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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

Lessons in Lube: Your complete guide to sexual lubricants

Choosing the right lubricant for you and your partner can be an absolutely mind-boggling task. There is such a vast array of lubes to choose from, you could be stumped before you get started. Why are there so many different types? It’s just lube, right? Well, not quite.

Lovehoney Desire Bullet & We Vibe Tango Vibrator Comparison Review

Poppycat22 from the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel recently wrote an in-depth review of the Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator. In addition, Poppycat22 very kindly provided a comparison review between this Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator and the We Vibe Tango.

YKINMK: Your Kink is Not My Kink

By Cara Sutra: Whether you are new to the world of kink or a seasoned fetish scene practitioner, you will at some point come across the acronym YKINMK. What does it stand for and what does it really mean?

Threesome Dos and Donts? | Sex Tips & Advice

Dear Cara: I'm a single female that's recently been asked by a couple if I'd like to join them for some fun. We all seem to be on the same wave length. So far we have all been open and honest with each other and plan to keep it that way if it does go further. I have heard good and bad stories about threesomes. How do we make sure it turns out to be a good time for everyone? Are there any threesome dos and donts?

7 Dangers Of Buying Into The Orgasm Gap

Working in the sex industry, I've recently heard the term orgasm gap a number of times in blog posts, on social media and in press emails to me. What is this orgasm gap? Why is the spotlight on it now? And why do I believe there are dangers associated with it?

How To Turn A Reluctant Partner Into Christian Grey

By Mel MacFarlane: For those who are enchanted by the romance between Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey, a reluctant partner proves somewhat of a challenge. My inbox is full of disappointed lovers hoping for the Christian Grey bedroom experience, but struggling with their hapless partner who is quite clearly feeling the pressure.

Dressing up time

Trying on some clothes today. I'm almost there with the diet, just a bit more to shift then I'll be ready to slink in my shinies!

Kayla Lords: Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Kayla Lords: Kayla Lords is a hugely talented and extremely kinky erotic author as well as a popular sex blogger. We look at her sex blog in more detail in her Sex Blogger Spotlight feature here. Read on to find out more about Kayla Lords Erotic Author, as well as a treat in the form of a free excerpt from one of her popular, sexy books.

The Ruffled Sheets Beginners’ Guide to Male Chastity Play

It’s common for people to try chastity and orgasm denial all in one go. Whilst it may seem very hot to have your first denial period locked in a device, the reality is that you’re probably not ready. Coping with a chastity device is a big change in itself. If you’re already distracted by your desire to orgasm, it won’t make things any easier. Try abstaining for a few days, first. Even if you’ve never abstained before, you should be able to go for a week without any self discipline issues. My first denial period was for two weeks and I was fine. Once you’ve done this and are used to the feelings accompanied with abstinence, you’ll be ready to try an actual device.

Santa Sutra and the Rebellious Rein-Girl – Christmas Erotica

By Cara Sutra: Upon hearing her vain exclamation to the other three rein-girls over dinner that they weren’t even needed anyway, that she could do the job all by herself and probably even better at that, they’d at first looked surprised then strangely smug. How was she to know Santa Sutra would choose that exact moment to re-enter the feeding shed from behind her?
Gentlemen Prefer Blondes Why Does Blonde Hair Make Men Tick?

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

We all know the saying 'gentlemen prefer blondes'. So what's the secret behind their appeal? It seems that it's built into the male DNA to have a preference for women with blonde hair, whether it's natural or from a bottle. Why? Is it purely down to sex appeal?

Erotic Photography Tips For The Best Sexy Selfies

Do you ever look at the sexy selfies people have taken and posted on their blogs and wonder how you could do the same? You don’t need expensive equipment or even a second pair of hands in order to be able to take sexy or erotic photos of yourself.

Sleeping in bondage

I've had a penchant for sleeping in bondage ever since I was old enough to know what those needs are, that ache to be spanked and fucked and to masturbate in the dark of night. Those late teenage hormonal induced desires which made me aware of not only my sexual self, and the fact that I'm bisexual, but I'm also one kinky fuck who loves bondage.

Pain And Pleasure: Feet, Footwear and Feminism

By Zak Jane Keir: Oh holy shit, my feet! Just have to start by saying that, because it’s the thought running most regularly through my head today. A kind friend passed on a pair of beautiful 40-hole black Doc Martens to me as they were, apparently surplus to her requirements. She said they had hardly been worn, and she was absolutely right. They had hardly been worn at all.

Naughty Tea Cup Gift From Outlandish Creations

Every once in a while, I'm motivated to share a company or product with my readers simply because they're that awesome. Introducing Outlandish Creations.

Tips To Boost Productivity When Working From Home

Being able to work from home seems like a dream come true for many. While working from home definitely has plentiful perks, it's also incredibly easy to form bad habits which mean your productivity ambles along somewhere just above zero. Being obligated to work in your own home environment can soon become a resented daily chore rather than providing the joyful freedom which appealed to you at the beginning. Sadly, I speak from experience.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Lifestyle versus Professional Domination

There is a world of difference between a talented Dominant who is financially recompensed for her time and talents, and a sex worker who chooses to incorporate bondage and corporal punishment into the services she offers. Too many people make the mistake of assuming that the two are one and the same. Professional Dommes are not prostitutes. Any remuneration is for her Domination skills and expertise, not for sexual contact or sex acts. Sexual contact will not be a part of any session with any Professional Dominatrix worth her salt.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Toybox Tales – Fetish Gear Essentials

Each individual is different, both in vanilla life and in BDSM. Therefore, the scope of equipment which can be found is growing all the time in relation to the fetishes of Dominants and submissives. Toilet style thrones, Queening chairs, humbler devices, pony boy and pony girl saddles, trappings and carts, furry fetish play and costumes, sensory deprivation hoods and masks... the list continues as far as, and beyond where your imagination can reach. From the small and portable hog tie to the largest piece of bondage equipment and dungeon furniture, there are fetish tools to fit your deviant fancy.

Finally, Some Time Alone

I felt my clit tingle beneath my skinny jeans, under the lace of my G-string. Suddenly I was hyper aware of my breasts, the hardening of my nipples, and the fact that my pussy lips felt like they wanted to part, begging to be filled and pleasured.

How to ‘foreplay’ and why it’s so important

It’s important to learn about foreplay and how to do it (and do it well, don't forget) so that you can become a more caring lover for your partner. Not only will you soon be named their Ultimate Sex God or Goddess, you will also make sure that sex is actually comfortable for both of you, which in turn will lead to you having even more (moar!) sex. What’s not to like?