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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

Single Life, Sexuality & Dating: An Introduction

By Cheryl Kaye Just a few years ago I was certain about so many things. I was positive I was ‘straight’, I could acknowledge that I found some girls more attractive than others but I figured that was just what everyone thought. Occasionally, I would think about what it would be like to kiss a girl, to taste her, to run my hands over her body, and to have her do the same to me. But I knew I loved cock, I wasn’t gay.

Damien Dsoul – Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Gail lost her breath in a frantic whoosh each time Ali pounded her pussy deep. His cock was thick and never failed to drive her feverish with ecstatic madness whenever he plummet her with it. He took her leg down from his shoulder and became upright against her. Gail was busy massaging her pussy folds while his cock continued fucking her. Ali groaned from the workout; he ran his hand across his brow and it came away with sweat. Gail squeezed her face and groaned through her teeth as she felt him taking her toward the precipice of climax.

Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Having A Baby

By Mel MacFarlane: Between juggling feeds, changes, routines, weaning and play dates it’s hard to forget that you are in fact, a couple. As much as we love our children and they should absolutely be our priority, we also need to remember to work on our relationships too. After all, they also need to be nurtured.

Loving Bondage Doesn’t Make Me Any Less Of A Dominant Woman

By Cara Sutra: I’m quite proud, actually; proud that I’m not allowing myself to be restricted by a label. I love the irony in that statement. Loving bondage really doesn't make me any less of a dominant woman. Dommes can love being tied up too.

Dental Dams Beginner’s Guide | Oral Sex Tips

By Cara Sutra: What are dental dams and how do you use them? That's exactly why I wanted to write this dental dams beginner's guide. Dental dams are an adult and sex product that is quite often misunderstood. They are also under represented and not often talked about, even in sex blogging and sexual advice circles.

Trigger warnings on books will censor emotional responses in the great reading experience

A recent article in The Guardian reported that trigger warnings have been requested on works of literature, by students in the US. Not children; young adults or adults who are of an age to study classical works of literature that have adult interest and themes. The books in question include such greats as The Great Gatsby (for misogyny and violence), Huck Finn (for racism), Things Fall Apart (for colonialism and religious persecution), Mrs. Dalloway (for suicide), Shakespeare (for pretty much everything). Now, Gove has reputedly axed To Kill a Mockingbird and Of Mice and Men from the UK's English Literature GCSE syllabus. Personally, I studied Macbeth, Richard the Third and A Streetcar Named Desire for my English Literature A-Level. Pretty much all of the violence. It has been commented that such classic books have topics which may upset or provoke an uncomfortable response.

The Best Sex Toys To Use For Amazing Lesbian Sex

By Cara Sutra: If you think that all sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina, you are wrong on so many levels. And I'm talking about everyone there, but for the purposes of this article: especially women who love women, whether bisexual or lesbian. There are plenty of creative ways to tantalise and stimulate without resorting to the heteronormative, phallo-centric ideals society often loves to *ahem* thrust upon us. Yes, you can have amazing lesbian sex.

I need your cock

I need your cock so very much. I want to be made to strip bare, and crawl naked to you on dirty knees, scraped bruised legs from the abuse you’ve doled out to me, bottom red from the spankings. I want mascara streaked down my dirty face, the face I am going to beg you to fuck hard with your cock.
WIN Kinkcraft fetish gear christmas giveaway 2015

Win Kink Craft Fetish Gear For Christmas In This Super Sexy Giveaway – ENDED

How would you like to win some much lusted-after paracord Kinkcraft fetish gear in time for Christmas? Well you're in luck. The kinky, crafty people over at Kinkcraft are offering not just one, but two delicious prizes for some lucky winners in this new Cara Sutra giveaway. So just what gorgeous goodies from the Kinkcraft fetish gear range can you hope to win?

Win The Bondara Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator: Christmas Giveaway – ENDED

There's another amazing bundle of sex toys, lube and sexy goodies to win in this week's Stepping into Christmas competition! The star prize is the brand new and luxurious Bondara Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator as well as a 250ml bottle of Bondara Body Lube.

Communicating Emotion And Needing Affection

Feeling in extra need of cuddles at the moment. I don't know whether it's down to the wintry weather, or working full time finally sinking in, or other issues but I have found myself needing more affection than usual in order to keep from being a complete emotional wreck. Mostly it works, anyway.

Kayla Lords: Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Kayla Lords: Kayla Lords is a hugely talented and extremely kinky erotic author as well as a popular sex blogger. We look at her sex blog in more detail in her Sex Blogger Spotlight feature here. Read on to find out more about Kayla Lords Erotic Author, as well as a treat in the form of a free excerpt from one of her popular, sexy books.

Total Power Exchange (TPE) & Useful Slaves

By Cara Sutra: I have a weakness for submissives who are firmly in the slave category of BDSM. I love total power exchange. I'm not the kind who gets off simply on Femdom sessions with a guy acting sub, tending to his fantasies for an hour then getting back to ‘normal’ roles. Much preferred is the day-to-day reality of being a Dominant woman to a 100%-of-the-time submissive man.

Happy Birthday Daddy

My Daddy is very big and so very strong. He has big hands to hold me tight and strong warm arms to wrap around me tightly and make any bad things go away. Daddy always has zillions Happy Birthday Daddy From Your Dirty Little Girlof cuddles and huggles for his little girl.

Of The Santa Persuasion – Christmas Erotica

By Cara Sutra: He may have been an old man – to her, at least – but his cock was as rigid and thick and ready as any young stud. Her endeavours crawling across the floor towards him, over the generous amount of floor, hadn’t been in vain, judging from the warm pulsing through the stiff member she soon held in her hand.
10 ways to make couples foreplay truly sensational for both of you

10 Ways To Make Couples Foreplay Truly Sensational For Both Of You

Where is your sex life at? Is it still as breathtaking and magical as in the honeymoon period, or just a quick roll under the duvet after lights out if you're lucky?

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Heather Osborne

He began to hum to himself, surprised when the trees echoed back to him, “Who goes there?” Laughter! He was sure he heard it! Reining the horse to move faster, the trees began to blur. The laughter grew louder until suddenly, before him on the path, there was a woman dressed in a translucent, shimmering gown. He pulled his horse to a halt, nearly missing her and tumbling head first over the horse’s head into the underbrush. The horse shied away from the woman, but she reached out and stroked its nose, whispering softly into its ear. The horse turned and ran back down the path.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Lucy Felthouse

This week, the erotic author spotlight falls on to the wonderful Lucy Felthouse. Having known Lucy both online and having met in real life, I count her as a great friend in the adult...

Learning the ropes – introducing bondage to the bedroom

Bondage in a sexual setting is the act of restraining a person or being restrained for psychological or sexual pleasure. The most recognisable and mainstream item used in a bedroom scenario is the infamous furry handcuffs, now a somewhat derided object in the mainstream, used as a joke on hen and stag weekends to represent kinky and immoral attitudes to sex.

Don’t Call Me Feisty! Why I Hate Being Described As Feisty

I most often hear 'feisty' used in an insulting way by men about women. To describe a woman whose ability to voice their opinions, and strength and openness in various areas of their life, makes the man somehow feel threatened and insecure. In this event it often leads to the use of this term in derision, scorn and complete condescension. A way of trying to to 'take her down a peg or two'.