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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

Reach Out: The Sexuality Of Touch

It is often said that we need to remember that our brains are our biggest sex organs. Well, surely this true in a more figurative sense, because it isn’t literally true. Indeed, we’re not supposed to think of our genitals as being primary in the sexual realm, but we are forgetting our actual largest organ of the body: our skin. Our outer layer. The soft and sensitive flesh that pulls so many sexual feelings and encounters into our souls by way of touch.

Sexy Valentine’s Day Shopping Offers 2016

The annual celebration of romance is just around the corner, so it's time to take a look at the best Sexy Valentine's Day Shopping Offers 2016. Save money on your sex toys and sexy lingerie - whether you're arranging a saucy night in with a partner or planning on some self-seduction and well deserved me-time.

Kinky Circus Party for Mistress

By slave penny: It was not an ordinary indoor circus. It was small, the luxurious seats located on three steeply rising tiers. Tables between each pair of seats were filled with half full bottles of champagne and other wines, glasses, sumptuous foods and a multitude of sex toys.

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Dale Bradford

Bruce was forty, fat and frumpy while she had a face like a Disney character’s; innocently round, with oversized blue eyes, a pert little nose and plump, pouty lips. Her body would never have got past Disney’s arbiters of taste though — nor proportion, as each of her enhanced breasts was almost the size of a man’s head. Equally synthetic were her stiletto nails, spider lashes, caramel tan and platinum blonde hair.

Naked Latex Maids for Mistress | FemDom Fantasy Story

By slave penny: The room was clearly set for a party. A table full of nibbles and canapes, mini plates, glasses and decorations. Music was also playing but as yet no guests. I stood with a tray full of filled champagne flutes awaiting the arrival of the revellers.

Incompatible Sexual Desires and How to Combat Them

What do you do when your sex drive is stronger than your partner's? How about having sexual fantasies that they have no interest in making reality? What if you're the one who doesn't fancy sex quite as often as before?

The flood

Snow has melted... but the rain & melted snow has made for flooding. This is a field we drove past today & some of the road. Felt like we should have been in a...

How to Talk the Talk: Got What it Takes to be a Phone Sex...

Having a hot telephone voice is essential for creating that all important sexual atmosphere. You're not going to use the same voice for a naughty phone call as you would to ring the bank. Think low, slow and breathy. Enunciating certain words is a great idea, and don't hold back on some other sound effects too. Moans, gasps and sighs are all very welcome additions to this kind of conversation! There's no pressure to be really loud, but just let any noises you are naturally making happen. Whoever you are speaking to will certainly know how turned on you are.

How To Be Romantic Without Spending Any Money

By Cara Sutra: It's so easy to be swept along into the great commercialisation of love and romance. To cave under the weight of the ads and believe that romance is measured in expensive bouquets, hotel stays, sparkling jewellery and weekends abroad. Don't me wrong – I love all that stuff. But it's definitely not required in order for me to know that my partner loves me. Whatever your bank balance, there are ways to be incredibly romantic without spending any money. Or at least, very little… using items you probably already have around your home.

The fuck feast fantasy

With each thrust of the Dominant women behind them the men give a loud groan; of pain or pleasure the viewer cannot be sure. What is certain is that the noise combined with his tongue buried deep in the pussy of the woman on his face gives the women at the table even more reason to writhe and murmur in sexual excitement. Wriggling on each man's face they reach orgasm all at different times, but always with that unmistakable look of contentment settling over their faces and with the unending ability to orgasm again in just a few moments.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Onahole Review

This week’s sex blogger in the spotlight is Onahole Review who posts reviews of the Japanese Onahole sex toys and masturbators made famous for the mainstream by TENGA. Read more about this fascinating sex blogger...

Is Submission A Sign Of Weakness?

Is submission a sign of weakness? Many are fooled into thinking so. I'm talking about submission in sexual or power exchange terms; submission as part of BDSM. 

What’s the best, large strap on for strap-on sex?

Hi Cara, As you appear to be a bit of an expert in this department, I was wondering whether you could recommend a decent, large strap-on for pegging (or in my case being pegged)? At...

How To Get Advertisers On Your Blog & How Much To Charge 

Fancy becoming a professional sex blogger? Once you've decided to 'go pro' as a blogger, you'll likely be brainstorming for the most effective ways in which your sex blog could pay the bills. The immediately obvious one is to place adverts - but how do you get advertisers on your blog? And how much should you charge?

Double Dirty Doll Date

With a head full of sparkling fizz we sat at the table offered us, and raced full pelt into raucous chatter and laughter much to the bemusement of the staff and other occupants. I'm unsure as to whether the looks were due to the chat volume or the subject matter. 2.30pm in a busy restaurant may not be the most appropriate time to discuss anal reaming and sploshing fetish. Oh dear. After the waitress asked us if we were ready to order yet for the third time, we knew we had to make some kind of decision here. Spotting a main course entitled 'Glory Hole' that was my decision made. Oh how we laughed. I didn't read what it was, I just wanted it because of the name alone.

Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Gritty Woman

I have managed to embarrass myself on numerous occasions, but after some initial cringing, I can laugh about it. In the past year I have managed to: Post pictures of giant Bad Dragon dildos to my personal Facebook account Invite my readers to “enter me” (Thanks Cara for spotting that one!) Referred to someone as though they were male, for about a month before realising this person was actually female. Used the word “vagina” when talking about the vulva. (“Shave your vagina”) Fail!

Beginner’s Guide To Pegging Sex Toys, Strap On Harnesses And Strap On Dildos

I wanted to write a blog post about the strap on harnesses I have and the strap on dildos I use with them. I own three strap on harnesses: Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9 Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs

Spoons

Recursive ripples of pleasure emanating from our tangled form. My mouth taking in the pre-cum slicked tip of his cock, my lips wet by my tongue between taking more and more of his shaft until he’s fucking my throat. His freshly blown cock, still wet from a heady mixture of salty tears, cum and saliva, perfectly lubricated to slide balls-deep into my aching cunt. His generous cock which is always ready for more and never seems spent, completing the carnal hat-trick by flipping me over, smearing cold gel with finger tips and fucking my arse. Hard. While I sob from that addictive blend of exhaustion, need, pain and arousal, deep wracking cathartic sobs into the well-worn teddy of an ageplayer.

Facebook business pages: comfort equals success

In this age of digital marketing, engaging an audience as a community is more important than providing a functional shop window. Sometimes all business pages can hope for is that their posts are entertaining, engaging, funny or sexy.

Introducing The Cara Sutra Video Channel

I have launched a video channel. Not just any video channel... well actually yes, it's your regular, run of the mill You Tube channel. But still. Aha and Avast! I have videos. One. So far. You...