Sex sells. It always has it always will. There is just something about two people sharing an intimate moment that makes you want to stop and ogle. For most, this is as far as the interest stretches. However, there are plenty of people spending their hard earned cash to stop and ogle, though generally from behind a computer screen. At the beginning of the year, the porn industry was estimated to generate $97 billion globally and is set to steadily increase. Porn is only one chunk of the sex industry; we still have escorts, sex workers and all the erotic niches in between.
by Hella Rude People often wince when I mention I once worked as a Dominatrix. It's hard to guess if it's because they can picture me George Fording someone in the balls or if they think I was a rubber-clad prostitute. See, there's a really strange fog around what a dominatrix is and I'm hoping this article will go a way to explaining exactly what the job spec means.
Puppy Play For Mistress is a short FemDom story written for me by one of my submissives. He's so very much into chastity tease and orgasm denial, as well as being made to act like a puppy... wagging tail, begging, barking for dinner - you get the idea. I hope you enjoy this story as much I repeatedly do. Happy Fetish Friday.
By Hella Rude: Let's talk about the pleasurable walnut, the male G-spot - the prostate. Until recent years, prostate massage / prostate play was considered to be a purely homosexual or fetishistic act - a bit of bum fun came with a plethora of connotations that have been falling away as discussing sexuality becomes more en vogue.
By Hella Rude You can opt for the real jiggle ball experience as a man, you just have to be willing to experiment with a little anal play. Jiggle balls and Ben Wa balls are actually modelled on pelvic floor exercisers or PC muscle toners, articles designed to tone the pelvic floor region in women. A sexy side effect of these pleasure balls is G-spot massage and the potential for orgasm.
By Zak Jane Keir: Do Dominant women love sucking cock? Would a dominant woman ever suck her partner’s cock? It doesn’t seem to fit the best-known dynamics of femdom, after all: the male slave/sub of many fantasy and widely-acknowledged scenarios exists to serve his Mistress in mostly not-particularly erotic ways, such as housework, errand-running and being beaten for sins both real and invented on the spot.
By slave christina: This is my story of submitting to a Mistress. Sometimes you meet someone and there is an instant attraction. Other times you may take some time to find a level of happiness. Other times it is the situation you are both in that brings you together and sometimes it is the situation that keeps you together or forces you apart.
By Hella Rude There are a lot of reasons men experiment with anal play and contrary to belief, it isn't the preserve of gay men. The first and foremost reason is that it just feels good. There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings inside your ass that respond very well indeed to a good stroke. Anal play can also escalate erotic response, bringing both men and women to orgasm quicker.
A lot of people who only enjoy your run-of-the-mill sex don’t always understand the appeal behind bondage and sadomasochism. This is because they are used to seeing sex as a pleasure-giving activity; so they don’t always get why some people will want to be dominant or be dominated.
Thanks to numerous technological advancements (and a few good men willing to break the silence about just how horny guys really are), the male sex toy market is finally booming. No longer is there a stigma on guys to masturbate. These days, it’s not only expected but it’s actually celebrated and explored.
Sex toys used to be a bit frowned on, kept hidden under stuff in the bottom drawer or in a box under the bed. But now, people are much more open about their use and their benefits. They can help you enjoy a range of sensations and have fun. But if you are looking to buy your first sex toy, it can still be intimidating, even when you use a top quality website like Pleasure Delights.
By Hella Rude: Taking a great sexy selfie: In case of any doubt, please let me say it for the record: models don't ever look quite like their photos, and for good reason. What works well in the context of a photo just doesn't work in real life.
I was wondering if there is such a thing as vibrating clit clamps? I want to turn her into a quivering, gasping mess. I've used rabbits but they seem to lack something, but I know her clit doesn't get enough from them.
You can expect lots of people to make a scrunchy “eww” face once they discover that someone has a certain fetish - say for instance, spanking or licking feet. Those, however, pale in comparison to some of the really strange stuff that people Google to wank over. We scoured the internet for ten of the weirdest kinds of porn out there, and came up with this list.
Poppycat22 from the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel recently wrote an in-depth review of the Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator. In addition, Poppycat22 very kindly provided a comparison review between this Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator and the We Vibe Tango.
By Hella Rude The Men's Health article you retweeted talked about the benefits of masturbation. Apart from resorting to porn (quite boring and I would never dream of looking online in case something I wasn't expecting turned up), what other ideas are there to fire the imagination, switch the ignition button and getting those of us who are a bit older (well, 50) going? They need to be interesting, different and ethical (and fun!)