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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

The Allure Of Complete Sensory Deprivation

Ever heard of sensory deprivation? If you have, chances are you’re either up on your psychology* or you’re into bondage. Or both, of course. Sensory deprivation is an enormous turn-on for many in the BDSM scene, but what is it that makes this particular practice so sexy?

Using Sex Blogs & Blogging For Adult Business Success

Although many blogs remain a transcript of their owners’ personal lives, blogging is also a highly effective marketing tool across many industries. Adult e-commerce owners: are you blogging your business? You should seriously consider it. A regularly updated blog boasting relevant, top quality content doesn’t just educate and entertain your visitors - it boosts your website’s SEO.

Christmas Lingerie Guide: Best Sexy Santa Outfits & Seasonal Roleplay Costumes

My absolute favourite seasonal event has to be Christmas, so combining sexy fancy dress with festive frolics is guaranteed to get my pulse racing. Let me share my picks of the best Sexy Santa outfits & seasonal roleplay costumes for your kinky Christmas lingerie collection.

Expired: Festive Fluffer Giveaway: Win A £50+ Bundle Of Seasonal Sexy Treats

Welcome to my Festive Fluffer Giveaway which I’m running this November to help everyone get in the spirit of the (upcoming) season! Whether you adore everything Christmas or it’s still Halloween at your house, everyone loves winning a pile of sexy freebies, right?

Cara Sutra and Alex Jordaine Talk FemDom

I initially discovered Alex Jordaine’s FemDom erotic fiction when I read ‘Mistress of Torment’, the very first of his highly acclaimed ‘Mistress’ series of books. I thoroughly enjoyed it -and he remains one of my favourite writers a dozen such novels later.

Unusual Romantic Gifts For Your Partner – Or Yourself!

When it comes to buying romantic gifts for your partner, you might find yourself treading those same, well-worn internet shopping paths of flowers, chocolate, and their preferred form of bubbles. Although a surprise gift containing any of these is always pleasant, sometimes it doesn't really convey the right level of romance –or raunchiness- as a gift to your lover. Why not shop for a memorable present which will truly impress -with unusual romantic gifts instead of the old predictables?

Are Breasts Sexual Organs? Should Female Breasts Be Sexualised? 

There was an argument put forward some time ago, by a strong voice on Twitter –someone I’d not heard of before- that breasts are not sexual. They were speaking of typically women’s breasts, and were rather stridently arguing their case –with plenty of others retweeting and replying in agreement.

Vibrators Provide Better Masturbation & Longer Orgasms, Says Science

I know what you’re thinking. Well duh, obviously a vibrator feels great and helps you orgasm. True, but did you know that there’s now scientific evidence proving that vibrators make masturbation better and give you longer orgasms? It’s official: vibrators are awesome. Because science.

The Appeal Of An Older Guy: Why Are Older Men So Sexy?

Younger men are really not my thing. I’ve never been in a relationship with a guy younger than me; it wasn’t a conscious choice, just the way things have worked out. There’s never been a rejection of a guy, in a sex or relationship sense, just because he’s a bit younger than me. But when I’ve come to think about it, older men hold a particular and definite allure for me.

Expired: Halloween Giveaway: Win A Kinky Cauldron of Sex Toys Worth £100+!

It’s that time of year again! Time to make the most of the gloom, celebrate the cobwebs and get prepping your jack ‘o lanterns. As if Halloween wasn’t exciting enough, I've put together an exciting Halloween Giveaway for Cara Sutra readers... One lucky winner will win a kinky cauldron overflowing with sex toys worth over £100 in total! Now that's what I call gore-gasmic.

Where To Buy Sexy Advent Calendars This Christmas

If you’re looking for sexy advent calendars to sex up your Christmas, look no further. You’ve found the mother lode. I’m here to share with you full details of sexy advent calendars which you can use to both spice up the countdown to Christmas, as well as providing you with a pleasurable, stress-relieving alternative to the usual responsibilities that come along with the festive season.  

Romance vs Finance: Resolving Arguments About Money In Relationships

Even people in stable, happy relationships will admit that they argue from time to time. In fact research has shown that it’s healthier to argue regularly, in terms of relationship longevity, than to avoid issues or sweep them under the carpet. And what do most couples argue about? Sex and money. There’s plenty of sex advice elsewhere on this website – but how do you resolve arguments about money in relationships?

The Rise Of Male Sex Toys And Guilt-Free Masturbation

Thanks to numerous technological advancements (and a few good men willing to break the silence about just how horny guys really are), the male sex toy market is finally booming. No longer is there a stigma on guys to masturbate. These days, it’s not only expected but it’s actually celebrated and explored.

In A Masturbation Rut? Meet The Sex Toys Set To Rock Your World

Isn’t masturbation wonderful? You can do it when you like, how you like, and as frequently as you like – and not only does it feel fantastic, the endorphin release is brilliant for your mental and physical health too. Because masturbation feels so brilliant, it’s easy to stick to your tried & tested method once you’ve found what does it for you. Same style, same location & vibrators, same fantasy... imagine how game-changing it would be to ‘rediscover’ masturbation, by trying something entirely different. 

A Birthday Celebration To Remember

It was time, he decided, as the sound of a zipper in the silence between us revealed. The leather belt slapped softly as he unbuckled it -a motion he always exaggerates as he knows the connotations drive me wild with desire- and his trousers were unbuttoned to provide free access. For him, at least. A hand came back swiftly to hold my wrists together once again, re-igniting that spark of need connecting my throat and pussy, and he smiled down at me as he freed his proudly erect cock.  

The Ersties Podcast: Educational & Entertaining Sex Chat

If you’d like to keep up to speed with everything sex, dating and the sex industry (and who wouldn’t), then the Ersties podcast is where it’s at. Four fearless and fun feminists from Germany provide listeners with unique insights and fascinating perspectives on sex-themed issues of all kinds, via a monthly podcast which aims to both educate and entertain.  

Enjoy A Sexually Thrilling Adult-Only Vacation With Temptation Holidays

It’s always the right time to book a fun-packed holiday and enjoy counting down the days until your next adventure. For adults looking to expand their horizons, experience new sensations and enjoy previously undiscovered levels of pleasure while enjoying the company of like-minded holiday guests, Temptation Holidays is the perfect choice.

Is Virtual Reality Porn Worth Watching?

Is Virtual Reality Porn Worth Watching? Recent times have seen the way we watch porn improve dramatically. It wasn't so long ago that VR came into homes via the Oculus Rift and changed the way...

How To Find The Dominant Woman Or Female Submissive Of Your Dreams

So many of the emails I’ve received over the years have been from men looking for BDSM advice. Many men really want to find a Dominant woman to help them realise their kinky fantasies, or encourage their partner to become a Mistress –or alternatively, a female submissive. Did you know that there is an easy way to find the Dominant woman or female submissive of your dreams? Read on and I’ll let you in on the secret.  

Ann Summers Moregasm Plus Sex Toys Provide More Power & More Pleasure

Ann Summers is, of course, the home of the Rampant Rabbit, but I'd had such bad experiences with rabbit vibrators that I avoided them. Then, I gave the original Ann Summers Moregasm vibrators a try - and fell in love. Now, a few years later, I've been lucky enough to sample the brand new and upgraded range – the Ann Summers Moregasm Plus sex toys collection.