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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

Living With Invisible Bisexuality When You Look Hetero

Since my awareness of being bisexual, in my teen years, I was simply happy to have recognised my sexuality and even happier to explore it. Now a little later on in life, and settled with my partner, I'm coming to understand the frustrations invisible bisexuality can bring.  

How To Give Him An Amazing Handjob

Hands are seriously fantastic. Not only are they... well, handy for carrying out our everyday tasks, they can also give exquisite sexual pleasure. We can cradle a lover's face as we kiss them, undress each other as fast or slowly as we wish, and stimulate external and internal body parts with skilful precision. In this article I'm going to reveal how to give him an amazing handjob.

Multiple Orgasms And Me

Have you ever had one of those orgasms that surprises you? An orgasm that you can almost catch hold of, ride the crest of, as if you were a surfer on the perfect wave? I have. And I can't help wondering whether those types of orgasm are multiple orgasms, or just seem like they go on for ages. How long should an orgasm last, anyway? 

Naughty Tea Cup Gift From Outlandish Creations

Every once in a while, I'm motivated to share a company or product with my readers simply because they're that awesome. Introducing Outlandish Creations.

#MeToo

The #MeToo tag has taken over social media this week. This isn't some feel-good viral, however; quite the opposite. The prevalence of the #MeToo hashtag is a reflection of the prevalence of sexual harassment towards, violence against and the intimidation of women, by men.

What’s The Difference Between Kink And Fetish?

With increasing awareness of and interest in BDSM, much of the related jargon and terms have made their way into common parlance. Two such words are 'kink' and 'fetish'. They're often used interchangeably, but as they are two different words it's natural to wonder what the actual meanings are.

Goodbye Dry Spell! 7 Ways To Reignite Your Libido 

I get phases where I'm not as interested in sex as I used to be, and I worry that this is it. I'm in my late 30s; I'm finally at a point where I hate sex, I'll never want sex again and nothing will ever turn me on. At other times of my life I feel just as horny as I was in my early 20s. When you're enduring a dry spell is there anything you can do to reignite your libido?  

What is Cybersex? How Cybering Can Improve Your Relationship

If you're in a relationship, it's unlikely that you're physically with your partner 24/7. Even if you live together, one or both of you may work outside the home, and the pace of modern life means regular temporary separations are normal and unavoidable.

How Hugh Hefner & Playboy Magazine Helped Change My Opinion Of Porn 

I've never been a massive fan of Playboy Magazine. Still, I was sad to hear on the news this morning about the death of Hugh Hefner yesterday, aged 91. I've had a think about how Playboy Magazine had influenced areas of my life, how the Playboy brand had grown from a magazine shot in the Playboy Mansion to a global empire.

Sextrasafe – Promoting Safe Online Dating & Safer Sex

Asking whether someone has an STD isn't exactly choice first date chat material. What if there was an online service which anonymously shared the sexual health status of potential partners? That's exactly what Sextrasafe offers.

Sensual Wellbeing Masterclass from Temptation Holidays

Most of us would love to live a healthier life, but good intentions all too easily fall to the wayside in the pursuit of pleasure. Happily, there's now a way to combine better health with carnal passions: sensual wellbeing.

7 Ways To Recapture Your Honeymoon Sex Life

Busy lives and long-term relationships have a habit of forming the perfect recipe for a stale sex life. If you've been in a relationship with your partner for a while, you might have noticed that sex isn't quite as exciting as it was when you first met. Is there any way to recapture your honeymoon sex life?

How Can I Join The Pleasure Panel? I Want To Be A Sex Toy Tester!

If you would like to be a sex toy tester, reviewing sex toys & other adult products, the Pleasure Panel project and community is where it's at. It doesn't matter if you have your own sex blog or not, sex bloggers and sex toy fans without a blog are welcome to join.

Edible Underwear: Are Sexy Edibles Perfect Cheap Romantic Gifts? 

Buyer's guide sexy edibles & edible underwear spotlight: What are these cheap novelties really like? Are they a great sexy stocking filler for your partner or funny Secret Santa gift for office colleagues?

How To Enjoy Submission And BDSM In Everyday Life

For many people, submission and BDSM can only ever be enjoyed as part of a pre-arranged session. The fun might be even more restricted for others – only accessed via the internet. Some people, however, enjoy submission and BDSM on a 24/7 basis. What about you? Can you imagine ever including submission and BDSM in your everyday life? 

How Selfish Sex Can Drastically Improve Your Sex Life

There are far too many articles in existence giving advice on how to please someone else during sex. 10 Ways To Drive Your Man Wild In Bed! 8 Sex Techniques To Make Her Fall In Love! How To Give Them Sex They'll Never Forget! Unexpected Sex Stuff They'll Adore! What They Really Want You To Do During Sex! et al, ad infinitum. Meanwhile, selfish sex is massively underrated.

What Should Freelance Bloggers Charge Per Article?

A frequent question I get asked is, "how much do I charge per blog post?" Whether the post is going to be on your blog or on a client's website, what should freelance bloggers charge per article?

​Retroactive Jealousy – Why You’re Hung Up On Your Partner’s Sexual Past

Several years ago I used to suffer from what is known as retroactive jealousy — an irrational obsession with a partner’s sexual or romantic past. It all started with me when my new girlfriend and I were woken up at 2 am by one of her former hook-up buddies calling to see if she was “around” that night.

Is Submission A Sign Of Weakness?

Is submission a sign of weakness? Many are fooled into thinking so. I'm talking about submission in sexual or power exchange terms; submission as part of BDSM. 

Why I Don’t Like Smartphone App Controlled Sex Toys

I don’t like smartphone app controlled sex toys. There, I said it. Yes, I know they’re all technological and wondrous and I should probably be ecstatic about the advancements being made in the sex toy field.