Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toy Advice – A Sexual Revolution

Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toy Advice

Who would have thought that fan fiction could be responsible for such a change in attitude toward sex toys? The sex toy business is booming thanks to new-found popularity fueled by three books and a whole lot of media coverage. Women who haven’t read since school are devouring some pretty meaty books and are simultaneously acting to improve their sex lives.

It’s a revolution in sexual liberation that hasn’t been seen since the contraceptive pill landed on the scene. We’re experiencing our very own Summer of Love (twenty-twelve) with added spanking, butt plugs and jiggle balls. But now that minds are opening to sexual nirvana, where does it go from here?

I’ve seen some pretty big changes in a relatively small time. My blog has gone crazy – people are interested in learning more about sex, sexuality, sex toys and kink. I’ve been working even closer with the media to provide good sex advice, providing pieces for  Glamour.co.uk, So Feminine and Female First  on the subject of better sex and more specifically Fifty-Shades-of-Grey-style sex. Even The Daily Mail  have gone Fifty Shades mad, just search for it on their site – they possibly have more articles than any other online publication. When I saw they’d posted photos of me tied up in bondage and spanking myself with a riding crop alongside a picture of nipple clamps and sex toy stats, I almost fell off my office chair.

Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toy Advice

If even The Daily Mail is putting out the good word that kinky sex is A-OK, you know that a revolution is afoot.

The major positive in this change for the better is that people are now seeking information to make their sex lives better. They’re learning to know their bodies and their partner’s bodies better and how to have a fulfilling sex life. It’s fantastic.

Jiggle Balls

My post on Jiggle Balls has lead to some incredible traffic surges to my blog and subsequently Lovehoney have kept me very busy writing further advice on the subject:

What are Jiggle Balls / Kegel Balls
Five Tips to Help You Use Your Love Balls

I was utterly elated to spend more time writing about jiggle balls as I personally feel I’ve earned a lot from my Je Joue Ami with relatively little effort and relatively proportionate enjoyment. There’s a lot more than just those balls to talk about though.

Unfortunately as work has been so busy and my home life has been simply manic, there hasn’t been an opportunity to write as many posts as I’d like and I’m about to head off to Budapest. I’d therefore like to link back to some advice I and others have already written for Lovehoney to help your sexual revolution on its way.

Butt Plugs

They really do make vaginal sex more exciting, but you need to do things right. You need lube, you need to start off small and work your way up and you need an anal sex toy to assure safety.

First Time Anal Sex Toys and Butt Plugs for Beginners
Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex For The First Time

Bondage

There are a lot different choices when it comes to tying someone up. For basic information you should start with A Beginner’s Guide to Bondage and What Is It That Makes Bondage So Sexy?.

Spanking and Caning

Remember that you need to start off slowly and work your way up. The idea is to give your lover a rush of adrenaline and pain is most effective when twinned with pleasure.

Choosing the Best Tools For Spanking, Corporal Punishment & Pain Fetish.

Good luck with your sexual exploration. x

– Hella Rude


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My name’s Hella and I’m a Digital Marketing and eCommerce manager working with the adult industries. My background is in web design, social media management, PR, content creation and communications and it was using those skills that I founded the Hella Rude brand.

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