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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

Kitten play fetish or Catwoman?

I have been musing recently on how some women are like cats, and some like kittens. The kitten play fetish is quite popular with those identifying as women, and puppy play more usually seen in those identifying as men or boys. There's a whole world of furry fetish fun out there in BDSM!

Fifty Shades of Grey Movie Review by Cara Sutra

By Cara Sutra: I don’t care what you think about Fifty Shades of Grey. By the time the Fifty Shades of Grey Movie was released in UK cinemas I was bouncing with excitement about going to see it. Not because I’m the world’s biggest 50 Shades fan. Not because I find Christian Grey knicker-gushingly hot. Because I wanted to be able to make up my own damn mind without being torn one way or the other by other people’s opinions.

The sex toys conundrum: what to do when your clitoris stops working

Eventually it's difficult to orgasm even with the "Jack-Hammer Clit Vibe 1000" that used to be a dead cert for a mindblowing orgasm in under 10 seconds. Now you have to book half a day to reach that destination and as for manual masturbation... forget about it.

London, Where Hiring An Escort Is Cheaper Than A Tinder Date!

Agreeing that someone's sexy is one thing, but what about your and their real intentions? Things can quickly turn from hot to not if one of you wants no-strings sex while the other harbours long term relationship dreams.
Sex As A Single Parent by Sallyanne Rogers

Sexuality and Parenthood: Sex As A Single Parent

Parenthood of any variety complicates your sex life, first of all. If you’re on your own with children, it might seem all but impossible to find time to date, shag or even schedule a few minutes for a quick wank, particularly if your kids are still very small. But if you’ve got to the point where you really do feel the need for a bit of adult action, it’s not impossible to find it.

Sex Toy Testing, New Lingerie & Sexy Books To Read

Well... what is a girl to do with herself! If you speak with me regularly, through Twitter and Facebook updates, you will know I have been very busy recently. with writing, sex toy testing and much more.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Zak Jane Keir

he stepped back, and wielded the paddle again, delivering a couple of hard, stinging swipes to his throbbing bumcheeks, and that was the point when he raised his head momentarily and opened his eyes, and saw Rosa. She’d just slipped in through the door between the two bars, and she looked at him, and she saw him, bent over, being thrashed and clearly loving it,

The Best Halloween Games For Adults To Play

For all those planning a Halloween party for their adult friends, I thought I’d ‘treat’ you to some of my favourite Halloween party games. These games are perfect for those who are a little older, but can be adapted for younger children to play too. Enjoy!

Pride Brighton 2016

By Cara Sutra: Pride has become an increasingly significant and strongly emotive movement for me. Not only are both my partner and I bisexual, we fall into the area of LGBTQ which is still incredibly misunderstood and which is surrounded by all sorts of ridiculous myths. I visited my first Pride last year and was delighted to be able to visit again this year - not just with my partner (and minnie also came along and drove us) but also with the elder of my two sons, who is 11.

Keyholding Services: When DIY Chastity Gets Too Hard

By Cara Sutra: I've written various articles on the subject. What I get out of locking a guy up in a chastity cage. Female chastity. Slaves have written their experiences, and there are several chastity device reviews. This year, I'm focusing on Keyholding services.

Adult Sex Ed Month 2015: Coming Soon

By Cara Sutra: The incredibly popular collaborative effort of Adult Sex Ed Month is organised by leading sex blogger and educator Bobbie Morgan, of A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind.

10 Reasons To Become A Sex Toy Tester

By Mel MacFarlane: I began a brand new business venture and declared that I couldn’t write about sex toys forever. However, when push came to shove, I found that I couldn’t walk away from sex toy reviewing because it’s a part of my life that I absolutely love.

Are There Any Cheap Sex Toys For Couples To Use Together?

We've been looking for some sex toys my man and I can use together for some time now. The We-Vibe family and the LELO Tiani styles are all very well but a little expensive for us right now. Aren't there any cheap sex toys for couples to use together or are we destined for side by side masturbation if we want to use toys?

What is Prostate Stimulation? Is Prostate Play Gay?

By Hella Rude There are a lot of reasons men experiment with anal play and contrary to belief, it isn't the preserve of gay men. The first and foremost reason is that it just feels good. There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings inside your ass that respond very well indeed to a good stroke. Anal play can also escalate erotic response, bringing both men and women to orgasm quicker.

Safe Sex: Breaking Barriers And Challenging Perceptions

By Cara Sutra: Today I want to talk about safe sex. Challenge how we translate the term ‘safe sex’. I know that I have a tendency to link safe sex and condoms together inextricably, probably due to sex writing work. This often takes the form of condoms reviews, safe sex articles and other sex education articles here at the blog.

Sexhibition UK promises steamy & sexy adult expo in Manchester this August

Bringing together erotica, fetish, catwalk shows, and five star gourmet dining with a seductive burlesque twist, Sexhibition will be a daring and sexy day out for those wanting to take a walk on the wild side.. We've also got a sneak peak at the Sexhibition cinema trailer, which is being screened before the showing of Fifty Shades Of Grey this coming weekend. Event organiser, Cheryl Smith explains, "The event of the Fifty Shades phenomenon is doing great things for British attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Whatever your opinion of the FSOG books and film, it's got us all - especially women - talking about our fantasies and that's got to be a good thing!"

Screw Taboo – Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

This week's blogger feature shines the spotlight on Screw Taboo, and you can find their sex blog here. It's absolutely bursting with fascinating articles, personal insights and product reviews, all written in a refreshingly confident and courageously honest voice. Screw Taboo is also one of the fantastic Pleasure Panel reviewers.

Sexhibition 2015 – The Cara Sutra Report

Sexhibition 2015 was a memorable experience, for various reasons. The erotic event of the year took place at Event City Manchester, which is right by the Trafford Centre, and promised to bring together adult industry exhibitors, porn stars and other adult entertainers in one glamorous, spectacular event.

10 Great Tips To Get Older Women To Respond To Your Online Dating Messages

Learning how to write messages to older women takes time. We can’t all expect to land on the perfect formula straight away -- nor should we assume there is one. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to making a great first impression. And every guy needs to tailor what he says to his own personal style.

Win The Bondara Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator: Christmas Giveaway – ENDED

There's another amazing bundle of sex toys, lube and sexy goodies to win in this week's Stepping into Christmas competition! The star prize is the brand new and luxurious Bondara Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator as well as a 250ml bottle of Bondara Body Lube.