Well, now is the time to have a stiff something else - wink wink. Adult sex dating sites give horny Britons a safe place where they can explore their sexual fantasies, and if they want to, act them out in person with like minded men and women who are into the same things as they are.
Fear of being foolish is the death of fun in a relationship. If you can’t just go for it, in sex or in anything, then your sex life is on the fast track to a funeral, and the part of you that wants to play—everyone has this part—that is dead, too. Rather than, or in addition to, more structured sexual experimentation—a la “7 Sex Positions Every Woman Must Try”—I encourage you to try bringing plain ol’ nonsexual play back into your life.
By Zak Jane Keir Of course, it’s Easter, which is the Christian festival most associated with ‘fertility rituals’ and symbols that are not really that Christian at all – though there is still no agreement, let alone any proof, as to which specific ancient pagan feast inspired the annual celebration of eggs, bunnies, flowers and binging on chocolate. I wish you all joy and delight in the springtime, whether your bunnies are battery-powered or the sort that moan with joy when you wrap them up in rope, and if you want to mark the occasion by eating a Creme Egg off your favourite playmate’s naughty bits then go right ahead.
Help! I want a threesome with my girlfriend Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 3 years and I'm really happy with her but I want her to be more adventurous in bed....
By Naughty North: Although it's exciting, shopping for a vibe can be an overwhelming experience. 30 years ago there were wand massagers. In 2016 there are smartphone enabled, g-spot specific, battery powered vibrators that vibe with music. Sex shops are now a jungle of new products.
By Hella Rude ...fetish clubs and sex / swingers clubs are not the same thing. If you're thinking you're guaranteed an easy lay, a hardcore spanking or group sex for the price of your club ticket, snap out of it. There are plenty of places who offer these services but none of them are the fetish clubs you've heard so much about - they're generally BDSM-themed nights run by swinger's clubs. Don't get the two confused or you're likely to wind up disappointed or in trouble.
When it comes down to finding potential partners, there is now an increasing availability of people out there. Whether people are looking for life partners or just a bit of fun, the modern web now has many specialist websites where like-minded people can meet up to get what they want. What were once called unusual dating practices have emerged away from the underground scene and are now part of the mainstream scene.
by Hella Rude When we talk about safe sex, road traffic accidents don't usually come high up on the 'must-mention' list. One very foolish woman from Cirencester is out to change that with what has to be one of the most ridiculous sex-related stories in the news this year.
Some of us enjoy long-term committed relationships, whilst others prefer the more casual approach to dating, opting instead to have one or more partners which we enjoy having a bit of fun with. The great thing is that society is becoming more accepting of alternative sexual practices, so there is no shame in deciding to enjoy the casual and fun aspect of dating if you don’t feel ready to commit to anything serious.
By Alex Jordaine: Alex Jordaine is the UK’s leading Femdom author and his work has also been widely published in the USA. In this article Alex talks about his highly acclaimed ‘Mistress’ series of books and the latest thrilling addition to the series, Mistress Severity (find here at Amazon).
By Hella Rude There are a lot of reasons men experiment with anal play and contrary to belief, it isn't the preserve of gay men. The first and foremost reason is that it just feels good. There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings inside your ass that respond very well indeed to a good stroke. Anal play can also escalate erotic response, bringing both men and women to orgasm quicker.
Guest: 8 Satisfying Sex Ideas for Women in Their Forties: When you reach your forties, it can be easy to think that your sexual peak is behind you. In fact, quite the opposite is true! With increased levels of confidence and more comfort in your own skin than you ever experienced in your twenties or thirties, now is the time to shine in the bedroom. Sometimes, you just need a few tricks up your sleeve to get you there!
By Hella Rude Heartbreak is a big topic this Autumn, so I wanted to dedicate a blog to those of you saying 'so long' to a lover. It's not easy to overcome the biochemistry and mental exhaustion that floods you when you break up with your significant other, but you can make it easier on yourself by following my top 8 rules to help you get over your ex husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/lover.
By Mel MacFarlane: Between juggling feeds, changes, routines, weaning and play dates it’s hard to forget that you are in fact, a couple. As much as we love our children and they should absolutely be our priority, we also need to remember to work on our relationships too. After all, they also need to be nurtured.
We’ve all heard stories of how porn helped Blu Ray succeed over HD DVD. Those who are a little bit older may even remember stories of how porn helped VHS triumph over Betamax. But what if porn statistics could be used for more than just stories about antiquated video formats? What if these numbers could be used to predict the entertainment medium of the future?
When they find out I’m a phone sex operator, a lot of people tell me they struggle with dirty talk: “I never know what to say.” Here’s the thing: dirty conversations are a lot like regular conversations, in that if you don’t know what to say, ask a question. You can get lots of useful information about your partner and what they want, if you ask questions in the right way.
Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers: Alchemy XII by Tamsin Flowers - Wild About Harry! Over the past week or two, you might have found yourself becoming aware of a phenomena called Alchemy XII. There have been tweets about it. There have been Facebook posts about it.
by Hella Rude If you're single and you're open to the idea of meeting someone new, chances are that you've tried online dating. When I became single 3 years ago (yikes!) I really wanted to date men. I'd been a serial monogamist for 11.5 years and all of my relationships evolved from friendships. I was curious about the chase and the evolution of cyber dating and I didn't waste a whole lot of time getting stuck in.
By Zak Jane Keir: Do Dominant women love sucking cock? Would a dominant woman ever suck her partner’s cock? It doesn’t seem to fit the best-known dynamics of femdom, after all: the male slave/sub of many fantasy and widely-acknowledged scenarios exists to serve his Mistress in mostly not-particularly erotic ways, such as housework, errand-running and being beaten for sins both real and invented on the spot.
A sensual, erotic massage can be a wonderfully relaxing and enriching experience for both you and your partner, especially as a prelude to sexual activity. Many people, however, might not have a clue where to start in the world of massage, with a huge variety of products and advice available.