Giles English – Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

Giles English

This week’s sex blogger in the spotlight has an incredibly interesting life – I’m not surprised he’s a sex blogger! Giles English is a male submissive in an established and committed relationship (Female Led Relationship) with his Dominatrix partner. Intrigued? I thought you would be! Find out more about Giles English in his revealing spotlight below – oh, and did I forget to mention he’s a FemDom inspired erotic author too?

Thanks for stepping into the spotlight this week Giles, lovely to feature your blog and works here at CaraSutra.


Giles English

Giles English Become Her Slave sex blog spotlight series

I’m a lifestyle submissive in an established Female Led Relationship. I blog about our surprisingly kinky adventures together, about the experience of being a submissive, and how to make Femdom sustainable for “normal” couples. Since I spend most of my time locked in a chastity device of some kind, I have written quite a few chastity device reviews.

I am also an erotic novelist and have written two Femdom self help guides. You can find my author page here.


What’s your blog name/online handle and how did you come up with the idea?

– Giles English, blog can be found at Become Her Slave

– “How do I get my wife to dominate me?”

Which country do you live in?


Giles English Getting her to be a vanilla DominatrixApproximately how long have you been sex blogging?

6 years.

Why did you start a sex blog or reviewing sex toys?

To promote my book called, “How to get her to be a Vanilla Dominatrix”, to help other male subs develop the Femdom in their relationship, and to explore my own thoughts and feelings.

What’s your favourite thing about blogging?

Being able to talk about very private things very explicitly and publicly.

Do you use social media? If so, where can we find you?

Twitter: @becomeherslave

Do your friends know you’re a sex blogger?

A couple of people.

Have you ever done anything specifically so you can blog about it afterwards?

Sort of. I’m wearing a male chastity device right now that I got so I could review it. However, I also wanted it.

Do you take part in any blog memes? If so, which ones?

Not really.

Share with us a funny or interesting experience that’s happened to you in the course of your blogging.

Somebody contacted me on reddit and said he was getting off over my descriptions of our Femdom adventures 🙂

Will you still be blogging in 5 years time?


If not already a professional blog: would you say you’re looking to earn a living from blogging eventually, or will it remain a hobby?

The blogging promotes my books, so yes I would like to earn a living from this.

Tell us about three other bloggers you admire, and why.

Miss Pearl & Ferns 9 write very personal and lively blogs about being dominant women.

Then there’s Tom Allen who writes mainly about male chastity, but does it in a straightforward way without the layer of fantasy some men add.

If you review sex toys, what are the top three toys you wish you could get your hands on next?

Well I’m wearing the top one right now!

Otherwise, I would love to get my wife to use an (1) Ambrosia Vibe. I’d also love a chance to review a (2) kneeling stockade and (3) some proper dungeon irons.

Who is your favourite adult shopping company, and why?

Tantus. They make good solid sex toys.

Do you prefer blogging fictional erotica, real life sex anecdotes or factual based content such as reviews and advice guides?

To date my blog is real life adventures (e.g. these sabbatical in slave land posts), advice and contemplation.

– Giles English 

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