Guest Posts

Lick Your Lips: The Taste of Sex

By Jon Pressick There is something delightful about feeling someone’s tongue on your body. Whether it be a seductive lick of the neck, running along your lips in a deep kiss, trailing down your body or being buried in the delicious destination, our tongues play a major role in sexual excitement. While it may be easy to fall in love with what your lover does to you, think about what it is like to put your tongue to use lapping at your lover.

Dominant Women Who Love Sucking Cock

By Zak Jane Keir: Do Dominant women love sucking cock? Would a dominant woman ever suck her partner’s cock? It doesn’t seem to fit the best-known dynamics of femdom, after all: the male slave/sub of many fantasy and widely-acknowledged scenarios exists to serve his Mistress in mostly not-particularly erotic ways, such as housework, errand-running and being beaten for sins both real and invented on the spot.

How to Have a Sexy Christmas with Your Man / Woman

Having worked in adult retail for 5 years, I'm no stranger to penning a sexy Christmas gift guide or 10. However it's fair to say most of my work focuses on product marketing, even though buying the right things for sexy time does not a master make. I could tell you which toys and lingerie I rate highest as we wrap up 2015, but if you haven't done the ground work - there's little point in your spending £$£$ on gear. As is becoming a bit of a Cara Sutra tradition, I'd like to deviate from the obvious Christmas gift guides and focus on some advice we can all get on board with.

Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength. During pegging, the focus often centers on the pleasure of the male recipient. However, in this article I’d like to focus on female pleasure too.

Imagination games for better sex and a better life

Fear of being foolish is the death of fun in a relationship. If you can’t just go for it, in sex or in anything, then your sex life is on the fast track to a funeral, and the part of you that wants to play—everyone has this part—that is dead, too. Rather than, or in addition to, more structured sexual experimentation—a la “7 Sex Positions Every Woman Must Try”—I encourage you to try bringing plain ol’ nonsexual play back into your life.

How To Write Spanking Into Your Sex Scenes | Erotic Writing Advice

Where is the spanking taking place? How easy will it be for the spankee to stay still? It’s these little details which will make your scene all the more realistic. If you want a long, session with the submissive in the same position you’re going to need to get them comfortable, if you want to up the stakes get them into more unusual positions, maybe on their toes or you could have them restrained (I’ve written something to help you with that) or resting somewhere a bit precarious.

Movember: Sexual Health Education With Prostate Pleasure Workshops

By Jon Pressick Movember is again on us and you're going to start seeing the scraggly, the bushy, the unkempt and the styled. I'm not talking about the resurgence in bush, I'm referring to the mo's that will soon crawl across faces to mark this now annual tradition of awareness on prostate (and other) health concerns.

Sensual Scents: A Rose By Any Other Name

By Jon Pressick: Have you ever noticed the faintest scent, a passing aroma? Perhaps in a crowded street, amongst strangers. Perhaps alone, in your home. And did that distinct smell bring about memories of passion or inflame distinct desire?

How To Review A Fetish Club

By Zak Jane Keir: How to review a fetish club: Having spent about 20 years of my life reviewing fetish and swingers’ clubs, I feel entitled to call myself an expert on the subject. It’s one of those jobs that may not have made me wealthy but has provided me with any amount of fun and good times (including the most magnificent blag of my entire career – a trip to Hedo II which made a change from the usual wet Wednesdays in Leeds or Dagenham).

How to Take a Sexy Selfie for Your Partner – A Model’s Guide

By Hella Rude: Taking a great sexy selfie: In case of any doubt, please let me say it for the record: models don't ever look quite like their photos, and for good reason. What works well in the context of a photo just doesn't work in real life.

How To Check Your Breasts Properly: Breast Cancer Awareness Month

By Mel MacFarlane: By Mel MacFarlane: By the end of 2015, it is estimated that almost 55,000 people will be diagnosed with breast cancer. According to Breast Cancer Care, this equates to one diagnosis every 10 minutes. Out of those diagnosed with breast cancer, 12,000 will not survive.

Yes, And… ! Making Space For Improvisation In Your Sex Life

By Cameryn Moore: You've probably seen improvisers on TV, creating whole hilarious scenes on the spot, based on suggestions from the audience. They don't look like they're making anything up, right? That's because they practice. Since good role-play and dirty talk are almost entirely improvisation, you too can practice, using principles from improvisation as guidelines. I suggest starting with: "yes, and."