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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

Where To Find The Best Erotic Books & Sexy Stories | World Book Day...

Today is World Book Day (3 March 2016) so what better day to turn your attention to sexy reading matter which will keep both your mind and body stimulated? Erotica is an incredibly popular genre – and no, it's not all down to Fifty Shades Of Grey, although that bestselling trilogy certainly brought sexy books and not just a little kink to the forefront of people's minds.

8 Top Tips for Spectacular Male Masturbation

There is nothing, repeat, nothing wrong with masturbation. It doesn't make your palms hairy, you won't go blind and your penis won't fall off. Regular masturbation is a healthy part of an adult male's sex life and there is nothing shameful about it whatsoever.

Giles English – Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

This week's sex blogger in the spotlight has an incredibly interesting life - I'm not surprised he's a sex blogger! Giles English is a male submissive in an established and committed relationship (Female Led Relationship) with his Dominatrix partner. Intrigued?

Sexy Single Valentine’s Day Ideas

By Cara Sutra: If you don't have a partner, the 'hearts and chocolate brigade' can really grate on you every February. Get loved up! It's Valentine's Day! Are there any sexy single Valentine's Day ideas to help you enjoy a spectacular solo day?

How To Make Money Testing Sex Toys  

How Can You Make Money Testing Sex Toys? Could Sex Toy Reviews Ever Pay Your Bills? There are a few avenues you can explore if you'd like to make money testing sex toys. Sounds like a dream...

2017 Is The Year I Say No (A Surprisingly Positive Post)

By Cara Sutra: No is a negative word by definition. That’s not to say no can’t ever be positive, however*. Saying no to some things can mean saying yes to others, meaning more control over your life, a more manageable schedule and less stress. That’s my main goal this year, my new year’s resolution if you like. 2017 is the year I say NO.

Hella Walkington for ElectraStim at Sexhibition 2015

During the weekend, some amazing people were promoting electro sex toys, with none other than Linsey Dawn McKenzie stopping by for an ElectraStim demo. The fantastic Anna Quinn and Ruby Derriere were running rampant with an ElectraStim paddle and pinwheel while the breath-taking Goddess Sophia picked up an electro strap-on and spanking paddle for use in her dungeon, which she was trying out on TV Goth Natalie on some of the bondage furniture.

My Single Sex Life: Jealousy

By Cheryl Kaye: “Jealousy can lead you to the very places where you most need healing. It can be your guide into your own dark side and show you the way to total self-realisation.” Deborah Anapol, Love without Limits.

Frolicka: Your One Stop Sexuality Magazine & Sex Toys Shop

Shopping for sex toys on the high street isn’t as easy for everybody. What if you’re out shopping with your kids, or dad, or mother-in-law? What if that sex shop is right by where you work? What if you don’t want to head home, past the curtain-twitching neighbours, with a sex shop branded bag overflowing with anal beads, vibrating butt plugs and rabbit vibrators? Here’s the good news: you don’t have to.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Mistress Selena Savage

I did some Toy with me Tuesday posts a while back under another name, I'm currently doing 30 Days of Kink, TMI Tuesday and Fetish Friday.

Katie Laid Bare: Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

The purpose of Katie Laid Bare to give my readers and followers, an insight into my world and the things that are important to me. I intend to be open and frank about the topics I choose to write about. Some of my views may be controversial, some funny, and some, I hope, thought provoking. Ultimately, it's really just a random collection of musings on the subjects of sex, life, the universe and everything; but mostly sex.

Is Virtual Reality Porn Worth Watching?

Is Virtual Reality Porn Worth Watching? Recent times have seen the way we watch porn improve dramatically. It wasn't so long ago that VR came into homes via the Oculus Rift and changed the way...

Dolcett Girls And The Vorarephilia / Vore Fetish

By Cara Sutra: Now here's an entirely new spin on the phrase “eating out”! Perhaps you’ve heard of vore but you’re not sure what it is. Vorarephelia is a fetish, and those who find themselves aroused by the idea of eating, or being eaten by, a person. Not in the literal eating of people, which is cannibalism. Dolcett Girls falls under the vore fetish category.

Vanessa de Largie of The Victress – Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

This week's featured sex blogger is Vanessa de Largie - thanks for stepping into the spotlight, Vanessa! As well as writing an intriguing and revealing sex blog, Vanessa is a sex writer for some big name publications.

Kinkly Reveals the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes 2014! Congratulations to the Best Sex...

It's finally here: Kinkly have announced the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2014! I am honoured to have reached the Top Ten and I'm currently dancing around the lounge in a dangerously long cape and wearing sparkly knickers over my Lycra catsuit. A huge congratulations to all the hardworking sex bloggers (because it IS hard work, believe it or not) who made the Top 100 - you're all contributing to a global phenomenon of sex positivity, education and an inspiration to others to learn and try something new relating to sexuality and sensuality every single day. Want to see the full list? Here's Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes 2014 - the very best sex bloggers in the world:

How Do I Know if My Relationship is Over?

By Hella Rude Being in love can be one of the most exhilarating and all-encompassing feelings we get to experience as individuals. It can also be soul destroying when things start to go wrong, leading us to face some pretty difficult life decisions. It's hard to know when a relationship has run its course, emotions run high and a feeling of hopelessness can exasperate things further.

How can I get free sex toys & become a sex toys tester?

Once you have established which people are the leaders in the sex toy reviews and sex toy shopping fields, you may wish to send a couple of polite (not demanding) emails asking for any help and advice that the person or company can spare time for. Example questions you may ask another reviewer are, “Which companies do you recommend approaching for a newbie toy reviewer?” and “What are your top tips for writing great sex toy reviews?” Questions you may like to approach sex toy companies with, to their customer care email or similar, are “Do you have any community schemes in place for sex toy reviewers?” and “Are there any products you are seeking honest, well written reviews for at the moment?” Avoid begging for free sex toys or making demands for high priced products; this screams ‘greedy’ and ‘newbie’ and may well dissuade the company from working with you right from the start.

How To Gift Lingerie She Loves For Christmas

By Mel MacFarlane: As a woman, I love opening expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.

Life after a relationship – can you ever move on?

Post-relationship life: can you ever move on? When you're in a relationship, it's easy to get into a comfortable routine of living. Your partner is there when you get back from work, or you make...

Best Slim Vibrators For Small Vaginas

By Cara Sutra: I must admit that when I look at vibrator features, size doesn't really register. I'm one of those women who assumes that vaginal vibrators are made in, well, vagina size. If they're tiddly then they might be more of a clit stim for me.