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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Kayla Lords

In 2012, I had a lover who told me that he didn't like having sex with me because I couldn't let go and enjoy the experience. He wasn't wrong, but I was devastated. I realized I hadn't orgasmed in years (if ever), and I decided to blog my escapades in masturbation and orgasms. I also wanted a place to write down all the sexual fantasies that played through my head like a movie, all day, every day. Over time, I discovered D/s and my submissive nature, and my blog changed direction.

Being Proud Of My Pussy (And Why Your Opinion Is Completely Irrelevant)

As a woman, I'm regularly dictated to about how I should look. The media tells me I shouldn't be bigger than a size 10, that I should have large breasts but somehow maintain a narrow waist, that my arse should be high and firm, small and round, and I should be the correct amount of tanned at all times.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Donna Gallagher

And before he could blink, there was Emily, his Emily, on her knees in front of him, one of her hands gently grasping his balls as the other stroked his rock-hard cock through the soaked fabric of his jeans. He feared he would come from just the touch of her hand, even with the jeans shielding him from the feel of her delicate skin wrapped around his cock. He needed them off now, wished he held some magical power so that one sweep of his hand could make the jeans and his boots disappear. Remove the barrier that stood between him and ramming his cock home in the sweet haven of her pussy. “Oh, Em, I don’t think I’ll last. I want you so much.”

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Modesty Ablaze

My blog name Modesty Ablaze came about from a one of my “Cougar Moments” with an extremely energetic young man at our local Swingers Club. After we emerged from the “viewing room” to a round of applause from quite a crowd of on-lookers, I blushingly giggled to my young lover “you’ve sent my modesty up in flames”. He replied “Modesty Ablaze”.

The Bite Size Guide to Sex Toys and Bedroom Essentials

Sex toys are not a replacement for a partner or pleasure, they are the seasoning on your sex life. A sprinkling of the right devices for you and your partner can spice up your sex life and masturbation immeasurably, leaving you fulfilled and confident in all walks of life.

Growing Acceptance of Sex Toys in India

By Aleena M Reyes: When people think of India they may think that a place where the Kamasutra originated must be a huge believer in free and open sex with any consenting adults, right? Not quite. Contrary to western belief, the ancient Hindu text was a life manual that detailed the way a person should live their life both inside and outside of the bedroom.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: The Big Gay Review

So the blog is called The Big Gay Review and I really wish there was a ‘hilarious’ anecdote to go with why I called the blog that – but the reality is, I thought it would be funny. I was thinking about things like ‘My Big Fat Greek Wedding’ and basically thought ‘Let’s just call it what it is – it’s a review blog written by a big gay!’. And that’s honest to the dildo gods the reason behind the name.

Sweet Torments The Best of Alex Jordaine: Free Excerpt & Book Overview

Sweet Torments The Best of Alex Jordaine: Free Excerpt & Book Overview By Alex Jordaine I have been writing for Xcite Books, the UK’s leading erotic book publisher, for the last five years and my fiction...

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Megan Morgan

This week's erotic author in the spotlight is Megan Morgan who writes erotic fiction with a focus on urban fantasy and the paranormal. Perfect for pre-Halloween reading, but equally hot all year round! Read on to...

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Faith Ashlin

We welcome Faith Ashlin into the erotic author spotlight this week and three arousing excerpts from her delectable erotic writings. Enjoy learning more about the lady behind the books and discovering her talents for turning...

Pushing Limits: A Natural Power Exchange Progression?

By Cara Sutra: In a D/s relationship, is there any room for pushing limits? Or should both partners just find out what makes them tick and keep right on doing those things without moving the goalposts?

Lick Your Lips: The Taste of Sex

By Jon Pressick There is something delightful about feeling someone’s tongue on your body. Whether it be a seductive lick of the neck, running along your lips in a deep kiss, trailing down your body or being buried in the delicious destination, our tongues play a major role in sexual excitement. While it may be easy to fall in love with what your lover does to you, think about what it is like to put your tongue to use lapping at your lover.

Hot FKK Treats For Men At Wellcum

By Wellcum FKK: Wellcum FKK – the ultimate SPA for men hides many mysteries aside beauty secrets. First and foremost, it would be a nice touch to answer a simple question – what on earth is a FKK club?

How to Take a Sexy Selfie for Your Partner – A Model’s Guide

By Hella Rude: Taking a great sexy selfie: In case of any doubt, please let me say it for the record: models don't ever look quite like their photos, and for good reason. What works well in the context of a photo just doesn't work in real life.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Nicole Delacroix

I could almost hear the screams from the Internet trolls on this one. I, myself, had serious problems with this question. Did I really want people to see the bizarre and twisted things I look up on a daily basis or did I want to live without Internet. I decided a little experiment was in order to help make my decision clear. Living without Internet seemed the easier of the two and in the South, especially where I happen to live, we have tremendous thunderstorms. I just needed a storm large enough to kill the power and I could gauge my reaction.

Mimi De Luxe Reveal Expert Recommended Sex Toys

Ever wondered which sex toys veteran sex toy testers would recommend? Sex shop Mimi De Luxe have revealed the latest expert recommended sex toys.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Dressed to Domme – The Shiny Layers of FemDom Fashion

Your heart is beating faster and faster. You feel hot but cold and clammy all at once and you're not really sure why. You can barely think to open your mouth to reply to whatever question he just asked; in any case you know whatever reply you give will be words falling over each other and stuttering their way out into the air, catching in your throat with inexplicable nerves.

Alternative uses for a blow up sex doll?

3 Sickie stand in at the office. If you are technical in the slightest I am sure you could fashion some kind of remotely controlled inflation/deflation device. 4 Travel by public transport and sick of people taking the seat right next to you when there's plenty of others? Never again want to be within intimate distance of the great unwashed? No problem. Take your inflatable friend with you and you have a constant public transport companion who reeks with the delicate, arousing and attractive scent of, erm, vinyl.

Phone Sex Lines – Relationship Help or Hindrance?

It's not all hearts and roses. For adults in a committed relationship, there can be times when keeping a relationship alive and happy is a real struggle. Couples can find themselves battling against one or more of the most popular issues to beset relationships with challenging times.