What Is It Like To Be Self-Employed?

by Hella Rude The term self-employed conjures a variety of images. The high-flying entrepreneur hungry for success. The artistic slacker who barely lifts a pencil more than twice a week. The man in a van doing odd jobs at a moments notice. The small business owner carving a niche on the high street. Being self-employed can mean literally anything but it this woman's experience, it is definitely challenging.

Get What You Want: How to Bed the One you Have Had Your Eye...

If you're going to seduce the man of your dreams, you need to turn on the charm. Yes, we mean some serious flirting. We're all familiar with the old tricks of playing with your hair and bending over his desk, but how about something a little more... upfront. If you're both milling about at a dull work party, try letting him know how interested you are with a very saucy one-liner. Try something like “I just can't wait to take this dress off, do you fancy giving me a hand?” If that doesn't get him from uninterested to putty in your hands, we don't know what will!

Sweet Torments The Best of Alex Jordaine: Free Excerpt & Book Overview

Sweet Torments The Best of Alex Jordaine: Free Excerpt & Book Overview By Alex Jordaine I have been writing for Xcite Books, the UK’s leading erotic book publisher, for the last five years and my fiction...

Yes, And… ! Making Space For Improvisation In Your Sex Life

By Cameryn Moore: You've probably seen improvisers on TV, creating whole hilarious scenes on the spot, based on suggestions from the audience. They don't look like they're making anything up, right? That's because they practice. Since good role-play and dirty talk are almost entirely improvisation, you too can practice, using principles from improvisation as guidelines. I suggest starting with: "yes, and."

Hella Walkington for ElectraStim at Sexhibition 2015

During the weekend, some amazing people were promoting electro sex toys, with none other than Linsey Dawn McKenzie stopping by for an ElectraStim demo. The fantastic Anna Quinn and Ruby Derriere were running rampant with an ElectraStim paddle and pinwheel while the breath-taking Goddess Sophia picked up an electro strap-on and spanking paddle for use in her dungeon, which she was trying out on TV Goth Natalie on some of the bondage furniture.

Tips for casual local hookups

Some of us enjoy long-term committed relationships, whilst others prefer the more casual approach to dating, opting instead to have one or more partners which we enjoy having a bit of fun with. The great thing is that society is becoming more accepting of alternative sexual practices, so there is no shame in deciding to enjoy the casual and fun aspect of dating if you don’t feel ready to commit to anything serious.

Sex And Disability: Disability Sympathetic Escorts Improve Love Lives And Confidence

By Suzanne Kent: Can disability sympathetic escorts improve love lives and confidence? Here's the low-down when it comes to escorts for disabled clients.

Dominant Women Who Love Sucking Cock

By Zak Jane Keir: Do Dominant women love sucking cock? Would a dominant woman ever suck her partner’s cock? It doesn’t seem to fit the best-known dynamics of femdom, after all: the male slave/sub of many fantasy and widely-acknowledged scenarios exists to serve his Mistress in mostly not-particularly erotic ways, such as housework, errand-running and being beaten for sins both real and invented on the spot.

Kim Kardashian Electro Ass Challenge

by Hella Rude As a Digital Marketing Manager, I spend a hella lotta time on the interwebs, mainly frequenting things like blogs and social media channels. In recent Twitter chatter, I asked my followers "If Slendertone really works, can I get Kim Kardashian's butt using my ElectraStim Flick Duo?"

How To Gift Lingerie She Loves For Christmas

By Mel MacFarlane: As a woman, I love opening expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.

Hitting The Female G-Spot

The person who said, "The way to a woman's heart is jewelry," obviously never ended up finding their partner's G-spot.
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I Heart Cara Sutra – Sex Toy Haul & ETO Show 2015

By Hella Rude Working in the adult retail sector is super-happy fun times and most people working in the industry have full-time contracts or their own company, so as a freelancer you feel somewhat disconnected from everyone. It's therefore unusual to form a bond with anyone who isn't your client. You know and like lots of folk, but there's never any real time to forge friendships.

Preaching To The Perverted: Sequel!

Great news for fans of the 1997 cult film Preaching to the Perverted: Writer/Director Stuart Urban has come with an idea of for a sequel - Tortured in the Orchard - and wants to explore it first in the form of a graphic novel which will help raise funds towards the making of the film.
Female anorgasmia - never had an orgasm sex tips advice and help

Sex Tips – I’ve never had an orgasm (anorgasmia)

There are a lot of different reasons a man or woman might suffer from anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Physiology, biochemistry, psychological issues and age are all attributed to anorgasmia and it's a condition more commonly found in women than in men. Treatment for men with anorgasmia is much further advanced than it is for women and is often associated with erectile dysfunction.

Pain And Pleasure: Feet, Footwear and Feminism

By Zak Jane Keir: Oh holy shit, my feet! Just have to start by saying that, because it’s the thought running most regularly through my head today. A kind friend passed on a pair of beautiful 40-hole black Doc Martens to me as they were, apparently surplus to her requirements. She said they had hardly been worn, and she was absolutely right. They had hardly been worn at all.

How to Sell On Ebay – Creating the Best Ebay Listing

by Hella Rude As one of the biggest selling platforms in the world that's open to any individual, Ebay is a fantastic testing platform for product ranges and is used by several leading High Street names to clear excess stock. If you're thinking about starting a business with your own products, you'll find Ebay's platform much more friendly than the nightmarish spreadsheet you need to complete for Amazon Marketplace - it's the best place to test small runs of new designs or clear out sample stock.

No Strings Sex – How to Have Shame-Free Sex in the 21st Century

By No String Attached: No strings sex is easy to find for anyone no matter their gender, sexuality or relationship status. But, how do you go about finding the right casual relationship?

How to do kegel exercises with Ben Wa Balls, Jiggle Balls and Silver Balls

By Hella Rude So you've heard all of the hype and now you've got your silver balls. What happens next? Don't feel alone if you've got your pleasure balls home and you're stumped, it's not always immediately obvious. Lots of brands don't send out any instructional leaflets with their products, making it difficult to know if you need to do anything at all. The good news is that getting the most out of your kegel exercisers, Ben Wa balls, jiggle balls and silver balls is actually really easy. You just need to know how to do kegel exercises with them.

Woman On Top

The cultural tsunami that is 50 Shades may be partly responsible for the idea that all BDSM is about women’s longing for the ultimate Billionaire Bastard to tie them up and do terrible things to them but that trope’s been a bit of a problem for a while. In my own younger days, and early explorations of the fetish scene, kink was all about ‘Miss Whiplash’ and clubs were called things like Maitresse, Madame Venus and Domina.

Mistress Severity by Alex Jordaine: Kinky Erotica For FemDom Lovers

By Alex Jordaine: Alex Jordaine is the UK’s leading Femdom author and his work has also been widely published in the USA. In this article Alex talks about his highly acclaimed ‘Mistress’ series of books and the latest thrilling addition to the series, Mistress Severity (find here at Amazon).