Sex Tips

Whether you’re a newbie to the world of sexuality and sexual pleasure, or enjoy a regular and active sex life, I’m sure you’d agree we can all benefit from a few extra sex tips from time to time. Excuse the pun, but it’s so easy to get into a rut where your sex life is concerned. Have a look through these sex tips articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog for advice on how to improve sex for both you and your lucky partner(s).

Which area of sex would you like to improve? Perhaps you’re wondering how to build more excitement during your masturbation sessions and self-pleasure times. Whether you prefer to use sex toys or explore new routes to that orgasmic destination with your fingertips and some lube, there’s helpful advice here for you. Or maybe you’ve been curious about how to enhance the intimacy and create more of a passionate build-up during foreplay with your partner? Or wondering what foreplay is, and if it really matters anyway.

How about during the act of sex itself? Sex covers much more than simply PiV, hetero sex which is all too often portrayed as the default type by the media. Although PiV sex is incredibly enjoyable for a lot of people, other couples enjoy anal sex, strap-on sex, oral sex and physical intimacy which may or may not include penetration and/or orgasm. Enjoy browsing my sex tips articles and learning more about the world of sexual pleasure, whether solo or shared.

What Is A Violet Wand? History of Violet Wands & Kinky Uses

Violet wands are commonly used stimulation tools in the realm of BDSM & Electrosex. They provide a uniquely thrilling experience for those exploring kinky pleasure and consensual power exchange. Read on as I delve into the history of violet wands, explain what they are & how they work, and reveal their kinky uses.

Could Labiaplasty Fix Your Sex Life? Personal Experience of Vulva Surgery

What is labiaplasty? Labiaplasty is a form of vulva surgery by vaginoplasty surgeons which changes the size, shape and look of the labia majora and/or labia minora. This may be done for increased physical comfort, self-confidence or sexual enhancement reasons.

The Folded Deckchair Sex Position (& Why We Love It)

Have you ever heard of the Folded Deckchair sex position? I was surprised to find out that one of my husband and I’s favourite sex positions had a name. To be honest, it shouldn’t have surprised me that much as the Internet is full of sexual position listicles with such titles as "69 Sex Positions You Never Knew Existed!" and "100 New Sex Positions You Need To Try Right NOW!".

Tips For Spring Cleaning Your Sex Life

In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comfortable but ultimately monotonous sex with each other. That’s why I wanted to share my top tips for spring cleaning your sex life. While everything else is getting a spring clean, don’t neglect your personal and shared sexual pleasure!

What Happens At A Smear Test? My Cervical Screening Exam

It can be easy to 'stick your head in the sand' when it comes to those 3-yearly cervical smear tests. I know, because I’ve been there and done it myself. The reminder letter arrives... I open it, groan, and shove it into a drawer and try to forget about it. Eventually I force myself to put my big girl pants on and march myself down to the doctor’s surgery, before taking them off again for the nurse.
Masturbation in a Sex-Positive World

Masturbation in a Sex-Positive World (3 Trends for 2023)

If you’re reading this, you’re most likely a sex-positive person. But shall we talk about Masturbation Positivity? Despite an ongoing shift in sex culture and education, the self-pleasure taboo remains. Let’s break it! 

How The Winter Season Can Boost Your Sex Life

Good news! You can officially stop feeling blue about winter - it's the perfect season to grab some quality time and a hotter sex life with your partner. It may not seem like it, with frosty weather and early dark skies each day, but there are plenty of ways in which the winter season can boost your sex life.
How To Give A Sexy Webcam Show

How To Give A Sexy Webcam Show

Treating your partner to a sexy show via video call is an easy & imaginative way to reignite the spark in your sex life, or to keep the passion stoked in a long-distance relationship. However, I know how easy it is to feel apprehensive about anything involving cameras, never mind during intensely vulnerable moments of shared intimacy. In this feature I will be sharing my top tips & advice on how to give a sexy webcam show where you will seduce your partner with confidence, creativity & sensuality.

The Best Products For Sexual Relief In A Heatwave

Sex and related intimacy is obviously a very close quarters and usually quite frenetic activity. Even if both the bedroom and your bodies start off as cool as physically possible in the hot weather, you’ll soon become hot, sticky and sweaty once desire is allowed to run rampant and you’re both lost in carnal pleasures.

How To Cool Down Hot Summer Sex

If only there was a way to still enjoy sizzling sex and masturbation during a heatwave, without melting into a distinctly unsexy, sticky mess. In this feature I’ll be revealing how to cool down hot summer sex with some tried & tested techniques, so you can still enjoy intense intimacy whatever the weather.

Sex Up Your Suitcase: What To Pack For A Sexy Vacation

Whatever else you’ve got on your packing checklist, today I’m going to help you sex up your suitcase. I'll also show that no matter what sort of holiday you’re looking forward to, intimate solo or shared erotic pleasure should be a priority. Welcome to my guide to packing for a sexy vacation!

Autofellatio: How To Suck Your Own Cock

So you want to learn how to suck your own dick. There’s anecdotal and photographic evidence that self-sucking is definitely possible for some people with a penis. You feel able-bodied and flexible enough. How do you do it? What’s the best position? Are there any safety guidelines?

Using All Five Senses During Sex

Ever wondered how your senses might be connected to your sexuality? How can greater awareness of this connection lead to an enhanced enjoyment of erotic intimacy? In this comprehensive exploration by Jon Pressick from sexinwords.ca, you can look forward to finding out about using all five senses during sex. Sight, sound, taste, touch and scent*. Let's get started!

How To Have A Sexy Easter

Sex probably isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when you think about Easter. This time of year, we celebrate spring and devour chocolate eggs. However, when you look at the origins of Easter, it’s more sex-related than you might think.

Seven Deadly Sex Sins

What follows is an examination of the Seven Deadly Sins - or rather, the Seven Deadly Sex Sins - by Jon Pressick from sexinwords.ca. So, what are the 7 deadly sins? They are Lust, Gluttony, Sloth, Greed, Envy, Wrath & Pride (and this is the order they're written about, below). Over to you, Jon!

Benefits Of A Regular Sex Life In Middle-Age

When I was younger, I thought sex was strictly reserved for the young. People in their 40s, 50s, 60s and older having sex? Talk to the hand! Time marches on for all of us though, and as I approach my mid-40s myself I have to admit that I was totally wrong. Not only do I still have a strong libido and active love life, there are various unexpected benefits to a regular sex life in middle-age as well.

Safe Sex Guide: Healthy Hook-Ups Every Time

After the severe social restrictions of the last couple of years, many people will be enjoying some tentative freedoms with regards meeting people in-person again. Dating is back! The term 'dating' is a bit vague - it could mean searching for a long-term partner or hooking up for some no-strings sex. How can you ensure healthy hook-ups and enjoy safe sex, though?
Edging In Masturbation How To Edge And Why You Should Try

What Is Edging In Masturbation? How To ‘Edge’ & Why You Should Try It

Experimenting with new bedroom techniques, positions and sensations is a great way to ensure your sex life remains healthy and varied. It's easy to discount masturbation as not really part of your 'sex life', but don't make that mistake - exploring new solo sexual ventures keeps things fresh and exciting. You're worth it!

Vaginismus: How To Ease Vaginal Tightness

Vaginismus is a condition where the muscles in and around the vagina spasm and painfully tighten during penetration. This tightening is involuntary; the person suffering with vaginismus has no control over it and is unable to make it stop.

Using Ice Cubes In Sex And Masturbation

I really struggle with the heat in summer. It's annoying being far too hot all the time –not to mention the resulting dent in my libido. That said, I've been using ice cubes during sex & masturbation for years, which is certainly a big help during a heatwave. Let me share some of my icy sexual pleasure tips with you here today.