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Cara Sutra’s Blog

Welcome to Cara Sutra’s Blog, where you can enjoy erotic writing, sexuality chat, sex and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and a whole lot more. 

Cara Sutra's Blog

There are writer features in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author spotlight series, guest vibrator and bedroom product reviews with the Pleasure Panel at the Cara Sutra forum, Stampy Pants Rants by Cara Sutra and 100% original erotica written for you to perv in public or private…

“I couldn’t disguise the sexual hunger I felt as I admired her gorgeous breasts. Perfect shape, size… and her small pink nipples already hard and puckered. I lowered my head as she raised hers and took one of her nipples between finger and thumb, rolling it gently between them, as my tongue swirled over the bumpy areola of the other. The flat of my tongue first, then the tip flicking quickly for maximum sensation. Then swapping sides and rolling her now wet nipple between my fingers as I sucked and lapped at the other. The moans she was emitting above me were spurring me to continue…”
– Read more in Girl Date: The First Fuck Is The Sweetest

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Big Guide To Penis Chastity Devices, & Our Chastity Cage Reviews

Whether you’re looking for your first chastity device, or seeking to add a chastity cage to your *ahem* growing collection, it can be baffling when you realise just how many variants are available. This is particularly the case for lock-up fans who don’t have a Keyholder/Mistress/Top to guide them, and simply wish to explore chastity fetish by themselves. Welcome to my big guide to penis chastity devices!

Forced Orgasms – The Flip Side Of Chastity

I love the freedom to touch myself whenever I want –and I make the most of that freedom, as you can see by the thousands of sex toy reviews and erotic articles here on the blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, when I'm the one locked up I mean. How about the flip side of chastity: forced orgasms? There's still the element of external control -but rather than orgasm denial, I would be (consensually, of course) forced to orgasm over and over.

Big Guide To Sex Machines And Fucking Machines

Time to talk about the big boys... What do you know about sex machines and fucking machines? If you're a sex toy fan or love watching porn (or both, why not), you've probably heard of the Sybian. I reviewed the Sybian sex machine myself a few years ago. That's not the only sex machine around though...

My Different Types Of Orgasm

For so long, I didn't really think about how I was orgasming – beyond whether it was with my fingers, their tongue, one of my sex toys, etc – I just... orgasmed or didn't, as the case may be. Whew, there's another orgasm out of my system, and boy did that feel great, kinda thing. It's only relatively recently that I've spent some time thinking about my different types of orgasm.

Expired: Giveaway: Win the Lynk Pleasure Loop XL Cock Ring Set from Enhanced Male

As you can see from our recent Lynk Loop XL Silicone Blue Cock Ring Set review, the benefits of a top quality, static silicone cock ring (or three) are many -and breathtaking besides. I’m so pleased to be able to give one lucky Cara Sutra reader the chance to win the Lynk Pleasure Loop XL Cock Ring Set from The Enhanced Male sex shop.

Understanding Watersports, Piss Play and Golden Showers

Does mention of watersports conjure up innocent images of surfing and jet skis -or raise a knowing smirk? For the non-vanilla activity, "golden showers" is probably a more familiar term to most thanks to tabloid coverage of various celebrity/political scandals, as well as good old internet porn.

Brand Focus: A Closer Look At Loving Joy Sex Toys

Loving Joy sex toys have clearly invested a lot of time, research and funds into their brand over the last few years. Building on those early days where profit relied majorly on the sale of traditional rabbit vibrators, Loving Joy have been forging a brand which offers customers a much greater choice when it comes to intimate pleasure products. Not only a fantastic range of items, but sex toys which are effective, reliable, and surprisingly affordable too.
Understanding Adult Babies And The Adult Baby Fetish

Understanding Adult Babies & The Adult Baby Fetish

Cards on the table: this is not my kink. Is it yours? As someone with an interest in another area of ageplay, I imagine that the adult baby fetish is viewed as extremely niche and is often misunderstood. Perhaps feared a little –even within the BDSM sphere.

Lovehoney Sexual Happiness Week: Sexual Self-Care Package

Last week was Sexual Happiness Week 2019, and I’ve been attending to my sexual self-care needs with a thoughtful box of sexy goodies courtesy of Lovehoney. Despite receiving hundreds of sex toys and accessories in the post each year, they’re very rarely for me –rather, they are reviewed by the fabulous Pleasure Panel team. On occasion, I’m able to experience the thrill of being surprised by a box of sex toys and goodies purely for self-indulgence. It’s been a sensual and orgasmic week.

Feminist Femdom! Making Femdom Sustainable

What if - here's a mind blowing thought - Femdom did what it said on the tin? Actually put her - you - in charge? What if Femdom was Feminist in the sense that it was about your emancipation, your agency, your empowerment?

Big Guide To Jiggle Balls, Love Eggs, Kegel Trainers & Ben Wa Balls 

Whether you call them jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers or Ben Wa balls, it all amounts to pretty much the same thing. Rounded products you insert into the vagina for pleasure, health benefits, or both. Are you a jiggle ball fan? Have you considered buying a love egg but don’t know which one’s right for you? Welcome to my big guide to jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel trainers & Ben Wa balls!

Expired: Happy Bunny Bundle Easter Giveaway 2019: Win £100+ Sex Toys & More

Easter is just around the corner, and that can only mean one thing: masses of chocolate! Chocolate does seem to be the new 'heart' of Easter, uniting those who celebrate the event for whatever other reason –Christian beliefs, pagan beliefs, Cadbury Creme Egg addiction... I’m all about the pleasure focus whatever the occasion, so a combination of sex toys and chocolate seemed the perfect Easter giveaway haul here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.