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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

Web of Ice

I just had to share this beautiful icy spider web seen just outside our home today! Isn't it exquisite?  

Do stretch marks ruin a woman’s body?

Got this comment on one of my Facebook Page photos (where you can see some of my stretch marks - gasp, horror) yesterday which made me laugh. From a cosmetic surgeon, funnily enough.

Sex, sex blogging and selling your story to the press

Working and blogging in such a sensitive and already overly misinformed area of life as sexuality and the sex industry, it’s very disappointing on a personal level that someone who believes themselves to be in the same field would choose to naively speak to national press and not ensure they had full rights over what is published.

Where To Buy Sexy Advent Calendars This Christmas

If you’re looking for sexy advent calendars to sex up your Christmas, look no further. You’ve found the mother lode. I’m here to share with you full details of sexy advent calendars which you can use to both spice up the countdown to Christmas, as well as providing you with a pleasurable, stress-relieving alternative to the usual responsibilities that come along with the festive season.  
Fetish Friday

How can I stop being kinky? I want to leave BDSM!

I hear quite frequently of Doms and Dommes, Masters and Mistresses, submissives and bottoms talking of quitting ‘the scene.’ The scene of course, being BDSM or Fetish. How can a person stop being kinky? Can one...

50 Shades Better: Real Stories of Submission & Bondage from Alison Tyler

Erotic author Alison Tyler has written and edited some of the hottest BDSM novels and anthologies around. Her sultry short stories appear in more than 100 anthologies, and she is a prolific editor of bestselling erotic anthologies like Twisted, Bound for Trouble, and The Big Book of Bondage. Alison was writing bondage and submission tales long before the words 50 Shades of Grey were even dreamed, before Jamie and Dakota enjoyed Red Room spankings on cinema screens around the world. Alison Tyler’s bondage themed novels, Dark Secret Love, The Delicious Torment and Wrapped Around Your Finger offer the reader an insight into what really happens in a BDSM lifestyle. Our fascinating protagonist, Samantha, is a submissive with intellect and attitude in equal measure. Her quest for the perfect Dom and her kinky, erotic and often romantic adventures along the way keep the reader engrossed right to the very last word on the last page – and desperate for more.

Blast from the Past

This week's TMI Tuesday asks questions that have been asked before, a round up of the best questions of 2010. I only recently started playing along with TMI Tuesday so this is my first time...

Which one of these would you choose?

Peanut butter or wasabi peas? Peanut butter. Crunchy. Wasabi peas are ok, but I can't eat many of them at a time. I like peanut butter on sandwiches, toast, crackers and even on crumpets and scones :) Group midnight nude swim or ‘mooning‘ strangers? Group midnight nude swim, otherwise known as skinny dipping! Mostly because the water would cover up my usually private zones. Also if it's a group I'm intimate with anyway, it won't matter so much. It's at midnight as well... so fairly dark. Yes I'm coming round to this idea; when are we doing it?

Sex Toy Testing, New Lingerie & Sexy Books To Read

Well... what is a girl to do with herself! If you speak with me regularly, through Twitter and Facebook updates, you will know I have been very busy recently. with writing, sex toy testing and much more.

How To Gift Lingerie She Loves For Christmas

By Mel MacFarlane: As a woman, I love opening expensive new lingerie on Christmas morning (hint, hint). I love the thought of my other half lovingly choosing the delicate fabrics, admiring the cut of the soft lace and his face as he dreams of me wearing it. I picture him assertively flicking through the hangers, and the final eureka moment when he spies the perfect garment to emphasise my long legs, disguise my saggy tummy and deliver a cleavage to die for.

What Is The Pleasure Panel?

Cara Sutra: Whether you're a business or a blogger, I hope you'll take a look at my new initiative. It's called the Pleasure Panel and it's been created to bring even more adult product reviews to CaraSutra.com.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Onahole Review

This week’s sex blogger in the spotlight is Onahole Review who posts reviews of the Japanese Onahole sex toys and masturbators made famous for the mainstream by TENGA. Read more about this fascinating sex blogger...

We-Vibe Anniversary Collection Celebrates 10 Years Of We-Vibe Sex Toys 

High-tech adult product manufacturer We-Vibe are celebrating 10 years of their cutting-edge, fast evolving and multi award-winning sex toys. The We-Vibe Anniversary Collection is a beautiful set comprising of two of the most popular sex toys from their range, offered in a glamorous new colour and housed in an ingenious storage case which doubles as a charging dock.

Helena Maeve – Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Helena Maeve: It's Helena Maeve in this week's erotic author spotlight, and she's here with another feature (read her previous one here) to showcase her latest series, Shadow Play. You can find three teasingly hot excerpts from the first three books in this series below.

A Rant About Rants: Venting On Social Media

By Cara Sutra: I believe we all know people that we genuinely like – but wow, their social media updates really push our buttons. I know I do. And if you’re thinking it’s you, it’s probably not you. I’m talking about people who seem to spend the majority of their time venting on social media. It doesn’t seem to matter if it’s Twitter, Facebook or any other social media (does anyone even bother putting text updates on any other social media platform?) – their feed is just vent after wail after whinge after whine.

Multiple Orgasms And Me

Have you ever had one of those orgasms that surprises you? An orgasm that you can almost catch hold of, ride the crest of, as if you were a surfer on the perfect wave? I have. And I can't help wondering whether those types of orgasm are multiple orgasms, or just seem like they go on for ages. How long should an orgasm last, anyway? 

What Should Freelance Bloggers Charge Per Article?

A frequent question I get asked is, "how much do I charge per blog post?" Whether the post is going to be on your blog or on a client's website, what should freelance bloggers charge per article?

Suit Porn: Fucking Me In His Pin-Striped Suit

By Cara Sutra: Sat astride my pin-striped suited Master's lap, completing the circle of his similarly dressed friends in the hired hall, I'd never felt quite so exposed and vulnerable. It was my own fault for disclosing my long-held fantasy some time ago; him fucking me in his pin-striped suit. A cosy little sex scene, just the two of us... or so I'd imagined.

Can You Trust Reviews with Affiliate Links?

by Hella Rude If you know me as a woman who writes about sex & relationships and engages in a spot of modelling, you may not know that the majority of my income comes from the eCommerce industry. A big slice of that is running the digital marketing strategy and completing the requisite work to execute it.