Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide & Sexy Santa Role Play Costumes

If my friends were asked to share what they know about me, the fact that I absolutely love Christmas would feature close to, if not at the very top, of the list. Christmas is full of sparkle and magic and feasting and twinkling lights in the darkness, with all the hopes and goals for the new year ahead waiting for us at the end of the holidays. It’s no surprise that the holiday festivities can get us into a romantic mood, too. That’s why lingerie consistently features in sexy Christmas gift guides & seasonal wish lists. What sort of sensual lingerie would make their eyes light up this year? I’m here to help – welcome to my sexy Christmas lingerie gift guide 2020! I’ll be sharing some of my favourite sexy Santa role play costumes too… they’re so fun and flirty, and a great way to sex up an adult Christmas Eve.

Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide & Sexy Santa Role Play Costumes

Related: My Sexy Christmas Gift Guide – The Best Romantic Christmas Gifts

Sexy Christmas Lingerie: Top Picks 2020

First, let’s look at my top sexy lingerie choices from some of my favourite adult stores.


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Treasure Me

The Lovehoney Treasure Me lingerie collection is incredibly opulent and classy, adding a truly luxurious element when it comes to finding that perfect, romantic lingerie gift this Christmas. These basques, chemises and push-up bra sets are available in one size or Queen size, and in hues of black, red or purple and black.

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Boudoir Belle 

The Lovehoney Boudoir Belle lingerie range takes inspiration from the showgirl style of the Moulin Rouge. These basques, bra sets and more – in one size and Queen size – feature a smouldering combination of satin, ribbon and fluttering eyelash lace. Fantastic for a lingerie gift with sensual pizzaz. These items are available in black with cherry red, or blush pink.

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Elegant and luxurious, the Lovehoney Moonlight lingerie collection offers sleek and sumptuous numbers in wine and black hues. Available in one size and Queen size, these basque sets, teddies, garter sets and more are styled with satin, sheer mesh and ornate lace, with ribbon detailing for festive gift appeal.

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Seduce Me 

Lovehoney’s best-selling lingerie collection! It’s easy to see why when you browse the dramatic, figure-enhancing options from this range. I have the push-up bra and chemise from the Seduce Me collection and I love them. These vintage pin-up style, dramatic and vampy lingerie pieces are available in one or Queen size, and in red or black. Get that va-va-voom silhouette with comfort and ease.

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Cherry Blossom 

The Cherry Blossom lingerie range at Lovehoney is delicate, pretty but also extremely comfortable lounge wear. If they want practicality and comfort but refuse to sacrifice sensuality and style, Cherry Blossom pieces are perfect. Pink petals with strokable lace add to the effortless grace and allure.

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Unwrap Me 

The Unwrap Me range Lovehoney comprises fun and flirty, gift style lingerie and underwear for him and her. There are red, black, purple and white options –and this collection includes the famous Naughty Knot! With your choice from this sexy and exciting collection, you can enjoy watching them unwrap their new lingerie gift at Christmas, before literally unwrapping them.

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Bondara Flirt

Bondara Flirt is an extensive range of traditional, pretty and sexy lingerie. There are chemises, bra sets and a whole lot more, in a range of colours and styles so you can choose the perfect lingerie gift for your partner (or yourself) this Christmas.

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Bondara Belle

Bondara Belle is a Queen-sized collection of traditionally pretty and sexy lingerie, which makes the most of every curve. Enhance your gorgeous silhouette this Christmas and well into the New Year with these show-stopping numbers.

Need some lingerie size and style advice? Hold out for the in-depth advice guide at the end of this feature.

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Ann Summers

Ann Summers are a long-standing, trusted high street adult product retailer in the UK who don’t only sell Rampant Rabbits –they now stock beautiful lingerie in a wide range of sizes and styles, too. Hit up the website to browse the cyber aisles which are overflowing with eye-poppingly sexy bra sets, teddies, chemises, basques and plenty more, in a vast selection of colours.

The majority of Ann Summers lingerie is happily sold by dress size and cup size, where relevant, so you can feel assured of comfort and a great fit as well as enhanced allure. Enjoy all our Ann Summers reviews.

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Sweet Seduction 

The striking deep blue and black pieces in the Ann Summers Sweet Seduction lingerie range are sure to induce a gasp of delight when your loved one reveals them beneath the gift wrap this Christmas. These opulent lingerie choices, with revealing cut outs, eyelash lace and bold lines are elegant and sensual for a night of seduction, while remaining comfortable enough to wear beneath clothing for a raunchy secret throughout the day.

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Fiercely Sexy

Fiercely Sexy is the ideal name for this dramatic lingerie collection by Ann Summers, with bold and stunning numbers in your choice of red, black or white. Plunge cups, scalloped edge lace and delicate metallic connecting rings will make any of these bodies, babydolls and bra sets a sensational romantic Christmas gift to the one you love.

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Sexy Santa Role Play Costumes

As an adult you soon come to realise that dressing-up isn’t just for kids. There are adult fancy dress accessories for pretty much every seasonal event, and they can be as innocently alluring or as brazenly erotic as you wish. I have a fairly sizeable ‘adult dressing-up’ collection now, and find it enormous fun. My absolute favourite seasonal event is of course Christmas, so combining sexy fancy dress with festive frolics is guaranteed to get my pulse racing.

Below I share my favourite ‘hot Mrs Santa’ outfits for your/their sexy Santa role play collection.


My Top 3:

Hooded Sexy Santa Dress With Belt – Loving the idea of a Mrs Santa dress to wear whenever you like through Christmas. This bright, comfortable and warm version has a cute, cosy hood and a figure-enhancing belt.

Dreamgirl Red Santa Cutie Bralette and Skirt Set – This set might not be your outfit of choice when cooking the Christmas turkey -but the combination of mini skirt, cute braces and bralette will definitely look and feel delicious in the bedroom.

Miss Santa Red Velvet Dress – This sumptuous velvet Mrs Santa dress is cooler than the first dress on my top 3 list. It features spaghetti style straps, a sweetheart neckline and a belt to comfortably cinch in your waist while effortlessly enhancing your silhouette.

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My Top 3:

Bondara Flirt Santa Baby Babydoll and Thong – This extremely cute ‘Santa Baby’ babydoll draws attention to your cleavage and bust area, while the sway of the semi-sheer skirt provides flattering coverage. A matching thong completes the set.

Bondara Flirt Naughty Noel Corset and G-String – I’m so happy to find a Santa themed corset! This Naughty Noel corset and G-string set would look brilliant paired with jeans while in company, and you’ll be ready to dazzle and seduce in the bedroom, too.

Bondara Flirt Sexy Mrs Claus Halter Cut Out Teddy – The revealing cut-outs of this Sexy Mrs Claus teddy make the most of your curves, while the stretchy mesh material is easy to fit, comfortable to wear and provides instant seasonal sex appeal.

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My Top 3:

Sexy Miss Santa Chemise – This festive, figure-hugging chemise is made with sheer lace and features down-feather trims along the chest and hem. Perfect for a sensual Christmas evening at home, complete this red-hot look with a pair of stockings which you can attach to the suspenders.

All Wrapped Up Dress – A dress-style ‘twist’ on the Naughty Knot, a silky satin bow is attached to sheer mesh and can be adjusted for the perfect fit. This outfit will send temperatures soaring.

Sexy Santa Dress – This gorgeous Santa themed dress has an off-the-shoulder Bardot neckline, detachable straps, elbow-length sleeves, waist-cinching belt and a flouncy skirt for that cute and flirty factor this Christmas.

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Gifting Sexy Lingerie They’ll Love: Top Tips

Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide & Sexy Santa Role Play Costumes

Time for some sexy lingerie gifting tips from a fellow sex blogger & writer here at the Cara Sutra sex blog:

I am unashamedly one of those women who loves to open expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.

…and then I wake up.

The reality is much different. Sweaty palmed, he’ll flick through the hangers in a mad panic. Pick one that looks ‘alright’ and hope that it fits. It never does, and usually it’s non-returnable. After that, I’ll probably sulk because it’s the wrong size and he’ll sulk because I won’t wear it.

Sound familiar?

Buying lingerie for a partner can be very tricky, especially if you are sure what they’d like. However, with a little planning and lots of thought, it doesn’t have to be a complicated affair.

So, first things first.

VERY IMPORTANT: Get the right size!

Nothing bursts a happy Christmas Day lingerie bubble faster than badly fitting lingerie. You simply can’t grab ‘anything’ from the shelf and hope that it fits. The reasons behind your gift is to make your partner feel good. Spending a little time researching the right size is very important.

Sneak a peek in their lingerie drawer for size and style ideas

Ok. I know I sound like a knicker-sniffing fetishist, but having a sneaky rifle through your partner’s lingerie drawer really will help you to understand the kind of fabrics she likes to wear. Are her panties lacy or does she prefer a heavier fabric? What about the colours she wears? Is her lingerie a different size to her everyday clothes?

If buying anything that has a bra top, examine the label to get the bra size. The bra size consists of a number and letters; this is usually found on the label. For example: 38D or 40B.

Makes some notes and take them shopping with you. Knowing what you partner likes will make shopping for Christmas lingerie a lot easier.

Related: How to Buy Sexy Lingerie Which Suits Your Body Shape

Pay attention to the lingerie that they already have 

Make note of the lingerie your partner currently wears to see what style of lingerie she likes.  Things that look good with my pear-shaped figure are those that create a cleavage and are slightly looser around the midriff. I never wear anything that highlights my post-baby belly or offers no bust support.

When shopping in a lingerie store, you may be asked questions by the sales staff. Because you’ve looked at the lingerie she is currently wearing, you’ll be able to describe her tastes and can ask the store staff for advice.

Ask about the returns policy 

Despite your best intentions, the lingerie may not be to her taste after all. People can gain or lose weight very quickly, and this affects the way that the garment looks. Sometimes our tastes can change, and we’d prefer something different. If you establish whether you can return the (unworn!) lingerie before you buy it, she can return it and buy something that she does like. Finding out how many days you have to return the item helps to plan a trip together to find the perfect outfit. However, be mindful that sales items are usually non-returnable.

Do not make ‘helpful’ suggestions with your purchase, it will not end well 

‘But darling, I thought buying a smaller size will help you in your quest to lose weight!’

‘I bought black because it’s more slimming’ 

‘Hmmm… you look like a marshmallow wrapped in cheese wire, it’ll look better after the New Year’s diet’ 

If in doubt, buy a gift card 

If you’re worried about getting the lingerie gift wrong, treat your partner to a gift card and go shopping for her gift together. By helping her choose, you’ll have some great ideas for Valentine’s Day in February.

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In Conclusion

Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide & Sexy Santa Role Play CostumesWhichever sumptuous seasonal lingerie, sexy Santa outfits and other erotic festive accessories you choose this year, I hope you all have enormous fun over the holidays. Wishing you all a very Merry (& exceedingly naughty) Christmas!

You may also be interested in:

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