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Enjoy reading educational and enjoyable sex articles at the Cara Sutra sex blog. If you have a sex related interest, query or worry, have a look through the archives and find out more about your chosen subject. We're not shy here at CSHQ so prepare yourself for revealing takes on all aspects of sexuality. Themes covered include masturbation, dating and relationships, introducing kink into your sex life, which sex toys are best for you and gender & sexuality diversity. These sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality.

Sex Toy Spotlight: REV1000 Rotating Penis Masturbator

With the world of men’s sex toys constantly adding both upgrades on bestselling classics and innovative new styles, I wanted to spotlight one of the market’s most underrated members. The REV1000 Rotating Penis Masturbator is manufactured by Loving Joy and sold at various online sex shops –but what makes this stroker stand out from the rest?

15 Lessons I’ve Learned From Porn: A Funny Look At Adult Movies

I bet you thought you couldn’t learn anything from porn, right? Wrong! Where there’s masturbation there’s education, and pornographic movies can teach you plenty about sex and relationships you never knew you didn’t want to know...

Expired: Santa Sutra Christmas Giveaway 2018: Win A £250+ Sex Toy Bundle!

The Santa Sutra giveaway this year is a mountain of sexy toys, lingerie and other sexy items which, at usual retail prices, would total over £250 when bought separately. Amazing, huh? Quick, let’s take a closer look at what you could be getting your happy hands -and other parts- on if you’re the lucky winner.

Slave Santa And His Cruel Mistress

She took a few extra deep breaths for good measure. He looked as if he might faint at any moment. She needed to wrap this up before she orgasmed right there in her seat, saturating the tightly zipped fabric against her pulsing labia and exposed clit.

Sex Toy Materials Guide: Porous v Non-Porous, Phthalates & More

Sex toy shopping can seem extremely confusing once you realise just how many different styles and variations there are. Then you find out they're made from various materials, too. How are you supposed to know which material is the best? Are there any you should specifically look for? And, more importantly, which ones should you actively avoid? My sex toy materials guide is here to provide a few handy tips and pointers when it comes to finding a comfortable and body-safe sex toy you can thoroughly enjoy.

How To Buy Sexy Lingerie Which Suits Your Body Shape

Women come in all different shapes and sizes, that’s what makes us so wonderful. If you’re reading this article on your commute to work, or your lunch-break, look around! Every single person in the vicinity looks completely different. The same rules apply when shopping for lingerie.

The Allure Of Complete Sensory Deprivation

Ever heard of sensory deprivation? If you have, chances are you’re either up on your psychology* or you’re into bondage. Or both, of course. Sensory deprivation is an enormous turn-on for many in the BDSM scene, but what is it that makes this particular practice so sexy?

Using Sex Blogs & Blogging For Adult Business Success

Although many blogs remain a transcript of their owners’ personal lives, blogging is also a highly effective marketing tool across many industries. Adult e-commerce owners: are you blogging your business? You should seriously consider it. A regularly updated blog boasting relevant, top quality content doesn’t just educate and entertain your visitors - it boosts your website’s SEO.

Christmas Lingerie Guide: Best Sexy Santa Outfits & Seasonal Roleplay Costumes

My absolute favourite seasonal event has to be Christmas, so combining sexy fancy dress with festive frolics is guaranteed to get my pulse racing. Let me share my picks of the best Sexy Santa outfits & seasonal roleplay costumes for your kinky Christmas lingerie collection.

Expired: Festive Fluffer Giveaway: Win A £50+ Bundle Of Seasonal Sexy Treats

Welcome to my Festive Fluffer Giveaway which I’m running this November to help everyone get in the spirit of the (upcoming) season! Whether you adore everything Christmas or it’s still Halloween at your house, everyone loves winning a pile of sexy freebies, right?

Cara Sutra and Alex Jordaine Talk FemDom

I initially discovered Alex Jordaine’s FemDom erotic fiction when I read ‘Mistress of Torment’, the very first of his highly acclaimed ‘Mistress’ series of books. I thoroughly enjoyed it -and he remains one of my favourite writers a dozen such novels later.

Unusual Romantic Gifts For Your Partner – Or Yourself!

When it comes to buying romantic gifts for your partner, you might find yourself treading those same, well-worn internet shopping paths of flowers, chocolate, and their preferred form of bubbles. Although a surprise gift containing any of these is always pleasant, sometimes it doesn't really convey the right level of romance –or raunchiness- as a gift to your lover. Why not shop for a memorable present which will truly impress -with unusual romantic gifts instead of the old predictables?

Are Breasts Sexual Organs? Should Female Breasts Be Sexualised? 

There was an argument put forward some time ago, by a strong voice on Twitter –someone I’d not heard of before- that breasts are not sexual. They were speaking of typically women’s breasts, and were rather stridently arguing their case –with plenty of others retweeting and replying in agreement.

Vibrators Provide Better Masturbation & Longer Orgasms, Says Science

I know what you’re thinking. Well duh, obviously a vibrator feels great and helps you orgasm. True, but did you know that there’s now scientific evidence proving that vibrators make masturbation better and give you longer orgasms? It’s official: vibrators are awesome. Because science.

The Appeal Of An Older Guy: Why Are Older Men So Sexy?

Younger men are really not my thing. I’ve never been in a relationship with a guy younger than me; it wasn’t a conscious choice, just the way things have worked out. There’s never been a rejection of a guy, in a sex or relationship sense, just because he’s a bit younger than me. But when I’ve come to think about it, older men hold a particular and definite allure for me.

Where To Buy Sexy Advent Calendars This Christmas

If you’re looking for sexy advent calendars to sex up your Christmas, look no further. You’ve found the mother lode. I’m here to share with you full details of sexy advent calendars which you can use to both spice up the countdown to Christmas, as well as providing you with a pleasurable, stress-relieving alternative to the usual responsibilities that come along with the festive season.  

Romance vs Finance: Resolving Arguments About Money In Relationships

Even people in stable, happy relationships will admit that they argue from time to time. In fact research has shown that it’s healthier to argue regularly, in terms of relationship longevity, than to avoid issues or sweep them under the carpet. And what do most couples argue about? Sex and money. There’s plenty of sex advice elsewhere on this website – but how do you resolve arguments about money in relationships?

The Rise Of Male Sex Toys And Guilt-Free Masturbation

Thanks to numerous technological advancements (and a few good men willing to break the silence about just how horny guys really are), the male sex toy market is finally booming. No longer is there a stigma on guys to masturbate. These days, it’s not only expected but it’s actually celebrated and explored.

In A Masturbation Rut? Meet The Sex Toys Set To Rock Your World

Isn’t masturbation wonderful? You can do it when you like, how you like, and as frequently as you like – and not only does it feel fantastic, the endorphin release is brilliant for your mental and physical health too. Because masturbation feels so brilliant, it’s easy to stick to your tried & tested method once you’ve found what does it for you. Same style, same location & vibrators, same fantasy... imagine how game-changing it would be to ‘rediscover’ masturbation, by trying something entirely different. 

The Ersties Podcast: Educational & Entertaining Sex Chat

If you’d like to keep up to speed with everything sex, dating and the sex industry (and who wouldn’t), then the Ersties podcast is where it’s at. Four fearless and fun feminists from Germany provide listeners with unique insights and fascinating perspectives on sex-themed issues of all kinds, via a monthly podcast which aims to both educate and entertain.