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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

The Rise Of Male Sex Toys And Guilt-Free Masturbation

Thanks to numerous technological advancements (and a few good men willing to break the silence about just how horny guys really are), the male sex toy market is finally booming. No longer is there a stigma on guys to masturbate. These days, it’s not only expected but it’s actually celebrated and explored.

In A Masturbation Rut? Meet The Sex Toys Set To Rock Your World

Isn’t masturbation wonderful? You can do it when you like, how you like, and as frequently as you like – and not only does it feel fantastic, the endorphin release is brilliant for your mental and physical health too. Because masturbation feels so brilliant, it’s easy to stick to your tried & tested method once you’ve found what does it for you. Same style, same location & vibrators, same fantasy... imagine how game-changing it would be to ‘rediscover’ masturbation, by trying something entirely different. 

A Birthday Celebration To Remember

It was time, he decided, as the sound of a zipper in the silence between us revealed. The leather belt slapped softly as he unbuckled it -a motion he always exaggerates as he knows the connotations drive me wild with desire- and his trousers were unbuttoned to provide free access. For him, at least. A hand came back swiftly to hold my wrists together once again, re-igniting that spark of need connecting my throat and pussy, and he smiled down at me as he freed his proudly erect cock.  

The Ersties Podcast: Educational & Entertaining Sex Chat

If you’d like to keep up to speed with everything sex, dating and the sex industry (and who wouldn’t), then the Ersties podcast is where it’s at. Four fearless and fun feminists from Germany provide listeners with unique insights and fascinating perspectives on sex-themed issues of all kinds, via a monthly podcast which aims to both educate and entertain.  

Enjoy A Sexually Thrilling Adult-Only Vacation With Temptation Holidays

It’s always the right time to book a fun-packed holiday and enjoy counting down the days until your next adventure. For adults looking to expand their horizons, experience new sensations and enjoy previously undiscovered levels of pleasure while enjoying the company of like-minded holiday guests, Temptation Holidays is the perfect choice.

Is Virtual Reality Porn Worth Watching?

Is Virtual Reality Porn Worth Watching? Recent times have seen the way we watch porn improve dramatically. It wasn't so long ago that VR came into homes via the Oculus Rift and changed the way...

How To Find The Dominant Woman Or Female Submissive Of Your Dreams

So many of the emails I’ve received over the years have been from men looking for BDSM advice. Many men really want to find a Dominant woman to help them realise their kinky fantasies, or encourage their partner to become a Mistress –or alternatively, a female submissive. Did you know that there is an easy way to find the Dominant woman or female submissive of your dreams? Read on and I’ll let you in on the secret.  

Ann Summers Moregasm Plus Sex Toys Provide More Power & More Pleasure

Ann Summers is, of course, the home of the Rampant Rabbit, but I'd had such bad experiences with rabbit vibrators that I avoided them. Then, I gave the original Ann Summers Moregasm vibrators a try - and fell in love. Now, a few years later, I've been lucky enough to sample the brand new and upgraded range – the Ann Summers Moregasm Plus sex toys collection.

Introducing The All New Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrators

Having never tried the original Lovehoney Happy Rabbits, I was not only curious when Lovehoney revealed three updated models to the range, but thrilled to be offered them in order to give them a try. Thanks so much Lovehoney for sending your all new Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrators for me to discover and enjoy.

Best Powerful Vibrators For Extra Strong Orgasms

Happy National Orgasm Day 2018! It's difficult to believe it's been a year already since the last National Orgasm Day – the year has just flown. In the past I've written about the sounds of an orgasm, the importance (or not) of simultaneous orgasms, about not being able to orgasm through oral sex and about having orgasms while I'm asleep. As many of my orgasms are helped along a little bit (OK, a lot) by sex toys, today I want to discuss some of my favourites. The toys which are, for me, the best powerful vibrators for extra strong orgasms.

My Mistress Cara Red Leather Mord-Sith Cosplay Outfit

A mord-sith is a member of a warrior group in the Sword Of Truth series. They're all women, and are trained to become mord-sith from when they're young girls. They are captured from their family in order to go through brutal training to attain the title and role of mord-sith.

Happy Birthday To Me: Fulfilling My New Year’s Resolution

2018 was the year I made a choice, and accepted a mission. Or rather, it is the year... we're only half way through. For once, I made a Serious New Year's Resolution in January, one which held a lot of personal meaning, and I've actually seen it through. As the new year rang in, I made the choice, and made the resolution which was to be a long-overdue birthday gift to myself.  

Relationships And The Myth Of Unconditional Love

Recently I declined the offer of a guest article, not for the usual reasons that the writing quality wasn't great, or that it was simply meaningless, sales-motivated filler. The guest piece would have been entitled "Unconditional Love: A Key Ingredient To A Happy Relationship" - and I'm afraid I simply don't agree with that sentiment at all. In fact, I don't believe that unconditional love has a part in any romantic relationship. 

Expired: Birthday Month Bonanza Sex Toys Giveaway! Win a £100+ Sex Toy Bundle

July is my absolute most favourite month of the year (with December a close second). Not only is it full of sunshiney, summery promise, it's also my partner and I's birthday month! This year I wanted to have a little celebration here on the blog as well, and what better way than with an enormous sex toy giveaway. So, without further ado, let me present my Big Birthday Month Bonanza Sex Toys Giveaway!

Is Flirting Cheating Or Harmless Fun?

Flirting is a common practice amongst adults of any gender, and it's not limited to those not in a relationship either. The attraction of flirting is that it's a way to gain the attention and approval from those you flirt with, and I don't believe it's always sexually motivated. Flirting can be a brilliant ego boost for both the flirter and the flirtee.  

Our Favourite Sex Positions – And Why We Love Them

Are there some sex positions you find yourself 'coming' back to time after time? My partner and I definitely have our favourite sex positions, and in the past I’ve worried that we might be getting stuck in a rut. A rut that, admittedly, feels so good. But then when I went through the sex positions we enjoy on a regular basis, it turns out we enjoy more variety than I’d feared.

Bound To Serve… As A Sex Slave

After several months' training, both mental and physical, her slave was able to handle one of her ferocious whippings simply through tears, gritted teeth and with only a few sweary slip-ups. He'd learnt that lesson fast, she thought, her smile widening even further. An extra 5 minutes lashing for every curse he spat in her direction soon had him holding his tongue.

Why Do We Fetishize Strap-On Sex? Here’s The Top 10 Reasons

The fact that many people do fetishize strap-on sex, and insist that for them, it's a kinky act, isn't wrong or offensive to me. Pointing out the many reasons why this may be the case, what may have contributed to this conclusion that strap-on sex is necessarily kinky, doesn't mean I disagree that it is. For submissive men who love the idea or reality of strap-on sex, the truth is that it is kinky – and therein lies much of the enjoyment.

Bundled Into The Gang Bang Van

Once again, I gave silent thanks for the almost total darkness which covered my flush of humiliation. The sensation of my own cursed wetness smearing and being pulled tightly over my clit and cunt lips, then between my arse cheeks, was almost enough to make me beg for a rough hard fucking. I didn't even care which hole any more. Cunt, arse, either. Both.  

Enjoying Sex Furniture When You Don’t Have A Sex Dungeon

Visiting a venue with a range of sex furniture to experiment on and enjoy is something that most of us rarely get the opportunity to experience. Although sex furniture is becoming more affordable for people to consider buying and enjoying at home, there’s still one important issue to consider before you splash the cash. The big issue of… space.