My 5 Favourite Kinks – And Why I Find Them So Sexy

If I had to distil my love of everything (well, most things) kinky into a 'Top 5' compilation... what would make the list? Today I'm going to share with you my 5 favourite kinks, then explain why I find them so sexy.
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Sex Tips – I’ve never had an orgasm (anorgasmia)

There are a lot of different reasons a man or woman might suffer from anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Physiology, biochemistry, psychological issues and age are all attributed to anorgasmia and it's a condition more commonly found in women than in men. Treatment for men with anorgasmia is much further advanced than it is for women and is often associated with erectile dysfunction.

Bush Fucker Trials: Strange Aphrodisiacs From Around The World

It's that time of year again when a host of celebrities (or non celebs, depending on your tastes) enter the Jungle and put a plethora of strange and unusual foodstuffs in their mouths. The celebrity line up has now been released and I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here returns to our screens on 19th November 2017.

Adult Sex Ed Month: Do We Really Need Any More Sex Education?

By Cara Sutra: Adult Sex Ed Month has been created for easy and shame-free access to sex ed in adult life. June is Adult Sex Ed Month 2016 and I am very excited to be part of the campaign for more and for better sex education for adults - as well as raising awareness of its ongoing importance.

Tips For Beginners To BDSM And Bondage

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

Think you’re smoking hot? Quit it already

Despite the health risks, there’s an aspect of smoking that many still find alluring and sexy. There is a ‘smoking Mistress’ fetish for a start, and the presence of cigarettes has an undeniable rebellious appeal and denotes a badass attitude. There are ways to still incorporate the ‘sexy’ aspects of smoking into your sex life or alternative fetish or tease session, without the negative impact on your health. How? Well for a start there are many e-cigarettes now available (know as personal vapourisers or ‘vapes’) and other inhalation machines which don’t present the health risks of traditional smoking habits.

Is Your Kink Identity Written In Your DNA?

By Cara Sutra: Can you inherit a kinky orientation? Is your kink identity written in your DNA? I really believe it is. I don't think you choose to be Dominant, submissive, or switch. Those labels that I'd call your kink identity.

Fetish Friday: Does your submissive require punishment or funishment?

When you think about punishment, what are you thinking? Are you thinking about something that makes you suffer, or something that turns you on? A question raised on my forum got me thinking. What is...

Fifty Shades of Grey – What Are Vagina Balls / Ben Wa Balls /...

By Hella Rude I've been prompted to write this blog after a week revolving around bizarre thoughts associated with the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, which I decided to read. As wonderful at 50 Shades of Grey has been for salaciously opening the pleasure-deprived loins of many women across the world, I must say that its lack of correct phrasing in places has lead to a real SEO nightmare for sex toy retailers. After all there's no point in explaining what these things are and how they work if we can't figure out what you're asking about.

How To Dress Up Your Sex Doll To Make Her More Attractive

Why are we talking about clothes when it comes to sex dolls? If they're made just for sex, then why would the clothes even matter? Many new owners and those who are starting to express interest in sex dolls are probably asking those questions right now, but long-time owners will immediately know why clothes matter.

How To Enjoy Submission And BDSM In Everyday Life

For many people, submission and BDSM can only ever be enjoyed as part of a pre-arranged session. The fun might be even more restricted for others – only accessed via the internet. Some people, however, enjoy submission and BDSM on a 24/7 basis. What about you? Can you imagine ever including submission and BDSM in your everyday life? 

Cara Sutra Sponsors Adult Sex Ed Month 2014

By Cara Sutra: June is Adult Sex Education Month and June 2014 promises to be more resourceful, education, fun and sexy than ever before. I am sponsoring Adult Sex Ed Month 2014 along with a host of other sex positive adult companies and communities, to share the best in sex education as far and wide as possible.

When A Rough Sex Session Leaves You With Kinky Bruises & Bite Marks

Kinky bruises and bite marks - how do you feel about them? Like so many parts of BDSM, opinion is divided on whether being left with bruises, scratches, bite marks etc is a good way or a bad way to end a scene or rough sex session with your partner.

Beginner’s Guide To Pegging Sex Toys, Strap On Harnesses And Strap On Dildos

I wanted to write a blog post about the strap on harnesses I have and the strap on dildos I use with them. I own three strap on harnesses: Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9 Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs

Q&A: Looking for a good quality bondage hogtie to use with my partner?

By Cara Sutra: Please help! My partner and I are looking for a decent wrist/ankle restraint to enjoy a bondage hogtie or reverse hogtie situation, so I can be on my back legs spread and which gives her full access to my cock and balls.

Do Sex Bloggers Really Need To Be Self-Hosted?

In the last part of Sex Blogger School, where I explained how to set up your new sex blog, I mentioned that it's best to self-host your sex blog. What does being self-hosted mean? And why is it so important?

ETO Show 2014 Part Two: Sunday, Day One, the show begins

I woke surprisingly early on Sunday morning, the first day of the ETO Show 2014. The doors didn’t open to the public until 10.30am, but Julian was going to be at the stand at 8am in order to make sure everything was perfect. I arrived about 8.45am, leaving my partner Sable in bed and minnie getting ready. Walking around the corner from the hotel to the NEC expo hall I mentally prepared for the day ahead. I felt excited but not nervous - this was the ETO Show after all and it feels like family being with all the familiar faces and great contacts in the industry that I talk to regularly.

The Rise Of Male Sex Toys And Guilt-Free Masturbation

Thanks to numerous technological advancements (and a few good men willing to break the silence about just how horny guys really are), the male sex toy market is finally booming. No longer is there a stigma on guys to masturbate. These days, it’s not only expected but it’s actually celebrated and explored.

London’s High-Class Gents Are Demanding The Best!

As England's capital city, London is the country's busy, beating heart. The centre of media, fashion, parliament and dominated by the financial sector, the city of London is densely packed not only with a thriving multicultural population but a predominantly business-based skyline. 
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