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Cara Sutra’s Blog

Welcome to Cara Sutra’s Blog, where you can enjoy erotic writing, sexuality chat, sex and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and a whole lot more. 

Cara Sutra's Blog

There are writer features in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author spotlight series, guest vibrator and bedroom product reviews with the Pleasure Panel at the Cara Sutra forum, Stampy Pants Rants by Cara Sutra and 100% original erotica written for you to perv in public or private…

“I couldn’t disguise the sexual hunger I felt as I admired her gorgeous breasts. Perfect shape, size… and her small pink nipples already hard and puckered. I lowered my head as she raised hers and took one of her nipples between finger and thumb, rolling it gently between them, as my tongue swirled over the bumpy areola of the other. The flat of my tongue first, then the tip flicking quickly for maximum sensation. Then swapping sides and rolling her now wet nipple between my fingers as I sucked and lapped at the other. The moans she was emitting above me were spurring me to continue…”
– Read more in Girl Date: The First Fuck Is The Sweetest

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Lingerie Giveaway: Win The Leg Avenue Rainbow Body

One of the items I modelled and reviewed over summer is the Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body, which is both joyfully colourful and extremely comfortable and flattering. Even better: I have another Leg Avenue Rainbow Body (usually priced at £/$19.99) to give away to one of my lovely readers in a new and exciting giveaway.

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

Pleasure Panel Closure: Why The Pleasure Panel Sex Toy Reviews Project Closed

For the past 4 years I've hosted a popular community reviews project here at the Cara Sutra sex blog called the Pleasure Panel. Sadly, this project closed at the start of July this year. I wanted to write an official update to clarify that the Pleasure Panel project is officially closed, and no more sign-ups to it are being accepted.

I Had My Cervical Screening And It Wasn’t Scary At All | Smear Test Report 

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

New Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Collaborative Sex Toy Release

Two hugely successful sex toy brands have collaborated to present a thrilling new product which promises effortless orgasms. Introducing the Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator. Utilising the now patented Pleasure Air Technology, first created in 2013 by Michael Lenke, the Womanizer Pro40 is the latest addition to the globally popular and successful Womanizer sex toy family.

My Domination: Perception Vs Reality

How people perceive my domination, and the reality of it, is something which has fascinated me for some time. You would be amazed at some of the comments directed my way over the years simply for the ways in which I choose to enjoy my natural dominance, as well as how my actively consenting submissives enjoy it, too. Some of these comments are borne from ignorance, some from jealousy, some from malice, and others simply because the person spoke without properly thinking it all through.

Summer Garden Party: Fountain of Relief

The fountain elicited a chorus of open-mouthed wails. The heat of the sun and humiliation hit my exposed clit and spread labia, slicking them with hungry need. My body kept forgetting it was in such secure bondage; each leg kept pointed upwards and outwards, unable to bend. How I wished I could arch my back completely, then curl into a ball and keep this feeling of humiliation-fuelled hot desire as my own private masturbatory tool.

Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses, & Our Strap On Set Reviews

Strap-on sex (sometimes known as pegging) is enjoyed by many adults and within various types of relationship; for example, lesbian/bisexual sex, in BDSM as part of FemDom, or to help a penis-owner pleasure their partner in different ways. There are many types of harness available to help you achieve your sexual pleasure aims – welcome to my big guide to strap-on sex harnesses.

Expired: Big Birthday Summer 2019 Sex Toys Giveaway

Time for my Big Birthday Summer 2019 Sex Toys Giveaway! And if you think that’s a mouthful, you should see the prizes on offer 😉 July is (obviously) the best month of the year*, being not only my birthday month but that of my partner, too.

Big Guide To Penis Chastity Devices, & Our Chastity Cage Reviews

Whether you’re looking for your first chastity device, or seeking to add a chastity cage to your *ahem* growing collection, it can be baffling when you realise just how many variants are available. This is particularly the case for lock-up fans who don’t have a Keyholder/Mistress/Top to guide them, and simply wish to explore chastity fetish by themselves. Welcome to my big guide to penis chastity devices!

Forced Orgasms – The Flip Side Of Chastity

I love the freedom to touch myself whenever I want –and I make the most of that freedom, as you can see by the thousands of sex toy reviews and erotic articles here on the blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, when I'm the one locked up I mean. How about the flip side of chastity: forced orgasms? There's still the element of external control -but rather than orgasm denial, I would be (consensually, of course) forced to orgasm over and over.