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Welcome to the Cara Sutra Sex Blog, where you can enjoy sex and sexuality articles, sex tips and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and much more. Enjoy BDSM and bondage articles in the Fetish Friday series, see current topics tackled with passion in the Stampy Pants Rants, read sex toy tips and buyer's guides and discover other fantastic sex writers in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author Spotlight Series. There's even advice articles for other sex bloggers and adult industry copywriters. The Cara Sutra sex blog contains thousands of articles and free erotic stories; sit back and enjoy a pleasurable voyage of discovery.

7 Ways To Recapture Your Honeymoon Sex Life

Busy lives and long-term relationships have a habit of forming the perfect recipe for a stale sex life. If you've been in a relationship with your partner for a while, you might have noticed that sex isn't quite as exciting as it was when you first met. Is there any way to recapture your honeymoon sex life?

How Can I Join The Pleasure Panel? I Want To Be A Sex Toy Tester!

If you would like to be a sex toy tester, reviewing sex toys & other adult products, the Pleasure Panel project and community is where it's at. It doesn't matter if you have your own sex blog or not, sex bloggers and sex toy fans without a blog are welcome to join.

Edible Underwear: Are Sexy Edibles Perfect Cheap Romantic Gifts? 

Buyer's guide sexy edibles & edible underwear spotlight: What are these cheap novelties really like? Are they a great sexy stocking filler for your partner or funny Secret Santa gift for office colleagues?

How To Enjoy Submission And BDSM In Everyday Life

For many people, submission and BDSM can only ever be enjoyed as part of a pre-arranged session. The fun might be even more restricted for others – only accessed via the internet. Some people, however, enjoy submission and BDSM on a 24/7 basis. What about you? Can you imagine ever including submission and BDSM in your everyday life? 

How Selfish Sex Can Drastically Improve Your Sex Life

There are far too many articles in existence giving advice on how to please someone else during sex. 10 Ways To Drive Your Man Wild In Bed! 8 Sex Techniques To Make Her Fall In Love! How To Give Them Sex They'll Never Forget! Unexpected Sex Stuff They'll Adore! What They Really Want You To Do During Sex! et al, ad infinitum. Meanwhile, selfish sex is massively underrated.

What Should Freelance Bloggers Charge Per Article?

A frequent question I get asked is, "how much do I charge per blog post?" Whether the post is going to be on your blog or on a client's website, what should freelance bloggers charge per article?

​Retroactive Jealousy – Why You’re Hung Up On Your Partner’s Sexual Past

Several years ago I used to suffer from what is known as retroactive jealousy — an irrational obsession with a partner’s sexual or romantic past. It all started with me when my new girlfriend and I were woken up at 2 am by one of her former hook-up buddies calling to see if she was “around” that night.

So Divine Sex Toys Giveaway: Win A Sex Toy Bundle Worth £150+

Time to make summer 2017 even hotter... with a sizzling So Divine sex toys giveaway right here at the Cara Sutra sex blog. Is your hoard of bedside vibrators overdue an overhaul? Would you love to transform your toy box? Enter this generous competition and you could win a whole bunch of sexy treats from the so-divine.com sex toys collection in one go! 

Is Submission A Sign Of Weakness?

Is submission a sign of weakness? Many are fooled into thinking so. I'm talking about submission in sexual or power exchange terms; submission as part of BDSM. 

Why I Don’t Like Smartphone App Controlled Sex Toys

I don’t like smartphone app controlled sex toys. There, I said it. Yes, I know they’re all technological and wondrous and I should probably be ecstatic about the advancements being made in the sex toy field.

Am I Bisexual Or Pansexual? 

I've always thought of myself as bisexual. Well, not always – the realisation that I was sexually attracted to anyone at all came with puberty, and the shock of being attracted to girls as well as boys struck me around the same time.

Lovehoney Desire Bullet & We Vibe Tango Vibrator Comparison Review

Poppycat22 from the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel recently wrote an in-depth review of the Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator. In addition, Poppycat22 very kindly provided a comparison review between this Lovehoney Desire Bullet Vibrator and the We Vibe Tango.

New Doxy Vibrator (Doxy Number Three) Sex Toy Release Autumn 2017

Some very exciting news for Doxy lovers like myself: a new Doxy Wand is in production! Known (for now, at least) as Doxy Number Three, this brand-new Doxy vibrator is set to be released in an exciting launch in Autumn 2017.  

How To Get Advertisers On Your Blog & How Much To Charge 

Fancy becoming a professional sex blogger? Once you've decided to 'go pro' as a blogger, you'll likely be brainstorming for the most effective ways in which your sex blog could pay the bills. The immediately obvious one is to place adverts - but how do you get advertisers on your blog? And how much should you charge?

Why We Love The Folded Deckchair Sex Position (& How To Try It Out)

I shouldn't have been so surprised, really; pretty much every glossy magazine regularly boasts about "69 Sex Positions You Never Knew Existed!" and "100 New Sex Positions You Need To Try Right NOW!" Forget your 'Wheelbarrow' and your 'Pretzel' however; our fave is the Folded Deckchair Sex Position.  

My Deserved Punishment From Mistress

I'd taken far too long to complete the last task I'd been given, and my Mistress was very displeased with me. Despite my begging and pleading, and my grovelling apology, I got the impression Mistress was deliberately making me wait before announcing her chosen punishment.

Should Sex Bloggers Care About Website Rank Trackers Like Alexa Rank and Google PageRank?

At some point in your sex blogging journey you might be asked about your Alexa Rank or Google PageRank. What are they? Do they matter? Should sex bloggers care how their website measures up with these website rank trackers?

Create Your Own Love Island: Top Desert Island Sex Toys

Whether you loved it or hated it, the Love Island series was something that got the whole country talking. Would the winners be the tempestuous Liv and the ‘Oh so sweet’ Chris? Were Gabby and Marcelle the real deal? And does Camilla really like Jamie, particularly after failing the lie detector test?

How To Achieve Simultaneous Orgasms During Sex – And Their Importance

The carnal need builds in her, orgasmic tendrils taking hold from throat to clit. Her g-spot is rhythmically drummed by his mighty cock. She barely hears his ragged breaths turn to loud grunts behind her... when she's taken by an earth-shattering climax as he explodes his hot seed deep inside her ravaged pussy.

Should I Publish My Sex Toy Review On As Many Websites As Possible?

You've written a fantastic sex toy review, covering all aspects of the product. Or perhaps it's for lube, lingerie or bondage gear. The fact is, you've managed to put together a thorough review that you're sure will help others understand the product before spending their hard-earned cash on it. Now, where should you publish this review that you're rather proud of?