Your Essential Guide to Prepping for Your First Kinky Sex Session

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How to Plan Ahead and Enjoy Your Special Night

Kinky doesn’t have to mean scary! With the right preparation and the right communication, your kinky adventure will be off to a flying start.

If you haven’t tried anything kinky before, it can seem like a seriously scary step into the unknown. You may be worried about how you and your partner will react in this new environment, if you really want to introduce such a new element into your sex life, or just simply worried that you don’t know enough to do it right. Well, look no further than our essential guide to preparing both mentally and physically for your first ever kinky experience. Yes, it can seem a lot to take in – but we will be holding your hand all the way!

Talk the talk

The most important thing to do is communicate with your partner, especially if one of you is more experienced than the other. The kinky spectrum is a pretty large one, so while you may be thinking of a little light bondage, your partner could be thinking of stuff that is a lot more advanced. By talking to your partner, you can check that you are both on the same page. You should also use this time to establish any limits and boundaries, such as things that you really don’t want to do or are a little unsure of. You can always change your mind later, but it’s important to say before you start if there is anything that is a definite no-no. Safe words are important too! Agree on a word that either of you can use if things get a little too much, or a non-verbal cue such as three taps on the shoulder. After all, certain kinky activities don’t leave your mouth free.

Shop till you drop

Once you and your partner have hammered out an agreement on what will and won’t happen, it’s time to go shopping! There are a huge selection of toys out there, so it really does just depend on your preference. For your first ever bondage experience, we recommend starting at the slightly less advanced end of the scale. So that means blindfolds, handcuffs, restraints and if you are feeling up to it, a whip. These will make your kinky experience unforgettable for all the right reasons, as these toys are easy to get to grips with, meaning that all you have to do is enjoy yourself! Of course, as time goes on, you may feel as if you want to experiment with more advanced toys.

Set the scene and enjoy yourself!

Now that you’ve got your toys sorted, it’s time to set the scene! No, we don’t mean you have to go to extremes and kit out your very own Red Room of Pain, just tidy up! Nothing kills the mood more that some dirty socks on the bed, after all. A clean, tidy bedroom will lead to far fewer distractions – and you’ll be able to show off your new purchases to much better effect! Put on some of your favourite music in the background, and turn that pesky mobile phone off! The last thing you need is interruption after all. Once you are both settled and comfortable, it’s time for the games to begin. As long as you have followed our advice, you’ll have the best kinky first time ever. Who needs vanilla sex after all!

 

 

About the author: Alice is one of the alluring East London Escorts for London’s No.1 escort agency- 247 London Escorts. Alice loves to give advice on exploring the world of kink, and thinks everyone should give it a try!

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