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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Kay Jaybee

The first in my spotlight series for erotic authors, Kay Jaybee invites you to partake in a world of literary seduction. As she herself states, "everyone needs a bedtime story"! Watch this space for...

A Rant About Rants: Venting On Social Media

By Cara Sutra: I believe we all know people that we genuinely like – but wow, their social media updates really push our buttons. I know I do. And if you’re thinking it’s you, it’s probably not you. I’m talking about people who seem to spend the majority of their time venting on social media. It doesn’t seem to matter if it’s Twitter, Facebook or any other social media (does anyone even bother putting text updates on any other social media platform?) – their feed is just vent after wail after whinge after whine.

Serving Mistress As A Chaste Slave | FemDom Fantasy Story

By slave penny: The mere softness of the bed looked so inviting. In fact the imagined comfort of the deep cushioned bedroom chairs would have been pleasure beyond imagination. It had been many years since I had experienced what, at one time, would have been a routine amenity.

The Hotness Of Gay Sex

There’s something about man loving and gay sex which gets my knickers twitching. It doesn’t even have to be all-out gay porn; just a simple act of romantic affection between guys on a TV show can catch my clit’s interest. When it does come down to the action, though, man-on-man sex scenes are so fucking hot. And as it’s all rather gay, I’m not really sure why I (as a woman) would find it all that hot.  
Sex Without Obligations: Pros and Cons

Sex Without Obligations: Pros and Cons

Sex in modern society has been discussed much more often and more frankly in the last decade. People are no longer afraid to reveal their preferences and desires. One of the most discussed themes today is “sex without obligations".

Sex News: Durex launch ‘Turn Off to Turn On’ campaign for Earth Hour

For a whole hour, Durex are asking you to do something quite dramatic: turn off all your electronics. The hour in question is from 8.30pm on 29 March 2014. It’s an hour for the Earth. Of interest to all humankind. You know what else is of interest? Sex. Passion. Intimacy. Closeness. Turn off the laptop, put the phone down, turn the telly off and rediscover your partner.

Will the new Doxy Skittle vibrator be right up your alley?

If you mingle in sex toy circles (would they be called cock rings?) then you should, by now, have heard of the new sex toy about to be released by Doxy Massager: Doxy Skittle. The original Doxy Wand vibrator is one of my top two favourite vibrators and the most powerful vibrator I have ever used or owned.

Girl Date Prep

Key items before girl date tomorrow... including testing out 'On' which is directly applied... guess where?

Pleasure Between Worlds: Fucking Me Awake

Moan turned to determined grunt as those well-travelled fingers pushed my hip forwards; the dawn of a quest. Index and middle finger expertly sought out the slippery wetness his attentions had generated so far. My breaths turned ragged and heavy as he slid a finger inside me, probing and testing, then another... opening me up and finger fucking me. My nipples were hard against the covers and his other arm slipped round underneath me, seeking the weight of my breasts to complete the sinful encircling.  

Alex Jordaine – Erotic Author Spotlight Series

What few clothes the dominatrix was wearing – a bra that barely contained her full breasts and a tiny skirt that merely skimmed her shapely thighs and underneath which she was naked – were of soft black leather as were her knee length high heeled boots.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Horny Geek Girl

I’m a (currently single) geeky girl, living in the North of England, who discovered an interest in sex blogging and erotica. I started reading sex related blogs about two years ago, and discovered good erotica about six months after that. I had read books of erotic stories previously, but they were always something I felt I had to hide and not talk about. Finding all these amazing sex blogs really opened my eyes to the world out there.

My revealing answers

This week I am joining in with TMI Tuesday! What is TMI Tuesday? Check out the tmituesdayblog - it's a weekly fun bloggers meme that everyone can get involved with on their own personal blogs...

Pride Brighton 2016

By Cara Sutra: Pride has become an increasingly significant and strongly emotive movement for me. Not only are both my partner and I bisexual, we fall into the area of LGBTQ which is still incredibly misunderstood and which is surrounded by all sorts of ridiculous myths. I visited my first Pride last year and was delighted to be able to visit again this year - not just with my partner (and minnie also came along and drove us) but also with the elder of my two sons, who is 11.

How to do kegel exercises with Ben Wa Balls, Jiggle Balls and Silver Balls

By Hella Rude So you've heard all of the hype and now you've got your silver balls. What happens next? Don't feel alone if you've got your pleasure balls home and you're stumped, it's not always immediately obvious. Lots of brands don't send out any instructional leaflets with their products, making it difficult to know if you need to do anything at all. The good news is that getting the most out of your kegel exercisers, Ben Wa balls, jiggle balls and silver balls is actually really easy. You just need to know how to do kegel exercises with them.

Cara Sutra: Finalist for Best ‘Voice’ in the Mumpreneur Awards 2014

From thousands of entries and nominations I was chosen to be one of the 10 finalists in the Voice category (I think that’s a stray ‘o’ - and they really mean Vice) which focusses on the work done through blogging. That means that you, my readers, are all a part of why I was chosen as a finalist in this category. THANK YOU so much. There are a few other categories in the Mumpreneur awards, such as Spark, Wired, Pillar, Boost (sadly not about chocolate), Reach, Champion, Courage, Engage, Unique, Best Product and Future Star.

Give Pleasure… To Yourself! Become A Give Lube #Selfie Addict

Having followed and been a fan of Give Pleasure Products from the start of their journey into the global lube market, I was very excited to see some new additions to the range recently. Two thicker formulations have been created, the Give Lube #Selfie Pleasure Gel & the Give Lube #Selfie Masturbation Cream.  

Fed up with pregnancy?

It's getting close to eviction time for the bean - who is actually now more of an alien/octopus cross breed, going by the furious roiling movements and kickings he gives me - and I...

Why I love Shibari and rope bondage

Rope has such a soft and subtle embrace, yet is deceptively unyielding when used by a person in the know. Rope bondage is a deep and enduring passion of mine.

How To Feel Sexy And Boost Sexual Confidence

By Cara Sutra: In this post I answer a reader's question about how to feel sexy and boost sexual confidence.

Cody Kmoch’s ll Beauty & Ecstasy Blog – Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

'll' originally stood for lesbian lust. My big secret when I was a teenager. I used to sketch pictures and write little stories, and label them with my secret tag, then delete or dispose of them hours or days later when I lost my nerve. I've never been in doubt over my sexuality; but I think its strength might be a little unusual.