How to Talk the Talk: Got What it Takes to be a Phone Sex Chat Goddess?

What You Need to be Great at Phone Sex

What You Need to be Great at Phone Sex

Being great at phone sex requires a very specific skill set. So do you have what it takes? Read on to find out…

It may be something that you want to explore with your partner, or you may even want to go into it as career! Yes, phone sex chat has never been bigger or better than it is right now. There are many ways to approach this kind of phone call, so what do you need to do to be good at it? It’s part the personality you were born with, and part brushing up on certain skills! Our guide to what it takes to be the queen of sex chat is all you will need to know if you are right for the job.

Confidence

Confidence is a must when it comes to being a phone sex goddess. Not only have you got to be confident in what you are saying, but you need to be confident in yourself. That means putting any hang ups or insecurities aside! If you are lacking confidence in yourself, your words will lack conviction – a definite no-no! So work on your self-confidence, and tell yourself just how great you are. As your confidence rises, you’ll surprise yourself with what comes out of your mouth!

Imagination

Imagination is another essential skill when it comes to phone sex chat. You’ll be needing to conjure up all kinds of imagery, and there isn’t time to keep rummaging around for the right word to use. It’s not necessarily something that can be learnt – people tend to be imaginative or they don’t. You can do some work to aid your brain though, don’t worry! Try reading some erotic novels to fuel your imagination and help you to create some seriously hot scenarios over the phone.

Comfortable talking about sex

It may seem obvious, but it has to be said. Phone sex is most certainly not for the prudish. You’ll need to be comfortable with talking about sex, thinking about sex and yes – having sex! If you are an erotic person by nature then you will certainly find it a lot easier to tap into that area of your brain when you answer the phone. Doing some research will certainly help you to be open minded when it comes to phone sex. Look at role play ideas, sex positions and even what words to use for what body part! Like we said, being prudish and skirting around the subject isn’t an option!

A sexy telephone voice

Having a hot telephone voice is essential for creating that all important sexual atmosphere. You’re not going to use the same voice for a naughty phone call as you would to ring the bank. Think low, slow and breathy. Enunciating certain words is a great idea, and don’t hold back on some other sound effects too. Moans, gasps and sighs are all very welcome additions to this kind of conversation! There’s no pressure to be really loud, but just let any noises you are naturally making happen. Whoever you are speaking to will certainly know how turned on you are.

Do you have what it takes?

As you can see, there are many aspects to being great at talking dirty over the phone. The attitude, the voice, the knowledge – it’s all important! As long as you feel comfortable and happy taking part in an erotic phone call, you will soon learn all the tips and tricks of the trade! If you’re ever unsure, just ask your partner if they mind being a guinea pig. We are sure that they definitely won’t mind!

 

Jenny Ainslie Turner is the Founder of the UK’s most prolific phone sex chat- Jenny’s Extreme Chat. Jenny and her girls specialise in Dominatrix Phone Sex as well as kinky Granny Phone Sex. Jenny has been working in the industry for over 12 years and using her experience she has had written and published ‘How to Talk Dirty’ and starred in a Channel 4 documentary ‘My Phone Sex Secrets.

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