By Cameryn Moore Folks tell me all the time: “I don’t know how to talk dirty.” Not, “I’d like to learn to do it better,” but, “I don’t know how to do it at all.” Or they say it about their partner: “They’re just so quiet. How do I get them to talk a little?” So this month, I want to look at starting from scratch with dirty talk.
Do you ever look at the sexy selfies people have taken and posted on their blogs and wonder how you could do the same? You don’t need expensive equipment or even a second pair of hands in order to be able to take sexy or erotic photos of yourself.
The cultural tsunami that is 50 Shades may be partly responsible for the idea that all BDSM is about women’s longing for the ultimate Billionaire Bastard to tie them up and do terrible things to them but that trope’s been a bit of a problem for a while. In my own younger days, and early explorations of the fetish scene, kink was all about ‘Miss Whiplash’ and clubs were called things like Maitresse, Madame Venus and Domina.
By Karma Tantric: I have been a huge fan of erotic massage ever since I encountered my first body to body massage a few years ago. My willingness to try new things unknowingly opened a whole new playground of sexual pleasure into my life. It’s a combination of total sensory relaxation, coupled with the up-close skin to skin sensation that induces some of the most wildly intense orgasms I have ever managed to achieve.
Having a hot telephone voice is essential for creating that all important sexual atmosphere. You're not going to use the same voice for a naughty phone call as you would to ring the bank. Think low, slow and breathy. Enunciating certain words is a great idea, and don't hold back on some other sound effects too. Moans, gasps and sighs are all very welcome additions to this kind of conversation! There's no pressure to be really loud, but just let any noises you are naturally making happen. Whoever you are speaking to will certainly know how turned on you are.
By Go Deeper Press: In Dirty Little Numbers, readers can expect the most erotic Brazilian waxing they’ve ever seen, a seduction by a lesbian Lolita, and a sex worker with a surprise up her skirt, who expects to be paid with "150 red roses."
By Mel MacFarlane: As a woman, I love opening expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.
By Jon Pressick Work is hard. Kids are hard. Friends are hard. Families are hard. Money is hard. Commuting is hard. Hobbies are hard. Cooking is hard. Pets are hard. Cleaning is hard. Injuries and illness are hard. Relationships and sex are hard. Can’t it all be easier?
I was wondering if there is such a thing as vibrating clit clamps? I want to turn her into a quivering, gasping mess. I've used rabbits but they seem to lack something, but I know her clit doesn't get enough from them.
By Hella Rude: Taking a great sexy selfie: In case of any doubt, please let me say it for the record: models don't ever look quite like their photos, and for good reason. What works well in the context of a photo just doesn't work in real life.
Poppycat22 from the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel recently wrote an in-depth review of the Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator. In addition, Poppycat22 very kindly provided a comparison review between this Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator and the We Vibe Tango.
If you want your latex clothing to remain a shiny specimen of excellence for a more enjoyable experience in the bedroom then take heed of the few simple but essential rules that follow. Store your latex clothing in a cool, dark place away from direct sunlight; ultra-violet sunlight is known to break down latex Wash by hand with mild soapy water within eight hours of use. Your body sweat contains body oils that can deteriorate the latex
By Zak Jane Keir: Do Dominant women love sucking cock? Would a dominant woman ever suck her partner’s cock? It doesn’t seem to fit the best-known dynamics of femdom, after all: the male slave/sub of many fantasy and widely-acknowledged scenarios exists to serve his Mistress in mostly not-particularly erotic ways, such as housework, errand-running and being beaten for sins both real and invented on the spot.
By Jon Pressick The idea of sex addiction is a controversial subject that is still hotly debated. Simply put, some people believe sex addiction is a thing and others do not. It is a polarising discussion among academics and educators that leaves everyone—particularly those who may or may not be sex addicts—wondering if there is a pathology involved in their behaviours or not. As such, potential treatments are left up in the air as to whether they are effective or even necessary.
By Hella Rude I hadn't thought if it before till after a girl gave me head then asked me if I'd ever tasted my own cum. At first I thought it was weird or a bit gay, but now I'm curious as to how it will taste and the idea turns me on. Is this normal? Gay? Should more guys do this?
By Hella Rude This one's for the guys. The ones who have girlfriends who are reading Fifty Shades of Grey. The ones who are wondering what it's about and how to get in on it without reading it. As per usual, padré, the internet has done the hard work for you and you can now get the abridged 411 of Mr Christian Grey in the form of sex advice. Pretty cool, huh?
It's that time of year again when a host of celebrities (or non celebs, depending on your tastes) enter the Jungle and put a plethora of strange and unusual foodstuffs in their mouths. The celebrity line up has now been released and I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here returns to our screens on 19th November 2017.
Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.
The no frills sex using hands, lips, bodies and lovely nakedness is perfect for me. It’s exactly what my husband and I both enjoy and it works for us. It’s not that I haven’t tried to implement fetish items into the bedroom, I really have, but we just didn’t enjoy it. I’ve tried paddles, whips and even a ball gag but I don’t like being hit (ouch!) and he didn’t like hurting me either. We’ve sat and discussed at length the things that we enjoy in the bedroom and it’s the straightforward sex that we both enjoy every time.
By Hella Rude In case you missed the headlines, the Great British Government made the neato decision to ban a completely confusing list of sex acts in UK porn. I've been reading story upon story upon story regarding the subject and I feel like we might be (on the most part) missing the point here. If you hadn't guessed, this is VERY MUCH an opinion piece.