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by Hella Rude Regardless of your anatomy, a good rabbit vibrator is able to simultaneously tickle your clit and massage your G-spot thanks to the flexible nature of rabbit ear stimulators. With plenty of power on standby (but the option to turn it down a notch to give you a good build-up) and a good set of flexible ears, you should find that rabbit vibrators give you fantastic climaxes.
by Hella Rude As a Digital Marketing Manager, I spend a hella lotta time on the interwebs, mainly frequenting things like blogs and social media channels. In recent Twitter chatter, I asked my followers "If Slendertone really works, can I get Kim Kardashian's butt using my ElectraStim Flick Duo?"
by Hella Rude HelloFresh are a new food delivery service that haven't been on my radar, but I received a discount voucher for £25 in my June Birchbox UK and I figured it'd be worth trying out. Unlike my other blogs on food, HelloFresh isn't a budget option...
by Hella Rude People often wince when I mention I once worked as a Dominatrix. It's hard to guess if it's because they can picture me George Fording someone in the balls or if they think I was a rubber-clad prostitute. See, there's a really strange fog around what a dominatrix is and I'm hoping this article will go a way to explaining exactly what the job spec means.
By Hella Rude It has to be said, I was a late-comer to the May Birchbox UK. As many of you know, I don't tend to keep my beauty box subscriptions automatically set to reoccur. My brand loyalty isn't strong with these services and I swap and change dependent on offerings and experience.
by Hella Rude Vibrating massagers don't usually rank high on my must-try sex toy list but when it came to Tenga Iroha Yuki Vibrator, I've very much made an exception. The unusual 'snowman' shape and squishy releastic texture had me cooing during the development stage, when I was privvy to a sneaky pre-release pawing. Unfortunately I hadn't found time to review it until now and it has to be said, I wasn't disappointed.
by Hella Rude Teaching kids how to cook isn't a top priority for a lot of schools these days. If you haven't been taught these basic nutritional life skills and you hit hard times, you're going to struggle to take care of yourself until you learn. It's not always easy to learn to cook, especially if you don't know which ingredients you're likely to need to start with. That gets even more difficult if you have a tight budget for food and want to maximise your spend with the most meals possible.
By Hella Rude It has been a privilege to have known Emma Delves-Broughton since 2004. I had admired Emma's photography for some time and her Libidex Seasonal spread (shot on location in Bath) had adorned my 16-year-old self's bedroom walls. Such hero worship.
By Hella Rude In a deviation from usual activities, I've taken time to accept the 30 Minute Makeover Challenge. Yes, I have to get ready in 30 minutes or less for a night out. To give you some background, in my camp the 'Readying' is a fun and necessary ritual. The girls and I can take anywhere up to 4 hours to get ready for a night out because it's FUN.
By Hella Rude In case you missed the headlines, the Great British Government made the neato decision to ban a completely confusing list of sex acts in UK porn. I've been reading story upon story upon story regarding the subject and I feel like we might be (on the most part) missing the point here. If you hadn't guessed, this is VERY MUCH an opinion piece.
By Hella Rude Every woman with a penchant for sex toys should own at least one good bullet vibrator. They're small enough for precise clitoral stimulation, don't get in the way during partner play and thanks to continued innovations in tech, they're more powerful than ever. Gone are the days of endless packs of LR44 cell batteries, the bullet vibes of today are usually USB rechargeable and they're even waterproof. Sold!
By Hella Rude As my regular readers will know, I've been working with electro sex toy company ElectraStim for a couple of years. Part of my work with them is helping to design and test sex toys to expand the present range found on their websites.
By Hella Rude Heartbreak is a big topic this Autumn, so I wanted to dedicate a blog to those of you saying 'so long' to a lover. It's not easy to overcome the biochemistry and mental exhaustion that floods you when you break up with your significant other, but you can make it easier on yourself by following my top 8 rules to help you get over your ex husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/lover.
by Hella Rude To those aspiring to make a living out of their passion for writing, multi award-winning journalist Cara is a source of knowledge and inspiration. Now she's putting her money where her red lipstick lives and has created the first of a range of products under The Cara Sutra Collection Ltd brand. Welcome to the Fantasy by Cara Sutra Beginner's Bondage Kit.
By Hella Rude Over the past few months I've received quite a few emails from men and women who are either considering cheating, are concerned that their partner is cheating on them or have found out about an infidelity. The emails are similar in nature; expressing a lot of fear and upset, asking questions as to why partners cheat, if it's acceptable to cheat and if it's worth persevering with a relationship when one partner has been unfaithful.
By Hella Rude Being in love can be one of the most exhilarating and all-encompassing feelings we get to experience as individuals. It can also be soul destroying when things start to go wrong, leading us to face some pretty difficult life decisions. It's hard to know when a relationship has run its course, emotions run high and a feeling of hopelessness can exasperate things further.
By Hella Rude There are a lot of reasons men experiment with anal play and contrary to belief, it isn't the preserve of gay men. The first and foremost reason is that it just feels good. There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings inside your ass that respond very well indeed to a good stroke. Anal play can also escalate erotic response, bringing both men and women to orgasm quicker.
By Hella Rude ...fetish clubs and sex / swingers clubs are not the same thing. If you're thinking you're guaranteed an easy lay, a hardcore spanking or group sex for the price of your club ticket, snap out of it. There are plenty of places who offer these services but none of them are the fetish clubs you've heard so much about - they're generally BDSM-themed nights run by swinger's clubs. Don't get the two confused or you're likely to wind up disappointed or in trouble.