New FemDom home for Mistress Cara Sutra

I have today launched the brand new web home of my Mistress side, Mistress Cara Sutra. This site, CaraSutra.co.uk will remain as the home of my more mainstream (yet still kinky, taking into account all...

Best Sex Blog Finalist in the Xcite Books Awards

Cara Sutra: Best Sex Blog Finalist in the Xcite Books Awards I've received the most exciting news - I'm a finalist for Best Sex Blog in the Xcite Books Awards 2012! Upon moving from blogspot to...

Fetish Friday: My new slave, the rubber gimp

I have recently acquired a rubber gimp. We haven't actually met in person yet, we are chatting on messenger and exchanging ideas. He is mostly confirming how much of a useless waste of space...

Fetish Friday: Owning a slave from a Mistress’ point of view

Of course I do love the kink aspects of D/s, in particular, long term male chastity, male humiliation, foot worship and suchlike. I definitely do NOT have sexual contact with any submissives or slaves.

What I Want From You: From Me To Him

I’m not sure how to word this – to explain to you what it is that I want from you, what I need. Things that uncover some needs deep inside me, that I’m not even sure why they exist, but I know they do. Reading other’s experiences and desires, lusts and satisfactions I feel kindred spirits at work – a meeting of ..well, not minds, but sexuality.

The first time I hit someone

I remember the first time I hit someone, and it was so fucking hot I wet myself with arousal. Perhaps I need to clarify. I remember the first time I hit someone that desired me to...

Fifty Shades of Grey bridges the gap between vanilla and kink

No matter your personal opinion of Fifty Shades of Grey, this trilogy has achieved what no other kink themed book has done before. It has been accepted into the mainstream. I believe it has helped the majority of 50 Shades lovers who had been living their sex life through vanilla fulfilment only, to draw closer to kink and help them experiment with power exchange, if not the full range of BDSM potential. As is their choice, of course.

A Satisfying Valentine’s Night

Years of memories of shared sex intimacy raced through my mind, countless kinky scenes tumbling through together, overwhelming me with instant lust. Panic blended seamlessly with trust and formed the liquid desire which escaped between my legs.  

A Domme’s Fantasy: Your Submission

By Cara Sutra: Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if you were completely submissive to me. My mind tends to stray towards a sexual kinky fantasy - a Domme's fantasy. They're not talked about much, right? Usually all eyes are on the submissive - the submissive male, in the majority of FemDom - but what does a Domme dream about?

Sleeping in bondage

I've had a penchant for sleeping in bondage ever since I was old enough to know what those needs are, that ache to be spanked and fucked and to masturbate in the dark of night. Those late teenage hormonal induced desires which made me aware of not only my sexual self, and the fact that I'm bisexual, but I'm also one kinky fuck who loves bondage.

Kink is a drug, and I’m chasing a higher high

By Cara Sutra: There have been so many suddenly shocked faces during my conversations over the past few years that I’m thinking perhaps I’m getting a bit immune to the typically taboo realm of kink and fetish. That moment when you realise everyone at the surrounding tables in a restaurant have fallen quiet as you’re openly discussing anal reaming...

Why I love Shibari and rope bondage

Rope has such a soft and subtle embrace, yet is deceptively unyielding when used by a person in the know. Rope bondage is a deep and enduring passion of mine.

Fantasy by Cara Sutra: behind the scenes of the new bondage range

...I have an interest both in sex toys - well, adult products - as well as fetish. With the recent surge in popularity in bondage (thanks Fifty Shades of Grey), it made complete sense to

He’ll just have to wait…

Fetish post Pregnant (7 weeks) - so roll on all the preggo perverts and lactation fetishists out there I guess! Already been asked for my 'naked pregnant pictures' ... Not letting the man fuck my pussy...

How do I find a Mistress or Domme? FemDom BDSM Advice

One of the main questions I come across as a BDSM Mistress is 'How do I find a Mistress or Domme?' but with messages like these, it should be obvious what not to say on your first (or any) message to a prospective Mistress or owner.

Add your entry for Fetish Friday!

A reminder that Fetish Friday is here once again! I want your links, to your entries for Fetish Friday, be they pictures, photographs, kinky writing, anecdotes, fantasies or more. Share the kink! Let's spread the good...

What I Get Out Of Locking A Man In A Chastity Cage

By Cara Sutra: What thrill could anyone get out of locking a man into a chastity cage? At a time when the spotlight is full blast on BDSM and kink it’s refreshing to see Uber Kinky coming to the fore and raising awareness about different types of alternative relationships. What I mean is, plenty of people are now aware of light bedroom bondage which has been mainly interpreted as female sub, male Dominant. Because all relationships consist of two people, hetero, cis, the whole gender binary he-she-bang. Well actually, no.

Want a dungeon with a difference? The Boiler Room opens September 2014

Offering a new take on the traditional dungeon or the arguably overdone 'Red Room of Pain', The Boiler Room promises to not only revolutionise your sex life but also your flavour of kink. Filled with BDSM accessories and more hardcore bondage sex toys than you’ll find in the mainstream, The Boiler Room is a play setting as well as part of the main shop. Instead of merely offering a location to purchase products though, it will also form a beautiful place and set the appropriate atmosphere for many workshops and demonstrations of a BDSM tone.

Fuck Me Hard And Give Me Your Rough Sex

I slide to my knees, between your legs. You tear your eyes away from what you are doing to look down at me. My eyes are pleading with you, burning with need. Please. Please let me. Please may I feel you. Please may I taste you. Please fuck me hard right now.

More from Daddy’s Whore

As my original Daddy's Whore Sinful Sunday was so popular, I wanted to share another couple from that set. I hope you like them. I was feeling quite nervous; I don't think I'm very good at posing even though he told me I was being a good girl.