Tuesday, July 16, 2019

How do I find the right Mistress?

Hi Cara, I have been looking to get into the BDSM scene by Serving a mistress. How do I find a mistress that would be right for me? There are loads on different sites but...

Chastity & Keyholding Video – the Basics

Chastity & Keyholding - the Basics A brief overview of the fetish that is Chastity and Keyholding, from a Mistress' point of view. A quick guide including safety tips. [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfdDVq_U0Gc&feature=youtube_gdata_player&w=425&h=350]
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Keyholding for a New Chastity sub/slave

I was pleased to recently find a male submissive on My Mistress Cara Twitter who was not only the minimum age I require My subs to be (30), but also a slave to chastity...

Fetish Friday: The Strap On Invasion

My Fetish Friday post this week is inspired by an item I reviewed today. I took a close up picture which I feel perfectly encapsulates the shiny soft leather, the corsetry, so evocative -...

Add your entry for Fetish Friday!

A reminder that Fetish Friday is here once again! I want your links, to your entries for Fetish Friday, be they pictures, photographs, kinky writing, anecdotes, fantasies or more. Share the kink! Let's spread the good...

Fetish Friday: The Inspection

I summon you to stand in front of Me for your monthly up close and uncomfortable inspection. I make you remove the torture device I have you wear, though you take it off with...

The Tease and Denial – Fetish Friday

I was turning some very kinky and evil ideas over in my mind last night... To have him, strapped down, restrained tightly. Wide asylum patient straps, crossing over neck, chest, waist and each leg separately....

#FetishFriday Living the kinky life… 24/7

I love being able to live kinky, 24/7. Not only just as part of a kinky household that all enjoy some element of Fetish (ok, a lot of elements, overlapping and creating one large,...

Daddy Doms and Little Girls

This moved me to tears - I hope it goes some way to explain this truly beautiful D/s relationship. I've long been fascinated by Daddy Doms and little girls.

Which sex toy is best for deep and wide anal reaming?

I am interested in challenging myself with the largest anal toys I can find, please help! What is the widest toy I could buy and the longest (including double dildos)? Is there a toy you'd recommend as having the best of both? I need to get in on some anal reaming action!
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Sex Tips & Sex Toy Advice Column at Cara Sutra

I'll be providing the best sex tips, giving sex toy advice, calming concerns and presenting guides on how to help you make the most of your love life in this new column here at CaraSutra. Whether you're single, with a partner/partners or venturing into the world of orgasms with sex toys, you'll find the answers you're looking for here.

Mistress Cara FemDom Diary Update: November 2011

Every morning I am woken at 6.45am with a cup of hot coffee, as well as a mug of tea for my man next to me. I know it shames minnie dreadfully having to serve us in this way and in whichever way I wish. Always knowing he is nothing, so insignificant compared to his Mistress Cara and Her real man.

High Heels Fetish: The Next Step In Sexy Fashion

It seems that an extraordinary amount of people, myself included, have a fascination or near obsession with shoes - sexy, alluring, high heeled shoes in particular. What is it about these simple pieces of footwear that tug at our heart strings (or clit nerve endings) so much? Is there such a thing as a high heels fetish?

How do I find a Mistress or Domme? FemDom BDSM Advice

One of the main questions I come across as a BDSM Mistress is 'How do I find a Mistress or Domme?' but with messages like these, it should be obvious what not to say on your first (or any) message to a prospective Mistress or owner.

Kitten play fetish or Catwoman?

I have been musing recently on how some women are like cats, and some like kittens. The kitten play fetish is quite popular with those identifying as women, and puppy play more usually seen in those identifying as men or boys. There's a whole world of furry fetish fun out there in BDSM!

Female Chastity & Orgasm Denial

I'm wondering today, how many orgasms per week someone needs in order to feel fulfilled. Perhaps several each day, several an hour? Or are you a one-a-day man or woman? How do you choose to travel to this destination? Does it involve female chastity for you?

Beginner’s Guide To Pegging Sex Toys, Strap On Harnesses And Strap On Dildos

I wanted to write a blog post about the strap on harnesses I have and the strap on dildos I use with them. I own three strap on harnesses: Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9 Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs