prepared as possible for the best sex you'll ever have.

Cheap Sex Toys Challenge June 2013

My Cheap Sex Toys Challenge for June is to find a sex toy which retails for less than £5 at it's usual price -  not sale or clearance price - which I would actually enjoy.

How The Hell Do You Write A Sex Scene, Anyway? Erotic Writing Advice

Slowly I slipped the lemon satin blouse up and over my head then threw it to the ground. My skin blossomed with goose bumps in the cool air. I looked up just as John undid the first button of his shirt. I watched as he revealed his tight, tanned flesh to me inch by sensual inch.

Prostate Massage 101: A Guide For Beginners

Would you or the man in your life like to experience orgasms that are twice as intense? Or maybe even four times stronger? If your answer is YES, then you should know that prostate massage is the gateway to an entirely new level of erotic pleasure.