Review: Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar (Black)



Bijoux Indiscrets is a french sex toys and accessories brand which prioritises elegance and style alongside the manufacture of highly enjoyable sexual products. From first glance the Bijoux Indiscrets collection seduces you with glossy dark packaging with hints of luxurious gold, as well as classy script on the boxes which describes the contents.

As well as sex toys, Bijoux Indiscrets offer a selection of intimate cosmetics and bedroom extras to benefit your sex life. I was very interested in trying some of these out and was delighted to be approached by Bijoux Indiscrets to test and review a few items.

With professional, courteous communications and a fast, discreet delivery, I was impressed right from the start. Let’s take a look at what I received:

Bijoux Indiscrets Before, During & After Oral Sex Pleasure Mints

Bijoux Indiscrets Aphrodisia Body Mist Spray

Bijoux Indiscrets Aphrodisia Shimmering Scented Body Powder

Bijoux Indiscrets Poême Wild Strawberry Body Paint and Feather

Bijoux Indiscrets Massage Candle

Bijoux Indiscrets Mesh Collar

Bijoux Indiscrets Mesh Cuffs

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I received the metal mesh collar along with the mesh cuffs and a bunch of other items from Bijoux Indiscrets. The set is gorgeous whether worn separately or apart. You can tell I think they’re beautiful from the sheer amount of photos I took.

The main two things I love about this collar is obviously the look of it (look at it, it’s beautiful) and secondly that you can wear is as subtly kinky jewellery to give a flash of fetish tone to your look  even beneath your other clothes on a night out.

The chain collar has the black mesh, fairly wide area which fits around the neck, and three gold chain strands coming from the centre of the front. There’s a gold chain from the centre of the back as well.

The collar attachments did and still do confuse me somewhat, but I have come to the conclusion that you can simply attach or detach them and arrange them however you wish. It’s great to be able to use this collar with the matching cuffs of course, which are available separately.

I don’t use this collar as a serious practical bondage accessory or a durable wearable piece. It’s well made but simply not manufactured to be pulled and tugged around as a leather collar with chain usually is. This is an exquisite and delicate item which is made to adorn and be admired. It is a statement piece, the statement for me being ‘I’m a submissive object to be treasured and that’s a beautiful thing’. Obviously as an objet d’art everyone will see their own statement in this piece.

The Bijoux Indiscrets Black Mesh Collar is a gorgeous addition to my kinky jewellery collection and I will definitely be wearing it to kink up an outfit on a night out. I don’t wear this for bedroom bondage as I’m too afraid he’d break it in his enthusiasm. For total elegance and seduction though, you need look no further.

If you’re interested in the measurements, here’s what I measured the collar as:

Length: 10.75 inches without the fastening chain

For necks between 12 – 17 inches

Width: 1.5 inches

You can buy the Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar (Black) here for £19.99 and find the main information page here.

– Cara Sutra


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