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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

The Bite Size Guide to Sex Toys and Bedroom Essentials

Sex toys are not a replacement for a partner or pleasure, they are the seasoning on your sex life. A sprinkling of the right devices for you and your partner can spice up your sex life and masturbation immeasurably, leaving you fulfilled and confident in all walks of life.

Beginner’s Guide To Silicone Sex Toys and Silicone Lubes

If you have any experience of sex toys, you will either have heard of silicone, or you may even have used it already. But really, what is silicone all about? Is there are difference between ordinary vibrators and silicone sex toys? What's the deal with silicone lube?

Hitch a sexy ride to the club

A short drive to the club. The lamplights flickered their teasing striped shadows and illumination through the rain spattered windows, dappling the flashes of flesh exposed from her daringly provocative and revealing dress. Light seized every facet of the sparkling costume jewellery adorning the creamy expanse of flesh of her cleavage, well presented in the plunge front outfit.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Kristina Lloyd

The latest work I read from Kristina Lloyd was a short story entitled 'Cutting out Hearts' in Cleis Press' Best Erotic Romance 2013 anthology, edited by Violet Blue. Apart from the emotion rich scenes and raunchy sexual aspects, there is a deep, underlying psychological value to her writing which makes you think. The brain is our sexiest organ and Kristina certainly knows how to use hers, as well as inviting yours along for the ride, to get to a thoroughly satisfying destination.

Is There A Connection Between Ageplay and Spanking?

By Cara Sutra: It seems strange to me that there hasn't been a connection made between corporal punishment and ageplay before. After a particularly hot session with my partner recently, it suddenly struck me. What's your first response? Is there any connection between ageplay and spanking?

Edible Underwear: Are Sexy Edibles Perfect Cheap Romantic Gifts? 

Buyer's guide sexy edibles & edible underwear spotlight: What are these cheap novelties really like? Are they a great sexy stocking filler for your partner or funny Secret Santa gift for office colleagues?

Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Tips For Men

By Hella Rude This one's for the guys. The ones who have girlfriends who are reading Fifty Shades of Grey. The ones who are wondering what it's about and how to get in on it without reading it. As per usual, padré, the internet has done the hard work for you and you can now get the abridged 411 of Mr Christian Grey in the form of sex advice. Pretty cool, huh?

How To Make Money Testing Sex Toys  

How Can You Make Money Testing Sex Toys? Could Sex Toy Reviews Ever Pay Your Bills? There are a few avenues you can explore if you'd like to make money testing sex toys. Sounds like a dream...

Sensual Wellbeing Masterclass from Temptation Holidays

Most of us would love to live a healthier life, but good intentions all too easily fall to the wayside in the pursuit of pleasure. Happily, there's now a way to combine better health with carnal passions: sensual wellbeing.

10 Ways Sex Toys Can Help Increase Relationship Intimacy

When you're in a relationship, it can be so easy to slip into set daily routines which might not include quite as much spontaneity, frivolity and affection as when you were in your first flush of love. Life has a habit of popping up with all sorts of hurdles to a care-free, explorative love-life; family and/or work responsibilities or worrying over health or financial pressures can make the warm bond of relationship intimacy feel like a long-forgotten dream.

How Can I Be A More Dominant Woman In The Bedroom? | Sex Tips...

By Cara Sutra: This week’s anonymous advice-hunter needs some tips to become a more dominant woman in the bedroom, which will turn both her and her partner on.

The Hotness Of Gay Sex

There’s something about man loving and gay sex which gets my knickers twitching. It doesn’t even have to be all-out gay porn; just a simple act of romantic affection between guys on a TV show can catch my clit’s interest. When it does come down to the action, though, man-on-man sex scenes are so fucking hot. And as it’s all rather gay, I’m not really sure why I (as a woman) would find it all that hot.  

I’m A Secret Submissive | Why Female Submission Is A Private Kink For Me

By Cara Sutra: For me, female submission is an entirely sexual act, not a lifestyle choice or a facet of my personality. I submit to my partner for my pleasure, as well as for his. The act of him taking pleasure in my sexual submission or bedroom roleplay keys into an underlying vanity.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Red Pussy Hair

Ryan P.'s blog, red-pussy-hair.blogspot.com is a personal sexual journal that chronicles his responses to naked people and pictures of naked people. Discussing his relationships with women, porn, early (and current) masturbation experiences, it explores, in his own words: "things I've done, things I wish I'd done, and things I probably shouldn't have done".

Sex, sex blogging and selling your story to the press

Working and blogging in such a sensitive and already overly misinformed area of life as sexuality and the sex industry, it’s very disappointing on a personal level that someone who believes themselves to be in the same field would choose to naively speak to national press and not ensure they had full rights over what is published.

85% Of Brits Happy With Partner’s Masturbation Habits, TENGA Survey Reveals

An online survey of over 2000 UK adults* has revealed some fascinating insights into our masturbation habits and attitudes. The Masturbation Matters survey was commissioned by TENGA for Masturbation Month and posed masturbation-related questions to people of various age groups (18+), genders and relationship status.

New Doxy Vibrator (Doxy Number Three) Sex Toy Release Autumn 2017

Some very exciting news for Doxy lovers like myself: a new Doxy Wand is in production! Known (for now, at least) as Doxy Number Three, this brand-new Doxy vibrator is set to be released in an exciting launch in Autumn 2017.  
Female anorgasmia - never had an orgasm sex tips advice and help

Sex Tips – I’ve never had an orgasm (anorgasmia)

There are a lot of different reasons a man or woman might suffer from anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Physiology, biochemistry, psychological issues and age are all attributed to anorgasmia and it's a condition more commonly found in women than in men. Treatment for men with anorgasmia is much further advanced than it is for women and is often associated with erectile dysfunction.

A Rant About Rants: Venting On Social Media

By Cara Sutra: I believe we all know people that we genuinely like – but wow, their social media updates really push our buttons. I know I do. And if you’re thinking it’s you, it’s probably not you. I’m talking about people who seem to spend the majority of their time venting on social media. It doesn’t seem to matter if it’s Twitter, Facebook or any other social media (does anyone even bother putting text updates on any other social media platform?) – their feed is just vent after wail after whinge after whine.

Expired: Happy New Year 2019 Giveaway: Win A £200+ Sex Toy Bundle!

Happy New Year! And what finer way to kick off 2019, than by winning over £200 of sex toys & sexy items. Yes, you could be the lucky winner of a £200+ sex toy bundle in my Happy New Year 2019 Giveaway!