Bella LaVey: Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

Bella LaVey: Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

This week’s sex blogger in the spotlight is Bella LaVey who is absolutely beautiful, has an absolutely gorgeous sex blog and very well maintained Facebook and Twitter pages. Bella focuses on providing both sex positive advice and sex education as well as sharing her own fascinating journal. Find out much more about Bella in her spotlight feature below.

Would you like a free feature post of your own? They’re posted on Thursdays. If you’re a sex blogger or sex toy reviewer, check out my call for submissions here and email me here.

I also run a similar offer for erotic authors, with a post published every Monday. Check out the Erotic Author Spotlight Series here and the relevant call for subs here.

– Cara Sutra

Bella LaVey Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

Bella LaVey Biography

Bella LaVey Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

Bella is a sacred sexuality educator and a lifelong libertine. She is an unabashed sex blogger and is currently working on a memoir about her stint in the sex industry as a stripper and international dominatrix. Her adults-only blog features her sex advice column, Go Ask Sacred Slut. Bella has brought to life many of her alter-egos and enjoys helping others reinvent themselves by embodying colossal archetypes. She is a catalyst and conduit for sexual liberation. She lives in Austin, Texas with her husband, Ishmael and their two kitties. Connect with her on Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter and at

As a bonus, if you sign up to her newsletter & receive Bella’s free e-book, 27 Rejuvenation Tips For Abundant Health.

Bella LaVey Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

Bella LaVey Q&A

What’s your blog name/online handle and how did you come up with the idea?

My blog is, and I am Bella LaVey 🙂 I have been in the sex industry for over 18 years and decided to start a sex advice column and a blog on sacred sexuality as a platform to share my experiences with the world.

Which country do you live in?

I live in the United States. Texas to be exact.

Approximately how long have you been sex blogging?

I have been sex blogging for a little over a year now.

Why did you start a sex blog or reviewing sex toys?

I love sex. I am a sex educator, seeking to heal and liberate.

What’s your favourite thing about blogging?

It’s the best platform I know to share my ever-evolving understanding and perspectives on sexuality. It also helps refine my writing skills.

Do you use social media? If so, where can we find you?

Yes, my can find my author page on Facebook under Bella LaVey. I have multiple boards on Pinterest and update it every time I post something new. I am also very active on Twitter, and you can follow my tweets at @BellaLaVey.

Do your friends know you’re a sex blogger?

Oh, absolutely!

Have you ever done anything specifically so you can blog about it afterwards?

No, not yet, but that is a great idea. I can’t even keep up with blogging about all of the experiences I’ve already had right now. Haha.

Do you take part in any blog memes? If so, which ones?

No, but I make infographics over sexuality and release those on to Pinterest and Twitter.

Share with us a funny or interesting experience that’s happened to you in the course of your blogging.

My husband’s ex-lover contacted me and asked me if I’d like to go out for a drink. It taught me how to create boundaries. LOL.

Will you still be blogging in 5 years time?

If I’m still breathing…..and have hands.

Would you say you’re looking to earn a living from blogging eventually, or will it remain a hobby?

I will never say no to money. Anybody who does it without some hopes of return is just bonkers.

Tell us about three other bloggers you admire, and why.

Cara Sutra, for the high quality sex-toy reviews and knowledge.

The Pleasure Coach for his prolific wisdom and endless sex-positive content.

Scarlet Amor, because she is my girl. We both share west coast roots in Tantra and she is an inspiration to me.

Who is your favourite adult shopping company, and why? out of Seattle because it’s ran mostly by women and they have remained consistent in their high quality products for as long as I’ve been using them. I started shopping there when I was a professional dominatrix and I received the professional discount, which meant so much to me. I have been shopping there for over 20 years now.

Do you prefer blogging fictional erotica, real life sex anecdotes or factual based content such as reviews and advice guides?

I love all of the above. My blog is made up of a combination of all of those things, I am passionate about sexuality as a whole.

Bella LaVey Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

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