Wednesday, October 16, 2019

Articles

Articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog cover the entire spectrum of sexuality, discussing everything pertinent to the world of intimate pleasure and romantic relationships. You’ll find a wealth of sex tips and advice to help you enjoy higher levels of stimulation and enjoyment whether you prefer to play solo or with a partner. Relationships and dating can be tricky areas to navigate successfully, so read up on real experiences here on the blog from both myself and expert guest authors who share their relationship advice.

If you’re ready for the decadently darker side of sex, peer into the world of bondage and spanking… you’ll find plenty of advice articles here for beginners all the way up to veteran kinksters. The kinky sex tips and BDSM articles are sure to help you enjoy not only breathtakingly exciting power exchange playtimes, but ensure you’re both completely safe and emotionally comfortable at all times.

From time to time I write about the sexuality themed highlights of the year, such as National Orgasm Day, International Women’s Day, Organic Intimacy Week, LGBTQ+ Pride Month, Movember and more. You’ll also find fun and helpful seasonal articles covering such themes as romantic gift guides for Valentine’s Day and Christmas, spicing up the Halloween season in a sexy way and enjoying some red hot summer loving.

My sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality. I hope you enjoy reading all my articles.

Win Free Durex Goodies: Pillows, Condoms & Pillows

By Cara Sutra: You can win a sexual party bag of delicious free Durex goodies for solo and shared pleasure in my brand new competition. Not only that, but Durex have supplied some utterly fantastic pillows for you to win too.

Don’t Call Me Feisty! Why I Hate Being Described As Feisty

I most often hear 'feisty' used in an insulting way by men about women. To describe a woman whose ability to voice their opinions, and strength and openness in various areas of their life, makes the man somehow feel threatened and insecure. In this event it often leads to the use of this term in derision, scorn and complete condescension. A way of trying to to 'take her down a peg or two'.

Cara Sutra Provides Expert Sex Toy Advice At Ann Summers

If you’ve kept up to date with all my latest news then you’ll know that I recently sprawled myself across a couple of pages over at Ann Summers. I’m part of their guest panel providing expert sex toy advice and so far it’s been totally buzzing.

Difficult times

My partner's father (my father in law, kinda) has been diagnosed as not only terminal with cancer, but with only a few short months left before the end. He and his wife are residing with us at present so that we can help in whatever ways required and to care for them both at this extraordinarily difficult time.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Scarlet Amor

My most popular sex blog post was about my experience dating a BDSM top who rocked my world and left a welt on my ass that didnʼt allow me to sit properly for a month. I found him on a “vanilla” online dating site, but by our second date he had me tied up, naked, hanging from the rafters in his livingroom.

Illicit Thoughts: Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

illicitthoughts is where I explore my fascination with all things sexy. It contains my erotic fiction, true-life experiences, poetry, photographs and some of my ideas, opinions and thoughts about sex. I welcome and appreciate interaction with my readers and have made some excellent friends thanks to my blog

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: NR Walker

Then he sucked hard and pumped me, once, twice. And I was lost. I couldn’t think, I couldn’t speak. I fisted his hair, trying to warn him, but it only made him look up at me. His dark eyes and his perfect lips around my cock did me in. Then he moaned. I came so fucking hard.

Is it Normal for a Man to Taste His Own Cum?

By Hella Rude I hadn't thought if it before till after a girl gave me head then asked me if I'd ever tasted my own cum. At first I thought it was weird or a bit gay, but now I'm curious as to how it will taste and the idea turns me on. Is this normal? Gay? Should more guys do this?

Why I Hate Vibrating Cock Rings (& What We Use Instead)

If you're a regular sex toy shopper, you'll have noticed vibrating cock rings amongst the offerings for men and couples. Vibrating cock rings are designed to offer penis-owners the pleasure of vibration, as well as the tantalising restriction which encourages a firmer, longer lasting erection.

The Best Sexy Shopping Offers this Halloween

There's a whole cauldron of spooky, sexy offers to select from this Halloween. Witch one you choose (groan) is up to you, but there's not a ghost of a doubt that you can save a lot of your hard earned cash by haunting only the best sex toy shops this Halloween.

Puspus Girl: Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

Puspus Girl: Puspus Girl is a regular reviewer for the Pleasure Panel, but did you know she also writes at her own blog? This week the sex blogger spotlight shines on this lovely lady from Finland. Find out why Puspus started her sex blog, what inspires and motivates her, as well as some of her favourite sex bloggers & sex toys too.

Goodbye Dry Spell! 7 Ways To Reignite Your Libido 

I get phases where I'm not as interested in sex as I used to be, and I worry that this is it. I'm in my late 30s; I'm finally at a point where I hate sex, I'll never want sex again and nothing will ever turn me on. At other times of my life I feel just as horny as I was in my early 20s. When you're enduring a dry spell is there anything you can do to reignite your libido?  

Enjoy A Sexually Thrilling Adult-Only Vacation With Temptation Holidays

It’s always the right time to book a fun-packed holiday and enjoy counting down the days until your next adventure. For adults looking to expand their horizons, experience new sensations and enjoy previously undiscovered levels of pleasure while enjoying the company of like-minded holiday guests, Temptation Holidays is the perfect choice.

When A Rough Sex Session Leaves You With Kinky Bruises & Bite Marks

Kinky bruises and bite marks - how do you feel about them? Like so many parts of BDSM, opinion is divided on whether being left with bruises, scratches, bite marks etc is a good way or a bad way to end a scene or rough sex session with your partner.

Kitten play fetish or Catwoman?

I have been musing recently on how some women are like cats, and some like kittens. The kitten play fetish is quite popular with those identifying as women, and puppy play more usually seen in those identifying as men or boys. There's a whole world of furry fetish fun out there in BDSM!

Daddy Doms and Little Girls

This moved me to tears - I hope it goes some way to explain this truly beautiful D/s relationship. I've long been fascinated by Daddy Doms and little girls.

How to Have a Sexy Christmas with Your Man / Woman

Having worked in adult retail for 5 years, I'm no stranger to penning a sexy Christmas gift guide or 10. However it's fair to say most of my work focuses on product marketing, even though buying the right things for sexy time does not a master make. I could tell you which toys and lingerie I rate highest as we wrap up 2015, but if you haven't done the ground work - there's little point in your spending £$£$ on gear. As is becoming a bit of a Cara Sutra tradition, I'd like to deviate from the obvious Christmas gift guides and focus on some advice we can all get on board with.

Hella Rude Modelling Photos With Emma Delves-Broughton – 2015 Photography Project

By Hella Rude It has been a privilege to have known Emma Delves-Broughton since 2004. I had admired Emma's photography for some time and her Libidex Seasonal spread (shot on location in Bath) had adorned my 16-year-old self's bedroom walls. Such hero worship.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Kait Gamble

Kait Gamble invites you to read, escape and fall in love with her erotic romance novels. Stepping into the author spotlight at Cara Sutra this week, Kait shares with you details of her latest releases, as well as some tantalising free excerpts to enjoy. Put the kettle on, put your feet up and prepare to whet your appetite for more with these delicious sexy story snippets.