Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Just Indecerous

Just Indecerous is this week’s sex blogger in the spotlight, and you can find out all about this talented and genuine blogger and product reviewer in his feature below. I had the pleasure of meeting ‘Justin’ at the recent ETO Show, and I’m also very grateful for his thorough review of the Fantasy by Cara Sutra bondage kit – on video!

Would you like a free feature post of your own? They’re posted on Thursdays. If you’re a sex blogger or sex toy reviewer, check out my call for submissions here and email me here.

I also run a similar offer for erotic authors, with a post published every Monday. Check out the Erotic Author Spotlight Series here and the relevant call for subs here.

– Cara Sutra

Biography

Hi all, thanks for taking the time to check out this little blogger spotlight on me. My name is not actually Justin but due to dumb luck (see below) it is how I am known within the Sexblogging community. I’m a 30 year old guy that produces sex toy reviews, Vlogs and educational pieces at justindecerous.com generally in a BDSM context from a Dom’s point of view though not always.

Hopefully that makes sense to you? It does in my head at least. Anyway without further ado I present to you the results of this self imposed interrogation and I hope you enjoy!

What’s your blog name/online handle and how did you come up with the idea?

The blog name is Just Indecerous and the story behind that name is that as I game online a lot I’ve used a particular handle for years. Every now and again someone would have already taken it and as a secondary handle I would use “Indecerous” which is a misspelling of “Indecorous”.

When I was coming up with a name for the site I was writing a list of ideas using my regular gaming handle but nothing was working for me. The last thing I wrote was “Just Indecerous” and as I repeated it to myself a few times I noticed that saying it quickly sounded like a name, Justin Decerous and came up with the line “Justin Decerous is Just Indecerous” which made me chuckle.

Although I had no intention of using a  pseudonym when I started I found that I had accidentally created the perfect one so would be a waste not to use it.

Which country do you live in?

I live in an unusually warm United Kingdom.

Approximately how long have you been sex blogging?

The site launched on february 15th of this year so 5 months so far with this site which is actually my second foray into sex blogging. My first attempt was a couple of years ago but life got in the way and I couldn’t give it the time I wanted so closed it down.

Why did you start a sex blog or reviewing sex toys?

In November last year I started reviewing some of my purchases on a popular online store and found that I really enjoyed doing it and felt that what I was providing was a little more insightful than the 3 sentence comments that were on there.

Over time however I became somewhat disillusioned with it after looking at the effort I was putting in to a review and feeling that quantity was being favoured over quality. That and also because the site wasn’t mine I had house rules that I had to abide by which is fine but there was an attempt to enforce those rules outside of their house that I didn’t take kindly to and thus the site was born.

What’s your favourite thing about blogging?

Honestly it’s multifaceted. When it comes to reviews I enjoy providing my thoughts, opinions and feedback to both consumers and manufacturers alike. For educational pieces or personal pieces I like feeling that someone somewhere is learning something or even just able to feel as though they’re aren’t alone in what they think and feel.

Do you use social media? If so, where can we find you?

I can be found all over social media but I am most active on Twitter: @Justindecerous.

Do your friends know you’re a sex blogger?

If anyone asks what I do I have no issues telling them and how they receive that information is up to them. My mother’s response was “well you did say you wanted to be a sex therapist when you were 16 so I can’t say I’m surprised” lol

Have you ever done anything specifically so you can blog about it afterwards?

I am currently trying a supplement that is for increasing the hardness of an erection and “increasing libido” that had the site not existed I wouldn’t have given the email the time of day.

Do you take part in any blog memes? If so, which ones?

I’ve taken part in Kink of the week, Wicked Wednesday & Sinful Sunday though not very much of late.

Share with us a funny or interesting experience that’s happened to you in the course of your blogging.

Nothing funny or interesting as of yet, at least from my perspective. Though I would say that being offered Pick n Mix while talking about enormous Estim butt-plugs and urethral sounds at ETO was certainly surreal lol

Will you still be blogging in 5 years time?

Without a doubt.

If not already a professional blog: would you say you’re looking to earn a living from blogging eventually, or will it remain a hobby?

If I can make this a way of earning a living then I can’t think of a job that I would be happier doing.

If you review sex toys, what are the top three toys you wish you could get your hands on next?

Hmmm tough one. I’d have to say:

1. Doxy Skittle
2. Hot Octopuss Pulse II
3. Bed’s & More Bondage bed. (not really a toy…but look at it!)

Who is your favourite adult shopping company, and why?

I would have to say Uberkinky not only because I’ve met Mistress Victoria who is lovely but also because of the wealth of things that they stock, some of which makes me scratch my head in wonder.

Do you prefer blogging fictional erotica, real life sex anecdotes or factual based content such as reviews and advice guides?

I prefer doing factual content mainly alongside a healthy dose of real life stories and experiences, both good and bad. Every now and again I try my hand at fictional erotica which tends to come from the darker recesses of my mind.

– Just Indecerous