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Journal update

It's been a busy few weeks. Months. Always is. Things happening, growing, changing, evolving. I'm 20 weeks today, 5 months pregnant already. The time has gone so quickly, I wonder if the latter half...

A problem with your partner? Tell them!

I hear so often of couples or people within other relationships complaining about their partner on Twitter or Facebook these days. The phrase may take the route of, 'he doesn't understand me any more' or 'she never listens' or something along those lines. I find it a real shame that these outbursts, so honest and fixing squarely on the root of the problem, or at least on the centre of the person's feelings about the problem, are directed to their social media, rather than to their partner.

The Sexy Blankety Blank Game

1. If my sex life were a film, it would be rated ... ok well it's a sex life? It can't be any less than 18. But the hardcore version. The type you can't...

Fetish Friday: Owning a slave from a Mistress’ point of view

Of course I do love the kink aspects of D/s, in particular, long term male chastity, male humiliation, foot worship and suchlike. I definitely do NOT have sexual contact with any submissives or slaves.

10 alternative uses for a cloned willy

Intimate hoopla game. For extra LOLZ, suggest using hula hoops. Fix to your bathroom wall to create a glory-ous feature that is sure to leave an impression on your guests. Eye catching paperweight in a busy...

Toy with me Tuesday: Made to measure

How does this sex toy measure up? Very well indeed, actually. For this week's Toy with me Tuesday I thought I would show my love of toy reviewing. A tape measure is essential at...
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Journal: Skating at the roller disco

I went to the roller disco last Friday (11 January 2013) with my partner and a few of our small people, and really enjoyed it. It's a weekly thing (allowing for illness & other...

Is Pubic Hair Sexy? Does It Matter What You Do With Your Pubes?

By Cara Sutra: Natural dark curls, silky blonde fur, neat tufts or barely there at all. Is pubic hair sexy? Does it matter what you do with your pubes? For women, pubes are the central topic of an ongoing fight between popular culture purported by glossy magazines such as Cosmopolitan and Glamour and our innate right to do whatever we want with our own bodies.

Object of Desire: Does Sex Equal Affection For Me?

I would normally blog coherently and intelligently at this juncture, however I seem to have lost all capability for coherent thought due to feeling like an object of desire, and wondering does sex equal affection for me?

60 Day Vibe Chastity: The Route Back To Manual Orgasm

By Cara Sutra: Why am I talking about a 60 day vibe chastity challenge? After reviewing the Palm Power Wand earlier today, an interesting point came up in convo on Twitter. A fellow blogger's personal route back to a manual orgasm only came after a set time away from vibrating sex toys. I must confess that I do find it difficult to orgasm without the help of vibrations against my clitoris these days, if not impossible.

Let’s Go To Bed

Yes, it's a song, but most importantly it is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday. Seeing as the questions have been asked, I'm going to tell you about my bed! 1. What size (King,...

Cara Sutra Sponsors Adult Sex Ed Month 2014

By Cara Sutra: June is Adult Sex Education Month and June 2014 promises to be more resourceful, education, fun and sexy than ever before. I am sponsoring Adult Sex Ed Month 2014 along with a host of other sex positive adult companies and communities, to share the best in sex education as far and wide as possible.

Blast from the Past

This week's TMI Tuesday asks questions that have been asked before, a round up of the best questions of 2010. I only recently started playing along with TMI Tuesday so this is my first time...

Sexy Lesbian Encounter: Cocktails And Kisses

I spent a wonderful day yesterday in the company of a beautiful, creative, artistic, wonderful woman who shall be named D. It was definitely a sexy lesbian encounter to remember.

Shadow of Sin

In the spirit of the June prompt for Sinful Sunday, Black and White, I have included both colour and black and white photography. As I was trying on some new lingerie for a review this week, my man and I were playing. I was teasing with my lace underwear, and I realised the light shining through made some very pretty patterns. I snapped this shot so I could share my saucy, sinful shadow!

The Erotic Home

1. When you bought your bed frame, did you evaluate it in terms of ropes, handcuffs, etc? Yes, how else are you meant to choose a bed? 2. Aside from beds, was sex ever a major...

Video Post: Introduction to Bedroom Toys – for women

Introduction to Bedroom Toys - for women A quick intro to sex toys - for girls! Most people have heard of vibrators and dildos but a lot are still scared to 'have a go'....

Kitten in the Shower

Warm water or ice cold? Alone or accompanied? Hands tied or free? Clamps, plugs, toys... or just flesh together under the water, splashing, soaping, playing, loving? What would you do with a kitten in the shower?

M is for Masturbation

1. How often do you masturbate? Oh probably about.... every other day at the moment. It is usually every day but I'm pregnant and so feeling a bit tender. 2. What are you doing to celebrate...

A Very, Very, Naughty Little Girl

Lestat: Claudia, you have been a very, very naughty little girl.