Hey Guys? Using Anal Sex Toys Won’t ‘Turn You Gay’

Do Anal Sex Toys Turn You Gay?

Do anal sex toys turn you gay?

Save My Blushes have published my article about using anal sex toys – which is great timing as it’s Movember this month and prostate health can be improved by butt-friendly pleasure tools (and prostate massage). It’s my answer to the legendary sex myth that somehow still gets worried about, a lot: does using anal sex toys turn you gay?

Obviously this question is being asked by male-identified people, who worry that inserting a butt plug, or enjoying something inserted into their rear, will mean that they’re suddenly gay.

Find out what I’ve got to say on the matter (which, as it turns out, is quite a bit) in my article Hey Guys? Using Anal Sex Toys Won’t ‘Turn You Gay’.

Do anal sex toys turn men gay?


Do anal sex toys really feel that good?
If you give anal sex toys a try you could very well be one of those anal stimulation lovers worldwide who love nothing more than the unique sensations that a static or vibrating butt plug provide. For example, I love using anal sex toys and so does my (male) partner – but I have to be in the right mood. Nothing against anal stim, I would have to be in the right mood to use a rabbit vibrator, or to have penis-in-vagina sex, or to take part in a kinky roleplay scene.

So the short answer is, yes, anal sex toys really do feel that good if you’re one of those people who responds to that stimulation and when you’re in the right mood for it.
As many people (including myself) can orgasm simply from internal anal stimulation, isn’t it worth at least trying it out to see if it’s something you enjoy? You could be missing out on a whole new world of erotic pleasure.

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I have also written on this subject here at CaraSutra: I’m a man who loves anal sex toys – does it turn you gay? You can also enjoy this article about how to buy your very first sex toy regardless of sexuality, gender or relationship status.


If you have any questions on this or any other sexuality subject, please comment below or email me here.





  1. I use toys on men in my dungeon during anal play which does stimulate them to have an erection , or pleasure but they admit they are not guy although some are bi Curios.

  2. A strangely difficult point to make. I dislike how these bro-like taboo means they’re missing out on so many benefits of prostate stimulation. I once mentioned in an unrealated online forum that it turns me on when a guy admits he liked anal play, and I got SO many private messages from guys asking how to get into it, how it works, best ways, etc. Just needs to be more open-minded sexual education on the prostate.

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