Wednesday, August 21, 2019

Threesome Dos and Donts? | Sex Tips & Advice

Dear Cara: I'm a single female that's recently been asked by a couple if I'd like to join them for some fun. We all seem to be on the same wave length. So far we have all been open and honest with each other and plan to keep it that way if it does go further. I have heard good and bad stories about threesomes. How do we make sure it turns out to be a good time for everyone? Are there any threesome dos and donts?

What’s the best beginner anal sex toy for a man?

I'm male and I want to buy some toys for anal training. However, other than fingers, nothing else has successfully penetrated me there. I'm wondering what's the best beginner anal sex toy for a man? What kind of thickness would be advisable to look at? Also do you recommend inflatable or solid form?

Intercourse is painful for her. Which sex toys should we use?

Which sex toy should I buy my wife for Christmas? She has severe endometriosis so intercourse is painful for her - extremely painful, in fact. We haven't had intercourse in months, so slow and steady is the way. She has used clitoral vibrators in the past but found them to be too intense.

What are the best sex toys to use during lesbian sex?

Dear Cara: I've just discovered I might be gay, as I pulled a woman the other week when I went out! I was wondering if you could suggest anything we could use together during lesbian sex, bearing in mind it's the first time I've really been with a woman. Nothing too tricky please!
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Sex Tips & Sex Toy Advice Column at Cara Sutra

I'll be providing the best sex tips, giving sex toy advice, calming concerns and presenting guides on how to help you make the most of your love life in this new column here at CaraSutra. Whether you're single, with a partner/partners or venturing into the world of orgasms with sex toys, you'll find the answers you're looking for here.

Mistress Cara FemDom Diary Update: November 2011

Every morning I am woken at 6.45am with a cup of hot coffee, as well as a mug of tea for my man next to me. I know it shames minnie dreadfully having to serve us in this way and in whichever way I wish. Always knowing he is nothing, so insignificant compared to his Mistress Cara and Her real man.

Connection With My Lover Before Sex

I love when we have those tender private times together, those reassuring moments of intimacy. It’s so good to feel like his special girl and I know (well, hope) that he loves feeling like my special man. Our relationship is far from what you’d call standard, normal or boring, and very often it can involve other people. Not that we’re swingers – not that there’s anything wrong with swinging but it’s not us. I may have girl lovers though and he may have boy lovers; we’re both very bi.

High Heels Fetish: The Next Step In Sexy Fashion

It seems that an extraordinary amount of people, myself included, have a fascination or near obsession with shoes - sexy, alluring, high heeled shoes in particular. What is it about these simple pieces of footwear that tug at our heart strings (or clit nerve endings) so much? Is there such a thing as a high heels fetish?

How do I find a Mistress or Domme? FemDom BDSM Advice

One of the main questions I come across as a BDSM Mistress is 'How do I find a Mistress or Domme?' but with messages like these, it should be obvious what not to say on your first (or any) message to a prospective Mistress or owner.

How do I use affiliate links on my sex toys blog?

As Affiliate Manager at a large UK sex toys shopping website, people keep asking me how to add all the lovely banners and also trackable deep affiliate links to their blog. It will be slightly different if you have a Wordpress blog, but this morning I answered the question to a lovely lady who also uses Blogger and I decided to post my reply here too in case anyone else needs help in this area!

Beginner’s Guide to Twitter

witter is a fantastic FREE way to reach potentially millions of people’s eyeballs – with YOUR words. I hope you all find this beginner's guide to Twitter useful. It's certainly a great social media platform for marketing! But be wary – be over zealous on the marketing and not enough on the effervescent twitter personality and people will get bored and ‘unfollow’ you – in the worst case they’ll start to complain (and we all know complaints spread much faster than compliments!). It’s all like a big game of Sims, or Theme Twitter.... They’re your people, look after them, entertain them, don’t depress them – then when they love you, use that to your advantage to SELL SELL SELL. Ha!

Kitten play fetish or Catwoman?

I have been musing recently on how some women are like cats, and some like kittens. The kitten play fetish is quite popular with those identifying as women, and puppy play more usually seen in those identifying as men or boys. There's a whole world of furry fetish fun out there in BDSM!

A Quick Guide To Sex Lubes: Razzels, Swiss Navy, ID Glide & TENGA Egg...

By Cara Sutra: It's been a great pleasure to sample some lovely new sex lubes lately and wanted to share my research with you.

Beginner’s Guide To Silicone Sex Toys and Silicone Lubes

If you have any experience of sex toys, you will either have heard of silicone, or you may even have used it already. But really, what is silicone all about? Is there are difference between ordinary vibrators and silicone sex toys? What's the deal with silicone lube?

Female Chastity & Orgasm Denial

I'm wondering today, how many orgasms per week someone needs in order to feel fulfilled. Perhaps several each day, several an hour? Or are you a one-a-day man or woman? How do you choose to travel to this destination? Does it involve female chastity for you?

The 3 different types of lesbians

I'm a very feminine woman. In the lesbian world, there are terms to describe the different types of lesbians. Of course not all women will fit these categories exactly, it is impossible to pigeon hole absolutely everyone with a few labels. However, I do identify with these types both from personal experience with women and how I feel in myself.

Beginner’s Guide To Pegging Sex Toys, Strap On Harnesses And Strap On Dildos

I wanted to write a blog post about the strap on harnesses I have and the strap on dildos I use with them. I own three strap on harnesses: Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9 Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs

Are sex toys better than real cock?

Men, I find it very odd that some of you have a problem with sex toys. Not a hatred for rubber or silicone; but more specifically a feeling of angst when they are brought into the bedroom by your lover. There's this ongoing debate: Are sex toys better than real cock?

Lingerie shopping advice guide for real women

Time to devote a bit of time to lingerie shopping! I hit the sexy lingerie button on my favourite lingerie shopping website, and had a browse. Unfortunately, a lot of the admittedly lovely and lacy items seem to be designed to be worn for a maximum of half an hour, during which time your lover oohs, ahhs, caresses, undresses, does the business then puts the kettle on.