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Carnal Needs

We are together constantly but it seems only a few, brief snapshot moments where we share that intimacy and our carnal needs. When we touch again, he catches my attention with his flesh to mine once more; fingers through my hair, hand on my shoulder or round my throat, pulling me by my hips to sit on his lap or his fingers entwining with mine to give me a reassuring squeeze of his love.

The Ersties Podcast: Educational & Entertaining Sex Chat

If you’d like to keep up to speed with everything sex, dating and the sex industry (and who wouldn’t), then the Ersties podcast is where it’s at. Four fearless and fun feminists from Germany provide listeners with unique insights and fascinating perspectives on sex-themed issues of all kinds, via a monthly podcast which aims to both educate and entertain.  

Pelvic Floor Exercises: What Are They & Why Are They Important?

By Cara Sutra: Are Pelvic Floor Exercises important? The pelvic floor muscles are muscles which give a person important control over various facets of their personal life. Their main function is to control the flow of urination from the bladder and there is also control over the bowel.

Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Sex Toys And Fetish Gear

By Cara Sutra: There’s quite a bit of confusion even in seasoned sex toys circles about what certain terms refer to regarding bondage sex toys and fetish gear. For this week’s Fetish Friday, I want to help clear up some of that confusion - with this handy guide.

Summer Loving: Holiday Sex

This week, TMI Tuesday is looking at sex on holiday, as we're coming up to summer. Any moment now. Honest. I'm in the UK so I don't call it a 'vacation', that's what I call...

The 10 Weirdest Kinds Of Porn That People Search For

You can expect lots of people to make a scrunchy “eww” face once they discover that someone has a certain fetish - say for instance, spanking or licking feet. Those, however, pale in comparison to some of the really strange stuff that people Google to wank over. We scoured the internet for ten of the weirdest kinds of porn out there, and came up with this list.

Is it Normal for a Man to Taste His Own Cum?

By Hella Rude I hadn't thought if it before till after a girl gave me head then asked me if I'd ever tasted my own cum. At first I thought it was weird or a bit gay, but now I'm curious as to how it will taste and the idea turns me on. Is this normal? Gay? Should more guys do this?

Expired: Valentine’s Day Giveaway: Win A Relaxing Romance Bundle 

Time to get loved up and absolutely, tremendously spoilt. Valentine's Day is just around the corner - and to help you get into the spirit of the romantic season, here's an exciting Valentine's Day giveaway. 

The Day She Came: Fucking My Girl, A Lesbian Sex Story

Two fingers turned to three as I gave her pussy a real challenge. My thumb, outside her body, steadily circled her exposed and erect clit using her leaked wetness as lube. I could feel her cunt getting even tighter around my fingers, and fucking her was getting harder and harder. Still, I wasn't going to give up so easily.

Chastity Release – Her Icy Response

Tilting his chin up so I could look into his embarrassed face properly, I relished the fight between humiliation, hate and the most intense arousal in his eyes. My other hand reached down and felt the weight of his chastity locked cock in my hands. He jumped as my cool hands came into contact with his hot straining balls under the metal device.

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM We can’t even blame 50 Shades for the idea of ‘absolute’ submission, because it’s been around for at least 30 years. And, while Anastasia Steele might be a vacant fumbletrumpet who appears to have reached adulthood without even knowing what an email is, she does dump Creepy Christian more than once and even answers back from time to time.

Saturated with Sex

...I miss out on the entire penis beaker incident as I was off cavorting with real feel dismembered parts at eroFame. Not a penis beaker to be seen over there; perhaps next year? Men would rather dunk their junk in a conveniently placed beaker by the bed, than get up and wash? Not the men I choose to hop into bed with.

Win A Hand-Made Teddy Bear From Sheets Of San Francisco

Cara Sutra: Nothing epitomises snuggles like a teddy bear, and we all need plenty of snuggles – especially when it’s cold and dark outside. What if you could win a gorgeous teddy bear to snuggle this winter? And… what if you could customise that hand-made teddy bear to really make him (or her, or them) your very own?

Tips For Beginners To BDSM And Bondage

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

Is Social Media Destroying Your Relationship?

By Mel MacFarlane: I know about your kids and the names of all your family pets. What I don’t know, is whether my husband has had a nice day. Until I check his Facebook status…

“Having A Baby Ruined My Vagina!” Does Childbirth Ruin Vaginas?

By Cara Sutra: Have you ever heard a woman say similar? "Having a baby ruined my vagina!" isn't something you hear most mums say. So what's the truth, does childbirth ruin vaginas?

Don’t Call Me Baby: When Sexy Roleplay Is A Complete Turn-Off

By Cara Sutra: There's a particularly stomach-churning part of the internet which insists on foisting sexy roleplay on to others while completely bypassing the need for consent or even an ounce of interest from the other party. Without turning it into a gender war, this does majorly seem to be men viewing unsolicited sexy roleplay as a way to 'pull' women on the internet.

The ETO Show & Awards 2015 Report

It's over a week since I returned from the annual ETO Show at Birmingham's NEC and I don't think I've come back to earth just yet. As usual, the ETO Magazine team put on a spectacular adult industry trade show, with a gala dinner and awards presentation in the middle of the two days to celebrate the best in the biz.

A Very, Very, Naughty Little Girl

Lestat: Claudia, you have been a very, very naughty little girl.

Expired: Win The Give Lube Collection For Christmas

In this new and exciting festive giveaway, you could win the Give Lube Collection for Christmas! read on to find out how to enter and exactly what sexy prizes you have a chance of winning over the holiday season.