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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

What I Get Out Of Locking A Man In A Chastity Cage

By Cara Sutra: What thrill could anyone get out of locking a man into a chastity cage? At a time when the spotlight is full blast on BDSM and kink it’s refreshing to see Uber Kinky coming to the fore and raising awareness about different types of alternative relationships. What I mean is, plenty of people are now aware of light bedroom bondage which has been mainly interpreted as female sub, male Dominant. Because all relationships consist of two people, hetero, cis, the whole gender binary he-she-bang. Well actually, no.

Lovehoney on TV! More Sex Please & Happy Rabbit Launch

As you may have heard, the UK sex toy company Lovehoney are going to be featured tonight, Tuesday 8th May, on a Channel 4 documentary entitled More Sex Please, We're British at 10pm. Happily coinciding...

7 Things I Love About Christmas

It’s no great secret – I absolutely love Christmas. I mean, really love it. In fact, I’m one of those annoying people who thinks dressing up as an elf is great fun, would happily listen at the door then contribute to carollers, and can watch the old holiday favourites time after time without getting bored. But what is it about Christmas that melts me faster than a snowman by the crackling fire? Here’s the main 7 things I love about Christmas... 

“Women can only orgasm with penis shaped vibrators”

All women’s vibrators should look like a penis, because that’s the point of them.

Movember 2013: The Sex Industry Fund Raising Directory

By Cara Sutra: I wanted to create a place to find all the sex toys and adult industry Movember 2013 money raising fun. I will add companies / bloggers taking part in Movember as and when I find them, so you have a complete directory, or round up of sex toy shops on a list which are raising money for related sexual health awareness charities (testicular & prostate cancer) or doing something cool for Movember 2013.

Jennifer Kacey: Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Jennifer Kacey: This week's erotic author in the spotlight is the incredibly talented Jennifer Kacey. With a stash of sexy smut to her name, you'll be curious about the lady behind the keyboard... well here's your chance to find out more about Jennifer. There's also free excerpts to tease you, with buy links and extra info.

New Year’s Resolutions 2016 – 10 Surprising Promises To Myself

During Christmas 2015 I had the chance to reflect and reassess what I’m exactly doing here, with my blog, in life. What my actual goals are and what I want to get out of the work I put into projects. With that in mind, and moving on from the harsh realities of the past year noted above (and taking a pinch of inspiration from this excellent New Year's Resolutions article by Hella Rude), I’ve written ten somewhat surprising promises to myself for the next year (and beyond) which will serve as my New Year’s Resolutions 2016.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: LM Somerton

Alex pulled the waistband of Conor’s shorts down enough to allow the swollen head of his rigid cock to poke free, then pinned it in place with the stretchy fabric. He rubbed the exposed tip with a finger, gathering a few drops of moisture, chuckling in delight as Conor squirmed and wriggled beneath him. He applied his wet fingertip to one of Conor’s hard nipples and leant forward to run his tongue firmly around the other. He sat back and blew a steady stream of cool air across the damp flesh and Conor moaned, his breath coming in short pants.

Expired: Win The Bondara Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator: Christmas Giveaway

There's another amazing bundle of sex toys, lube and sexy goodies to win in this week's Stepping into Christmas competition! The star prize is the brand new and luxurious Bondara Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator as well as a 250ml bottle of Bondara Body Lube.

Let’s Play Ball

I got a new toy this week, but not the usual kind.

Competition: Win a free Amazon gift card $50 in this Sex Toys Flesh giveaway

Sex Toys Flesh are giving you the chance to win some cash. Well, as good as... you can win a free Amazon gift card worth $50 in their generous giveaway at their website.

Cold Bath Required?

I haven't done a HNT blog post in such a long time - and although this isn't even half of me, hopefully it's just enough.

Eroticon 2014: Facing the challenge of public speaking

I’m worried about hearing the right words when people ask questions. That’s quite before the fact that I just don’t like my voice. Writing seems to comfortable, compared; when you’re reading words you can imagine the perfect pitch and tone of voice. Never any hesitation or stuttering, no breaking voice, no awkward pauses. No scrabbling around in the corners of your mind for the right way to say this out loud.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Edward Cantor

This week we welcome the remarkably talented Edward Cantor into the Erotic Author Spotlight. Find out more about this kinky writer, and enjoy some free excerpts and links to full sexy stories too. If you'd...

New Lipsy Toxic Shoes

One of my subs bought me the most gorgeous shoes, which arrived yesterday... the Lipsy Toxic Heels in Nude! Just had to share how stunning they are... Love them so much!

Merry Kinkmas! A Sexy Christmas Story from Voluptasse

‘He came back with a scarf which was taken from a snowman in the garden and some large sprigs of holly. Lee wrapped the scarf around my head and took some miniature pegs from the Christmas card holder around the fire. He fastened two pegs to my nipples and told me to bend over and hold my ankles.‘ The officer shifted in his seat and moved closer into the table. Does he have an erection? wondered Kerry, stifling a giggle. The officer silenced her with a glare and gestured for her to continue.

Sex Tips For Older Men – Over 50s Masturbation

By Hella Rude The Men's Health article you retweeted talked about the benefits of masturbation. Apart from resorting to porn (quite boring and I would never dream of looking online in case something I wasn't expecting turned up), what other ideas are there to fire the imagination, switch the ignition button and getting those of us who are a bit older (well, 50) going? They need to be interesting, different and ethical (and fun!)

Reduced To A Machine By Mistress | FemDom Fantasy Story

By slave penny: He believed he had just felt a cool breeze, a waft of air from the outside world. His naked body would certainly be sensitive to such a thing. He knew, in reality however, that it could not be true. His room of confinement was deep inside the complex, many rooms from the nearest window or door to the outside world.

Age Gap Relationships – How Much Is Too Much?

By Cara Sutra: Most people have an opinion on age gap relationships, whether they are resolutely black and white about what's an acceptable age gap in a romantic relationship or they believe age differences just don't matter. What do you think about people of different ages being in a relationship?

We-Vibe and LELO reach agreement in couple’s vibrators patent dispute

It wasn’t pleasant to see these two giants of the luxury sex toy manufacturing and sales world, We-Vibe and LELO, publicly scrapping over patents. Sure, a patent needs protecting and defending, but hopefully now everyone can move forwards with developing the technologically advanced pleasure products we’ve come to expect from these well-known and trusted brands.