Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

How a woman can enjoy pleasure during pegging

by Mel MacFarlane, Voluptasse

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For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength. During pegging, the focus often centers on the pleasure of the male recipient. However, in this article I’d like to focus on female pleasure too. A lot of females talk about achieving climax purely through the knowledge that they are pleasuring their partner, whilst others find orgasm during pegging a little more difficult. Is there a way that both male and female can reach mutual orgasm during pegging?

Yes, there is and I’m about to tell you exactly how it can be achieved.

Experimenting with gender reversal is HOT!

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Imagine climbing into a strap on harness, attaching your erect new appendage and rubbing it all over your lovers face. Would you ask your man for a blow job, or make him wait till you decide to penetrate him. Perhaps you’ll strut around in your sexy black stilettos and suspenders with your cock jutting between your thighs, or would you embrace gender reversal with a more masculine look.

However you choose to enjoy the experience, simply taking control and enjoying a change in role will really get the juices flowing.

Make the most out of pegging by ensuring that you have a decent harness

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One of the biggest mistakes made by those experimenting with pegging for the first time, is a poor choice of harness. When starting out, it’s always tempting to buy a cheaper harness and upgrade if you enjoy the experience. However, there is always a risk that a badly made, novelty harness will have a negative effect on the experience.

When looking at a harness for mutual pleasure during pegging, choose a harness that has a secure method of attachment like wide straps and buckles. These are adjustable so they allow you to fasten the harness firmly to your body. Also, always ensure that the harness is crafted from high quality material that doesn’t stretch or give like leather, neoprene or firm elastic.

With regards to dildo placement, a cheap harness doesn’t tend to hold the dildo in a place that pleasures the wearer too. The dildo rest should sit just above the pubic bone, and should be firm enough to stop the dildo moving around during use. For a great selection of harnesses, I love the Kinky Monkey harnesses. Each one is hand crafted from the finest leather and made to suit your requirements.

The position used during pegging can enhance female pleasure

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When thinking about pegging, the more obvious position we think about is the ‘bend over boyfriend’ position which is very similar to doggy style. Although it is very possible for the female to orgasm during pegging when adopting this position, there is another position that I would like to discuss, face to face penetration.

Face to face penetration during pegging involves the male lying on his back with his knees up and legs apart. Place a pillow under the hips to improve the angle and another under his head to help curve the spine slightly (as this can make the prostate easier to reach). This position also helps to relax the pelvic muscles for easier penetration.

With face to face penetration, both you and your partner have your hands free to pleasure each other in different ways. With a crotchless harness like the Aslan Leather Simple Strap On Harness from Uberkinky, you’ll enjoy easy access to the clitoris so you can masturbate yourself with your hands or a vibrator, or your partner can stimulate you at the same time.

Using Kegel balls can increase female pleasure during pegging

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Kegel Balls are a great way to increase female pleasure during pegging because they stimulate the G spot with every thrust of the strap on. With a small marble inside each ball, Kegel balls knock gently together when you move to give amazing internal stimulation.

Using a butt plug during pegging helps to increase female pleasure

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If you love anal play too, wearing a butt plug whilst pegging your partner is great for mutual stimulation. Just remember to choose a plug like the Traditional Butt Plug from Sh! which has a wide base for safety and has a thicker bulb so it can withstand vigorous movement without popping out.

Stimulating the clitoris during pegging will enhance female pleasure

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A two strap harness, like the Double Penetration Harness from Kinky Monkey has two straps that run from the pubic bone, underneath the bottom and attach to the waist band ensure that harness stays crotchless, and allows for female stimulation.

With your hands free to masturbate yourself with your fingers or a vibrating bullet, this is the perfect way to bring a woman to climax during harness play. For stimulation using the harness itself, the Aries Ram Lesbian Lover Strap On from Uberkinky has a thin strap which rubs against the clit as you thrust. With an extra plug which stimulates the G Spot during pegging, this is a great way to stimulate both partners during pegging.

Use a vibrator that you can wear during pegging to intensify female pleasure

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Have you ever heard of the Tantus Feeldoe strap on vibrating dildo? This innovative dildo is inserted into the vagina and vibrates during use to ensure that both partners receive incredible stimulation during pegging. Small ridges at the base of the dildo titillate the clitoris so the female is completely stimulated during play.

Increase female pleasure by feeling more relaxed during pegging

With no unwanted consequences like pregnancy or STD’s, pegging is a more relaxing way to enjoy intimacy with your partner.

 

– Mel MacFarlane


About the writer: Mel MacFarlane is an experienced adult industry copywriter, product reviewer and business consultant. You can find her at her own leading sexuality magazine, Voluptasse. You can also follow Mel’s work on Twitter and Facebook.

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