Mel MacFarlane

Mel MacFarlane is an experienced adult industry copywriter, product reviewer and business consultant. You can find her get modafinil online at her own leading sexuality magazine, Voluptasse. You can also follow Mel’s work on Twitter and Facebook.

How To Buy Sexy Lingerie Which Suits Your Body Shape

Women come in all different shapes and sizes, that’s what makes us so wonderful. If you’re reading this article on your commute to work, or your lunch-break, look around! Every single person in the vicinity looks completely different. The same rules apply when shopping for lingerie.

Bush Fucker Trials: Strange Aphrodisiacs From Around The World

It's that time of year again when a host of celebrities (or non celebs, depending on your tastes) enter the Jungle and put a plethora of strange and unusual foodstuffs in their mouths. The celebrity line up has now been released and I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here returns to our screens on 19th November 2017.

JIZZ Pump Action Drinking Game Review

6 out of 10
As as self-respecting Northerner, the binge drinking culture is something that I was born to partake in. After all, who else is going to polish off all that beer and stout? So when the JIZZ Pump Action Drinking Game fell into the lap of fellow Northerner Cara Sutra (but not literally), she knew exactly who to call.

Create Your Own Love Island: Top Desert Island Sex Toys

Whether you loved it or hated it, the Love Island series was something that got the whole country talking. Would the winners be the tempestuous Liv and the ‘Oh so sweet’ Chris? Were Gabby and Marcelle the real deal? And does Camilla really like Jamie, particularly after failing the lie detector test?

Bondara Sheer Mesh Pink Babydoll and G-String Set Review | Pleasure Panel

6 out of 10
After a great review of the Starline Harness Your Body Lingerie Set I was feeling so much more confident and raring to try the Bondara Sheer Mesh Pink Babydoll and G-String Set from Bondara.

Starline Harness Your Body Lingerie Set Review (SL6054) | Pleasure Panel

9 out of 10
At the moment, there is lots of focus on harness styles, floral prints and dark gothic colours so I was really pleased when Cara offered me the opportunity to review the Starline Harness Your Body Lingerie Set (SL6054) from Bondara for the Pleasure Panel.

General Erection 2017: How To Enjoy Great Sex Despite A Politics Clash

How To Have Great Sex With Your Partner Despite A Politics Clash With the United Kingdom General Election 2017 fast approaching, tensions are high - particularly...

Should You Ever Have Sex With An Ex?

By Mel MacFarlane: A break up can trigger many different emotions. Some people may feel relief whereas others are heartbroken. After all, it isn’t just the breakdown of the relationship, but your future plans together too. Despite this, many of us still find it hard to resist the temptation of slipping back between the bedsheets with an ex - but why?

How To Turn A Reluctant Partner Into Christian Grey

By Mel MacFarlane: For those who are enchanted by the romance between Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey, a reluctant partner proves somewhat of a challenge. My inbox is full of disappointed lovers hoping for the Christian Grey bedroom experience, but struggling with their hapless partner who is quite clearly feeling the pressure.

Fifty Shades Darker Film Review

By Mel MacFarlane: I spent all of last week rereading excerpts from Fifty Shades Darker. For our industry this series has created lots of business and done some really great things in terms of acceptance for those who practice BDSM.

Festive Fiction: The Best Christmas Gift Of All

By Mel MacFarlane: I knelt on the floor giggling and listened intently to the soft rustle of paper as he moved swiftly around the room. His normally heavy footsteps surprisingly light as he navigated his way around me, hoping that I wouldn’t hear. Over my eyes the blindfold pressed firmly against my skin, allowing only a small chink of light to highlight his large black boots.

How To Gift Lingerie She Loves For Christmas

By Mel MacFarlane: As a woman, I love opening expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.

Is Social Media Destroying Your Relationship?

By Mel MacFarlane: I know about your kids and the names of all your family pets. What I don’t know, is whether my husband has had a nice day. Until I check his Facebook status…

10 Reasons To Become A Sex Toy Tester

By Mel MacFarlane: I began a brand new business venture and declared that I couldn’t write about sex toys forever. However, when push came to shove, I found that I couldn’t walk away from sex toy reviewing because it’s a part of my life that I absolutely love.

Seven til Midnight Bodystocking (20424) – Pleasure Panel Review

7 out of 10
By Mel MacFarlane: The Seven Til Midnight Bodystocking (20424) was sent to me from Cara Sutra as part of the Pleasure Panel Reviews. The stocking was free, in return for an honest and unbiased review of the product.

Getting Your Sex Life Back After Baby

As rewarding and incredible as the experience is, it’s hard - and for Mum and Dad, the dynamic of the relationship begins to change. No longer are you the carefree couple who enjoys long walks and pub lunches, you are the couple who bicker over the correct method of heating a bottle and whether ALDI nappies really are as good as Pampers. How do you even start to think of getting your sex life back after baby? 

Sex Hacks by Kinkly Book Review – Pleasure Panel Review

7 out of 10
By Mel MacFarlane: Always one to champion the sex positive, I have been a follower of the Kinkly website since I launched Voluptasse several years ago. For those who haven’t heard of them, Kinkly are one of the ‘go to’ websites for anything you need to know about sex. They also have the much coveted Sex Top Bloggers list, in which they showcase some of the world’s best loved sex bloggers and writers (yes I am on it, I have checked).

Sex Games to Spice Up Your Sex Life

One of the reasons that I am a huge advocate of sex games, is that games such as Fifty Days of Play take away the predictability of foreplay and add something a little different into the mix. For those who are still a little shy in the bedroom, sex games offer a really good solution in terms of spicing things up without having to be too forthcoming.

Jimmyjane Hello Touch Couples Vibrator Pleasure Panel Review

7 out of 10
By Mel MacFarlane, Voluptasse During use, the Jimmyjane Hello Touch Couples Vibrator emits a powerful vibration but this is whisper-quiet so I found it to be very discreet. With a small amount of water-based lubricant on each finger pad, the powerful vibration gets to work immediately and produces some great results. Because I was using my fingers, this enabled me to pleasure myself at my own pace, using the same strokes and techniques I’ve always enjoyed, but with a buzzy little twist. The results were intense!

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.